i used to babysit my neighbor's kids sometimes, their mom was severely depressed and would sometimes rage on them for no reason but mostly just stayed in bed. I've had a shitty childhood, much of it anyway, and i felt sorry for the kids and thought i could keep them company, we played video games, they showed me their toys, sometimes i made them something to eat. Bottom line, I love kids, they make me happy, taking care of them feels rewarding. I have had a friend who was later convicted and i had no idea he was until i found a shit ton of kiddie porn on his computer while fixing it, he said it was his dads, i want to believe him but i dunno. fuck anyone who makes children's lives miserable, it sticks for life in many ways.
@@stevensteins3978 Frankly saying, it happens everywhere, not this subject alone. Look at how people(of any sides) react to topics that are often controversial such as political issues, gender issues, etc.
Under the question of "Why don't children talk about it", When I spoke to an adult, I was told " Just tell him to stop it" as if it were my problem and I had the ability to end it. Made me feel helpless and ashamed.
I feel so bad for the children who get hurt as a result. It can be extremely traumatic. It can break a person. I feel nothing but anger toward those who sexualizing children. They may not be able to help it but fucking Christ they are really disturbing.
What do you mean by "sexualizing"? If you mean *offending* against kids, they absolutely *can* help it and don't warrant any excuses about how they were "driven" or whatever. If you mean them *fantasizing* about this, that, and the other, well . . . this is where you just need to learn how to mind your own business.
I think the reason treatment is impossible is because you can't change a person's sexual desires. Though if they act on those desires, they should be castrated in my opinion.
I'm going to have to disagree. My professional opinion & studies on the subject show that pedophiles both offending and non-offending, have extremely high rates of success when they are treated using things like cognitive-behavioral therapy. I'm talking about first time or reoffending rates going into the single digits. That's LOW. Compared to other crimes & likelihood of recidivism, if you can get someone engaged in CBT & work within the confines of their sexual attraction to not offend, then that's a huge win. Outside of castration being considered a human rights abuse, it doesn't really stop someone from offending. They can still perpetrate digitally (fingers), with objects, or other methods.
@@michaelcurley561 this is incorrect in several ways. First you have to separate pedophiles and child sexual abusers. The former can be the latter. But you can also have abusers who are not sexually attracted to children, yet still perpetrate on them. I know of a case where a preteen girl was abused because the boyfriend was mad at the mother (or jealous) over something, which led to multiple offenses against that girl. But there has been no causal link between homosexuality & pedophilia. There's a lot of factors to consider. Even so, 50-70+% of CSA victims are done in a heterosexual way.
@@michaelcurley561 funny that you say that. Where do you get that from ? Most child rapist are fathers raping their own daughters. It happens in family homes. Within their own. Which is why hardly ever seen or spoken about. So yeah i dont consider pedophilia "child abuse" we all have different views on what pedophilia is. So this is a very hard subject to talk about. Most of us were abused by our parents. Either by getting ass whoopings for any little thing. But we still love our parents the same. So yeah. People think child abuse is only rape. But it is not!
Agree with the Hominid. Pedophilia has nothing to do with an attraction for pubescent teenage girls. Convention and culture has condemned it, but there are evolutionary drives that explain it. Pedophila is clearly defined as a SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO PRE-PUBESCENT CHILDREN. The media are to blame for using the word wrongly and regularly hits on it to sell newsprint in the form of prurience and tittle tattle. If the truth was known, half the men who become enraged and condemning of anyone attracted to young pubescent girls, are terrified of their own innermost thoughts. On the other hand, a pedophile who acts out his vile prediliction is a real danger to society and should be dealt with in the harshest of ways. The fact that he may be ill is of no concern to his victims or their parents. We need the strongest of deterrents.
13 years and younger equates to "Pre-pubescent" children but being one or three years older than 13 doesn't make much of a difference in terms of puberty/growth development. You guys have to think of it as if these were your own kids and a grown adult was staring at them sexually unless you do this yourself or to your daughter's friends.. Smh. I understand what you mean by it's "definition", but try to be on the other side of things as well. When providing nursing care to pediatrics, it includes kids ages 0 - 18, even then there are issues with consent for teens. I'll say this again, teens are gullible and don't think of consequences - they will have sex with anyone they "think they are in love with" (yet it's usually infatuation/wanting to feel needed/loved by another and will do anything to get it - again NAIVE). An adult should have some sense even with the law. If they pull the excuse of "loving" a teenager, he/she can wait for them to be 18 to have safe consensual sex for the teen's sake and for his/her so they don't end up going to jail or labeled as a pedophile.
@puglous3 Look, I don't care if a grown ass man is sexually attracted to my 5 year old sister or even if she was 17 - whether I know the kid or not, I think it's disgusting. Kids engaging in sexual activity in their own age group even when they aren't all the way developed yet, at least they do it with the same age and their minds are both stupid and under-developed. A grown adult taking advantage over a weak-minded child or teen who doesn't know any better is sickening. ------------------- Now, a person who doesn't understand why they are sexually attracted to a pre-pubescent child but doesn't "act/prey" on them ... there needs to be more research into why people feel that way, just like why some people are attracted to the same sex. ----------------- However, me knowing several gays/lesbians and interviewing some in a psychiatric ward, they all share the common theme of being molested/sexually abused or exposed to sexual activity of their same sex (this was more with boys). This trauma in their childhood led them to desire men. It's kind of like speaking to an addict of any kind (substance, sex, impulses of certain rituals they MUST do), there is ALWAYS AN UNDERLYING CAUSE to why a person has started to do a certain thing, whether it's stress or trauma. ----------------------- So perhaps with those that have some sexual desires of children, there could be something in their past that has exposed them to that and because most of society today stigmatize it than try to understand, they rather not say anything to avoid that unfortunate label. But when you think about it, didn't men used to wed young girls back in the old days? And now you have women shaving their who-has naked like a little girl since most men seem to like that. Maybe all of society is pedophilia since people love youth, purity and innocence? This should definitely be discussed more to better understand the theory or why people are this way and that, which is why I am here.
