I'm Only 4ft Tall - Will My Blind Date Mind? | DATING DIFFERENT

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  • @analucialagos5390
    @analucialagos5390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    She’s a physically pretty person, but her personality…? She seemed pretty rude to me, freaking out that he’s a libra and saying “I hate libra men!” to his face. I don’t think she’s as mature as she thinks she’s is being 29. He seemed generally interested in talking and getting too know her situation, and she just judged him by his height, age and zodiac sign. Put a bad taste in my mouth to be honest.

    • @Totalchaos0228
      @Totalchaos0228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      He's a much better catch than she is for sure. He will have no problem finding a nice young woman.

    • @adeola9914
      @adeola9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I think it might have to do with fact she’s nervous. People behave differently when they’re insecure and/or nervous.

    • @lupaman100
      @lupaman100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said!

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I watched the same thing you did. I didn't notice her being rude. Not even one bit. She has the "I know what I want and I say what's on my mind" attitude. New York women are like that too. Nothing wrong with it. It just shows that she's a strong and confident woman.

    • @haqoe9857
      @haqoe9857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@AmyLeeAngelLove new York women are rude. She wants him to look past her disability but she doesn't look past height or age

  • @jaydelee1169
    @jaydelee1169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    She cringed when she said “I’m 29”
    That’s so sad !! 29 is so young ! 30s is still young .. even 40! The older we get the more we realise this !

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Brainwashing by many men and the media. After 25, they treat us like we are on our death bed. Look at J.Lo. She is over 50 and... well, you be the judge. Don't forget Gwen Stefani.

    • @flowersmile123
      @flowersmile123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The older I get the more I realize... I'm still young.

    • @jonathanharris8281
      @jonathanharris8281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is old, 30/40's is old if you want to start a family. too much feminist brainwashing.

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jonathanharris8281 ... and that's why men go after children... because of your mentality.

    • @jonathanharris8281
      @jonathanharris8281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@AmyLeeAngelLove i didnt know women in their 20's were considered children, but i can understand why you'd think so, because you probably acted very childish in your 20's

  • @AcerbicOrder
    @AcerbicOrder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    The things she focused on the most was age, height and zodiac sign. The amount of times she mentioned height is ironic considering the whole "guys fetish for small women" thing. Abby's not as mature as she thinks she is.

    • @walkwithmeASMR
      @walkwithmeASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Omg I said this exact same thing

    • @Introvertsan
      @Introvertsan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Women naturally like taller guys it's biological that doesn't make her immature

    • @mikelessard7492
      @mikelessard7492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I noticed that too lol

    • @zaytime4156
      @zaytime4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol all she was saying was he tall and we all know women like tall guys

    • @mikelessard7492
      @mikelessard7492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@zaytime4156 she like to be eye lvl with u know what 🤪🤣

  • @kristys9370
    @kristys9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    She 's a confident person but he has a beautiful personality and is a gentleman.

  • @MegaAnnetty
    @MegaAnnetty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    He might b younger but showed a higher level of maturity and emotional intelligence. Keep on looking young man, you deserve someone who compliments you not someone who laughs in you face. At no point did you show her any disrespect even when she clearly deserved to be told some home truths.

    • @youngwoman229
      @youngwoman229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree, he's very cool and presented himself well.

    • @katea74648
      @katea74648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🙌🏼

  • @garypatton3637
    @garypatton3637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    She's very pretty. But her personality is very abrasive, she's judgmental and uncomfortable. She needs to grow emotionally before she starts trying to get in a serious relationship. The guy definitely can do better. He's clearly emotionally mature, polite and patient. I mean she's just laughs at him when he said he's 21. Then jumps into guys only like me when they have a fetish. There's a lot of insecurities she needs to work through before she starts dating. Or maybe she's just saying all that nonsense for the attention I can't tell..

    • @icee_u8231
      @icee_u8231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She’s very immature and got it twisted about most men have a fetish for her size. I think most men wouldn’t want to

    • @babsyrudolph3953
      @babsyrudolph3953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She's very rude and has a bitter tongue.

