There is a saying in Asia that some people want to be a whale in a pond and flex, aka be self-impressed .... which in your case is Kenya. And there are those who say I am a whale and therefore my proper place is the Ocean and I will compete against whichever whales and make my bones, which is me. And one mo' thang to you wannabe playas and to put ya on real game ... and that is "don't chase the game, let the game come to you" ... feel me, schools wide open, hahaha! Its somewhat akin to what my pops told me when he said cultivate your game so people want to come and touch you ... learn that ASAP!
Yo I remember when I was in my 20s I was in The Bronx and me and my homies ran into this chicks from the group home and one of the chicks looked at my wrist and said oh he dont even have a watch lol Im like bitch u dont even have a stabled home lol yo are right , America is so immature and commercial it make sick to my stomach
@@GRINDETHIKSMIXTAPESHOW so then historicvally speaking, have you seen AA women abandoning their kids or is it usually AA men? my pops always said AA women never got their proper credit and respect through, the slavery, Jim Crow and denial of fundamental civil rights. It is a fact that AA women have been the backbone of support, strength and upliftment in the AA community ... and I will never stop showing my appreciation and admiration!
Yup, it literally is too. Act of 1871... everything changed afterwards and nobody wanted to teach our people or talk about it. Crazy, you know?! What a matrix. It's sad. :(
I have chosen to see America as a hologram! It's not real, it doesn't exist! Like the black man's obsession with the "White" woman! The best way to free yourself of that obsession is to see her as just an illusion... She doesn't exist! You just think she does! The whole idea of the American dream is an ILLUSION! Once I did that, I felt so free!
@@fitnessdatabase3280 everyone’s miserable … and mean for no reason… it’s sad … but thankfully I haven’t experienced it but I see it far to often… smh…
Get your soft ass out of America then. People die to come here, people risk their lives to come here. America is the greatest nation on planet Earth next to Japan.
@justhomas83 I think the problem is the needs of the US establishment. From the needs of capitalism, big business, status driven people, military, and greed, it makes sense to move to other parts of the world
I've been out of the US twice for a period of time. People are just nicer and more social. I had always thought I was the odd one growing up because I didn't share in all of the prison culture habits so many Americans have. Girls always had attitudes and couldn't carry any kind of conversation unless they had a motive. Go overseas and suddenly, I fit in even if I look nothing like them. They have manners, I have manners. They can behave in a civil way and it all just flows.
That depends tho. Yes dating in America is extremely difficult but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be able to get women at all. If you have no social skills, charisma, or nothing cool about you, even if you go to Africa you’ll still get no women.
It' gets harder and harder to not feel that way. It seems like atleast some girls find me attractive in Kenya overseas with dating apps even without flaunting money bu t I feel so hopeless @@biashacker
The new American dream is getting paid and living remotely overseas. Western civilization is declining at a fast rate. People are searching for greener pastures. A quality of life. A life where they don't feel depressed or unhappy. You have one life to live, don't waste it!
The concern I have is thank social media and some people spreading feminist dogma it is slowly spreading to other countries with westernized delusions. Some of is in the travel spaces are acting up and no increasing the entitlement of females. Look at some of the passport spots like Colombia 🇨🇴 which in cities like Medellin and Cartagena are cracking down. Also Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 with their women and some gold digging scams. Also so am concerned about Ghana 🇬🇭 and their land scams along with Nigeria 🇳🇬 and their scamming. Also the women are starting to have attitudes as well for those example I made those countries are 3-4 hour plane rides back to westernized countries. I just hope it doesn’t get ruined. That scares me.
New Yorker here. I agree that living here is not good for one's mental health. Over the past 10 years or so, my depression has steadily gotten worse due to being stuck here. It's just a miserable, soulless, and uncaring environment.
I dunno...most folks don't have money right after high school, and certainly they don't have the maturity to travel internationally if their parents gave them the money. Traveling internationally, if you travel broke you travel badly. Stay in the US, meet international folks, get a career after college, prove your self, become a digital nomad making close to and, ideally, over $100K in 2024 dollars. THEN travel, because you can stay in a four star and up hotel or great AirBnB. Then you can travel and live in good places and not have to worry about living in cheap places like Africa or crap hole S American countries like Colombia. With money, you can go to Portugal and Spain, not scamming Kenya or Ghana.
I'm in Texas USA right now and I'm laughing so much watching this. Americans in America haven't seen good life yet. They are lied to by their system and TVs.
Before I moved overseas I was a Construction Manager down in Miami making over $200,000 a year and people would look down on me as if I was swinging a hammer for a living. I remember when a bank teller once said that when someone walks in with designer clothes they are broke and when someone walks in with overalls that they are rich.
@@GUITARTIME2024 That would not change the regular interaction with people in society on a daily basis who see you in boots, safety vest, hard hat, safety glasses, and sometimes fall protection gear. They think you are some poor soul who's got some misfortune that landed you with a hammer and nails as your destiny. If you saw me at work you would have to know what you are looking at to know this is the guy who is in charge out here and a person who is making some good money. Now, I am not complaining. I always thought it was funny. It's a great industry that was good for my pockets when I was a young man. Very grateful and no matter what happens, I can always build a building so I'll never be a broke boy! 😬😬
I make an extremely respectable income here in the US. I keep myself in shape and can communicate IN PERSON. I cannot figure out how to have a social life here for anything.
There's not much to figure out. Americans in general don't want to make friends outside of their immediate family. But they will also complain about how unfriendly and untrustworthy "everyone else" is while not being a friend themselves. Make it make sense. You better join some actual social clubs if you want to meet the few people who want to make friends.
Are you friendly? Or are you trying to find a relationship for yourself? Whatever you want from other people you must give that. If you want friends, you must show yourself friendly. If you want people to trust you you must show yourself trustworthy. If you want people to respect you you must show yourself respectable and give respect to others. But most people complain that they’re lonely because their relationships is all for themselves. You can’t do that. You gotta be for others then is when you will get in return what you want.
@ then it may just be an effect of what generally happens to women here. I have been hurt so much by men that at this point, I don’t care how wonderful you are. I don’t want a man anymore. The bad ones have ruined it for all. I have had men take advantage of me financially and yet call me the gold digger. I’ve had them manipulate me gaslight me. I stupidly believe them when they said that they loved me. And now I’m at the point where I don’t care anymore. I want all of them to leave me alone whether you are good whether you are nice or not. And maybe you are one of the good ones and unfortunately you’re paying for it.
I make no money, I'm not social, I'm not good at approaching girls, I have mental illness, and it's still not hard for me to meet even the most beautiful girls here. In the states, never ever, ever. IF there's anyway possible you can leave, I would highly recommend it!
Idk seems like folks be focused on everything except their own peace and happiness… why you worried about attracting .. anything especially women.. the right one will be attracted to you. The others arent for you so they dont . If that paints an image that its society’s fault.. idk ..
I work for an airline and I can travel anywhere in the US I want for pretty much nothing and I don’t even want too, I just save up Vacation days for overseas, it’s the same everywhere in the US Bad attitude, bad intentions, bad experiences with modern women… Aston is absolutely right being in the states is for the birds now..
Another issue is the tribalism in America for women. They follow the expectations of their friends. They can meet a quality man and sabotage the entire interaction if one friend of the group doesn't like something about them.......even if it's nonsense
This is 100% true and usually its due to jealousy/control. these girlfriends will go into extreme pressure to get you to conform to their opinions. As a reference, I am married white woman. When I met my husband on tinder, my network of girlfriends at the time initially pretended to be supportive, once they saw we were inseparable they became very jealous. They talked mad *** behind my back, triangulating that he isn't serious about dating (calling him a **boi, because he looked really good). They said he was "directionless" in life, too young, and just wanted a green card. He was the only one who ever showed up for me, he never wanted anything from me. I told them they were wrong about him, overtime I got increased pressure from even my girlfriends partners to break the relationship. The thing is, they were threatened by our potential as a couple. They should have been because 5 years later we are both very successful making way more than any couple we were friends with. Now I am not saying I ever cared, but I had to leave my family and friends because they refused to come to our wedding. jealousy is a poisonous thing. they didn't want us to be GREAT together, including my own family.
