Niam ntsuab teev koj zaj neej neeg no ma rau kuv siab txhaj tus niam tsev uas zaj neej neeg no ua yog lawm tsog tsij yus tus txiv mus hlub lwm tug ces yus tag nkes lawm
Woman, I'm angry at you. Stop letting that dog send you things and stop letting him come over when he want to. You said you divorced him but you still allow him to come and go. You are not strong at all. He don't love you that's why he got another woman. Love yourself and stop all communication with them. Don't let him come by. Date other men. Allow yourself to explore the possibility that there is a man out there who will cherish you! You staying like that make your ex feel impower that you still crave for him. Nrog nws sib tw ua neej thiab ma
As long as she let's him step all over her like this, she will be owned by him. I hope she takes your advice and don't waste one more second of her time on the ex! Wanna change your situation, own it!
It’s easy said than done ladies. You as the outsider feel the pain for her but not as much as if you were her. She did what’s she could because she still live him. To the sister if this story, love yourself and let go of what’s no longer yours. Not all men are the same. Give it time and give hope to what’s out there. I sure hope you find love again and someone that will love you only. It’s nit call love when he wanted you and still wants the other woman. He is being selfish only because he doesn’t want to see you happy with someone else.
@@Karena312 I know that it is extremely painful for her because she's the one enduring it. I can feel her even though it's not me. To me when your husband cheat on you, he already murdered you. He killed her already. She need to wake up and meet other people. He's not worth it. She have to realize that her life was wasted all these years by him, be angry at him that he waste her life. He lured her and left her hanging. As soon as she realized this and he angry the same way she would if someone rob her then she wil he able to move on. Because he did rob her of her youth.
I know we are not in your shoes, but what kind of educated people are you? Why will you let all these people force you to a situations where one man can treated you like you are not valuable of anything. I really hate our Hmong man those who are self center. A man who wants more then one woman is a selfish man
Niam Neej Vam Aw!!! Cag kuv yuav mus txub cov mauv dev thiab cov txiv dev zoo lis ob nyiag tsiaj thawj thiab nov ua luaj lis os... Coob tug lub neej puas tag tej mesnyuam nyob ua ntsuag ciaj los yog vim muaj cov mauv dev txiv dev tsiaj zoo lis nov los thawj thiab ua tibneeg los tsim lwm tus lub siab lis nov tag.😤😤 Tus mes niam tsev zoo...koj tus nug thiab koj txiv kawv yug los tiam neej nov yog txiv neej lawm...kawg thiaj hais lug rau txiv neej yuav tau xwb. koj tus nug tsi yog ib tus muaj kev kawg kev hlub txog pojniam txoj kev txomnyem siab es koj thiab tsi tau txaig txoj ncaj nceeg mog.. ...cias lwm tiam kawv yug los ua pojniam kawv mas paub koj txoj kev Tu siab mob siab mog..😤 Tus niam laug kuv nrog koj tu siab mob siab chim siab heev thiab. But it's never to late to start fresh again.You are a very smart and beautiful educated person..U don't need this low life animals in ur life ok..be glad that u are free to catch up with ur life..the life u wanted to live in. Niam laug HLUB koj tus kheej thiab mog...Be the change in ur life. You have so much to live for..God Bless You and love You❤
Good for you for finally leaving him. You are educated, know your worth. Do not ever let family tell you to be second to no one. If he loves you, he wouldn't go looking for a new woman. He made his decision to pick #2, so do not let him back into your life. You deserve better. You'll be fine without him.
Easier said than done especially being on the outside. I have no experience but I can only imagine the one man you planned your life with wants to end everything.
She allowed them to treat her that way and allowed him to treat her like nothing. She accepted that position of sharing and being 2nd. Go get a txiv yaus.
The only annoying person in this story is the first wife. She’s letting all those OG walked all over her and she was not defending herself. Until these days, she’s still letting the loser come back and forth and still talking to him?! Come on, we are living America! The loser doesn’t love her and she needs to move on with her life!
Im glad you are a strong woman. Best of luck to you sister. We woman need to be strong. Regardless if our blood family doesnt see the pain we going through. If they were in your shoes, they feel the same way but because your brother want face thats in the community. Kuddos to you...
Thank you for sharing your story. No one know and understand the pains and sadness a woman endured when the husband or give their love to someone else.
