Finally the wait is so over!!!Ghanaians let us gather here and shower some warm hugs & love to the one and only Ruth for always gracing our screens with intriguing stories🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Cheers to those of us who read comments while watching the movie ❤❤ Beautiful storyline,matured script great casts and kudos to the production team The love chemistry between Deza and scalet in this movie is a bomb Thanks, Mama Ruth, for this informative masterpiece ❤
Who else is happy that God Has seen us thru to another month end alive & healthy despite odds may dis new Month bring surprises, financial favors to all viewes Amen🙌🤲💛
Am addicted to Ruths name Am addicted to her movie Am addicted to every Thursday Am addicted to her masterpiece Am addicted to her intelligence Am a fan I LOVE YOU RUTHHHHH
A whole lot of lessons in this master piece....Communication, even in what seems incommunicable, honesty, extraordinary patience.... One thing that stands out for me...Feelings are natural, whether good or bad, but you have the will-power to control them, and that is determined by your level of emotional maturity.... A big Kudos to the production crew and actors...💯💯💯
Omodasola oluyole infact I was this movie I really appreciate Ruth for good job for those don't have patience at home not every woman can stand this honestly when done sister
I really love this movie... strong emotions in there ,l even cried seeing how her wife was battling the whole situation... kudos to the production crew we love you 🎉❤
3 beautiful quotes in this movie... 1. Karma never forgets an address, neither does it have a menu. It serves exactly what you deserve. 2. Life is nit black and white, it has different shades. 3. If you hold a child too tight, he will die, if you give him too much freedom, he will stray.
Honestly this movie is master piece for all married couples,I have been married for almost 8 years now,with courtship making 10 years and I was experiencing something similar to this right now it is not easy on boths parties, recently I started feeling less love for my husband it was too emotional for me to handle that I have no choice than to talk to my husband about it,and he understands,it not easy but because of my husband understanding and both of us fighting for our marriage,we are working things out and my love for him is gradually coming back to how it was before, that is why they say marriage is like a Bank make sure you make a lot of deposit while you can, example good memories,caring, faithfulness, because there would be a times you need to withdraw but if there is not much deposited then there would not be something to go back to
Before I got married, one of the magistrate in my church said to me my daughter, don't ever forget this: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP A MARRIAGE... SHE GIFTED me a BOOK called 5 LOVE LANGUAGES and said both of us needs to know each others love language and speak it continuously, because there are times when the flames of this thing called love and feelings will die off😢 but our commitment to consistently fill up each others love tanks by doing and speaking our love language will keep our marriage fire burning. This is a very educative piece ❤❤Thanks Ruth and crew for sharing 🎉
but why couldn't she pray.. I mean there is nothing prayer cannot do.. the spirit of oneness binded with Trinity overcomes every challenges.. prayer is still the key...
Am watching that park right now 😢 This happened to me last week,I broke down on the road and cried but we talked things out and he killed the feelings for another person and started afresh with me Love is never enough
Thank you Ruth. I've been married for 19 years and I can't say that we don't ever lose that spark, but something always brings it back. This movie was powerful and honest!
Honestly, this story line strengthens the patriarchal idea that men can get away with anything and afford to act without self-control. If you like someone out of your marriage, exercise self control rather than moving to a young girl and leading her on while hurting your wife you claim to love. If the tables were reversed which man will watch his wife start a relationship with another man. We create too many excuses for men and that should stop.
Wow what a bomb, I didn't see these 2 scenes coming where Deza told his wife that he has feelings for someone else, her reaction and when Deza finally spoke to Stacey came back home and told his wife wow, the level of honesty in this marriage is rare what an interesting movie. The wife is in pain, hurting yet still stands by her husband what a strong woman it happens only in movies right 😂 I love how Deza never allowed Stacey to disrespect his wife. Ruth am speechless 👏👏👏👏
So u all think this is normal? 😅😅 what rubbish. If my husband tells me he has feelings for another woman, she can have him. Fighting for what? For him to be chasing the other woman who was minding her business.
😅😅😅 it's not normal to say this to your wife that you've feelings for another woman. I can imagine the trauma the wife went through. But at least he went through counseling recommended by the wife, and everything went well for them.
Dear Ruth Kadiri, I hope this meets you well.. I’m in total awe.. I don’t know how you do it.. how you come up with such beautiful, Amazing and realistic scripts and then bring them to life with your amazing cast.. But I just wanna say Thank you.. Thank you for this masterpiece… ❤
Awsome play,i literaly saw myself in this play n thought if i could really had enough courage to stand by such an honest man. Though his honesty was choking her to sanity, the grace to hold on to her marriage made her reap her man in a refine state.not many marriages reach such stage others would've given up before their gold is fully refined. Wow Ruth you are the best🎉 keep on delivering,we are drinking from your fountain of wisdom.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the acting skills of the lead actress and her husband? They portrayed their roles so naturally and authentically. This felt so real!
Whoever’s reading this , I pray whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day ! Amen
I sincerely appreciate this movie. It's the realest by far. It's a typical example of "I wish I knew". Now you know. How will you react? Side chicks that wish they knew their guy was married. Wives that wish they knew when their partners were having affairs? Men that wish they could share their affairs with their wives etc. This movie is the perfect "I wish". Brilliant piece of art🎉🎉
No no no no! This is not just a movie! This is a premium masterpiece! 🥺🥺😯👏🏽👏🏽🔥💥💥🔥. When I think I've seen it all about Deza De Great, he comes up with another great act to behold, dude knows his onions. I literally teared up, had chills, goosebumps. Abeggi love is sweet with the right and understanding person(s) in our life(s). So much lessons learnt! The world would be a better place if this is how love life turns out year in year out, awesome story. Beautiful start, Amazing ending 👌🏾👌🏾.Y'all take your flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹👏🏽👏🏽.