107% western females have a bee hive mindset. They follow each other the same way some of them go to the bathroom together. They also choose men from the stand point of which other women perceive them being with a certain man. It's all about climbing up the female hierarchy they have with other females, "look at me, look at me." and all you're doing is feeding her narcissistic supply. A woman's female and male "friends" are the biggest threat to any given relationship
I was born in the Dominican Republic and grew up in Jersey. I was lucky enough to go back to DR in the summer and sometimes for Christmas. Now I try to go 2-3x a year. I'm super appreciative of having the perspective I have. There's beautiful, humble people everywhere outside the U.S. we're such a dumb, distracted, and spoiled country.
Thats because they are waiting for a legal status..im hispanic and thats how it goes..they dont make a mess because they respect the laws and just live life calmly to make money to send home and get a legal status in the u.s and be happy
@@Markanimation-t2v ive met a girl from Africa here in the states and my friend took her out and she wanted all kinds of stuff!! lol All women no matter where they are from They become Americanized when they see how life CAN be.
I'm 47 yrs old and Austin is right about how it USED to be that two guys can have two females that want to hang out with them. Me and my friends used to do that all the time back in the late 90's up until about the mid 2000's. I'm telling yall, social media and dating apps changed EVERYTHING when it comes to dating and females in the U.S. We used to meet chicks in the club, the mall, Walmart, everywhere but once smartphones and Facebook really starting taking over, all the women in the club were in groups literally staring down at their phones the whole time. It's a wrap in the U.S. for us normal non-criminal guys.
yessir...I know what you mean. Social media messed up everything..even in the church. Kevin Samuels was right about these Christian feminists in church who act like the world. Like my cousin who has been living in Africa for over a decade, overseas is the move.
True. Back in the day you could meet women almost anywhere. Now with social media and iPhones every female especially black is always always on the damn phone. It's a wrap for the US.
I heard you have to watch out in DR Dominican Republic 🇩🇴. There have been some horror stories with the women there. A TH-camr named Ulysses talks about it. Just be careful not to get scammed for love and real estate. Remember DR is a 2-4 hour plane ride to matrix USA 🇺🇸
There's a cleansing and unbrainwashing that you feel when you leave. I've been to 50+countries, moved 2019 from the US. It feels AMAZING watching the US from the outside, its like black mirror, and the cost of living and social norms in these others countries are the true 'Dream'.
It’s because it’s all a big mind game in the states. It’s all about ego. This is why no one has any friends. Everyone is afraid to “come off a certain way” instead of just being authentic. Everything is tit for tat, this for that.
Damn, well said..even with those who are blood related, I can't even give my full authentic self because of how the society is. It's like people think you're weird or have an agenda when you're real or genuinely nice.
Yes. That's why everyone just has a dog in America. No human interaction, no trust, no actual friends and also no time to hang out since everything is so far and there is always so much traffic.
playing a character only works up to a point for a society once it gets taken too far, no one really knows what everyone else is really doing, and everyone just feels paranoid and rather hide at home LOL
Exactly. There is no middle class anymore. There are oligarchs, rich people and everyone else trying to survive. This is precisely what dems deny to admit - their voter base disappeared.
I would love to see how the world would be impacted if the US and everything it brings to the table disappeared for even one day, most of yal will be stupid and you won't have an Internet or TH-cam to type anything
I left the US when I was 22, now I'm 35, lived in 3 countries. I'm getting married next month. Wouldn't have it any other way. I had plenty of opportunity outside the US to meet girls even when I was way broker, I always had a girlfriend or something going on. At one point I went back to the US for a year and a half and ended dating a foreign chick in the US. In the US, you are never enough for any woman.
It's the fact that you're American or foreign that makes you alluring to them. Had it been a man from their locality, they really wouldn't be interested. Everyone is forgetting to look at all aspects of the picture. People are interested in what's new and different. For women it's mostly security.
great conversation! looks like my intention to relocate to Kenya from the U.S. is getting stronger by the day. A lot of the matters discussed are valid and this also comes from someone who has spent a lot of time in Kenya.
You have to remember....,America is different than what it used to be. I am old so I can remember the 80's the 90's. Going to the mall, the arcade, Blockbuster...,yes Blockbuster. It was much more social back then. Still overseas in Europe was much much better. You had the music festivals, Ibiza, the Love Parade in Germany, and the best nightclubs. Europe was on a whole other level. Then everything changed in the 2000's. America went downhill fast. To be honest America was never the best, but the way in which America sold out it's people is staggering.
I've never lived abroad, and I already knew this. I'm 37 years old, and I've seen all the immaturity I can handle. Now, I'm doing all that I can to just avoid it.
Bro, I just finished telling a friend and her family the same thing. America is cooked. Expensive for no reason, people are disrespectful and your money goes father elsewhere. Give me 5 years... I'll be debt free and hopefully can make that move.
you don't have 5 years... rush up, pack and leave as son as you can.. have a plan to be able to continue paying your debt from abroad. You have better chance to pay up when you get out and continue to make money remotely.
I relate completely to what you guys are saying towards the end, and I thank you for your videos. I'm freshly single, and I was hopeless for a moment after but after finding your videos, I have been rejuvenated. I've taken the last few months setting up my move and visits to Africa.
Lived in Korea for a year and and now 2 years in Japan. I’ve been telling my friends and family this for years. Even the Koreans, living in a corporate dystopian nightmare, still socialize better than Americans. I’m supposed to go back to the states in one more year and I’m having anxiety, not from having to move and start a new life, but rather there will be no life for me there to live.
I been talking to some African women online for a few weeks because of these conversations. I’m just getting to know them not taking it too serious. It’s like a completely different experience. Kenya 2025
the whole western world is an immature society, when i lived in the philippines i saw many school kids well-behaved. Young teenage girls 15-19 working in my hotel for their school internships were super respectful and very mature. I haven't seen that maturity in most western women in their 20's at all.
Every culture/country has its pros and cons it is what it is you can’t compare the Philippines kids to American kids. It wouldn’t make sense due to culture and geographical differences. I could point out a million wrongs with the Philippines no country will ever be perfect.
@@edwardlawler9487 take what Eddy says with a grain of salt. Dudes been going on several post and being negative when he has never lived in the Philippines
@@xThePrinceOfPeace he's trying to deflect from the real problem and it's bs. Nobody said every Country is perfect but they can offer better things than the USA does.
I’ve been living overseas for over 20 years now and when I visit back in USA 😱( not in a good way, I see so many things I never noticed when I lived there )
I look forward to visiting Kenya for sure. City life in the US can be exactly like what they are saying. I grew up in Mississippi with a very large extended family, so I was blessed to experience a collective culture in my community. Nonetheless, I'm sure nothing beats living in the motherland as a black man
American is a lost society it horrible I am now starting to look for options to leave I am tired of working and no progress I am making 80k a year still feel broke cause the cost of living is insane
80k is below poverty in most large cities right now. I was lucky to work with a co-worker who had a math degree. One day he calculated all basic expenses in our area: food, apartment, car insurance, gas, utilities, clothing, bills. It came out to 67k gross for a single person, the year was 2014. Now after covid almost all prices doubled. I don't want to calculate monthly expenses now because it will make me cr-y-y-.
Spotted you and Auston in Kilimani tonight talking with a girl in the elevator. Much thanks for inspiring/encouraging myself and other guys to come to Nairobi/Kenya/East Africa. Its been an amazing experience so far and I wish you brothers much success.
This brotha hit the nail on the HEAD! Very well articulated. It's primarily a lose lose situation with American women. American women have let feminism, consumerism and equal rights ruin their minds.
It's the programming in the States. I want to leave, but I feel if I did, it would be even worse. It broke my heart when an amazon customer service worker cried on my call because I was just being what I thought was normal but she said that everybody was so rude to her in previous calls and I was nice, pleasant and made her day. I'll visit other countries, but I have to be light within the darkness. But, I still tell everybody to leave asap 😂
I'm looking to start living the expat life next year. I have a nice nest egg from nearly a decade of scrimping and saving, but other than that, I have NOTHING here- no friends, no family, no career, no connections.... every year is more depressing and demoralizing than the last.....why NOT restart my life overseas? What have I got to lose?