Tus mi niam tsev cas peb cov poj niam es los ua neeg cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li tsis tau txoj kev ywj pheej li lwm tiam nco ntsiov txhob los ua poj niam lawm os yog leej twg ntsib leej twg thiaj li paub leej twg tsis taug txoj kev no ces yeej tsis paub li os txoj kev los ua poj niam tau txais txoj kev no mas tu siab tshaj txhua yam li nawj lawv aw
Wow. Shame on your parents/brother telling you to go back. It’s this mentality that suppresses our Hmong women. Smh. We are in 2021! If I had a brother like that, I’d choose not to be his sister too. What kind of family pushes their daughter/sister into a life of pain & sadness. They don’t know how much pain you are in. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Move forward sister, there’s so much more to life than this man.
I agree, can’t stand family like this. Your brother is suppose to back you up, but saving his face was more important to him. He’s doing all of this for him, not her. It’s annoying. Bros like this, I rather throw in the trash
I'm so mad at her brother too. She claimed to be educated. Idky she still lets her brother talk to her like that and not say anything back. I would have slapped that brother with the law of Americans. Stand up for yourself, woman!
Txob tu siab os tus ne niamlaus. Txiv neej nyias txav nyias thiab os. Mam ntshiav dua muaj tus zoo mam yuav dua os mog. Mus ua neej kheem nrog nws ntag ho.
Don’t lie to yourself that he still love you. He doesn’t love you anymore that’s why he married a second wife. We women need to stand our grounds. Move on with your life and find someone who love you. You don’t need him anymore. He’s only torturing & preventing you from having a happy life with another man.
Agreed! This lady still believes her ex will come back to her one day. If she doesn't move one, one day she'll regret all the time she wasted waiting for her situation to change.
I agreed! Many woman can’t ua ib siab cause they think their life is established and don’t want to start over. So sad for the woman that endure all pains and tears. Smh
Txhob ruam2 os mog tus viv ncaus aws!!!! Kav tsij mus pib dua ib lub neej mog. Yua tus txiv twb tua yus kiag thaum nws yuav Niam yau lawm. Koj tsis yuav nws los koj lub siab twb tawg tag vim nws. Mus yuav lwm tus txiv mog. Tseem muaj cov yuav hlub yus li yus txoj kev ntshaw
Tus niam tsev- tos kj lub neej nyuab 22 los vim kj txoj kev duam. Tsi muaj leej twg yuav kj ua yam kj tsi xa ua. Kj hlub yuav kev ib tug neeg tsi tsim nyog tau kj txoj key hlub. Uacas kj hos nqa tsi tau kj txoj kev hlub tseeb mus pub rau lawm tus txiv neej ua tsim nyog tau txais.
In this day and age, i don't believe that anyone can force u to marry (or remarry) someone without your own consent. As much as she claims that her side of the family forced her, i don't believe it. Trust me, if she really didn't want it, no one in the world would be able to force her. But let others decide for her bc she still wants him.
I can feel you💔😭😭 And I just wanna hug you (๑♡⌓♡๑)💕 You know, You don't have to date or marry anyone if you don't want to but "Txhob nyob nrog txoj niag kev kho siab li ntawm koj lawm os mog ❤️". Ntseeg kuv thiab, Koj tsis hlub, tsis tshua nws lawm.. Koj tsuas tseem tshua tshua tug nws thauv, xwb no nawb💔💔 Nco nco tug nws thauv, Uas tug thaum ntawv tseem hlub hlub koj cuag tsis muaj dua tagkis, lawm xwb._._._._ Yog tsis tham dua tug tshiab ces kawg tau kev khosiab, xwb os mog...
Tsis txhob cia siab tias koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj li os neb txoj kev hlub ces tsuas yog yuav ntuj thaum ub xwb nawb tom qab no nws yeej tsis yog tus qub lawm os yog nws hlub koj ces nws tsis muaj lwm tus tshiab li os tsis txhob dag koj tus kheej qhov nws tsis kam tso koj tseg es ua dev leg rau koj ntawv yog nws tsuas lam ua kom tau cai xwb kom koj ntseeg nws es muab koj tus kheej khuam cia kom koj ua neej tsaus ntuj nti xwb koj tsis txhob cia siab rau qhov nws yuav rov los nrog koj ua neej kiag ok kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej xwb tsis txhob tos tus neeg dag ntawv
Good story for us women to learn from. Do not tolerate this Why would you let this man back in your life? He married a 2nd wife. You are an educated, successfulwoman. You don't need him. You don't need this stress he's doing to you. You deserve better.
I wouldn’t say she is stupid. It’s easy to judge from the outside in. It’s easier said than done. Her relatives are all against her so it’s hard on her. It takes time and courage to finally leave.