I don't know who you are.. but no matter the difficulties and hard times you are passing through.. no matter the challenges and obstacles .. GOD WILL MAKE A WAY FOR YOU
May the well that inspires mama Ruth to keep on giving us the best stories never runs dry. Her movies are masterpieces and have so many lessons in them.❤
Honestly this movie should or must get an AMVCA. This was best of it best, great story telling, great script, great acting, and achieved the aim of passing a clear message and prick individual understanding. This movie is a masterpiece
This movie is one of a kind it has given me a new perspective about relationships. . I bet alot of people may be going through this in their marriages. It all depends on the strength of communication build in the marriage and counselling is really important when the marriage hits the rocks. Marriage is no joke nor child play it takes the Grace of God for marriage to succeed . I pray for grace to those of us who are not married yet may we find our destined soul mates. Thank you Ruth for this educated movie. May God Almighty bless you.
Scarlet Go's raspy voice slaps. It's signature ❤. Her acting is gritty & passionate. She knows when to hold back & step on the gas when need be. I been a fan since Ms. R/K's film 10 days with my guy Ken Nwadike. I normally hesitate to use the term masterpiece bc everyone else does but 10 days was so I can't wait to see what happens In Your Heart. Scarlet is Gully for keeping it together when you can tell she is hurting badly.
@@thescarletgomez I can't breathe right now I'm so excited. Love you so much Baby Sis! God Bless you too. I'm so proud of you & beyond for your hardwork. Thank you for the sacrifice of giving yourself to bless, entertain & make us smile.💜
Honestly I never for once believed in love let alone believe in marriage. Like I never wanted to get married,didn't even want to hear anyone mention those words (love and marriage). But you've worked on my mind and have made me believe so much in love and marriage. Like nothing is strong enough to break a home!! Thank you so much Ruth Kadiri for your amazing storylines😩😘😍 #IN YOUR HEART❤️👌🏻💯
For me this is the movie that should be titled BETTER HALF ❤️ trust me these movies deserve to get more than 15 millions views i enjoy every bit of it bravo 👏 to the most best produser in world 🌎 wide . This particular movie is everything ❤❤i pray for more grace over your life mah you are the best 💗 much love from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱🇸🇱
And this here is another beautiful masterpiece by our dearest producer Ruth Kadiri... One beautiful quotes am taking home from this movie.... -karma never loses an address, it doesn't have a menu either, it serves exactly what you deserve- And friends like lisa, that will tell you d truth to your face, are hard to come by.
I'm always excited about thursdays These stories are life lessons and I'm grateful that I got this channel to always learn from Thank you Ruth Kadiri for teaching us through your arts More love from Liberia
Here we go again another beautiful story by our best producer ❤ Edit: This happens in some marraiges. Relatable life story...emotionally engaging and once again our best director/producer came through with another breathtaking film. A big thank you to the cast and crew!🎉
There's nothing as important as marrying a man that really loves you as a woman cos it helps him to choose you over and Over again against many Obstacles and Challenges dat comes his way. Well done Ruth👍
According to the Counselor, she said a lot of men in their 40s go through this but my own questions are, were they ever honest or this open with their partner? Did they seek help? How did they get out of this? Or they just played along? This is a masterpiece!!! Kudos to Ruth Kadiri and the entire crew.
OMG, this movie has made me understand another side of life. Thanks to the crew for this epic masterpiece. I've never felt this kind of emotions before, I've learnt a great deal from this movie....patience is a virtue
This is crazy , what the man's honesty is cool but the wife's strength is admirable and needs to be studied, the relationship they share is beautiful, real life story actually, the counselor urging him to face his fears,😮 Wow what a story , mama Ruth you are a rare gem , bringing reality that happens on a daily basis to movies is remarkable, i pray for more grace, the sky is just a stepping stone to your greatness.
@@rubydawnintlyou are right imagine if it’s were to be other way round well this is a movie my husband can’t tell me this like it’s will be a an open relationship we all shall have feelings for people oo 😂
I love your constant education on therapy and the need to seek for a councillor. I love you more for teaching homes the need to have open conversations. It is a healing for some of us who had already spent 14years and more in our marriages. It helps us understand why certain things can happen. I remembered the one that made me understand that anxiety drugs could affect sexual urge too. Thank You Mama Ruth. Family bond therapist 💖💖💞❤️❤️💓⭐
Omoh aunty Ruth,this movie is everything.. I cried with scarlet all through😂😂 it was so emotional for me and yet educative , this is one of your best movies I have watched..
This channel is really teaching us a lot👏👏👏👏👏Those topics that society shies away from, those hidden truths nobody ever tells you. That’s what this channel gives us💯Take your flowers 💐 Mama❤️
For real??? Which is what exactly??? That women should allow these kind of behavior . That she should go with the flow??? I mean he says that he can't live without his wife, so how???
Wow! What a script! I really love this . Entertaining and educative as well. Kudos to the casts and crew. You all delivered. Wisdom, honesty, patience and love played their parts. We learn everyday. Thanks dear Ruth ❤
Phenomenal movie!! Deza and Scarlet great job ! To all of us married women , keep God first and he shall direct your path. Sister Ruth thank you for producing movies that will enrich our lives and marriages❤️❤️
Dear Ruth, I am in Awe, Speechless. This is great and to think u just answered, solved a major issue here. May God keep empowering you to heal & restore marriages and homes.
His honesty is honorable and her response to it is divine. Many times we crave honesty as women but we can’t handle it . If everyone could learn to be honest and handle honesty the world would not be this broken.
There is no way my HUSBAND would be able to live this out. If he has feelings for someone else, go and have a life with them too. Desiring someone else is cheating and there is no way I would tolerate an open-marriage, which is of satan. Absolutely nothing good comes from bad, period. The disrespect, humility, pain, hurt, etc., cannot and should not happen in a marriage. And for those who don't have a problem with it, live and let live.
