How to Tell if a Guy is SHY or JUST NOT INTERESTED!!

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  • @Linda-vq8oq
    @Linda-vq8oq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +950

    What if you're awkward and they're awkward?

    • @emmagarciiaa1953
      @emmagarciiaa1953 7 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Linda THEN YOU CAN BE IN A PERFECT AWKWARD RELATIONSHIP!

    • @scenerybyv5902
      @scenerybyv5902 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@emmagarciiaa1953 so awkward that they can't even celebrate their monthsarries or anniversaries lmao

    • @niko-oy1cq
      @niko-oy1cq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      What if I'm awkward and they aren't :(

    • @itzrinonline1359
      @itzrinonline1359 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      So akward that ur not talking to him and he's not talking at u att all BC he's shy? Yea... Idk..

    • @grubbiechirp5695
      @grubbiechirp5695 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What if the entire world is awkward, I think there wouldn’t be overpopulation

  • @hannahcook6444
    @hannahcook6444 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1350

    He acts like he likes me one day and the next he doesn't

    • @gayfrogs4206
      @gayfrogs4206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      He knows what he’s doing ;)
      Trust me

    • @erakuralightning-bolt1492
      @erakuralightning-bolt1492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Player omg

    • @tatianat.9959
      @tatianat.9959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I'm still confused with the other responses no it's horrible if he dose that

    • @irenerufus1090
      @irenerufus1090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Well so my old crush messaged me one day we would talk for a really long time on the phone then the next month I get ignored until i go over when i go to where they live we have a great time then i get ignored I'm being ignoring right now so I'm over it

    • @karlenechelsea7858
      @karlenechelsea7858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same :(((

  • @karlavelazquez6167
    @karlavelazquez6167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +931

    What if we’re *both* shy and don’t know how to start the conversation

    • @ioannak.4690
      @ioannak.4690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      1. Have a common friend and Give the common friend to start the conversation.
      2. Talk to him via Text
      3. Smile at him often & hold a little bit the eye contact (hold the eye contact as long as possible)
      4. You're Amazing, in somebody's other Eyes. Never forget that, even if sb rejected you in the Future.

    • @annmariedean9270
      @annmariedean9270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I am on the same boat

    • @dilarafataliyeva2904
      @dilarafataliyeva2904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Karla Velazquez same

    • @reilynnpo
      @reilynnpo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG SAME

    • @Yasmeii
      @Yasmeii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sis im struggling

  • @toruoikawa1153
    @toruoikawa1153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    What's funny is that every time a boy has a crush on me, I don't like them back. But every time I like a boy, they don't like me back.

    • @yasminstb497
      @yasminstb497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 🙂

    • @whome6081
      @whome6081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know what you mean lol. Or we like each other at different times.🙈

    • @Kreznir
      @Kreznir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not me I have his friends ask him if he likes me but there also my friend case there gay

    • @marigold1311
      @marigold1311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear your me😭

    • @bigballedshavedsquirellhater6
      @bigballedshavedsquirellhater6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally so draining

  • @komaltoor5517
    @komaltoor5517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    I don't have a crush....this is just interesting to me

    • @deanjean4489
      @deanjean4489 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Komal Toor se

    • @deanjean4489
      @deanjean4489 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *same

    • @mavisrahwa
      @mavisrahwa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Komal Toor i wanna be prepared for my crush to come lmao

    • @jeanelrw5731
      @jeanelrw5731 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Glad for you! Life is better without this things 😂

    • @suhayla5431
      @suhayla5431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your so lucky 😂

  • @amalia4842
    @amalia4842 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1907

    Can u do this but with outgoing guys?
    *How do you tell if someone is just being nice or if they actually like you?*

    • @amalia4842
      @amalia4842 7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      My crush is a 100% extrovert 😂😭😭😭

    • @mylescardenas5341
      @mylescardenas5341 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      how??😂😂 im wondering too😂😂

    • @ayla4908
      @ayla4908 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      CreativeAmalia in a texting situation
      Being nice: they will probably just say hi, hello or something, when you ask how they're doing they will give an answer but not as long they would if they like you, like this "not bad"
      If they actually like you: they will probably text you something like hey, hiya stuff like that. And if you ask how they're doing they will give you a more in detail answer instead, like this: "I'm great, how about you?"
      This is how I found out that this guy liked me when he was texting because he was really trying to make conversation, so this is from my experience

    • @elinesimons5922
      @elinesimons5922 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes please

    • @shaleahcrawford5454
      @shaleahcrawford5454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CreativeAmalia right

  • @amberwalsh7450
    @amberwalsh7450 7 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I was in a texting relationship with my crush for 4 months straight every day, and then we confessed we liked each other. Best day ever! ♡

    • @louisewinstanley1462
      @louisewinstanley1462 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amber Walsh you are so lucky!!!!

    • @chloedooley4871
      @chloedooley4871 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You may have confessed
      But did you guys end up dating? 💝💝
      If so YAYAYAYYAYAYAYAYA

    • @jasminecolvin5840
      @jasminecolvin5840 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did y'all text everyday or...

