Sometimes is really is like that. When my former stepbrother came out (my father and his mother are now divorced), his mother threw herself into a narcissistic pity party and meltdown where she didn't come out of her bedroom for three days. Despite my father's own extreme shortcomings as a father, he was the one who told her she needed to get right and help her son, that he was going to be experiencing a lot of turmoil and that a lot of kids his age struggling with their sexuality turn to substance abuse and/or suicide.
Yes. True. But Candy is marvelous. Just marvelous. Strong, truth teller and bold. I always thought Prey Tell was a bit much. But sometimes we are a bit much. Candy sweetie. We only wish we could be like her. "I am somebody"
What’s even sadder is, yes most times it takes the death of one for parents to say I love you, but most times. The parents still don’t show up. Let alone say I love you. Even at the end.
@@punkalien2922 I understand your pain believe me I do but don’t send your life hating them. Because the more time you have that hate inside of you the less time you have to truly live and be free. 💯
Btw, Anjelica Ross requested no rehearsing of these scenes beforehand because she wanted to capture the emotion and spontaneousness of everything. She succeeded.....
She also said that when her mother says 'I've missed you', it wasn't something she could respond to straight away, her reaction is more measured because of the welter of emotions underneath. Brilliant acting.
@@KnowledgeSeeker78491 Of course they were wrong but they were confused and terrified. Candy was probably the first and only transgender in their families. They were overwhelmed
TRAPPNEST no matter how overwhelming thing get you should never turn your back on your child. Especially if they aren’t cursing you and putting their hands on you being disrespectful!!! Parents will put up with being cursed but will kick the gay child out. I have seen it with my own two. It’s no excuse for it!!!!
@@Atlantaboi84 As human beings, we find ourselves doing things that we should not do. A majority of people in the world , especially in the past, are told that homosexuality is a disgusting sin. Then you find out that you're that your own child is one of those "sinner", the natural human response is to get away from what disgust you. It's wrong but it is what it is.
When her dad said he bought her the doll house... because he wanted the best for his baby... I missed my mom at that moment. That’s why this show is so real, it touches you.
When you realise when the mum says, “I’ve missed you.” Not only is that her saying she missed having her child, but she’s missed her chance to be properly in her life as her parent. God this episode broke me. 😭😭
As I’ve said before, Anjelica Ross requested NO rehearsals. She wanted all of the dialog to be organic and real. Everything you’re seeing was first-run.
So when my cousin came out as gay his parents kicked him out. Then, his mother had a near death experience and an emergency open heart surgery. After she woke up she realized that if she had died on that operating table her own son would not come to her funeral. She also realized that if her son were to die before her she wouldn't be invited to his. These two realisations caused my aunt, a proud, republican, christian lady to accept and reconnect with her son. She also accepted all his friends, some of whom were middle eastern, gay, and Muslim. She also accepted all her son's boyfriends and his husband with open arms. I wish more parents thought about situations like this when disowning their LBGTQIA+ children. About how they'd feel if their child died with the last memory of their parents being one of rejection and pain. Or about how they'd feel if their own child wouldn't show up for their funeral. Maybe they'd realize that their kids are more important than their homophobia, biphobia, or transphobia. Maybe.
The scene with Candy and her Father, gets me every time!!! “I wanted my baby to have what he.......I guess, what she wanted”. It’s so rare to see how much Black father’s truly love their children on film. The tenderness in their eyes and the love in their heart as they look at their children is so real. Black parents love the hell out their children, but that love comes with so much fear and that’s why this scene is so powerful. #SeenAsWeAre
I'm crying. When Candy told her ma: "You're my gateway to the feminine." That was beautiful. When I was a kid in the 1980s and through the early 1990s, things really did look like a scene from POSE. Didn't understand it then, however I appreciate it now. *straight and refuse to hate*
When candy said "I love you daddy" to her dad and her dad just turning back to her corpse cuts deep because to me it shows that he wasnt able to say he loved her and now its too late :(
Reminder to not wait to bring flowers til somebody is gone. Theres parents who didn’t even come to watch their child be buried, but the ones like Candy’s who did after years of silence don’t and won’t get a chance to talk to their child coffinside like in the show. Please, love your child unconditionally, and let then know that before it’s too late. Protect our transgender women
I agree. However, there can be a double edged sword...a lot of people de-transition and feel that after surgery something was missing, when they expected it to make them feel whole. I would love to support anybody who chooses what they want, but the grey area does exist and I would feel so badly to support a friend or family member who ended up feeling that way...like somebody should have fought with them to figure out who they truly want to be before going the surgical route. Its very heartbreaking. Just as heartbreaking as not letting someone be who they think they wanna be. Its so difficult...
Side bar- anybody else get Cicely Tyson and Danny Glover vibes from Candys parents???? This scene...ugh i had already been crying this just made the tears RUN.
This scene made me so angry and sad. It took your child dying for you to finally see her and love her the way a child is supposed to be loved. I would’ve been embarrassed showing up. That’s sickening.