puglous3 I don't see it as unnatural. I just don't like the idea of older people mating with young people. How many times do I have to keep saying that? 😂😂 There's obviously more factors to why people back then married so young child to child more than child to adult. And quite honestly I think that was rare and marriage in order to have sex was mainly done in early 20s. I don't want to keep arguing over this. There was no society.... everything is socially constructed my friend. And even if two kids were to have sex "naturally" and bear children, which sex is for reproduction if you want to talk about natural so can't use contraception or barrier methods.. they will more than likely go into poverty. My point is, I DONT WANT A PERV CREEPING ON YOUNG KIDS. I don't care if a teen had her period and is "ready" for sex, her MIND wouldn't be. A boy's mind wouldn't be. We don't need kids raising kids, that's what's causing a lot of bullshit in America unfortunately. Us humans have a mind, we aren't like wild animals entirely. It's more complex.Think of it as a whole, holistic approach. 😂 How old are you? Now I'm just curious
puglous3 First off, I'd never look at a teenage girl like that because I am a woman. Yes, I know majority of men would think she's attractive if she were especially gifted in some areas. But again, I don't want him trying to bang her, bang a Kid or bang an elderly. They all have some kind of mental alteration. Teens and kids aren't fully developed and naive, I keep bringing that up. OVER AND OVER. I don't care if a teen looks like an adult, wants to try to partake in activities like an adult when teens are typically STUPID and have the idea "nothing will ever happen to me" which is why I usually see their asses in the ER and ICU fucked up even from accidents. Of course a horn dog of a guy is going to look at some young chick. That can go unexplained. but why would a grown ass man need to lure or talk or prey whatever the fuck word you want to use .. to a teenager when he can date or mate with someone near HIS OWN AGE. Maybe because teens are gullible and easier to manipulate? And inexperienced? That is a problem if a man is that DESPERATE to target young girls that don't wan an old dick in the first place 😂 EWWW but I'm sorry, this stems to another problem of MOST MEN WANTING CONTROL ANYWAYS. Why do you keep arguing with me of this? My answer will always be them same, yours will as well. Don't know how you think my understanding is just so absurd or astonishing ... when really all I'm saying is leave the kids and teens alone, let them enjoy their youth and if they want to fuck it up, that's their problem. Adults need to stay in their lane and worry about themselves - they are on a different Stage of life such as Erikson Psychosocial Development: Teens to 18 are focused on identity vs confusion and social relations. Young adulthood 19-40 is focused on intimacy vs isolation. Adults and even older than 40 need to STAY AWAY and let kids enjoy their own company.
@@hellojuneau8917 Most 13 year olds are absolutely not prepubescent. Prepubescent is more like 12. Damn right it does make a difference if she's 13 or 15 or 16.
People can sit and say we shouldn’t hate someone just because they’re sexually attracted to kids. But if I found out my neighbour, or my babysitter was attracted to kids, I’d want them out of my neighbourhood.
That is the exact argument I was looking for. It may not be their fault but they are potentially dangerous and they don’t even know. Even those who feel guilt and remorse still don’t think they’re dangerous.
What if they don’t offend and look at illegal stuff along with getting treatment would you still want them out of the neighbourhood? Yes I understand you wouldn’t want them to babysit your kids. I agree that people with pedo tendencies should not work with minors or have/adopt kids just like people with zoophilic tendencies shouldn’t work with animals.
@@riseoverhere3054 if they’re risk level of acting on their urges is really low, so low that they’ll never cave in then sure. Problem is you can never really tell, especially if you’re not really close to them, and all that matters to me is the safety of the kids
only a really low percentage of pedos are actually child predators, this comment its like when women are afraid of all men, yeah some men are rapist but the vast majority of them are not, so it's kinda illogical to be so afraid of every single men you see near you.. if he's a normal person then it's just fine
He is not necessarily talking about pedophiles. The person doing this video would like us to be leave that his answers are just about pedophiles. His comments are very general, and the video is segmented, leaving out some of the comment.
In New Hampshire and some other states, there are levels of child molesters. 1 is the least problem, because it's basically a person that just messed up, doing it with a kid. Level 3 is a person who can't stop themselves from doing it with kids( even if they are in committed relationships, have kids of their own( which should create an automatic trigger in their heads, that it's just not right to do that..but don't) ), are violent and basically need 24/7 monitoring to stop them from doing it again. And level 2 is something between. There's a difference between just failing a test in a class in school, and ditching school all together( which is a total fail. I guess is the reasoning and management of child molesters.) It has to be taken on a case-by-case basis. It can't be simply generalized . Though I think this guy is coming from a generalization from a therapy perspective.
@@watercolourferns Tier one is basically any CP charges, Tier two is forceful s3x without violence and Tier 3 is violent molestation and rape. So Tier 1 low risk and Tier 3 high risk.
This is the one subject i cant wrap my head around understanding. Is it dare i say it "normal"? Like being gay bisexual hetero trans etc etc ? Can they help it?? Should they?? Of course they should, its beyond unacceptable to act upon. So what about those who dont act upon it? They spend their whole life suffering because they arent aloud to act upon their "natural"?? Desires? Im so confused by it all. Is it a sickness of the mind? Or is it part of who they have always been. Why cant anybody answer why a person is attracted to children? Arrrggh it boggles my mind that i dont know what to make of it. Its vile and wrong. Clearly. A vast majority are predators that need keeping an eye on. So is it a brain chemistry theyre born with? Nature/nurture? Like psycopaths can be born with the personality traits but the way they experience life says whether they become dangerous or not? So many questions lol. I find it fascinating but at the sane time my stomach turns if i look too deep into examples.
There are different causes of pedophiles which gets into a kind of nature vs nurture. A lot of pedophiles develop the mental disorder due to sexual trauma as a child themselves A lot also just always had the attraction which stays dormant until they hit puberty at around age 11 It's kind of like asking is someone born a sociopath or they become a sociopath. Lots of sociopaths become that way due to trauma but just as many were just born that way with no trauma
They are trying to do just what they did to you, make you wonder if pedophilia is ok. It is not. There needs to be intervention. I am not certain of pedophilia being a brain routing problem ala Michael Bailey. That study has not been replicated. So it is not science. Yet it is being called science. Suspicious. Don't let them fool you.
Could Abel assessments be used for adults before they are hired as teachers or youth organization leaders to determine if they are sexually attracted to children?
This interview leaves a lot unsaid. Paedophilia and child molestation are two completely different things. Paedophilia is a sexuality. Child molestation is an action. It is the action of child molestation that harms a child. 30 - 50% of child molestation cases are perpetrated by paedophiles. That means that 50 - 70% of child molestation cases are perpetrated by non-paedophiles. These non-paedophilic offenders are what is known as 'surrogate offenders', they use a child for sex gratification as a surrogate for an adult. These offenders may have psychopathic tendencies, have impulse control issues, or some other disorder. Paedophile men are no different at controlling their sexual urges compared to your average heterosexual or homosexual male. In fact, 80 - 95% of paedophiles do not offend. And it is the worst of that 5 - 20% that the mainstream media reports on, which gives this false impression of what paedophilia even is. A non-paedophile is just as likely to look at Child Sexual Exploitation Material (CSEM), or sexually exploit a child just as a paedophile can. Paedophiles are among every social group in society; the police, nurses, firefighters, teachers, professors, doctors, lawyers, religious members, clubs, etc. Though, they are hidden because they can see the misunderstanding the public has on the subject. This is a societal issue, and we must abandon the mainstream narrative which is based on public emotions, and instead adopt a perspective based on science and logic. Without this necessary foundation toward solving this social issue, it will only continue, and we'll only have ourselves to blame for not educating and informing ourselves on the facts.
Child molestors and rapists have personality disorders called antisocial personality disorders which is same thing as psychopath and sociopath since you don’t see terms sociopath and psychopath in DSM or ICD and doctors don’t diagnose those terms anymore and also narcissistic personality disorders is common among rapists and child molestors because of power and control factor. Personality disorders are classified as mental health disorders in all countries except for The United Kingdom which is odd.
@Rise Over here305 Only a subset are antisocial. Antisociality, however, is predictive of both recidivism as well as their tendency to engage in the more heinous forms of this offense, involving aggressive and conscious manipulation (the sort who'd blackmail or threaten kids into compliance and silence). There are other factors than antisocial that make it possible for someone to do this. Intoxication (maybe alcohol, maybe meth), for example, accounts for a number of cases. Also a good number are intellectually or socially impaired and rationalize that they're on a level playing field with the child.