I started watching African movies in 2019 because of my friend Kathy. Let me say that this is one of the best movies I have seen, and I have seen a lot. Life lesson learned. I always say that most men would never leave their wives for an outside woman. The fact that he was open and seeked counseling to fight his demons was the icing on the cake. Ruth, another masterpiece. 💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️
A letter to Ruth, “Your exceptional work is a shining example of dedication and excellence. Your contributions have made a significant impact on our screens and we're truly grateful for your hard work. Thank you for going above and beyond - your efforts are valued and noticed. Keep up the fantastic work! To be honest, I don't know how you manage to do such a good job every single time. You always deliver beyond expectations. You are loved, appreciated and forever will remain one of a kind. May God bless your hustle and everything you touch".
I appreciate the fact that the husband told the wife about him having feelings for another woman, although the process is excruciating, but it's worth it..If all men could be honest like Deza in this movie, the rate of cheating in relationships would reduce drastically 😊 A very big Thank You to Auntie Ruth for always bringing us the Best, Kudos to the entire cast and crew for the amazing job done ❤❤💯💯💯
Such a masterpiece. Ruth Kadiri you are amazing! there's a lot to be learnt from this movie...Sometimes it's worth the fight but we have to know how to fight, physical fight only make matters worse.....Remember Kama never loses an address and it doesn't have a menu, it serves you exactly what you deserve......kudos to the cast and crew
I feel this movie should have a sequel (some sort of remake) but this time around with the tables turned, addressing instances where it's the woman who has to deal with her desires. Although it's not pretty common here but it happens, from a colleague at work that ticks of all the boxes to an endearing/charming neighbor at home. It'd be lovely to see it, except you already have a movie that has addressed it. Thanks Ruth for such beautiful and well thought-out movies ❤
Selfishness is when one wants to eat his/her cake and have it. I will never understand how one will claim to love someone but put them through all kinds of emotional trauma that they themselves can’t take. I will never understand how some men will normalize “loving” their wives just cos they are married to the so called wife but still share deep emotional feelings and attachment with another. These occurrences will never make sense to me.
I haven't finished watching it yet but Ruth you are the best ❤❤❤ may you live to see your great grandchildren,tnk you for always putting smiles on millions of people faces every Thursday ❤❤
A married man will never love you more than he loves his wife , this is what i always tell my besties but none can listen until they face it ,,,nice movie mummy Ruth
Damn the counsellor said it all👌🏼sometime in life, we have to allow people to make decisions that concern their life, face the consequences, and decide their part... I am so glad that in the end, Rema was able to see the difference that Stracy is nothing like his wife. Rema said, "My wife is a GOID." The movie is so beautiful and so emotional.
This movie had me questioning a lot of things. It’s easier to want honesty than to actually handle it. Tbh..I’m not sure I’d put up with it,cus the emotional torture is really out of this world. It’s how he always reassures his wife of his love for her and still go ahead to act on his feelings. How did she really survive those moments watching him do those stuffs. I kept on screaming in my head,cus I could imagine my rage already. At some point I literally wished scarlet could just pull the same stunt on him so he could realize his misstakes and fall back on track..buh what do I knoww🤧
I would take all of it but I won't wait around .believe when I say I will be out there blushing from admiration from another man.abeg I really can't deal
Masterpiece.After marriage we are chasing bills , kids, money and we forget how we fell in love.Its even harder when in a foreign land with no grannies or aunties to watch over the little ones while you go on dates.May we find ways to always keep the fire burning and be intentional abt it, the vultures are ready to devour.
Marriage is really hard, that battle was very tough especially for the wife 😭, but she was like hold on, things gonna be alright, i upload his honest, instead of going behind his wife's back, he cherished her so much,that's amazing they fight together and won the battle, true love conquers all ❤️, so happy for them, the therapist lady 🥰🥰,cheers to you all, you understood your assignment and executed your roles perfectly,Deza all the way 🥰, best movie, after better half, this one is dope.
Things like this about marriage scares me even tho deep down I want to settle down...... God help the married n the singles..... We all deserves the best . Beautiful and educative story. God bless you Ruth.
I love the way the man is standing up for his wife, and I really appreciate how Stacy's friend is telling her the truth as a friend you should be honest with your friend. I really love this movie 😘
I'm halfway through this movie and I have already learnt one important thing: Love is a choice. It's choosing one person over and again! Thank you so much, ma!
I feel so hurt for his wife for what she has to go through such emotional stress. If I were in her shoes I don't know if I could have stayed so calm and continue to be by his side. I will truly say this I give him credit for being competely honest with his wife.
I can relate to this movie.... Exactly my story....lols ..I was the understanding wife but later he left...He went to her....I was completely broken..I felt so bad... But I'm fine now .........They ain't together anymore though... LIFE
“Because of juice, you came where my queen lives :)” love this line… between, it takes spiritual strength to overcome in life. Period. There is no temptation that is not common to man, but God will make a way of escape If you let him.
😢😢 OMG this movie hit me so hard!!! My heart ached so bad I cried like a kid crying for candy. Kudos to the actors Deza and Scarlet you all deserve an award 🏆
Would you prefer a man tells you he has a crush on someone else! Or handle it privately???
It's better to keep to himself
Tell me
Bring our good songs back in the back ground please I warn you 😂😂😂😂Ruth Ruth Ruth how many times did I call you 😅😅
This is really strange.. The wife's patience ei 😢
It's beta he keep it to himself rada dan spill to me 😊
To those who believe that our producer (Ruth )is the best and she will never disappoint gather we show her some love 🥰
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Who else is happy Deza is here let's gather support👍for our movie Queen Ruth💃 for featuring these talents we salute her🙋♀️💛 she will live long ❤
Deza ;;and Eddie we love you guys ❤❤
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When I saw ....The man is good . I'm so addicted to all his movies.
