As a mother to an autistic son, this warms my heart how patient you are with this boy. Thank you for making the parents feel less stressed and more heard during this visit.
i’m not autistic, or a child (i’m 24). but i grew up with a multitude of chronic illnesses (in the UK) and such an understanding doctor like Dr. Paul would’ve likely listened to my parents and diagnosed me earlier. Rather than waiting 17 years, having gotten a J tube and G tube at 15 when i really declined in health (i still rely on those) to come to the same conclusion regarding testing as my nurse mother came to suggest. Thank you Dr. Paul for listening to parents!
This is the kind of doctors the world needs. You don’t really see this… so many doctors rush you off😕 that’s how you know the ones who genuinely love what they do.
We need more drs over here in England to have an understanding like you as my son with Autistic Spectrum disorder and Adhd finds it hard even @16 to say whats wrong even though he never stops taking. Your videos are a breath of fresh air and so informative. Thank you
My son is also 16 years old. He was dx at 4yrs old and I was in denial for a while. Then I started doing research. He has Asperger’s syndrome. He is so stinking smart and is always talking to me. He has social anxiety, even with family members. He also has depression but he is always trying to save the world. ( Like his mom ) He talks before he thinks and he is the youngest of 7. I am having financial problems and he came to me and said he wanted a job to help me out. My late husband passed almost two years ago and was his stepdad. He told me one day that he was the only person who told him that he was proud of him. His own father has never told him that. He really doesn’t want to much to do with him.Yes after 16yrs his dad is still in denial. I was so proud of him for wanting a job!!!! His dad told him that if it interferes with school then he would make him quit. He doesn’t realize how much it took for my son to ask for help to get a job!! This kid put all his anxiety aside to try and help mom. I was so very proud of him and I tell him every day how proud of him. Oh btw he is home schooled!!! I could go on about that too but I won’t.
Thank you for sharing. You're not only helping your autistic patient, you're also giving support and a listening ear to his parents, his main support team. Usually they're alone helping their special needs kids. You're a nice Doctor.😊
Mom of 2 kids with autism here. Early intervention is key. Getting a social worker was super helpful, she helped us get on Medical Assistance which made therapy possible. Everything has been "free" thanks to the secondary insurance. Later, my son also developed Type 1 diabetes. Again, having M.A made it possible for him to be on a pump and insulin. We aren't a wealthy family, so I have no idea how that would have worked without it.
What a lovely doctor ☺️ My son is 8 years old and autistic. He LOVES going to the doctor. But if he’s seeing a new one we have to give them a heads up that he expects very specific things to happen before they can do anything else. He expects them to listen to his heart, then they have to use their light to check his ears and mouth. After that he’s happy to let them do whatever other things they need. It’s such a relief to find doctors who work well with kids that have special needs.
Dr Paul is a treasure. I have a son who required medical intervention from birth & throughout his growing up & we were attached to large teaching hospital for his treatment. Only ever once over 16 years did any medical student Dr come & sit with me & ask what I could tell him about my son. Most wanted to tell me what & how to think & what to do. I was treated as if I knew nothing. Mothers do know their children.
My children were born in 1972 and 1974....way before diagnosing autism became a thing in the 90s. They were very high functioning so no one ever questioned their quirkiness. At age 49 and 51 they both have good jobs and are independently managing their lives but....they struggle with relationships. I rarely see them. When I do get to spend time with them...they do not like to be touched, kissed, or hugged. They mostly connect with text or email. They focus on their areas of interest like collecting things, movies, travel. As a parent, I feel very blessed that their and my struggles were not more intense.
This literally brought tears to my eyes. My son is almost 3 and a waiting in autisum eval. He's struggled so much at doctors n hospitals. And he has been given lack of healthcare because of that. He freaks out he cries he fights it pure panic mode And a lot of doctors are not understanding of that. So you're patient and care is amazing. I hope someday that all pediatricians are trained on how to handle autistic children and how all children act differently. Some may be OK with being touched someday. Not some maybe distracted, some may be in a panic. You just don't know until you're there. It's a real struggle, but seeing a doctor be so patient and kind is very helpful im keeping my faith we will find the right fits.
We experience this with my son who is nearly 2; any visits to any clinical setting is very difficult. He always gets upset. I wish there was more understanding and support from medical professionals. I feel so lost.
@@bruhmoment5974 Special: Adj. especially great or important, or having a quality that most similar things or people do not have. Cambridge dictionary. The autistic children that I have in my care love it when I tell them how special and important they are. So do their parents.
You have to tailor the type of interaction with the individual. There are certain traits all Autistic people share. Some of us you won't have a clue unless we tell you and others are easy to spot. Always enjoyed how Dr. Paul interacted with everyone.