    • @julia8055
      @julia8055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amber Walsh
      Hopefully happens to me😭

    • @scintillazx
      @scintillazx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Give some tips plz

  • @alyssaong6139
    @alyssaong6139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +753

    I'm still really confused cause sometimes he seems like he likes me and sometimes he doesn't

    • @deephatame1690
      @deephatame1690 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alyssa Ong same

    • @owiyanna
      @owiyanna 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gosh sameeeee

    • @nataliaramirez5018
      @nataliaramirez5018 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg samee

    • @madelinechia
      @madelinechia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here, it sucks. What should we do?

    • @dellaswanson9837
      @dellaswanson9837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Alyssa Ong So...best advice I know about that...mixed signals aren't real. He doesn't like you, sorry

  • @isabelv9408
    @isabelv9408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I think he’s just shy and unitrested ✌️🥺

    • @amymellor5305
      @amymellor5305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep that’s me so sad

    • @crybabydalia
      @crybabydalia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same oml 😭✌🏻

  • @abbyyoung8005
    @abbyyoung8005 7 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    My crush acts shy around me but he is definitely not shy

  • @shelbyjoneff
    @shelbyjoneff 7 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    This actually helped me as a shy girl to know how to show someone I'm interested!!

    • @leasagna2202
      @leasagna2202 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shelby Neff
      I feel good for u

  • @macscorner3729
    @macscorner3729 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    YESSSS! He likes me!!!!!!! Most applicable... My crush was on his phone and slouched over.. When I walked up to where he was sitting he: made eye contact, smiled, put his phone away, sat up straight, and started to come alive. Thank you SO MUCH Kimberly!! I loved this and it was VERY helpful!

    • @tonekagrigsby-green769
      @tonekagrigsby-green769 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mac's Corner mine too my crush actually walked with me and my friends out of class

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish I knew exactly how to tell if he likes me but at least Kimberly helped me out so good luck with it crushes ppl 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @1530-e9s
    @1530-e9s 7 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    But whenever I walk through the halls and see my crush I become over confident and pretend I don't notice him and try not to make eye contact at all😂

    • @Emily-lt1uq
      @Emily-lt1uq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Chocolate Forever same! 😂

    • @nicolechen9492
      @nicolechen9492 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      dude I become the exact opposite 😂

    • @poundsquad6743
      @poundsquad6743 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chocolate Forever girl stop that habbit

    • @kuuderequeen8499
      @kuuderequeen8499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same due to the fact his ex is my frnd

    • @elenayoung9235
      @elenayoung9235 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chocolate Forever same here😂

  • @Thecallmemisterajp
    @Thecallmemisterajp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Speaking as a shy guy, texting can be just as tough, if not tougher, than a face to face interaction, because you have more time to think and over analyze with someone you like. I’ve got a jokey personality for instance, but I’ve had instances where it’s taken me 15-20 minutes to text someone I liked because I was worried about offending her. So yeah I wouldn’t necessarily say the guy who’s not responsive on text should be ruled out as liking you.

  • @1SUBPAR
    @1SUBPAR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Hack!
    Crush: do u have a crush?
    You: yeah u
    Crush: sorry I don't feel the same way
    You: no u meant do u have a crush?
    Crush: u scared me and yes I have a crush!😅☺️

    • @Kindahalawi
      @Kindahalawi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      lindsay gomez smart

    • @krissnamartin
      @krissnamartin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s how I respond lol.
      But let’s change crush with best friend lol. I wasn’t informed that that was how they interpreted my answer so the person’s very possessive best friend started distancing her best friend from me. That was annoying. Hahaha.

    • @HY-dh3if
      @HY-dh3if 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lindsay gomez i don’t understand

    • @layniecrabill7358
      @layniecrabill7358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lindsay gomez smart bitch how do you get your crush to ask if you ahve a crush to do this

    • @Gurpreet-A
      @Gurpreet-A 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏

  • @itslit2390
    @itslit2390 7 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I just realized I am a shy guy lmfaoo

  • @kaylar5178
    @kaylar5178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I'm definitely the shy person to my crush but sometimes I pretend that I don't like him just to see if he really cares about me or not

    • @Hawaiiansky11
      @Hawaiiansky11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pretending, to 'test' him is a manipulation, and you're going to lose if you keep playing games like that.

  • @alogarcia8008
    @alogarcia8008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Kimberly is like an older sister i've never had with love advice😂❤️

  • @-mackenzie-2035
    @-mackenzie-2035 7 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    I have a way if u like them but don't know if they like you:
    You: i like u
    Crush: what!/I DON'T LIKE YOU
    you: u as in the vowel
    Ta daaaaaa hack for being rejected

  • @niko-oy1cq
    @niko-oy1cq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    So my crush has said that he actually has a crush on me. Why am I here lmao

  • @jaylareed3059
    @jaylareed3059 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Ok so let's call him Daniel. Me and Daniel have PE together. We stand next to each other in the line up for that class. He's quiet but he's not entirely awkward or anything, more just to himself, but he's super nice and we share the same humor. So one day he played this Pe warmup with me and was teasing me, then he caught up with me and my friend while we were walking home, offered to fight someone when he thought they hurt my feelings, went up to me and asked me what happened & if I was alright after my anxiety attack, walked again with me home, made deadass eye contact for 6 seconds, said hey to me at my locker, blushed when I complimented him, said "this ones for you" and tried to make a basketball shot but adorably failed. But my issue is that he pushes and teases this other girl but idk... I feel like he likes me but like I don't know how to get him to ask me out because I like him a lot too. I only have Pe every other day so I hardly see him but idk how to get him to ask me out. We haven't been speaking too much Idk how to keep him interested, so girls could you help a sister out? :)
    UPDATE: 9/15/17
    We walked again and had a 15 minute conversation about random things and it was sweet they were telling me stories and I was telling them stories ugh😍