Pedophilia is specifically the sexual attraction to prepubescent children. Someone who's sexually attracted to, say, a pubescent 15 year old teenage female, isn't a pedophile; that's called ephebophilia; and, a lot of individuals at 15 are psychologically capable of consenting to sexual intercourse. Obviously not all, but outlawing consensual sexual intercourse between, say, a 15 year old teenage male, and a 23 year old woman, is immensely absurd, and vice versa. If everything's consensual, I see no issue with that; but, our civilization is so quick to label someone a "pedophile", simply if they're sexually attracted to pubescent teenagers under the "legal age of consent", when in all actuality, they're not a pedophile. (By the way, I lost my virginity at 15, so I'm a prime example of someone being psychologically capable of consenting to sexual intercourse; as I'm sure there's been other individuals who've consensually lost their virginity at, say, 13 or 14).
Yes, ephebophilia is common in the society, especially in males. However, the law exists for a reason. A blanket ban of below 16 is off limits protects minors who are only halfway through puberty at 16. Also, those who are not mentally and emotionally ready (of which there are many in the society). With that in mind an adult who knowingly transgresses the law even with a 15 year old who is post pubescent and mentally and emotionally ready is doing something which the society has decided is unlawful. And that simple act of transgression shows the mental state of the offender. Inability to maintain self control in a scenario in which a 15 year old is offering you sex is an abuse of your position as an adult. But no it does not make them a pedophile.
They are probably defining a child as anyone under 18. Of course there's nobody in the world who thinks a teeanger can be "molested" in the same way as a prepubescent child. I'm so sick of this sick, disingenuous culture that ignores biology and replaces with social constructs.
When adults turn unloveable, unfaithful and judgement in someone's life, then the only souls left behind are children, pious and pure, thus the pedophiles are born.. don't blame it to the person, blame it to the society or the people in their life..
Please describe unlovable, unfaithful and judgmental adults. Because every child has atleast their parents that don’t check these boxes. Unless your suggesting that pedophilia is directly linked with parental abuse of children.
I've been reading through some comments on here and i am disgusted. I watched this video, searched for it, to try and find out why these people do what they do and here people are supporting them? It is horrifying to see as a victim of child sexual abuse for more than half of my life. One man from the ages of 4-10 years old and the other from 13-16 years old. What these pedophiles do is horrible and it's messes with a child's head for life. Speaking from experience, i can't trust anyone, especially men, because of what happened to me and i'm often angry or incredibly depressed. I have developed PTSD, BPD, Insomnia, Anxiety and Depression and a possibility of Bulimia. These are all mental illnesses that affect my day-to-day life and it feels like i'm constantly in a living hell. I never got justice and those two men are out there, married with /children/. The justice system failed me and now there's talk that pedophilia will be legalised. How can you support someone who has ruined a child's life? Children who have been sexually abused are more likely to act out or internalise and shut themselves out from the rest of the world, be afraid to explore and take risks or take the biggest risk of all: ending their lives. Why would they do that? Because they are plagued from flashbacks to what happened to them and it comes at any time. Whether it be from a feeling, a smell, something they heard or saw- it can put them back into that vulnerable state where they were taken advantage of and made to feel small, weak and powerless. I understand it's not something they can control but that doesn't make it right. I know it's hypocritical of me to say this considering i support and i am part of the LGBTQ+ community and those words are something they would say to gays back in the day but there's a difference between homosexuality and pedophilia. Being homosexual does not harm others, /children/ people who are the next generation of society that will help push humanity forward, pedophilia takes and it takes and gives nothing but pain and misery and it disgusts me that you an just sit back and accept them as 'normal' and i really hope you think about your opinion more wisely after reading this.
I'm very sorry to hear about your past experiences, but I must correct you on the fact that a pedophile and a child molester are not the same thing. It's very easy to infuse emotion into debates like this, but I believe that by rationally discussing the best course of action, future incidents of child molestation could be prevented.
@@milkandhoney9849 A problem arises when going about the hanging. How can you tell a pedophile apart from a normal person? In an environment where confessing would mean death, would anyone confess to being a pedophile? With that being the case, wouldn't a constant threat of violence prevent any likelihood of a pedophile seeking treatment, leading to more cases of horrible incidents of child molestation?
There's a difference between being a creepy rapist person and a human being who genuinely feels attracted to children (which is something they can't control)
Nature vs Nurture. I can't help but think saying its all about genetics is a short sighted and irresponsible explanation. There are always early triggers and environmental reinforcers which develop and reward behaviors. People's sexual reward systems can get tangled up in just about anything. We see deeply rooted kinks and preferences everywhere. That isn't genetically inherited, its acquired and grown over time. I'm almost certain of it. What I'm getting at is at a young age our sexual reward system begins forming and networking. When puberty hits, it goes into wildfire mode growing at an astounding rate. Experiences at an early age can fundamentally alter the way the brain associates its reproductive reward and the environment. Genetics is a lazy explanation when the sexual preferences of a person seem to be foremost shaped by experience. And yes, through consistent reconditioning those preferences can be altered. The organic brain is made to change. With consistent positive and negative stimuli, you can change anything about a person.
Because 1) society tries convince all adults to want to be around children/have children and 2) people often don't evaluate themselves as a result. Personally, I've come to realize that for the most part, I don't like children. I absolutely don't hate them and will never hurt them, but I've come to terms with the fact that my life is better off without them in it (most of the time, because children are unavoidable). If more people took the time to ask themselves, "Do I really think I'm the kind of person who needs to be around kids?" and seeing through the societal bullshit that tells us we all have to want kids, I think the kids would actually be happier.
THEY ARE TEACHING *PEDOPHILIA* IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS NOW!!!!!! *DO WHAT GOD WANTS DONE WITH THEM, AND FOLLOW THAT "ALL THE WAY UP"!!!!!!*- OR EXPECT THAT ETERNITY IN HELL WHEN YOUR DAY OF JUDGEMENT COMES!!!!!!!!
No arguements. Why? Because nowhere had anyone said anything about the attraction of grown adults to sexually reproductove healthy and ready kids. Its said they are attracted to just regular children. Regular children havent maturity. Some low amounts of kids mature quicker but the definition does NOT refer to that. A pedophile is attracted to children. Children dont have maturity. Sociopaths and psychopaths sympathise with this. There are laws put in place for guilty people to recieve punishment. Also 1+1=2 but the disbelievers will say different.
Hmmmm kids know more than I do because of the internet. Well good for them. 😊 Wow if I was open to such information then great. Education is key. Not the crappy capitalistic education.
I kinda sympathize with your complaint about public education influenced by capitalism but What the fuck are you talking about? Also informational hazards exist and you're not better off the more you know. You're trolling
I kinda don't understand why pedophiles are more hated than murderers and people who've been convicted of assault. Don't get me wrong, what they do is fukn disgusting and disturbing but I don't think it's as bad as getting stabbed or brutally assaulted. Getting touched by some disgusting old dude, as a kid, doesn't sound nearly as bad as getting assaulted by an adult who's way stronger than me. Either way, I hate em all.
Don't be confused. Paedophilia is not a synonym for child molestation. In fact, among child molestation cases, paedophiles only make-up 30 - 50%. Which means 50 - 70% are non-paedophiles.
