I usually say you know what, I have to take care of something right quick, I will call you back in ten minutes....we all know how long that ten minutes really is 🤷🏽♀️
I think it's tacky to ask women who don't have kids when they're going to have kids. Or try to convince women with no kids to have kids. Mind your business!
I look at having kids (my two included) like I look at climbing Mount Everest....is it a beautiful climb filled with amazing sights & accomplishments along the way? Yes. Will it almost kill you? (and succeed sometimes) Yes. Can you live a fulfilled & blessed life without doing either? You betcha :) I don't recommend either to people :D
I think its tacky when a family member plays the 'we're family we need to stick together' card after they have caused or enabled uncomfortable situations.
I think its tacky to call and invite someone to something the same day its happening and then get an attitude when they dont rearrange their schedule to meet your last minute need.
@@cherylkay1636 Girl, I did this just yesterday. 🤦🏾♀️ A friend invited me to her wedding but sent me the info a few days before the event and then I was like 'Nah, I can't make that.' I'll send her a gift though.
Another Tacky is disrespecting your child's teacher in front of your child. You and the teacher should be a team working together for the better of your child's education. Not you and your child working together to see how much disrespect y'all can get away with. It's all fun and games until it's not. I J S 😲
This is true yet debatable. I've seen some teachers be downright disrespectful to students/parents even when the parent is being respectful to the teacher. My second grade teacher yanked me by my pigtails because she thought I put away a game board the class was playing with. We would have these math game boards and every round switch desk to play on a different board, but because the girl that was sitting at the desk got the answer wrong, she put the board inside the desk and I, being the one to sit at the desk next, got in trouble for it. I told my mom and my mom got disrespected, so the next day my dad showed up and got disrespectful and I never had to have him show up again at any school.
I agree, as long as there is no abuse and humiliation on behalf of the teacher. I would also add that in family situations, when you are an adult, trying to correct younger family members, and older family members want to come in and play defence for no reason. Like, you asked me to help guide the young ones, but when I try to set boundaries, you want to come in an play good cop.
This preacher and his wife came to visit my great grandmother when she was sick. They came in and my great grandmother said “Oh so you’re the one he left my cousin for?” The couple had been married for years. My great grandmother had dementia. Yet she remembered that.
It's tacky when I'm in the phone with you and you start talking to someone who just comes in the room. ESPECIALLY when you don't even ask me to hold on!
i agree it's tacky while conversing with a friend about your problem, she immediately does a one-upmanship about hers. It's the last time I'd share with her.
It’s tacky to stop by someone’s house then get mad when they don’t let you come inside. It’s tacky to ask somebody for the money they owe you around other people. Like dang couldn’t you take her aside? I be embarrassed for them.
@@GodlyWisdom_Discernment no. Sometimes they are good people dealing with trifling. My cousin pulled this on my sister and kept telling her she didn’t have the money to pay her back while she was bragging to us about what she was buying for her grandkids and kids for Christmas. She borrowed the money, told my sister to go buy something and mail it to her bc they didn’t have it in her area and she would send the check in September. When Sis threatened to air her business to the family, the money showed up. Some people only respond to shame. My sister will give you the world but don’t play with her money.
Hey! I say it depends. If you've asked respectfully (multiple times) and you know for a fact they have your money, I say get your money any way you can. I detest trifling.
Tacky- fathering someone else kid, when your own kid don’t know you. Tacky-When you have like 9 kids and 6 mothers and didn’t marry anyone of the mothers! Tacky- tear someone else down to build yourself up. Tacky- blame someone else for your failures. Believing your perfect. Tacky- treat people like trash but when you are treated the same, it’s tragic. No one is perfect. Admit flaws
It’s tacky when you’re the next customer waiting in a long line, a new register opens, & the person behind you cuts you off to get to the newly opened register.
Girl, you SO right about people talking LOUD on their cell phones! I've learned a lil' bit too much 'bout folks by my just standing in lines somewhere -- !!
I think it is tacky when every time any kind of service truck pulls up , pest control, electrician, hvac - anything in front of my house my neighbor comes immediately over to ask what is going on .. every time.. she even sat outside to watch my furniture delivery folks this weekend … SAT OUTSIDE.. and told a neighbor after that they looked suspicious.. they were hard working nice young men.... Umm they delivered a living room set and it was the 10th deliver of the day, overworked, tired ok, but thugs .. uh no you didn’t! And they were fantastic!
Honestly, as I have gotten older, I like my peace and quiet. I like my alone time. I appreciate, cherish and guard all of it very much. You might say that I live in a bubble in my own world, but hey, I like spending time with myself and can very much entertain myself just fine and I really don't need all the chaos the world offers these days.
I'm with you Page! I protect it at all costs! I'll be called the wallflower, the lame, the square. But as soon as the ISH hits the fan, y'all suddenly looking for MY "soft place to land"! No ma'am...I'm good! 😉😌
I think it's tacky as hell when you've worked through the pandemic, got all the stimulus checks, and all the child tax credits for 3 kids and you refuse to pay your rent. Pay where you stay. Tacky as hell! I want my money Sis. 🤷🏾♀️
How about if you DIDN’T work through the pandemic, got all the stimulus checks, unemployment, CARES Act supplemental unemployment, child tax credits, and you refuse to pay your rent. Oh, and socialized and didn’t keep mouth AND nose covered when away from home.
I know one of those. One worked and collected unemployment and is behind on rent. Has a court date this month. Yet on social media fronting and stunting.
Lol, I paid rent on time all Pandemonium long. I was not tempted to "make arrangements " per my landlord. Why harass me when I don't need it and now the landlords won't accept federal help. What!?
fo reaaalllll that is so rude,, i hate it when i'm at the grocery store and the cashier just acts like her personal convo is soo much important than their job
- When people be watching videos on their phones in public without headphones -When people are done at the checkout and they take their time getting their stuff together, No! Grab your stuff and settle up on your own time! - People who don’t turn their music down when they’re in the drive up (McDonald’s is still a place a business, not the club) - People who hit or yell, threaten, or swear at their kids in public. - People who don’t at least ATTEMPT to take the door when someone else is holding it for you. -When you’re in front of an item at the grocery store looking at something, and Karen behind you starts huffin’ and puffin’ instead of just saying excuse me -When people don’t flush those paper toilet seat covers they put on the toilet when they go -When people park in the curbside pickup spots when they’re going INTO the store or park in the fire lane (I don’t care if you’re “only gonna be a minute,” it don’t won’t like that) I’m done for now!
