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  • @georginasawyer6524
    @georginasawyer6524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    that is just bloody heartbreaking ....17 year old kids living next to an industrial waste area and then bringing a baby into the mix...her parents must be crying their eyes out

    • @emilybarclay8831
      @emilybarclay8831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She left him and married a non-gypsy and lives in a house now according to social media

    • @kevinranawake6558
      @kevinranawake6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilybarclay8831 Really? Where did you find out

    • @emilybarclay8831
      @emilybarclay8831 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kevinranawake6558 Google

    • @kevinranawake6558
      @kevinranawake6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilybarclay8831 oh ok

  • @Natalielh87
    @Natalielh87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1973

    Update - Sam and Pat no longer together, Sam re-married and has 3 sons now and lives with her new non-gypsy husband and children in a house now!

    • @nykan2880
      @nykan2880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Wow, how do you know this?

    • @BellyBurly87
      @BellyBurly87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      She also had a baby girl she sadly lost

    • @wackynicolecsu
      @wackynicolecsu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Was she able to have custody of the son?

    • @heatherjane4760
      @heatherjane4760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      Where does everyone get there information

    • @iamlekat
      @iamlekat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@heatherjane4760 Social media

  • @mlledj22
    @mlledj22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    She looked miserable. Like 180 change from her wedding day. I think the idea of living in a trailer with no restroom was hyped up and reality was nothing like she thought.

    • @radnbeautyg5856
      @radnbeautyg5856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Exactly! At 17 though you just dive right in and don’t realize the outcome until after.

    • @andiebear1515
      @andiebear1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ummm where the hell do they do their duties then? outside?

    • @Maybe.Its_You
      @Maybe.Its_You 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳 I didn’t know that they don’t hVe restrooms in their homes

    • @BeccasaurousRex270
      @BeccasaurousRex270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Maybe.Its_You they’re in small campers, not RV’s. I’m guessing there’s like a public outdoor bathroom (like there would be at a park).

    • @maggiemae7539
      @maggiemae7539 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Maybe.Its_Youthey will not live in a trailer where they use bathroom.

  • @enormouseyebrows4621
    @enormouseyebrows4621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Every time I hear the word Gorger I think of a medieval king wolfing down a slab of meat at a banquet.

  • @dude69467
    @dude69467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I notice that when they follow these kids after their weddings, the lot of them seem really miserable

    • @asassynation9955
      @asassynation9955 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Proof that kids really should not be getting married.
      Many cultures enforce child brides though, unfortunately - and to much, much, much, much older Men.

    • @naylimsanchez3864
      @naylimsanchez3864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Usually what happens when you marry young and don't really have time to explore and find out what you really want. I feel especially bad for the kids that wait to have their first kiss at the altar, 'cause it's going downhill after the wedding night.

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      obviously. theyre teenagers running on hormones and, for most of them, a sense of having no other options because you cant test the waters before diving in

  • @verajacksonx
    @verajacksonx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    It’s rlly nice to see the other side of the marriage and what happens next

  • @MWOODYARD
    @MWOODYARD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    It’s kinda sad that they lasted less than 3 years before getting divorced, but I’m glad she’s happy now.

    • @GuessMyName234
      @GuessMyName234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you know?

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well what do people expect from teenagers getting married

  • @Narque
    @Narque 2 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    imagine being that bored you get ur folded clothes out just to fold and put them away again... jeez these girls might aswell be in prison

    • @LM-hv9xm
      @LM-hv9xm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Every new mommy does that. Nothing to do with being bored. It’s called nesting.

    • @Pheluv
      @Pheluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nah I went through my babies clothing ect many times when I was pregnant over and over agin because I was so excited.
      The shopping when bored was the red flag for me.

    • @rmqc2553
      @rmqc2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LM-hv9xm nesting? I never hear about it before

    • @KS-zc4jn
      @KS-zc4jn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LM-hv9xm Well, maybe many do, but I never did. I have had 7 pregnancies and don't recall ever doing that. In fact nesting wasn't really something that I experienced hardly at all.

    • @jeanpresley1220
      @jeanpresley1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      many young wifes are happy and just need time to figure out what they want to do .my daughter wants to live juts like that . stay home take care of the man ,kids and home

  • @melissaprather1863
    @melissaprather1863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I married my second time when I was 19 and God bless me with 38 of the best years of my life. Unfortunately my life ended October 8th 2021 when my husband died. Sometimes young love works out 1st marriage didn't cuz I just married to get away from home it wasn't a real marriage but my second one was the greatest time of my whole life

    • @Rosepaku
      @Rosepaku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      God rest his soul and may god look after you as well amen 🙏

    • @kimgodwin8672
      @kimgodwin8672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry for your loss 😔 sending you prayers 🙏 ❤

    • @Heather-xm9ul
      @Heather-xm9ul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm so sorry. I'm glad you found your perfect match! It sucks that our lives don't end together. I married at 19, and we're at 11 years now.

