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  • @patriciabloomstine9753
    @patriciabloomstine9753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Julia I am absolutely heartsick to hear about the evil occurring in the Asian community. You are a breath of fresh air. Keep safe and don’t let the acts of a few take away your joy. Believe in people. Many of us are good and love each other. Prayers for you, your family and friends ! ❤️

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for this kind message Patricia ♥️ times have been tough but I’m sure we will get through it!

  • @annie-tan
    @annie-tan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I came across this video and I wasn’t expecting the ending but thank you for addressing the horrific murder of Christina Yuna Lee. It’s been weighing on everyone’s minds here in NYC and we’re also feeling hopeless, frustrated and fearful. It’s draining to constantly have to worry about our loved ones and to always be in a fight-or-flight mode. We’re all feeling the same way as you right now; stay safe and take care of yourself!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Annie ♥️ sending love

  • @haleyfranker
    @haleyfranker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First of all, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: your vlogs are SO chill and serene and put me on the best mood.
    Second, thank you for being so open and honest about the struggles the Asian community is facing, and thank you for showing how you give back to the community and all the hard work you are doing to help rebuild and bring awareness. It’s so important and such a great reminder to get involved and to stand up for each other. You’re so incredibly inspirational, and I really appreciate how you aren’t afraid to be real and talk about the things that need to be talked about. Stay well!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you so much Haley ♥️ I’m always a bit hesitant on sharing such candid thoughts but I felt like it needed to be said

  • @CRJR94
    @CRJR94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don’t ever apologize for speaking out the injustice in this evil world we live in, You’re brave to bring these issues to light. SILENCE TO INJUSTICE, IS A LIKE A CO-SIGN!!!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Cheri 💕

  • @thereversepolarbear
    @thereversepolarbear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think it's so amazing how much energy you put into spreading the word about this cause - the rise in hate crimes driven by racism and the effects of the pandemic towards is heart breaking. It must be very hard to handle this environment. I send you love and well wishes and energy and peace xxx

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Catherine ♥️

  • @yuanagain4988
    @yuanagain4988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sending you virtual hugs Julia! It’s a difficult time right now, and everyone is shaken up from the news, but its great to see how much you’re giving back to the community ❤️

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Yuan! ♥️

  • @DrEa1001491
    @DrEa1001491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Beautiful video as always Julia! && the ending is very powerful. I teared up hearing about this. Sending my safety vibes your way ❤️

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️ so much love, thank you

  • @beckeyparker4530
    @beckeyparker4530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Strong and beautiful! Always keep it real, prayers for a safe and healthy growth for community

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Beckey ♥️

  • @liamgallagher8421
    @liamgallagher8421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a fellow New Yorker, I can confirm how scary it’s been - even as someone who isn’t Asian or a woman. My doors are always locked and I stand in the center of the platform now. Thanks for creating safe spaces and unity where you can. It takes us all being cognizant and active to make change and create a safer New York.

  • @mcork
    @mcork 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts so openly Julia. Sometimes things get worse before they get better - stay safe!

  • @ysislucero6305
    @ysislucero6305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Julia! I enjoy watching your videos! I’m so sorry for everything that is going on. Please stay strong and take care of yourself. Is a hard world the one we’re living in right now. I send my love to you and your community. From a Mexican subscriber ❤️

  • @sarahheung622
    @sarahheung622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was watching this video with my 3 yr old, and she suddenly says "oh my god mammy, she's so beautiful! You are so beautiful girlie 💗 " she thinks you can see us cos you're talking to the camera 😂

  • @Lahlasa
    @Lahlasa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really appreciate your authenticity. My heart sank when I heard about Christina Yuna Lee and Michelle Go in the news. Everyone deserves to feel safe and I hope we can achieve that type of world one day. We must continue to lift up our communities! Thank you for all your hard work ❤️

  • @Rhonda_girl_11
    @Rhonda_girl_11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think you ended this video on the exact note that was needed. I can't imagine why any human targets another for any reason and especially race. Thank you for always being authentic and please do stay alert and in groups. ❤

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your endless support Rhonda ♥️♥️

  • @1024specialkay
    @1024specialkay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please continue the amazing videos, one of my favs to watch Julia!

  • @Books-n-mae
    @Books-n-mae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first of all your vlog is always beautiful I love your editing skills, the ending is unexpected, emotional, and strong I am so glad for your statement. Stay safe!

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a beautiful vlog, i really like you Julia, well done!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Mihaela 🥰

  • @TheMisschrisaz
    @TheMisschrisaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love rainy days too. We rarely get them in Arizona. When I heard about the tragedy in Chinatown I thought of you and your non profit. Thanks for all you do.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It sounds like we both need to live somewhere like Seattle 😂 thank you for your support ♥️

  • @RumGod
    @RumGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep shining queen!💖💛💚

  • @sashadoyle1907
    @sashadoyle1907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Julia, sending you love and hugs from across the water and I'm so sorry to hear about the recent murder and ongoing hate crimes. All I can say is hang in there and you are right to always value and prioritise your friendships and support network. xxx

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your support Sasha ♥️

  • @RanDom-bk8tt
    @RanDom-bk8tt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It would be pretencious for be to say "stay strong" or "Hang in there" when I'm also not there. The city has slowly been getting worse with crime but this year has by far been a stark rise in just overall everything. Everyday it's news about someone new being robbed or stabbed or killed or something else. It's beyong depressing because everyone is still dealing with the solitary side effects of 2 years of full blown COVID. If you feel like it's too much, I would suggest taking a break from the news while continuing to stay vigilant of the time of day and your surroundings. Keeping a keychain alarm is also something you should get just to have. I wish you well Julia. Stay safe.
    btw: I never really comment on your vidoes but they have been a from of connection and comfort for me over the past few months. Thank you for your hard work.