Nice list! However.... I'll have to disagree with you about the grocery line, because i know I'm the one who takes her time placing the bank card perfectly in my wallet and folding the receipt up in 6 equal parts... When it's your turn, it's your turn 🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂😂😂💜
Lol Oh when you go to Walmart and there’s no parking space so you see a person walkout heading to their car and you follow them until they get to their car and they have about 6 bags and they have to inspect every single bag before they put it in their car just to piss you off and waste your time knowing good and well that you’re waiting on that spot. Or when someone calls you and places you on hold.
Ummm....I can't stand folks like you...when the check out person is finish checking me out you the one in the back ready to go and I have to finish putting my groceries in my basket, money in my purse, receipt too, gathering all my stuff together... I wasn't done in the first place when betty the cashier decided to move on to you...while you hitting my basket with your basket trying to rush me...that's why I take my time and make you wait till I'm DONE
Glad you took some me time. We all need self-care eer once in a while. Tacky is when folks get mad at you because they can't draw you into their drama.
As long as you're taking care of yourself and getting your proper RESS, when you upload is when you upload, Mrs. EJ. I will replay every video until I get that bell notification. Plus... 🗣️ It's your birthday month
Gdm.@@deannaterry6875 Yes I agree with U. We'll be here wen U return, After U take/get a break, plenty rest. Wait, wats up with Lil. Sis. EJ? Did I ms some thing. Is she ill/sick, need a break from Utube or wats up? Or Just
Good morning@@Jesus.SaVeS77 I believe we were talking about her saying she's been inconsistent due to a lot going on. Which I think we can all relate with alot going. (Well, I know I can. lol) I was just letting her know we're here. ❤️
You had me even tho I'm guilty of some of these. But when you said how do you get a loan for school but can't get a loan for a home! Whew! You said a whole WORD!🙌🏽 And they're predatory at that! That's the system working like a finely tuned engine, lining us up and knocking us down at every turn!
People with no filter are tacky. Like you said, getting all up in folk’s business. People who are dropping by my apartment all willy nilly and bringing company with them to see my apartment that I never invited them to in the first. 🤷🏾♀️
I work in a grocery store and I think it's tacky when customers complain to staff about things they have absolutely no control over. Don't like our mask policy? Tell it to the owner! I don't make enough money to argue with stupid.
🙌 From someone who works in retail, thank you! Sir/Ma'am, neither I nor my cashier are involved with the lack of hiring, or the making of policies for this establishment. Take it up with corporate!
It's tacky when you invite family over for a party you are having at your house, but start calling the family members that were invited to stop at the grocery store to bring items they need for the party AND never offer to pay you what you spent! I have stopped visiting family for that reason and have basically stopped associating with them. I don't have time for that nonsense!!
Or when your homegirl rants about her sorry "dude" (that she thinks she's in a real relationship with) and you tell her he's toxic. She then starts CAPING FOR HIM.
Had a divorced coworker with 3 kids in her 40s do this about a dude whose child support she was paying, who lent him over $5000 for his “business,” he never paid back, used tons of office paper to print his workers comp papers, and would fight with loudly in the office, but he wouldn’t claim her. I told her he was using her then she got diagnosed with cancer and she made it a point to tell me he was a good dude, because he called to check on her regularly 🙆🏿♀️.
I love when u do these kind of videos. I think it’s tacky to ask family for money bc ur broke bc u bought the newest iPhone or item. Like pay yo bills first.
I don’t like when you greet someone with ‘Hey, how are you?’ …..and then they tell you….in excruciating detail. Also, don’t ask for my opinion and then get mad when I tell you and you don’t agree….
On BOTH counts!! That second half for me… coworker was going through separation, then divorce, but got pregnant by another fella in the meanwhile. Since I knew she wanted/wants more kids (already has two) to be careful and wait until the ink is dry on the papers. NOPE! Pregnant. Then told her the soon to be ex will give her hell. It happened! I finally let her know that I’m 57yrs old for a reason and have done some things and seen things… she didn’t listen. So much so that when she did find out she was pregnant, she was scared to tell me. Let her know that I’m not here to judge anyone… just be prepared for the ex’s nonsense.
What's tacky is that when a person tries to play detective when someone in the neighborhood passes away. Asking questions like did they have life insurance, why is so and so in the obit, you know they wasn't married. #TackyAsHell
It’s tacky when you have a party and ask everyone to bring something. If you can’t afford it, don’t have a party. It’s tacky to have a party and ask for cash gifts only. Is this a party or a fundraiser? It’s tacky to show up to an event late dressed to the nines with no gift. It’s tacky to not send thank you cards or at least a text for wedding, shower gifts. It’s tacky to not RSVP and just show up to an event. It’s tacky to show up to events with folks that weren’t invited.
I think it's still tacky when: You wear a pajamas, bonnet/scarf on your head in public ( y'all know Monique covered this, yet I'm still seeing it. Just tacky). Bumping music loudly on your phone in public places like the grocery store. Super tacky!
I agree completely….. just yesterday I saw two females with nightshirts on from Walmart(I have several of them) one in Walmart and the other in the grocery store like that’s cute or that no one is gonna notice!👀🤔just tacky!!!!
😝 let me tell you something sistahs, I do none of those but I will defend the women in the bonnet…. Becoz I live in the town if I jump outta my house to get bread really quick or whatever, I ain’t dressing up and combing my hair….. When the woman from far coming, they have to do that because coming to the ‘town’ is going out. For women who live in town, they’re going outside and that’s their business….. 😂😂
@@ashdluciangurl I feel you sis! I’m talking about the ones who are shopping(buggy full of groceries) or even wit your homegurl and she’s shopping or in the mall….. I just don’t get it 🤔🤔🤔
Yaasss OMG, i was at the eye dr and a younger guy was playing his profanity-laced music in the waiting room. Tacky, rude, proof of no home training, etc. And the mother was sitting right there!