@@DC-pp8xf idiotic comment!!!! This scene is about redemption ffs AND also understanding how difficult it must be and probably then even more so than now for a parent to really be able to 'get' how to transition themselves when their child realises their true trans identity. There is nothing in this scene that should provoke hate on any side....quite the opposite, Union in love, understanding and empathy.
usually in movie and tv . you don’t see black fathers in their child’s life. and if they are it’s very little because their toxic masculinity makes them think that only the woman should raise their children. but in this scene you hear about a black father who was not only in his child’s life but also did everything he could for his children making sure they lived in a positive environment to be creative and express who they are. and the fact that the father corrected himself after misgendering his daughter just makes me cry tears of happiness.
💯 Exactly Alpha! Candy and Blanca didn't need to need to have a conversation because they both genuinely had love for each other in spite of all of the shady ballroom shenanigans!
The whole episode was powerful, moving, emotional, and heartbreaking all in one. It was real. This episode has left the viewers with a few important lessons.
When Vivica said, “Baby, why did it take me so long to see you?” ... the flood gates opened again and I cried like I was is the damn family 😭😭😭😭. Imma miss Candy’s mean funny loyal ass! 🖤
I LOVE THE DAD, dad won me over he may have not understood but he always tried to be supportive. even when Blanca said Candy instead of her name prior and the dad called her Candy was a sign of respect for me. respect that he understood his daughter chose who she wanted to be and he stood by it.
A beautiful fact for you all- Actress playing Candy’s mom is a famous Transwoman model Angel is based off this woman I saw a video talking about the characters based on real People and events of our community’s history. I saw the video before watching this episode And was pleasantly surprised when she appeared. That’s amazing casting and I am so proud of our community getting the honor and recognition we deserve I’m not Trans But identified with Bisexual my whole life That’s the only label I’ve accepted because we’re all multidimensional I was on the committee in college and and been active within our family for years- Even choreographed shows for drag Queens and Taught People how to walk and dance in heels. This show is amazing ❤️
Sorry but that is not Tracy Norman aka Tracy Africa mother of the house of Africa Newark NJ native. But yes they did create a storyline from her life for Angel.
Thus entire scene is a message to parents: Your not guaranteed to leave this world first, but regardless of who goes first, never let the last goodbye you say out of love go unsaid. Your child is who they are, and while you are there to guide, protect, and teach, you are also there to support, love, and understand. When it's your time to go, or theirs, let them know that.
I wanted to say that MS. Ross's performance touched me so deeply. She finally had her moment of glory. The episode is well written, full of emotion and beautifully acted. The way she resolved her all of her relationships by visiting each person after death, especially with her parents. I watched this episode more than once and cried each time. I pray that she is nominated for an Emmy, she is a brillant, beautiful and vulnerable. I finally understood where she came from and why she was the way she was. Thank you Angelica for the amazing and touching character that you created.. I am going to miss seeing you on Pose ! Love you girl !
Roger Fernandez I couldn’t have said it better myself! Never have I ever had tears flow the way they did watching this. Truly one of the most touching scenes I’ve ever watched on TV.
The talk with Candy's father had me crying. They say it's always harder to speak to your father than it is your mother. And, this time the roles were reversed, I couldn't stop crying it was so heartfelt. 😭
Angelica Love Ross is her real name. There are a bunch of behind the scenes episodes on YT and hers is so good. She's amazing at life, not just acting!!
MR. RYAN MURPHY & MS. JANET MOCKKKKK!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 The writing is unbelievable!! I don't care what anyone says!! This was everything for a Grande Diva like Candy!! Often times we get caught offguard by a death, ergo 'gone too soon. ' But that's because those of us left on Earth didn't hug enough or love enough or spend enough time or truly appreciate enough or .....the list goes on..... Often times in life, you don't truly understand the gift of breath & experience of a person until their untimely demise!!! KUDOS TO POSE!!! KUDOS TO THE POSE TEAM!!!! This show is beyond compare 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Watching this, I feel like this is the only way I’m going to get through to my own parents. This scene is powerful because I see my whole life in this episode. This was the most painful episode for me to watch. It’s so real, honest and true.
The father broke my heart. He was in incredible pain and still had to muzzle ol mom. Smh. Literally all you have to do is love your child. That's it. 😊❤
I was crying so hard that my friend’s service dog came over to comfort me and then I started crying even harder 😩😩😩😂😂😂😍😍😍. Man this is so fucking heartbreaking. The acting is phenomenal.
I wonder if candy's life would have been a little more simpler had her parents said these things earlier in her life and than always having a home to come to when the world was too harsh for her...?
this episode has such a special place in my heart, especially with her fathers love. the day i watched this episode about 2 years ago, my father had a heart attack. he was thankfully ok but it was definitely a wake up call for me. i took my parents out to dinner the next week and finally told them i was trans and wanted to change my name. i was so scared that they would hate me or that this would be the final push for them to let me go, but i’m so glad i did it. this last christmas my mother gave me and my sisters the same gift, a necklace with our initial. when i opened mine and saw the “a” for my name, i finally understood what candy must have felt getting her dollhouse. it will always be the greatest gift i have ever received 💖
Watch the show... I was hesitant to watch the show because I thought that it was going be a show, comedy!! But it's true reality that our brothers and sisters went thru and still go thru. As a mother of two boys it was emotional.. love your children while there here. Pray for your children even if you don't agree with sessions. God bless billy porter for allow us into his reality
This is one of the MOST ICONIC shows to ever grace TV!!! FX did an astounding job with this series!!! I had no clue of how they lived and grew in their community, but this was informative and eye-opening!! Bravo to the cast!!❤
"Wasn't no guidebook instructing me how to raise a child like YOU." I'm nobody's mother so I'm not going to pretend that I understand what it's like to raise someone who is in the LGBTQ+ community. But what baffles my mind even more than that is how one could turn their backs on and hate that which came from you. I don't think I could. So perhaps there isn't a guidebook, but that's the beauty of it all...you get to write your own. I hope you do.