As a person with mild autism this makes me think of what my late mum went through from the doctors saying that I won't be NORMAL and that I need to be have constant support to become a sort of independent person holding a job down making friends and this little huy is a true hero
As a mom to a child with autism it is crucial for kids to get the help they need as soon as possible. Early intervention can help. And just teach others about autism. It's sad that insurance can be a problem to help cover therapies. My son gets Medicaid so it can either be easy or hard to make sure what therapies can help. Right now he only gets help with speech at school, he gets occupational therapy outside of school and play therapy. And currently on a waiting list for ABA therapy
I'm so glad you're getting somewhere with your therapy for your son! Please be wary of ABA therapy as a lot of autistic people have spoken out strongly against it as they have trauma from it. Autistic minds are beautiful and should be cherished. :)
@@sachikawaii aba therapy can be such a great benefit, but like with any kind of treatment a parent needs to be very aware of what is being done, why it’s being done and if it is right for their particular child. My son is autistic and has been in aba therapy (as well as speech and occupational therapy) over 2 different periods of time to help address some significant challenges he was having. I make sure I know what they are doing with him, and I observe from time to time to see his particular plan in action. I don’t have experience in aba and what it was like many years ago when it was more problematic. These days aba seems to have incorporated other types of therapy as well. For my child it has been incredibly beneficial in helping him become more independent (particularly in tasks like eating and using the bathroom without help), as well as assisting in managing and reducing unwanted behaviors like spitting and elopement(running away from caregivers). They helped me learn how to better interact with and encourage his good behaviors at home and when we are out and about. Over the years we’ve noticed a significant decrease in meltdowns and tantrums. He’s less frustrated because he can better communicate with us, and we have a better understanding of how to reach out to him. I don’t think that would have happened without aba. I think parents just need to think of it in terms of, say, doctors. You will find good ones and bad ones, and if you have a bad one you need to leave them and go elsewhere. And parents of special needs kids really need to be alert so that you don’t leave your child in a bad situation with people who aren’t actually helping.
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I am seen as an extrovert with autism but people don't see me in burnout resting at home well afterwards. I am great at figuring it out with my mind but following a step by step building project I fail. I have slow processing issues with autism and meltdowns where I bite myself. Keeping calm is key.
I had my friend with autism that was just like this Dr. Paul but it was a girl at my school and her name was Nysa she didn’t have any communication and Nysa did not know how to talk until she learned how because she had special needs and Nysa needed more help from my teacher Mr. Starr and Nysa did not know how to talk so it was a challenge for Mr. Starr to deal with her in my class. what so ever for a long time. This autistic child named Adam is a lot more work and more complicated. than Nysa that I had in my Classroom from last year thank you for sharing this Dr. Paul this means a lot to me.
Their son reminds me of my own. Kansas offers ABA therapy through our state insurance. I feel so fortunate that I don't have to pay out of pocket. I hope that they get him some good therapy soon.
Doctor: "Can you take a deep breath?" Me after just a minute of watching/listening to the doctor: 😲-🤐-😮💨 Edit: 2:39 Omg! I used to play with my moms hand like that too and suck her fingers even when I was somewhere around 9 years old. I even have a picture of me doing that, hehe.. I've known of my autism for almost a year (undiagnosed), but I always forget how I used to show it when I was younger. 3:09 - omg I always did that, and sometimes I still do! This is extremely healing for me in ways I didn't know. It makes me tear up a bit because I see myself in that boy, and I've always kept it hidden from outside my home, safe space, or comfort zone. Thank you sooo much for sharing this video... It has brought back a lot of memories of what I had always thought was something weird or wrong with me, and then I'd shame myself for it.. Now I understand even more about myself
I am on the autism spectrum and going to the doctors growing up was not fun. They would always restrain me. The only time I enjoyed it was when they did magic tricks, like pulling things out of my ears and letting me keep them. I never want to go when I am sick or when my mom claims I’m sick
I wish we had a doctor like you! my son is autistic and has a real character i love my child more than anything, even if i only experience pressure and meanness everywhere. none of them can empathize with my situation as the days with my son are and only i seem to understand my son i have constant problems in kindergarten my son should go to kindergarten full-time according to the system but they don't notice that the little one is not doing well does that at the latest at home he lets the overload out and that hurts my soul. I'm also told find a place for therapy, but everyone ignores the fact that we have a severe lack of competent doctors, nurses and therapists, and rescue is really not in sight. yes i could go here and pay for the therapy myself but for one month i would have to spend a year's salary the system just stinks in germany.