Yog tim tus poj dab no xwb yog koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj npaum no yog txhob muaj tus niag poj dab no ces koj tus txiv yeej rov los lawm cov ntxhais hmoob plog tuaj ua peb cov poj niam hmoob mikas cov neej puas npaum li no ua cas lub ntuj tsis tig pom li os kuv hlub koj tshaj li os
Tuaj aw yog nws hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis muaj dua ib tug os thaum luag Mus muaj dua ib tug ces yus twb tag nqi lawm nws lam ua kom koj nyob yog thaum twg nws tsis muaj chaw nyob thiaj tau koj so taw xwb os
It's all hmong culture bullshiet. This is America. If I am divorced and dying, I don't need nor want any man or my family/brothers giving me an extravagant funeral. Just incinerate my body and be done with it. We all go to the same place when dead anyway. There is NO after life where you go live happily ever after with your loved ones and your spouse. Shiet, I spent my entire lifetime with him already, why would I want to spend an ETERNITY with him in the after life?!!!
Your husband does not truly loves you! Love ❤️ does not mean sharing with another woman. He is playing with your heart ❤️ and manipulating your weakness. You’re an educated woman, be strong and bold to stand your ground. Best of luck to you, sister!
Such sad story of a woman’s eternal love to her husband who gave into his desires. As a woman, that’s the ultimate betrayal, how could you ever look at him the same and stay with “his name” and his family? How can you be “friends” with him when he’s intimate with someone else. Ladies move on, stop torturing your soul and you CAN SURVIVE without him and with BE someone else. Their tears mean nothing, it’s you who keep taking him back - so he comes back.
Koj Niag txiv thiàb niag Niam yau CES twb ci qos UA ntej lawm xwb hos koj Niag nus Los Lam UA Dev plhu xwb thiab tsis paub koj txoj Kev mob li thiab, Yog Niam poj niam ko paub Cai npaum li ko CES Twb tsis Rhuav koj lub Neej li , Txhob xav tias Nws yoog2 koj tus txiv thiàb koj no OS Tsis Muaj hnub li nawb, hmoob Yeej Hlub hmoob tiag2 li os mog 😭
Tos li txiv neej pheej tsav hwj chim yuav coob coob tus los tim pojniam tso cai. Thov peb cov pojniam Hmoob hloov thiab os. Koj tus txiv mas yog ib tug neeg siab phem tshaj plaws uas xav kom tau txhij tau txhua. Ntshe yav laus nws tseem yuav nkag kaws los rau koj tu thiab.
Niam tais aw koj twb tag nqi thaum nws yuav niam yau lawm kav tsij mus nrhiav txiv yuav txhob nyob ib leeg kav tsij mus yuav tus luag hlub yus es txhob yuav tus yus hlub luag yuav tau sib hlub ib yam thiaj nyob tau ua ke
Woman, just let him go. He threatened you with a knife. Don't be with someone like that. Stop being stupid. Also, forget about your brother and family - forget about those people who chose a stranger over you.
Lub neej niam loj thiab niam yau ces yeej tsis muaj ib hnoob zoo.koj tu txiv ces ua ib siab nrauj es av tsij mus ua ib lub neej thiab ua ib tug kav ib tug xwb.koj tus nus ces cia ua ib tug thawj coj rau mus kav nyuj kav tshis xwb.nws lub tswv yim tseem nyob xyoo 1970.
Yog koj tsi mus tom ntej ces muaj ib hnub tom niam ntej nws yog nws lub neej tsi kawg ces nws yeej yuav rov ua li qub kom koj rov yuav dua xwb. Mam ntshiav yus yog neeg zoo yeej yuav muaj ib leej zoo zoo sab nraum tsi tau los xwb. Koj twb yog ib leej kawm ntawv qib siab lawm thiab txhob cia luag thuam tias lam kawm qib siab xwb tsi phim lub meej mom dummy li os me niam hluas aw... koj hlub nws koj thiaj ua tsi tau siab phem rau nws tab sis nws tsi hlub koj lawm nws thiaj ntxeev siab tau rau koj na...😢😠😠
Ruam ualuaj na... tebchaws no nyias muaj nyias Kev ywj pheej es tseem cia nyob lub neej zoo li no thiab na...yog nws ua phem ces coj nws mus hlob kav hlau kiag lawm xwb os.