I am a Kenyan and I am always amazed at westerners saying that we are so friendly. Now I know why because we always just try to be normal. Kind, respectful, and appreciative of other human beings. That should be the bear minimum. As social media warriors, we'll completely destroy anyone that disrespects another human for the simple fact that their situation is different.
The West is done, and has been done for decades. The West is great at advertizing itself as the best. Leave the West, and you will experience life as it should be experienced.
Absolutely 💯 well said 👏 And they have ruined people across the globe quitting their best life in their countries and rushing to the West based on PROPAGANDA.
I’m 46 years old. This country is not designed for the working class man to live his best life, especially if he’s black. 60% of the women have kids already. 70% are overweight. There is definitely level of class here that’s in the toilet & unfortunately a lot of our women regardless of where they’ve come from they find it desirable. So sad.
I absolutely agree. The music that we listened to in the 90s 00s, made you want to be romantic, lovey dovey, and socialize. Music nowadays has something that makes us mistrust one another and almost hate one another. Remember the song "Where is the Love" (Hathaway/Flack). That's what I want to know.
I agree with you man. There are social and cultural mindsets here that are very disrespectful and appalling. Good on you, you talk well, you’re a business man, you have logic and a good mind set. Keep going 👍✌️👍👍👍👍💯
@@maxjohnson1758 Yeah. I keep hearing people talking about this pendulum. My dad keeps telling me “the pendulum will swing back the other way.” But it seems like every single piece of evidence there is contradicts that sentiment. I genuinely believe it’s too far gone. The cat’s out of the bag; Pandora’s box has been opened.
Great interview. Following your 8-hour stream in NY, a lot of what you experienced and Auston is true. Like you said, it feels broken for sure, this is not how society is supposed to function at all. No common decency and respect for others. If someone talks to you, you don't have to disrespect them. If you are not interested, you tell them respectively, not treat them like a creep or a fool. And that don't call within X-hours, is some BS, most people elsewhere probably don't do that. Auston's experience of texting early and sabotaging the whole thing is definitely true and does happen.
I'm a 25-year-old Nigerian currently living in Toronto, maxing out what Americans call a 401(k) and IRA every year. Yes, Africa is often labeled as poor, but trust me, we’re happy. Compared to the misery I see among Americans and Canadians, this place feels like a dystopia. I can’t wait for my 30s, when I plan to move back to Africa or South America to live off my dividends and raise my family. In the meantime, I’m focusing on personal growth. I’m fit and hit the gym twice a week to stay strong and in shape. I still manage to pull some Canadian girls, but honestly, I know I deserve better than the options here. They’re not bad, but if I were in Colombia or Kenya, I’d be pulling 10s with ease. 😎
Best to meet someone with a 10/10 personality! There are a lot of people walking around that are pretty on the outside and ugly on the inside. Be careful!
I met a Nigerian in Canada. He was an Uber driver. He has already constructed 3 houses in Uganda. He said he is leaving back to Africa in a couple years and will never be going back to the West.
I just can't wait to come to the motherland. Kenya, Uganda, Burkina Faso because I need to see it for myself. I just want to see where my ancestors came from and God willing live among them again.
@@afrikanheritage99 Am just saying it's funny how Americans call all African countries motherland while we are trying to escape😂. I love Black Americans🥰. All the best!
He so right on with the club scene here I went to a Latino club and it was the same ish as black ones , mfs just standing around , really no interaction,men and women not really talking to each other unless it’s a couple , boujie b resting faces . Same with the people here and they immaturity it disgust me seeing women here with they bonnets on in public , big lashes on they eyes til the point it look like they have wings on they eye lids , wearing furry slides sliding they feet and being all loud in public .
@@NewYorkerinLondon7 Lies- The richest black man in the World is ALIKO DANGOTE AND HE'S A NIGERIAN. We have uncountable billionaires in Nigeria 🇳🇬 alone.
Omg this conversation is how I feel everyday. I get flamed so hard when I bring up these very things to people, and accused of being a hater, or bitter. I remember telling my sons not to imitate the urban dress style that they grew up around because it shows a very immature mindset. I try to instill in them that they should pride themselves in dressing how they like regardless of how everyone dressed around them. I didn’t want them to feel they had to wear Jordans just to feel well dressed. That’s why I never liked dating American men. They had very little family values, or maturity, and I didn’t like the mindset. As a black woman I got accused of trying to be white, until they would bully me into showing them I wasn’t to be toyed with. I could go on and on, and it’s the very reason I even started working on a channel to address these very topics. The mindset is terrible here in the US. It is a very classless, immature, and immoral place. That’s why I feel so disheartened when I see other cultures imitating ours. SMH
America has made me appreciate Hell a lot more. Because what a paradise it can be, to know that everyone there is suffering equally. If God exists, it should’ve done something about America in order to have going to Hell as a serious threat. If I end up in Hell, I’ll consider it a vacation.
What lie is this. It’s hell for women here. It only hell for controlling men who don’t love themselves and expect women to owe them things. Get it right. Patriarchy affects us both.
Don't take it so far. Just because you are a man and the situation doesn't favour you doesn't mean the other side is benefitting from this. You are engaging in this "us vs them" culture that's ruining your country
He's definitly talking about my daughter she 24 and severely under developed 24 going on 14 i do my best to raise her standards and class smh but this is what i was handed after divorce this is what the mom and grandmom produced (no disrespect to them just the actuality of my individual circumstance)
Haha I relate to this so much, in shape, well traveled, retired from the military and a travel nurse. I ain’t running the streets. I quit travel nursing and just travel the world now. Best decision ever.
As a 48 year old American man, yes, we had great social lives in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Most of my friends on FB are all real friends that I used to or still hang and spend time with. We had great, substantial relationships with people, that have become a thing of the past it seems, at least here in the US.
I haven’t commented on a YT video in over a decade. This interview was sincere, insightful, and alarming. From start to finish. From start to finish, from the culture of openness in Nairobi to the disparity in cost in nightclubs/bottle service and rent, the message is clear; it’s not you. It’s not just you. It’s your environment in the west. Leave and find what you’re missing. 10/10 interview.
The “south”, where specifically, a whole state the size of Texas has different regions. Places in the southeast specifically like NC, SC, GA literally have several different topographies and climates from coastal plain elevations to the Appalachian plateau. Also 4 seasons at that. Illinois is mostly flat and desolate in regards to lush greenery as well as diverse topography, most of the Midwest. You have to know what you are talking about in geography before labeling a region let alone a state the size of Texas.
Thank you for this vindication lol. Everything you said about America is so true. Money wise it’s still the richest in the world but morally and culturally the US is bankrupt af. The only reason why I wouldn’t live overseas forever is because my parents live here
I am 26 and born and raised in Texas, I am a female who never understood America ways and I grew up here. I would have loved to meet a guy like you! I believe in America things here a cool if it's toxic, and it's apart of the program they do to us here by the food we eat, the music that goes in our ears, what plays on the program TV. Ect ect ect, PRAY FOR AMERICA WITCHCRAFT
I remember growing up in the Midwest where you would go to college get married become the coach of a baseball team, the wife would have bakery sales which would lead to a bakery business. Pretty wholesome stuff. Then everything went off the rails.
Yea, everyone tries to ‘nickel and dime’ each other here. At work, in business, in politics, social life, dating life, etc etc Maybe, just maybe, a person will have a handful of family and friends that actually care about them, but that’s getting less and less common with each new generation. This really can’t be considered a society.
I happen to wonder onto this video by mistake but WOW! The truth that I’m hearing is so refreshing. Here’s a guy who looks very handsome and has charisma and confidence. There’s a certain charm about him and I know how he feels. The women in the states don’t even want a great guy like him because of the games they play. I’m glad for him that he found the truth and found it outside the states. May I say, he feels more healthy living outside the states. I used to live in Dallas and he’s 1000% right. Guys are starting to wake up and I feel it too! What a fantastic conversation and to think, I found it by mistake. Thanks for your truth. It’s so refreshing!