We need this for adults in the USA in all areas of medicine! Especially diabetes and obesity and women health. Ones that care and work with patients and truly listen.
The young Man reminds me of my Son. After his MMR Vaccine Jacob regressed. We stay on Long Island because of the Services. Jake was diagnosed around age 2. Had to jump through hoops. One day he was typical then he was not. Jake is 26 on Oct 28th. He will never be independent but with help he controls his behavior. Vaccine changed him , we saw it. The Family couldn’t handle the stress and no help back in the early 2000s. Sad I found Docs Video earlier tonight
Yes am mum to autistic child and ive been around autism my whole life and the one thing that I see with them is love full of energy nonstop they are the clever they pick things very fast what we dont we do. With my daughter she 8 she on high functioning autism so is my boyfriend and u have lot patience with them. They mind a toddler with my daughter she nonverbal but try her best get out words or show what she wants she wont give up she dont like doctors 😅 but doesn’t go much now yes had have alot energy getting fit she will glab amything she wont know what so as mum have have be charge 24/7 eyes at back of u but she very lovey and happy 😃 i wouldnt have any other way.
I've got high functioning autism. And I understand how the spectrum is. I also thought it was funny when he turned his butt to the mirror and put his legs up. That was funny. I did that all the time as a toddler. Cause toddlers do that too.
Your words touched my heart as a person w8th mild autism we do sometimes see the world differently we all have our challenges we all have our difficulties but we overcome those difficulties and challenges with pure hearts of gold as my mom used to say
So can you tell us about your life with autism? What kind of things are different and what do you think about life? How is your relation with your family?
So can you tell us about your life with autism? What kind of things are different and what do you think about life? How is your relation with your family?
@@veramaya well my life with autism hes been very difficult to begin with in early life in my now adult life i have started to develop my own way of living and coping I don’t exactly understand socialising with other people i do try put even at work i started a few days ago i don’t fit in but idk i still try In terms of relationships with my siblings I don’t really have one im kind of just alone and i have a really really good relationship with my parents especially my dad we’re very similar he also most likely has autism. Life for me i find just terrifying absolutely terrifying but i have to atleast try I suffer really bad from anxiety somedays im literally shacking my so nervous but i still try ive gotten alot better at dealing with it in my adult life as compared to when I was younger I just started an apprenticeship and i find it terrifying i don’t feel i really fit in and i don’t plan on mentioning my autism im not ashamed of it or anything Maybe slightly embarrassed at times. And i probably lack some confidence in myself aswell
That poor mama. I see the fight in her oura, the love in her face, the hurt in her eyes. My daughter has a low spectrum of autism, and I’m here to tell you, the medical system does this to our kids. She’s four now, and her last s**** were two years ago, and she’ll never get another one ever again! I can feel her soul fighting back, and I’ll be right here to not only fight with her, but be her shield at any given second. We see the enemy, and so does Dr. Paul.
Even as an adult, and watching this on video, I am bothered by the lights, clutter, and noise. Too much sensory input makes it far more difficult for me to process speech and give thorough, accurate answers. Also, for many of us the unknown and unexpected aspects of life are the most stressful. A new office, doctor, or procedure is much easier to handle if I am prepared ahead of time. Pictures of the office and doctor online can be helpful for many autistic patients.
We almost entirely healed our two autistic sons, 5 and 8, from autism. Our 3 year old went from no speech to speaking in full conversations and great eye contact. The son rise program is the way. We bought the book “Autism breakthrough” and followed the techniques.
Hi there, I'm so happy you have helped your children to express themselves. Autism can never be healed as it is just the result of a differently wired brain. I hope you and your children have beautiful lives. :)
@@sachikawaii hello, of course it can be healed: look up the son rise man himself Raun Kaufman. The son rise program has healed many previously diagnosed people, now brain healed. This information is out there and im making it clear for the parents that may not have hope, well here it is: SonRise Raun Kaufman!
My pediatrician was an absolute jerk to me as a child. I was always the problem. Even today with my current doctors I can't even get good treatment because they just brush all of my symptoms off. I'm autistic by the way so this comment may come off a little weird.
Also enough kids handicapped get too much attention when adult handicapped people need more. What if autistic adults need cuddles like that and it’s not appropriate for us and it’s ok for a kid well it shouldn’t be
Homeschool from all of my experiences with autistic children, especially non verbal. There are plenty of groups around the US, in every state that has homeschool communities for support and all public schools have to offer services to children with disabilities regardless if they are homeschooling. No one knows your child's educational, emotional and physical needs like you as a parent do.