Youre educated, bring home your own money. Dont need a worthless man and why bother listening to other people. Take care of yourself and find someone better. Dont punish yourself for his wrong doing
Cas cov neej tsa no yuav muab zoo dhau lawm es kuv tsev neej tsa yuav mus liam ua luaj tseem liam tshaj dev lawm thiab niam tais tuaj tos kiag ntawm tsev mus nws ob tug nus los tseem tuaj nrog nws thauj nws li khoom cuag dab tsi wb twb tau sib nrauj liam ces tsis tshaj kuv cov neej tsa lawm...tsev neej tsa VWM/J
Niam ntsuab teev koj zaj neej neeg no ma rau kuv siab txhaj tus niam tsev uas zaj neej neeg no ua yog lawm tsog tsij yus tus txiv mus hlub lwm tug ces yus tag nkes lawm
The struggle of being a hmong daughter... glad you finally were strong enough to walk away.
Pab tus muam no tu siab. Txoj kev yuam ib tug twg thiab txoj kev chim siab yog raug leej twg leej twg thiaj paub.
Tu txiv uas yuav tau niam yau tab sis nws quaj thov tias nws hlub yus heev thiab tso tsis tau yus tsis txhob ntseeg nawj xum cia nws tuag mus
Peb Hmong pojniam are willing to take these kind of emotional abuse, that’s why these men keep disrespecting them.
Koj cov dab neeg mas zoo mloog txhua2 txoj li os phooj ywg aw koj lub suab los tsis yog dog dig kiag li nawb
hau yau! xyov tiag2 los dag li lau. ua txij nkawm nyob yog yus tus txiv hlub yus tiag mas luag yeej tsis mus yuav dua tus tshiab kiag li nawb.
Meem txom dhau lawm o tus niam laus
Woman, I'm angry at you. Stop letting that dog send you things and stop letting him come over when he want to. You said you divorced him but you still allow him to come and go. You are not strong at all. He don't love you that's why he got another woman. Love yourself and stop all communication with them. Don't let him come by. Date other men. Allow yourself to explore the possibility that there is a man out there who will cherish you! You staying like that make your ex feel impower that you still crave for him. Nrog nws sib tw ua neej thiab ma
As long as she let's him step all over her like this, she will be owned by him. I hope she takes your advice and don't waste one more second of her time on the ex! Wanna change your situation, own it!
She still wants him just as bad, but was just trying to play hard.
It’s easy said than done ladies. You as the outsider feel the pain for her but not as much as if you were her. She did what’s she could because she still live him. To the sister if this story, love yourself and let go of what’s no longer yours. Not all men are the same. Give it time and give hope to what’s out there. I sure hope you find love again and someone that will love you only. It’s nit call love when he wanted you and still wants the other woman. He is being selfish only because he doesn’t want to see you happy with someone else.
@@maryly09 sound like it.
@@Karena312 I know that it is extremely painful for her because she's the one enduring it. I can feel her even though it's not me. To me when your husband cheat on you, he already murdered you. He killed her already. She need to wake up and meet other people. He's not worth it. She have to realize that her life was wasted all these years by him, be angry at him that he waste her life. He lured her and left her hanging. As soon as she realized this and he angry the same way she would if someone rob her then she wil he able to move on. Because he did rob her of her youth.
I know we are not in your shoes, but what kind of educated people are you? Why will you let all these people force you to a situations where one man can treated you like you are not valuable of anything. I really hate our Hmong man those who are self center. A man who wants more then one woman is a selfish man
Remember Hmong women, this kind of story is shared for a educational reason. "Do not repeat" what this woman is doing.
Absolutely correct.
Agreed
Hmong women are too desperate for men
Niam Neej Vam Aw!!! Cag kuv yuav mus txub cov mauv dev thiab cov txiv dev zoo lis ob nyiag tsiaj thawj thiab nov ua luaj lis os... Coob tug lub neej puas tag tej mesnyuam nyob ua ntsuag ciaj los yog vim muaj cov mauv dev txiv dev tsiaj zoo lis nov los thawj thiab ua tibneeg los tsim lwm tus lub siab lis nov tag.😤😤
Tus mes niam tsev zoo...koj tus nug thiab koj txiv kawv yug los tiam neej nov yog txiv neej lawm...kawg thiaj hais lug rau txiv neej yuav tau xwb. koj tus nug tsi yog ib tus muaj kev kawg kev hlub txog pojniam txoj kev txomnyem siab es koj thiab tsi tau txaig txoj ncaj nceeg mog.. ...cias lwm tiam kawv yug los ua pojniam kawv mas paub koj txoj kev Tu siab mob siab mog..😤
Tus niam laug kuv nrog koj tu siab mob siab chim siab heev thiab.
But it's never to late to start fresh again.You are a very smart and beautiful educated person..U don't need this low life animals in ur life ok..be glad that u are free to catch up with ur life..the life u wanted to live in. Niam laug HLUB koj tus kheej thiab mog...Be the change in ur life. You have so much to live for..God Bless You and love You❤
Good for you for finally leaving him. You are educated, know your worth. Do not ever let family tell you to be second to no one. If he loves you, he wouldn't go looking for a new woman. He made his decision to pick #2, so do not let him back into your life. You deserve better. You'll be fine without him.