Well, all are bad don't get me wrong but I think I understand why pedophiles got hate more even call them 'Chomos" even in prison they beat them up if they knew he a Chomos. To, my understanding can be many reason they have child on their own and mother fail to protect his children and crying at night due to predator doing to his her kid. Another, understanding is because it Children little children know what I mean? they still developing their brain the neutron in their brain and when pedophiles does this to kids while still developing and growing up. It can messed more than assaulted ever do because as kids they still little there no consent still growing still getting more neutron in their brain and when thing messed up. They be scarred forever yea scar for life not temporary as they grow up flashback will come and they do drugs, body not good or suicide thought happens alot to childhood survivor. Maybe that why pedop hate #1 more. 2 Reasons - 1) Children developing and can't Consent got abuse by somebody ability to have Consent 2) Scar for Life forever That why Pedop being hate more than anything else. Especially Children & Scar
Lol really? It doesn't have to do with age one (the murderer) is guilty of killing someone and the other (the victim) has been raped. Which is illegal and causes injury so it's pretty incomparable but nice try justifying your sick viewpoints
Treatment????? It was my understanding there is no treatment...And it won't ever change!! It Is a time bomb!! i do not mean to distress anyone... Just saying and welcome insightful comment on the matter. In some countries/ cultures/social standings/religions... it is common practice....Something I cannot fathom!!.
Ive done alot of research on this topic. Just because someone has this sexual attraction doesnt mean they will act on them. Alot of pedophiles dont become a child molester
They don’t understand because they are innocent!!!! God bless the little children, “Jesus loves the little children.all the children of the world...red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world!” Anyone whom so ever defiles one of them shall burn for eternity unless they REPENT AND SIN NO MORE!
You are missing the point here. Of course, there are many cultural reasons that we don't have sex with young pubescent people and rightly so. There are evolutionary reasons that the urge is there nonetheless and you cannot legislate them out of the psyche, whatever your likes and dislikes are. What is sick and abhorrent is a sexual attraction to pre pubescent children and that is precisely what the word pedophile means and what it describes. It is important we use the correct English here, otherwise a very serious aberration is wrongly implied. As I have said on a number of occasions, the media uses the wrong word to add prurience to a story.
I don't really remember posting this comment and I don't really know what I meant at the time but I wouldn't blink if someone was to kill all of them... What is a non offending pedophile? Let me guess, he was born with it, he can't fight it, it's who he is... they should be accepted as normal people with a condition... a few moments later... we want our flag, we want our rights, we want our day... a few moments later... if the parents and the kid and the sick guy are ok with it, what do you care what they do in their bedroom. To sum up, show me a pedophile and give me agun, knif, bomb, whatever... You're sick for not condemning them all...
If a childs innocence is taken idc if they can’t help themselves or whatever they should not be living period! Lord forgive me to judge but I would kill one if it happened to mine period!
Paedophilia is a biological trait. Paedophiles have an abnormal amount of white matter in their brains. Because of this, Instead of a child evoking a parental response, a child evokes a sexual response. Paedophilia isn't a synonym for child molestation. Paedophilia is a sexuality. Child molestation is an action. It is the action that harms a child. Paedophile men are able to control their sexual urges just as much as heterosexual or homosexual men can. If your son, daughter, mother, or father were a paedophile, and they were having unhealthy thoughts or behaviour, wouldn't you want them to seek help? Or would you persecute them?
The root of the problem is the knowing of nakedness and more so learning about such nakedness through sex with such nakedness will train the brain to sexually firstly respond to such nakedness but after responding will sexually approach as well and if learning about the nakedness and sex of another person regardless of the age it will permanently become information retained by the brain as erotically rewarding and the brain sexual pattern will not stop at the level of our ages but will always have present our past times and whomever those involved regardless of the age of whom was involved or the age at which the person was involved in the knowing of that type of nakedness, knowing about it and seeing around them those at the age about which they learned at those ages and still remember as most recalled first experience of knowing.
It will NEVER be the same as homosexuality, because a kid will never be aware and ready to be in a full relationship with a grown up, and that's the problem. What I do support is being more tolerant to these people because they never meant to be born this way and be condemned to repress a part of themselves. Hopefully, there are always ways that can help them to carry a good and peaceful life without harming anyone. And if anyone was wondering, pedophiles and pederasts are not the same, and I higly suggest people informing themselves before commenting on any topic. Learn to be less of an ass.
@@belle3679 All humans have hormones. Consent, I believe you may be referring to is legal consent. If you are talking about brain development, the brain doesn't stop developing until upto 27 to 30 years old, therefore by your defination, sex should not be allowed until after 30.
i used to babysit my neighbor's kids sometimes, their mom was severely depressed and would sometimes rage on them for no reason but mostly just stayed in bed. I've had a shitty childhood, much of it anyway, and i felt sorry for the kids and thought i could keep them company, we played video games, they showed me their toys, sometimes i made them something to eat. Bottom line, I love kids, they make me happy, taking care of them feels rewarding.
I have had a friend who was later convicted and i had no idea he was until i found a shit ton of kiddie porn on his computer while fixing it, he said it was his dads, i want to believe him but i dunno.
fuck anyone who makes children's lives miserable, it sticks for life in many ways.
You are sick if you're turned on by this stuff
Bald-headed scumbags I know the Bikers Against Child Abuse they will whoop your ass
Turn him into the police
Ur bottom line disintermenting ur charecter i think u r also among one of them
@@fezan173 that's what's so frustrating, how do i prove otherwise?
It doesnt matter whether or not you can help your emotions. if you act on them and touch children you should be locked up
who is saying they shouldn't? why is that people who don't want to kill pedophiles are automatically seen as supporters of pedophilia?
@@stevensteins3978 Frankly saying, it happens everywhere, not this subject alone. Look at how people(of any sides) react to topics that are often controversial such as political issues, gender issues, etc.
@@장경철-q7f they are the same people who hated blacks and gays. now they do it with pedos. and will eventually find something else after that.
@@stevensteins3978 eh, maybe there's an tendency as you say, but a lot of politically liberal people think that way, too.
Wow, what a bold, brave stance. Better upvote.
Under the question of "Why don't children talk about it", When I spoke to an adult, I was told " Just tell him to stop it" as if it were my problem and I had the ability to end it. Made me feel helpless and ashamed.
I feel so bad for the children who get hurt as a result. It can be extremely traumatic. It can break a person. I feel nothing but anger toward those who sexualizing children. They may not be able to help it but fucking Christ they are really disturbing.
What do you mean by "sexualizing"? If you mean *offending* against kids, they absolutely *can* help it and don't warrant any excuses about how they were "driven" or whatever.
If you mean them *fantasizing* about this, that, and the other, well . . . this is where you just need to learn how to mind your own business.
I think the reason treatment is impossible is because you can't change a person's sexual desires. Though if they act on those desires, they should be castrated in my opinion.
AntiRacismAndHateCom finally someone said it
Ah well mind is versatile thing controlling make it avoids the caos and destruction...