    • @mcna220
      @mcna220 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jayla Reed omg that's so cute!!! idk much abt guys and all that so I don't know enough to help:/

    • @ashleyarriaga7830
      @ashleyarriaga7830 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jayla Reed so cute, uhh boys are so complicated

    • @randommm5580
      @randommm5580 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jayla Reed boys are complicated,But in my opinion I think he likes you because he teases you

    • @ryla3794
      @ryla3794 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jayla Reed Maybe you're in a situation where he likes both of you. Or maybe you're in a situation where he's trying to make you or her jealous. BOYS ARE SO FREAKING COMPLICATED

    • @vicg0212
      @vicg0212 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jayla Reed I would suggest doing a bit of flirting with him. Watch a bunch of Kim's vids and you will be schooled on so much about guys. Her videos are very helpful, if you haven't watched her "bend and snap" video, you should. Its a very flirty technique that I can't wait to use on my boyfriend at the right time lol. Hope this helped you!!!

  • @beccabee1958
    @beccabee1958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kimberly, I would like to thank you because u helped me gain enough courage to tell my crush that I like him, and although it's not going to lead to anything right now, the layer of awkwardness is gone and were back to normal, so thank you.

  • @GiannaChristine
    @GiannaChristine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Your videos are so interesting!💗

  • @zohalfazli
    @zohalfazli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Mt crush isn't even shy? Why am I watching this😂

    • @Quietjasmijn
      @Quietjasmijn 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zohal Fazli hahaha same

    • @bahjamoh6196
      @bahjamoh6196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hhhhh this actually made my day 😂😂😂😂

    • @randjnation4562
      @randjnation4562 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zohal Fazli she means shy towards you my crush is an extrovert and he acts shy around me

    • @brit518
      @brit518 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 same

  • @puregodd
    @puregodd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Evidence he likes you based on what I've learned so far thx to Kimberly:
    1 eye contact
    2 keep conversation going
    3 finds ways to touch you
    4 awkwardness
    5 you catch him looking at you
    6 makes a big change in something example:likes the things you like all of a sudden
    7 helps you if you ask
    Anymore I've missed?

  • @thorn2374
    @thorn2374 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    As a shy person I can confirm these action are how I act when I like someone. *tums up*

  • @latejuly9883
    @latejuly9883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I love her look in this! 😍

  • @daniellecruz2570
    @daniellecruz2570 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    See that’s where I’m conflicted, he does the things when the shy crushes do but when we text, I’m always the one who starts the convo. :/

  • @neutralas8136
    @neutralas8136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    when i know that my crush will never like me back :'))))

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    It's really hard to differentiate between shy guys and the guys that are just not interested in you because they both not showing clear signs that they are into you. Why not tell the guy about your feelings anyways we're in the modern world where women are equally priviledged to men.

    • @tayen
      @tayen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      LoveMe,com cuz it’s SCARRRYYYY

    • @sparklyxshine4796
      @sparklyxshine4796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tayen but ugh,even the girl has told you she like him... he told me he cant say anything to it^^ im sure he isnt that sure what he want,because I think he coukld had say no insead of this! & left me with this :( also he could had so,no feels^^

    • @swahiliranger1022
      @swahiliranger1022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pfffffttt hahahaha

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry women are NOT equally priviledged. Guys are "more visual" A guy moves a girl 1 point for personality, a girl moves a guy 4. Big difference. So a girl has to be very attractive from the start. Also girls can not make the first move. They are seen as masculine and they resent her for it eventually. Or "thirsty".

  • @caracarabonitaa
    @caracarabonitaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Lol, everything opposite from what Kimberly said, got me the guy ahaha

  • @emmaevie2362
    @emmaevie2362 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    You should do a "how to tell a guy you don't like them without hurting them" please

    • @noname-jo2fc
      @noname-jo2fc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emma Visser tell him he's like your older brother

    • @klaus_ali
      @klaus_ali 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can never tell someone that you dont like them without hurting them. But say it as soon as possible so theu could move on fast and stop liking you, to make the pain lesser

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      If I could tell u what to say it would tell u to say: hey, look I know that you like me and it's really nice of you but I'm sorry I can't return the feelings I'm so so so so so sorry...
      But idk what to do

    • @oreo3850
      @oreo3850 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just say "I have a crush on this guy...." he'll know for sure...

  • @gianinaanne
    @gianinaanne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this is so spot on, as a shy person. I absolutely love your videos

  • @nicollereyes1722
    @nicollereyes1722 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kimberly was so right about the texting. I was so connected to everything she was saying in the texting category.

