Homophobic women in the Question Time audience (BBC1, 27.3.14)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 มี.ค. 2014
  • As of midnight on Saturday morning, gay and lesbian marriage will be legal. Some women in the audience (at the start, and at around 7:40) think this shouldn't be allowed. Oh dear...
    Simply Red frontman Mick Hucknall was also in the audience.
    (C) BBC 2014

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  • @lydia722
    @lydia722 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7311

    It's okay to say 'I can't do that because of my religion' it's not okay to say 'you can't do that because of my religion'

    • @ailish3012
      @ailish3012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +491

      Lydia so true. Kind of perverted how obsessed they are with other people’s sex lives.

    • @ailish3012
      @ailish3012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +548

      Shaun Clark I’m genuinely so sorry that you have been brainwashed in this way. You sound crazy.

    • @TheMryoungty1
      @TheMryoungty1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      Shaun Clark Shut the fuck up

    • @lydia722
      @lydia722 6 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      Michael J I’m not denying it’s a sin. I’m saying what your religion considers a sin shouldn’t stop others from doing it

    • @michaelj976
      @michaelj976 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lydia Why should a non-Christian have any say in what a sacred Christian tradition is supposed to be?

  • @intothemouthclicksnice8765
    @intothemouthclicksnice8765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4679

    Complaining about gay marraige because it's against YOUR religion is like being angry at your friend for eating a donut because you're on a diet.

    • @thedrunkenramblingsnorthea4201
      @thedrunkenramblingsnorthea4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      to be honest it makes me mad that it's even being debated on television. The simple answer should be "....what tf has this got to do with you?"
      why are they mad at something that doesnt affect them whatsoever?

    • @LS-is-here
      @LS-is-here 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thedrunkenramblingsnorthea4201 why want something that isn't made for you ?.....like his dung hole....let alone marriage

    • @robynguy3244
      @robynguy3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Louder for the people at the back! This should be on T-shirts, awesome dude 😎

    • @bomblade15
      @bomblade15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @Gerald Glancy So you'd be okay with it if they get married in a mosque?
      Why do you have a problem with gay couples getting married?

    • @davecsaszarable
      @davecsaszarable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The prime minister of Finland being the youngest ever at that was raised by a rainbow family, two mothers.

  • @eliasbarnett9095
    @eliasbarnett9095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    the bible talks more about shrimp being a sin than homosexuality

    • @asink5928
      @asink5928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Nemvsis shrimp is very important tho how dare you, shrimp is on the same level as murder never mention that disgusting thing again

    • @sabanajafi5340
      @sabanajafi5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      HAHAHAHAH OMG

    • @dahalofreeek
      @dahalofreeek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      The Bible also has really specific logistical guidelines for slavery and says that rapists should buy and marry their victims by paying the father off.
      It says you should kill people if you catch them working on a Saturday. If someone actually was a biblical absolutist, they would be dead or imprisoned very quickly. These people who defend their hatred of gays on biblical grounds just choose to hate the gays.
      Homophobia is a bad word. They hate gay people, they don't fear gay people. We could change the word, but I think it could be fun making reality reflect the definition of homophobia.

    • @asink5928
      @asink5928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      krinkov545 if you can spread gods word to me then I will never blaspheme again
      And if a Christian hunter can become a saint then so to can I be forgiven (Saul on the road to Damascus if you were wondering)

    • @fallenslave6684
      @fallenslave6684 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nemvsis and I bet, you never read the Holy Bible cover to cover.

  • @joeduffyy
    @joeduffyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Imagine getting triggered because two strangers want to get married, how sad must your life be

    • @cidkult
      @cidkult 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Maaaaaaadnesss init... Like why do people care about sex and race the two things that you have no control over. Im really tired of this bs man..

    • @cidkult
      @cidkult 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @De Factio I dont think were speaking about the same thing..

    • @cidkult
      @cidkult 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @De Factio My words were why do people care about sex and in who you have sex with and what your sex is and why do people care about race as in what race you are what colour your child will come out. Your talking about religions and pedos... I dont believe in religions i dont care for there rules. I dont care for the rules of this dream we are all living in.. In there dream world its cool to be a pedo and a racist and eat babies i didnt come to this earth to judge something i have no control over or want to. I just had a thought that its weird that people still think about these no controllable factors that dont matter and shouldnt matter. Why are you asking me religious questions that we both dont give a shit about lol im confused.. Dont deep my comments i dont give a shit about nothing Im just doing my time on earth and making notes on the internet as i go along.. Non of this matters.. ITS NOT THAT DEEP

    • @owenthompson5214
      @owenthompson5214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      being against the lgbt movement is common sense

    • @matton36
      @matton36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You clowns were triggered for decades before we allowed homosexual marriage, now you lefty types are triggered about us not allowing underage marriages.

  • @Sam-op6us
    @Sam-op6us 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2191

    What I don’t get is
    Why are homophobic people so bothered?
    It doesn’t affect you

    • @atheistsrnumber1
      @atheistsrnumber1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Because it has a chance to affect us
      and homophobia isn't real

    • @Sam-op6us
      @Sam-op6us 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Omg that first old lady talking in the video was homophobic. Do u know what it means?

    • @Sam-op6us
      @Sam-op6us 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      atheistsrnumber1 it has a chance to affect you? How? You might see them in the streets? Or maybe even talk to them?!😱
      You can fuck off about “ homophobia isn’t real” clearly by that statement you yourself are homophobic! And don’t just reply to this if you do saying,” no it doesn’t exist”, because your not arguing properly and just throwing statements about.
      So at least, in this beautiful diversive world, accept that they exist and stop telling others who they can and can’t love because, like everyone, you only have one primary view, your own, and clearly you yourself are not a homosexual, so it is impossible to understand what they are feeling and experiencing.