It is called inflation. The destruction of money also leads to the destruction of values and basic social principles. The dollar has lost 99% of its value since 1917, and the trajectory of the USA wealth has also dwindled in the same period, especially since 1971 when the dollar was completely decoupled from Gold. The current societal collapse is evident across all “ advanced” economies but also in third world countries as well. Americans are victims. People are just trying to survive by any means necessary and as long as the quality of life keeps on dwindling, we ought to expect this type of behavior. In Kenya, you are the man because: You bring the $$$. Believe me, that helps a lot…
Yes. Because men are needed to survive. Because getting married also means giving dowry, so her parents are giving her away to live a family life and take care of her kids along with her husband.
The problem that I have with America is how America views rejection, let's say that someone went up to a friend group and said may I join you, and then that person got rejected and then went back to their other friend group that accepted them, that's probably why no one ventures off to talk to other people and prefer to be in their own group instead because everyone is afraid that they'll be rejected by another group if they venture off to talk to other groups, because we've been taught by society that "rejection is a part of life" that's probably why many people are lonely because they've been taught this toxic mindset, and it's getting out of control, most people treat everyone else like they're invisible
Rejection might be a part of life, but IMO the expectation that someone should be willing to endure it constantly across the span of YEARS is extremely unhealthy and unrealistic. IMO, show me a married American woman and I’ll show you someone who doesn’t realize that her husband has survived at least a decade in a social pressure cooker by age 25. “Why does he act like that? Psychological scar tissue. A LOT of it, and a good amount of it is the result of trying to meet, or dealing with, women over the course of years, possibly including his mother and his sisters…”
Malls in the US now i saw they are building houses inside of them so that they can have people inside to avoid them closing down or collapse 😂😂Imagine is that crazy and still there's shortage of houses
I am dying to get out of the United States, I have a medical pension from the military of 1200 a month looking for somewhere that can budget for that and get a job teaching english hopefully. What's happened to this country is so disgusting I can't deal with it anymore.
I live in the Philippines bro, my rent is like $230-$240 USD a month for a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house in a gated community (comparable to something in the US), so if you're solo and will only require a one bedroom.....I'm sure it will be cheaper. Go for it, you adapt and overcome, you'll find a way and make it work....Good luck and safe travels!
@ You're welcome bro...Its not hard at all! On arrival you automatically get 30 days, then I believe your first renewal is for another 30 days. But after that, you renew every 2 months. It sometimes changes though, (you used to be able to renew for 6 months, but they did away with that like 5 or six months ago). All you do is go to the immigration office (Here in Cebu, it's in Cebu City, at the mall), pay your fee, and get your renewal. I been here for 2 years.
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There is a saying in Asia that some people want to be a whale in a pond and flex, aka be self-impressed .... which in your case is Kenya. And there are those who say I am a whale and therefore my proper place is the Ocean and I will compete against whichever whales and make my bones, which is me. And one mo' thang to you wannabe playas and to put ya on real game ... and that is "don't chase the game, let the game come to you" ... feel me, schools wide open, hahaha! Its somewhat akin to what my pops told me when he said cultivate your game so people want to come and touch you ... learn that ASAP!
Yo I remember when I was in my 20s I was in The Bronx and me and my homies ran into this chicks from the group home and one of the chicks looked at my wrist and said oh he dont even have a watch lol Im like bitch u dont even have a stabled home lol yo are right , America is so immature and commercial it make sick to my stomach
that is mostly nyc where women act like stuck up and in a few other cities but in the south and midwest for the most part the chicks are cool
@@GRINDETHIKSMIXTAPESHOW so then historicvally speaking, have you seen AA women abandoning their kids or is it usually AA men? my pops always said AA women never got their proper credit and respect through, the slavery, Jim Crow and denial of fundamental civil rights. It is a fact that AA women have been the backbone of support, strength and upliftment in the AA community ... and I will never stop showing my appreciation and admiration!
@tianzi49 look at the state of the community and say that again. It's a backbone with scoliosis.
The U.S. is a company, not a society
You have said that absolutely right! And are notably, shameless about it too!
Yup, it literally is too. Act of 1871... everything changed afterwards and nobody wanted to teach our people or talk about it. Crazy, you know?! What a matrix. It's sad. :(
Boom!!
The American Republic still Exists!
They're in 'parallel', though.
Or maybe one has been overlayed or superimposed upon the other, more like
Well said! 😮
“United States is a very immature society”
When I see how everyday citizens treat each other in this country I’m reminded of this all the time.
I have chosen to see America as a hologram! It's not real, it doesn't exist! Like the black man's obsession with the "White" woman! The best way to free yourself of that obsession is to see her as just an illusion... She doesn't exist! You just think she does! The whole idea of the American dream is an ILLUSION! Once I did that, I felt so free!
Its a young country but the crazy thing is they want to preach their values to countries with ancient histories.
@@chosen7127This. When some Americans visit Europe or Asia they genuinely believe that we want their input 😂
ppl only value you if you can do something for them in America.
Immature or insane?
Get paid from America and spend it outside of America is the sweet spot
fact!
You got it!! 😁
This won't last forever tho
Exactly! This is my ultimate goal in life! The new American dream is to leave America!
@@Usernam3000 neither will the sun, the moon or anything else. What’s your point
Living in the US is an isolating and soulless experience
I've been by myself for 10 years, now 30.
@@fitnessdatabase3280 everyone’s miserable … and mean for no reason… it’s sad … but thankfully I haven’t experienced it but I see it far to often… smh…
Zombie nation America
Get your soft ass out of America then. People die to come here, people risk their lives to come here. America is the greatest nation on planet Earth next to Japan.
@justhomas83 I think the problem is the needs of the US establishment. From the needs of capitalism, big business, status driven people, military, and greed, it makes sense to move to other parts of the world
Once you leave America you will feel better
I've been out of the US twice for a period of time. People are just nicer and more social. I had always thought I was the odd one growing up because I didn't share in all of the prison culture habits so many Americans have. Girls always had attitudes and couldn't carry any kind of conversation unless they had a motive.
Go overseas and suddenly, I fit in even if I look nothing like them. They have manners, I have manners. They can behave in a civil way and it all just flows.
And Europe
"It's not you it's America." Thank you for saying this. All my life I've been told that it's my fault.
That depends tho. Yes dating in America is extremely difficult but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be able to get women at all. If you have no social skills, charisma, or nothing cool about you, even if you go to Africa you’ll still get no women.
That's America. Blaming the victim to distract from real corruption and inequity.
They always try to make it seem like it is your fault.
Open they eyes to the lies, history's told foul
But I'm as wise as the old owl
It' gets harder and harder to not feel that way. It seems like atleast some girls find me attractive in Kenya overseas with dating apps even without flaunting money bu
t I feel so hopeless @@biashacker
The new American dream is getting paid and living remotely overseas. Western civilization is declining at a fast rate. People are searching for greener pastures. A quality of life. A life where they don't feel depressed or unhappy. You have one life to live, don't waste it!
The concern I have is thank social media and some people spreading feminist dogma it is slowly spreading to other countries with westernized delusions. Some of is in the travel spaces are acting up and no increasing the entitlement of females. Look at some of the passport spots like Colombia 🇨🇴 which in cities like Medellin and Cartagena are cracking down. Also Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 with their women and some gold digging scams. Also so am concerned about Ghana 🇬🇭 and their land scams along with Nigeria 🇳🇬 and their scamming. Also the women are starting to have attitudes as well for those example I made those countries are 3-4 hour plane rides back to westernized countries. I just hope it doesn’t get ruined. That scares me.
Currently ❤🙏🏾
Yep
@@MRNewYorkkkk Most certainly
True, people in third world are more friendly food is way better than the usa ni joke
The loneliness time in my life was when I lived in New York.
Hard to believe then, but hearing this conversation confirms a lot of things.
I'm in New york I hate it 😢
@@AitanaMartin-mj7km I agree. It really sucks living here.
@@GoodStoryGames yes dear good luck to you to your channel
@@AitanaMartin-mj7km thank you!
New Yorker here. I agree that living here is not good for one's mental health. Over the past 10 years or so, my depression has steadily gotten worse due to being stuck here. It's just a miserable, soulless, and uncaring environment.
The USA it’s a boring, empty, expensive and feel-alone place, period.
Life in the united snakes of amerikkka is extremely miserable.
Yes it is.....