    • @shenetheawardlow1033
      @shenetheawardlow1033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree

    • @river8760
      @river8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gary Patton, sums it up so well. I fully agree.

    • @SweetArt360
      @SweetArt360 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She wasn't laughing at him about her age, though expressing insecurity about her age. I do agree however that she comes across as such for other reasons. She really is pretty and seems like she may be a good person. Just rough around the edges for a lack of a better word. I think if she gets that under control, she could be such a gem!

  • @mars06611
    @mars06611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    What a young man! He is such an intelligent man he seems so genuine.

  • @shannon_w.
    @shannon_w. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    This young man seems wise BEYOND his years!!! Abby is beautiful inside and out!!

    • @Totalchaos0228
      @Totalchaos0228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He's a catch for sure!!

    • @johndavis9432
      @johndavis9432 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Abby is NOT beautiful.He can do a lot better than her.

    • @webguy943
      @webguy943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He can do better than her. She still have a lot of growing up to do 😅

  • @asthecrowflies737
    @asthecrowflies737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    He's very intelligent and has a drive to succeed. Age means nothing. Maybe she'd better grab him before someone else does...guys like him don't come along very often!

    • @ashleynicole6210
      @ashleynicole6210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That sooo trueee

    • @billbailey9915
      @billbailey9915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes age just a number but most important among u guys is respect and kindness, are single

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@billbailey9915 Disagree. Age is a just a number until you are older than 18-20.

    • @michellehart6780
      @michellehart6780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don’t think he was interested

    • @berniceleblanc515
      @berniceleblanc515 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!!!

  • @El0kitty
    @El0kitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    I find it funny that the age was a real issue ...as whatever his age was, he was super well articulated, well mannered...kind of suave even.... But she couldn't pass by the age🤣

    • @joeykay3650
      @joeykay3650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I know.. I'd even go as far as to say that he seems to be more mature than her.

    • @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319
      @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People attached maturity to one's age.

    • @prettydisabled9060
      @prettydisabled9060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her loss? Lol. He looks hella ♥️able.

    • @goldblatalex7516
      @goldblatalex7516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeykay3650 i agree with you

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 They do. But you have to get to know the individual person. Age anint nothing but a number as long as they are legal.

  • @shereenb5695
    @shereenb5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    oh shes still young I use to think that way .now I'm 35 it honestly doesn't change much once you take care of yourself.

  • @GR-rx7zq
    @GR-rx7zq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +767

    Her: "I hate guys that have a fetish about my height"
    Also her: "he's tall so he meets my criteria"

    • @zaytime4156
      @zaytime4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Right it’s no secret men like small women sometimes very small it’s been like that since the dawn of man kind lol idk why she made a big deal out of that

    • @jessewru6425
      @jessewru6425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zaytime4156 nervous maybe 🤷

    • @jessewru6425
      @jessewru6425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because it’s being filmed and all. probably feel like you have to make a good point somewhere towards the camera or seem boring

    • @dark.angel1880
      @dark.angel1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It might mean that she doesn't want to date another small person or disabled person just because she is. I've heard that before from little people they perfer average height because they don't want to be restricted to people like them

    • @hippa2dahoppa2
      @hippa2dahoppa2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@dark.angel1880 no, the problem is women cant make the same acceptions men do when it comes to dating. we can accept a short girl if she has personality. as a guy we look at a womans issues and we say ok i can deal with that. she has a kid? ok i can deal with that. but when it comes to women and dating, a woman with nothing to offer will still be picky and choosy and demand a guy be 6 ft tall. womens expectations are outrageous sometimes

  • @leampunkt3678
    @leampunkt3678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    We need to talk more about this gorgeous young man. Smart, open minded, well articulated, very good manners and extremely good looking.

  • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
    @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 3 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    Who cares if he is 21. Its the maturity lvl. He seems to have that. But she has a real interesting attractive look. Hope things went well for them.