I'm going to have to disagree. My professional opinion & studies on the subject show that pedophiles both offending and non-offending, have extremely high rates of success when they are treated using things like cognitive-behavioral therapy. I'm talking about first time or reoffending rates going into the single digits. That's LOW. Compared to other crimes & likelihood of recidivism, if you can get someone engaged in CBT & work within the confines of their sexual attraction to not offend, then that's a huge win.
Outside of castration being considered a human rights abuse, it doesn't really stop someone from offending. They can still perpetrate digitally (fingers), with objects, or other methods.
@@michaelcurley561 this is incorrect in several ways. First you have to separate pedophiles and child sexual abusers. The former can be the latter. But you can also have abusers who are not sexually attracted to children, yet still perpetrate on them. I know of a case where a preteen girl was abused because the boyfriend was mad at the mother (or jealous) over something, which led to multiple offenses against that girl.
But there has been no causal link between homosexuality & pedophilia. There's a lot of factors to consider. Even so, 50-70+% of CSA victims are done in a heterosexual way.
@@michaelcurley561 funny that you say that. Where do you get that from ? Most child rapist are fathers raping their own daughters. It happens in family homes. Within their own. Which is why hardly ever seen or spoken about. So yeah i dont consider pedophilia "child abuse" we all have different views on what pedophilia is. So this is a very hard subject to talk about. Most of us were abused by our parents. Either by getting ass whoopings for any little thing. But we still love our parents the same. So yeah. People think child abuse is only rape. But it is not!
Agree with the Hominid.
Pedophilia has nothing to do with an attraction for pubescent teenage girls.
Convention and culture has condemned it, but there are evolutionary drives that explain it.
Pedophila is clearly defined as a SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO PRE-PUBESCENT CHILDREN.
The media are to blame for using the word wrongly and regularly hits on it to sell newsprint in the form of prurience and tittle tattle.
If the truth was known, half the men who become enraged and condemning of anyone attracted to young pubescent girls, are terrified of their own innermost thoughts.
On the other hand, a pedophile who acts out his vile prediliction is a real danger to society and should be dealt with in the harshest of ways. The fact that he may be ill is of no concern to his victims or their parents.
We need the strongest of deterrents.
13 years and younger equates to "Pre-pubescent" children but being one or three years older than 13 doesn't make much of a difference in terms of puberty/growth development. You guys have to think of it as if these were your own kids and a grown adult was staring at them sexually unless you do this yourself or to your daughter's friends.. Smh. I understand what you mean by it's "definition", but try to be on the other side of things as well. When providing nursing care to pediatrics, it includes kids ages 0 - 18, even then there are issues with consent for teens. I'll say this again, teens are gullible and don't think of consequences - they will have sex with anyone they "think they are in love with" (yet it's usually infatuation/wanting to feel needed/loved by another and will do anything to get it - again NAIVE). An adult should have some sense even with the law. If they pull the excuse of "loving" a teenager, he/she can wait for them to be 18 to have safe consensual sex for the teen's sake and for his/her so they don't end up going to jail or labeled as a pedophile.
@puglous3 Look, I don't care if a grown ass man is sexually attracted to my 5 year old sister or even if she was 17 - whether I know the kid or not, I think it's disgusting. Kids engaging in sexual activity in their own age group even when they aren't all the way developed yet, at least they do it with the same age and their minds are both stupid and under-developed. A grown adult taking advantage over a weak-minded child or teen who doesn't know any better is sickening. ------------------- Now, a person who doesn't understand why they are sexually attracted to a pre-pubescent child but doesn't "act/prey" on them ... there needs to be more research into why people feel that way, just like why some people are attracted to the same sex. ----------------- However, me knowing several gays/lesbians and interviewing some in a psychiatric ward, they all share the common theme of being molested/sexually abused or exposed to sexual activity of their same sex (this was more with boys). This trauma in their childhood led them to desire men. It's kind of like speaking to an addict of any kind (substance, sex, impulses of certain rituals they MUST do), there is ALWAYS AN UNDERLYING CAUSE to why a person has started to do a certain thing, whether it's stress or trauma. ----------------------- So perhaps with those that have some sexual desires of children, there could be something in their past that has exposed them to that and because most of society today stigmatize it than try to understand, they rather not say anything to avoid that unfortunate label. But when you think about it, didn't men used to wed young girls back in the old days? And now you have women shaving their who-has naked like a little girl since most men seem to like that. Maybe all of society is pedophilia since people love youth, purity and innocence? This should definitely be discussed more to better understand the theory or why people are this way and that, which is why I am here.
puglous3 I don't see it as unnatural. I just don't like the idea of older people mating with young people. How many times do I have to keep saying that? 😂😂 There's obviously more factors to why people back then married so young child to child more than child to adult. And quite honestly I think that was rare and marriage in order to have sex was mainly done in early 20s. I don't want to keep arguing over this. There was no society.... everything is socially constructed my friend. And even if two kids were to have sex "naturally" and bear children, which sex is for reproduction if you want to talk about natural so can't use contraception or barrier methods.. they will more than likely go into poverty. My point is, I DONT WANT A PERV CREEPING ON YOUNG KIDS. I don't care if a teen had her period and is "ready" for sex, her MIND wouldn't be. A boy's mind wouldn't be. We don't need kids raising kids, that's what's causing a lot of bullshit in America unfortunately. Us humans have a mind, we aren't like wild animals entirely. It's more complex.Think of it as a whole, holistic approach. 😂
How old are you? Now I'm just curious
puglous3 First off, I'd never look at a teenage girl like that because I am a woman. Yes, I know majority of men would think she's attractive if she were especially gifted in some areas. But again, I don't want him trying to bang her, bang a Kid or bang an elderly. They all have some kind of mental alteration. Teens and kids aren't fully developed and naive, I keep bringing that up. OVER AND OVER. I don't care if a teen looks like an adult, wants to try to partake in activities like an adult when teens are typically STUPID and have the idea "nothing will ever happen to me" which is why I usually see their asses in the ER and ICU fucked up even from accidents. Of course a horn dog of a guy is going to look at some young chick. That can go unexplained.
but why would a grown ass man need to lure or talk or prey whatever the fuck word you want to use .. to a teenager when he can date or mate with someone near HIS OWN AGE. Maybe because teens are gullible and easier to manipulate? And inexperienced? That is a problem if a man is that DESPERATE to target young girls that don't wan an old dick in the first place 😂 EWWW but I'm sorry, this stems to another problem of MOST MEN WANTING CONTROL ANYWAYS.
Why do you keep arguing with me of this? My answer will always be them same, yours will as well. Don't know how you think my understanding is just so absurd or astonishing ... when really all I'm saying is leave the kids and teens alone, let them enjoy their youth and if they want to fuck it up, that's their problem. Adults need to stay in their lane and worry about themselves - they are on a different Stage of life such as Erikson Psychosocial Development: Teens to 18 are focused on identity vs confusion and social relations. Young adulthood 19-40 is focused on intimacy vs isolation. Adults and even older than 40 need to STAY AWAY and let kids enjoy their own company.
@@hellojuneau8917 Most 13 year olds are absolutely not prepubescent. Prepubescent is more like 12. Damn right it does make a difference if she's 13 or 15 or 16.
People can sit and say we shouldn’t hate someone just because they’re sexually attracted to kids. But if I found out my neighbour, or my babysitter was attracted to kids, I’d want them out of my neighbourhood.