My son literally developed under eye darkness and artistic symptoms after the shot he needed to attend daycare . Now this is something that people are avoiding to talk about. The MTFHR gene mutation also causes autism.
Absolute BS and you know it! You antivax freaks are liars. Every single study, and there have been hundreds, have shown there are ZERO links between vaccines and autism. All vaccines cause is immunity to preventable disease. You antivaxers love to have your children deathly ill
im 12 years old and i have autism but there is many scales of autism he has one of the more worse scales of autism i have abergers and i know some of people has the scale of autism they can't speak cause they kinda have there own language
Hello, befin using external regulation of emotion until its internalised. You will refain normal neurotransmitter levels. Fix fhd srimulation problems. Do the work and he autistic will gain any practice until internalized! You are alrady perfect, you beautiful, you are able to gain facial composure and be able fo use normal expressions. You hace to practice!
artistic kids are awesome don't let the doctor tell you that there's nothing wrong with your child, I knew my child was artistic since she was born they always asked me how did I know and I told them that always knew that there was something wrong with her flashlight on her eyes nothing call her by her name nothing now that somebody toke her seriously and now that she's getting the help she understands a little bit more It helps when they have sibling around because that way they can learn more , I know it's not funny but I find it funny because she's my oldest and I have a anther child and she copies everything that the baby does ages 3 and 2 years example my little one talk so when they are fighting one talks other one sign language , I told her I am not going to quite on you there's a way for everything so I teached her a couple sing language words, teachers are amazing that I show her lots of things with out no one help
Autism is basically just a different way for a brain to be "wired". Autistic people are affected by difficulties in processing things such as sounds, touch, visual things and such, processing emotions from both themselves and others and struggle to regulate stimulation so make sounds or movements to help with it. There's much more to it but autistic minds are beautiful and its just another way of processing the world.
I think it is more about reading the person. A lot of autistic people do not like to be hugged, may they be kids or adults does not really matter, whilst others do like to be held to be able to relax from a stressing situation. I don't think it is up anyone but the child and the parents to tell what this specific child need to function better.
As a mother to an autistic son, this warms my heart how patient you are with this boy. Thank you for making the parents feel less stressed and more heard during this visit.
@@mslovely7741 Does The Young Boy Wear Goodnites? Good Boy.
I wonder if he was just as heartwarming with the kid that wound up in the hospital, because of no vaccination against tetanus
My bff who is younger tyen me is autistic and i knowen her for ever and i am very patient with her
So understanding
Does The Young Boy Love Cinderella?
As an actual autistic, this is quite a wholesome interaction. I'm glad to see more doctors on TH-cam
same thing :)
An actual autistic?
Such amazing parents, they don't get angry or frustrated they just do their best to try and comfort their son ❤
i’m not autistic, or a child (i’m 24). but i grew up with a multitude of chronic illnesses (in the UK) and such an understanding doctor like Dr. Paul would’ve likely listened to my parents and diagnosed me earlier. Rather than waiting 17 years, having gotten a J tube and G tube at 15 when i really declined in health (i still rely on those) to come to the same conclusion regarding testing as my nurse mother came to suggest. Thank you Dr. Paul for listening to parents!
@chloe-dv9hf it is autism
This is the kind of doctors the world needs. You don’t really see this… so many doctors rush you off😕 that’s how you know the ones who genuinely love what they do.
We need more drs over here in England to have an understanding like you as my son with Autistic Spectrum disorder and Adhd finds it hard even @16 to say whats wrong even though he never stops taking. Your videos are a breath of fresh air and so informative. Thank you
My son is also 16 years old. He was dx at 4yrs old and I was in denial for a while. Then I started doing research. He has Asperger’s syndrome. He is so stinking smart and is always talking to me. He has social anxiety, even with family members. He also has depression but he is always trying to save the world. ( Like his mom ) He talks before he thinks and he is the youngest of 7. I am having financial problems and he came to me and said he wanted a job to help me out. My late husband passed almost two years ago and was his stepdad. He told me one day that he was the only person who told him that he was proud of him. His own father has never told him that. He really doesn’t want to much to do with him.Yes after 16yrs his dad is still in denial. I was so proud of him for wanting a job!!!! His dad told him that if it interferes with school then he would make him quit. He doesn’t realize how much it took for my son to ask for help to get a job!! This kid put all his anxiety aside to try and help mom. I was so very proud of him and I tell him every day how proud of him. Oh btw he is home schooled!!! I could go on about that too but I won’t.
Dr. Paul is so inspirational. What a great guy
Thank you for sharing.