    • @Sam-op6us
      @Sam-op6us 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Dani Van Velthoven ok I see what you mean, I just used the word “homophobic” as a general phrase which everyone understands for the view against homosexuals
      I do agree with you though, these who actively hate gays are just ignorant and horrible

    • @words422
      @words422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Because it gets painfully annoying when people start to force it on you to accept.

  • @Dirtymousey
    @Dirtymousey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2279

    "Uncomfortable" is the poorest defense ever. 🙄

    • @piranhajuan
      @piranhajuan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Im as progressive as anyone, and Im an atheist. I support gay marriage and equality. But i have to overcome the uncomfortable vibe I have about male gay couples. Never thought about it much, but its not my fault that I get that vibe.

    • @lobstertown1826
      @lobstertown1826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I’m uncomfortable with religion, and we ban that too? It’s such a stupid argument, nobody cares how you feel lady.

    • @charlesm1899
      @charlesm1899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      yeah ! like you're going to be in the bed with them while they have sex ..... THEN you have the right to feel uncomfortable!

    • @kirmichoksi716
      @kirmichoksi716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Lmao right? Imagine completely shattering people's lives because it makes you uncomfortable. smh.

    • @newspaper_stand
      @newspaper_stand 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Some Christians make me *really* uncomfortable, but you ain’t seeing me here dissing Jesus.

  • @MrMarioevangelou
    @MrMarioevangelou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    "Marriage is about children"
    Tell that to the many married couples who can't conceive

    • @shaunelliott8583
      @shaunelliott8583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Where in any marraige ceremony has anyone heard mention of children or procreation?

    • @dsprev8509
      @dsprev8509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Marriage isn’t about children. Children can just be a result of that

    • @pennypillow4445
      @pennypillow4445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      in her mind marriage is used as way to ensure the parents dont leave

    • @ikesmith1993
      @ikesmith1993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@pennypillow4445 my divorced mother and father: 👁👄👁

    • @Awakened_Wallace
      @Awakened_Wallace 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im sure they would like to conceive if they could

  • @serpechia
    @serpechia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Gay people never accidentally have children. But we are happy to adopt your “oops”.

    • @syeda_jessica
      @syeda_jessica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yaaasssssss Queen

    • @jamessuchard-rees3039
      @jamessuchard-rees3039 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes they do, all of the time.

    • @dav7444
      @dav7444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you stupid & bigoted?

    • @leedonlan5408
      @leedonlan5408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Serpechia, gay people don't accidentally have children because gay couples can't naturally have children.

    • @TDW0304
      @TDW0304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The idea that a straight mother who accidentally had a child they dont want is more fitting to raise that child then a loving and willing gay couple is hilarious. WASPS just dont want the youth to be "brainwashed" by the gays

  • @YorkshireNutte
    @YorkshireNutte 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3327

    "Marriage is about having children."
    Urm, pretty sure you don't have to be married to have children...

    • @raven_rez1074
      @raven_rez1074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      Nor do you have to have children because you are married.

    • @strawberrybonbon5943
      @strawberrybonbon5943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      My mum has 5 children, with 3 different fathers, and has never been married once
      (Hate that I have to put this, but this doesn't mean she's a whore or a slag or that any of her children are uneducated, every child was planned, she just hasn't had great luck when it comes to men)

    • @algonzalez6853
      @algonzalez6853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      And those kids from unmarried couples are more likely to experience so many dangers compared to children of married couples

    • @raven_rez1074
      @raven_rez1074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      ​@@algonzalez6853can you prove it?

    • @masonnix9566
      @masonnix9566 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It helps.

  • @Brickimated
    @Brickimated 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2301

    "Marriage is between a man and a women", "Not anymore". Best quote of the clip.

    • @sue-keifan2219
      @sue-keifan2219 8 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      ?? What did this person say to make you so offended? All they stated was a quote from the clip..... @ChadK

    • @AA-lz4on
      @AA-lz4on 8 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      +Chad K the marriage debate is a debate on whether some humans should have a basic human right. "love wins" means marriage should be about love, not a heterosexual privilege because some dumb fucking homophobes are uncomfortable with everyone having the same rights, simply because... well, they haven't had the same rights for centuries so it's "tradition"

    • @blaulin
      @blaulin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +Chad K
      I see you didn't answer. Seems like you are the one who demonstrated that they don't have a clue what they are talking about.