Hugh Mungus Exactly
That is the exact argument I was looking for. It may not be their fault but they are potentially dangerous and they don’t even know. Even those who feel guilt and remorse still don’t think they’re dangerous.
What if they don’t offend and look at illegal stuff along with getting treatment would you still want them out of the neighbourhood? Yes I understand you wouldn’t want them to babysit your kids. I agree that people with pedo tendencies should not work with minors or have/adopt kids just like people with zoophilic tendencies shouldn’t work with animals.
@@riseoverhere3054 if they’re risk level of acting on their urges is really low, so low that they’ll never cave in then sure. Problem is you can never really tell, especially if you’re not really close to them, and all that matters to me is the safety of the kids
only a really low percentage of pedos are actually child predators, this comment its like when women are afraid of all men, yeah some men are rapist but the vast majority of them are not, so it's kinda illogical to be so afraid of every single men you see near you.. if he's a normal person then it's just fine
If we as a society weren't so bothered by this topic we could understand and help these sick people more.
MrSpqr84 deal with victims of child sex abuse. You'll change your mind
@nature giver I do care however, you forget that these people are NOT born this way.
@nature giver wow you are so gullible. They do both of those things. Look up child auctions.
@puglous2 You can't be sexually attracted to anything as a child. That's why it's not inborn. Just like no one is born gay
@@MainStreetElectricalParade how am I part of the problem?
He is not necessarily talking about pedophiles. The person doing this video would like us to be leave that his answers are just about pedophiles. His comments are very general, and the video is segmented, leaving out some of the comment.
In New Hampshire and some other states, there are levels of child molesters. 1 is the least problem, because it's basically a person that just messed up, doing it with a kid. Level 3 is a person who can't stop themselves from doing it with kids( even if they are in committed relationships, have kids of their own( which should create an automatic trigger in their heads, that it's just not right to do that..but don't) ), are violent and basically need 24/7 monitoring to stop them from doing it again. And level 2 is something between.
There's a difference between just failing a test in a class in school, and ditching school all together( which is a total fail. I guess is the reasoning and management of child molesters.) It has to be taken on a case-by-case basis. It can't be simply generalized .
Though I think this guy is coming from a generalization from a therapy perspective.
"just messed up doing it with one kid"
Let's ask their victim if it was "just a mess up".
@@watercolourferns Tier one is basically any CP charges, Tier two is forceful s3x without violence and Tier 3 is violent molestation and rape. So Tier 1 low risk and Tier 3 high risk.
This is the one subject i cant wrap my head around understanding. Is it dare i say it "normal"? Like being gay bisexual hetero trans etc etc ? Can they help it?? Should they?? Of course they should, its beyond unacceptable to act upon. So what about those who dont act upon it? They spend their whole life suffering because they arent aloud to act upon their "natural"?? Desires? Im so confused by it all. Is it a sickness of the mind? Or is it part of who they have always been. Why cant anybody answer why a person is attracted to children? Arrrggh it boggles my mind that i dont know what to make of it. Its vile and wrong. Clearly. A vast majority are predators that need keeping an eye on. So is it a brain chemistry theyre born with? Nature/nurture? Like psycopaths can be born with the personality traits but the way they experience life says whether they become dangerous or not? So many questions lol. I find it fascinating but at the sane time my stomach turns if i look too deep into examples.
There are different causes of pedophiles which gets into a kind of nature vs nurture.
A lot of pedophiles develop the mental disorder due to sexual trauma as a child themselves
A lot also just always had the attraction which stays dormant until they hit puberty at around age 11
It's kind of like asking is someone born a sociopath or they become a sociopath. Lots of sociopaths become that way due to trauma but just as many were just born that way with no trauma
Same here
If you're confused & actually trying to rationalize hurting a child you need to seek help with them
They are trying to do just what they did to you, make you wonder if pedophilia is ok. It is not. There needs to be intervention.
I am not certain of pedophilia being a brain routing problem ala Michael Bailey. That study has not been replicated. So it is not science. Yet it is being called science. Suspicious.
Don't let them fool you.
@@arisboba if you really believe that is what she was trying to say then you need to reevaluate how you comprehend things
Could Abel assessments be used for adults before they are hired as teachers or youth organization leaders to determine if they are sexually attracted to children?
Kinda feel like you're cutting a lottt of his input out
This interview leaves a lot unsaid.
Paedophilia and child molestation are two completely different things.
Paedophilia is a sexuality.
Child molestation is an action.
It is the action of child molestation that harms a child.
30 - 50% of child molestation cases are perpetrated by paedophiles. That means that 50 - 70% of child molestation cases are perpetrated by non-paedophiles.
These non-paedophilic offenders are what is known as 'surrogate offenders', they use a child for sex gratification as a surrogate for an adult.
These offenders may have psychopathic tendencies, have impulse control issues, or some other disorder.
Paedophile men are no different at controlling their sexual urges compared to your average heterosexual or homosexual male.
In fact, 80 - 95% of paedophiles do not offend.
And it is the worst of that 5 - 20% that the mainstream media reports on, which gives this false impression of what paedophilia even is.
A non-paedophile is just as likely to look at Child Sexual Exploitation Material (CSEM), or sexually exploit a child just as a paedophile can.
Paedophiles are among every social group in society; the police, nurses, firefighters, teachers, professors, doctors, lawyers, religious members, clubs, etc.
Though, they are hidden because they can see the misunderstanding the public has on the subject.
This is a societal issue, and we must abandon the mainstream narrative which is based on public emotions, and instead adopt a perspective based on science and logic.
Without this necessary foundation toward solving this social issue, it will only continue, and we'll only have ourselves to blame for not educating and informing ourselves on the facts.
Child molestors and rapists have personality disorders called antisocial personality disorders which is same thing as psychopath and sociopath since you don’t see terms sociopath and psychopath in DSM or ICD and doctors don’t diagnose those terms anymore and also narcissistic personality disorders is common among rapists and child molestors because of power and control factor. Personality disorders are classified as mental health disorders in all countries except for The United Kingdom which is odd.
@Rise Over here305 Only a subset are antisocial. Antisociality, however, is predictive of both recidivism as well as their tendency to engage in the more heinous forms of this offense, involving aggressive and conscious manipulation (the sort who'd blackmail or threaten kids into compliance and silence).
There are other factors than antisocial that make it possible for someone to do this. Intoxication (maybe alcohol, maybe meth), for example, accounts for a number of cases. Also a good number are intellectually or socially impaired and rationalize that they're on a level playing field with the child.
Be careful you're violating group think and societal norms
Pedophilia is specifically the sexual attraction to prepubescent children. Someone who's sexually attracted to, say, a pubescent 15 year old teenage female, isn't a pedophile; that's called ephebophilia; and, a lot of individuals at 15 are psychologically capable of consenting to sexual intercourse. Obviously not all, but outlawing consensual sexual intercourse between, say, a 15 year old teenage male, and a 23 year old woman, is immensely absurd, and vice versa. If everything's consensual, I see no issue with that; but, our civilization is so quick to label someone a "pedophile", simply if they're sexually attracted to pubescent teenagers under the "legal age of consent", when in all actuality, they're not a pedophile. (By the way, I lost my virginity at 15, so I'm a prime example of someone being psychologically capable of consenting to sexual intercourse; as I'm sure there's been other individuals who've consensually lost their virginity at, say, 13 or 14).