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s always with you.. 🕊 🙏🏼
      💔❤️‍🩹

    • @everettemartin1399
      @everettemartin1399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My deepest condolences on your loss. I lost my late fiance and June 27th 2019, the pain never gets easier, we were together 9 years, grief has no time limits you have to take it day by day some people say oh we just get over it how can you forget the love of your life, obviously somebody who's never lost a loved one that affected them so deeply. I also lost my mother in 2004 and even though it's been a long time I still and numb and devastated because she is not here with me I am not homeless in New York City and I have no family to visit me my sister passed and 2020 and the woman that wanted me to become a roommate after my late fiance passed through both of us so she felt sorry for me and wanted me as a roommate she passed in 2020 as well so I've been plagued with death for 3 years now and it doesn't get any easier. But have faith Melissa be strong be positive. God bless 🙏🙏♥️♥️🤗🤗

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    That's what happens when ya get married young. The days are gone when teenagers who get married last forever, it very few who do. I say this as someone who married when she was 18. He was a controlling, abusive asshole and I was a timid people pleaser back then who didn't stand up for herself. I left 3 months after we married, I remarried my current husband when I was 30 and we will be married 17 years next month and we will be till the chuck dirt in our faces.

    • @5050TM
      @5050TM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Congrats on getting rid of the dead weight and finding a healthy marriage!

    • @constantine9142
      @constantine9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been with the same man since I was 17 and we are going past 13 years. It helps if you both have brains and you know good vs assholes. Like this guy was filled with red flags. What dad refuses to push the pram? Or wants their kid to grow up in that camper where they can't run or play and breathing in god knows what near that garbage plus no kids around and not even a pet dog for the kid for company smh. My man would never be this much as a piece of shit and he was young too at 21. So age ain't always an excuse to be a piece of shit. Some are just pieces of shits and people are just so messed up today they don't care to see the difference or can't tell cause they have no brains or morals

    • @JaneAustenAteMyCat
      @JaneAustenAteMyCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good for you for leaving after three months. Took me nearly ten years smh

    • @constantine9142
      @constantine9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JaneAustenAteMyCat hey better late than never!

    • @aprilbarber5427
      @aprilbarber5427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was married right out of high school, he was 18, I was 19. We are still married 22 years later.

  • @bonnienero9415
    @bonnienero9415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Well, when I then married the love of my life, all we could afford was a converted school bus. The bus was on Indian reservation land. We at first had no hot water. I was boiling water for dishes and baths. It was a mansion to me; I loved my husband so much I did not care where we were.

  • @iThiink
    @iThiink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What she said is the equivalent to interfacial relationships and one parent being shocked that their kid is half (black/white/Asian ext..)

  • @ashleighgibson3239
    @ashleighgibson3239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Every single gypsy that gets married is a CHILD, how are they supposed to deal with adult life and responsibilities when their mothers ship them off with controlling, possessive men when they are 15/16?! Absolutely baffling

    • @michaela723
      @michaela723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They live in a different world then we do .... my Best friend is a really Gypsy.... from the Romano clan they have still a king .... and elders . . They never go outside there traditional values.. they are one big tight night family clan... where the oldest women has the say so .... and if. There is a dispute they take it to the elders.....

    • @OfficiallyKateandFree
      @OfficiallyKateandFree 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why are Americans allowing their 12/13/14 year old kids to run around and do whatever they want with no/very little repercussions?

  • @purpledragondc7532
    @purpledragondc7532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    What a beautiful baby boy 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 Congratulations 🎈

  • @PerpetualJoy
    @PerpetualJoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    At least these two still look like they like each other. She mainly just seems upset about trailer life not married life. Some of these people they show look truly unhappy

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว

      they split after three years

  • @jamikadale1409
    @jamikadale1409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There was literally a cream leather 1 on the wall behind them 😆

    • @sloanjiko4797
      @sloanjiko4797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry but what is that?

    • @proverbs31woman51
      @proverbs31woman51 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sloanjiko4797 a pram which is a stroller.

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    First he was a tree surgeon now he’s a scrap dealer.

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Emmajungas are fabulous! I had one for my babies. Loved it!

  • @sandymclean9630
    @sandymclean9630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He seems very different
    Than to when they were going out 😑

  • @Pheluv
    @Pheluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The Gorgers’ will see Baby as a Gypsy.
    The Gypsys’ will see Baby as a Gorger.

  • @hollyinhell
    @hollyinhell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is there only one model of trailer that the travelers buy? They all seem to have the same plastic covered layout.