    • @blaulin
      @blaulin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Chad K
      Please research or at least think on your own about it before you spew nonesense around. You sound like someone who only repeats what other's told him.
      About which benefits are you talking about? Because as I see it, the benefits of marriage are made to make it more easier for two people to live their life together. (www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/marriage-rights-benefits-30190.html) There is literally no reason why that shouldn't be allowed for homosexuals. 'Family benefits' are only a very small part of these benefits - and even they aren't really about children. Marriage is not about 'getting a whole lot of tax money' so it doesn't effect you at all.
      Marriage, btw, existed long before christianity. It wasn't always about 'two people'. Even in the bible, Abraham had more than one wife. And sorry, if parents need 'benefits of marriage' to stay together and raise children, they're probably already worse parents than many homosexual peers. Also, why would you think then why homosexuals would want to marry, too? If marriage is only there to make 2 people stay together - thus limiting their freedom.
      The answer is: They already plan to stay together, they just want it to be easier to do (and to be accepted by their own government they also pay taxes to.) Because love isn't always about 'being a man and a woman' :)
      Anyway, it doesn't influence you in any way that homosexuals are now allowed to marry. Even if marriage WOULD only be about potential children (which it is not) that would be exactly what should be changed, too. There is no reason to reduce marriage to 'a construction only there for children'. It doesn't harm anyone if people want to marry just to stay together. And this (2 people marrying because they want to live togerther) was never an issue before the possibility of gay marriage.
      Marriage is what we make it be. THIS is logic. It's our choice to decide what marriage is about. Because making it harder for 2 people to live together just because they're different is discrimination.
      'Anyone talking about love or human rights has no fucking clue about this topic. It's 1 man 1 woman.' Your pretentiousness is ridiculous. Do you went to university studying 'marriage' for five years or something that you think you know more about it than anyone else? If yes, please tell me now what 'love' is objectively about, too; and then we change the law and forbid other people to feel about this topic like they do, yes?
      And yes, it is a basic human right to marry who you want to regardless of if you plan to have children. Because that was always something heterosexuals had a privilege to.
      It's not like there even will be so many gay marriages it changes anything, mate. The percentage will probably be smaller than heterosexuals who marry just because they want it to make official and easier to stay together.
      If I stole your wallet while in your neighbour house someone is murdered, would you also say it's 'offensive to real crimes against human rights' to claim justice about the things I stole? After all, your neighbour got murdered and had it so much worse than you. So you shouldn't have the right to claim justice. Logic????
      'radical left gay agenda' You talk about this like gay people don't exist and are some sort of cult or something. If you're gay you're gay. You don't belong to the 'radical left gay agenda'. You just want to have the same rights and acceptance everyone who's heterosexual receives.
      'complex/deep topic'
      Please, then. Begin telling me all about it already. Because I didn't see you doing that. Your only argument was 'marriage is for children' and that seems very simple to me.
      And lmao, again, if marriage wasn't about love that SHOULD be changed. So yes, 'love wins'.
      'there is certainly evidence showing problems in many many cases.'
      Yeah, please, sources? Because just asserting this statement is easy. You shouldn't build an opinion on something flimsy like this, though.
      Also, I'm sure alcoholics are prone to be worse parents. Let's force them to out themselves and forbid them to marry! Because there are apparentely even more alcoholics then there are homosexuals www.niaaa.nih.gov/alcohol-health/overview-alcohol-consumption/alcohol-use-disorders.
      Also, please explain to me why homosexuals should be worse parents just because they don't consist of the 2 genders. Because as I see it, not every person of the same gender is the same; there doesn't exist a 'normal mother' or a 'normal father'. We're all just human beings trying to do our best - and if someone is intelligent enough/ tries hard enough, they're already better than so many parents right now. Of course, allowing people to discriminate the parents of a children will be a (probably the only, concerning generalization based on homosexuality) thing that can harm them.
      'something very selfish'
      Woah, buddy, calm down. Because if you make conclusions you have to make sure you've got your basics right. Of course the 'gay agenda', as you like to call it, cares about the well being of a child?? Do you think they're aliens you can't possibly know or something? The only thing that differs them from you is who they want to hop in bed with.
      So yes, they care. And 1) I still don't see why 'being attracted to the opposite sex' should be that big of a factor in your parental skills, 2) so you think foster kids (who are given up by heterosexuals in most cases) who don't have a real home etc. are already better on their own than with homosexual parents?, 3) 'christianity agenda' or how we want to call it is heavily biased AGAINST gay people having the same rights. They are the one's who try hard to prove their point because it's written in their stupid book, along rules like 'you are not allowed to cut your hair' and 'you shouldn't mix fabrics of your clothes'. I think it's 'sickening' that they try to prevent children getting two completely devoted and good dads or moms.
      Let's be real, they care more about their prejudices and religion than they care about children.

    • @blaulin
      @blaulin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      +Chad K
      Yeah, lol
      Probably should have expected that. Just confirms what I wrote.¯\(ツ)/¯

  • @evaunit2553
    @evaunit2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Slavery was once a “treasured institution”.

    • @Heathen.Deity.
      @Heathen.Deity. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true, these bigots seem to forget Exodus 21 and such verses.

  • @lolomatic3534
    @lolomatic3534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Who's changing the definition of marriage? Two people loving each other, sticking rings on each others fingers? Same thing no matter who's what right?

    • @Capybarrrraaaa
      @Capybarrrraaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly, the people shouting "it's about man and woman" are doing so retroactively.
      Nothing about marriage says that men can't marry, or the women can't marry, otherwise you wouldn't have straight marriages. If women can marry men, then men can marry men too, that's equality.

    • @jackwilliams6604
      @jackwilliams6604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Capybarrrraaaa The reason people are upset is not because they hate homosexuals. It's more to do with the religious fact. Marriage is legal act to show god your commit to loving a person. It makes no sense to have gay marriage since the bible states that all sex apart from intercourse is sinful. But then again why would I care, I'm not religious.

    • @Capybarrrraaaa
      @Capybarrrraaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackwilliams6604 " It's more to do with the religious fact"
      No homosexual or homosexual supporter is trying to force any religion, group or individual to change their definition of marriage. They are making appeals to their governments to ammend co-habitation doccumentation to also benefit gay people.
      "It makes no sense to have gay marriage since the bible"
      From the Christian and other perspectives, I agree, but other cultures developed concepts of marriage seperate to and before Christianity. It might make sense in their definitions, like the secular definition, for example.
      Every example of opposition to gay-marriages being aknowleged by governments that I've seen has always been because of religious people trying to blur the lines between co-habitation documentation and a ceremonial, religious marriage based solely on the idea that they don't want 'the gays' getting in on their version of marriage.
      They can say "but my religion", but having your wish of segregation notified doesn't make it not bigotry. Until they can demonstrate that their objective god says 'no gays', then that's nothing more than their opinion.

