Poor girl she was just a scapegoat all her life to her family Her sister the golden child And her mother neglecting her And not to mention they are bullying her ffs
The second family has a weak, spineless and passive father and his wife is taking on the whole load. He doesn't want to be the bad guy at the cost of his marriage and family peace.
It doesn't have to be this way. Every teenager is a raging hormonal monster. But in our family of five daughters, we never raised our voices. I was strict, manners, respect and consequences. They are all wonderful adults. But my children are "gentle parenting " and I don't say a single word. Even when one younger son, screams, hits, bites.....I just walk away. Those children NEVER MISBEHAVE with me. I made my intentions clear. I will not tolerate bullshite.
I’m so glad my kids are past the adolescent stage and are now well balanced respectful adults. It was a hard slog sometimes but the louder you shout the louder they shout that’s what I’ve found out the hard way lol
Hurt, fear and frustration. I've ALWAYS felt it's my job to 'back up' what the mothers' of my kids tell our children. It's NOT my job to do 'her' parenting, otherwise, SHE has NO authority. I"M THEIR AUTHORITY if they expect ME to do THEIR JOB as parents.
Brilliant Dr.Phil man had I not slowed myself down im life Id be working with Dr.Phil Producing & writing, Im naturally talented, trained & passionate about what he does having so much of the same ideas as him simultaneously. You enspire me Dr.Phil & you helped save me.
Children are not born bad. This is the results of bad parenting. Parents need to remember that you are raising future adults and the bad behavior should not be rewarded. Its not so cute when they're acting like brats at 25.
@@moniqueengleman873 There's no excuse for her behavior but I feel that calling a 14 year old girl revolting over an emotionally neglectful mother a brat isn't necessarily the best way to go about teaching respect.
I been leaving emails since day I started watching Dr Phil, since 202I, and I ain't have any luck 😢, I think Dr Phil ans many other shows they hand pick who they want to help while other suffer badily, have bruises the size of a soft ball 😢 ony legs and back from my kids I've called many therapists and it has gotten worse😢😢😢😢 I've had law enforcement for help and nothin 😭, I pray things gets better cuz as a mom I feel one day I'm not guna be here cuz of the abuse 😢😢😢😢
Her mother is a narcissist my mother was a narcissist so I know when I know a narcissist when I see one my mother used to berate me put me down my father molested me growing up and when I told her you allowed him to come back around and he hurt me he did things to me she looked at me and said you liked it my mom was sick severely mentally deranged warped and tainted she passed away last year October 2nd of 2023 what's the age of 67 my father was abusive to her she was the oldest daughter of 11 children she was the fourth oldest child but the oldest girl she paid her way through high school she paid her own tuition to go to private school parochial school she worked and worked from the age of like 11:00 until she couldn't do it anymore my mother had a very rough life childhood adulthood marriage everything she was abandoned she was alone and she died alone and I feel like she just built up so much hate animosity and then she just hated everybody hated the world she hated life and she took it out on on everybody her own siblings didn't talk to her end because their nieces and nephews we're really close when I was younger when we moved away from New York to Delaware for everything changed and not for the better 😢
The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law".
The sad thing is my state and town if u discipline yr child, everyone in my town will call cps for a year since i been back ive had no joke 7+ calls on me for false reports 😢 id do anything to get help here cuz its ridiculous😢😢 i lock myself in my room all the time cuz im in that muxh fear, brings me back when I was with my abusive ex bf, praying for my small family 🙏🏻
"She's taking it totally out of context" in what context is it okay to say that you hate your child?
YES!!! i dont care the reason you should never say you hate your child especially not to them or in front of them
The mother allowed it from day one.
She just said she hates the way she acts. Did you guys not listen
To call your kid a mistake is asking for them to be difficult
Poor girl she was just a scapegoat all her life to her family
Her sister the golden child
And her mother neglecting her
And not to mention they are bullying her ffs
Mom’s the Problem
Exactly!!! She didn't raise her daughter and won't acknowledge she created this monster
Poor daughter
#2 the step mother had zero tears.
This mother is a narcissist! It’s not ok to hate your own child! Despicable! 😡
She said she hates the way she acts. That’s very reasonable with a spoiled brat like this
That's a BIG part of the problem....parents have stopped being PARENTS and are trying to be friends with their children.
What should take 30 minutes takes 3 hours? How about, "thank you for raking for three hours"? Positive reinforcement.
I bet it didn't take 3 hours.
Mom blames everyone but herself. Mom she’s the problem not the child.
Definitely, Mom is the problem. She created this monster.
I would be knocked into next week.
The second family has a weak, spineless and passive father and his wife is taking on the whole load. He doesn't want to be the bad guy at the cost of his marriage and family peace.