My baby is here Deza 💃💃
To us that believes Ruth kadiri remains the best movie director and producer here in Africa
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@@MarthaShilongo-d4j7-Eleven 7-Eleven 😮🎉is 🎉🎉in God's 😅
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“Karma never loses an address. It doesn’t have a menu neither. It serves exactly what you deserve”. These words are divine.
Life is not black and white... it has different shades 😊
So karma is real ?
Definitely it never lose an address
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when is karma ever going to deal with the racist white man?
Cheers to every strong woman out there making her own money, making her own story... breaking generational curses and building generational wealth🥂😍
Let's adopt this one in our country 😂
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Finally the wait is so over!!!Ghanaians let us gather here and shower some warm hugs & love to the one and only Ruth for always gracing our screens with intriguing stories🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
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Cheers to those of us who read comments while watching the movie ❤❤
Beautiful storyline,matured script great casts and kudos to the production team
The love chemistry between Deza and scalet in this movie is a bomb
Thanks, Mama Ruth, for this informative masterpiece ❤
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The moment she knelt down to pray, situation chaned. Never underestimate the power of prayer.
Agreed but when some decide you have to kill yourself do you think if it was the wife would he stay n endure the pain?
Yes I pray if I don't pray.......
@@gracenyarku1297 Well Said !! Infact I'd love to see that storyline
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Who else is happy that God Has seen us thru to another month end alive & healthy despite odds may dis new Month bring surprises, financial favors to all viewes Amen🙌🤲💛
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Am addicted to Ruths name
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A whole lot of lessons in this master piece....Communication, even in what seems incommunicable, honesty, extraordinary patience.... One thing that stands out for me...Feelings are natural, whether good or bad, but you have the will-power to control them, and that is determined by your level of emotional maturity.... A big Kudos to the production crew and actors...💯💯💯
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Omodasola oluyole infact I was this movie I really appreciate Ruth for good job for those don't have patience at home not every woman can stand this honestly when done sister
You nailed it❤
I really love this movie... strong emotions in there ,l even cried seeing how her wife was battling the whole situation... kudos to the production crew we love you 🎉❤
'You are just a feather in his cap, and the wife is the cap'... Lots of great quotes in this movie. Thumbs up, Ruth
I don't need any feathers on me (cap) oooo. LOL!😂
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Me I no want any feather ooooooo.
Na only me get the cap ooooo, no stains.😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@abasifrekebassey9042Aswear oooo.😂😂😂
This him wife try Biko, I no fit.
Who else is here for Scarlet voice ❤️🦋 we are proud of you dear 😊 much love from The Gambia 🇬🇲 🇬🇲🇬🇲
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If life was this pure, the world will be a better place. Thank you Ruthkadiri for allowing God use you this big.🇨🇲❤️
Yh she is de best of all and i do luv his movies ❤❤ she mind number luv fun 🎉
3 beautiful quotes in this movie...
1. Karma never forgets an address, neither does it have a menu. It serves exactly what you deserve.
2. Life is nit black and white, it has different shades.
3. If you hold a child too tight, he will die, if you give him too much freedom, he will stray.
Best, classic and mature movie. I love you Ruth, the producer
This movie is very educating, I learned that quotes too
Powerful quotes
Am in love with them
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This movie really has a great impact dear
Honestly this movie is master piece for all married couples,I have been married for almost 8 years now,with courtship making 10 years and I was experiencing something similar to this right now it is not easy on boths parties, recently I started feeling less love for my husband it was too emotional for me to handle that I have no choice than to talk to my husband about it,and he understands,it not easy but because of my husband understanding and both of us fighting for our marriage,we are working things out and my love for him is gradually coming back to how it was before, that is why they say marriage is like a Bank make sure you make a lot of deposit while you can, example good memories,caring, faithfulness, because there would be a times you need to withdraw but if there is not much deposited then there would not be something to go back to
Thank you very encouraging ❤
Wow, this was beautifully written. Powerful words.
Hmmmm it's not easy but God is in control 🙏 sometimes you cry 😢 and pray and listen to the holy spirit if you are Christian
Wohhh,so encouraging tank God ur home was restored. Deposit so much,and alwaz put God first
Married folks are really going through a lot
MAMA RUTH'S MOVIE SHOULD BE SOLD IN PHARMACIES AS DEPRESSION MEDICINE,SHE IS INDEED HEALING PEOPLE WITH HER TALENT❤❤❤
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This movie is educative and therapeutic ,I’m so glad I’m here every Thursday…RuthKadiri I give it to you always🙌🏻🙌🏻🥰
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Before I got married, one of the magistrate in my church said to me my daughter, don't ever forget this: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP A MARRIAGE... SHE GIFTED me a BOOK called 5 LOVE LANGUAGES and said both of us needs to know each others love language and speak it continuously, because there are times when the flames of this thing called love and feelings will die off😢 but our commitment to consistently fill up each others love tanks by doing and speaking our love language will keep our marriage fire burning. This is a very educative piece ❤❤Thanks Ruth and crew for sharing 🎉
Got that book and just gifted it to one of my elder sisters who happens to be rekindling a love relationship from her youth.💯
but why couldn't she pray.. I mean there is nothing prayer cannot do.. the spirit of oneness binded with Trinity overcomes every challenges.. prayer is still the key...
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Wish I could read it
@@IamBBF19 That is very kind of you dear. Praying it gives her ideas on how to go about it.
When she broke down in that car I felt that!!! Such an excellent script with an amazing cast! ❤
Am watching that park right now 😢
This happened to me last week,I broke down on the road and cried but we talked things out and he killed the feelings for another person and started afresh with me
Love is never enough
This is so sad when you know he is thinking about another woman
@@blessingrobson6056so sorry abt that but thank God he got back his thinking cap
The song at the background is really killing me . Thumb up guys first time to comment
Thank you Ruth. I've been married for 19 years and I can't say that we don't ever lose that spark, but something always brings it back. This movie was powerful and honest!