    • @chrisw9122
      @chrisw9122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Maturity isn't congruent with life experience. He's 21. 🤷

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@chrisw9122 exactly
      I married a 22 yr old and i was 27.
      It's like taking care of a raging teen

    • @tasvapontaranne6373
      @tasvapontaranne6373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well, the maturity lvl really depends on person. But in many cases, 21 is still 21.
      Besides, an older girl may feel uncomfortable with the age difference, that's just the matter of preferences.

    • @kiana9941
      @kiana9941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Many women myself included do not like younger men. It's the lack of life experience and not wanting to deal with someone who is in the beginning phase of trying to figure themselves out.

    • @tommyvercetti9322
      @tommyvercetti9322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      21 years Old is grown body but humans Brain aren't developed until 25

  • @gretaweiss6802
    @gretaweiss6802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Dual studies at Harvard and Berkelee School of Music?! Damn 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @sachemofboston3649
      @sachemofboston3649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I live in Boston and have taken a class at Harvard before. It’s not the same as getting accepted into the school, anybody can sign up for the classes as long as you pay.

  • @NK-xw8ok
    @NK-xw8ok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    she needs to learn it’s ok to take it down a notch. i sensed from the start., she wasn’t just nervous . but slightly prepared to defend herself. she’s, beautiful. doesn’t look disabled. or sound it. so she should relax a bit more.
    i think the bullies from her past , had a big impact on her . and not in a good way. i hope
    she can move forward , and leave it in the past.
    i think that alone would really help her to be more relaxed.

    • @Jloofaz
      @Jloofaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not all people "look" disabled.That notion is actually very wrong

    • @NK-xw8ok
      @NK-xw8ok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jloofaz something i am very aware of. i didn’t say “she doesn’t look disabled , so she must no be disabled. “ as if she’s lying .
      I meant it as a compliment, and when going on a blind date , or first date , she doesn’t have to explain why she’s this tall or mote petite then some women ! she doesn’t have to give explanations to the traits that make her unique. these are beautiful differences , that make her beautifully unique and more memorable . Shes beautiful just as she is , and the faster she excepts that! the more comfortable and more relaxed she’ll feel when out on a date!

  • @georgiabulldog7671
    @georgiabulldog7671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    He said they can be friends. She honestly seemed really superficial and immature. This guy attended Harvard and Cal-Berkeley and honestly seems way out of her league physically and mentally.

    • @joeykay3650
      @joeykay3650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Wouldn't agree with the physicality aspect but mentally yes, he seems more advanced/mature than she does. Which is funny considering how she reacted about his age.

    • @ceceruben6113
      @ceceruben6113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I agree fully. She seemed so shallow, he needs an intellectual woman.

    • @katherinemurphy2762
      @katherinemurphy2762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He didn't go to Cal-Berkeley, he went to Berklee College of Music for music production, which is also in Boston.

    • @craigslistpreditor1552
      @craigslistpreditor1552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Way out of her luege mentally for sure, physically if we want to de a little bit of trolling

    • @zaytime4156
      @zaytime4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@craigslistpreditor1552 I wouldn’t say physically she’s very attractive in the face and her being small not a issue either because like she said men like small women but yeah definitely mentally

  • @Krahbe
    @Krahbe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Yeah man there’s nothing wrong with people with disabilities I think she’s absolutely adorable gorgeous woman

  • @Jon-ms8os
    @Jon-ms8os 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    I love her energy! She didn’t let her disability define her and does her own thing

    • @Noted2024
      @Noted2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Confident beauty. 100% agree

    • @hippa2dahoppa2
      @hippa2dahoppa2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      her energy sucks to be honest. she sounds just as mean as most the other women out there

    • @theeDameAlexander510
      @theeDameAlexander510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You love her Energy😃……..🤣🤣🤣👊🏽

    • @joanheartless9817
      @joanheartless9817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess...NVM I don't know what she feels behind closed doors to be honest

    • @YourMom-yp6ev
      @YourMom-yp6ev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hippa2dahoppa2 did someone hurt you?