I'd give my significant other a face of why are you lying? There was no proposal, no ring, no marriage....So how am I your wife? Now these people think we're married 🙄 So when we're no longer together, they'll think we're divorced. I have a problem with this one. I don't like lies. My face has no filter.
I was just thinking this when I saw this headline on today's news feed front page: 'Arnie Schwarzenegger Wishes Son By Former Mistress Happy Birthday'. I was like, WTF! That is messy as hell! Did the young man ask to be the product of an affair between Arnold and the family housekeeper? Obviously not, but it happened--*24 years ago*--so I think the press needs to move past it and address the young man much more respectfully by his name (which is Joseph Baena). EDIT: I just checked and the backlash must have been swift and intense because the headline changed to 'Arnie Wishes Youngest Son Happy Birthday'! 😄
@@jonniehickson5599 Yes he does. He seems well-raised too, as I've never heard anything crazy happening with him and even though Arnold was dead wrong for cheating on Maria, he has been a good father to all of his children.
EJ, girl... The last one hit my spirit lol I literally recently went through a situation where someone continued to lie to my face when I found the the truth, the evidence! How do people fix they mouth to lie like that?
I'm with you on all of this! I think it's tacky when people leave buggies out in the parking lot. I actually saw a lady at Food Lion leave one beside her car when the cart corral was only two spaces away.
Tacky is showing up to an event with nothing, not a gift, not a dish cups or spoons. Its also tacky to send somebody your cashapp on your birthday, if somebody wants to get you something they will
When you do someone a favor (like holding the door) and they walk by without saying thank you When you say good morning and they just nod instead of replying When you meet that friend who just got married and all they talk about is their spouse who isn't even present (nothing wrong with venting or making some comments but it's tacky when that's ALL they talk about)
I think it's tacky when people buy say a North face jacket or new baseball hat and just walk around with the tag on it hanging so everybody knows how much they pay for it
I agree. I'll be on the bus or walking around in the neighborhood. I can hear your entire conversation. Don't get upset with me if I start eavesdropping. you are the one who inviting me in to your business.
It's tacky when folks ask you for a recipe *right after* you just told them it was a family secret. 🤫 It's tacky to interrupt two people talking. It's tacky as hell for one of those two people to stop the conversation already in progress to start a new conversation with the person who just interrupted. I can go on and on.
When someone keeps saying "girl we need to come visit you at the ranch" and they ALWAYS have an excuse for never making it out to see you, BUT they expect YOU to come to the city to hang with them and do all of what THEY want to do. No ma'am!
I'm so glad EJ that you went after your dreams. I love your take on things. You are on point here; you are refreshing, clever, entertaining and you and your husband are naturally gifted. A great pair. Thanks for the laughs. ❤
Stop telling her ANYTHING!!! Had to do that with BOTH of my parents. My life is much smoother now and they are salty cause they don't know CRAP. 🤩😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Uuumm my lovely sister did that… event was at 3p… calls from the mall at 5:30p… “how do I get there from the mall?” My answer: oh by the time you get here, everybody will most likely be gone sine it started almost THREE HRS AGO. I better go and continue to hostess. See you later. (Click up)
Yes, so rude! or they don't show up at all and don't at least call to inform you. Then later in your face and act like nothing happened. I'll call you out. Then move on, literally. No need for contact.
When your extrovert “friend” tells you they respect you and how you need your solitude to decompress yet they expect you to be at their beck and call 😡
Strange… I had a old white guy ask me that at the meat counter… I turned to him and asked it I knew him. Then I continued ordering my salmon. The meat counter guy said nothing… 🤓
It’s tacky to ask for an invitation to an event after you realize you’re not on the guest list, and then not show up once accommodations have been made to include you.
I think "It's Tacky" when you are on the phone with someone and they get another call on the other line and they click over and leave you hanging on the other line, like FOREVER!!!!!
I sooooo agree with all of these!! It made me remember a “call me if you need me”. I called needing to go to a grocery store and she said “I am not going that way”😳. Later she called me to complain about someone telling her to call if she needed anything and then not answering her call. I just blinked.
Yep the ‘couples arguing in front of guests’ happens to me ALL the time. It’s awkward and it’s pretty lame. To me that tells me how much respect you have for your guests and more importantly for yourself.
gawd, i love the way you express yourself! you hit on the everyday occurrences and societal ways, good and putrid! you are the modern day Mark Twain. You have something to say, most oftenly humorous, about the current state of events. i can't wait to come home from work and see what issue you're gonna tackle next! thank you so much! i so much appreciate you and your one of a kind humour! i love to share your videos!
I think it's tacky when ppl who work at an establishment don't speak to patrons/guests e.g. gyms, restaurants, and stores. I don't even care if it's a fake hello, just speak rude behinds.😁
Two things I’ve learned in my 33 years of being on this earth is that it’s very tacky to not mind yo on business and to not have your finances in order. Also, it’s tacky to not have humility. That’s very tacky.
#1.I believe it's tacky when you stop by my house without permission and expect to come in. #2. I also believe it's tacky to call me on facetime unscheduled. 🤷🏿♀️
😍EJ💯 ... I agree that Messy is NOT cute or to be envied ✔️ People need to get back to private and confidential, need to know basis ✔️ Tacky to me is venting or confronting people on Facebook rather than face to face, especially if you just left them, or worse yet they're in the next room. It doesn't solve any issues and your drama 🎭 becomes cheap entertainment for your followers. I J S. 😉
I think it was tacky when I brought my female friend to Thanksgiving, and my cousin proceeds to ask me questions about my Ex! Then she made comments about how she just knew that me and my Ex would be together forever! She looked stupid when my female friend proceeded to answer all her questions about my Ex in GREAT detail... Yeah! You thought you were being messy when in reality my female friend is JUST a friend and she's actually CLOSE friends with my Ex... The 3 of us were close WAY before me and my Ex started dating, and we remained close afterwards!
Mmk...side note....I would like to hear from Miss Jackie on the lone subject of folks being “tacky” and/or OBNOXIOUS on the cell phone. Please and thank you🙏🏻❤️
Too funny! I heard your skit on The Ricky Smiley Morning Show today!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 (Hopefully, they weren’t tacky and didn’t give you any props - in a monetary transaction!)