  • @Linda-oy6em
    @Linda-oy6em 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m confused because his body language tells me that he is interested, but I always have to be the one to text him

  • @sakshi5520
    @sakshi5520 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love your flower crown! 😍

  • @Hawaiiansky11
    @Hawaiiansky11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I asked my college crush one day if I should go out with someone else who had asked me out. I was HOPING to get a response to the effect of "No, he's not right for you," or something like that. He basically said, "Sure, if you like him, why not?" Turns out, my crush really did like me, but was too shy to ask me himself! Then, years later, after we had established a friendship, he called me up one day to ask about a girl he wanted to date. (WHY DO GUYS DO THIS?!?) I presumed that he had put me in the 'friend / tolerable human' zone, so I offered him friendly advice. I remember saying to him, "You should date a girl who likes you for you, not for what you can buy for her," going on about not spending a lot of money on a first date, because it was setting the bar too high, and the girl would have an expectation of him spending all sorts of money on her and he would have a hard time (being a broke-ass college student like me) keeping up with that. He sounded a little disappointed when he hung up the phone. DECADES later, a mutual friend told me, "Oh yeah he had these concert ticket he bought to take you out, but then he ended up giving them to me and another guy." Damn it, if I had any idea that he wanted to date me, I'd have jumped at the chance!!
    Well, here we are some 30 years later. He's single, I'm single and we're talking again. If he starts that sh** of asking for dating advice from me again, I'm going to be totally blunt and say, "Why are you not asking someone else about dating ME?!?" Dang, guys, please don't "Mr. Rochester" my Jayne Eyre. Not all of us pick on on those hints.

    • @sabrineghali6230
      @sabrineghali6230 ปีที่แล้ว

      Giiirl why dont just give him signes a obvioud ones or tell him directly because you too have already wasting too much Time when a cute love story coule be liké Come un

  • @jeniskaduplain5407
    @jeniskaduplain5407 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    😍😍 love this you slayyy😍💕

  • @galinaioffe2250
    @galinaioffe2250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #5 VALID. 9 of 10 the point of conversation with your crush is to get to know them and if they are not asking you type of question you are asking, they are definitely not interested.

  • @rileyborden2909
    @rileyborden2909 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Ok, so here's my problem. So, I have a crush and I see him everyday. In class, we talk so much and we barely stop talking. He is always being really silly and funny and is always blushing and smiling. He sometimes gets nervous around me and when I first met him, he was very nervous and shy but not since we became friends. But as soon as we leave class, he barely talks to me and I will catch him looking at me every so often. But he kinda gives me an intense sorta look but I'm not sure if he likes me or he does and he is also very shy.

    • @kornilious
      @kornilious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think he does but he just doesn’t have the courage to come up to you outside of the classroom. It’s a different environment inside a class than it is outside.

    • @imgonnafillall50characters36
      @imgonnafillall50characters36 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like he has a crush on u

  • @notava6601
    @notava6601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The struggle when your crush “doesn’t believe in social media” (that’s just what mine said to me)

    • @wanderingbelle7
      @wanderingbelle7 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      the struggle when you don't believe in social media:)

    • @thinkingofaname6233
      @thinkingofaname6233 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ava Is Trashy social media is trash, never used it, never will. Idk why that suddenly makes you unattractive. *ong u don’t use online cancer? I hate u*

    • @exmachina8475
      @exmachina8475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thinking of A Name You’re probably baiting but just in case you’re legit, YT technically counts as a social media platform.

  • @hellenroeser7349
    @hellenroeser7349 7 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    Kimberly I am still confused sorry, when we see each other he shows all body signs he is interested but he rarely initiated the talk in texts and never call me😠😂

    • @ИлиянаРадова
      @ИлиянаРадова 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Hellen Roeser The exact same thing is happaning to me every time

    • @hellenroeser7349
      @hellenroeser7349 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Илияна Радова my friend I feel you😂

    • @keirawalkowiak5907
      @keirawalkowiak5907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Hellen Roeser sorry but if a guy doesn't talk to u it's not a good sign bc your crush if they like you they would go out of their way to talk to u sorry girl their are plenty of fish in the sea

    • @keirawalkowiak5907
      @keirawalkowiak5907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Well maybe he's shy

    • @alanaisagoat9884
      @alanaisagoat9884 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hellen Roeser same

  • @alexismartin4470
    @alexismartin4470 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Honestly this helped a lot! I was told he was shy but this really made it clear that he might actually be interested just not as confident lol Thanks Kimberly!😊

  • @rlxcrl2022
    @rlxcrl2022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "they will be way more fun and engaged via text message than in person", this has helped me so much because when I see him in person I feel like he doesn't like me but then again he is quite shy

  • @taylork329
    @taylork329 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video... I've liked this guy for quite a while and didn't think he'd feel the same, assumed he'd be straight, but the more I see him the more it seems mutual. I thought he was disinterested initially, but the last point of the video is exactly what brought me around.. he's kinda awkward and has a hard time starting conversations, but when we do get talking his face just lights up so brilliantly, and he gets really excited and extends conversations as long as possible, laughs quite a lot at my bad jokes, goes out of his way to help me with things, etc. It's adorable, I'm trying to be clear with my signals but it's difficult for such a delicate situation, I know he has anxiety and am just trying to not be too abrasive, but also think a nudge in the right direction would help ease some of the pressure. He has said some stuff that comes off as non-platonic as well, but it seems like he's so shy he literally can't look me in the eye and instead, always looks down or at something he's showing me while we talk. (And yes, he can maintain eye contact with everyone else just fine.)