+Jessica Kennon Have you ever heard of 16 and Pregnant?
Zach Nelson Yeah. Those relationships are mostly between teens close to age. Sixteen and pregnant is a stupid show.
Zach Nelson You just slightly proved my point though, with the sixteen and pregnant comment though.
+Jessica Kennon 16 is the legal age of consent in the U.S., so that comment is a little stupid.
Yes, ephebophilia is common in the society, especially in males. However, the law exists for a reason. A blanket ban of below 16 is off limits protects minors who are only halfway through puberty at 16. Also, those who are not mentally and emotionally ready (of which there are many in the society). With that in mind an adult who knowingly transgresses the law even with a 15 year old who is post pubescent and mentally and emotionally ready is doing something which the society has decided is unlawful. And that simple act of transgression shows the mental state of the offender. Inability to maintain self control in a scenario in which a 15 year old is offering you sex is an abuse of your position as an adult. But no it does not make them a pedophile.
"25-30% of people were sexually molested as a child... Out of 3 of us here..." *the stare...
They are probably defining a child as anyone under 18. Of course there's nobody in the world who thinks a teeanger can be "molested" in the same way as a prepubescent child. I'm so sick of this sick, disingenuous culture that ignores biology and replaces with social constructs.
This guy was professor!!! Dr. Crabtree is the man
When adults turn unloveable, unfaithful and judgement in someone's life, then the only souls left behind are children, pious and pure, thus the pedophiles are born.. don't blame it to the person, blame it to the society or the people in their life..
I totally agree!
Please describe unlovable, unfaithful and judgmental adults. Because every child has atleast their parents that don’t check these boxes. Unless your suggesting that pedophilia is directly linked with parental abuse of children.
No im sorry some pedophiles dont even try with adults. They go straight for kids its disgusting.
@@bb8m822 You must not know that there are plenty of non exclusive pedos
BULL....Blaming society means Blame NOBODY!!!! EVERYONE IS SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS/HER BEHAVIOR PERIOD.
I've been reading through some comments on here and i am disgusted. I watched this video, searched for it, to try and find out why these people do what they do and here people are supporting them? It is horrifying to see as a victim of child sexual abuse for more than half of my life. One man from the ages of 4-10 years old and the other from 13-16 years old. What these pedophiles do is horrible and it's messes with a child's head for life. Speaking from experience, i can't trust anyone, especially men, because of what happened to me and i'm often angry or incredibly depressed. I have developed PTSD, BPD, Insomnia, Anxiety and Depression and a possibility of Bulimia. These are all mental illnesses that affect my day-to-day life and it feels like i'm constantly in a living hell. I never got justice and those two men are out there, married with /children/. The justice system failed me and now there's talk that pedophilia will be legalised. How can you support someone who has ruined a child's life? Children who have been sexually abused are more likely to act out or internalise and shut themselves out from the rest of the world, be afraid to explore and take risks or take the biggest risk of all: ending their lives. Why would they do that? Because they are plagued from flashbacks to what happened to them and it comes at any time. Whether it be from a feeling, a smell, something they heard or saw- it can put them back into that vulnerable state where they were taken advantage of and made to feel small, weak and powerless. I understand it's not something they can control but that doesn't make it right. I know it's hypocritical of me to say this considering i support and i am part of the LGBTQ+ community and those words are something they would say to gays back in the day but there's a difference between homosexuality and pedophilia. Being homosexual does not harm others, /children/ people who are the next generation of society that will help push humanity forward, pedophilia takes and it takes and gives nothing but pain and misery and it disgusts me that you an just sit back and accept them as 'normal' and i really hope you think about your opinion more wisely after reading this.
I'm very sorry to hear about your past experiences, but I must correct you on the fact that a pedophile and a child molester are not the same thing. It's very easy to infuse emotion into debates like this, but I believe that by rationally discussing the best course of action, future incidents of child molestation could be prevented.
@@milkandhoney9849
A problem arises when going about the hanging. How can you tell a pedophile apart from a normal person? In an environment where confessing would mean death, would anyone confess to being a pedophile? With that being the case, wouldn't a constant threat of violence prevent any likelihood of a pedophile seeking treatment, leading to more cases of horrible incidents of child molestation?
@@MONOPOSTOtm right
There's a difference between being a creepy rapist person and a human being who genuinely feels attracted to children (which is something they can't control)
@puglous3 truth
What about depo prevara?
Nature vs Nurture. I can't help but think saying its all about genetics is a short sighted and irresponsible explanation. There are always early triggers and environmental reinforcers which develop and reward behaviors.
People's sexual reward systems can get tangled up in just about anything. We see deeply rooted kinks and preferences everywhere. That isn't genetically inherited, its acquired and grown over time. I'm almost certain of it.
What I'm getting at is at a young age our sexual reward system begins forming and networking. When puberty hits, it goes into wildfire mode growing at an astounding rate. Experiences at an early age can fundamentally alter the way the brain associates its reproductive reward and the environment. Genetics is a lazy explanation when the sexual preferences of a person seem to be foremost shaped by experience. And yes, through consistent reconditioning those preferences can be altered. The organic brain is made to change. With consistent positive and negative stimuli, you can change anything about a person.
How do we know he's not one of them
@@RobespierreThePoof enough to question it
LeftEyeofRa
idk
Plot twist
Question those who justify parasitic behavior.
Self-reports of “positive” childhood and adolescent sexual contacts with older persons: An exploratory study
some actual research on the subject
Why do people apply for jobs to work with children?
Because they need to pay the bills. (I'm assuming you're not talking about pedos but normal people)
Because humans in general are biologically wired to feel drawn to children and take care of them, and some people choose to have this as a job.
@Cracker Boxy what the fuck is wrong with you
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Because 1) society tries convince all adults to want to be around children/have children and 2) people often don't evaluate themselves as a result. Personally, I've come to realize that for the most part, I don't like children. I absolutely don't hate them and will never hurt them, but I've come to terms with the fact that my life is better off without them in it (most of the time, because children are unavoidable). If more people took the time to ask themselves, "Do I really think I'm the kind of person who needs to be around kids?" and seeing through the societal bullshit that tells us we all have to want kids, I think the kids would actually be happier.
THEY ARE TEACHING *PEDOPHILIA* IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS NOW!!!!!! *DO WHAT GOD WANTS DONE WITH THEM, AND FOLLOW THAT "ALL THE WAY UP"!!!!!!*- OR EXPECT THAT ETERNITY IN HELL WHEN YOUR DAY OF JUDGEMENT COMES!!!!!!!!
No arguements. Why? Because nowhere had anyone said anything about the attraction of grown adults to sexually reproductove healthy and ready kids.
Its said they are attracted to just regular children.
Regular children havent maturity.
Some low amounts of kids mature quicker but the definition does NOT refer to that.
A pedophile is attracted to children. Children dont have maturity.
Sociopaths and psychopaths sympathise with this.
There are laws put in place for guilty people to recieve punishment.
Also
1+1=2 but the disbelievers will say different.