Asking the decedents immediate family “how did they pass?”. Can we stop, it’s tacky and nosy!? Does the way the person passed make them less dead or the grief less real? Find something else to say....
It's tacky when someone calls you then starts having an entire conversation with someone else in the background.
I. Cannot. Stand. That!
When I tell you I HATE that, K just hang up
I hang up on them. 🤷🏿♀️
At that point I just be like call me back
I usually say you know what, I have to take care of something right quick, I will call you back in ten minutes....we all know how long that ten minutes really is 🤷🏽♀️
I think it's tacky to ask women who don't have kids when they're going to have kids. Or try to convince women with no kids to have kids. Mind your business!
Lol I felt that. I'm asked more often now since these 30's hit.😅
@@LaLa_856 that happened to me too in my 30s... In my 50s, now, I just get funny looks.
@@LaLa_856 That's because misery loves company. I never ask that question because I understand. I have 3 but I still understand. 😂
🙌🏾🙌🏾 I’m 39 and get asked all the time. I’m too old for kids.
I look at having kids (my two included) like I look at climbing Mount Everest....is it a beautiful climb filled with amazing sights & accomplishments along the way? Yes. Will it almost kill you? (and succeed sometimes) Yes. Can you live a fulfilled & blessed life without doing either? You betcha :)
I don't recommend either to people :D
Outfit/mirror selfies at a funeral or memorial service. Tackier than cold tar!
😫😫😫😂😂😂👏👏👏
Yes! Like, that's not what you're here for.
Also, Mirror selfies at home in a disgusting bathroom. 🤢
Not tackier than taking a selfie with a dirty background!
Man that’s so bad!
Cold tar !!
I think its tacky when a family member plays the 'we're family we need to stick together' card after they have caused or enabled uncomfortable situations.
Are we related lol because this is my family!!! I can't stand this!! 😂
Yes!!!! My dad and aunts!
😂Ikr? The messiest one in the family usually says this.
My MOTHER! Like girl if you don’t gon somewhere! 😠
I think its tacky to call and invite someone to something the same day its happening and then get an attitude when they dont rearrange their schedule to meet your last minute need.
Especially when you already knew about the event and they only invited you because someone asked why you not coming
🎯 or call and invite someone…they confirm…then don’t show up 🤦🏾♀️
I thought people did that when they didn’t want you to come 🤷🏽♀️
….or you’re invited out for lunch by a girlfriend and she’s an hour late but walks in like she’s on time with no explanation.
@@cherylkay1636 Girl, I did this just yesterday. 🤦🏾♀️ A friend invited me to her wedding but sent me the info a few days before the event and then I was like 'Nah, I can't make that.' I'll send her a gift though.
It’s tacky when people intentionally talk loud in public cuz they want you to know wats goin on. They wanna be important
That side to side bounce with the stiff arms never gets old.
🇬🇧 🙋🏾♀️ This 🙌🏾
Facts! It tickles me every time!🤣
I know, right??!!!!!
I like how you described that😂
Then every time she did it I cracked up!!!
Another Tacky is disrespecting your child's teacher in front of your child. You and the teacher should be a team working together for the better of your child's education. Not you and your child working together to see how much disrespect y'all can get away with. It's all fun and games until it's not. I J S 😲
This is true yet debatable. I've seen some teachers be downright disrespectful to students/parents even when the parent is being respectful to the teacher. My second grade teacher yanked me by my pigtails because she thought I put away a game board the class was playing with. We would have these math game boards and every round switch desk to play on a different board, but because the girl that was sitting at the desk got the answer wrong, she put the board inside the desk and I, being the one to sit at the desk next, got in trouble for it. I told my mom and my mom got disrespected, so the next day my dad showed up and got disrespectful and I never had to have him show up again at any school.
Add to that one parent disrespecting another parent in front of the child
I agree, as long as there is no abuse and humiliation on behalf of the teacher.
I would also add that in family situations, when you are an adult, trying to correct younger family members, and older family members want to come in and play defence for no reason. Like, you asked me to help guide the young ones, but when I try to set boundaries, you want to come in an play good cop.
Adults need to stop being disrespectful in front of and to children. Kids don't need to see all that.
@@nightangel3578 exactly
This preacher and his wife came to visit my great grandmother when she was sick. They came in and my great grandmother said “Oh so you’re the one he left my cousin for?” The couple had been married for years. My great grandmother had dementia. Yet she remembered that.
I would’ve died⚰️⚰️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The long-term memory is the last to go.
😂😂🤣🤣
Bloop
😂🤣😂🤣😂home wrecker
The tacky point about student loans vs. home loans hit me right in the gut ... MAKE IT MAKE SENSE 🙀🙀
Yeah, you're paying $2500 erry munf for rent, but can't get approved for a note that would be less than $1500.
maybe you get the student loan and them use it towards a house ? rob peter and pay paul!
It's tacky when I'm in the phone with you and you start talking to someone who just comes in the room. ESPECIALLY when you don't even ask me to hold on!
Yessss!!!!!!!!! Dont get me start with this one right here 😤 😡👏🏾. I just hang up 🤷🏾♀️
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@@apara2005 Me too! And when they call back, I don't answer. You had your chance! 🤣
I agree. Most of the time I will just hang up. You're being rude, then two can play that game.
I just hang up and go about my merry way🥸
You sooo right about that "call me if you need anything ". They be lying like hell.
Learning this first hand..lost my husband in February 2021
I be lyn…I be lyn🥴…. But it’s good to atleast HEAR support
Amen so true!
@@sherrydavis3309 I'm so sorry for your loss. May God strengthen you through this time. 💕
It just makes them feel good to say. But people eventually find out they’re full of 💩!
“Don’t invite me over if y’all gone fight!” That’s super tacky!!!!😳😡
i agree it's tacky while conversing with a friend about your problem, she immediately does a one-upmanship about hers. It's the last time I'd share with her.
Yes!!
One thing about EJ she is consistent and I love her randomness. It’s like a surprise for the day🤣
It’s tacky to stop by someone’s house then get mad when they don’t let you come inside. It’s tacky to ask somebody for the money they owe you around other people. Like dang couldn’t you take her aside? I be embarrassed for them.
