"Looking For Love In The Wrong Places" | Love Stinks | Pastor Bobby Chandler
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Thank you Pastor Bobby for this. I have been single for 40 years and never in a relationship. It’s embarrassing especially in this world for me to say this bc I am looked as something is wrong with me or I am weird. People quote Genesis stating that God wants everyone to be married. I used to pray for a relationship and marriage, but it never happened. I am not sure if God has called me to a life of singleness like Paul, or if I am single, because I didn’t listen to God if He did bring someone in my life. My family sees me as a disappointment for never being in a relationship or giving them grandkids. I am so confused as to what I should be praying for. I just want to be content in whatever path God has for me. If you could pray that God would give me direction, guidance, and wisdom in this area of my life I would greatly appreciate it.
I will pray for you, continue praying to God, ask God’s will to be done in your life ♥️
@@guccidelfino7744 Thank you.
Praying for you🙏 I bind the spirit of disappointment over you in Jesus name and pray you know you are enough
@@nfoster962 thank you.
I will pray for you , just follow him and stay strong don’t worry about anything else ❤❤
Literally in tears😭Still struggling to forgive a man who has hurt me, humiliated me and walk out of me just for another girl... Praying and asking God to heal my heart.
My God strengthen you… you deserve better never forget that…he didn’t just leave God made him walk away,for you to make room for many blessings that God has for you. Just turn your eyes on Jesus , chase the kingdom of God and everything else will be added unto you.
I know how you feel, same here, be strong God will heal you and bless you with somebody special
If God removes someone from your life its because their purpose in you life is over and they cannot come where you are going. Its a blessing he is gone and when you forgive its for you not him.
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Disrupting the soul and causing premature affections before it’s time!
I think God's rejection is his protection over us at times
I felt like God just told me why I've had the worst relationships. It was me not waiting and being patient with him.
Being single is a blessing and I am so happy that no one can hurt me ever again I rather put my head on my pillow at night in peace then have continuous toxic people enter my life no more enough is enough I am content to be single for the rest of my life
I have been through all this in this world. But the lord showed me, in a very hurtful but right way, that I am nothing without him and that my identify will never be in men, it always will be in christ ♥️. Thank you my lord for everything you take and everything you give. Be blessed my brothers and sisters in Christ🙏
Amen Praise God 🙏🙌✝️
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” I always meditate this word what lord says
Found you on my insta and I can't explain how alive listening to you has made me feel thank you so much for opening my eyes to the things I didn't know before. God bless you ❤️
Thanking the Lord for Pastor Bobby Chandler! This is such a powerful sermon that just really reflected how my old self lived, but how God was and is always so graceful. God has equipped so many pastors with the gift of preaching His truth!!!!!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🔥🙏🏻
😭😭thank God for leading me to this sermon from ig.. spoke right to my heart. Just ended a r/s last week..
felt condemned and ashamed of how far I’ve fallen, being in this r/s..
Thank you for pastor for speaking the real hard truth 😭😭
God is working 😭😭
Finding a Christian guy or a girl is really like a mission impossible these day's but those who wait for the right one will get someone who will put God first in their relationship.
but still why it's so hard 😂
God bless you I will pray for you
Amen fr it's like looking for a needle in a haystack
Love should be like fireworks 🎇
Thank you Pastor, this message spoke to me on a whole other level. Thank you.
It's hard to release them burdens of my heart every single day
Everyone of his videos I’ve ever seen or listened to has been SO specific to my situation and what I’ve been praying to God about. I wish I lived closer so I could attend in person. Watching from Ontario, Canada
Thank you.
Thank you so much! My heart hurts and felt abandoned for a long long time. This changed the idea that I was never abandoned by Jesus. He is my lifter, my strength and my true love.
Agreed, 💯💯. I had a man tell me once that I am too broken. No, God loves me (Agape) I confessed it all !!❤❤
The more I listen, the more I feel I'm in the the right place. Great one!🎧 Thank you.