Goods job .... I'm so proud of you we hmong wifes should do like u when u see thing not go the way u want. 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍👍
Well I don't feel bad this happened to her because she let it happened. She needs to draw the line if she really want out.
I don't feel bad for her too, esp when she has the power but she's not using it.
Easier said than done especially being on the outside. I have no experience but I can only imagine the one man you planned your life with wants to end everything.
100% agree
She allowed them to treat her that way and allowed him to treat her like nothing. She accepted that position of sharing and being 2nd. Go get a txiv yaus.
Zaj neej neeg no mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os ib tsoom viv ncaus aw
There’s no such thing is love anymore in this world if you have a cheating husband!!!
Omg this story is most frustrating all the back and forth. Everyone in this story is annoying AF.
The only annoying person in this story is the first wife. She’s letting all those OG walked all over her and she was not defending herself. Until these days, she’s still letting the loser come back and forth and still talking to him?! Come on, we are living America! The loser doesn’t love her and she needs to move on with her life!
Im glad you are a strong woman. Best of luck to you sister. We woman need to be strong. Regardless if our blood family doesnt see the pain we going through. If they were in your shoes, they feel the same way but because your brother want face thats in the community. Kuddos to you...
Thank you for sharing your story. No one know and understand the pains and sadness a woman endured when the husband or give their love to someone else.
Vim neej tsa ntshaw lub npe vim neej tsa ruam
Tus mi niam tsev cas peb cov poj niam es los ua neeg cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li tsis tau txoj kev ywj pheej li lwm tiam nco ntsiov txhob los ua poj niam lawm os yog leej twg ntsib leej twg thiaj li paub leej twg tsis taug txoj kev no ces yeej tsis paub li os txoj kev los ua poj niam tau txais txoj kev no mas tu siab tshaj txhua yam li nawj lawv aw
You are the one with no heart. You keep letting this dog going back and forth! You allowed this to happen to you
Ca yuav tu siab ua luaj li o niam laus aw
Yog nws hlub koj tiag nws khiav tsis tau ntawm koj mus txhob ua lub siab muag rau tus txiv neej uas nws ntshaw lwm tus tshaj nyob nrog yus
Wow. Shame on your parents/brother telling you to go back. It’s this mentality that suppresses our Hmong women. Smh. We are in 2021! If I had a brother like that, I’d choose not to be his sister too. What kind of family pushes their daughter/sister into a life of pain & sadness. They don’t know how much pain you are in. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Move forward sister, there’s so much more to life than this man.
Agree
That blood tie would be cut with a quickness!!
I agree, can’t stand family like this. Your brother is suppose to back you up, but saving his face was more important to him. He’s doing all of this for him, not her. It’s annoying. Bros like this, I rather throw in the trash
I'm so mad at her brother too. She claimed to be educated. Idky she still lets her brother talk to her like that and not say anything back. I would have slapped that brother with the law of Americans. Stand up for yourself, woman!
Txiv neej tas lawm ces cia neb sib txeeb ib ya hotdog thiaj lom zem os
Koj hais yog lawm. Yog peb tsis tau rau koj txhais khau, ces yeej tsis paub thiab nkag siab.
Reading all the comments, I don't think I can listen to the story. Bye!
Fr lol
Lmao
Yeah kind of pointless. I was hoping for a different ending. I guess that’s how life is. It’s not always a happy ending
Yog lawm, yog taught kev hlub tsim mas thiaj ua tau ib siab.
Me ntxhai koj txiav txim siab yog lawm vim tsis pom ces tsis mob lawm nav
Well educated woman...she made mistakes but she did the right thing to get rid of him ...woman power 💪
Txob tu siab os tus ne niamlaus. Txiv neej nyias txav nyias thiab os. Mam ntshiav dua muaj tus zoo mam yuav dua os mog. Mus ua neej kheem nrog nws ntag ho.
This is why Hmong men are acting the way they do, married multiple wives...
Good story. Glad you became a Hmong public teacher
Don’t lie to yourself that he still love you. He doesn’t love you anymore that’s why he married a second wife. We women need to stand our grounds.
Move on with your life and find someone who love you. You don’t need him anymore. He’s only torturing & preventing you from having a happy life with another man.
Agreed! This lady still believes her ex will come back to her one day. If she doesn't move one, one day she'll regret all the time she wasted waiting for her situation to change.