Straight people love to blame the culture for their attack on us to reddem themselves. Of course It was a culture thing but It was a culture created by them and perpetuated by them. They knew exactly what they were doing.
You know what's crazy? My mom said that about me before she even knew I was queer. She said "You know, your teen phase was probably the hardest. Yeah you never ran away or snuck boys in like your sister. You never stole and we never had any big arguments. But all those things were familiar to me. You, talking with you was like living with someone who spoke another language. I had no clue how to connect with you, there was no guidebook on how to deal with the specific issues you were going through. And I think that made you more lonely. I just thank God you found friends that didn't steer you wrong." Shit sticks with me to this day as I raise my own kid.
God, this scene is amazing. Every time I watch it, I cry. So many of us in the LGBTQ+ community never get that opportunity of acceptance, and love, from our families. To see it, and hear it, just lights up my heart. We spend so much of our lives hiding who we are and conforming to those around us. Being seen, and accepted, means so so so much to us and this scene always brings tears to my eyes. Such an amazing cast and show!
I know Blanca had her ups and downs with Candy, especially since at times she was mean towards her, but I love that she still looked at her like a sister and showed unconditional love, even in death.
I’ve only watched a few Pose clips in the past 30 minutes but wow they’ve all brought out so many emotions within me! I’m sobbing right now because of this scene!
Crying now I feel just like her. Being a trans rejected by parents is the most painful of All rejections. By the 2 who made me who o am. My mom hated how I mirrored her, an since dad an mom never got along, dad couldnt take me either 🤣 But who doesn't wanna be loved for being who they are?? I can't even finish my comment the way I want so I'll just say THANK YOU for posting this
ACCEPTANCE is what we all crave universally especially from our parents no matter you're race, culture, religion, or sexuality. This damn scene had me choked up. I'm a straight woman that love the show that have been cast out by her own parents because she refuse to be controlled. All she want is acceptance🙂
I love and hate this scene equally. Love it because it is so tastefully played and emotional, all the actors outstanding. I hate it because these stories actually occured and these poor women were never able to reconcile with their families, and it's so heartbreaking it makes me angry cry.
Does anybody know if the actress that plays the mom is candys real life mother? The resemblance is INSANE; they look alike, talk alike, have the same mannerisms & everything!
🏳️🌈 I broke down hard with this scene..... I wish for my hubby’s parents to look for him before it’s too late..... it’s horrible not being loved by your own parents. Not everything will be perfect but like a lot of us in the LGBTQ+ community we sure damn try to make it that way. 🏳️🌈
Every day I aspire to be as graceful and accommodating to people as Blanca was. She'd stand in the face of someone who is tearing her down, with her head high and with the same, sweet and nurturing demeanor. Yes. It's a character but people like that exist irl. They walk among us, rare as they are. My goal in life is to be that. Not rich, not famous, not a "baddie." I just want to have a good and pure heart, light as a feather. 💛🥺
This damn show has me in tears almost every episode. But this episode? My eyes were running like crazy. I've rewatched both seasons multiple times, and it still makes me ball. 😭😭😭
She has no idea how much I want to call her, tell her I miss my mama and my family. But I can’t keep myself around them if they don’t care about the pain they cause. I miss them so much, and I don’t want the next time we see each other to be in a situation like this.
Reading this hurts my soul, I hope you are hanging in there and that you continue to protect yourself until they show you the respect you deserve❤️ I’m praying for you and your families relationship to become good again.
😭😭😭😭😭 it's even sadder because while some of the other conversations with the cast were ones they couldve had with her in their head knowing her, these ones were specifically conversations that they would never have, about things they would never know, with her life cut short before such an exchange could ever happen
What’s ironic about this scene is that it is the father who seems much more accepting than the mother.
Travis James
It be like that sometimes
Sometimes is really is like that. When my former stepbrother came out (my father and his mother are now divorced), his mother threw herself into a narcissistic pity party and meltdown where she didn't come out of her bedroom for three days. Despite my father's own extreme shortcomings as a father, he was the one who told her she needed to get right and help her son, that he was going to be experiencing a lot of turmoil and that a lot of kids his age struggling with their sexuality turn to substance abuse and/or suicide.
Travis James naw it’s always one when it comes to black families my parents care like this my dad is hella chill my mom no so much
I felt the same. But you know the old saying....girls are the love of the father and boys are the love of the mother.