Then leave
@@appleo7168hurt 😂
That's gotta be T-SHIRT
@@Donny_Shoes Motion carried!
America was not like this in the 90s and early 2000's. It was so different. It's so sad now.
You are absolutely right Monique.
thanx joe biden and the leftists
@@frankwright5522you can thank Bush’s second term and Obama as well.
@@frankwright5522 bill Clinton is leftist and had the country running great… the right destroyed the country..do your research
@jqight740 they were crook2 too
Thats why i always advocate for people to travel internationally, especially right after high school. opens up ones mind and expands horizons.
This is the best advice one can receive.
Gap year
Wish I had done this for sure
Bingo. And the most solid people I've ever met here in the States also happen to be well traveled. That's no coincidence.
I dunno...most folks don't have money right after high school, and certainly they don't have the maturity to travel internationally if their parents gave them the money.
Traveling internationally, if you travel broke you travel badly. Stay in the US, meet international folks, get a career after college, prove your self, become a digital nomad making close to and, ideally, over $100K in 2024 dollars. THEN travel, because you can stay in a four star and up hotel or great AirBnB. Then you can travel and live in good places and not have to worry about living in cheap places like Africa or crap hole S American countries like Colombia. With money, you can go to Portugal and Spain, not scamming Kenya or Ghana.
I'm in Texas USA right now and I'm laughing so much watching this. Americans in America haven't seen good life yet. They are lied to by their system and TVs.
America is just ahead of the game. The world is following. Talk to the OG travelers.
it is The Matrix.
@@notmyrealname977 Getting back the resources they are taking from other countries. That's why I'm here. You see,,, you can't even understand.!
The anus of the US
I usually don't agree w texans being a nyer but u are a hundred percent right. .it's a soulless place.
Before I moved overseas I was a Construction Manager down in Miami making over $200,000 a year and people would look down on me as if I was swinging a hammer for a living. I remember when a bank teller once said that when someone walks in with designer clothes they are broke and when someone walks in with overalls that they are rich.
Should have said " Contracting Director".
@@GUITARTIME2024 That would not change the regular interaction with people in society on a daily basis who see you in boots, safety vest, hard hat, safety glasses, and sometimes fall protection gear. They think you are some poor soul who's got some misfortune that landed you with a hammer and nails as your destiny.
If you saw me at work you would have to know what you are looking at to know this is the guy who is in charge out here and a person who is making some good money.
Now, I am not complaining. I always thought it was funny. It's a great industry that was good for my pockets when I was a young man. Very grateful and no matter what happens, I can always build a building so I'll never be a broke boy! 😬😬
But also, no one should even be looked down on for swinging a hammer and making $20,000.
@loudcryofthe4thangel of course not, but women do.
@@loudcryofthe4thangel💯
I make an extremely respectable income here in the US. I keep myself in shape and can communicate IN PERSON. I cannot figure out how to have a social life here for anything.
There's not much to figure out. Americans in general don't want to make friends outside of their immediate family. But they will also complain about how unfriendly and untrustworthy "everyone else" is while not being a friend themselves. Make it make sense.
You better join some actual social clubs if you want to meet the few people who want to make friends.
Are you friendly? Or are you trying to find a relationship for yourself? Whatever you want from other people you must give that. If you want friends, you must show yourself friendly. If you want people to trust you you must show yourself trustworthy. If you want people to respect you you must show yourself respectable and give respect to others. But most people complain that they’re lonely because their relationships is all for themselves. You can’t do that. You gotta be for others then is when you will get in return what you want.
@jennifervaughn1541 i think im pretty friendly and outgoing!!
@ then it may just be an effect of what generally happens to women here. I have been hurt so much by men that at this point, I don’t care how wonderful you are. I don’t want a man anymore. The bad ones have ruined it for all. I have had men take advantage of me financially and yet call me the gold digger. I’ve had them manipulate me gaslight me. I stupidly believe them when they said that they loved me. And now I’m at the point where I don’t care anymore. I want all of them to leave me alone whether you are good whether you are nice or not. And maybe you are one of the good ones and unfortunately you’re paying for it.
I make no money, I'm not social, I'm not good at approaching girls, I have mental illness, and it's still not hard for me to meet even the most beautiful girls here. In the states, never ever, ever. IF there's anyway possible you can leave, I would highly recommend it!
Only wealthy ppl are having a good time in the states its to expensive to do anything an you always working to keep up with inflation
Facts.
Even those wealthy men are leaving
facts that's why we need to build assets and have our money work for us.
@@theultimate341 💯
Wealthy ppl are having a good time everywhere bc money is the only thing that really matters in this society
These two men are 100% on point
Idk seems like folks be focused on everything except their own peace and happiness… why you worried about attracting .. anything especially women.. the right one will be attracted to you. The others arent for you so they dont . If that paints an image that its society’s fault.. idk ..
Felt that in my soul whenever he said he couldn’t vibe with chicks his age in the US
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I work for an airline and I can travel anywhere in the US I want for pretty much nothing and I don’t even want too, I just save up Vacation days for overseas, it’s the same everywhere in the US Bad attitude, bad intentions, bad experiences with modern women… Aston is absolutely right being in the states is for the birds now..
The food in those restaurants are starting to taste as bad as their attitudes. I cook better food at home.
Another issue is the tribalism in America for women. They follow the expectations of their friends. They can meet a quality man and sabotage the entire interaction if one friend of the group doesn't like something about them.......even if it's nonsense
This is very true
This is 100% true and usually its due to jealousy/control. these girlfriends will go into extreme pressure to get you to conform to their opinions. As a reference, I am married white woman. When I met my husband on tinder, my network of girlfriends at the time initially pretended to be supportive, once they saw we were inseparable they became very jealous. They talked mad *** behind my back, triangulating that he isn't serious about dating (calling him a **boi, because he looked really good). They said he was "directionless" in life, too young, and just wanted a green card. He was the only one who ever showed up for me, he never wanted anything from me. I told them they were wrong about him, overtime I got increased pressure from even my girlfriends partners to break the relationship. The thing is, they were threatened by our potential as a couple. They should have been because 5 years later we are both very successful making way more than any couple we were friends with. Now I am not saying I ever cared, but I had to leave my family and friends because they refused to come to our wedding. jealousy is a poisonous thing. they didn't want us to be GREAT together, including my own family.
107% western females have a bee hive mindset. They follow each other the same way some of them go to the bathroom together. They also choose men from the stand point of which other women perceive them being with a certain man. It's all about climbing up the female hierarchy they have with other females, "look at me, look at me." and all you're doing is feeding her narcissistic supply. A woman's female and male "friends" are the biggest threat to any given relationship
I was born in the Dominican Republic and grew up in Jersey. I was lucky enough to go back to DR in the summer and sometimes for Christmas. Now I try to go 2-3x a year. I'm super appreciative of having the perspective I have. There's beautiful, humble people everywhere outside the U.S. we're such a dumb, distracted, and spoiled country.
Agreed, cheers!
😂😂😂😂😂 I am enjoying this thread. People are saying things they way it really is in America.
Most African women ive met in America are kind, respectful and intelligent.
I've hardly meet any. But semi-Americanized is FAR better than full American.
Until they become Americanized which is a crazy thing to see. American changes people especially women
Thats because they are waiting for a legal status..im hispanic and thats how it goes..they dont make a mess because they respect the laws and just live life calmly to make money to send home and get a legal status in the u.s and be happy
@@Markanimation-t2v ive met a girl from Africa here in the states and my friend took her out and she wanted all kinds of stuff!! lol
All women no matter where they are from
They become Americanized when they see how life CAN be.
I'm 47 yrs old and Austin is right about how it USED to be that two guys can have two females that want to hang out with them. Me and my friends used to do that all the time back in the late 90's up until about the mid 2000's. I'm telling yall, social media and dating apps changed EVERYTHING when it comes to dating and females in the U.S. We used to meet chicks in the club, the mall, Walmart, everywhere but once smartphones and Facebook really starting taking over, all the women in the club were in groups literally staring down at their phones the whole time. It's a wrap in the U.S. for us normal non-criminal guys.