Today l was overwhelmed with the cares of this world and l believe God brought me to this video Pastor Bobby. Everything you have said from start to finish , including your life story at the end. I can relate 100% . I want to say THANK YOU , my life will not be the same from here on. God used you to change my life and other people’s lives. I will cast everything unto God. May God Bless you
Thank you, Pastor Bobby. You always reach me with your sermons.
Literally in tears
Wow this really opened my eyes and heart today … I love the way you preach god has truly blessed you 🙏 thank you for this video
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I lost the greatest person I ever had he was everything I prayed for but now he’s engaged to someone else he was a lot about god but I was not that smart enough I’ll always regret losing him in my life it’s very hard to find someone that goes god ways I’m so heartbroken it’s been so many months
Amazing ... pastor same way my brother also alcoholic and daily problems in my family... but God will give us to over come this problems
So true......marriage is no big deal in the world anymore. You're unhappy....run....divorce.....
Honestly if I don't have God, I wouldn't have hope at all that I can find somebody that loves God like I do, this divine appointment....but my hope is in Him, amen!
Amen
I’m truly blessed by this beautiful sermon I really liked the fact you preached each and every thing with the reference.I really needed this sermon.May our heavenly Father bless you immensely and multiply all your blessings.May His grace shine upon you and you continue to do His kingdom works.Amen Amen Amen
ASK FIRST ❤ So much pain otherwise Even when they believe but are unequally yoked
My heart is so full right now..may God continue to guide and protect you so that you continue transforming pple's lives with your insightful sermons..coz you changed mine👏 blessings
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 That was FIREEEE PASTOR BOBBY THANK YOU SO MUCH - I HEARD EVERY WURD AND AM SO BLESSED GOD SPOKE TO ME THRU YOU🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌😭😭😭😭😭 THAT IS A RIGHT ON TIME WURD !!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ♥️
He will. Amen. We have all been there. I was with my boyfriend watching the stars. But he made me do something at 18..I wouldn’t have done, didn’t want to but he FORCED me!!💯💯
Shoo! Such wisdom. Thank you.
This was so good. I’m grateful the Holy Spirit led me to this video… it spoke volumes and Lord, I hear you loud and crystal clear 😌👌🏾
Amen thank you Jesus for this pastor
I'm in a narcissist marriage that has been terrible to live with..God brought me through..I'm am currently still with him , he is dying of cancer ..my marriage has been , but he sick and I cannot leave him no matter how I feel..I feel peace . Even after I've been emotionally and mentally.. God is good all the time ...
Thank you Pastor Bobby.
Thank you Pastor Bobby. I didn’t know most of these truths. God bless you
This Word arrived just on time! All glory be to God and thank you to Pastor Bobby for allowing himself to be used. I am encouraged after listening to this message. More grace to each of you in our Lord Jesus Christ.
Watching from Indonesia. Been following Pastor Bobby on Instagram and now watching full sermon. This sermon bless me, right after I broke up with my bf last month. He dumped me, when everything seems so smooth and we were doing good in relationship. 4 hours before he asked for break up, we still talked on the phone and everything was normal. He left me abruptly and said that he can't do this anymore, he can't see any future with me when the morning he still said that he will Never give up on us. When pastor Bobby say "he lives in the basement with his parents" Oh my God I'm laughing 🤣🤣🤣 because, my ex boyfriend still live with his parents (toxic parents) under their control. I think God saved me...
This is so good! I ask before I even agree on the date. Not only do you know Jesus but does Jesus know you? Have you been baptized is the next question I'm Ruthless. Probably why I'm still single. I know the Lord has someone for me
Amen 🙌
Thanks for posting these ❤
Very powerful message, God bless you Bobby! ✝️
The harshest truth is always the most important
This message really spoke to me - Thank you ❤
True love has to be a choice.