  • @spendalkendal1827
    @spendalkendal1827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    A Mini Madonna?? I can go for that. She is cute, smart and clearly doesn’t take any $hit. I’m sure she will find love. She knows what she wants

    • @John77Doe
      @John77Doe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She has a great future in Lord of The Ring knock off movies. 😁😁😁

    • @rgeiler7627
      @rgeiler7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@John77Doe go figure, the guy that looks like smeagle is talking about Lord of the rings..

    • @John77Doe
      @John77Doe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rgeiler7627 Hiss! Gollum! Hiss! Gollum!
      😃 😄 😁 😆 😅 😂 🤣

    • @j416_1
      @j416_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@John77Doe based on your profile picture you would have a great future in a Lord of the Rings knock off too. You should try auditioning. You actually do resemble Smeagol quite a bit.

    • @John77Doe
      @John77Doe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@j416_1 Hiss! Gollum! Hiss! Gollum!
      😃 😄 😁 😆 😅 😂 🤣

  • @arlenedennis9446
    @arlenedennis9446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I like him . He seems like a sweet guy

  • @3ombieautopilot
    @3ombieautopilot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Please, don't feel old! 29 is just the beginning!

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope u aren't being sarcastic

    • @3ombieautopilot
      @3ombieautopilot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@carbon... Not at all haha! I wish I wash 29 back again now cuz I was so young

    • @Hottfice
      @Hottfice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you, I'm 29 and this is what I like to hear!

    • @kokotatts
      @kokotatts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      & just when I thought being 27 is running out of time lol

    • @danielastarbuck5307
      @danielastarbuck5307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What about 30 lol?because i feel old

  • @susieq1110
    @susieq1110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    She's beautiful and confident, I hope she gets what she deserves.

    • @tomgunn8004
      @tomgunn8004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nobody ''deserves'' anything!

    • @gmangkr
      @gmangkr ปีที่แล้ว

      She is hot

  • @GenevaKar
    @GenevaKar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    "I like em tall" girl you have no choice 😂

  • @yogurlb2171
    @yogurlb2171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    As a 4"11 girl this made me feel so happy! Even though I'm 11 inches taller than her and have no condition I still struggle with accepting my height,however, I've recently been starting to embrace it. It's great to see that some men don't hold height as a barrier and embrace their women for that..she is absolutely breath taking and so is he.

    • @jesus4lyfe00
      @jesus4lyfe00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can I pick you up?

    • @yogurlb2171
      @yogurlb2171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jesus4lyfe00lol

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a girl and 5'5 but I wanna grow taller atleast by 1-2 more inches 😂

    • @yogurlb2171
      @yogurlb2171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@carbon... You already the standard...😩 I ain't even up there yet lol

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yogurlb2171 u can do more of cycling n skipping u know......if u really wanna increase it
      I'm doing it.......hopefully I'll achieve my goal

  • @Miss_Nina.
    @Miss_Nina. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Man she's gorgeous 😍

  • @user-px5ng3ov7b
    @user-px5ng3ov7b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    This girl is very sunny, and transmits The will to live.

    • @1991LMR
      @1991LMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kerry Smith 😂😂😂

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He seems open and has a good vibe…

  • @killerqueen2549
    @killerqueen2549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    her during the whole video: rofl, men are fetish for shorter women than them that's so gross. it such a turn off.
    her at 3:22: he is very tall, I like them tall.

  • @roguelove807
    @roguelove807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Her dimples are the most adorable thing. She's very confidant and sweet, I like her!

  • @monasteele6140
    @monasteele6140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    She was giving more judgement then him

    • @Bree48646
      @Bree48646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can feel her judgment. Weird vibesss

  • @michellekash5290
    @michellekash5290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Awww i loved this one !! She’s gorgeous, looks like a fairy 🤩
    He has such an amazing vibe
    Loooove ❤️

  • @Jloofaz
    @Jloofaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Honestly she's the one who seems kinda judgemental and stuck up.