Cluster b types are toddlers mentally... If a adult can seem on the same level as a child it's because they are one. I get your point
@ĸнιтe нernandez can we do potato prints instead? 🙌
@ĸнιтe нernandez crayons are ok but potato prints are more fun
Hmmmm kids know more than I do because of the internet. Well good for them. 😊 Wow if I was open to such information then great. Education is key. Not the crappy capitalistic education.
I kinda sympathize with your complaint about public education influenced by capitalism but
What the fuck are you talking about?
Also informational hazards exist and you're not better off the more you know. You're trolling
I kinda don't understand why pedophiles are more hated than murderers and people who've been convicted of assault. Don't get me wrong, what they do is fukn disgusting and disturbing but I don't think it's as bad as getting stabbed or brutally assaulted. Getting touched by some disgusting old dude, as a kid, doesn't sound nearly as bad as getting assaulted by an adult who's way stronger than me. Either way, I hate em all.
Don't be confused. Paedophilia is not a synonym for child molestation. In fact, among child molestation cases, paedophiles only make-up 30 - 50%.
Which means 50 - 70% are non-paedophiles.
Well, all are bad don't get me wrong but I think I understand why pedophiles got hate more even call them 'Chomos" even in prison they beat them up if they knew he a Chomos. To, my understanding can be many reason they have child on their own and mother fail to protect his children and crying at night due to predator doing to his her kid. Another, understanding is because it Children little children know what I mean? they still developing their brain the neutron in their brain and when pedophiles does this to kids while still developing and growing up. It can messed more than assaulted ever do because as kids they still little there no consent still growing still getting more neutron in their brain and when thing messed up. They be scarred forever yea scar for life not temporary as they grow up flashback will come and they do drugs, body not good or suicide thought happens alot to childhood survivor. Maybe that why pedop hate #1 more.
2 Reasons - 1) Children developing and can't Consent got abuse by somebody ability to have Consent
2) Scar for Life forever
That why Pedop being hate more than anything else. Especially Children & Scar
so why are kids tried for murder as adults, and kids decided there sex, im confused on this age shit
Lol really? It doesn't have to do with age one (the murderer) is guilty of killing someone and the other (the victim) has been raped. Which is illegal and causes injury so it's pretty incomparable but nice try justifying your sick viewpoints
@@thatoneguy12ize project much
Hentai is illegal because? It hurts the fictional character 😒
Exactly its fiction
Loli hentai is illegal not regular hentai
@@vendingmachine5629 thanks for the search terms
perpetuates harmful ideologies
@@lilyventris. We should probably get shooting games to be illegal if that's true.
Treatment????? It was my understanding there is no treatment...And it won't ever change!! It Is a time bomb!! i do not mean to distress anyone... Just saying and welcome insightful comment on the matter. In some countries/ cultures/social standings/religions... it is common practice....Something I cannot fathom!!.
ANGELA FALSETTA
It's like they're born that way and can't do anything about it (other than just not touch or be around kids).
Ive done alot of research on this topic. Just because someone has this sexual attraction doesnt mean they will act on them. Alot of pedophiles dont become a child molester
I’m gay I’m not going to start molesting men now because I have the attraction.
They don’t understand because they are innocent!!!! God bless the little children, “Jesus loves the little children.all the children of the world...red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world!” Anyone whom so ever defiles one of them shall burn for eternity unless they REPENT AND SIN NO MORE!
@NoahR18 So....thats your belief and i believe in god so thats my belief
You are missing the point here.
Of course, there are many cultural reasons that we don't have sex with young pubescent people and rightly so.
There are evolutionary reasons that the urge is there nonetheless and you cannot legislate them out of the psyche, whatever your likes and dislikes are.
What is sick and abhorrent is a sexual attraction to pre pubescent children and that is precisely what the word pedophile means and what it describes.
It is important we use the correct English here, otherwise a very serious aberration is wrongly implied.
As I have said on a number of occasions, the media uses the wrong word to add prurience to a story.
First step is to say its a disease not evil... I can't wait for their parade so I have them all in one place...
I don't really remember posting this comment and I don't really know what I meant at the time but I wouldn't blink if someone was to kill all of them... What is a non offending pedophile? Let me guess, he was born with it, he can't fight it, it's who he is... they should be accepted as normal people with a condition... a few moments later... we want our flag, we want our rights, we want our day... a few moments later... if the parents and the kid and the sick guy are ok with it, what do you care what they do in their bedroom.
To sum up, show me a pedophile and give me agun, knif, bomb, whatever...
You're sick for not condemning them all...
Just to add, wow! You really are discusting!
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@@justinporter2117 did you just delete your comment supporting pedophiles? Well done! That's a step in the right direction 👍
@@justinporter2117 are you deleting your posts or is youtube?
If a childs innocence is taken idc if they can’t help themselves or whatever they should not be living period! Lord forgive me to judge but I would kill one if it happened to mine period!
Paedophilia is a biological trait.
Paedophiles have an abnormal amount of white matter in their brains. Because of this, Instead of a child evoking a parental response, a child evokes a sexual response.
Paedophilia isn't a synonym for child molestation.
Paedophilia is a sexuality.
Child molestation is an action.
It is the action that harms a child.
Paedophile men are able to control their sexual urges just as much as heterosexual or homosexual men can.
If your son, daughter, mother, or father were a paedophile, and they were having unhealthy thoughts or behaviour, wouldn't you want them to seek help? Or would you persecute them?
Innocence is nothing but an Illusion. It'll gradually disappear on when time passes by. As for the children sucks they lost it too early.
What are you talking about
The root of the problem is the knowing of nakedness and more so learning about such nakedness through sex with such nakedness will train the brain to sexually firstly respond to such nakedness but after responding will sexually approach as well and if learning about the nakedness and sex of another person regardless of the age it will permanently become information retained by the brain as erotically rewarding and the brain sexual pattern will not stop at the level of our ages but will always have present our past times and whomever those involved regardless of the age of whom was involved or the age at which the person was involved in the knowing of that type of nakedness, knowing about it and seeing around them those at the age about which they learned at those ages and still remember as most recalled first experience of knowing.
What does nakedness have to do with pedophiles liking children?
Same case with homosexuality 😉 but they like their type of gender
There’s nothing wrong with liking the same gender, it’s proven it’s a normal human sexuality. Case closed.
bruh... no, not at all. they shouldnt even be compared
It will NEVER be the same as homosexuality, because a kid will never be aware and ready to be in a full relationship with a grown up, and that's the problem. What I do support is being more tolerant to these people because they never meant to be born this way and be condemned to repress a part of themselves. Hopefully, there are always ways that can help them to carry a good and peaceful life without harming anyone. And if anyone was wondering, pedophiles and pederasts are not the same, and I higly suggest people informing themselves before commenting on any topic. Learn to be less of an ass.
Execute pedos
I’m a nonce!!!
Some want, some don't.
A child can't express consent, their brain is not ready for that situation yet (they don't even have hormones)
@@belle3679 All humans have hormones. Consent, I believe you may be referring to is legal consent.
If you are talking about brain development, the brain doesn't stop developing until upto 27 to 30 years old, therefore by your defination, sex should not be allowed until after 30.
@@belle3679 If they had to grow up fast they can. Plus kids have feelings
@@belle3679 they can...kids don't like sour vaccines but sweet ones
@@sausage6984But there’s a massive difference in brain development between a 10-year-old and a 20-year-old