  • @naomianderson1321
    @naomianderson1321 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am the really shy one who sees the person i like but dont have confidence to do so. And when if i did i wouod probably be so nervous my hands shake.

    • @makennamorrow8072
      @makennamorrow8072 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naomi Anderson same

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same but it's my leg when I'm nervous. the more nervous i am the shaking will literally be from my foot to the entire leg annnnnnd I think during a presentation he say that so.....

  • @nataliebates6201
    @nataliebates6201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I love you Kimberly. I watch your videos. I followed you my crush... well a dance was a few days ago. He asked me! He was my first dance! I know sounds silly but yeah. Well he moved school which is sad. My brothers gf is his cousin weird right? Well my best friends is also their cousin small world! We hang out at the lake/ pond things are going well! We are both not aloud to date buuut we may do couple things anyway. Or maybe we are dating... ok yes thanks to you I got my best friends I had a crush on for so long! Thank you sooo much!

  • @xXIsopodAngel69805Xx
    @xXIsopodAngel69805Xx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is actually very helpful! I’m interested in a guy and I’m currently working up the confidence to speak to him! Mainly because I’ve been in this situation before and without this advice, it DID NOT go well. He was uninterested when talking to me and sucked at texting so yeah I got turned down but uh I’ll give this new one a shot

  • @flowerglow8262
    @flowerglow8262 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was really helpful! I had so many mixed feelings whether my crush liked me or not. But, after watching this, I figure he really is a shy guy.
    Whenever we pass each other, we look at each other's eyes and then give a very quick and awkward smile to each other. That happens everytime we have this chance.
    One time, I mean most of the time, at lunch, he tends to be with his pals and Im with my gals. He is very talkative around them; of course, I am the same with mine. After lunch, whenever we line up in the hallways with the same class, we are in the usuals lining up literally back to back from each other. This, he kind of becomes quiet and he seems like he wants me to look at him and start a conversation. The problem is, Im not a very sociable person with guys... I feel tense whenever Im around a lot of the guys he is friends with. I guess I didn't want to feel judged around them. Come to think of it, his groups is quite similar to my groups of friends... I should talk to him, but Im too nervous. Another problem is, what should I say?

  • @mchouaa
    @mchouaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I discovered you sooner when I was having trouble figuring out if the guy I had a crush on liked me or not. It was totally confusing, but after watching this it totally related to how he acted towards me & yes he liked me back and we’re together now!

  • @jessicamichele71
    @jessicamichele71 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love you! You helped me through so so much!😘😘😘😍😍😍💕💕

  • @korinasibenik3162
    @korinasibenik3162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Do how to become friends with guy friends

    • @hatepixie5127
      @hatepixie5127 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Korina Cullen I want guy friends too but they seem to have the wrong idea about friendship if u feel me

  • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
    @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    heyyy kimberly❤❤❤ i am earlyy

    • @nialawes9606
      @nialawes9606 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi kimberley! Your videos are AMAZING!

  • @RichaKumariGMSTelipuraJagadhar
    @RichaKumariGMSTelipuraJagadhar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Today I am damn sure that he likes me . I was really confused for so many months that he likes me or not because he is a shy guy . But you made it clear for me that he definitely likes me secretly and he's just unable to gather up some courage to talk to me openly. Anyway, thank you so much acknowledge people about love and their crush .

  • @ryleereagan1858
    @ryleereagan1858 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I’ve never spoken to my crush lmao I don’t know what to do

    • @jasminecolvin5840
      @jasminecolvin5840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How about speak to him maybe....

    • @kraftmaccheesy
      @kraftmaccheesy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rylee Nicole wait how do you have a crush on someone you never talked to lol

    • @sadboilizz5362
      @sadboilizz5362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      compliment them

  • @sharanya8645
    @sharanya8645 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg thank you Kimberly!! This video is literally so helpful👍😘

  • @multixgrazer929
    @multixgrazer929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Hey girl! Love the flower crown! 😆😆🌹🌹🌸🌸🌷🌷

    • @Emma-wh7fg
      @Emma-wh7fg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why Don't We Fan my lime lights!

    • @multixgrazer929
      @multixgrazer929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sally Wynter Yes hey limelight!!!

    • @hallo_1251
      @hallo_1251 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why Don't We Fan Same! It looks so good on her... I am a fan to, my favorite is Daniel and Zach, who is your favorite?😊💙

    • @multixgrazer929
      @multixgrazer929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi People Zach!! I met him recently and i hugged him twice and got a picture with him!! Best day of my life!! 😂😂😂😍😍😍💖💖💖

    • @hallo_1251
      @hallo_1251 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why Don't We Fan I want a picture with Daniel😊

  • @pastella28
    @pastella28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    According to all these tips he likes me yay!! However when we text, he will sometimes will be super talkative and friendly(we will talk about everything) and sometimes I am the only one saying something and he just answers really quickly... what does that mean?