    • @Tito-tn4ds
      @Tito-tn4ds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A few ppl , including non travellers, cover sofas with plastic to keep it clean

    • @ST-yc7uj
      @ST-yc7uj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tito-tn4ds disgusting and sticky , ESP in the summer. Sheets or thin cloth covers are Better

  • @paulakaya1754
    @paulakaya1754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Coffin on wheels 😂😂😂👌🏼

  • @patigiddens1314
    @patigiddens1314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not surprised they’re so young.

  • @titzalinabumscrew2511
    @titzalinabumscrew2511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The fact they’re now divorced and she’s remarried , proves travellers point further as to how country people cannot live a traveller life .

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great now explain why other Gypsy’s or Travelers ended up in divorce from this show?

    • @BeccasaurousRex270
      @BeccasaurousRex270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s not a flex.

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว

      it sounds like a shit life anyway.....? they lived in a dump, she was lonely and stuck at home, and even when their son was born she was worried that the community wouldnt accept him. doesnt sound like the travellers did much to make it bearable for her?

  • @C87-q9j
    @C87-q9j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Please do George next, he's an interesting character

    • @katryna192
      @katryna192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saw on another video he was not nice to her, was handy with his hands, do not know how true this is

    • @SACHKIGAL
      @SACHKIGAL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just didn't like him. He seemed like a jerk. Cheers to his wife waking up and divorcing his azz. He makes u wanna smack him!

    • @C87-q9j
      @C87-q9j 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SACHKIGAL I agree he's an arsehole, but I'd like to watch the episode again

    • @user-ct8jz2hp5v
      @user-ct8jz2hp5v 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@katryna192never seen George with his wife until after they'd already split up did see him with his children though . He seems bossy to the woman he had cleaning his van for him if a guy told me to do anything my answer would be no do it yourself 😂

  • @pop.of-color
    @pop.of-color 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sam finally came to her senses

  • @fupalicious843
    @fupalicious843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s so ridiculous how much people spend unnecessarily amount of money for a baby.

  • @user-ie3kg6zz8w
    @user-ie3kg6zz8w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Congratulations 🎉💌❤️👑
    Thanks for Sharing 👑❤️❤️❤️

    • @AHunt2024
      @AHunt2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they're not together anymore. this is old

  • @lesliebrooks2817
    @lesliebrooks2817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm definitely sorry to hear that they are no longer together at the same time I'm not really surprised either, I enjoy watching stuff about gypsies but I find it ironic that gypsies hate people being prejudice to them and absolutely loaded and we'll get into arguments which I can't say as I blame them I'd be mad too yet have no problems using racist terms to other people the culture has absolutely interesting and definitely enjoyed the show. That if I had one major critique is what's good for the goose is good for the gander if you don't like people being prejudice to you that I bet it would be a great idea to not be prejudiced to others.

  • @audreyclement5634
    @audreyclement5634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don’t understand the trailer part. You can definitely travel but rent apartments along the way!

    • @livstar93
      @livstar93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s a cultural thing. I’m they don’t literally ‘travel’ in the traditional sense so much from what I understand.

  • @Kasekee
    @Kasekee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I wonder did any couple featured on the show last?

  • @Jacky-1985
    @Jacky-1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Haha He has a Albanian T-Shirt Symbolik 🇦🇱 😋👌

    • @criticalmass6249
      @criticalmass6249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, that’s cool, but the double headed eagle is an old symbol that’s been used by many different countries

    • @albaniakosove9188
      @albaniakosove9188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@criticalmass6249 no its an albanian symbol

    • @Jacky-1985
      @Jacky-1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe in a coat of arms✌️

  • @iwatchtoomuchtruecrime
    @iwatchtoomuchtruecrime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    What a depressing life

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well I feel depressed watching this. Does indeed sound awful

  • @woofwoof9796
    @woofwoof9796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The albanians have questions about his shirt lol

  • @brookebixler1040
    @brookebixler1040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where do the kids sleep in these little trailers??

  • @fxdezx6613
    @fxdezx6613 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That caravan is neat.lol i would be very uncomfortable in one of those with a kid. But it the gypsy way of life they are used to it.

  • @susanjoynes2744
    @susanjoynes2744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where do they shower and go to the bathroom?

  • @bethwondrely4371
    @bethwondrely4371 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm with Pat about the coffin stroller

  • @solidstate9451
    @solidstate9451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Why is there plastic over the seats? That looks so uncomfortable!

    • @brookebixler1040
      @brookebixler1040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was wondering that too

    • @TheRubiibabii
      @TheRubiibabii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      To keep things looking nee and clean and stop them from getting damaged

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙂 Not seen that since the 70s. You buy a nice lounge cover or suite, then to stop people getting it dirty, you cover it in plastic. Most uncomfortable but at least you can wipe it down. Lots of Irish people that I know did this, and women of a certain age

    • @solidstate9451
      @solidstate9451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheRubiibabii There are fabric slipcovers. I use them on my sofas. You can wash them. Much more comfortable.