Honestly, this story line strengthens the patriarchal idea that men can get away with anything and afford to act without self-control. If you like someone out of your marriage, exercise self control rather than moving to a young girl and leading her on while hurting your wife you claim to love.
If the tables were reversed which man will watch his wife start a relationship with another man. We create too many excuses for men and that should stop.
I bet to disagree
You just spoke my mind. Most men, African men to be precise can't take this.
I'm a counsellor by profession. I see cases like in sessions.
The ideal thing to do would have been to learn how to deal with the desires in healthy ways and not follow them.
Agreed!!
Thanks alot my dear.that is y d Bible said guide ur heart with all diligence so as not to let the devil in.pls let's be careful in our marriage.
Wow what a bomb, I didn't see these 2 scenes coming where Deza told his wife that he has feelings for someone else, her reaction and when Deza finally spoke to Stacey came back home and told his wife wow, the level of honesty in this marriage is rare what an interesting movie.
The wife is in pain, hurting yet still stands by her husband what a strong woman it happens only in movies right 😂 I love how Deza never allowed Stacey to disrespect his wife.
Ruth am speechless 👏👏👏👏
I admire the honesty but my heart ached for the wife. God abeg oo this kind of situation can make me run mad.
I love his honesty, at least he told his wife he has feelings for someone else
Omo I can’t take this shii ooo…Wtf 😢
So u all think this is normal? 😅😅 what rubbish. If my husband tells me he has feelings for another woman, she can have him. Fighting for what? For him to be chasing the other woman who was minding her business.
😅😅😅 it's not normal to say this to your wife that you've feelings for another woman. I can imagine the trauma the wife went through. But at least he went through counseling recommended by the wife, and everything went well for them.
Dear Ruth Kadiri, I hope this meets you well.. I’m in total awe.. I don’t know how you do it.. how you come up with such beautiful, Amazing and realistic scripts and then bring them to life with your amazing cast.. But I just wanna say Thank you.. Thank you for this masterpiece… ❤
To think we had just 6 cast❤❤
A big thanks indeed
I know right!!!! She's incredible.
The punch lines or quote👌she pays attention to details 👏👏kudos to you Ma'am and to the team as well.
Awsome play,i literaly saw myself in this play n thought if i could really had enough courage to stand by such an honest man. Though his honesty was choking her to sanity, the grace to hold on to her marriage made her reap her man in a refine state.not many marriages reach such stage others would've given up before their gold is fully refined. Wow Ruth you are the best🎉 keep on delivering,we are drinking from your fountain of wisdom.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the acting skills of the lead actress and her husband? They portrayed their roles so naturally and authentically. This felt so real!
So naturally that at some point I felt it was me that was going through that emotional trauma
THIS MOVIE IS SO REAL
Ah noooo
Pls don't joke with my Scarlet, she's goooooood and Deza🔥 can't wait to share the same screens with them❤
Whoever’s reading this , I pray whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day ! Amen
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏🙏
Thanks alot darl and you too 😘
Amen 🙏🏾
To all who appreciate this movie your marriages will be successful, blessed financially, it shall be fruitful & full of happiness Amen 🙌🤲💟Shalom
Amen
Amen and Amen
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen
I sincerely appreciate this movie. It's the realest by far. It's a typical example of "I wish I knew". Now you know. How will you react? Side chicks that wish they knew their guy was married. Wives that wish they knew when their partners were having affairs? Men that wish they could share their affairs with their wives etc. This movie is the perfect "I wish". Brilliant piece of art🎉🎉
I really love this comment… made me see the beauty in d movie…. Makes a lot of sense to me now… thank you…
No no no no! This is not just a movie! This is a premium masterpiece! 🥺🥺😯👏🏽👏🏽🔥💥💥🔥. When I think I've seen it all about Deza De Great, he comes up with another great act to behold, dude knows his onions. I literally teared up, had chills, goosebumps. Abeggi love is sweet with the right and understanding person(s) in our life(s). So much lessons learnt! The world would be a better place if this is how love life turns out year in year out, awesome story. Beautiful start, Amazing ending 👌🏾👌🏾.Y'all take your flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹👏🏽👏🏽.
I don't know who you are.. but no matter the difficulties and hard times you are passing through.. no matter the challenges and obstacles .. GOD WILL MAKE A WAY FOR YOU
Amen
Amen
Amen 🙏
Amen
AMEN 🙏
May the well that inspires mama Ruth to keep on giving us the best stories never runs dry. Her movies are masterpieces and have so many lessons in them.❤
Honestly this movie should or must get an AMVCA. This was best of it best, great story telling, great script, great acting, and achieved the aim of passing a clear message and prick individual understanding. This movie is a masterpiece
This movie is one of a kind it has given me a new perspective about relationships. . I bet alot of people may be going through this in their marriages. It all depends on the strength of communication build in the marriage and counselling is really important when the marriage hits the rocks. Marriage is no joke nor child play it takes the Grace of God for marriage to succeed . I pray for grace to those of us who are not married yet may we find our destined soul mates. Thank you Ruth for this educated movie. May God Almighty bless you.
Amen
"Be careful what you wish for. Life is not black and white. It has different shades." That part hits me.
I swear that her friend really have proper sense of humor❤
Karma doesn't have an address.
So true,I swear I love this movie.
I'm learning here
Karma doesn't loses an address neither does it have a menu.... It serves you what you deserve
It really hits me too
it hits me so hard
Scarlet Go's raspy voice slaps. It's signature ❤. Her acting is gritty & passionate. She knows when to hold back & step on the gas when need be. I been a fan since Ms. R/K's film 10 days with my guy Ken Nwadike. I normally hesitate to use the term masterpiece bc everyone else does but 10 days was so I can't wait to see what happens In Your Heart. Scarlet is Gully for keeping it together when you can tell she is hurting badly.