Yes. True. But Candy is marvelous. Just marvelous. Strong, truth teller and bold. I always thought Prey Tell was a bit much. But sometimes we are a bit much. Candy sweetie. We only wish we could be like her. "I am somebody"
The sad thing is it literally took death for her parents to say I love you
What’s even sadder is, yes most times it takes the death of one for parents to say I love you, but most times. The parents still don’t show up. Let alone say I love you. Even at the end.
@@kyleszydlowskidejesus9048 i lived in represion my whole life 4 them and still are angry with me i'm very tired
@@punkalien2922 I understand your pain believe me I do but don’t send your life hating them. Because the more time you have that hate inside of you the less time you have to truly live and be free. 💯
I always say tell ppl you love them while they’re here and love your children for who they are!
@@kyleszydlowskidejesus9048 Agreed
When the dad said “ I can’t let you go we’re just getting started” i passed out 😢😢😢😢
Louis Williamson exactly 😔😔
The most heartbreaking part for me from the dad. 😪🙏🏾
CS Jobson mine too ! I was done after this scene !
@@csjobson7763 Yes, he was the first who ever seen her and accepted her
It took me out alsoo😔😟😭😢😭
Btw, Anjelica Ross requested no rehearsing of these scenes beforehand because she wanted to capture the emotion and spontaneousness of everything. She succeeded.....
Travis James Fantastic!
And it is so iconic!!! Yo I would've sworn this was Angelica's real parents or something!!!
She also said that when her mother says 'I've missed you', it wasn't something she could respond to straight away, her reaction is more measured because of the welter of emotions underneath. Brilliant acting.
What’s ironic is that it seems her father was much more accepting than the mother.
So sis is an ACTRESS actress eh? That's impressive!
They cast her mother perfectly!
They look so much alike, all this felt so real 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Agreed!
Unbelievably perfect! Candy's Mother resembles Cicely Tyson.
When she said “baby” I lost it
She also wasnt the original actress to play candys mother. It worked out perfectly. though.
"I wanted my baby to have what he- what SHE wanted"
😭😭❤️
TrangPak2 when her Dad said that, I just lost it! Even now while writing this I’m crying 😭.
Omg here we go again 😭😭
i was bawling
As confused as her parent may seem in this moment...its also clear that she is loved by them....maybe not understood....but loved.
I guess...but not loved enough not be be kicked out of their home and have to turn tricks to survive
@@KnowledgeSeeker78491 Of course they were wrong but they were confused and terrified. Candy was probably the first and only transgender in their families. They were overwhelmed
TRAPPNEST no matter how overwhelming thing get you should never turn your back on your child. Especially if they aren’t cursing you and putting their hands on you being disrespectful!!! Parents will put up with being cursed but will kick the gay child out. I have seen it with my own two. It’s no excuse for it!!!!
@@Atlantaboi84 As human beings, we find ourselves doing things that we should not do. A majority of people in the world , especially in the past, are told that homosexuality is a disgusting sin. Then you find out that you're that your own child is one of those "sinner", the natural human response is to get away from what disgust you. It's wrong but it is what it is.
I think you have the best comment...being a parent is hard and it’s hard to except somethings but a lot of our parents love us more than we know
When her dad said he bought her the doll house... because he wanted the best for his baby... I missed my mom at that moment. That’s why this show is so real, it touches you.
Me tooooo!!!! That was my mom to a T she never let us need for nothing worked 3 jobs always. Rip Mama!!! Thank god for good parents
when the mother says "Baby" , " i missed you" both these times set me off on such a cry fest
I will never not cry or tear up during that scene
Facts... Imaging how many parents let go and let live when it comes to their LGBT children. Never know when the last time is the last time 😢
No when the mom said “ I didn’t know “ I started 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
same here. That is exactly how my mama referred to me after being away from home for a long time. That scene was everything.
I seen this scene so many time and I still cry 😭
When you realise when the mum says, “I’ve missed you.” Not only is that her saying she missed having her child, but she’s missed her chance to be properly in her life as her parent. God this episode broke me. 😭😭
So true
As I’ve said before, Anjelica Ross requested NO rehearsals. She wanted all of the dialog to be organic and real. Everything you’re seeing was first-run.
Wow tell me more budd
I never knew that!!!!!! I always thought this scene was so raw and beyond genuine and that explains it
That seems incredibly lucky nothing happened to ruin the first take
Lies u weren’t there.
@@mufasa1794we’re you there ? No . So how can you discredit or credit anyone .
So when my cousin came out as gay his parents kicked him out. Then, his mother had a near death experience and an emergency open heart surgery. After she woke up she realized that if she had died on that operating table her own son would not come to her funeral. She also realized that if her son were to die before her she wouldn't be invited to his.
These two realisations caused my aunt, a proud, republican, christian lady to accept and reconnect with her son. She also accepted all his friends, some of whom were middle eastern, gay, and Muslim. She also accepted all her son's boyfriends and his husband with open arms.
I wish more parents thought about situations like this when disowning their LBGTQIA+ children. About how they'd feel if their child died with the last memory of their parents being one of rejection and pain. Or about how they'd feel if their own child wouldn't show up for their funeral.