They line up to get prego by criminals and drugged up drug dealers
yessir...I know what you mean. Social media messed up everything..even in the church. Kevin Samuels was right about these Christian feminists in church who act like the world. Like my cousin who has been living in Africa for over a decade, overseas is the move.
Factz..that's why I still argue but times have changed
True. Back in the day you could meet women almost anywhere. Now with social media and iPhones every female especially black is always always on the damn phone. It's a wrap for the US.
We gotta fight the powers that BE! Rage against the machine! Deplug From The Matrix! Not God bless America, God DAMN America!
I came back from DR and realized how bottom of the barrel America really is on all cylinders, quite crazy actually
I heard you have to watch out in DR Dominican Republic 🇩🇴. There have been some horror stories with the women there. A TH-camr named Ulysses talks about it. Just be careful not to get scammed for love and real estate. Remember DR is a 2-4 hour plane ride to matrix USA 🇺🇸
How is the DR to live?
Lol, you must be on that dmt shit
Amen. Being in Santo Domingo made me NEVER want to go back to the DMV.
@dekayjones Whats the good things about Santo Domingo? How long can I visit at a time? Is it easy to live there?
There's a cleansing and unbrainwashing that you feel when you leave. I've been to 50+countries, moved 2019 from the US. It feels AMAZING watching the US from the outside, its like black mirror, and the cost of living and social norms in these others countries are the true 'Dream'.
It’s because it’s all a big mind game in the states. It’s all about ego. This is why no one has any friends. Everyone is afraid to “come off a certain way” instead of just being authentic. Everything is tit for tat, this for that.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽well put
I’m in La right now and this place sucks
Exactly!!
Damn, well said..even with those who are blood related, I can't even give my full authentic self because of how the society is. It's like people think you're weird or have an agenda when you're real or genuinely nice.
Yes. That's why everyone just has a dog in America. No human interaction, no trust, no actual friends and also no time to hang out since everything is so far and there is always so much traffic.
playing a character only works up to a point for a society
once it gets taken too far, no one really knows what everyone else is really doing, and everyone just feels paranoid and rather hide at home LOL
This whole convo was wholesome. Auston is always great to listen to because he brings it and doesn't sugarcoat anything.
🤥😅 Ngoja tu. Hapa Karibuni wataongelelea dada wetu hivi.
@Mianzi-bloom And we won't be surprised because we know what they are about. Even then, they believe the ones in the States are extra.
Everyone in America is in denial that we’re so horribly impoverished. Yet we have to maintain an aura that we’re still at very least middle class.
Exactly. There is no middle class anymore. There are oligarchs, rich people and everyone else trying to survive. This is precisely what dems deny to admit - their voter base disappeared.
The American Dream is outside of America. You bust your ass for 5 days a week to get 2 days off just to make ends meet.
Sometimes, 1 day off.
😔😔😔
My current job had pto starting fresh for the year now they dont have that you gott work 4 months to earn 40hrs when ive been there for 3 years
🇺🇲 is not a good place and the USD is the only good thing about it.
Bingo!!!!!
The accuracy 🎯
The US passport is the only good thing. The money is great but unless you manage it wisely and invest wisely it’s worthless.
I would love to see how the world would be impacted if the US and everything it brings to the table disappeared for even one day, most of yal will be stupid and you won't have an Internet or TH-cam to type anything
USD has lost so much value though why do you praise a dying dollar?
I left the US when I was 22, now I'm 35, lived in 3 countries. I'm getting married next month. Wouldn't have it any other way. I had plenty of opportunity outside the US to meet girls even when I was way broker, I always had a girlfriend or something going on. At one point I went back to the US for a year and a half and ended dating a foreign chick in the US. In the US, you are never enough for any woman.
It's the fact that you're American or foreign that makes you alluring to them. Had it been a man from their locality, they really wouldn't be interested. Everyone is forgetting to look at all aspects of the picture. People are interested in what's new and different. For women it's mostly security.
Which countries did you live in and which was better?
great conversation! looks like my intention to relocate to Kenya from the U.S. is getting stronger by the day. A lot of the matters discussed are valid and this also comes from someone who has spent a lot of time in Kenya.
Go! Mombasa on the coast, you will fly ✈️ into Nairobi and take a train to the coast, go!
It’s a shame that we’re not at home 🏡 At Home. Being a subculture under social dominance isn’t fun
It's crazy isn't it. Thanks for the support.
Very true insight.
You have to remember....,America is different than what it used to be. I am old so I can remember the 80's the 90's. Going to the mall, the arcade, Blockbuster...,yes Blockbuster. It was much more social back then. Still overseas in Europe was much much better. You had the music festivals, Ibiza, the Love Parade in Germany, and the best nightclubs. Europe was on a whole other level.
Then everything changed in the 2000's. America went downhill fast. To be honest America was never the best, but the way in which America sold out it's people is staggering.
Yeah a love that most Europeans enjoyed
Technology ruined America
So true.
Blockbuster on a Friday night was the spot, lol....
@@mmepatron619 Yes, I remember wen people used to go to Blockbuster to find dates.
For a minute, I thought it was just me. This is so refreshing.
I've never lived abroad, and I already knew this. I'm 37 years old, and I've seen all the immaturity I can handle. Now, I'm doing all that I can to just avoid it.
Bro, I just finished telling a friend and her family the same thing. America is cooked. Expensive for no reason, people are disrespectful and your money goes father elsewhere. Give me 5 years... I'll be debt free and hopefully can make that move.
you don't have 5 years... rush up, pack and leave as son as you can.. have a plan to be able to continue paying your debt from abroad. You have better chance to pay up when you get out and continue to make money remotely.
I relate completely to what you guys are saying towards the end, and I thank you for your videos. I'm freshly single, and I was hopeless for a moment after but after finding your videos, I have been rejuvenated. I've taken the last few months setting up my move and visits to Africa.
Lived in Korea for a year and and now 2 years in Japan. I’ve been telling my friends and family this for years. Even the Koreans, living in a corporate dystopian nightmare, still socialize better than Americans. I’m supposed to go back to the states in one more year and I’m having anxiety, not from having to move and start a new life, but rather there will be no life for me there to live.
Yeah, I would do everything possible so that I never have to go back to America.
Very good point. I’m moving back to Korea. One of the reasons being that America is dead now lol ☠️
The new generations are definitely stuck being kids. Stuck in childhood fantasies of video games, and toys, the toys just get more expensive.
I been talking to some African women online for a few weeks because of these conversations. I’m just getting to know them not taking it too serious.
It’s like a completely different experience.
Kenya 2025
the whole western world is an immature society, when i lived in the philippines i saw many school kids well-behaved. Young teenage girls 15-19 working in my hotel for their school internships were super respectful and very mature. I haven't seen that maturity in most western women in their 20's at all.
Every culture/country has its pros and cons it is what it is you can’t compare the Philippines kids to American kids. It wouldn’t make sense due to culture and geographical differences. I could point out a million wrongs with the Philippines no country will ever be perfect.
@@edwardlawler9487 take what Eddy says with a grain of salt. Dudes been going on several post and being negative when he has never lived in the Philippines
@@xThePrinceOfPeace ah one of those guys huh 🤦🏽♂️
@@edwardlawler9487aa well behave kid is a well behave kid and american kids aren't that
@@xThePrinceOfPeace he's trying to deflect from the real problem and it's bs. Nobody said every Country is perfect but they can offer better things than the USA does.
I’ve been living overseas for over 20 years now and when I visit back in USA 😱( not in a good way, I see so many things I never noticed when I lived there )
In which country did you end up?
I look forward to visiting Kenya for sure. City life in the US can be exactly like what they are saying. I grew up in Mississippi with a very large extended family, so I was blessed to experience a collective culture in my community. Nonetheless, I'm sure nothing beats living in the motherland as a black man
Nothing. Please go.
As a Kenyan woman,its unfortunate but Kenya women will treat you like a king.
Nice work bro, I’m about 3 years out from being able to move overseas! You’re a inspiration
He’s so young and he gets it.
American is a lost society it horrible I am now starting to look for options to leave I am tired of working and no progress I am making 80k a year still feel broke cause the cost of living is insane
80k is below poverty in most large cities right now. I was lucky to work with a co-worker who had a math degree. One day he calculated all basic expenses in our area: food, apartment, car insurance, gas, utilities, clothing, bills. It came out to 67k gross for a single person, the year was 2014. Now after covid almost all prices doubled. I don't want to calculate monthly expenses now because it will make me cr-y-y-.