GOD bless you ! This made me cry thank you ❤
@@thescarletgomez I can't breathe right now I'm so excited. Love you so much Baby Sis! God Bless you too. I'm so proud of you & beyond for your hardwork. Thank you for the sacrifice of giving yourself to bless, entertain & make us smile.💜
Honestly I never for once believed in love let alone believe in marriage. Like I never wanted to get married,didn't even want to hear anyone mention those words (love and marriage). But you've worked on my mind and have made me believe so much in love and marriage. Like nothing is strong enough to break a home!! Thank you so much Ruth Kadiri for your amazing storylines😩😘😍
#IN YOUR HEART❤️👌🏻💯
For me this is the movie that should be titled BETTER HALF ❤️ trust me these movies deserve to get more than 15 millions views i enjoy every bit of it bravo 👏 to the most best produser in world 🌎 wide . This particular movie is everything ❤❤i pray for more grace over your life mah you are the best 💗 much love from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱🇸🇱
Honestly thts true,,,,i feel better half was for the younger generation..its good yes but this one is sooo mature ❤
We are here mama Ruth.... The massive woman who doesn't rest just to make her fans happy with beautiful movies ❤❤❤receive your flowers 🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐
And this here is another beautiful masterpiece by our dearest producer Ruth Kadiri... One beautiful quotes am taking home from this movie....
-karma never loses an address, it doesn't have a menu either, it serves exactly what you deserve-
And friends like lisa, that will tell you d truth to your face, are hard to come by.
Yes ooo dear but there are some friends if you want to tell them the truth you become their enemy.
😅"My wife is gold and am not gonna leave gold and pick up stones,am in a better place" this made my day☺️☺️😊💯
God bless yoi
Scarlet Gomez and Deza the great in one movie😍😍 those two are my favorite… Ruth Kadiri never disappoints❤
I thought its just me
Luv you❤
@@thescarletgomez Love you more ma’am❤️
Am proud of you Daze, you deserve an applause 👏👏 you really acted like a real mature man ❤
Happy ending 💃
I'm always excited about thursdays
These stories are life lessons and I'm grateful that I got this channel to always learn from
Thank you Ruth Kadiri for teaching us through your arts
More love from Liberia
I won't lie I'm slowly becoming a fan of Scarlet. She's so talented
You can say that again ❤
So so talented 💯
Same!
Please don't slowly oh be fast to grow on her she is an A+ actress ❤❤❤❤
I love her big ❤❤
Here we go again another beautiful story by our best producer ❤
Edit: This happens in some marraiges. Relatable life story...emotionally engaging and once again our best director/producer came through with another breathtaking film. A big thank you to the cast and crew!🎉
So true
There's nothing as important as marrying a man that really loves you as a woman cos it helps him to choose you over and Over again against many Obstacles and Challenges dat comes his way. Well done Ruth👍
According to the Counselor, she said a lot of men in their 40s go through this but my own questions are, were they ever honest or this open with their partner? Did they seek help? How did they get out of this? Or they just played along?
This is a masterpiece!!!
Kudos to Ruth Kadiri and the entire crew.
Good observation
@@dafethopejephthah3271 Thank you
My thoughts too 😕
Good question, is this really true that a lot of men go through this in their 40s?
Women go through this too,is how they handle it that matters
Deza was just killing everyone with honesty in this movie😂😂😂😂😂
Are you married?
Yes.
So what do you want with me?
I don't know.
Good lord! 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂as in. I kept saying while watching. You are very stupid for every honesty you spill. Who hurts people on the platter of honesty. Damn😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
My goodness, I was just seeing him being childish. Because I don't understand such honesty.
OMG, this movie has made me understand another side of life. Thanks to the crew for this epic masterpiece. I've never felt this kind of emotions before, I've learnt a great deal from this movie....patience is a virtue
This is crazy , what the man's honesty is cool but the wife's strength is admirable and needs to be studied, the relationship they share is beautiful, real life story actually, the counselor urging him to face his fears,😮
Wow what a story , mama Ruth you are a rare gem , bringing reality that happens on a daily basis to movies is remarkable, i pray for more grace, the sky is just a stepping stone to your greatness.
I really admire scarlet's level of tolerance and patience. Is not easy. Mama Ruth well done once again and to all members of the cast.
I don't admire a wife who would tolerate infidelity from her husband. why tolerate disrespect? It's a total turn off.
@@rubydawnintlyou are right imagine if it’s were to be other way round well this is a movie my husband can’t tell me this like it’s will be a an open relationship we all shall have feelings for people oo 😂
It's always the woman enduring why what of if it was the woman doing all this will the man endure too ?
@@Estherchiamaka-nx1mv some men might ensure but a veryyyy few
No I can't tolerate da shit imagine him describing the girl in such manner without caring about the woman's feelings that's emotional torture 🥺🥺
This movie needs an award globally ❤❤, is something that's really happening to a lot of people outside
Alot of marriage a going this thru secret ly
May i never find myself in difficult situation like this.... Nobody deserves to be emotionally ill treated like this 😭😭😭 God bless you Ruth Kadiri
Amen..this situation is too much
Amen🙏🙏
Amen🙏
Cheers to every married woman going through the same situation... It's never easy.. I salute you Ruth Kadiri🙋 .Much love ❤from Ghana 🇬🇭
I don't believe such happens
Is happening to me right now
@@OmarichapOkoro-wb1xehugs❤❤
This movie will never be me oo… I will never tolerate such… but hands down to Ms Ruth Kadiri great movie as always 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🥰
The woman who acted the counsellor did it real❤
Her words are piercing
I have forgotten it's a movie
I love your constant education on therapy and the need to seek for a councillor.