Maybe they'd realize that their kids are more important than their homophobia, biphobia, or transphobia. Maybe.
That’s very thought provoking
Well Said!
Thank u
❤
@Say That!💯 Cry about it
The scene with Candy and her Father, gets me every time!!!
“I wanted my baby to have what he.......I guess, what she wanted”.
It’s so rare to see how much Black father’s truly love their children on film. The tenderness in their eyes and the love in their heart as they look at their children is so real.
Black parents love the hell out their children, but that love comes with so much fear and that’s why this scene is so powerful. #SeenAsWeAre
PERIODT TBH I FEEL LIKE ASIAN AND BLACK PARENTS ARE MORE FAMILY ORIENTED THAN WHITE ONES (not a racist comment)
@TheLovelyRose ooof sorry
@TheLovelyRose what should i change? Im so sorryyy i didnt mean it ug hh how thicc face i am to use Mariah As my profile and just me being racist
@TheLovelyRose you cant be racist toward white people. prejudice is the term.
@@daydreamera8558 I think you might have meant to say that it seems like Black and Asian parents are more reserved at showing love.
I need ms Angelica Ross to make an appearance every time another character dies. She can be the Angel leading them to their final Ball😭😭
Yes!!!!
Red Truth yaaaaaassss!!!!
You just foreshadowed it hahaha
I need you in the writers room brilliant idea
Oh my God....😭😭😭😭😭
I'm crying. When Candy told her ma: "You're my gateway to the feminine." That was beautiful. When I was a kid in the 1980s and through the early 1990s, things really did look like a scene from POSE. Didn't understand it then, however I appreciate it now. *straight and refuse to hate*
When candy said "I love you daddy" to her dad and her dad just turning back to her corpse cuts deep because to me it shows that he wasnt able to say he loved her and now its too late :(
The moment her mom says “I’ve missed you” I just lose control😢😔
Nova Starr I felt it from the bottom of her heart🥺
Rahdames Clemons ditto😢😭
Same! also when her dad said “i can’t let you go, we’re just getting started” 😭😢
It was OVER. I had to rewatch the scene to see what her father said.
Oh my, yes! And when she spoke to her father... I lost it. I just cried and cried.
This scene is everything all at once. Yes, I’m crying.
Every time I watch this scene. 😊❤
Reminder to not wait to bring flowers til somebody is gone. Theres parents who didn’t even come to watch their child be buried, but the ones like Candy’s who did after years of silence don’t and won’t get a chance to talk to their child coffinside like in the show. Please, love your child unconditionally, and let then know that before it’s too late. Protect our transgender women
Amen Amen
Amen my great grandma favorite saying was “don’t bring me flowers when I’m dead bring them when I’m alive and can enjoy them
We look at the wrong instead of being Humble Loving first
And men. And everyone else. ❤
I agree. However, there can be a double edged sword...a lot of people de-transition and feel that after surgery something was missing, when they expected it to make them feel whole. I would love to support anybody who chooses what they want, but the grey area does exist and I would feel so badly to support a friend or family member who ended up feeling that way...like somebody should have fought with them to figure out who they truly want to be before going the surgical route. Its very heartbreaking. Just as heartbreaking as not letting someone be who they think they wanna be. Its so difficult...
Side bar- anybody else get Cicely Tyson and Danny Glover vibes from Candys parents????
This scene...ugh i had already been crying this just made the tears RUN.
Aaron Michael yes the acting the casting was spot on
For a 2nd I really thought it was Ms. Cicely
Yess
I got that to but the scene was so full of emotion I could careless
What?!!!
This scene made me so angry and sad.
It took your child dying for you to finally see her and love her the way a child is supposed to be loved. I would’ve been embarrassed showing up.
That’s sickening.
It’s reality. Relationships aren’t perfect. A lot of people die with unresolved issues.
@Stephen LePew how?
At least they made amends.. some ppl never do that
@@DC-pp8xf idiotic comment!!!! This scene is about redemption ffs AND also understanding how difficult it must be and probably then even more so than now for a parent to really be able to 'get' how to transition themselves when their child realises their true trans identity. There is nothing in this scene that should provoke hate on any side....quite the opposite,
Union in love, understanding and empathy.
usually in movie and tv . you don’t see black fathers in their child’s life. and if they are it’s very little because their toxic masculinity makes them think that only the woman should raise their children. but in this scene you hear about a black father who was not only in his child’s life but also did everything he could for his children making sure they lived in a positive environment to be creative and express who they are. and the fact that the father corrected himself after misgendering his daughter just makes me cry tears of happiness.
That Miss Blanca - she's a class act.
She really is
She’s so strong. I think that’s why candy just sat with her and started humming with her to console her
💯 Exactly Alpha! Candy and Blanca didn't need to need to have a conversation because they both genuinely had love for each other in spite of all of the shady ballroom shenanigans!
I love Blanca. She handles situations really well. Thats why Elektra depends on her.
starbrightprod Even though she would never admit it, Blanca is probably one of the only people Elektra truly admires and respects.
I'm blessed to have a mother and father who raised me right and they are totally fine with me being gay..
