3 weeks postpartum | finding a routine + juggling life/mum-life
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How old are you? 28
How tall are you? 164cm
What nationality are you? Maori/European
What Country are you in? New Zealand
Hi Lovlies,
My name is Judea and I am a 28 yr old Mama of 3 - one angel, my toddler Son and another little girl on the way - living in New Zealand. This channel is a space for me to show the realities of my life after losing our daughter to SIDS. The highs, the lows and everything in between, you get a mixed bag of “content” here but always from a place of honesty.
Thank you so much for your support!
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I’m not even a mum and I love watching this channel. You seem so authentic and genuine and your videos are beautifully made. You come across as a combination of strength and vulnerability and someone who creates comfort and beauty and I never get sick of watching.
Oh my goodness this is such a nice comment! I love that this is what you see when you watch 🥹 I hope I can live up to that
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At least she’s being honest bless her ❤She’s not like some of these dreadful ‘influencer’ types that pretend they’ve had a baby and everything is all perfect and wonderful and having a baby is a breeze and all shiny and smiles 🙄give me a break !! We all know how tough it can be and this young mum is coping as we all do .. the best we know how ! She deserves all the love and support we can give her and all her little ones ❤
Judea baby wraps or ring slings will be your best friend , having baby in a carrier is the life savor when having multiple babies ! They are the best for groceries shopping or cooking while baby wants to be held !
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I was just going to comment the same thing! Baby wearing was so helpful for soothing the baby and having hands available !
I just don’t know how you do it all. You are truly phenomenal.
The greatest motivation, my little people 💕💕
I know you might not feel it but my goodness you are so so naturally gorgeous, like effortlessly beautiful… I want to give you the biggest virtual hug because I can feel your emotions and vibes through the screen xx
You are such a super woman. I don’t have children, but I have watched since your first videos about Noah Lee, so many years ago. Never really commented, but I watch your journey and resonate with you. I appreciate you, and your dedication to this life keeps me going through my grief this year ❤
I'm sorry you're struggling so much on top of being sleep deprived. So glad you were able to get a run in to help burn off pinned up emotions (that was always my favorite past time when I used to run). Praying Ever starts sleeping longer for you and that you are also able to find peace of mind so you can rest when she does. Loved your vlog❤❤❤
I believe Brogen is doing his fair share. I don't think he would ever leave her in the dust to do everything herself. I believe he's helping out as much as he's able.
I also feel that she's comfortable enough to ask him for nighttime help if she needed it. And I truly believe he would be there to help her if she asked.
I think they are working as a team to parent their children. But I think he stays out of the videos as much as possible by choice.
I do miss them being together tho.
However...that's their business.
I can't help but hope they somehow work things out between them.
They are so cute together.
And they are a beautiful family.
Your are doing the best you can , give yourself grace and remember to be kind to yourself not just to everyone else , your navigating this new life and pivoting with every situation and your handling it all so well, tears don’t mean it was failure day , it means you were stronger those days to keep pushing❤ in case no one has cheered you up, you got this, your emotional strength during this time will be something you look back on “like I did handle that the very best I could” 💐
The struggle is real. One hour at a time, one day at a time girl. You are doing so well even though it doesn't feel like it. Sending love
Oh Judea, I hope you can get some sleep soon. Motherhood is so hard, but so rewarding. Hang in there!
Really love and appreciate the longer video. You're a beautiful mum
Postpartum is so difficult. I laugh about it now, but each day I would tell myself 'if I can just make it to the next nap or the next meal, I'm ok'. Then i said 'if I can make it to the next day, I'm ok'. The stretches get longer and you'll start feeling well again. My youngest didn't nap well and it's mentally taxing. Give yourself grace 🩷💙🩷
As I approach my second postpartum (due next month)… this is a great way to think… ❤
Postpartum is always hard even if the baby sleeps well or not , you’re doing great ,as a mom of a 22 month old girl and a one month old baby boy it’s hard to get the hang of things but everything takes time 🫶🏻you’ll get your sleep again 😇
You are a beautiful soul, inside and out. You have to give yourself some grace. You have been through such a big range of emotions over the years. I pray you will have peace in your heart and everything works out the way you hope for. You are so deserving of joy and happiness! xoxo
You are such an amazing mum! I can only imagine what your going through with everything, but I think you are doing amazing for your babies and I hope your struggles ease soon. Wishing yous all the best all the time.