    • @jackwilliams6604
      @jackwilliams6604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Capybarrrraaaa Im not sure if the bible actually states that having an attraction to the same sex is a sin. But still I find it somewhat ridiculous that people want same sex marriage. But then again that's just my opinion. I don't believe in God nor any sort of religion, yet I do see sense in one (buddism).

    • @Capybarrrraaaa
      @Capybarrrraaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackwilliams6604 "states that having an attraction to the same sex is a sin"
      From what I understand, it forbids non-reproductive sexual acts and men 'laying with men as one would with a woman'. Though, I believe that latter part is specifically about male familial incest.
      "I find it somewhat ridiculous that people want same sex marriage"
      I find it rediculous that someone would want marriage full-stop, though, I mean that in the ceremonial sense. There are legal benefits to having a co-habitation officially noted. I also don't see why that should be limited to couples, it makes equal sense to allow parents & (adult) children, housemates, etc. to share that too.
      I also understand why people want 'gay marriage' rather than the current Civil Partnership. The existence of CP fundimentally just says "you're different and shouldn't be entitled to what the rest have". I can see how that would be insulting.
      "yet I do see sense in one (buddism)."
      Yeah. I can really see some sense behind buddhism. It doesn't really ask anything irrational of you, and has some pretty good teachings. It's probably one of the best examples of what religion can be.

  • @ixlnxs
    @ixlnxs 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1470

    "I'm a christian, so you should have no rights". You've heard this for thousands of years if you were black, jewish, gay or a woman.

    • @jordanclark4635
      @jordanclark4635 8 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Or even poor, tbh

    • @Lemuriam
      @Lemuriam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      or a scientist

    • @ixlnxs
      @ixlnxs 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      ***** Yes, but that goes both ways. Muslims have tried to impose their ideology as much as christians. Gays never have. Nor have scientists.

    • @Lemuriam
      @Lemuriam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      John Fisher
      lol given how passionately you feel and think about gays, I think you really are gay yourself, and for some reason terribly afraid xD
      cheers mate you'll get it eventually ;) ♥

    • @alasskaluna2446
      @alasskaluna2446 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They're really running out of people to oppress aren't they..?? Haha :D

  • @dnacat5062
    @dnacat5062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1981

    "Marriage is about having children." Well, tell that to infertile couples who can't have kids, madam.

    • @yourmajesty8913
      @yourmajesty8913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      DNA Cat
      Exactly - and neither should be treated as though they don’t have the same marriage rights

    • @alicecourte2085
      @alicecourte2085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      DNA Cat maybe she wants people to pass fertility tests before marriage.

    • @fernmccreary2729
      @fernmccreary2729 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaningless existence lmfao

    • @mate95mraz
      @mate95mraz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @1113 Cntrl
      The only problem is we don't live in the Neolithic anymore. There is absolutely no reason to limit marriage to heterosexual couples when people don't get married for the same reasons that they did at the beginning of the concept of marriage.

    • @fruittypun799
      @fruittypun799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @1113 Cntrl Your argument is irrelevant to Dran's argument. He's obviously talking about countries that are already progressive, in this case England. I agree there is a country that gives death penalty to homosexual people, but in a country like England, most people marry by love not procreation only

  • @user-dr4sv6vy1l
    @user-dr4sv6vy1l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    It shouldn’t need to be gay marriage, can we not just call it marriage? And then it includes everyone? That’s all we want to do, marry people. Let us do that

    • @harryk8696
      @harryk8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      maybe now in 2021, not 7 years ago when this aired

    • @TomF12345
      @TomF12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you're so right. i dont understand people who think they should be treated equally for who they are but don't think other people who are different to them shouldn't be

    • @mr.lalnon5455
      @mr.lalnon5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reminds me of how people used to say "they got gay-married" like it's a special type of ritual completely separate from "marriage"

  • @capovershy1974
    @capovershy1974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "im an old woman that only can repeat what she was told"

    • @violenceisfun991
      @violenceisfun991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She struggles with even that, has to read off paper. Senile bint

  • @emmafloop2890
    @emmafloop2890 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3742

    Wait so sterile couples aren't allowed to get married????

    • @sebastianwitheridge3749
      @sebastianwitheridge3749 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      how? please explain

    • @Joedirt5
      @Joedirt5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Emma Floop you're fucking ridiculous

    • @mylifepostpain3705
      @mylifepostpain3705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      theRightizright No actually they are not a sin do you want to know why?
      CHRISTIANITY HAS BRAINWASHED YOU!!!!!!!

    • @johnmoore9862
      @johnmoore9862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      Rebecca Brown, Since the age of ten I’ve been sceptical about organised religions, l’m 61 now & come to the conclusion all religions are equally wrong in placing faith above evidence, scaring people into believing in a particular deity with the threat of eternal hellfire at the same time telling the same people “he loves you”, I just can’t understand that line of thinking.

    • @mylifepostpain3705
      @mylifepostpain3705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      John Moore Neither can I. It's brainwashing at its worst. To me it sounds like the kind of relationship that my mothers have always warned me against. They are controlled by god in every factor of their lives and what's worse is that they can't see that this relationship is a type of abuse

  • @mariamihailik5310
    @mariamihailik5310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1425

    It really frustrates me when people use their faith as an excuse to interfere with people's lives.