You're not only helping your autistic patient, you're also giving support and a listening ear to his parents, his main support team. Usually they're alone helping their special needs kids. You're a nice Doctor.😊
Mom of 2 kids with autism here. Early intervention is key. Getting a social worker was super helpful, she helped us get on Medical Assistance which made therapy possible. Everything has been "free" thanks to the secondary insurance. Later, my son also developed Type 1 diabetes. Again, having M.A made it possible for him to be on a pump and insulin. We aren't a wealthy family, so I have no idea how that would have worked without it.
What a lovely doctor ☺️ My son is 8 years old and autistic. He LOVES going to the doctor. But if he’s seeing a new one we have to give them a heads up that he expects very specific things to happen before they can do anything else. He expects them to listen to his heart, then they have to use their light to check his ears and mouth. After that he’s happy to let them do whatever other things they need. It’s such a relief to find doctors who work well with kids that have special needs.
Dr Paul is a treasure. I have a son who required medical intervention from birth & throughout his growing up & we were attached to large teaching hospital for his treatment. Only ever once over 16 years did any medical student Dr come & sit with me & ask what I could tell him about my son.
Most wanted to tell me what & how to think & what to do. I was treated as if I knew nothing. Mothers do know their children.
Yep. Listen to the parents.
I have autism myself, and doctor visits had always been hard for me so it is amazing to see how patient you are with him.
He’s so kind gentle to the child. and very good with parents.,wish doctors were more like this for everyone!
Such a kind and patient doctor
My children were born in 1972 and 1974....way before diagnosing autism became a thing in the 90s.
They were very high functioning so no one ever questioned their quirkiness.
At age 49 and 51 they both have good jobs and are independently managing their lives but....they struggle with relationships.
I rarely see them. When I do get to spend time with them...they do not like to be touched, kissed, or hugged.
They mostly connect with text or email.
They focus on their areas of interest like collecting things, movies, travel.
As a parent, I feel very blessed that their and my struggles were not more intense.
as a kid with mild autism, this made me very happy :) ❤
Dr. Paul makes a difference in the Children’s live ,You Rock Doc❤
This literally brought tears to my eyes. My son is almost 3 and a waiting in autisum eval. He's struggled so much at doctors n hospitals. And he has been given lack of healthcare because of that. He freaks out he cries he fights it pure panic mode And a lot of doctors are not understanding of that. So you're patient and care is amazing. I hope someday that all pediatricians are trained on how to handle autistic children and how all children act differently. Some may be OK with being touched someday. Not some maybe distracted, some may be in a panic. You just don't know until you're there. It's a real struggle, but seeing a doctor be so patient and kind is very helpful im keeping my faith we will find the right fits.
We experience this with my son who is nearly 2; any visits to any clinical setting is very difficult. He always gets upset. I wish there was more understanding and support from medical professionals. I feel so lost.
0:53 one of the greatest things you can tell a child. Especially when they’re Special. ❤️❤️
please don't use the term 'special'. it's really patronising
@@bruhmoment5974 Special: Adj.
especially great or important, or having a quality that most similar things or people do not have. Cambridge dictionary.
The autistic children that I have in my care love it when I tell them how special and important they are. So do their parents.
“Bathroom. Gotta go to the bathroom “
I pray for the day my son tells me that 😅❤
My son is 16 and severely autistic. He’s non verbal as well but after 15 1/2 years he learned to use the toilet! Never give up hope❤️
You have to tailor the type of interaction with the individual. There are certain traits all Autistic people share. Some of us you won't have a clue unless we tell you and others are easy to spot. Always enjoyed how Dr. Paul interacted with everyone.
Who cares
Dr Paul is an angel on earth.
It’s patience and going with the flow
What a lovely lad! These parents are so loving. Autism isn't easy for parents. I am an aspie myself.
As a person with mild autism this makes me think of what my late mum went through from the doctors saying that I won't be NORMAL and that I need to be have constant support to become a sort of independent person holding a job down making friends and this little huy is a true hero
Same here, I have (Level 2) Autism
As a HFA adult it warms my heart seeing how gentle he is with him
Thanks for all you do. We do appreciate you, Dr.
I aspire to become a doctor like you. All the best from Russia.
As a mom to a child with autism it is crucial for kids to get the help they need as soon as possible. Early intervention can help. And just teach others about autism. It's sad that insurance can be a problem to help cover therapies. My son gets Medicaid so it can either be easy or hard to make sure what therapies can help. Right now he only gets help with speech at school, he gets occupational therapy outside of school and play therapy. And currently on a waiting list for ABA therapy
I'm so glad you're getting somewhere with your therapy for your son! Please be wary of ABA therapy as a lot of autistic people have spoken out strongly against it as they have trauma from it. Autistic minds are beautiful and should be cherished. :)
@@sachikawaii aba therapy can be such a great benefit, but like with any kind of treatment a parent needs to be very aware of what is being done, why it’s being done and if it is right for their particular child. My son is autistic and has been in aba therapy (as well as speech and occupational therapy) over 2 different periods of time to help address some significant challenges he was having. I make sure I know what they are doing with him, and I observe from time to time to see his particular plan in action. I don’t have experience in aba and what it was like many years ago when it was more problematic. These days aba seems to have incorporated other types of therapy as well.