Spotted you and Auston in Kilimani tonight talking with a girl in the elevator. Much thanks for inspiring/encouraging myself and other guys to come to Nairobi/Kenya/East Africa. Its been an amazing experience so far and I wish you brothers much success.
That's crazy because in Asia if you don't reply to them within a couple hours after getting their contact they will block you 🤣
Big facts
Asia is also an illusion
Exactly
? Sounds like professionals
My type...
This brotha hit the nail on the HEAD! Very well articulated. It's primarily a lose lose situation with American women. American women have let feminism, consumerism and equal rights ruin their minds.
It's the programming in the States. I want to leave, but I feel if I did, it would be even worse. It broke my heart when an amazon customer service worker cried on my call because I was just being what I thought was normal but she said that everybody was so rude to her in previous calls and I was nice, pleasant and made her day. I'll visit other countries, but I have to be light within the darkness. But, I still tell everybody to leave asap 😂
Wow. Yeah this place is one big scam. I'm 52 with kids and stuck doing the best I can but I feel genuinely robbed by this place.
I'm looking to start living the expat life next year. I have a nice nest egg from nearly a decade of scrimping and saving, but other than that, I have NOTHING here- no friends, no family, no career, no connections.... every year is more depressing and demoralizing than the last.....why NOT restart my life overseas? What have I got to lose?
Do it .
I am a Kenyan and I am always amazed at westerners saying that we are so friendly. Now I know why because we always just try to be normal. Kind, respectful, and appreciative of other human beings. That should be the bear minimum. As social media warriors, we'll completely destroy anyone that disrespects another human for the simple fact that their situation is different.
Lovely culture you people have then i'm head there to appreciate it too
The West is done, and has been done for decades. The West is great at advertizing itself as the best. Leave the West, and you will experience life as it should be experienced.
Absolutely 💯 well said 👏 And they have ruined people across the globe quitting their best life in their countries and rushing to the West based on PROPAGANDA.
I’m 46 years old. This country is not designed for the working class man to live his best life, especially if he’s black. 60% of the women have kids already. 70% are overweight. There is definitely level of class here that’s in the toilet & unfortunately a lot of our women regardless of where they’ve come from they find it desirable. So sad.
When the music business removed R&B music of love when they corrupted it , it was over .
Its all controlled even cocomelon (baby,toddler show) has your newborns mind controlling
@DJV94022 offcours, deep mind control
I absolutely agree. The music that we listened to in the 90s 00s, made you want to be romantic, lovey dovey, and socialize. Music nowadays has something that makes us mistrust one another and almost hate one another.
Remember the song "Where is the Love" (Hathaway/Flack). That's what I want to know.
@@YouNeverKnowWhoIsWatchingthe majority of music today is straight up demonic
@@YouNeverKnowWhoIsWatching good point
I agree with you man. There are social and cultural mindsets here that are very disrespectful and appalling. Good on you, you talk well, you’re a business man, you have logic and a good mind set. Keep going 👍✌️👍👍👍👍💯
I went to Africa summer of 2023. It’s sad how far astray America has gotten man and idk how it can fix. If time will fix it? Idk.
Historically, it has never been fixed once it got to this point. Not without a civilizational collapse, anyway.
@@maxjohnson1758 Yeah. I keep hearing people talking about this pendulum. My dad keeps telling me “the pendulum will swing back the other way.” But it seems like every single piece of evidence there is contradicts that sentiment. I genuinely believe it’s too far gone. The cat’s out of the bag; Pandora’s box has been opened.
Yes! I live in America and you are saying the truth! It's so disappointing and unbalanced here.
Great interview. Following your 8-hour stream in NY, a lot of what you experienced and Auston is true. Like you said, it feels broken for sure, this is not how society is supposed to function at all. No common decency and respect for others. If someone talks to you, you don't have to disrespect them. If you are not interested, you tell them respectively, not treat them like a creep or a fool.
And that don't call within X-hours, is some BS, most people elsewhere probably don't do that. Auston's experience of texting early and sabotaging the whole thing is definitely true and does happen.
I'm a 25-year-old Nigerian currently living in Toronto, maxing out what Americans call a 401(k) and IRA every year. Yes, Africa is often labeled as poor, but trust me, we’re happy. Compared to the misery I see among Americans and Canadians, this place feels like a dystopia.
I can’t wait for my 30s, when I plan to move back to Africa or South America to live off my dividends and raise my family. In the meantime, I’m focusing on personal growth. I’m fit and hit the gym twice a week to stay strong and in shape.
I still manage to pull some Canadian girls, but honestly, I know I deserve better than the options here. They’re not bad, but if I were in Colombia or Kenya, I’d be pulling 10s with ease. 😎
Hope you get to your goal how much you think you trying to hit before the hit the retirement?
True! How many Africans do you know suffer from depression?
There are a millions of Americans that do though.
Best to meet someone with a 10/10 personality! There are a lot of people walking around that are pretty on the outside and ugly on the inside. Be careful!
Africa is paradise I love it here in Tanzania so much community and love it's natural.
I met a Nigerian in Canada. He was an Uber driver. He has already constructed 3 houses in Uganda. He said he is leaving back to Africa in a couple years and will never be going back to the West.
I just can't wait to come to the motherland. Kenya, Uganda, Burkina Faso because I need to see it for myself. I just want to see where my ancestors came from and God willing live among them again.
As an African, this is funny. You want to come see your what😮😂?
@sellllinee You didn't make any sense. I am Nigerian-American, and I can't wait to move back to Nigeria by the end of this year
@@afrikanheritage99 Am just saying it's funny how Americans call all African countries motherland while we are trying to escape😂. I love Black Americans🥰. All the best!
@@sellllinee These white folks don't want you here. Aren't you paying attention to the news?
@@afrikanheritage99no such thing as a Nigerian American.
He so right on with the club scene here I went to a Latino club and it was the same ish as black ones , mfs just standing around , really no interaction,men and women not really talking to each other unless it’s a couple , boujie b resting faces . Same with the people here and they immaturity it disgust me seeing women here with they bonnets on in public , big lashes on they eyes til the point it look like they have wings on they eye lids , wearing furry slides sliding they feet and being all loud in public .
Don't forget the pajama pants😂
Lmao
Please keep spreading the wordddddd 🙌🏾 American dream is a lie
There are more black millionaires in the U.S. than anywhere else in the world.
@@NewYorkerinLondon7 yes but if other countries are cheaper, I bet they will be more than millionaires
@@NewYorkerinLondon7tf does they have to do with anything
@@NewYorkerinLondon7
Lies-
The richest black man in the World is ALIKO DANGOTE AND HE'S A NIGERIAN. We have uncountable billionaires in Nigeria 🇳🇬 alone.
Omg this conversation is how I feel everyday. I get flamed so hard when I bring up these very things to people, and accused of being a hater, or bitter. I remember telling my sons not to imitate the urban dress style that they grew up around because it shows a very immature mindset. I try to instill in them that they should pride themselves in dressing how they like regardless of how everyone dressed around them. I didn’t want them to feel they had to wear Jordans just to feel well dressed. That’s why I never liked dating American men. They had very little family values, or maturity, and I didn’t like the mindset. As a black woman I got accused of trying to be white, until they would bully me into showing them I wasn’t to be toyed with. I could go on and on, and it’s the very reason I even started working on a channel to address these very topics. The mindset is terrible here in the US. It is a very classless, immature, and immoral place. That’s why I feel so disheartened when I see other cultures imitating ours. SMH
Oh my goodness the right word DISFUNCIONAL ..... 😢 I'm from New York
America for men is a Hell.
America for women is a Heaven.
I don't think the anti-social culture here in America is good for anybody.
America has made me appreciate Hell a lot more. Because what a paradise it can be, to know that everyone there is suffering equally.
If God exists, it should’ve done something about America in order to have going to Hell as a serious threat.
If I end up in Hell, I’ll consider it a vacation.