    • @manweller1
      @manweller1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maria Makes Music the reason why people of faith are so against because they know down the line Christian church’s will be forced to carry out this sinful act.

    • @mariamihailik5310
      @mariamihailik5310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@manweller1 the legalization of homosexuality has nothing to do with forcing it into churches, or on anyone for that matter. The people that ARE enforcing their lifestyles on everyone else are those who try to deny someone the right to get married just because of their personal discomfort.

    • @R3tr0v1ru5
      @R3tr0v1ru5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mariamihailik5310 The problem is that it almost has been forced into churches. The church should have every right to not allow gays to marry.

    • @mariamihailik5310
      @mariamihailik5310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @The Beast but how is homosexual marriage affecting YOU? No one asked you to be homosexual.

    • @manweller1
      @manweller1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maria Makes Music if that be the case why did a homosexual couple deliberately go to a Christian motel knowing they would asked to leave? The powers that be will forcing places of worship to carry out this sinful act. The real men&women of God will not bow down this or compromise the law of God.

  • @paidatomriehuja
    @paidatomriehuja 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    So she would rather have children to be stuck in an orphanage till they’re 18 and be thrown on the street as soon as they come of age, than have a gay couple adopt them and give them a loving and warm environment to grow up in and actually have a chance at a decent future...
    Also the ´biological mother and father’ she’s talking about obviously aren’t around. So why not let a loving gay couple give this child a home?

  • @pm8rsh233
    @pm8rsh233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "660,000 signatures", "huge swave of the population"... No, that's 1% of the population...

    • @LTD538
      @LTD538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pretty sure its not even that lmao

    • @pm8rsh233
      @pm8rsh233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LTD538 Slightly under. 660,000 is 1% of the UK population, rounded up. 0.97% to be precise.

  • @snoun7933
    @snoun7933 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1677

    “marriage isnt about love”
    what

    • @IsomerMashups
      @IsomerMashups 6 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      It was originally about wealth and property. Now, it's about love.

    • @luke7727
      @luke7727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      marriage isn't primarily about love

    • @Technicallyimright
      @Technicallyimright 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Ambro I feel sorry for you

    • @luke7727
      @luke7727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Technicallyimright Thank you. It is good to wish the best for people, even if you are wrong about what is best. I feel sorry for you too, and hope things become better.

    • @marinadiaz1762
      @marinadiaz1762 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ikr 😂😂😂 I honestly died. No one understands that we are in 2018 now. They don’t understand that the world moves. I hate change myself but that doesn’t mean I fight to stop it. That’s unhealthy

  • @mackymac3479
    @mackymac3479 8 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    He says it is a 'treasured' institution -that must be the reason why the divorce rate is so high.

    • @owenflanagan2115
      @owenflanagan2115 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂exactly

    • @papasmurf6180
      @papasmurf6180 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's so high because the government allowed no fault divorce in the first place.

    • @mackymac3479
      @mackymac3479 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Maria Madriquez It's so high because people are adulterers.

    • @MrJohnsolomon
      @MrJohnsolomon 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      macky mac Great observation there. More sinners for those without to condemn.

    • @johnkeyes5528
      @johnkeyes5528 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      macky mac adultery is one of God 10 commandments. these are the ones he don't want you to break..the ones that upset him the most.. if gay relationship was such a sin. it be up there in 10 commandments..

  • @SamTaylor2015
    @SamTaylor2015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    How can she sit there and say "we already have equality" then go on to say why they shouldn't have something straight people do?

  • @ElloLoJo
    @ElloLoJo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Can’t believe this is 2014 it sounds like 1994

    • @davidneverdave
      @davidneverdave 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dunno I mean 95% of people who spoke were in favour of gay marriage

  • @cassieosbourne7666
    @cassieosbourne7666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2941

    “Equality has already been reached”
    Well lady, that fact that you’re having a discussion about whether or not same sex marriage should be legal proves that equality hasn’t been reached

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      "(Equality has already been reached)". Tell that lie to The Blacks, Hispanics and Asians.

    • @06cdancer
      @06cdancer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Carrie, is there equality for Muslims in the UK who don't agree with homosexuality? Do they deserve to live in a society where they can practice their beliefs?

    • @06cdancer
      @06cdancer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@magicworld3242 the Asians? Who earn more, and live longer than any other race in the UK!

    • @LS-is-here
      @LS-is-here 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Eat the pork Condoning unseemly behavior has nothing to do with diversity

    • @deanrose245
      @deanrose245 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cassie Osbourne such a contradictive question

  • @natthequeenofknowledge3866
    @natthequeenofknowledge3866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1530

    Not all couples want to have children. A heterosexual couple may not be necessary want to have children.

    • @Based_Stuhlinger
      @Based_Stuhlinger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Natalie Gifford But in principal they can and homosexuals can't.

    • @natthequeenofknowledge3866
      @natthequeenofknowledge3866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Anticitizen 98 that is true

    • @samanthastam6281
      @samanthastam6281 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Anticitizen 98
      And what if a heterosexual couple can't have children? No, then it wouldn't be a problem.
      Did you ever heard of adoption, or fostercare?
      So you'd rather have children (who came from heterosexual couples who decided to have children and just not care for them, or abuse them or worse, but hey, I'm not judging) living in a orphanage or going through the system constantly, only to be thrown on the streets when they turn 18.
      Sure not my personal choice, but do what feels good.
      I'd rather help people, instead of only thinking about myself and never look to the rest of humanity.

    • @Based_Stuhlinger
      @Based_Stuhlinger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Angel Skyline Clearly don't understand what 'in principle' means.