    • @ty1480
      @ty1480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think that means you're on the phone too long and you need to get off much quicker. I've had the same thing and then he never calls again. Always be the first to leave the conversation, leaving him wanting more, if he wants you at all that is. If he's not calling you after you've made initial contact that's telling you something. Always keep your dignity.

  • @toptaemin1278
    @toptaemin1278 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You will feel it guys if they are into you
    You will also feel it if they are not into you😀
    End of conversation.

  • @Just_Stop
    @Just_Stop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Well this isn’t for all boys. I am shy and when I do see my crush walking down the hall I literally am tempted to make eye contact or say hi but I hold my self back because I don’t like anyone knowing who my crush is unless I tell them so I try not to give any hints. But most of what she says is relatable.

  • @teohyaosheng4213
    @teohyaosheng4213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i am literally watching another video and then a new ask kimberly is posted so i am here lol

  • @kayceemee6129
    @kayceemee6129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite back to school flirting hack is the sticky notes or games! I swear, amazing

  • @dilarakarabulut1243
    @dilarakarabulut1243 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you so much, thank you for everything 💖

  • @balqissumi
    @balqissumi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    now i see my crush isn't into me at all and he keeps avoiding me . imma move on

  • @CourtneyIsGoblin
    @CourtneyIsGoblin 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since you asked for feedback, here it is. My guy doesn't acknowledge me or anyone else in the halls because he is always on a mission to get to his next class. He is very reserved so I can't look at how he behaves with friends because he doesn't talk to anyone. I don't recall him reacting to me entering the room but I'll keep an eye out next week. When I first talked to him, he lit up and was very sociable. However, it can sometimes take over 24 hours for him to answer a text so I gave up on texting him. Before the texting, I believed he was just shy and that I had a chance. It was the texting that showed his lack of interest. That's pretty much it. I don't think I did anything wrong in action or word so I must just not be attractive to him. Keep up the good work with the videos. I'm going to go get myself a bottle of whiskey. lol

  • @zoeh.4421
    @zoeh.4421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just realized that my crush (everyone knows he's shy) is fine talking to other people, but around me he stays quiet and there's a lot of eye contact 😆

  • @cherine3229
    @cherine3229 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The one when he changes his posture/body language is the one which I noticed with my crush, I was late to class, so when I went to sit down, he was staring at me and smiled, then carried on with his work, to me, It was EVERYTHING

    • @avam3245
      @avam3245 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, if I get even a glance if him smiling at me, I freak out inside.

  • @sailorcandy6633
    @sailorcandy6633 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I want to give my crush signals that I like him without it being uncomfortable. But it's really hard. When I see him on the halls I make 1 second of eye contact and look away and not greet them. Plus when he asks for help I walk away pretending I don't hear him. And I try avoiding him. It is probably just me or do I act like I hate him or is not just interested

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A.D.M ! You are being too conscious,you like him but you want him to initiate the contact first lol

    • @exmachina8475
      @exmachina8475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You might accidentally give him the wrong signs, just be careful of what you’re doing.

  • @dhsjdjdns155
    @dhsjdjdns155 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is way too confusing
    He talks to his friends but is super nervous around me, but the texting doesn’t go so well so???

    • @exmachina8475
      @exmachina8475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mines a bit similar. It definitely did feel like I was trying harder to keep a convo in text and it kinda felt like he wasn’t trying. I’ve also have never had an irl conversation or walked into a room with him already in it so I’m still unsure.

    • @SachaCutieGirl
      @SachaCutieGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same with the texting but everything checks out but he has two jobs he's a teacher and has a car business so he's super busy and I get nervous and shy around him but I'm hanging in there with this cuz he's just so omg

    • @faye-louise563
      @faye-louise563 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dhsj Djdns Same he’s just as akward in real life as he is on text but if I walk past him he blushes and looks at the floor

  • @mehaksharma2210
    @mehaksharma2210 7 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    I'm not even having my crush phone number 😢😢btw my crush is elder than me 2 yrs doesn't matter, but he is talkative n not talkative in front of me... But he is very friendly with every boy I know but not with me 😑😑he doesn't speak with me... Any one having any ideas or something?? So kindly share

    • @mehaksharma2210
      @mehaksharma2210 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Da gamertag ummm ur having a good idea but he is not at all intelligent . Even though I'm younger than him I'm having much knowledge than him.. And he.. Oh god he fails so many of his assignment 😩😩and I got pass in every subject.. He is in ninth but he can't even give the examination of seventh standard... 😥he will fail.. I'm sure 😂😂and if I will taught by him I will be fail too 😂

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      He's gay

    • @lucyrobin280
      @lucyrobin280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      La Dama del Caribe I DIED WHEN I READ THIS COMMENT

    • @mehaksharma2210
      @mehaksharma2210 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucy Robin why

    • @Annabel434
      @Annabel434 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Probaley not interested

  • @sofisoyi
    @sofisoyi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    So is it true that if you're early Kimberly likes and comments on your post? 💜
    P.S. my crush (whos shy) and me are dating now tysm Kim!!❤️😘ily!!