I love you more for teaching homes the need to have open conversations. It is a healing for some of us who had already spent 14years and more in our marriages. It helps us understand why certain things can happen.
I remembered the one that made me understand that anxiety drugs could affect sexual urge too. Thank You Mama Ruth. Family bond therapist 💖💖💞❤️❤️💓⭐
So emotional, relatable , deep , i cried with Annie. A lovely story. Thanks Ruth for making my Thursdays exciting
Wow 😲😲😲, am speechless but i have learnt the importance of honest. My favorite Deza❤ u delivered as expected n Scarlet ❤
Omoh aunty Ruth,this movie is everything.. I cried with scarlet all through😂😂 it was so emotional for me and yet educative , this is one of your best movies I have watched..
What I feel right now after watching this movie, it's something words can't explain but all I can say is that thank you ruth kadiri ❤ and more wings
The best thing is that I just finished watching her movie “A Mother’s lie” and here I’m again with this 🥰hahah I’m so happy 💃🏽
Me too ❤
Same here, just finished watching A Mother's Lie before I could finish it this now pop's up and I am here 🎉😂
Same here 😊
Yes ooo I just did too
Me too❤😂
This channel is really teaching us a lot👏👏👏👏👏Those topics that society shies away from, those hidden truths nobody ever tells you. That’s what this channel gives us💯Take your flowers 💐 Mama❤️
It really teaching us a lot
Yes
For real??? Which is what exactly??? That women should allow these kind of behavior . That she should go with the flow??? I mean he says that he can't live without his wife, so how???
Trueeeee❤
Y'all
I cried
I crowed
I crewed
Ruth Kadiri you did this one
Kudos to the best producer ❤
This movie is spiritual, It will bring healing to many homes,Thank you Madam Ruth and your team,God bless you!
Wow! What a script! I really love this . Entertaining and educative as well. Kudos to the casts and crew. You all delivered. Wisdom, honesty, patience and love played their parts. We learn everyday. Thanks dear Ruth ❤
Phenomenal movie!! Deza and Scarlet great job ! To all of us married women , keep God first and he shall direct your path. Sister Ruth thank you for producing movies that will enrich our lives and marriages❤️❤️
Dear Ruth, I am in Awe, Speechless. This is great and to think u just answered, solved a major issue here.
May God keep empowering you to heal & restore marriages and homes.
His honesty is honorable and her response to it is divine. Many times we crave honesty as women but we can’t handle it . If everyone could learn to be honest and handle honesty the world would not be this broken.
You are right dear, it takes the help of the Holy spirit to handle this type of situation.
There is no way my HUSBAND would be able to live this out. If he has feelings for someone else, go and have a life with them too. Desiring someone else is cheating and there is no way I would tolerate an open-marriage, which is of satan. Absolutely nothing good comes from bad, period. The disrespect, humility, pain, hurt, etc., cannot and should not happen in a marriage. And for those who don't have a problem with it, live and let live.
the only real comment here, what rubbish!!
Gosh! you spoke my mind. I could never be understanding in this type of situation. This is sad on all levels. Heck!
The comment I was looking for...why humiliate yourself this much...if the tables turned the husband wouldn't be that patient
How can this happen in real life? I was so pissed off watching this movie
You are the only one speaking sense in these comments
Thanks for listening to us and bringing Scarlet Gomez to us again. God bless you.
I second u
I third u 😂😂😂😊
Bless your heart! Thank you❤
@@thescarletgomez Welcome dearest 🥰
This is the best script I have seen executed appropriately on this channel. The Director did a splendid job and deserves his flowers 🎉🎉🎉
I started watching African movies in 2019 because of my friend Kathy. Let me say that this is one of the best movies I have seen, and I have seen a lot. Life lesson learned. I always say that most men would never leave their wives for an outside woman. The fact that he was open and seeked counseling to fight his demons was the icing on the cake. Ruth, another masterpiece. 💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️
Sought not seeked
A letter to Ruth, “Your exceptional work is a shining example of dedication and excellence. Your contributions have made a significant impact on our screens and we're truly grateful for your hard work. Thank you for going above and beyond - your efforts are valued and noticed. Keep up the fantastic work! To be honest, I don't know how you manage to do such a good job every single time. You always deliver beyond expectations. You are loved, appreciated and forever will remain one of a kind. May God bless your hustle and everything you touch".
I love to hear Scarlet's voice all the time😊
Likeeeee. I thought I was the only one ooooo.
@@Joyfisayo You're not alone 🙂
Detola's voice... unmistakably Genevieve. Is she the daughter?
We love her voice......❤
I appreciate the fact that the husband told the wife about him having feelings for another woman, although the process is excruciating, but it's worth it..If all men could be honest like Deza in this movie, the rate of cheating in relationships would reduce drastically 😊 A very big Thank You to Auntie Ruth for always bringing us the Best, Kudos to the entire cast and crew for the amazing job done ❤❤💯💯💯
Can many woman be like scarlet gomez
Such a masterpiece. Ruth Kadiri you are amazing! there's a lot to be learnt from this movie...Sometimes it's worth the fight but we have to know how to fight, physical fight only make matters worse.....Remember Kama never loses an address and it doesn't have a menu, it serves you exactly what you deserve......kudos to the cast and crew
I feel this movie should have a sequel (some sort of remake) but this time around with the tables turned, addressing instances where it's the woman who has to deal with her desires.
Although it's not pretty common here but it happens, from a colleague at work that ticks of all the boxes to an endearing/charming neighbor at home.
It'd be lovely to see it, except you already have a movie that has addressed it.
Thanks Ruth for such beautiful and well thought-out movies ❤
Exactly my thoughts
If tables were turned, it would have been a different story,men are naturally weak and egocentric so they can take this
I fully concur. It would be interesting to see how things would turn out if the tables were turned.