  • @julesatthetable
    @julesatthetable 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been thinking about Christina Yuna Lee every single day and the safety of our community is weighing heavily on my mind too. I appreciate and respect you more because you addressed this so thank you 🙏

  • @mariahalvorsen1055
    @mariahalvorsen1055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yey happy to see you again :)

    • @mariahalvorsen1055
      @mariahalvorsen1055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also, sending lots of positive thoughts your way

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Maria! ♥️

  • @waggermama
    @waggermama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hearing you and sending love your way, and yes, please do speak out as you feel the need. I value your videos for their peaceful quality, but it’s also important to be real, and sadly that includes acknowledging the appalling violence against women and against the Asian community. I hope your hard work helps ❤️

  • @shaynemarieagumbay2206
    @shaynemarieagumbay2206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Virtual hug 🤗 take good care of yourself!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you shayne 🤗

  • @j0yceque
    @j0yceque 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so early! So excited to see a new video from you.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehe ty for your support Joyce ♥️

  • @Phantomstories1831
    @Phantomstories1831 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had no idea about Asian hate thanks for sharing im part Asian we don't get much bad stuff in Canada always stay safe xo

  • @misisadventures
    @misisadventures 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hugs 😟

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ♥️

  • @shreya503
    @shreya503 ปีที่แล้ว

    My heart break when I listen about what's happening to asian community as an Indian I don't know what's really happen out of my country really so it's broke my heart more power to you girl and love from India I love your videos alot

  • @davidparnell3241
    @davidparnell3241 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice

  • @user-tq1un4ix1i
    @user-tq1un4ix1i 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    纽约的晚上真的好漂亮

  • @supriyashrestha3707
    @supriyashrestha3707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there any fb pages I can connect to related to asian community in facebook? I am scared I have never stepped out of my country now I am planning to move to nyc all alone by myself will I be safe I am scared 😷

  • @pate7817
    @pate7817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am horrified about what is happening to your Asian community. I live in PA and it's not really covered in MSM which is inexcusable. Prayers for everyone's safety and wellness and hopefully things can get turned around soon so you can feel free to enjoy your life without fear.

  • @missOhdrey
    @missOhdrey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm white (caucasian) but I will never shut up about these racial issues and inequality. It's infuriating because even if we talk about it, there is no end to the violence. I'm so so sorry you have to feel unsafe in your own community it honestly breaks my heart. But you are an inspiration for being such a busy young woman and still giving your time for the non profit, I know that even if it may seem like it's not enough it IS making a difference. Sending you strength and love xx

  • @jamiebourgault5674
    @jamiebourgault5674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so sorry about the women that were killed its horrendous but its not only Asian women its all women in NY and all over the world my sister lives in Manhattan and she has been mugged twice once had to go to ghe hospital and she is white it doesn't matter what race you are imo its whoever these evil people set their sights on on any given day i pray for all the beautiful women out there wherever you are to stay safe!!.❤❤❤❤

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I hope your sister is ok and is recovering both physically and emotionally. I can’t imagine 😔 please stay safe ♥️

    • @jamiebourgault5674
      @jamiebourgault5674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei yes my sister is ok thank you so much for asking your so sweet and ill pray for all your friends and all the beautiful women out there to be safe!!😊

    • @jamiebourgault5674
      @jamiebourgault5674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei yes she is now thank you for asking you stay safe out there!!😊

  • @marielacintron289
    @marielacintron289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your videos. I just feel you are only willing to help the Asian community and don’t acknowledge any other races. Many people are being killed, not just Asians. There are plenty of other communities who need food drives, not just Asians. You seem to only help your kind. Are you racist?

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi Mariela! I totally agree that there are so many communities out there in need of help and we can all do more to be better allies. Concentrating my efforts to help one community does not mean that I don’t support others. If you also take some time to better understand my non-profit and what we do, you would also know that we do our best to distribute hot meals to food-insecure places outside of the Asian community and have been amplifying voices of other minority groups throughout these hard times as well. I hope you can understand my choice to focus on my community in light of recent events, and in the meantime, I’d love to hear more from you about how I can be a better ally to yours :)

    • @juliebled5919
      @juliebled5919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliafei You answered with so much class to this troll I would have just alienated this person lmao. I'm a vegan and I often hear critics such as "bUt wHaT aBoUT HuMaNs THoUgH? You don't care about people you're a terrible person etc".
      My point is don't bother about these types of comments, you're already doing way more than the majority of people and I personnally feel inspired :)
      Love from France