Also love these vlog style videos.
Sometimes, the female body is for the birds! Especially when you are feeling like you are ok to do normal activities, but your body says "nope." Echo's talking and playing around brings me so much joy. Ever is a sweet little grizzly bear. ❤❤
I'm so happy you have your sister close and she is willing to help ❤ such a blessing!
Postpartum is hard, hormones, lack of sleep, and taking care of a toddler is exhausting. I never co sleep with my babies. I was terrified so I personally prefer not to sleep. Hang in there, you are doing great
Ever is lovely and I'm so thankful that she chose you for her mummy (& daddy) when you needed her the most.
Ever might have reflux and keeping her he'd more elevated during feeds does help that. Not sitting up but a bit raised. There are tummy drops for that too but prescription. Never lose sight of your bliss...
You're almost at 100K! That's amazing❤
Very nice to watch that kind of vlog, thank you! ❤ as a mom of three little children, I love seeing another mom in her normal routine. Keep it up you are wonderful!
my heart hurts to see you with cried out eyes ❤️🩹 I hope you feel better soon, rooting for you!
I actually really liked this type of vlog. Plus it allows you to film as much of as less as you like throughout each day.
Love your vlogs! I look forward to them. You are an amazing mother. And your babies are all so precious! Echo has his own little personality, they are so much fun at that age!
I’m loving this age! He is so much fun!!
I enjoyed watching this weekly vlog format. I imagine it’s hard to film for a few solid hours when you’ve got a newborn and a toddler and I liked the little snippets of every day of the week.
The idea of co sleeping to me was always a scary one and one that I chose not to do although I know many mums who have and who enjoyed it. It makes complete sense why you would have reservations after losing Noah-Lee and it’s honestly not something you have to explain.
I find my little boy grounds me and brings peace and purpose to my life. It shines through how much your children mean to you.
You poor girl.. you look so exhausted… beautiful as always but so tired. I hope you’re able to have some more little breaks and get some sleep. I’m sorry you’re having issues with someone… you sure don’t need that right now. Hang in there, Judea. You are such a wonderful and lovely person and mom! Sending you lots of love! 💗
Click and collect with babies!! For the supermarket. Just have to grab all the bags, will be a lot less stressful ❤
This! I need to do this!!
Keep it up mumma we are cheering you on and your tribe💖
You are such an amazing mom ❤ hope you get more rest soon!
Thanks Judea!! I really enjoyed the vlog a lot !!!!! I hope u will do more of those..🤗 I can see you are going to a lot of struggles currently..but as you said..your children are your joy🥰 and they give you the strength to keep going..hugs and blessings from Austria 🇦🇹
You are a fantastic Mommy!!! You are doing amazing gal
I loved the weekly vlog. I get so excited watching your videos. You are truly such an inspirational
Person and should be soo proud of yourself x
Judea, you and Brogan have the most beautiful babies...truly 3 of the most lovely little babydolls ❤ Also I could listen to you speak all day, love NZ accents! Love from North Carolina USA
Love it. Echo and Ever are doing so well :) Ever's grizzly period reminds me a bit of my daughters reflux but I think you can see how you go and if the unsettled period continues before trying to change diet etc. You are doing amazing! ❤❤
Such a good vlog, enjoyed it immensely! Love that you explain what and why certain things are happening. One day at a time sweet mum…🙏🏼🥰
We love you and your babies are gorgeous, and so are you! ❤️
You are an amazing wonderful mum I’ve just come across your channel. Thankyou for sharing your postpartum journey and being real about it 🥰🥰
Judea you are an amazing mum and beautiful person! Wishing you peace and happiness you so deserve. This season shall pass soon and will get easier praying for you and you beautiful family Gods Blessings❤
If the 2 scenario's are not thw issue, xould be lactose intolerance for Ever. My girl had it and i was rold colic and all that but after 8 weeks i changed her milk and i was right. Same happens for breastfeeding mummas, you can cut down dairy and see how you go ❤
I loved this video. Please keep doing them. Im such an autumnal girl 🙈
I loved this weekly blog! 🤍 your videos are always so authentic and somewhat calming at the same time❣️
You look so tired. I wish I could come help you! Such a hard stage ❤
Thank you judea ❤️I understand 🫂
Hi Judea. Colic calm is one of the best natural product + Bonisan. It works instantly. Also, she might have an a tolerance for diary, so go carefully with that. Blessings from South Africa ❤
Week 3 was a super fussy week for both my kids, hang in there ❤️
The only videos I watch on TH-cam ❤😍 mamahood is beautiful on you. You’re doing amazing!