GOD BLESS MY PARENTS!!
MAN YOUR ONE OF LUCKY ONES!
You so bless
How is your life now? Also, stop using the word gay, i learned that gay was a slur used to insult male sluts so use the word, Queer now. Pls.
You're lucky; my father always was, and always will be, a homophobic prick.
Danial Zaini gay is the actual word
The whole episode was powerful, moving, emotional, and heartbreaking all in one. It was real. This episode has left the viewers with a few important lessons.
When Vivica said, “Baby, why did it take me so long to see you?” ... the flood gates opened again and I cried like I was is the damn family 😭😭😭😭.
Imma miss Candy’s mean funny loyal ass! 🖤
This scene broke my heart. I will miss candy
It’s sad they’ll never have this conversation irl that it was too late to reconcile. Candy deserved to be happy
She’s living the life of luxury in her after life.
I LOVE THE DAD, dad won me over he may have not understood but he always tried to be supportive. even when Blanca said Candy instead of her name prior and the dad called her Candy was a sign of respect for me. respect that he understood his daughter chose who she wanted to be and he stood by it.
This episode was EVERYTHING ❤️ Her Dad is AMAZING
The doll house line had me in tears. 😭😭😭😭😭And I love how Blanca doesn't miss a beat and still uses the correct pronouns.
I really hope this show can bring some reconciliation between families.
Mona Liza Yeesss Yo 💯
Pose is definitely a groundbreaker.
Maybe they could move the show to network TV so it's easier to find.
They must be realistic.. sometimes that reconciliation never comes
That moment with her dad, I had to pause cuz I was sobbing uncontrollably. 😞
At one point I was crying uncontrollably
That’s what got me!
I cried a lot on thus moment. Its very emotional to see her coming to see her each friends and family to say good bye and good thing.
A beautiful fact for you all-
Actress playing Candy’s mom is a famous Transwoman model
Angel is based off this woman
I saw a video talking about the characters based on real People and events of our community’s history.
I saw the video before watching this episode
And was pleasantly surprised when she appeared.
That’s amazing casting and I am so proud of our community getting the honor and recognition we deserve
I’m not Trans
But identified with Bisexual my whole life
That’s the only label I’ve accepted because we’re all multidimensional
I was on the committee in college and and been active within our family for years-
Even choreographed shows for drag Queens and Taught People how to walk and dance in heels.
This show is amazing ❤️
Sorry but that is not Tracy Norman aka Tracy Africa mother of the house of Africa Newark NJ native. But yes they did create a storyline from her life for Angel.
OMG.
pose was already powerful because of the messaging and script but the fact that they go this deep into the characters is crazy
Delete this… your information is incorrect. This is Patrice Johnson… not Tracy Africa.
This episode should have WON AN EMMY!! It was so damn POWERFUL!!
Thus entire scene is a message to parents: Your not guaranteed to leave this world first, but regardless of who goes first, never let the last goodbye you say out of love go unsaid. Your child is who they are, and while you are there to guide, protect, and teach, you are also there to support, love, and understand. When it's your time to go, or theirs, let them know that.
This could've said this any better 😊🥲💖
When I say I BAWLED throughout this whole episode. I’ve never cried so hard at a tv show like that before.
I wanted to say that MS. Ross's performance touched me so deeply. She finally had her moment of glory. The episode is well written, full of emotion and beautifully acted. The way she resolved her all of her relationships by visiting each person after death, especially with her parents. I watched this episode more than once and cried each time. I pray that she is nominated for an Emmy, she is a brillant, beautiful and vulnerable. I finally understood where she came from and why she was the way she was. Thank you Angelica for the amazing and touching character that you created.. I am going to miss seeing you on Pose ! Love you girl !
Roger Fernandez I couldn’t have said it better myself! Never have I ever had tears flow the way they did watching this. Truly one of the most touching scenes I’ve ever watched on TV.
Also little fun fact, Angelica mentioned in an interview that she requested to have no lines for this scene, she’s really that good ❤️
Man this scene had me balling my eyes out
Me2.
SAME HERE!
Powerful scene right here this my first Time seeing this and I cried 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭
Same, it was too much
💕💕💕
The talk with Candy's father had me crying. They say it's always harder to speak to your father than it is your mother. And, this time the roles were reversed, I couldn't stop crying it was so heartfelt. 😭
Should win multiple Emmys. There's no justice if this doesn't. Lady playing Candy should win. This scene killed me.
Angelica Love Ross is her real name. There are a bunch of behind the scenes episodes on YT and hers is so good. She's amazing at life, not just acting!!
When candy turned to her father the conversation made me cry
Blanca :how did you know Candy ?
Candy Mom: What kids damn name is Candy welp we know we're Candy got her Spunk from
* "What kind of damn name is Candy?"
MR. RYAN MURPHY & MS. JANET MOCKKKKK!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 The writing is unbelievable!! I don't care what anyone says!! This was everything for a Grande Diva like Candy!! Often times we get caught offguard by a death, ergo 'gone too soon. ' But that's because those of us left on Earth didn't hug enough or love enough or spend enough time or truly appreciate enough or .....the list goes on..... Often times in life, you don't truly understand the gift of breath & experience of a person until their untimely demise!!! KUDOS TO POSE!!! KUDOS TO THE POSE TEAM!!!! This show is beyond compare 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Amen 🙏
Kat Harris I agree please acknowledge people while they are here smiling, loving whatever tomorrow is not promised.