I agreed! Many woman can’t ua ib siab cause they think their life is established and don’t want to start over. So sad for the woman that endure all pains and tears. Smh
The man just wanting to eat two bowls of soups at the same time.
Koj hai yog lawm os mog
I don't feel sorry for tus niam tsev she allowed him to come back.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj naj meviv ncaus aw kav tsij mus nrhiav dua ib tug tshiab los hlub yus is mog.
Txhob ruam2 os mog tus viv ncaus aws!!!! Kav tsij mus pib dua ib lub neej mog. Yua tus txiv twb tua yus kiag thaum nws yuav Niam yau lawm. Koj tsis yuav nws los koj lub siab twb tawg tag vim nws. Mus yuav lwm tus txiv mog. Tseem muaj cov yuav hlub yus li yus txoj kev ntshaw
Ntuj Aw !! Ua cas zaj no es mloog kuv ntsav yuav siab ua luaj li os.
Good job sister! If he loves you so much he would never find anyone else.
Tus niam tsev- tos kj lub neej nyuab 22 los vim kj txoj kev duam. Tsi muaj leej twg yuav kj ua yam kj tsi xa ua. Kj hlub yuav kev ib tug neeg tsi tsim nyog tau kj txoj key hlub. Uacas kj hos nqa tsi tau kj txoj kev hlub tseeb mus pub rau lawm tus txiv neej ua tsim nyog tau txais.
This teacher ntshe omg kawm tawm xwb os 1+1=3 😆
หัวใจเธอแบ่งเป็นสอง
Yog nws tsis mob siab ua cas nws tus txiv nws ho tsis kuv es nws ho los tseeb tus niam tsev no lub neej
Yus cov neej tsa yeej tsis hlub yus li os lawv yeej tsis paub yus txoj kev lwj siab li os me vivcaus aws.
You have a choice...no one can force you...🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
In this day and age, i don't believe that anyone can force u to marry (or remarry) someone without your own consent. As much as she claims that her side of the family forced her, i don't believe it. Trust me, if she really didn't want it, no one in the world would be able to force her. But let others decide for her bc she still wants him.
I’m so angry with Hmong woman who allowed this crap to happen. Have some self worth n learn to love urself. Don’t b so weak. We all deserve better!!!
Koj ces kawg qha qhuav lo
Tuaj. Pab kj lm pab nias rau.Kv thiab nawb. Nyab
Is there no other man left. You ate a teacher. You don't deserve these two keep torturing you n hurting you.
You really need to do soul searching, that's all I have to say.
Pab tus niam tsev no mob siab tiag2.
Tus mi viv ncaus cas koj zaj me neej neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj na
Nyob txiv los yuav mob siab xwb.tej neej tsa ntaw twb tsis hlub yuav,es ua li koj ces yog lawm
tu siab hov lawv as
Koj ua yog lawm niam loj niam yauv yog yav ntuj thaum ub lawm xwb tsis yog peb lawm yog peb ua tau ib yam ces cov niag txiv no yeej tsis siab phem li zoo li ntawv tab sis muaj ib co poj niam tawv tsis txau pheej ntshai neej tsa thiab ntshai tus txiv hem es niam los peb tseem muaj niam loj niam yauv
Ntxim ntxub heev koj cov neej tsa
I can feel you💔😭😭
And I just wanna hug you
(๑♡⌓♡๑)💕
You know, You don't have to date or marry anyone if you don't want to but "Txhob nyob nrog txoj niag kev kho siab li ntawm koj lawm os mog ❤️".
Ntseeg kuv thiab, Koj tsis hlub, tsis tshua nws lawm..
Koj tsuas tseem tshua tshua tug nws thauv, xwb no nawb💔💔
Nco nco tug nws thauv, Uas tug thaum ntawv tseem hlub hlub koj cuag tsis muaj dua tagkis, lawm xwb._._._._
Yog tsis tham dua tug tshiab ces kawg tau kev khosiab, xwb os mog...
Kuv ntxub heev li
Cas koj yuav hai tau zoo ua luaj li OS. Kuv raw koj lawm nb. Thov koj pab raw kuv tus thiab os
Tsis txhob cia siab tias koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj li os neb txoj kev hlub ces tsuas yog yuav ntuj thaum ub xwb nawb tom qab no nws yeej tsis yog tus qub lawm os yog nws hlub koj ces nws tsis muaj lwm tus tshiab li os tsis txhob dag koj tus kheej qhov nws tsis kam tso koj tseg es ua dev leg rau koj ntawv yog nws tsuas lam ua kom tau cai xwb kom koj ntseeg nws es muab koj tus kheej khuam cia kom koj ua neej tsaus ntuj nti xwb koj tsis txhob cia siab rau qhov nws yuav rov los nrog koj ua neej kiag ok kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej xwb tsis txhob tos tus neeg dag ntawv
Good story for us women to learn from. Do not tolerate this
Why would you let this man back in your life? He married a 2nd wife. You are an educated, successfulwoman. You don't need him. You don't need this stress he's doing to you. You deserve better.