    • @samanthastam6281
      @samanthastam6281 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Anticitizen 98
      Yeah I do understand.
      So I make my point again:
      What if heterosexual couples can't have children.
      Then they litteraly can't have children of their own.
      But hey, based on your comment that doesn't matter.
      So why should it with homosexuals.
      By the way, that heterosexual couples can have children, doesn't mean they should have.
      I know lots of people who would be better parents, and would raise there children better than the biological parents ever would be able to.

  • @ProjectFlashlight612
    @ProjectFlashlight612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "I don't like gay marriage."
    "Then don't have a gay wedding."

  • @Ms.AnnDrist
    @Ms.AnnDrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first lady mentioned the "1000s of years old definition of marriage" like it wasn't normal for men to have a harem of wives 1000s of years ago 🤣

  • @immadixx6867
    @immadixx6867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +847

    Imagine being so upset with yourself that you’d try and deny TWO OTHER PEOPLE getting married, something that doesn’t even effect you at all. Pathetic.

    • @han-ek7gd
      @han-ek7gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Um it messes up the entire education system, confuses children + next generation, restricts freedom of speech, disrespect towards other cultures and religions just to name a few.

    • @han-ek7gd
      @han-ek7gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Karamatsu girl people like me or people who are religious are now not able to voice our opinions openly without getting tons of hate and judgment because we are apparently ‘homophobic’. Now 3% of the population is trying to dictate what other people should say and accept.

    • @han-ek7gd
      @han-ek7gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Karamatsu girl in some places, you are not allowed to misgender someone. That’s dictating what people should or must say. That’s restriction of freedom of speech

    • @blAckg0D
      @blAckg0D 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Hannah Guo oh please, what bad is gonna happen to you if you misgender someone in "some places"? Someone politely correcting you to adress him or her in the gender he or she prefers? Oh that's terrible! D: You know what happen's to gay people in "some places"? They get beat up or killed over nothing. And your attitude isn't helping.

    • @han-ek7gd
      @han-ek7gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      blEkk in Canada you can get arrested for misgendering someone. They don’t deserve to be beaten because that’s jut wrong, but in civilized, western countries, we are prioritizing them instead of focusing on real issues

  • @calsetawerewolf12345
    @calsetawerewolf12345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    "My religion doesn't allow me to do that" yes!
    "My religion doesn't allow you to do that" no!!!

    • @rayvonrogers3018
      @rayvonrogers3018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kebzay Thank you!

    • @johnmoore9862
      @johnmoore9862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not much of a convincing argument is it?

    • @user-xg6cq4cw3j
      @user-xg6cq4cw3j 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      John Moore / it is convincing, actually. It says that your personal religion shouldn't affect the lives of other people. A perfectly reasonable argument.

    • @johnmoore9862
      @johnmoore9862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      meaty, If religious people followed that ok, but they don’t, i don’t knock on people’s doors preaching atheism, yet I get many religious people knocking on my door preaching their religion to me.

    • @bingbong5053
      @bingbong5053 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      John Moore You technically can preach about atheism, its just that, you choose not to.

  • @25242824
    @25242824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i'm straight myself but i think Jim Carey said it best, "as long as your hearts in the right place i don't care what you put in your mouth".

  • @eddyfung6144
    @eddyfung6144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    To quote Rick Sanchez, "I'm sorry. But your opinion means very little to me."

  • @DEKIKK
    @DEKIKK 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1002

    I always wonder how 2 people getting married would ever have anything to do with these people...are they gonna live in the same house with them afterwards?

    • @debbielough7754
      @debbielough7754 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      It doesn't have anything to do with them. They just think it does.
      Personally I don't think it matters who you love, if you love them you should be able to marry them.

    • @DEKIKK
      @DEKIKK 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Debbie Lough agreed!

    • @skidelrymar
      @skidelrymar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well, i wouldn't marry my cat. just kidding

    • @kpaterson9717
      @kpaterson9717 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      DEKIKK best comment I've read on TH-cam. As simple as it is.

    • @jakedax525
      @jakedax525 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kristian Kristian you're comparing two adults in a loving, consenting relationship to murder.

  • @Wordavee1
    @Wordavee1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    My wife was 45 and I was 55 when we got married, we had no intention of having children, have we upset God???

    • @zoegreen4147
      @zoegreen4147 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wordavee1 no you haven't

    • @jamesth8436
      @jamesth8436 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      God isn't real so don't worry about it

    • @Wordavee1
      @Wordavee1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      James TH
      The question was rhetorical, I'm an atheist.

    • @zoegreen4147
      @zoegreen4147 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wordavee1 so am I
      I just respect other's beliefs if they don't harm others

    • @tedhuges8275
      @tedhuges8275 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wordavee1 no point. In coffin. Dodgers. Getting married End of.

  • @kukalakana
    @kukalakana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I think people who say "I'm Christian" as justification for their own closed-mindedness just tarnishes the name of Christianity, to be honest.

    • @iLAGnDC
      @iLAGnDC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being Christian means you read the Bible and follow its teachings. And in the Bible, it clearly states marriage is between a man and a woman. You can be open minded as a Christian but that is what the Bible says. In fact many Christians are respectful of gay people even if they are against that view. I am pretty sure the Bible does not state anything about gay marriage and because of that, does it mean you can assume it is ok? Either for or against, it is not up to you or the public to decide because it is the will of God. If it is not written, is it not safe to follow tradition rather than change it into something God would be totally against? Seeing it from this stand point, I can understand what Christians are thinking... This is from me, someone who is not a Christian. Maybe if you are more open minded... you could see that...