  • @secilperkins
    @secilperkins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Literally i’m thinkin’ bout this quesiton for about 2 years

  • @Mm-ig5zr
    @Mm-ig5zr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Hey guys I heard when u are early Kimberly replies

    • @roromsp7499
      @roromsp7499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LUKE BRYAN FAN OMG SHE LOVED THISS😛

    • @Mm-ig5zr
      @Mm-ig5zr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love you Kimberly

  • @singing.winnie
    @singing.winnie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is such a helpful video. many times it was confusing to tell if a guy is shy or just not interested. sometimes i thought he was just shy (and had crush on me) so i was trying to go up to him first and all.
    Like half of the time, it was shyness... but half of the time, it was NOT! recently this happened to me and it feels like "pulling teeth" as you said. it feels simply awful!!
    so i wanted to say TYSM for this video. So helpful and relatable. I would not make the same mistakes again!!!!
    Key points:
    If he is being shy and is interested in you
    1. He will show efforts despite its awkwardness
    2. It would not be so smooth and easy for him to talk to you!!!! ☆
    3. Text messages will reveal it for sure.. ugh.. bad memory alert..

  • @lucalives96
    @lucalives96 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG kimberly thank you! Thanks to you I was able too notice that my crush... DOES ACTUALLY LIKE ME THANK YOU!!!

  • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
    @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Does Kimberly reply when you are early? ✌

    • @AskKimberly
      @AskKimberly  7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      ilovemakeup_ xoxo sometimes I do!!!! 😘😘😘

    • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
      @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ask Kimberly omg omg omg thank you ily😘😘😘😘😘😘✌✌✌

    • @mahekmajithia7039
      @mahekmajithia7039 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ask Kimberly your eyeshadow is on point

    • @reganmatthews1193
      @reganmatthews1193 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask Kimberly omg I love your videos and my favourite one of your hacks is the pen drop

    • @lizzlifes9356
      @lizzlifes9356 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask Kimberly okay so I rly need help I have 3 guys in my social studies class and 2 of them like me a lot but one is rly shy and I’m not exactly interested in him the other guys calls me the wrong name all the time on purpose and he always talks to me and sometime it’s rly annoying bec we aren’t suppose to talk. The 3rd guy came up to me 2 weeks ago and asked what my name was and I told him and then I went in early for school and he came up to me and started talking to me so I think he likes me a little but he likes another girls who I’m kind of friends with OML Kimberly Please help me what should I do

  • @godyerin2826
    @godyerin2826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This guy I’m seeing is like really difficult to talk to over text... like I’m always gearing the conversation and I’m already really bad at conversation. He doesn’t ask questions or ask about my day... it’s just really difficult because he’s 6ft4 😂😂

  • @aliciaparry1756
    @aliciaparry1756 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm literally eating a huge chunk of chocolate watching this😂

  • @AlandraDale
    @AlandraDale 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You literally go so in-depth and i love it!

  • @tessaking4130
    @tessaking4130 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. Yes
    2. I don’t really have friends so I can’t count this one. I don’t go up to his friends either
    3. We don’t text but keep it in mind.
    4. Yes I’ll sit by him and he’ll move closer
    5. I sat by him and he was surprised and we couldn’t stop talking. then the following day he sat by me and same thing

  • @alexandravar.3661
    @alexandravar.3661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Well...I'm pretty sure I have the most difficult situation in this channel. ..A friend of mine had the idea to prank call a guy that she new and we ended up talking like...4 times a week. ( cause he lives on an Island near the one I'm living in Greece )..so one day I had a sleepover with some friends and we watched 13 reasons why ,btw I didn't really wanted to watch it....After like 3 episodes I realised that the guy we prank called was like a twin with the actor of the series..so I tested at 1 am and he responded so we were like texting till 3 am , he asked if I had a bf , he told me how amazing I am etc...now he doesn't text first but whenever I call him we have a conversation going and I looking forwards for Christmas cause he's coming to the island I'm living....
    Well if u made till here...good 4 u😂😂😂😚😚😚

    • @AlinaK-d9z
      @AlinaK-d9z 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      alexandra var how is that a difficult situation? Sounds awesome

    • @alexandravar.3661
      @alexandravar.3661 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      alina wiseau Well yeah, at this point we text and video call daily, so okey I take it back😆😆😆

    • @potterfan2770
      @potterfan2770 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      alexandra var girl we need an update what’s up

    • @abgang2259
      @abgang2259 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update us on the situation please 😂

  • @mochichks6075
    @mochichks6075 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    so when me and my crush pass each other in the hall we would make eye contact but then when I walk into the room i don't want to look at him becuz u know ♡_♡ but when he enters the room i literally just sat straight up⬆ like???? Sometimes when I enter the room he does change his body language but sometimes he doesn't? Leik I have so many mixed signals 0_0

    • @avam3245
      @avam3245 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Omg same, my crush is always late, so I wonder if he watches these types of videos, and knows that when I change my posture, it means I like him.

    • @sparklyxshine4796
      @sparklyxshine4796 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too :(

    • @shanmugapriya6303
      @shanmugapriya6303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're kai anime 💞😍

  • @aliciaa7192
    @aliciaa7192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I'm talking with my friends my crush be playing basketball like usual 😂💀

  • @Kata_Rin
    @Kata_Rin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhh I’m so glad that this video literally came up when I needed it most. My crush is kind of my friend and I have known him for three months but recently he started ignoring me. I’m sooo in despair but number 2 reassured me a little bit.

  • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
    @aWERFRGT6545BGFG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The hi in hall:
    He would maybe say something like have a good day or have a good night...that or he would look at me confused or annoyed and walk away.
    I don't talk in group scenarios....but if im there, he will go quiet but its like as if he is forced to be nice or he just seems annoyed as hell
    We don't text
    For a while, he will be facing me and be near me..for the next while..after it gets awkward and weird he will be facing away and want nothing to do with me and when the bell goes he will run out of the room
    Somewhat..but he doesn't really ask questions ...its weird...sometimes he does keep up the conversation..sometimes he doesn't

    • @bakedorange5199
      @bakedorange5199 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dang he confusing as heck😂it could be he's just nervous, try giving him some hints/flirting...if that doesn't work and he seems completely disintrested then he probably doesn't like you like that. Anyway, have a good day/night🙂

  • @wendiwasden7088
    @wendiwasden7088 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    IF THERE ARE GUYS WATCHING! (KINDA DOUBT) THIS WORKS FOR SHY GIRLS TOO

  • @meowmeowmeowmeow2017
    @meowmeowmeowmeow2017 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video really cleared up a lot of stuff 😔😔😔

  • @edensophia2139
    @edensophia2139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hey Kimbery I Hv a quick question
    How do u say to a guy that ur not interested in the nicest way because our two families r very close so it would be awkward if I just shut him down xxx

  • @heatherstewart5134
    @heatherstewart5134 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so helpful because I like a boy who is kinda mean but when he is near me he turns bright red and doesn't talk! Thank you thank you!

  • @user-wh2tr7kw2d
    @user-wh2tr7kw2d 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you search "how to tell if a guy likes you" it never really helps, but this video i found especially helpful and relatable. thnx for all the advice and sighns :)

  • @ummhi8206
    @ummhi8206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg this is the video I needed😱

    • @dobrusiastaszewska7054
      @dobrusiastaszewska7054 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Park that Jimin yus park dat booty Jimin! Lol remember when Jake Paul said his gang is the strongest army out there 😂 Haha nice try, BTS is EVERYWHERE

    • @ummhi8206
      @ummhi8206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dobrusia Staszewska
      Omg😂😂 when I saw Jake Paul's name I thought you are going to say something serious. Turns out you are an army 😂😘😘😘 saranghae💗👊

  • @victorianino3189
    @victorianino3189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Guys, I still have feelings for my ex and he's a bit shy. I try to have small convo with him but he doesn't have the effort to make eye contact or try to be involve with the conversation whatsoever. There's this fall formal coming up in my school (Harvest) and "supposedly" he already found a date which he brags about to his friends to in the hall. The reason is that we both have classes in the same hall and I hang out with his friends, so he's bragging how 'HOT' she is and looking at me at the same time. I'm confused 🤕 Boys are difficult...

    • @QueenGreed
      @QueenGreed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Victoria //Tori I think he's trying to make you jealous...

    • @thinkingofaname6233
      @thinkingofaname6233 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tori .N boys are difficult? This is an attempt at jealousy plain and simple. It’s you girls who are impossible to understand always running away playing hard to get then getting bitchy if we don’t try to chase.

  • @artsyrenjuns4710
    @artsyrenjuns4710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HIGH FIVE TO THE PEOPLE ON THE THEY DONT LIKE YOU SIDE OF THE SIGNS!

  • @tifftiff2768
    @tifftiff2768 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My shy crush found out that I like him... these are the things that he started doing
    1) He started acting weird while texting like he was nervous to talk about his feelings
    2) He told one of his friends that he has mixed feelings about it and confused
    3) I got his phone number and started texting him and tried to avoid the conversation by saying things like “Wrong number” and ask me questions like “ How old are you” and he also said “ Send a pic”. It’s weird, he normally doesn’t talk to me like that...
    Any advice???

  • @frappedelimon4351
    @frappedelimon4351 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg i love the way your ayebrows move, and also your background!!!

  • @maryamtahouri8928
    @maryamtahouri8928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Omg my crush is a boy and I'm in primary and he likes me😱
    He walked across a hallway at school and he did not even say a word

  • @palesachimanyi7330
    @palesachimanyi7330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Kimberly. You helped me so much and now my crush and I are now dating.

  • @melodysang1419
    @melodysang1419 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Whenever my crush sees me he always turns around and takes the long way to wherever he goes.Like ones I was near the stairs talking to my friends and I saw him he was going to the library.(which was near the stairs but there is another door to go there)when he saw me he just turned around and walked away.And when I went to the library I saw him there after when he saw me again he went to a corner (where are CDs)And he was talking to his friends.He is pretty confident other girls but always like this to me.I can't approach him because my face becomes a tomato whenever I see him.so....yeah I really wanna know what's wrong with him does he hate me or something?

  • @nadycage2965
    @nadycage2965 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m super duper late and I’ve been looking for a video like this for weeks now! This is really insightful.

  • @__.angel1111.__
    @__.angel1111.__ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First Scenario-I have hope.✅
    Second Scenario-Yep.✅
    Third Scenario-Need to try.
    Fourth Scenario-✅
    Fifth Scenario-I don’t know but maybe cutting a conversation short can also be considered being shy.