I wouldn’t say she is stupid. It’s easy to judge from the outside in. It’s easier said than done. Her relatives are all against her so it’s hard on her. It takes time and courage to finally leave.
Me like your style lady
Yog tim tus poj dab no xwb yog koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj npaum no yog txhob muaj tus niag poj dab no ces koj tus txiv yeej rov los lawm cov ntxhais hmoob plog tuaj ua peb cov poj niam hmoob mikas cov neej puas npaum li no ua cas lub ntuj tsis tig pom li os kuv hlub koj tshaj li os
Tuaj aw yog nws hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis muaj dua ib tug os thaum luag Mus muaj dua ib tug ces yus twb tag nqi lawm nws lam ua kom koj nyob yog thaum twg nws tsis muaj chaw nyob thiaj tau koj so taw xwb os
Vim nej ua dab laug nej twb Hlub tsis tau nej tej muam lawm cov yawm yij thiaj tsis hlub nej cov maum nej cov Txiv Neej nej tau hloov nawb
ua lub neej nyob yog koj pheev xav txog txoj kev hlub thaum hluas xwb ces txoj kev nyuaj siab yeej tsis txawj tag li nawv koj tus txiv twb muab rhuav puas tag lawm nav kav tsij nrhiav dua neej tshiab xwb koj thiaj muaj kev zoo siab li thaum ub nawv.
I don’t understand the brothers obsession with you being in a marriage🤷🏻♀️. I hope you find someone who loves you.
It's all hmong culture bullshiet. This is America. If I am divorced and dying, I don't need nor want any man or my family/brothers giving me an extravagant funeral. Just incinerate my body and be done with it. We all go to the same place when dead anyway. There is NO after life where you go live happily ever after with your loved ones and your spouse. Shiet, I spent my entire lifetime with him already, why would I want to spend an ETERNITY with him in the after life?!!!
Nws yeej mob siab nav tabsis tejzaum tus qub txiv tsis muaj dabtsi nws thiaj li khiav tawm xwb
Nrog peb cov niam loj tu siab ua luaj koj tus txiv tsis yog tuag yog siab phem xwb ntxawm laus npaum twg los kav tsij mus nrhiav ib tus los hlub rau nws ntsia thiaj tsim nyog os viv ncaus aw hmoob siab phem phem li txhob yuav hmoob lawm mus yuav mab yuav suav yuav mekas lawm xwb os mog nrog koj chim siab txog hnub tuag li os
These people are crazy ; like this earth only these 3 goofy people exist, This story makes no sense ,
Your husband does not truly loves you! Love ❤️ does not mean sharing with another woman. He is playing with your heart ❤️ and manipulating your weakness. You’re an educated woman, be strong and bold to stand your ground. Best of luck to you, sister!
Such sad story of a woman’s eternal love to her husband who gave into his desires. As a woman, that’s the ultimate betrayal, how could you ever look at him the same and stay with “his name” and his family? How can you be “friends” with him when he’s intimate with someone else. Ladies move on, stop torturing your soul and you CAN SURVIVE without him and with BE someone else. Their tears mean nothing, it’s you who keep taking him back - so he comes back.
Koj ua yog lawm os
Koj Niag txiv thiàb niag Niam yau CES twb ci qos UA ntej lawm xwb hos koj Niag nus Los Lam UA Dev plhu xwb thiab tsis paub koj txoj Kev mob li thiab, Yog Niam poj niam ko paub Cai npaum li ko CES Twb tsis Rhuav koj lub Neej li , Txhob xav tias Nws yoog2 koj tus txiv thiàb koj no OS Tsis Muaj hnub li nawb, hmoob Yeej Hlub hmoob tiag2 li os mog 😭
Niam lau me vaj aw kuv xav piav kuv zaj neej neeg rau koj hai rau peb moob mloog lo kuv tsi pom qab yuav piav li lawm xyov yuav pib mu zaj twg lis os
Koj lub siab muag muag li xwb. Koj tshai future. Koj thiaj li tsis kam tawv txaus.