Depends on how many times they’ve asked 🤷🏾♀️
@@GodlyWisdom_Discernment no. Sometimes they are good people dealing with trifling. My cousin pulled this on my sister and kept telling her she didn’t have the money to pay her back while she was bragging to us about what she was buying for her grandkids and kids for Christmas. She borrowed the money, told my sister to go buy something and mail it to her bc they didn’t have it in her area and she would send the check in September. When Sis threatened to air her business to the family, the money showed up. Some people only respond to shame. My sister will give you the world but don’t play with her money.
@@GodlyWisdom_Discernment didn’t know she was trifling at the time. You stay protected in the armor of the Lord. And have a blessed evening.
@@pigalottafattenton5003 I have a feeling somebody is gonna show up today. She's been calling and I've been ignoring 😂😂😂.
Hey! I say it depends. If you've asked respectfully (multiple times) and you know for a fact they have your money, I say get your money any way you can. I detest trifling.
Tacky- fathering someone else kid, when your own kid don’t know you.
Tacky-When you have like 9 kids and 6 mothers and didn’t marry anyone of the mothers!
Tacky- tear someone else down to build yourself up.
Tacky- blame someone else for your failures. Believing your perfect.
Tacky- treat people like trash but when you are treated the same, it’s tragic.
No one is perfect. Admit flaws
Something tells me all these examples come from the same person... and he's just tacky all the way around. Smh 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Lord help whoever you talkin bout! Wheww
Lawd, a sermon 👏🏾👏🏾
@@ffoster77 😂😂😂
@@JBLAQ 😂😂😂
It’s tacky when you’re the next customer waiting in a long line, a new register opens, & the person behind you cuts you off to get to the newly opened register.
yyyyaaaaaaaasssssssss!!!!!!!😡
I blame the cashier who opens up. Sometimes I give the stink eye to the person who gets in front of me
Omg!! Yes so disrespectful🤬
Girl, you SO right about people talking LOUD on their cell phones! I've learned a lil' bit too much 'bout folks by my just standing in lines somewhere -- !!
I think it is tacky when every time any kind of service truck pulls up , pest control, electrician, hvac - anything in front of my house my neighbor comes immediately over to ask what is going on .. every time.. she even sat outside to watch my furniture delivery folks this weekend … SAT OUTSIDE.. and told a neighbor after that they looked suspicious.. they were hard working nice young men.... Umm they delivered a living room set and it was the 10th deliver of the day, overworked, tired ok, but thugs .. uh no you didn’t! And they were fantastic!
Uh uh. She needs to go somewhere with that.
Oh my. Has the makings of a Karen. SMH.
😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
That's that Becky behavior
Tell me about it I have a tacky ass neighbor like that as well. I just want to buy her something to do with her life!!!!!!!
Honestly, as I have gotten older, I like my peace and quiet. I like my alone time. I appreciate, cherish and guard all of it very much. You might say that I live in a bubble in my own world, but hey, I like spending time with myself and can very much entertain myself just fine and I really don't need all the chaos the world offers these days.
I'm with you Page! I protect it at all costs! I'll be called the wallflower, the lame, the square. But as soon as the ISH hits the fan, y'all suddenly looking for MY "soft place to land"! No ma'am...I'm good! 😉😌
👍that's me inside my bobble looking out.
Same. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
Yea same ppl call me antisocial 🤷🏽♀️but idc I’m big on protecting my peace and happiness
Nothing tacky about that.
I think it's super tacky to invite someone else to an event that only invited you;ijs 🤷🏾♀️
…I think it’s tacky when some of these “parents” look better than their children.✌🏾
New from head to toe, hair done, nails done, but your kid lookin' a whole mess. Just lookin' busted.
👍
Ma'am! This the one!
Fr tho it makes me mad smh
Say thaf!!!
I think it's tacky as hell when you've worked through the pandemic, got all the stimulus checks, and all the child tax credits for 3 kids and you refuse to pay your rent. Pay where you stay. Tacky as hell! I want my money Sis. 🤷🏾♀️
Whaaaaaaa?? Oh that's messed up
How about if you DIDN’T work through the pandemic, got all the stimulus checks, unemployment, CARES Act supplemental unemployment, child tax credits, and you refuse to pay your rent. Oh, and socialized and didn’t keep mouth AND nose covered when away from home.
I know one of those. One worked and collected unemployment and is behind on rent. Has a court date this month. Yet on social media fronting and stunting.
Lol, I paid rent on time all Pandemonium long. I was not tempted to "make arrangements " per my landlord. Why harass me when I don't need it and now the landlords won't accept federal help. What!?
Facts!!
I can't stand folks in public on speaker phone. Like, why?!
Its tacky when the cashier is having a full conversation on the Bluetooth while ringing your purchase!!!
Never greets you or says thank you.
Absolutely!
fo reaaalllll that is so rude,, i hate it when i'm at the grocery store and the cashier just acts like her personal convo is soo much important than their job
- When people be watching videos on their phones in public without headphones
-When people are done at the checkout and they take their time getting their stuff together, No! Grab your stuff and settle up on your own time!
- People who don’t turn their music down when they’re in the drive up (McDonald’s is still a place a business, not the club)
- People who hit or yell, threaten, or swear at their kids in public.
- People who don’t at least ATTEMPT to take the door when someone else is holding it for you.
-When you’re in front of an item at the grocery store looking at something, and Karen behind you starts huffin’ and puffin’ instead of just saying excuse me
-When people don’t flush those paper toilet seat covers they put on the toilet when they go
-When people park in the curbside pickup spots when they’re going INTO the store or park in the fire lane (I don’t care if you’re “only gonna be a minute,” it don’t won’t like that)
I’m done for now!
Nice list! However.... I'll have to disagree with you about the grocery line, because i know I'm the one who takes her time placing the bank card perfectly in my wallet and folding the receipt up in 6 equal parts... When it's your turn, it's your turn 🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂😂😂💜
🇬🇧🙋🏾♀️Oh my days 🤣🤣🤣
Yesssssss...all of this!!!!😂😂😂😂
Lol
Oh when you go to Walmart and there’s no parking space so you see a person walkout heading to their car and you follow them until they get to their car and they have about 6 bags and they have to inspect every single bag before they put it in their car just to piss you off and waste your time knowing good and well that you’re waiting on that spot.