  • @candace8412
    @candace8412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She's so pretty. I love her dimples and tooth gap.

    • @j416_1
      @j416_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. Gives her face more character. So pretty 💜

  • @2TMarie
    @2TMarie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    She can't "look past the fact that he's 21," yet, she wouldn't like someone judging her height.

    • @walkwithmeASMR
      @walkwithmeASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      And she wants a tall guy... hmm

    • @candicewatson5508
      @candicewatson5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So you’re saying she should not have any preferences because of her height? He’s nice and seems mature, but I wouldn’t date a 21 year old either.

    • @sadfatlarry8355
      @sadfatlarry8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ppl at 21 are alot different than ppl at 29

    • @sadfatlarry8355
      @sadfatlarry8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Priority for ppl at 21 are much different then ppl at 29 come on ppl

    • @justicevibes1252
      @justicevibes1252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sadfatlarry8355 I agree. I wouldn't want to date someone 10 yrs younger than me. Height and age are different factors too.

  • @MakingDisciples4Jesus
    @MakingDisciples4Jesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I get you girl. I'm 4'11. I've dated guys 6' and 6'3 at the tallest. You have a very pretty face.

    • @zaytime4156
      @zaytime4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah I mean girls like big/tall guys and big guys like small women it’s not really a fetish thing it’s biological. I’m 6’2 myself and LOVE the short girls lol

    • @MakingDisciples4Jesus
      @MakingDisciples4Jesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zaytime4156 makes us happy

    • @victorsoto4821
      @victorsoto4821 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MakingDisciples4Jesus I'm 6' myself, but what about the other guys, you give guys below 6ft a chance? I never understood how girls are 4'11 and prefer dating guys over 6 foot lol I get everyone has preferences, but damn.

    • @MakingDisciples4Jesus
      @MakingDisciples4Jesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victorsoto4821 oh no. I've dated someone 5'5 and my bf now is 5'6 1/2 lol

    • @xmuta
      @xmuta 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Black guys?

  • @cassievoorhies4852
    @cassievoorhies4852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was born with the most severe form of Spina Bifida. This woman has given me hope that maybe I can find love, despite my disability.

    • @plusone1993
      @plusone1993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can :)

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You will.

    • @RenatexP
      @RenatexP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will for sure 💜 there's love for all of us. Be genuine and please don't judge people by their height, age or zodiac sign. Judge them for how they treat you and you'll be just fine.

  • @river8760
    @river8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He is intelligent, mature and respectful. Seems like a great person.

  • @nise3052
    @nise3052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How are you going to say you hate men who have height fetishes yet you said more than once that he is tall and meets your criteria?

  • @Kymmrodri12
    @Kymmrodri12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She so pretty
    And she so confident in her self that what makes her stand out 🔥

  • @nytekeeper6861
    @nytekeeper6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is adorable!!! Her personality just bursts forward, and I love it! I kinda lost it when she said she's modeling - when the video first started, I thought to myself, "She has some amazing facial features, like you'd see on a model.". She is a very beautiful woman, inside and out. She is a firecracker, and I hope she finds that special guy that can matcch/keep up with her heat.
    Kofi seems to be a decent, level headed man, and I hope all of his dreams come true.

    • @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319
      @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is not adorable she is an adult

    • @nytekeeper6861
      @nytekeeper6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 Adults can be adorable too?

    • @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319
      @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nytekeeper6861 No, it's condescending.

    • @nytekeeper6861
      @nytekeeper6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 If that's how you want to percieve it, then more power to you. If you want to latch on to one word from my comment, which by the way, is nothing but positivity, then by all means, do so. Have a nice day!

    • @marcus3672
      @marcus3672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please there is positivity and there is delusionalism

  • @najeehaamid5194
    @najeehaamid5194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can only say that he's affluent and cultured. Harvard and Berkeley, am blown away!