For my child it has been incredibly beneficial in helping him become more independent (particularly in tasks like eating and using the bathroom without help), as well as assisting in managing and reducing unwanted behaviors like spitting and elopement(running away from caregivers). They helped me learn how to better interact with and encourage his good behaviors at home and when we are out and about. Over the years we’ve noticed a significant decrease in meltdowns and tantrums. He’s less frustrated because he can better communicate with us, and we have a better understanding of how to reach out to him. I don’t think that would have happened without aba.
I think parents just need to think of it in terms of, say, doctors. You will find good ones and bad ones, and if you have a bad one you need to leave them and go elsewhere. And parents of special needs kids really need to be alert so that you don’t leave your child in a bad situation with people who aren’t actually helping.
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I am seen as an extrovert with autism but people don't see me in burnout resting at home well afterwards. I am great at figuring it out with my mind but following a step by step building project I fail. I have slow processing issues with autism and meltdowns where I bite myself. Keeping calm is key.
Bro I love how cute and active he is and acts like my brother, but less verbal and also has normal actions
I had my friend with autism that was just like this Dr. Paul but it was a girl at my school and her name was Nysa she didn’t have any communication and Nysa did not know how to talk until she learned how because she had special needs and Nysa needed more help from my teacher Mr. Starr and Nysa did not know how to talk so it was a challenge for Mr. Starr to deal with her in my class. what so ever for a long time. This autistic child named Adam is a lot more work and more complicated. than Nysa that I had in my Classroom from last year thank you for sharing this Dr. Paul this means a lot to me.
What a lovely family
Their son reminds me of my own. Kansas offers ABA therapy through our state insurance. I feel so fortunate that I don't have to pay out of pocket. I hope that they get him some good therapy soon.
Doctor: "Can you take a deep breath?"
Me after just a minute of watching/listening to the doctor: 😲-🤐-😮💨
Edit: 2:39 Omg! I used to play with my moms hand like that too and suck her fingers even when I was somewhere around 9 years old.
I even have a picture of me doing that, hehe..
I've known of my autism for almost a year (undiagnosed), but I always forget how I used to show it when I was younger.
3:09 - omg I always did that, and sometimes I still do!
This is extremely healing for me in ways I didn't know. It makes me tear up a bit because I see myself in that boy, and I've always kept it hidden from outside my home, safe space, or comfort zone.
Thank you sooo much for sharing this video...
It has brought back a lot of memories of what I had always thought was something weird or wrong with me, and then I'd shame myself for it.. Now I understand even more about myself
God bless the child 🙏 and the family....
I have an autistic son, thank you for all you do.
I am on the autism spectrum and going to the doctors growing up was not fun. They would always restrain me. The only time I enjoyed it was when they did magic tricks, like pulling things out of my ears and letting me keep them. I never want to go when I am sick or when my mom claims I’m sick
I wish we had a doctor like you! my son is autistic and has a real character i love my child more than anything, even if i only experience pressure and meanness everywhere. none of them can empathize with my situation as the days with my son are and only i seem to understand my son i have constant problems in kindergarten my son should go to kindergarten full-time according to the system but they don't notice that the little one is not doing well does that at the latest at home he lets the overload out and that hurts my soul. I'm also told find a place for therapy, but everyone ignores the fact that we have a severe lack of competent doctors, nurses and therapists, and rescue is really not in sight. yes i could go here and pay for the therapy myself but for one month i would have to spend a year's salary the system just stinks in germany.
what a sweet little boy. doctor Paul was so amazing with him.
We need this for adults in the USA in all areas of medicine! Especially diabetes and obesity and women health. Ones that care and work with patients and truly listen.
I wonder how the boy is doing today since this was filmed several years ago.
The young Man reminds me of my Son. After his MMR Vaccine Jacob regressed.
We stay on Long Island because of the Services.
Jake was diagnosed around age 2. Had to jump through hoops. One day he was typical then he was not.
Jake is 26 on Oct 28th. He will never be independent but with help he controls his behavior.
Vaccine changed him , we saw it.