Or when someone calls you and places you on hold.
Ummm....I can't stand folks like you...when the check out person is finish checking me out you the one in the back ready to go and I have to finish putting my groceries in my basket, money in my purse, receipt too, gathering all my stuff together... I wasn't done in the first place when betty the cashier decided to move on to you...while you hitting my basket with your basket trying to rush me...that's why I take my time and make you wait till I'm DONE
Glad you took some me time. We all need self-care eer once in a while. Tacky is when folks get mad at you because they can't draw you into their drama.
As long as you're taking care of yourself and getting your proper RESS, when you upload is when you upload, Mrs. EJ. I will replay every video until I get that bell notification. Plus... 🗣️ It's your birthday month
Yes, Ma'am. She has to get that RESS, 'cause we need our content.
I hope she sees this. We can replay because we care❤️ EJ we aren't going anywhere. We'll be here ❤️
Gdm.@@deannaterry6875 Yes I agree with U. We'll be here wen
U return, After U take/get a break, plenty rest. Wait, wats up with Lil. Sis. EJ? Did I ms some thing. Is she ill/sick, need a break from Utube or wats up?
Or Just
Good morning@@Jesus.SaVeS77
I believe we were talking about her saying she's been inconsistent due to a lot going on. Which I think we can all relate with alot going. (Well, I know I can. lol)
I was just letting her know we're here. ❤️
The “RESS” has taken me out. Lol.
You had me even tho I'm guilty of some of these. But when you said how do you get a loan for school but can't get a loan for a home! Whew! You said a whole WORD!🙌🏽 And they're predatory at that! That's the system working like a finely tuned engine, lining us up and knocking us down at every turn!
She touched my soul with that statement
maybe get it for "school" then rob Peter to pay Paul? then just pay it back ?
People with no filter are tacky. Like you said, getting all up in folk’s business. People who are dropping by my apartment all willy nilly and bringing company with them to see my apartment that I never invited them to in the first. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s just disrespectful!!!!
That’s called not answering the door.
I’ve had that happened. I acted like I wasn’t home. I turned the lights off, closed the blinds. You better call first, next time.
This is super tacky!
@@YveWin she caught me off guard 🤦🏾♀️
I work in a grocery store and I think it's tacky when customers complain to staff about things they have absolutely no control over. Don't like our mask policy? Tell it to the owner! I don't make enough money to argue with stupid.
I offer them to speak to the manager😫😫😫
Exactly.
Or, perhaps don't tell people what to do with their bodies. I can't stand stupid people either.
Right, or when they on the phone during check out.... get off the damn phone
🙌 From someone who works in retail, thank you! Sir/Ma'am, neither I nor my cashier are involved with the lack of hiring, or the making of policies for this establishment. Take it up with corporate!
I think its tacky to invite people to your house and you never bothered to clean up prior to their arrival. Then you wanna say dont mind the mess.
Hello!
hahaha
@Quita’s Banana…or they invite you over, then spend more time on social media
My thoughts exactly
@@shonnyd4071 if we gone sit silently in a room scrolling social media I could have stayed at home in my clean house.
It's tacky when you invite family over for a party you are having at your house, but start calling the family members that were invited to stop at the grocery store to bring items they need for the party AND never offer to pay you what you spent! I have stopped visiting family for that reason and have basically stopped associating with them. I don't have time for that nonsense!!
Or when your homegirl rants about her sorry "dude" (that she thinks she's in a real relationship with) and you tell her he's toxic.
She then starts CAPING FOR HIM.
Had a divorced coworker with 3 kids in her 40s do this about a dude whose child support she was paying, who lent him over $5000 for his “business,” he never paid back, used tons of office paper to print his workers comp papers, and would fight with loudly in the office, but he wouldn’t claim her. I told her he was using her then she got diagnosed with cancer and she made it a point to tell me he was a good dude, because he called to check on her regularly 🙆🏿♀️.
@@Zim24Diva Exactly. They won't let you say NOTHIN' bout they're "dude"
@@ButterCookie1984 That part.
I love when u do these kind of videos. I think it’s tacky to ask family for money bc ur broke bc u bought the newest iPhone or item. Like pay yo bills first.
I don’t like when you greet someone with ‘Hey, how are you?’ …..and then they tell you….in excruciating detail. Also, don’t ask for my opinion and then get mad when I tell you and you don’t agree….
On BOTH counts!! That second half for me… coworker was going through separation, then divorce, but got pregnant by another fella in the meanwhile. Since I knew she wanted/wants more kids (already has two) to be careful and wait until the ink is dry on the papers. NOPE! Pregnant. Then told her the soon to be ex will give her hell. It happened! I finally let her know that I’m 57yrs old for a reason and have done some things and seen things… she didn’t listen. So much so that when she did find out she was pregnant, she was scared to tell me. Let her know that I’m not here to judge anyone… just be prepared for the ex’s nonsense.
I think it’s tacky k that you don’t know when you going to see us again. 🤣😂🤣Love you EJ!!! ❤️❤️❤️
What's tacky is that when a person tries to play detective when someone in the neighborhood passes away. Asking questions like did they have life insurance, why is so and so in the obit, you know they wasn't married. #TackyAsHell
I remember shortly after my dad passed away, a "friend" of mine asked if he left me any money. That was the last time I ever hung out with her.
It’s tacky when you have a party and ask everyone to bring something. If you can’t afford it, don’t have a party.
It’s tacky to have a party and ask for cash gifts only. Is this a party or a fundraiser?
It’s tacky to show up to an event late dressed to the nines with no gift.
It’s tacky to not send thank you cards or at least a text for wedding, shower gifts.
It’s tacky to not RSVP and just show up to an event.
It’s tacky to show up to events with folks that weren’t invited.
!!!!!!!
I think it's still tacky when:
You wear a pajamas, bonnet/scarf on your head in public ( y'all know Monique covered this, yet I'm still seeing it. Just tacky).
Bumping music loudly on your phone in public places like the grocery store. Super tacky!
I agree completely….. just yesterday I saw two females with nightshirts on from Walmart(I have several of them) one in Walmart and the other in the grocery store like that’s cute or that no one is gonna notice!👀🤔just tacky!!!!