  • @FukYourGod1
    @FukYourGod1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She seems a little guarded and could have been more of an adult about his age. I admire her strength but socially she could be a little more easy going

  • @childofthemighty1341
    @childofthemighty1341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    21...He is mature for his age.

    • @aspiknf
      @aspiknf ปีที่แล้ว

      No, all 21 year olds should be like him.

  • @mandyh9832
    @mandyh9832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She is really pretty and confident. And I love how nice and genuine he is. Best of luck too them both

  • @Geek.Scholar
    @Geek.Scholar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    0:00 I highly doubt that society is under the illusion that any women (regardless of disabilities) is unable to get a date or be intimate.

    • @hellaSwankkyToo
      @hellaSwankkyToo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you'd be surprised.

    • @Geek.Scholar
      @Geek.Scholar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hellaSwankkyToo I highly doubt it.

    • @Geek.Scholar
      @Geek.Scholar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @mono mezzo Yes, I am.

  • @Theonlyhayhay
    @Theonlyhayhay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is so beautiful!! And he seems really mature for his age, even if they dont decide to continue anything, you can tell he moves with an open mind and positive intentions 😇

  • @Ishen32
    @Ishen32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    She's very pretty and love her personality ❤

  • @KeepItChillStayHappy
    @KeepItChillStayHappy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She has an edge due to all she's been through but you can't stay there, not everyone has malicious intent. I dont think she needs to be in a relationship at this point. He seems like a great dude though, mature and composed

  • @RandomVids4U488
    @RandomVids4U488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She don't look 4 feet tall at all, she has a big energy and personality ❤

  • @katrinawall7758
    @katrinawall7758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good Luck ! Dating isn't easy rather you're small or tall. Or have a disability.

  • @donivan411
    @donivan411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Age doesn't always mean maturity I met my husband when he was 18 and I was 22 I already had two kids we've been together 6 years have two kids of our own I'm now 28 and he's now 24 we just clicked from the start complete opposites from each other if it works it works sometimes it just clicks

  • @laviki5190
    @laviki5190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She seemed to have a very guarded arrogant attitude. Probably due to whatever negative experiences she’s been thru in the past. She seems scarred by pain and pessimistic. She doesn’t want judgement but didn’t seem open at all. Very guarded and you can tell her insecurities and her disability have given her a lower vibe. She seems soft inside but guarded.

  • @jonathangoldsmith7832
    @jonathangoldsmith7832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I bet she has a temper and gets into fights easily. She’s definitely putting her best foot forward for the show, but I think he could sense something bubbling underneath.

  • @Shiro642
    @Shiro642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God help us. “Hes tall and handsome” so he fits my criteria. What a joke

  • @mikejimenez6470
    @mikejimenez6470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    finally someone that says how they really feel about a second date. dude isnt looking to just bang.

  • @robynogburn9632
    @robynogburn9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Those dimples!!!! I feel like dimples just occur on gorgeous people!!! I think she is beautiful

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr.....I feel lucky to hv dimples 😁😁
      My friends gush over 'em

    • @robynogburn9632
      @robynogburn9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carbon... See what I mean?! When a person with dimples smiles it just warms my heart for a sec.

    • @robynogburn9632
      @robynogburn9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carbon... Adore your face....you only have to look at it forever!!!

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robynogburn9632 yeah, loving urself is so imp......cuz no ones gonna accept u unless u do it urself

    • @legacylo7895
      @legacylo7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robynogburn9632 And..... this has to be about you. Great!

  • @marisolorosco4345
    @marisolorosco4345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s a sweetheart. Not sure about her too much.

  • @danielmosonyi
    @danielmosonyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Even the 4ft woman wants a tall man

  • @amycochrane7838
    @amycochrane7838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s so sweet and mature for his age. Keep it up! We need more ppl like you in this world.

  • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
    @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It always annoys me when people potentially fall for the age thing. Older age does not make maturity. She could be missing out on a great guy. End up with a Shite one. .