The Family couldn’t handle the stress and no help back in the early 2000s. Sad
I found Docs Video earlier tonight
He remind me so much of my little guy Aiden. I wish I knew what went on in their little minds!
Yes am mum to autistic child and ive been around autism my whole life and the one thing that I see with them is love full of energy nonstop they are the clever they pick things very fast what we dont we do. With my daughter she 8 she on high functioning autism so is my boyfriend and u have lot patience with them. They mind a toddler with my daughter she nonverbal but try her best get out words or show what she wants she wont give up she dont like doctors 😅 but doesn’t go much now yes had have alot energy getting fit she will glab amything she wont know what so as mum have have be charge 24/7 eyes at back of u but she very lovey and happy 😃 i wouldnt have any other way.
0:53 was everything
It's basically so sad that parents have to fight for adequate& appropriate care for their child.
Some people with special needs can talk and some can’t every one is different no matter what.
I have met loads people in my life.
you are one in a million
I've got high functioning autism. And I understand how the spectrum is. I also thought it was funny when he turned his butt to the mirror and put his legs up. That was funny. I did that all the time as a toddler. Cause toddlers do that too.
Your words touched my heart as a person w8th mild autism we do sometimes see the world differently we all have our challenges we all have our difficulties but we overcome those difficulties and challenges with pure hearts of gold as my mom used to say
اللهم اشف انت الشافي لا شفاء الا شفاؤك
امين
Hi I love your videos
I wish I had a doctor like him when I was little honestly
How to act with an autistic children.... *walks in and touches him straight away* 😂
DO OTHER WHATEVER YOU WANT BE DONE WITH YOU. AMEN
Precious boy 💙
Great job doctor
I have autism myself i was diagnosed in something like 2003 i think not sure i was quite young
So can you tell us about your life with autism? What kind of things are different and what do you think about life? How is your relation with your family?
So can you tell us about your life with autism? What kind of things are different and what do you think about life? How is your relation with your family?
@@veramaya well my life with autism hes been very difficult to begin with in early life in my now adult life i have started to develop my own way of living and coping
I don’t exactly understand socialising with other people i do try put even at work i started a few days ago i don’t fit in but idk i still try
In terms of relationships with my siblings I don’t really have one im kind of just alone and i have a really really good relationship with my parents especially my dad we’re very similar he also most likely has autism.
Life for me i find just terrifying absolutely terrifying but i have to atleast try
I suffer really bad from anxiety somedays im literally shacking my so nervous but i still try ive gotten alot better at dealing with it in my adult life as compared to when I was younger
I just started an apprenticeship and i find it terrifying i don’t feel i really fit in and i don’t plan on mentioning my autism im not ashamed of it or anything
Maybe slightly embarrassed at times. And i probably lack some confidence in myself aswell
@@matthewsnowdon8530 look into the GAPS diet book. Apparently the gut microbiome effects it a lot.
That poor mama. I see the fight in her oura, the love in her face, the hurt in her eyes. My daughter has a low spectrum of autism, and I’m here to tell you, the medical system does this to our kids. She’s four now, and her last s**** were two years ago, and she’ll never get another one ever again! I can feel her soul fighting back, and I’ll be right here to not only fight with her, but be her shield at any given second. We see the enemy, and so does Dr. Paul.
I love this guy
God bless you 🙏🏾 😊
Ouf not easy for the parents. At the end the mother began to cry, i felt bad for her 😞
HELLO VERY GOD VIDEO FILM SUPER FANTASTIC THE LITTLE BOY SUPER STAR NICE FAMILY FOREVER YES BRAVO GOOD LAK FAMILY. HUNGARY ZOZO. ❤❤❤
Even as an adult, and watching this on video, I am bothered by the lights, clutter, and noise. Too much sensory input makes it far more difficult for me to process speech and give thorough, accurate answers. Also, for many of us the unknown and unexpected aspects of life are the most stressful. A new office, doctor, or procedure is much easier to handle if I am prepared ahead of time. Pictures of the office and doctor online can be helpful for many autistic patients.
Such an amazing doctor enjoy your retirement
We almost entirely healed our two autistic sons, 5 and 8, from autism. Our 3 year old went from no speech to speaking in full conversations and great eye contact. The son rise program is the way. We bought the book “Autism breakthrough” and followed the techniques.
Hi there, I'm so happy you have helped your children to express themselves. Autism can never be healed as it is just the result of a differently wired brain. I hope you and your children have beautiful lives. :)
@@sachikawaii hello, of course it can be healed: look up the son rise man himself Raun Kaufman. The son rise program has healed many previously diagnosed people, now brain healed. This information is out there and im making it clear for the parents that may not have hope, well here it is: SonRise Raun Kaufman!