Also love your black pyjamas 😍. Can I ask where they’re from? X
Hugs to you mama you're doing an excellent job❤
Your a great mum ❤
Hey love. Hang in there. Be kind to yourself. You are doing a great job. ❤
Ima happily married mama of 5. Love your channel. And I just have to say you are unbelievably beautiful!
Your home is so beautiful and colourful! You'll be out and about when the warmer weather comes before you know it xxxx
I love you and your little family!!
So cute, she is adorable! I'm sure you're tired of recommendations but i wanted to say maybe pump some out first before you feed even if it's just the haka she might be more comfortable tummy troubles are no fun. The only way i could get anything done was putting my son in a carrier, for store or anything around the house. Thinking of you Beautiful!
@brookemilligan352 this! Even just hand expressing the let-down then attaching her to the boob will be helpful. Poor bub probably got a bit of reflux happening from too much let down all at once.
I like your video over a week, to have little bits of several days! 💞
You’re doing amazing. Hang in there xx
You are doing amazing ❤
So happy for you...
Go team mum ❤🎉❤ sending love from the otherside of the world from Macedonia
Sending you lots of love ❤
I love your babies' names: Noah, Echo, and Ever ❤
Love watching your vlogs, Judea 😊 and I'm glad you have support, aside from Brogan. I have three kids and no real support aside from my husband, and it's hard at times.
Have you tried a heating pad (on low) or a baby hot water bottle with warm water put between you and baby while you are holding her or when she is having tummy time. That might help her tummy. Sounds like she has tummy problems and that helped my new born. I was also told by a pedritiation to rub the tummy counter clockwise which is supposed to help with tummy pains and gas. Good Luck. Babies and Postpartum are not easy!💖🙏💖🙏💖
If the dairy bothers you, the dairy in your diet might be bothering Ever? Have you tried removing dairy from your diet to see if Ever’s symptoms improve? Just a thought
Cows milk protein allergy is more common if there’s a family history
Good thought. My son was similar and cutting dairy helped him so so much. It did take about 4-5 weeks of strictly no dairy to see improvements but it was worth it. He still can’t have dairy now and he’s almost 2. Really upsets his tummy and flares his eczema
@@i7iw991and now I can’t have dairy lol! He’s recently stopped breastfeeding but I’ve developed my own dairy intolerance having been dairy free for him for so long
Where did you get her name from? It’s beautiful ❤
I have to take vitamins and probotics at night before bed, or they make me nauseous. You are correct. Taking them is better than not!
Echo when about to eat his marshmallow 😍☺️ 👏🏼
Happy food dance 🥰
@@Itsjudeaaa love it 🥰
Much love, you are a great mum
Yayy! New Vlog✨✨
Thanks for sharing . I hope you get better sleep soon mama ❤.
I hope your ok hunny 🤍 I’ve had three bubs and my first bub had colic certain foods and drinks I ate triggered him. One day at a time your doing an amazing job
You’ve mentioned that you and Brogan are on good terms - but your videos make it seem like it’s solely you taking care of your children. I hope you are getting help from him
Very much so. I will be the one to step on toes and say that he definitely needs to pitch in more. She mentioned he comes in the mornings and afternoons, but it's very obvious she needs someone there at night. Regardless of what happened, he's a parent too and it seems she's consistently getting the short end of the stick.
How do you women get all these scenarios from edited videos? @@carolinepearson9770
@@carolinepearson9770also when you do think he's supposed to work , have you stopped tp think of he comes morning and afternoon he may work nights?
@@robincameron1126 If that's the case- he sleeps ALL day long? My husband works nights and he still makes sure he's up some to help out. Judea is missing a ton of sleep, but he's not expected to? Yeah cause that's fair to her.
@@robincameron1126um, we get "all these scenarios" from HER words?
You are amazing!