Yes, we want the tables to turn to see how it goes.
A remake of d opposite we will b fyn
Selfishness is when one wants to eat his/her cake and have it. I will never understand how one will claim to love someone but put them through all kinds of emotional trauma that they themselves can’t take. I will never understand how some men will normalize “loving” their wives just cos they are married to the so called wife but still share deep emotional feelings and attachment with another. These occurrences will never make sense to me.
I try to understand but been able
It's a steady occurrence but because we can't take it, things fall apart
Tell me about it! It's so disgusting 😞
I haven't finished watching it yet but Ruth you are the best ❤❤❤ may you live to see your great grandchildren,tnk you for always putting smiles on millions of people faces every Thursday ❤❤
A married man will never love you more than he loves his wife , this is what i always tell my besties but none can listen until they face it ,,,nice movie mummy Ruth
Mama Ruth and her sound track never gets old love the songs cant enough
I wish all men were this honest and transparent I love this movie ❤
Am happy to see my scarlet n deza here ♥️♥️♥️♥️Ruth keep making us proud ....Kenya is proud of u🇰🇪🇰🇪
Nko ndan pia😂😂
@@magdalinejuma2028hapa huwa so sikosi ....nko addicted mbayaaa😊
So much loved ❤ kwanza mm nimezama ndaani hii ni shakahola 2yangu sipanduki ng'o
But imagine siipendi huu mchezo wa mime Kuniambia about another gal
@@getrudeokubasu960 hio kitu inaum aki😭
Damn the counsellor said it all👌🏼sometime in life, we have to allow people to make decisions that concern their life, face the consequences, and decide their part... I am so glad that in the end, Rema was able to see the difference that Stracy is nothing like his wife. Rema said, "My wife is a GOID."
The movie is so beautiful and so emotional.
Yah good counsellor
This movie had me questioning a lot of things. It’s easier to want honesty than to actually handle it. Tbh..I’m not sure I’d put up with it,cus the emotional torture is really out of this world. It’s how he always reassures his wife of his love for her and still go ahead to act on his feelings. How did she really survive those moments watching him do those stuffs. I kept on screaming in my head,cus I could imagine my rage already. At some point I literally wished scarlet could just pull the same stunt on him so he could realize his misstakes and fall back on track..buh what do I knoww🤧
Like I waited for her to also find a man she has strong feelings for. And dress up and go on dates, so he can feel what she feels
Exactly my thoughts
I would take all of it but I won't wait around .believe when I say I will be out there blushing from admiration from another man.abeg I really can't deal
Exactly!
She really tried
I don't think I can do what she did
Men can try ooo😅😅
The background songs behind Ruth movies are goals❤❤❤❤
I couldn’t deal with this kinda marriage,but this movie 10/10👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Ruth never ever disappoints🔥
I tell you oh😂😂😂
This cannot be me🤣
Even me I can't deal with this eeee just boyfriend and girlfriend you can burst but in marriage me no no no
This shall not be my portion ooo God knows my heart and the future. I CANNOT
Masterpiece.After marriage we are chasing bills , kids, money and we forget how we fell in love.Its even harder when in a foreign land with no grannies or aunties to watch over the little ones while you go on dates.May we find ways to always keep the fire burning and be intentional abt it, the vultures are ready to devour.
Great speech 🥰👍🏽
Aameen
You are right Everyone Chasing Money and Carier,Some women too don't have time for there Husbands anymore it is well.
👏👏👏👏👏
Hmmmm word keep the fire burning the vulture are ready to devour, that word strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Marriage is really hard, that battle was very tough especially for the wife 😭, but she was like hold on, things gonna be alright, i upload his honest, instead of going behind his wife's back, he cherished her so much,that's amazing they fight together and won the battle, true love conquers all ❤️, so happy for them, the therapist lady 🥰🥰,cheers to you all, you understood your assignment and executed your roles perfectly,Deza all the way 🥰, best movie, after better half, this one is dope.
Things like this about marriage scares me even tho deep down I want to settle down...... God help the married n the singles..... We all deserves the best . Beautiful and educative story. God bless you Ruth.
I love the way the man is standing up for his wife, and I really appreciate how Stacy's friend is telling her the truth as a friend you should be honest with your friend.
I really love this movie 😘
There’s something about Scarlets voice. I like so much 👌👌
Scarlet is it the songs
You are right and the way I just love horsey voices ❤
Yeah, her voice is husky
Scarlet who
@@mukonazwothemukona8272Gomez
I'm halfway through this movie and I have already learnt one important thing: Love is a choice. It's choosing one person over and again! Thank you so much, ma!
Another masterpiece by Ruth of life. Love you dear! Deza is the great hear. Scarlet is so sweet. Thanks all cast for job well done❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I feel so hurt for his wife for what she has to go through such emotional stress. If I were in her shoes I don't know if I could have stayed so calm and continue to be by his side. I will truly say this I give him credit for being competely honest with his wife.
This movie is everything. For the first time I’m commenting on this page !! This movie is so refreshing and enlightening
I can relate to this movie.... Exactly my story....lols ..I was the understanding wife but later he left...He went to her....I was completely broken..I felt so bad...
But I'm fine now .........They ain't together anymore though...
LIFE
🫂
It is well
“Because of juice, you came where my queen lives :)” love this line… between, it takes spiritual strength to overcome in life. Period. There is no temptation that is not common to man, but God will make a way of escape If you let him.
As your watching this movie, may God watch your wishes and fullfil them all in the Name of Jesus Christ 🙏🙏
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen and amen
Amen 🙏🙏
😢😢 OMG this movie hit me so hard!!! My heart ached so bad I cried like a kid crying for candy.
Kudos to the actors Deza and Scarlet you all deserve an award 🏆