😝 let me tell you something sistahs,
I do none of those but I will defend the women in the bonnet…. Becoz
I live in the town if I jump outta my house to get bread really quick or whatever, I ain’t dressing up and combing my hair…..
When the woman from far coming, they have to do that because coming to the ‘town’ is going out.
For women who live in town, they’re going outside and that’s their business…..
😂😂
@@ashdluciangurl I feel you sis! I’m talking about the ones who are shopping(buggy full of groceries) or even wit your homegurl and she’s shopping or in the mall….. I just don’t get it 🤔🤔🤔
Everyday here in Atlanta!!!
Yaasss OMG, i was at the eye dr and a younger guy was playing his profanity-laced music in the waiting room. Tacky, rude, proof of no home training, etc. And the mother was sitting right there!
It’s tacky when you are having a conversation and the person gets a text alert and can’t wait one blessed minute until the conversation is over.
I think it's tacky when a couple is together and one introduces the other as wife or husband and then the other one straight up says we're not married
Lmao!! Dang I try my best not to do that.My ex has a bad habit of doing this,I just hold it in until we get alone and give him a reminder.😆
That's embarrassing and it speaks volumes for the couple
I'd give my significant other a face of why are you lying? There was no proposal, no ring, no marriage....So how am I your wife? Now these people think we're married 🙄 So when we're no longer together, they'll think we're divorced. I have a problem with this one. I don't like lies. My face has no filter.
It’s tacky when I invite you somewhere & 🎶 you gotta bring Jim, James, Paul & Tyrone 🎶
I was just thinking this when I saw this headline on today's news feed front page: 'Arnie Schwarzenegger Wishes Son By Former Mistress Happy Birthday'. I was like, WTF! That is messy as hell! Did the young man ask to be the product of an affair between Arnold and the family housekeeper? Obviously not, but it happened--*24 years ago*--so I think the press needs to move past it and address the young man much more respectfully by his name (which is Joseph Baena).
EDIT: I just checked and the backlash must have been swift and intense because the headline changed to 'Arnie Wishes Youngest Son Happy Birthday'! 😄
None of his children from his wife look like him. But his son he had by the side chick look just like him!
@@jonniehickson5599 Yes he does. He seems well-raised too, as I've never heard anything crazy happening with him and even though Arnold was dead wrong for cheating on Maria, he has been a good father to all of his children.
@@jonniehickson5599 RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT!!!!
You know, I saw that and thought WHY THE F… that was just wrong.
EJ, girl... The last one hit my spirit lol I literally recently went through a situation where someone continued to lie to my face when I found the the truth, the evidence! How do people fix they mouth to lie like that?
That's when I'm done they no longer exist to me .
I'm with you on all of this!
I think it's tacky when people leave buggies out in the parking lot. I actually saw a lady at Food Lion leave one beside her car when the cart corral was only two spaces away.
Tacky is showing up to an event with nothing, not a gift, not a dish cups or spoons. Its also tacky to send somebody your cashapp on your birthday, if somebody wants to get you something they will
Man .lol
I do agree with you about the Cash App,when I read them on Facebook I keep right on scrolling,ain’t nobody got time for that 🤷♀️
When you do someone a favor (like holding the door) and they walk by without saying thank you
When you say good morning and they just nod instead of replying
When you meet that friend who just got married and all they talk about is their spouse who isn't even present (nothing wrong with venting or making some comments but it's tacky when that's ALL they talk about)
And your #1 and #2 are not only tacky, but RUDE.
I think it's tacky when people buy say a North face jacket or new baseball hat and just walk around with the tag on it hanging so everybody knows how much they pay for it
Ooooo, that’s super tacky 🙄…In this day and age people still do this
And yet their beds look like boats, they sleep in a big ole mattress dent
Or buying brand new clothes to impress people but don’t have enough money to pay rent... hmmm I wonder why!
And we really don't care.
yes!! or the sticker is still on their hat !
I agree. I'll be on the bus or walking around in the neighborhood. I can hear your entire conversation. Don't get upset with me if I start eavesdropping. you are the one who inviting me in to your business.
It’s tacky to ask me to comna (come to) work when I’m on PTO. I shall NOT come!
Yes, I had to say the sentence out loud to make it make sense… it did and I laughed at myself because that is what we hear😂🤣😂
When you constantly bragging on social media about all the things you brought and places you’ve been but you broke as a joke..
One thing bout EJ, she gone give us the signature double Dutch hands 🤣 5:21
I didn't know there was a name for her gesture. Cute!
It’s tacky to take pictures of the deceased in the casket. Uggh!!!
It's tacky when folks ask you for a recipe *right after* you just told them it was a family secret. 🤫 It's tacky to interrupt two people talking. It's tacky as hell for one of those two people to stop the conversation already in progress to start a new conversation with the person who just interrupted. I can go on and on.
Yes...especially when the person interrupts just to one up your story.
When someone keeps saying "girl we need to come visit you at the ranch" and they ALWAYS have an excuse for never making it out to see you, BUT they expect YOU to come to the city to hang with them and do all of what THEY want to do. No ma'am!
I'm so glad EJ that you went after your dreams. I love your take on things.
You are on point here; you are refreshing, clever, entertaining and you and your husband are naturally gifted. A great pair.
Thanks for the laughs. ❤
Girl my momma tacky asf 🤭she tells everyone my business then at family gatherings they all ask me about something I only told her 🤫
We loves our Moms and all but if your’s tells your business, you can’t tell her YOUR business 🤦🏾♀️
Stop telling her ANYTHING!!! Had to do that with BOTH of my parents. My life is much smoother now and they are salty cause they don't know CRAP. 🤩😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1st one is why I don't tell most of my family anything. Whole family don't need to know about the drama in my life.
When you tell somebody dinner is at 5pm and they show up at 7:37 pm 🤦♀️
Meet'em at the door tell them it's over and everyone is gone!!! L I l
Uuumm my lovely sister did that… event was at 3p… calls from the mall at 5:30p… “how do I get there from the mall?” My answer: oh by the time you get here, everybody will most likely be gone sine it started almost THREE HRS AGO. I better go and continue to hostess. See you later. (Click up)
Yes, so rude! or they don't show up at all and don't at least call to inform you. Then later in your face and act like nothing happened. I'll call you out. Then move on, literally. No need for contact.