Write a book. You have a way with words.
Watching this, I feel like this is the only way I’m going to get through to my own parents.
This scene is powerful because I see my whole life in this episode. This was the most painful episode for me to watch. It’s so real, honest and true.
This is the most tearful, touching, emotional and saddest scene. I will miss Miss Candy. A talented, beautiful woman. 😭
It's crazy how they shows candy soft side after her death..... I guess her toughness was her protection from letting people in to hurt her
Just like Elektra
These eyelashes are soooo done 😭😭😭 😭😭 😭 after all my crying 😩😩when the dad said I can't let you go we just getting started 🤧😭
The father broke my heart. He was in incredible pain and still had to muzzle ol mom. Smh. Literally all you have to do is love your child. That's it. 😊❤
5:36 "I felt seen by you"
This is when I started crying in parts all the way till the end of the episode.
I was crying so hard that my friend’s service dog came over to comfort me and then I started crying even harder 😩😩😩😂😂😂😍😍😍. Man this is so fucking heartbreaking. The acting is phenomenal.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😢😢😢😢
I wonder if candy's life would have been a little more simpler had her parents said these things earlier in her life and than always having a home to come to when the world was too harsh for her...?
As a trans woman myself… this scene just shredded my soul for the *love of GOD* this show is a piece of art
Although I am a trans man, many moments also made me cry. This show is a masterpiece, nothing more to say.
I’m a straight male crying, we are all people😭
I'm crying with you 😢😢😢😔😭😭
The "at worst gay" is so real... I'm shocked at how realistic this dialogue is.
this episode has such a special place in my heart, especially with her fathers love. the day i watched this episode about 2 years ago, my father had a heart attack. he was thankfully ok but it was definitely a wake up call for me. i took my parents out to dinner the next week and finally told them i was trans and wanted to change my name. i was so scared that they would hate me or that this would be the final push for them to let me go, but i’m so glad i did it. this last christmas my mother gave me and my sisters the same gift, a necklace with our initial. when i opened mine and saw the “a” for my name, i finally understood what candy must have felt getting her dollhouse. it will always be the greatest gift i have ever received 💖
I've never watched this show. This clip has been showing up on my timeline, so I decided to watch it. I was not ready for this...
Watch the show... I was hesitant to watch the show because I thought that it was going be a show, comedy!! But it's true reality that our brothers and sisters went thru and still go thru.
As a mother of two boys it was emotional.. love your children while there here. Pray for your children even if you don't agree with sessions. God bless billy porter for allow us into his reality
This show is amazing. You laugh cry and grow
What's the name of it
@@francinevyfhuis8041 the name is Pose.
I don't know how many times I watched this scene but I know it never fails to kill me each time
This is one of the MOST ICONIC shows to ever grace TV!!! FX did an astounding job with this series!!! I had no clue of how they lived and grew in their community, but this was informative and eye-opening!! Bravo to the cast!!❤
People claim this life is a choice for us but what would make us pick a life of heartache and pain constantly? I'm glad people are realizing this .
I can not control my emotions no matter how many times I watch this scene. This episode period. 😢
Lord that was heavy
Candy looked like her mom!!! 😭😭 this episode had me rocking back and forth!!!
"That night ... I felt SEEN by YOU"
"Wasn't no guidebook instructing me how to raise a child like YOU." I'm nobody's mother so I'm not going to pretend that I understand what it's like to raise someone who is in the LGBTQ+ community. But what baffles my mind even more than that is how one could turn their backs on and hate that which came from you. I don't think I could. So perhaps there isn't a guidebook, but that's the beauty of it all...you get to write your own. I hope you do.
What show is this and hiii bts fan
@@erickakhan5567 pose
Straight people love to blame the culture for their attack on us to reddem themselves. Of course It was a culture thing but It was a culture created by them and perpetuated by them. They knew exactly what they were doing.
You know what's crazy? My mom said that about me before she even knew I was queer.
She said "You know, your teen phase was probably the hardest. Yeah you never ran away or snuck boys in like your sister. You never stole and we never had any big arguments. But all those things were familiar to me. You, talking with you was like living with someone who spoke another language. I had no clue how to connect with you, there was no guidebook on how to deal with the specific issues you were going through. And I think that made you more lonely. I just thank God you found friends that didn't steer you wrong."
Shit sticks with me to this day as I raise my own kid.
Candy will be missed. One thing is for sure, Blanca is good people!!
God, this scene is amazing. Every time I watch it, I cry.
So many of us in the LGBTQ+ community never get that opportunity of acceptance, and love, from our families. To see it, and hear it, just lights up my heart. We spend so much of our lives hiding who we are and conforming to those around us. Being seen, and accepted, means so so so much to us and this scene always brings tears to my eyes. Such an amazing cast and show!