    • @otismoran8512
      @otismoran8512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iLAGnDC if god was against gay marriage, he would have done something to prevent it. The fact that we now have it means he clearly isn't bothered.

    • @iLAGnDC
      @iLAGnDC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@otismoran8512 Come on... even I am not Christian and I know they believe God made us to have free will and that God judges what you did with that free will when you die... To interfere means to interfere with that free will.
      It is like saying God does not interfere in war so clearly he isn't bothered. Stupid argument.
      Again... the Bible does not care for social means. I personally think it is stupid to try bend a religion that has been around for thousands of years to fit social wants. The Bible is the word of God... not the word of man... don't get it twisted...

    • @otismoran8512
      @otismoran8512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iLAGnDC I'm just trying to say that the argument that Christians can't support gay marriage because the Bible doesn't mention it is stupid.

    • @iLAGnDC
      @iLAGnDC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@otismoran8512 The Bible is the word of God and to say it is fine is to put words in Gods mouth... If something is not stated, is it not best to either assume it is bad or just simply do not do it in case?

  • @stevesutcliffe3490
    @stevesutcliffe3490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "I'm a Christian..." and there you have it!

  • @stayjit1
    @stayjit1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +773

    I'm all for gay marriage. Not because of my undying empathy and compassion for my fellow man, but because I simply dont give a shit.

    • @shibbymiyah6614
      @shibbymiyah6614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wanna marry my girlfriends mother baby yeah cos she a sexy chick she a crazy chick hell yeah my niggas give

    • @DiegoTorres-ls8wh
      @DiegoTorres-ls8wh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      stayjit1 I thought i was the only one

    • @signoguns8501
      @signoguns8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very well said. I agree 100% lol.

    • @voodoo5845
      @voodoo5845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you sound like a guy i could get along with

    • @Vic666DK
      @Vic666DK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing comment!!! :)

  • @ryderoreilly9807
    @ryderoreilly9807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    There are no "accidental" children in gay marriage, all children born into a gay family are thoroughly planned for and most are well loved compared to some heterosexual couples who abuse their kids and take them for granted.

    • @AbnormalAbbi
      @AbnormalAbbi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brilliant comment

    • @johnm7027
      @johnm7027 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very very true

    • @1234poppycat
      @1234poppycat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      cos all gay couples do such a wonderful job.... I must have imagined the UK news report of two gay men adopting a baby and one killing the poor child because he could not cope … the other helped him cover it up.... such darlings.

    • @Kezpool
      @Kezpool 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abcity google Matthew scully-hicks”

    • @asmusicnstuff4886
      @asmusicnstuff4886 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@1234poppycat Wow, one example of bad gay parents. Well that's conclusive!

  • @biddyreid1567
    @biddyreid1567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "marriage is about children" Oh yes, because it is impossible to conceive outwith marriage.

  • @MartinShannonHayes
    @MartinShannonHayes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Imagine living in Brighton and being uncomfortable with same sex relationships, it’s like living at a seaport and not being comfortable seeing ships.

  • @mattiles5811
    @mattiles5811 8 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    If the bulk of people felt uncomfortable with the tshirt you were wearing, would that give them the right to tell you what to wear?

    • @isolateddesire5036
      @isolateddesire5036 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Next time somebody makes that argument, I'll retaliate with your comment. Thank you.

    • @mattiles5811
      @mattiles5811 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Isolated Desire Haha thanks! It makes no sense lol

    • @HexManiacQuinn
      @HexManiacQuinn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      There actually was a scandal with a scientist who landed a probe on a meteor or something. Whole thing was overshadowed by him wearing a shirt with scantily-clad women all over it. Feminists lost their shit, shaming him endlessly to the point of tears. The kicker? He didn't even pick it out himself - his WIFE got it for him as a loving gesture. Also, I've seen rather good, comedic shirts with Hitler on it too. So, you know what? I think Matt has a valid point here.

    • @mattiles5811
      @mattiles5811 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ***** If someone genuinely wore a hitler shirt as support to those acts then i would think there was something seriously wrong with them... and i wouldn't think it would be nice or compassionate... but its a TSHIRT, it does no harm really that someone can't forget within 10 seconds and yeah it might be slightly offensive but i will fight for the right to verbally offend all day long - that concept is deeply married to freedom of speech

    • @joecox1074
      @joecox1074 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      why don't you ask that to Matt Taylor

  • @songbird7450
    @songbird7450 7 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I love what the one black women in the audience says:
    "Love does not need religion for it is not religious. Loving someone is not wrong, allowing the church to rule over people's lives is wrong."
    DAMN she said it

    • @johnnonamegibbon3580
      @johnnonamegibbon3580 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Things a re more complicated than that.
      Speaking of which, I fell in love with my coworker while my wife sat at home raising my kids. Don't hate me, the heart wants what the heart wants.

    • @tomhuijben1073
      @tomhuijben1073 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Felipe Lima --- Nope, consent is still one (if not the most) important thing in love. Children (and animals for the people saying that compare same sex marriage to marrying a dog) CAN NOT give consent!! But an adult of any gender can. So why would you restrict them from marrying someone of the same gender?