@@sachikawaii never say never.
@@Vee-yc5ht I mean its a fact, you cant heal autism coz its not something to be healed, just managed
@@Vee-yc5ht you just did
I'm autistic too I'm 25 yrs old I have house husband (in feature) one dog parrot and more. But the weird thing for people head I'm a siren enthusiast.
My pediatrician was an absolute jerk to me as a child. I was always the problem. Even today with my current doctors I can't even get good treatment because they just brush all of my symptoms off. I'm autistic by the way so this comment may come off a little weird.
People reject people with autism and it hurts us with autism we want people to understand our disability but people don't understand
HOW TO INTERACT WITH AN AUTISTIC CHILD... (As a Pediatrician) | Dr. Paul
Yeah boy
Adam is a sweet kid please tell him he's awesome from a fan
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I have high functioning autism but I don’t have what he has
Also enough kids handicapped get too much attention when adult handicapped people need more. What if autistic adults need cuddles like that and it’s not appropriate for us and it’s ok for a kid well it shouldn’t be
GOD CREATE THE MAN ON HIS IMAGE. AMEN.
I wish that was my pediatrician
We need doctors in Dubai as well...😢
What school do you think would suit a child like the patient?
Homeschool from all of my experiences with autistic children, especially non verbal. There are plenty of groups around the US, in every state that has homeschool communities for support and all public schools have to offer services to children with disabilities regardless if they are homeschooling. No one knows your child's educational, emotional and physical needs like you as a parent do.
Do these guys know the channel 'Fathering Autism ' ? Worth watching
That’s terrible advice they exploit that poor girl
The Dad is also on the spectrum
My baby have,.also suffering epilepsy
My son literally developed under eye darkness and artistic symptoms after the shot he needed to attend daycare . Now this is something that people are avoiding to talk about. The MTFHR gene mutation also causes autism.
Absolute BS and you know it! You antivax freaks are liars. Every single study, and there have been hundreds, have shown there are ZERO links between vaccines and autism. All vaccines cause is immunity to preventable disease. You antivaxers love to have your children deathly ill
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im 12 years old and i have autism but there is many scales of autism he has one of the more worse scales of autism i have abergers and i know some of people has the scale of autism they can't speak cause they kinda have there own language
Hello, befin using external regulation of emotion until its internalised. You will refain normal neurotransmitter levels. Fix fhd srimulation problems. Do the work and he autistic will gain any practice until internalized! You are alrady perfect, you beautiful, you are able to gain facial composure and be able fo use normal expressions. You hace to practice!
It's easy to interact with kids with autism. I guess because I have autism
I understand there autism
The touching is making his sensory issues worse tho
What is his name
artistic kids are awesome don't let the doctor tell you that there's nothing wrong with your child, I knew my child was artistic since she was born they always asked me how did I know and I told them that always knew that there was something wrong with her flashlight on her eyes nothing call her by her name nothing now that somebody toke her seriously and now that she's getting the help she understands a little bit more It helps when they have sibling around because that way they can learn more , I know it's not funny but I find it funny because she's my oldest and I have a anther child and she copies everything that the baby does ages 3 and 2 years example my little one talk so when they are fighting one talks other one sign language , I told her I am not going to quite on you there's a way for everything so I teached her a couple sing language words, teachers are amazing that I show her lots of things with out no one help
The parents sound French.
My little brother has autism and can't talk he is almost 7
What is Autisum?
Autism is basically just a different way for a brain to be "wired". Autistic people are affected by difficulties in processing things such as sounds, touch, visual things and such, processing emotions from both themselves and others and struggle to regulate stimulation so make sounds or movements to help with it. There's much more to it but autistic minds are beautiful and its just another way of processing the world.
@@sachikawaii Tysm! (I'm Hearts and Crafts, I just changed users.) 💗 Ty!
I work with autistic Children boys and girls Are you using electrodes I'm Parts of the body Works pretty interesting
I have austim im not this hyper.
It's often much worse at a younger age. He may grow up to be very high functioning.
To me he seems to have more adhd then autism. He could have both but definitely has adhd. He is unable to control his impulses.
Hi
He seems kinda low functioning to me
I’m high functioning myself
The boy is too old for cuddles by people that arent his parents
I think it is more about reading the person. A lot of autistic people do not like to be hugged, may they be kids or adults does not really matter, whilst others do like to be held to be able to relax from a stressing situation. I don't think it is up anyone but the child and the parents to tell what this specific child need to function better.
@@uniquename111 I will say what I want
@@ravenbaa7989 I never said you could not. I also are able to say what i want =)