I know Blanca had her ups and downs with Candy, especially since at times she was mean towards her, but I love that she still looked at her like a sister and showed unconditional love, even in death.
I’ve only watched a few Pose clips in the past 30 minutes but wow they’ve all brought out so many emotions within me! I’m sobbing right now because of this scene!
" WHY DID IT TAKE ME SO LONG TO SEE YOU? " It's always gonna be the question that will never be answered no matter how many more lives we sacrifice.
This made me cry her mother can to peace after she died it's never to late to love your child but you better do it before it's to late
Crying now
I feel just like her. Being a trans rejected by parents is the most painful of All rejections. By the 2 who made me who o am. My mom hated how I mirrored her, an since dad an mom never got along, dad couldnt take me either 🤣
But who doesn't wanna be loved for being who they are??
I can't even finish my comment the way I want so I'll just say THANK YOU for posting this
Star Child You are loved! I just want you to know that!
I love you
Never forget you are loved baby, by people who don't even know you.. that's what real "family" is...
Hugs
NO MATTER WHO U ARE WE LOVE YOU
ACCEPTANCE is what we all crave universally especially from our parents no matter you're race, culture, religion, or sexuality. This damn scene had me choked up. I'm a straight woman that love the show that have been cast out by her own parents because she refuse to be controlled. All she want is acceptance🙂
One of the most profound and beautiful - and yes, emotional - hours of television ever filmed. ❤❤❤
Dad being so unwilling to let his baby girl go. "We're just getting started..." goodnesssssssssss😫😫😫😫😫
I love and hate this scene equally. Love it because it is so tastefully played and emotional, all the actors outstanding. I hate it because these stories actually occured and these poor women were never able to reconcile with their families, and it's so heartbreaking it makes me angry cry.
Candy was a complex character. She had to be tough to survive. I will miss her crazy ass!!! Such an exceptional and touching episode😍😍😍
The acting in this.... phenomenal
This show has a lifelong place in my heart, and I will never forget the things it makes me feel.
I’m bawling my eyes out! This scene is so beautiful
Does anybody know if the actress that plays the mom is candys real life mother? The resemblance is INSANE; they look alike, talk alike, have the same mannerisms & everything!
No that not her mom
I think the actress is Kimberly Elise.
R.A. FIGUEROA lol no that’s not her
@@alphacharm Thanks.
R.A. FIGUEROA no, not Kimberly Elyse at all. They may look alike but their voices differ vastly.
🏳️🌈 I broke down hard with this scene..... I wish for my hubby’s parents to look for him before it’s too late..... it’s horrible not being loved by your own parents. Not everything will be perfect but like a lot of us in the LGBTQ+ community we sure damn try to make it that way. 🏳️🌈
I can't stop crying girlllllllll play that damn role omg the missed LOVE
Every day I aspire to be as graceful and accommodating to people as Blanca was. She'd stand in the face of someone who is tearing her down, with her head high and with the same, sweet and nurturing demeanor. Yes. It's a character but people like that exist irl. They walk among us, rare as they are. My goal in life is to be that. Not rich, not famous, not a "baddie." I just want to have a good and pure heart, light as a feather. 💛🥺
This damn show has me in tears almost every episode. But this episode? My eyes were running like crazy. I've rewatched both seasons multiple times, and it still makes me ball. 😭😭😭
She has no idea how much I want to call her, tell her I miss my mama and my family. But I can’t keep myself around them if they don’t care about the pain they cause. I miss them so much, and I don’t want the next time we see each other to be in a situation like this.
Reading this hurts my soul, I hope you are hanging in there and that you continue to protect yourself until they show you the respect you deserve❤️ I’m praying for you and your families relationship to become good again.
IM DROWNING IN TEARS HERE IN BRAZIL 😭, THANK U SO MUCH CANDY FEROCITY. U'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN 🙏🏻❤️
😭😭😭😭😭 it's even sadder because while some of the other conversations with the cast were ones they couldve had with her in their head knowing her, these ones were specifically conversations that they would never have, about things they would never know, with her life cut short before such an exchange could ever happen
Thank you for uploading this. I’ve been distraught all day rewatching this episode.
Me too... I've watched it 4 times
@@danasheia7064 Really?!! I can't, it's just too emotional
Some people will never know you or understand you until you were gone. But it's okay.
Blanca character is the best of them all so humble ❤
I haven’t seen this show yet but I clicked on this and omg. The tears just kept coming. So emotional, I am binge watch it now!
The conversation with Candy and her dad almost took me out. I love this show so much!!!
Maaaaaan the amount of TEAR that just watered out the first time I seen this episode… 😢😢😢
This scene is EVERYTHING! Beautifully done! Everything in one TAKE! Amazing! Not to mention I have tears and snot EVERYWHERE!!
The love in this scene takes all the oxygen out of the room. 😊❤
Yep this scene is so powerful 😭😭💕💕💕💕
Can we just appreciate how Blanca handled the situation in the beginning
I just can't, this scene took me all the way out... So heartbreaking 😭😭😭
I totally understand the parent, because it is too hard to process when your child is different.
It was good to see the dad more understanding so many times we forget how evil the moms can be!!!