    • @yogurlb2171
      @yogurlb2171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "Old age does not make maturity" ain't that the truth.

    • @TheSacralHealer
      @TheSacralHealer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My boyfriend who was the oldest was the most immature narcissistic human being I met in my life 🤣 but my exs from middle school and high school went smoothly imo

    • @danielastarbuck5307
      @danielastarbuck5307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSacralHealer lol sad but true

  • @katea74648
    @katea74648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s really pretty but so not a fan of her personality. Just comes across with a really intimidating vibe and kinda rude..
    Feel bad for the fella but I genuinely hope they both find someone who is suited to them. ❤️

  • @yesrgh2118
    @yesrgh2118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think their personalities didn’t blend well- he seemed open minded about dating someone with a disability though 🙂

  • @dollscupsofia6280
    @dollscupsofia6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being an 4"6girl I very insecure about myself and scared to date but after seen her that how she embrace herself I am inspired by her to embrace myself too😍😍

  • @kristinaharris9609
    @kristinaharris9609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He is so adorable. She is too.

  • @yolandapaulinoii5141
    @yolandapaulinoii5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He expresses himself SO SO well.
    I like seeing 👀 👀 them.

  • @hanssolos3699
    @hanssolos3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i once saw a very tiny lady with visible deformities holding hands with a 6' 3" hunk in public. i thought he was her caregiver. Whatever their relationship was, it was definitely intriguing to see them in public together like that.

  • @nottinghamshire6294
    @nottinghamshire6294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is gorgeous.

  • @wherearetheavocados7061
    @wherearetheavocados7061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm a 5.10 girl I hated when I was a teenager but now I love my body and dating is fun bc I live in an area most of the men are tall and single so finding a partner is easy I still work on my anxiety I never saw the others sides like being too short

    • @peakyblinder5511
      @peakyblinder5511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      5 10 and u were complaining...oh people made u like that

    • @wherearetheavocados7061
      @wherearetheavocados7061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peakyblinder5511 yeah my girlfriends are 5.6 or 5.7 so in our group, I'm the Giant one so yeah in my family my siblings they are all 5.8 and I'm the tallest girl in my family

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm 5'5 but I wanna grow taller atleast by 1-2 more inches

    • @CL-ew7wh
      @CL-ew7wh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im 182cm but I love taller women!

  • @viviane_casella
    @viviane_casella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She came off as arrogant and shallow to me. Difficult to connect with. He was very polite and genuine, he can do better.

  • @yourintrouble6296
    @yourintrouble6296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My guy duckin out at the end lol

  • @racheljay454
    @racheljay454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's literally gorgeous.

  • @LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove
    @LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They are both great, groovy and good people. I hope they stay in each other's corner for all the right reasons.

  • @mashakalinkina7207
    @mashakalinkina7207 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think people should keep in mind you’re watching this from your own perspective. 1. We have it communicated Non-Stop that we’re not worthy or having a job, career, livable income-much less to match our educational backgrounds & assets, or that we can just go out & choose whatever career we want, families, kids, etc.. 2. Disabled people are just people & have their own preferences.
    Maybe keep in mind your own perspective & what colors how You come to the table in watching these types of interactions.
    This seems like a Perfectly fine, sweet interaction. They both seem like wonderful people. Both smart & direct.

  • @monicahughes2757
    @monicahughes2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why don’t more companies make smaller clothes for adults who are short I’m 5. 1 in height and I still find it hard to find things that don’t droop on me.

    • @monicahughes2757
      @monicahughes2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shirts are a pain in the butt to because everything is a V-neck but V-neck’s go down to my belly button sometimes lol 😂

  • @rosemariemckinley7326
    @rosemariemckinley7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My man of almost 13 years is almost 12 years younger than me. He was my first younger man. Good job on my part.

  • @wazup80
    @wazup80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is beautiful, stylish and confident 👍👍👍

  • @merrymerryquitecontrary136
    @merrymerryquitecontrary136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s 21 🥺😍sooooo mature and so accomplished 👏🏽

  • @hismajesty40
    @hismajesty40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Abby Asani is an absolutely beautiful woman!