This is needed so much in the now world. Thank you
The Lord forgave us and still want us by his side! I believe we can do the same thing as he did. 💕
So good!! Very real and honest!
Thank you
I broke up 4 months ago from my ex, he’s non believer. I got lost in my 5 year relationship, putting him as the center of my life and my joy. I forgot Jesus, until He revealed who my ex truly was and we were totally not compatible. And suddenly he broke up with me. I felt like all my world collapsed but God reminded me that He saved me from falling further and further away. Thank You Jesus.
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 thank God ur eyes opened snd God transformed u and opened ur heart and put the spirit in u
You and I share the same story. God rescued us, it may not be easy, it still hurts everyday but now I’m learning to open my eyes and heart more to God after putting my ex above all else. There’s always a reason why God disrupts our peace, in order for us to need Him everyday.
@@erikacriste4804 stay strong He will replace what we lost with someone better. The best is yet to come ❤️
@@yanachkazozu4640 Thank you ❤️
Going through this right now..
I really love your videos !! Thank you ! Very helpful !
Watching from South Korea
Yes and yes and yes
Another Great Service! Thank you Pastor 🙏🏽
Enlightening 🙏
Watching from Killeen Texas
Yeah, I wish I had listened. I live with my ex-husband who used to physically abuse me when we were married.
Amazing!!
Preach
Thank you so much pastor 🙏🙏 I'm blessed with this message ❤❤ everytime I learn new things from God❤
One of my many favorites. So relevant.
In the last 6 years or so....I never was "looking for love" it just happened
I had a relationship where I didn't didn't do what God told me. I got dragged down. I knew I was being told to. I was being abused I went through so many bad relationships. Now I don't want sex tell married. I always ask them are them an God
I have a question, does someone take a piece of your soul if you’ve been raped or molested? Some people unfortunately don’t always get the choice to give themselves to others. I am guessing that even when it’s not consensual you do still lose a part of yourself. And if that’s true it’s really sad to hear that somebody else’s trauma/pain gets somehow linked to you.
Awesome message!!!🔥🔥🔥
Pastor we need a sermon in christian dating boundaries.i met a guy recently in online dating site .he only initiating sexual talks ...90% only that .I liked him.but at some point I felt he is only for that. But he quote bible verses often more than me. I really got confused and ended it he said his only way of moving towards a relationship is physical intimacy...i couldn't take it like that .I want someone to connect emotionally with me...what are allowed in christian dating .... regarding physical intimacy and how one should proceed it .
Sounds like you dodged a bullet there he sounds like a narcissist who's gaslighting you and manipulating you to sleep with you by using Bible verses run and never look back these people are so toxic
Not my business, but I have heard that in most dating sites it is understood for s3x hookups only. You did the right thing in sticking to what is right.
Even the devil can quote scripture, altho he skews it like he did to Eve.
Hey i just wanna say don’t be intimidated by people knowing many bible verses Jesus says you will know my disciples by their fruit if what Jesus says isn’t what his doing “actions “ and if he wants u to compromise then i would definitely agree with to just leave the relationship
I have never been married but I have had a few girlfriends. It never worked out because none of them were women who put God first in their life. And i know that he is still working on me because I have allowed them to become a distraction from God. So if I stay single I understand that it is for my own good and so that me and Lords relationship will neber be compromised.
I want to say something about that
I personally don't have control over someone else's spiritual values and spiritual decisions.
The only person I have control over the spiritual decisions of is myself.
Many times some believers get married and one partner chooses to walk away from Jesus.
My argument is in a relationship, you can't expect someone to have the same spirituality as you and you can't expect them to stay the same way as they are and not change their spirituality if they choose to.
One thing I can say is they need to respect you and you need to expect that from them and be clear with them on that.
My girlfriend is a non believer but she respects me.
She knows I go to church on Sunday, she knows I read the Bible, she doesn't use bad language around me. We also made the decision to not have children as this can be difficult considering there are different values but we have worked out to stay together and respect each other and there is genuine care and love in the relationship.