    • @proverbs31woman51
      @proverbs31woman51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@solidstate9451 yeah but not as effective against spills of drinks or food.

  • @Spanglefangle
    @Spanglefangle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She sounds like Denise from from Royle Family

  • @jessicayoung6882
    @jessicayoung6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    girl you wont be saying ur lonely once u have that baby lol

  • @natka559
    @natka559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Para mí, mi mamá se casó cuando tenía 12 años, al igual que todas las de mi hermana. La gente se cree joven no va a Guatemala

  • @SACHKIGAL
    @SACHKIGAL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been looking for an update on all them.

    • @MistressKarma6969
      @MistressKarma6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They split up and she is now married to someone else and had 3 more children

  • @kidsgrove-spider8405
    @kidsgrove-spider8405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was my town Prescot in liverpool were they registration the baby

  • @orionash7067
    @orionash7067 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a sweet sweet baby

  • @bethwondrely4371
    @bethwondrely4371 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanna know how Violet and Larry are.

  • @user-ec2jq4sn9v
    @user-ec2jq4sn9v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    His shirt omgggg im dead

    • @Jacky-1985
      @Jacky-1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🇦🇱

    • @annag9376
      @annag9376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is he albanian??

  • @Carene1610
    @Carene1610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    God.. if they had a brain cell together, it would be alone!!!!!!!

    • @sighsigh7628
      @sighsigh7628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me spit my coffee

  • @lesliebarger897
    @lesliebarger897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m not a Gypsy and I live in a trailer or caravan as you guys call it and no I’m not married to a gypsy

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🙂 I would be very happy living in a caravan now. But *not* with a spotty gypsy husband and baby at 17.

    • @lesliebarger897
      @lesliebarger897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just because you live in a trailer doesn’t mean your trailer trash I feel like that when people look at me strange

  • @kelly_Dee.
    @kelly_Dee. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do they have to live in RV/trailers? They can’t purchase a home? Gypsies I mean

    • @Tito-tn4ds
      @Tito-tn4ds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sure it’s just culture to live in RVs/trailers but there are a lot of travellers who do live in houses

    • @DeniseF
      @DeniseF 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's because they travel around. Don't stay in a place too long. Which is why caravans are preferred. Gypsies can also be called travellers

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว

      i honestly think some of them are kidding themselves that theyll be travelling, but in reality they just end up staying in place in the same dump for 30 years....

  • @xydoit2024
    @xydoit2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Year after Sam in 18 look 30

  • @lesleysmith5817
    @lesleysmith5817 ปีที่แล้ว

    The big silver prams last forever

  • @lxsapphirexl
    @lxsapphirexl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so immature, kids bringing kids into the world.

    • @proverbs31woman51
      @proverbs31woman51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's how it used to be done not too long ago. It all depends on your maturity level. I brought my daughter into the world at 19.

  • @classicalroach
    @classicalroach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Poor child.

  • @kirschrot77
    @kirschrot77 ปีที่แล้ว

    These so called husbands dont offer anything to their wives, just depressing

  • @basmiyaparvin7914
    @basmiyaparvin7914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What they do for living?

    • @proverbs31woman51
      @proverbs31woman51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Odd and end jobs. Mechanic, junk scrapper, etc

  • @calipdis2
    @calipdis2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The travellers way seems to be the tacky way.

    • @crystalheart9
      @crystalheart9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree and I'll probably get in trouble for saying this but those weddings look totally tacky to me.

  • @adamson786bi3
    @adamson786bi3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    gypsys are gorgeous. Most I've seen on these shows are healthy looking. Fresh air really does wonders.

    • @LaDeeDah
      @LaDeeDah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They look like the hills have eyes

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gorger, what's that?

  • @aidanro6899
    @aidanro6899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Albanian

  • @llc1976
    @llc1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not a really safe site to live near.

  • @Mary-gr3mr
    @Mary-gr3mr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want to be a gypsy . It's not for everyone but I really admire the lifestyle and life choice a lot.

    • @acgraphics1139
      @acgraphics1139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U like breaking the law going on private property and throwing rocks at cops

    • @proverbs31woman51
      @proverbs31woman51 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@acgraphics1139 Not all of them do that. You do realize that yeah? I'd hope so.

    • @Farts-nm2kj
      @Farts-nm2kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ACGraphics having to park on private property is a seperate issue don't you think? There should be more places for travellers (and the homeless) to park and rest/temporarily reside.

    • @Farts-nm2kj
      @Farts-nm2kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was replying to ACGraphics

    • @marycanary86
      @marycanary86 ปีที่แล้ว

      you wanna get married when youre still just a big kid, be stuck at home all day, bored, with only very little academic education and nothing but trailer trash to talk to? ok.....

  • @joematus410
    @joematus410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautful women of love