When your extrovert “friend” tells you they respect you and how you need your solitude to decompress yet they expect you to be at their beck and call 😡
Talking loudly in a theater, discussing personal matters in a public place and using their cell phones when being helped.
The last one for me!! That’s a pet peeve for me.
I think it's T-A-C-K-Y when you ask someone in front of a group of people if their hair is REAL! Girl if you don't go sitcho...
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Strange… I had a old white guy ask me that at the meat counter… I turned to him and asked it I knew him. Then I continued ordering my salmon. The meat counter guy said nothing… 🤓
It’s tacky to ask for an invitation to an event after you realize you’re not on the guest list, and then not show up once accommodations have been made to include you.
I think "It's Tacky" when you are on the phone with someone and they get another call on the other line and they click over and leave you hanging on the other line, like FOREVER!!!!!
Lol lol I just love she does her "left right left right" emphasis 😂😂😂😂😂
Yasssss arguing in front of me and my boo🙅🏾♀️😂😂😂can’t y’all fight in the bathroom 😂😂
Oh, my goodness you are SPEAKING my mind!!!!! I love you, EJ.
“Companies that don’t accept after pay are tacky!” I FELT HEARD! I FELT LOVED!
I think its super tacky to try and outshine someone at their event. Like dont propose to someone at MY wedding or baby shower.
omg this!!!! Pisses me OFF!!!!
I sooooo agree with all of these!! It made me remember a “call me if you need me”. I called needing to go to a grocery store and she said “I am not going that way”😳. Later she called me to complain about someone telling her to call if she needed anything and then not answering her call. I just blinked.
Yep the ‘couples arguing in front of guests’ happens to me ALL the time. It’s awkward and it’s pretty lame. To me that tells me how much respect you have for your guests and more importantly for yourself.
That student loan bit with the home loan comparison was so real!!
Hey I’m supporting you with the first like and comment. You help me stay out of a bad mood. I love your videos.
Lol yes to all of this. But when you talked about After Pay, I felt that run thru my veins!😂😂
Me too sis! I love After pay, sezzle, quad pay, and PayPal pay in four
gawd, i love the way you express yourself! you hit on the everyday occurrences and societal ways, good and putrid! you are the modern day Mark Twain. You have something to say, most oftenly humorous, about the current state of events. i can't wait to come home from work and see what issue you're gonna tackle next! thank you so much! i so much appreciate you and your one of a kind humour! i love to share your videos!
It's ALWAYS EJ's delivery for me! 😆
I think it's tacky when ppl who work at an establishment don't speak to patrons/guests e.g. gyms, restaurants, and stores. I don't even care if it's a fake hello, just speak rude behinds.😁
Boy! That one about you telling me to call you if I need you but then when I call, you don’t answer! Man! I felt that deep in my soul! Sooo true!
Definitely trying to purposely be messy! Please don't argue in front of me either! Most of all, DONT GO LIVE!
Two things I’ve learned in my 33 years of being on this earth is that it’s very tacky to not mind yo on business and to not have your finances in order.
Also, it’s tacky to not have humility. That’s very tacky.
#1.I believe it's tacky when you stop by my house without permission and expect to come in. #2. I also believe it's tacky to call me on facetime unscheduled. 🤷🏿♀️
Tacky, that is out and out rude..and definitely not coming in.
Lol girl I’m saying. Text me or something first so I can put my wig back on 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yasss to both!
Your know what's tacky? I saw a little girl today, about 10 or 11, walking down the street with her family in a bonnet!!
#1 bigest tacky: Not waving when someone lets you into traffic.
Oh i want to wave
But those darn tinted windows!!!
I do not recognize
Family and friends
😍EJ💯 ... I agree that Messy is NOT cute or to be envied ✔️ People need to get back to private and confidential, need to know basis ✔️ Tacky to me is venting or confronting people on Facebook rather than face to face, especially if you just left them, or worse yet they're in the next room. It doesn't solve any issues and your drama 🎭 becomes cheap entertainment for your followers. I J S. 😉
I think its tacky to continue to borrow money after you already owe over $100
Whew chile…Then get mad when you say ‘No’ when they ask for money again
@@dls212004 right
I think it was tacky when I brought my female friend to Thanksgiving, and my cousin proceeds to ask me questions about my Ex! Then she made comments about how she just knew that me and my Ex would be together forever! She looked stupid when my female friend proceeded to answer all her questions about my Ex in GREAT detail... Yeah! You thought you were being messy when in reality my female friend is JUST a friend and she's actually CLOSE friends with my Ex... The 3 of us were close WAY before me and my Ex started dating, and we remained close afterwards!
Mmk...side note....I would like to hear from Miss Jackie on the lone subject of folks being “tacky” and/or OBNOXIOUS on the cell phone. Please and thank you🙏🏻❤️
Ms. EJ, you were giving us a huge amount of content. Take the time you need. The comments are just as good as the video!
Just wanted to say I watch ALL your videos! And yes I’m going back 10 years! 💗❤️💕💕
I thinks it’s tacky, to invite someone to your event and they show up 2 hours late, then get mad when you gotta leave.
I think it's tacky to ask me where I am at everytime we talk.."umm about my Father's business...where you at?"
That's so true. Everyone who calls me be like that: my sisters, mother, my boss. Like damn, yall know I don't do shit, I'm at home like always 🤣
I’m semi new to your channel and I just got to say you bring such joy & laughter to me.
Too funny!
I heard your skit on The Ricky Smiley Morning Show today!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 (Hopefully, they weren’t tacky and didn’t give you any props - in a monetary transaction!)
Liked before I watched. The talking on speakerphone in public places get on my nerves!!! Side note-Loved your book so much! ♥️
Asking the decedents immediate family “how did they pass?”. Can we stop, it’s tacky and nosy!? Does the way the person passed make them less dead or the grief less real?
Find something else to say....
I think it's tacky when you run into someone you haven't seen in years and they start asking you personal questions like "so where you work at?"
When somebody invites you to eat and they “forgot” their wallet.
That BOB! Is everything EJ!