I hate to seem pessimistic but this literally will happen everybody else but me. I know I sound ungrateful or negative but from experience every single time things that should have happened won’t happen for me almost as if it is a curse that I am afflicted with. I wish and I’m even open to it changing. The amount of hurt that I am holding onto is so overwhelming that I do not want to even think about it. It shocks me to think people are so coldhearted who will play games just to mess with you but I know that people only playgames with me. I wish I could believe you but Ive been let down every single time. It’s hard to believe when you’re constantly given negative reinforcement.
amazing!! 🙏
Is there any chance you could do a sermon on heaven and hell. I've been hearing a lot about Heaven having different levels, and I feel confused by the different viewpoints.
God Bless 🙏🏻
I am there's for the lord
Ouch, Amen.❤
I wish I would’ve listened to not being unequally yoked. I was atheist but grew up in the church. Jesus made Himself real to me and I dedicated my life to Him. A short time later my wife abandoned me on our 10 year anniversary and our daughter’s birthday month. I learned she had been having an affair also around the time I started serving God. She was always a narcissist but I always took our covenant marriage seriously even when I was atheist. Now my kids are having to go through this storm with me. She wanted nothing to do with God. In fact she even started practicing new age magic so she want all the way opposite. Now my heart is hurt and I’ve been depressed since July 1, 2023 and having to take my kids to therapy for their own hearts. It has been the hardest thing in my life and I was USMC infantry. At least in war you know who the enemies are. You don’t realize how hard it is when the person you loved is actively attacking you and trying to destroy you. God has been faithful and not allowed a single one of her lies or attacks succeed. I know God will make good out of this it’s just hard and sucks to go through.
It isn’t what you think. It was much worse and it took years to move past it.
The devil's out there's killing me as well and over and over , a again I break me b
A agree
Just like God slapped me in the face like i told you so but you still married that guy!!!! Now your broken😢😢😢
God doesn't guarantee happiness either. He said he would content.even if you Chase after him. We followed his his word to the tea you will have people was gone. There's a come against job guess your relationship try to destroy it. Will call trouble for you hes a facts. just hold on to God, And he will carry you through whatever the situation may be.
Annually ship will be stronger because of it.
I'm not a good Catholic & literally have lost my way
Hey let me pray for you:
Father i pray for @VinnyVii i pray that through ur grace u would draw them near to you again , i pray that u would open their eyes to see the truth and finally i pray for you to remind this person of ur love and holiness, amen 🙏🏾
Hey @VinnyVii i mean this in love don’t focus on doing right now focus on fellowship with God (spending time with Him and He will help you in everything)
Stay blessed 🙏🏾
Pastor what do you do if you already married outside your faith? Do you divorce them?
Hey Vonnie, please check out this link: www.gotquestions.org/married-unbeliever.html
Forgiveness doesn’t mean access
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What was the song they were playing at the end?
"Worthy" by Elevation Worship
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Please pray pastor Bobby for Shirley trying to get married blessing 🙌 🙏 god fering man
Attraction is a distraction
All our are sins are forgiven when you believe Jesus died on the cross with His shed blood on the cross, in His death burial and resurrection on the third day according to the scriptures ( 1 corinthians15 1-4)
Thankyou Jesus
We are saved by grace through faith in Christ alone, not of ourselves it’s a gift from God, not of works least any man boast ( Ephesians 2:8-9)
Put your belief, faith and trust In Jesus alone
Jesus imputes His righteousness on us when we believe He is our Lord and Saviour and His finished work on the cross
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Who are you speaking to? Aside from the preaching on Facebook, are there people who
are listening them? I can’t hear!!
Yes he is the lead pastor of Authentic Church. They have the cameras set to block out the sound from the members but he is preaching to a full church
Motivational speaker :(
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Much needed word 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for watching!
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