What lie is this. It’s hell for women here. It only hell for controlling men who don’t love themselves and expect women to owe them things. Get it right. Patriarchy affects us both.
Hel for them too.
Don't take it so far. Just because you are a man and the situation doesn't favour you doesn't mean the other side is benefitting from this. You are engaging in this "us vs them" culture that's ruining your country
He's definitly talking about my daughter she 24 and severely under developed 24 going on 14 i do my best to raise her standards and class smh but this is what i was handed after divorce this is what the mom and grandmom produced (no disrespect to them just the actuality of my individual circumstance)
Haha I relate to this so much, in shape, well traveled, retired from the military and a travel nurse. I ain’t running the streets. I quit travel nursing and just travel the world now. Best decision ever.
Ive only been to 5 other countries and ive had the same experiences. Feminism and social media has destroyed American women and its truly sad
Sad seems the right word.
I really enjoyed your conversation. Live your best life in Kenya…
You both describe the comparison so perfectly.
As a 48 year old American man, yes, we had great social lives in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Most of my friends on FB are all real friends that I used to or still hang and spend time with. We had great, substantial relationships with people, that have become a thing of the past it seems, at least here in the US.
I haven’t commented on a YT video in over a decade.
This interview was sincere, insightful, and alarming. From start to finish. From start to finish, from the culture of openness in Nairobi to the disparity in cost in nightclubs/bottle service and rent, the message is clear; it’s not you. It’s not just you. It’s your environment in the west. Leave and find what you’re missing.
10/10 interview.
Top 10% guy here working on leaving the U.S 2025…this crap is a joke here with this society and these chicks here
What do you mean 10 % and are you saying bring 10% is not even good enough?
In America if you're young, good looking and have your life together, women see it as a red flag.
I moved from Chicago to Texas. Peole here so rude, cold and very not friendly. I prefer Midwest. I can’t deal w the south. This place sucks.
The “south”, where specifically, a whole state the size of Texas has different regions. Places in the southeast specifically like NC, SC, GA literally have several different topographies and climates from coastal plain elevations to the Appalachian plateau. Also 4 seasons at that. Illinois is mostly flat and desolate in regards to lush greenery as well as diverse topography, most of the Midwest. You have to know what you are talking about in geography before labeling a region let alone a state the size of Texas.
Still the matrix of Babylon regardless and lol at tyrannical radical left Chicago.
Texas is like its own country. You cannot lump Texas into one .
Yeah “south” is a big place
The south is where it’s at!!!!!! Texas solid asfffffff
A dystopian nightmare.
I gotta say, this is a fire conversation.
That’s right. Money is not the key to happiness. Money is supposed to fund your happiness.
Austin's content is clearly shadow banned. I been subscribed, I watch plenty of his videos, they NEVER come up in my recommendations.
This almost makes me sad, how close to home it hits.
Great video guy! So true. America is done.
Thank you for this vindication lol. Everything you said about America is so true. Money wise it’s still the richest in the world but morally and culturally the US is bankrupt af. The only reason why I wouldn’t live overseas forever is because my parents live here
Corporations are rich. High GDP doesn’t equate to people doing well.
How expensive it is to live there cancels out the high income
There’s so many pieces of the puzzle of American problems, it’s almost not worth trying to decipher it.
I've been saying thaty whole life, tried to stay in multiple countries.... this country sucks , sincerely a 9-11 navy veteran
I am 26 and born and raised in Texas, I am a female who never understood America ways and I grew up here. I would have loved to meet a guy like you!
I believe in America things here a cool if it's toxic, and it's apart of the program they do to us here by the food we eat, the music that goes in our ears, what plays on the program TV. Ect ect ect,
PRAY FOR AMERICA WITCHCRAFT
I remember growing up in the Midwest where you would go to college get married become the coach of a baseball team, the wife would have bakery sales which would lead to a bakery business. Pretty wholesome stuff. Then everything went off the rails.
Yea, everyone tries to ‘nickel and dime’ each other here. At work, in business, in politics, social life, dating life, etc etc
Maybe, just maybe, a person will have a handful of family and friends that actually care about them, but that’s getting less and less common with each new generation. This really can’t be considered a society.
one of the greatest cons in americas was convincing poor working class people that they were middle class
I follow you guys coz I enjoy your conversations, tunapenda wageni ❤
I happen to wonder onto this video by mistake but WOW! The truth that I’m hearing is so refreshing. Here’s a guy who looks very handsome and has charisma and confidence. There’s a certain charm about him and I know how he feels. The women in the states don’t even want a great guy like him because of the games they play. I’m glad for him that he found the truth and found it outside the states. May I say, he feels more healthy living outside the states. I used to live in Dallas and he’s 1000% right. Guys are starting to wake up and I feel it too! What a fantastic conversation and to think, I found it by mistake. Thanks for your truth. It’s so refreshing!
Getting ready to move to the Philippines before summer and I can’t wait to leave America. Been encouraging people to leave tbh too.
Lol
I want to leave to US so bad, but I just don’t know how to begin the process. I’m fed up, no friends, no job, depressed.
Find you a job online and move.
You two brothers are great! Great points
It is called inflation. The destruction of money also leads to the destruction of values and basic social principles.
The dollar has lost 99% of its value since 1917, and the trajectory of the USA wealth has also dwindled in the same period, especially since 1971 when the dollar was completely decoupled from Gold.
The current societal collapse is evident across all “ advanced” economies but also in third world countries as well.
Americans are victims. People are just trying to survive by any means necessary and as long as the quality of life keeps on dwindling, we ought to expect this type of behavior.
In Kenya, you are the man because: You bring the $$$. Believe me, that helps a lot…
It has been written a america would collapse all the way. Author of behold the pale horse mentioned this.
Yes. Because men are needed to survive. Because getting married also means giving dowry, so her parents are giving her away to live a family life and take care of her kids along with her husband.
The problem that I have with America is how America views rejection, let's say that someone went up to a friend group and said may I join you, and then that person got rejected and then went back to their other friend group that accepted them, that's probably why no one ventures off to talk to other people and prefer to be in their own group instead because everyone is afraid that they'll be rejected by another group if they venture off to talk to other groups, because we've been taught by society that "rejection is a part of life" that's probably why many people are lonely because they've been taught this toxic mindset, and it's getting out of control, most people treat everyone else like they're invisible
Rejection might be a part of life, but IMO the expectation that someone should be willing to endure it constantly across the span of YEARS is extremely unhealthy and unrealistic. IMO, show me a married American woman and I’ll show you someone who doesn’t realize that her husband has survived at least a decade in a social pressure cooker by age 25. “Why does he act like that? Psychological scar tissue. A LOT of it, and a good amount of it is the result of trying to meet, or dealing with, women over the course of years, possibly including his mother and his sisters…”
Malls in the US now i saw they are building houses inside of them so that they can have people inside to avoid them closing down or collapse 😂😂Imagine is that crazy and still there's shortage of houses
Lmao this comment remind me of Hudson yards in nyc
I saw that too. It was pretty interesting. They should do that will all the vacant malls, but that would help people, and they do not want to do that.
Whats a mall?
@@dwightthementor A mall? Oh, it's basically a giant zoo
@@NerdNovaTech OK. So people are caged in with little food. Ok
I am dying to get out of the United States, I have a medical pension from the military of 1200 a month looking for somewhere that can budget for that and get a job teaching english hopefully. What's happened to this country is so disgusting I can't deal with it anymore.
Philippines man. try Cebu
I live in the Philippines bro, my rent is like $230-$240 USD a month for a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house in a gated community (comparable to something in the US), so if you're solo and will only require a one bedroom.....I'm sure it will be cheaper. Go for it, you adapt and overcome, you'll find a way and make it work....Good luck and safe travels!
@@mmepatron619 bro thank you so much, you guys rock. How difficult is the visa process?
@@larryholstein7925 it's super easy
@ You're welcome bro...Its not hard at all! On arrival you automatically get 30 days, then I believe your first renewal is for another 30 days. But after that, you renew every 2 months. It sometimes changes though, (you used to be able to renew for 6 months, but they did away with that like 5 or six months ago). All you do is go to the immigration office (Here in Cebu, it's in Cebu City, at the mall), pay your fee, and get your renewal. I been here for 2 years.