The father is delusional
And he spoiled that boy a lot
Well as a mother you created that
Create the monster then blame the monster. Typical narcissistic parenting. The mom is a demon.
Child FREE thankfully 😂🎉😂
amen to that😭
Yay childfree gang
They’re so worth it, but yes, being a parent is a massive responsibility.
It doesn't have to be this way. Every teenager is a raging hormonal monster.
But in our family of five daughters, we never raised our voices.
I was strict, manners, respect and consequences.
They are all wonderful adults. But my children are "gentle parenting "
and I don't say a single word. Even when one younger son, screams, hits, bites.....I just walk away. Those children NEVER MISBEHAVE with me. I made my intentions clear. I will not tolerate bullshite.
@@moniqueengleman873
GREAT PARENTING & “SCREAMS, HITS & BITES”
IN THE SAME SENTENCE?
Spankings WORK!
Children only behave how parents let them behave .
I’m so glad my kids are past the adolescent stage and are now well balanced respectful adults. It was a hard slog sometimes but the louder you shout the louder they shout that’s what I’ve found out the hard way lol
Hurt, fear and frustration. I've ALWAYS felt it's my job to 'back up' what the mothers' of my kids tell our children. It's NOT my job to do 'her' parenting, otherwise, SHE has NO authority. I"M THEIR AUTHORITY if they expect ME to do THEIR JOB as parents.
Family dinner one time per week?? That’s bizarre in itself
I agree, once a month is so much more reasonable. Maybe even once a year.
Brilliant Dr.Phil man had I not slowed myself down im life Id be working with Dr.Phil Producing & writing, Im naturally talented, trained & passionate about what he does having so much of the same ideas as him simultaneously. You enspire me Dr.Phil & you helped save me.
Children are not born bad. This is the results of bad parenting. Parents need to remember that you are raising future adults and the bad behavior should not be rewarded. Its not so cute when they're acting like brats at 25.
Be a parent not friend she would not talking if she my child you teach people how to treat you my mother never stood for sass talk
She wants respect then learn treat your mother better
Thank God I don’t have kids.
Little girl has a chronic anxiety problem
Definitely. There's got to be trauma given the small bit we've heard.
@asciidude we all have trauma. No excuses.
The Mom is the problem, and the daughter is a total brat. Master Manipulation
@@moniqueengleman873 There's no excuse for her behavior but I feel that calling a 14 year old girl revolting over an emotionally neglectful mother a brat isn't necessarily the best way to go about teaching respect.
I want to call Mr. Phil about something
You can't call him sorry.leave a email
His shows have ended some time ago, these are all reruns...now he's into other things.
I been leaving emails since day I started watching Dr Phil, since 202I, and I ain't have any luck 😢, I think Dr Phil ans many other shows they hand pick who they want to help while other suffer badily,
have bruises the size of a soft ball 😢 ony legs and back from my kids I've called many therapists and it has gotten worse😢😢😢😢 I've had law enforcement for help and nothin 😭, I pray things gets better cuz as a mom I feel one day I'm not guna be here cuz of the abuse 😢😢😢😢
@@perfectlyimperfect9129 careful I can be getting targeted
@QUEEN_Alpha_Mama86 Abuse 😢from your children
Anybody know when this was filmed?
My question also!
Her mother is a narcissist my mother was a narcissist so I know when I know a narcissist when I see one my mother used to berate me put me down my father molested me growing up and when I told her you allowed him to come back around and he hurt me he did things to me she looked at me and said you liked it my mom was sick severely mentally deranged warped and tainted she passed away last year October 2nd of 2023 what's the age of 67 my father was abusive to her she was the oldest daughter of 11 children she was the fourth oldest child but the oldest girl she paid her way through high school she paid her own tuition to go to private school parochial school she worked and worked from the age of like 11:00 until she couldn't do it anymore my mother had a very rough life childhood adulthood marriage everything she was abandoned she was alone and she died alone and I feel like she just built up so much hate animosity and then she just hated everybody hated the world she hated life and she took it out on on everybody her own siblings didn't talk to her end because their nieces and nephews we're really close when I was younger when we moved away from New York to Delaware for everything changed and not for the better 😢
Adhd and pda
No one ecoects the 14 year old to be perfect. She just needs a to stop being a rude brat.
The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law".
The sad thing is my state and town if u discipline yr child, everyone in my town will call cps for a year since i been back ive had no joke 7+ calls on me for false reports 😢 id do anything to get help here cuz its ridiculous😢😢 i lock myself in my room all the time cuz im in that muxh fear, brings me back when I was with my abusive ex bf, praying for my small family 🙏🏻
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