Don’t be sad Judea, I asked my husband and he’s willing to marry you
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Wtf
Sounds like a real catch! I’m flattered, but by the tone of your comment it sounds like you’re the perfect match 👍🏽 You better keep that one
@@Itsjudeaaa i hope you understand it was a joke, love. Not to mock you, only to brighten up your day :)
I've not seen those silk cot liners and unsure how they are to be used. It feels triggering for me as a cot death mother. I know a cot should be clutter free and no loose bedding or items within the cot. Apologies. Our baby died. I don't know whether the loose muslin I had draped over the end of the crib to save our baby's head from sticking to the top of the mattress contributed to his death but I've always feared it did. I had oiled his head for cradle cap, hence the reason for the muslin. When baby was found it was bunched against or near his face. In the panic we don't know.. Many decades later and the memory is still raw. The guilt never leaves. I think you are doing so well, Judea. It's the toughest of journeys to navigate. Sending love. ps Later edit and happy you didn't use the silk liner just yet.
I just wanted to reach through the screen and hug you lovely ❤❤❤ baby tummy upset could be dairy if its affecting your skin it may be affecting her tummy x biggest hugs
I was thinking similar if mum is sensitive sometimes baby is too. Was the issue with my son, he’s actually more intolerant to it than I am xx
Babies usually get fuzzy after 2 weeks and get better after 2 months. I experienced that with both of my kids. They get very gassy
I would use the hakka or pump my first bit to ease up the flow for baby maybe that will help!
You're doing amazing and you got this 🎉❤
Yor are so lovely, Judea ❤❤❤
Post partum is so hard. Your mind thinks you can do something...but your body is like NOPE, still not ready. 😢
Childbirth and postpartum are not for the weak! (like men!).
Wonderful vlog. You are doing great. ✨🙏🌻💕✨
Perhaps she has reflux from a dairy intolerance? Same thing happened to my daughter and once I cut dairy from my diet she was like a new baby. Good luck mama you are doing great ❤️
I remember that you did babywearing with Echo. Maybe putting baby girl in a carrier would make things a lot easier around the house.. gives you two free hands haha 🤗 but maybe you're doing that already... since TH-cam videos only show so much 🙏
I'm 3 weeks and 3 days out from giving birth and I was worried I'm bleeding too long this time, with my other daughter I only bled like 2 weeks and now I'm still bleeding really bad😩 especially when I'm active, at night it almost stops and I get my hope up but soon as I'm up moving around,it returns😮💨 going for a early 4 week check this Friday so maybe they can ease my mind and let me know it's normal
Try the chery shaped pacifier
You are doing really well Mumma ❤❤❤❤
So beautiful
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Suckling - whether comfort or feeding is how they boost your supply to help it regulate. So I'd probably let her comfort suck. Lay down with her side by side and feed while you have a nap. She will start sleeping better if she can suck whenever she needs it. This is why they say not to introduce a dummy before 6 weeks old while your supply is still being established as it takes a full 6 weeks to get it to regulate. ❤
This! It’s such a common experience. If it gets worse, get her checked for ties by someone who is trained to do so otherwise it’s probably just her going through a very common baby feeding stage.
My daughter was the same as a baby hated the supermarket
How did you come up with your children’s names? They are all so unique!
Video topic? 🤔
@@Itsjudeaaa yess
@@Itsjudeaaa that sounds fun
Hi judea, hope you are feeling more rested. The newborn days are so wonderful and so tiring at tye same time. Have you tried putting Ever in the baby carrier whilst shopping, i found that helped with my little one. X
omg you used something over the ramp that says "edwards, CO" - that's my town! what was it?
Edwards & Co is a stroller/carseat brand
Could Brogan’s family help you with some time off and sleep. ❤Australia
Maybe they don't want to, lol.
@@WeShareTheSameAffliction That’s rude. She is their granddaughter
Hunnie I think that's natural it's not gonna all come our just lazing around the house ❤❤ ❤ ur in your head
Try milk ensemble its workout wear that’s breastfeeding friendly
I'm confused. Do you not share echo's fave anymore on youtube but still do on Instagram?
Where are your pajamas from?
I totally understand you not wanting to bed share but please with your level of sleep deprivation at the minute please just set up your bed NOW for safe bed sharing in case it happens one night from desperation. Following the safe sleep 7 it can be done safely and is no more risky for SIDS than baby in the bassinet.
Does Brogan ever take her overnight by his house, or not yet why she's so little! 💞
She has to breastfeed through the night