Tos li txiv neej pheej tsav hwj chim yuav coob coob tus los tim pojniam tso cai. Thov peb cov pojniam Hmoob hloov thiab os. Koj tus txiv mas yog ib tug neeg siab phem tshaj plaws uas xav kom tau txhij tau txhua. Ntshe yav laus nws tseem yuav nkag kaws los rau koj tu thiab.
Cov poj niam hmoob ruam li no es thiaj mag txiv neej hmoob muab ntaus.. cov neeg ruam zoo li no lo kuv yeej tsis qhuas kiag
Niam tais aw koj twb tag nqi thaum nws yuav niam yau lawm kav tsij mus nrhiav txiv yuav txhob nyob ib leeg kav tsij mus yuav tus luag hlub yus es txhob yuav tus yus hlub luag yuav tau sib hlub ib yam thiaj nyob tau ua ke
Viv ncaus aw kuv to taub koj zoo os. Yog leejtwg tsi rau nkawm khaus ko ces yeej tsi paub nawb.
Yog luag hlub yus ces luag Yeej tsis ntxeev siab ntawm yus mus mas xav ua dev liam moj komyus tso cai rau nws xwb .kav tsij nyob twj ywm li koj muaj ib hnub twg lub ntuj Yeej yuav tig ko diav rau koj xwb os
Niam lau kv xav sau peb lub neej lwj siab tuaj rau kj tham os kv yuav nrog kj tjam tau li ca os pab qhia thb
Hate it when the family force the woman to submission! 🙄🙄🙄
Woman, just let him go. He threatened you with a knife. Don't be with someone like that. Stop being stupid.
Also, forget about your brother and family - forget about those people who chose a stranger over you.
Ntseeg kuv ne kuv hlub tiag hlub kawg kawg haus pau
Lub neej niam loj thiab niam yau ces yeej tsis muaj ib hnoob zoo.koj tu txiv ces ua ib siab nrauj es av tsij mus ua ib lub neej thiab ua ib tug kav ib tug xwb.koj tus nus ces cia ua ib tug thawj coj rau mus kav nyuj kav tshis xwb.nws lub tswv yim tseem nyob xyoo 1970.
Yog koj tsi mus tom ntej ces muaj ib hnub tom niam ntej nws yog nws lub neej tsi kawg ces nws yeej yuav rov ua li qub kom koj rov yuav dua xwb. Mam ntshiav yus yog neeg zoo yeej yuav muaj ib leej zoo zoo sab nraum tsi tau los xwb. Koj twb yog ib leej kawm ntawv qib siab lawm thiab txhob cia luag thuam tias lam kawm qib siab xwb tsi phim lub meej mom dummy li os me niam hluas aw... koj hlub nws koj thiaj ua tsi tau siab phem rau nws tab sis nws tsi hlub koj lawm nws thiaj ntxeev siab tau rau koj na...😢😠😠
Me niam tais aw ib tug neeg hais tias lhub yus tiag2 yuav tsis mus yuav dua ib tug tshiab, koj ua yog kawg lawm ua siab muab nws pov tseg kiag es thiaj tsis lwj siab, hos koj cov neej tsav yog lhub koj ces yuav pab koj es yuav tsis thawb koj rau ib lub niag neej txom nyem siab ntsws.koj yeej ua yog kawg lawm.
Ruam ualuaj na... tebchaws no nyias muaj nyias Kev ywj pheej es tseem cia nyob lub neej zoo li no thiab na...yog nws ua phem ces coj nws mus hlob kav hlau kiag lawm xwb os.
Youre educated, bring home your own money. Dont need a worthless man and why bother listening to other people. Take care of yourself and find someone better. Dont punish yourself for his wrong doing
Kuv hais ghia rau nej tias yog kuv lub neej tsis zoo tsis yuav leej twg hais yus li thaum yus tseem yau peb cov pom Niam yuav tau ntse tsis txhob ruam
😢😢😢
Neeg siab phem siab coob txhob zam rau nws.koj ua tau zoo kawg lawm cov neej tsa no tsis paub yus txoj kev lwj siab
Cas cov neej tsa no yuav muab zoo dhau lawm es kuv tsev neej tsa yuav mus liam ua luaj tseem liam tshaj dev lawm thiab niam tais tuaj tos kiag ntawm tsev mus nws ob tug nus los tseem tuaj nrog nws thauj nws li khoom cuag dab tsi wb twb tau sib nrauj liam ces tsis tshaj kuv cov neej tsa lawm...tsev neej tsa VWM/J
Koj ua yog lawm os niam hluas koj tus Txiv twb tsis Xaiv koj nws Xaiv Nws niam yau xwb es txhob tu siab mog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam lawm ces lawv yeej yuav hlub koj xwb mog