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Supply, supply, supply.
Deny, deny, deny.
It's why oh why oh why I
Stay Healthy!!
Love your rhyme in time!!
Be our own Valentine.❤
Awesome! 😂
Hilarious...but SO SO TRUE!
Once you realize who they are, walk away forever. Smile
I wonder who wrote the child is the father of the man or the poem children lives what they learnt
They need someone to project all their insecurities and flaws and failures onto
Yup. It's pretty much overflowing out of them and needs somewhere to go, and conveniently there's a scapegoat
The hate may seem to not be there UNTIL you challenge them, have a different opinion, or dare to be yourself! Then you discover the love bombing was only skin deep and what's underneath is sheer contempt, denial and rejection! Such a harsh awakening until you realize they are the ones who suffer the most. 😕
Without us, they are nothing. They aren’t going to prop up themselves 😂
Haha exactly!
They are incapable of self-regulation
And then when they want to be nice, it feels completely phony. That should be enough to tell you that this is not a relationship based on authenticity and trust. It's safer to treat a Narc like the invalid they are, let someone else deal with them and go live your life! Sounds rough but the effects of dealing with them longterm makes it a no holds barred fight for life and you're always gonna lose
They also like to show off the game it took them yrs. to master!
That's just so hateful . Narcs aren't able to love , so they are consumed with HATE & everything that goes with it . Cruelty is a companion , a close companion with a narc , it causes such pain that they certainly fuel themselves fully with the torture they perpetuate.
Fear Rage Envy Revenge Denial on an endless loop
@@caroleminke6116 ... exactly 👍🏻
@@caroleminke6116 Masked with Pride
@@caroleminke6116Yep, nine times out of ten, you'll realise the reality has nothing to do with the image they try to project. One owner in our building have orders, wrote threatening emails, slandered victims etc. Turned out she was threatened with legal action for not paying levies by strata manager, was in debt and thankfully had to sell and move. Envy, greed, hate all part of the deal. Can't stand to see other people happy or financially better managed.
That was me…flunky. Recovering flunky.
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Same, same 😂❤
Glad you are recovering 😊
I've experienced this in relationships. Men especially think women have no right to say 'no' about ANYTHING. One on our home owners association committee kept harassing me to do his work on the committee. I resigned from the Committee the moment he elected himself. Not on the committee but still expected to do work for him all the while being blamed for HIS self inflicted lack of responsibility and laziness and stupidity. No way!
@TheMazinoz Just say no to scapegoatism! Hehe. Keep rocking, baby!
Co dependent in need of you becoming Co dependent equals two lost souls
True. I have zero need to be narcissistic supply and healthy self respect to play any roles the narcissist has assigned to me. Thank you dr Carter ❤️
As always, thanks Doc.
How do they respect themselves and feel great when they ruin the lives of others and cause pain and distress?
That's easy it boosts their ego when they make somebody else go down whether it's feelings or something else that happens to them they don't care it where are their supply and it makes them feel really good when something bad happens to us if they can make us feel bad and I can't be like that cuz I have too much empathy
@jeannierusso2134 makes no sense to me. I feel bad if I hurt someone and I feel good when I help them. Narcissists have a damaged conscience.
Enablers I think give them the false impression that what they are doing is ok. In that regard the enablers are almost as bad as them.
@@michelepascoe6068 They don't, deep down, they just avoid all self-reflection. Otherwise, they'd see that how they mistreat others to make themselves feel superior is a projection of their own insecurities self-loathing, and profound emptiness.
@yoyoma17 true. Enablers validate the victim-playing and behind-the-back slander. Good point.
Yes, this action has become boring quicker than ever before. Thank you, Dr. Carter. Your content is more appreciated than you know . 😊 🙏 ✌️
Narcissists are codependent.
Because you believe in goodness they think you are a fool. It doesn't make them right. They will never see it, not even if you get free.
Thanks Doc feel the love💙💙
Hard to believe they need you when they give you the silent treatment and then discard you...all the while appearing as a calm confident person....who is wanting you to make sure you know they don't need you...
@Cod120sc, It's their pride.
Thank you Dr. Les you are saving so many women from madness........
So pleased.
I appreciate it they used me for a little bit it won't happen no more I'm better now I sure do appreciate you thanks for
That's absolutely true actually. I've noticed this time and time again. However, I cannot and will not take it any more.
Dr. Carter, you are ALWAYS on point on this subject matter. Thank you for your wisdom. It helps me greatly. 🙏🏼
Glad it was helpful!
Oh Crikey! This is so true! Thank you Dr C 💜💜💜
Thank you ❤
Yes and amen to that!!!! 🎉🎉👏👏👏👏👏
Spot on! This is why I asked him to leave.
@@christinejason5756 yes too many head games for me to figure out grown men acting like little kids silent treatments gas lighting the whole nine yards is just ridiculous grow up mine is going on 60 in acts like a little child inside of a grown man's body
What's really sad about the whole thing is I'm not trying to be cruel it's hard for me to do this and in the beginning they were so nice so they are capable of being nice when they want something if there's nothing in it for them they go back to being their nasty selves again if you can't fuel them or do something for them they don't want you around and guess what that's fine with me cuz I'm not going to keep catering to your ass while you sit back and do nothing and give me nothing
Well said❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this!! ❤
Thank u Team Healthy!
Quite true! Better to Day good by!!!!!
Thank you for this reminder. It's so true
Need is blame victim game
So True
Exactly they just want to be heard
I've just discovered that a narcissist (who I exposed) has flunkymonkeys in the local pharmacy. They continue to abuse and lose my meds script. They're very clever, in a sick way, at commiting vile, unprovable offences. (sorry I'm out of context doc, but I like your vids).
Can you get meds elsewhere or even mail??
@TheMazinoz thanks . I've sorted it now .
amen!❤️🔥
Very true, Sir!
I’ve noticed that.
Exactly
Facts 🤔
So true
What to do if a child is at the mercy of a parent like this?
Accurate.....
Yuppp
sadism
Guess what its like to have one as a landlord!!!!
This happens in churches too.
Correct
Mientras me tratan ❤️🩹 no me importaría ser su ❤️ hombro de apollar.
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He doc
I would really like a half hour chat with you
If possible please
My name is Hani Kakish
I live in Toronto canada
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😢🙏❤️🩹
All his friends were lowlifes.they made him feel good 👍...sick
😂😂😂