  • @taramathews7391
    @taramathews7391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's pretty, but kinda mean. He was charming and accommodating to her, but she judged him when he said he didn't notice her height and yell "what" when he answered simple questions. Plus telling him she hates libras was pretty unnecessary. So I wasn't surprised he said we could be friends. I think she's got a napoleon complex. Small body, big personality

  • @childerico1426
    @childerico1426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Small but very beautiful and she has a great energy I don’t mind how tall she is

  • @shakirsay
    @shakirsay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's so pretty and those dimples 😍😍😍

  • @deftones8717
    @deftones8717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is really beautiful man! Such a pretty face! She seems real chill too

  • @demonicastar
    @demonicastar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This girl is stunning and her style is 🔥

  • @legacylo7895
    @legacylo7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her dimple is amazing!

  • @tiggercampbell6198
    @tiggercampbell6198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't see you're disability..just a beautiful young lady..

  • @dto99666
    @dto99666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I also have a spina bifida but I can't walk like you and and you know what I always say my condition doesn't define who I am is person inside of me that does and also never listen to other people opinions what they think of you because if you start to listen to those people opinions you will become your own slave to your own life to try and please others

  • @amandabrank4652
    @amandabrank4652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 34 years old & 4'11 & my man is 6'2! I've had 4 kids an lived a normal live!😉

  • @elenavines7861
    @elenavines7861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “You can’t tell I’m small if I’m sitting” her chin literally touches the table top 🤣😂

  • @goldeneyebby7477
    @goldeneyebby7477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The fact she so caught up in his age is urking my nerves girl plz focus..he is tall handsome n seems to have an good head on his shoulders hope he find someone who can balance him cuz she aint it..

    • @georgiabulldog7671
      @georgiabulldog7671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She also judges men by their height but doesn’t want to be judged on hers. This isn’t a match. He is younger, but he seems much more mature than her.

  • @blindthief
    @blindthief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't really see her as a disabled person. She appears physically and mentally able to fulfill everything I need in a romantic partner. Of course I prefer tall women but there are no commitments when it comes to talking/dating. I'd totally go on a date with her and see where it goes.

  • @unicornmadness6286
    @unicornmadness6286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That young man is super hot and I liked the fact that he was honest about how he felt. You know some people be gaslighting for the camera's.

  • @wazup80
    @wazup80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is handsome, kind and attentive 👍👍👍

  • @mluna8930
    @mluna8930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He seems mature for 21 on the other hand some of her reactions seemed immature

    • @youngwoman229
      @youngwoman229 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, he is so cool and he has a great personality.

  • @dcal1452
    @dcal1452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Nice woman. Just thought it was interesting that she feels she can be fetishized by guys, but likes tall guys herself. Always felt like women are allowed to have preferences and men can't.

  • @brt5273
    @brt5273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I hate Libra men"....this person has a LOT of issues and makes it clear in a number of comments that she is a hypocrite.

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm surprised that she mentioned height as one of her main criteria for picking a mate at least twice given her own personal struggles . Also don't know how she can eat an adult sized cheeseburger and fries and stay svelte at her size but more power to her .. She looks very datable to me and knows what she's about !

    • @SirDave
      @SirDave 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same!!
      I thought that was weird. She doesn't want anyone to judge her negatively because of her height, but she holds her potential partner to a height standard.

  • @goldblatalex7516
    @goldblatalex7516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is a great guy. Great manners and a true gentleman !!

  • @cassiejovo3994
    @cassiejovo3994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 4'11 & 32. & I am a server. I constantly get asked by customers & coworkers how old & tall I am. I hate it. After I tell them they want to know why I am so small & why I look so young. I was a ten week premature twin.

    • @Krucezam
      @Krucezam 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you were my age,I would have married you

  • @GrowingGoodHair
    @GrowingGoodHair 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His face at 2:36 😂