    • @tomhuijben1073
      @tomhuijben1073 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Felipe Lima - I am Dutch indeed but that doesn’t mean I agree with a monarchy (and it is also a fallacy, attacking the person instead of solely the argument) - However, I would argue that bestiality SHOULD be illegal, even if Canada has apperantly legalized it. There is still no consent from the animal. Even if the animal were to like the situation somehow, they still do not understand the situation fully and therefore can not consent. The same thing goes for children. Bringing up transitioning and gender expression is besides the point as well but alas you brought it up. Personally I believe that gender expression should be free for every child (and every adult by the way). If a boy wants to wear a dress, let him. If someone born with a female body wants to be called “Dan” instead of the original “Danielle” and referred to as “he/him” then accept that. Even if this did not have to do with gender, this is just respecting individuality and personality. However, I agree that surgery should not happen right when someone says “I am transgender” because it can be difficult to reverse surgery. Yet, in most cases surgery only happens after a lot of interviews and counseling and it is actually very hard to get it. At least WAY harder than for a man and a woman to get a baby, which is also a pretty big thing.

    • @LizDeb
      @LizDeb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is Love

    • @mylifepostpain3705
      @mylifepostpain3705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John NoNameGibbon We can’t help being gay any more than you could help falling in love with your co worker, as you said, the heart wants what it wants

  • @Paul-Weston
    @Paul-Weston 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was uncomfortable with the concervative party being voted into power. Democracy is a double edged sword, some fights you lose, some fights you win. If the majority want gay marriage, and you can't accept living in a country with gay marriage, move to Iran or Saudi Arabia.

  • @lalala3191
    @lalala3191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've never once heard of a protest about divorce. Wonder why?

  • @Yetaxa
    @Yetaxa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    if your argument is "well it's always been that way" you've already lost

    • @nnamnojoshuannadi4397
      @nnamnojoshuannadi4397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeti my argument is that's what God intended and it shouldn't change because God doesn't change his standards. God always wins.

    • @Codex7777
      @Codex7777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@nnamnojoshuannadi4397 Gods are merely invisible friends for adults that can't face reality as it actually is. Literally fairy tales for gullible adults and brainwashed children. Secondly, for you to believe in an unproven, omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent being... and claim to know it's mind and speak on it's behalf, is arrogance and self-centredness of the utmost order. Strange how the religious appear to end up with religions and holy books that fit their pre-existing thoughts and biases. Like every other Christian you cherry-pick those parts of the bible that fit with what you think and completely ignore, or dismiss, all the other parts. As for marriage in the bible, there are several different versions. Though how you can claim a book that condones slavery, murder, war, misogyny, homophobia, racism, child abuse, rape, beatings, racism and genocide, as 'moral' is beyond me. Why not try using the brain that you believe a God gave you?

    • @TigerBears11
      @TigerBears11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Nnamno Joshua Nnadi - If you don’t like the idea because of your god, then don’t take part in it. We don’t believe in your god, so why should we follow their standards?

    • @saminanishat505
      @saminanishat505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@nnamnojoshuannadi4397 Ya know, Im sure those words were once said to justify slavery, rape, domestic abuse and oh look at that homophobia.

    • @landonhowes-titchmarsh770
      @landonhowes-titchmarsh770 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Murica

  • @amyisaway7800
    @amyisaway7800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    imagine being so openly against happiness

    • @amyisaway7800
      @amyisaway7800 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mark Jones w... what?

    • @amyisaway7800
      @amyisaway7800 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mark Jones without being rude, i just had no idea what your comment was trying to say. it’s fairly vague.

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@markjones7251 doesn't seem misplaced to me. Seems very accurate.
      What is your position? Why do you think this debate is about "collapsing the west"?

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@markjones7251
      How are gay people being used "as a political battering ram"?
      Why would this be affecting "white society"?
      No one is taking away Christianity.
      Anyone expressing homophobic or racist opinions are criticised regardless of their religion.

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markjones7251 putting aside the conspiracy theory you are trying to spread, your logic would mean that people are being persuaded to be gay causing the decline in birth rates.
      Everything you have said is preposterous. But I'll entertain it for a moment.
      You are using the false assumption that being gay is a choice or that you can "make" some one gay. This is totally untrue. All studies show that sexual orientations cannot be changed. So there is no one "pushing" homosexuality on us, because that is not possible.
      You also seem to think that being gay is something that only (or at least mainly) occurs in western populations. This is also untrue. A person brought up in a more open and free minded family will be more likely to be open about their sexuality.
      This is why you might feel that there are less gay people among minorities with strong traditional values. But they still exist nonetheless, and in the same numbers as they would if there was a wider acceptance of homosexuality (because you don't choose to be gay).
      Regarding the other points, that are off topic from the debate in the video:
      "Westerners dont have kids" ==> this is simply untrue. Just take a walk out side in the park on a sunny day. There are kids everywhere.
      "they believe in nihilism, consumerism and hedonism" ==> At least half of the UK population identifies as Christian (just take a look at the comment section, there are many here). But even without looking at peoples religious beliefs, there is a strong sense of morality in western civilisation. That is why all forms of discrimination are pointed out and our society does it's best to irradiate this kind of thinking.
      "mass immigration" ==> you're usual red herring for all racist agendas
      "end of the west" ==> in what way? No country or way of life is set in stone. Movement of populations, changes in traditions and ways of life have always existed though out history and all over the globe. To try and keep things the same way is ridiculous.
      "democracy cant survive this" ==> can't survive what? Democracy is not showing any signs of disappearing....
      Anyway, you will reject anything anyone says that does not back up your crazy conspiracy theory.
      Have a nice life 😉

  • @jjmcn8377
    @jjmcn8377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Marriage is between a man and a woman" - why tho? give me an ethical reason that isn't just you're religion says so
    "Marriage is about having kids" - okay so you're proposing that infertile people and those who just don't want kids shouldn't be allowed to be married? that's a very unpopular stance
    "Marriage is about religion" - apart from all the atheist couples that can get married at will, with vows available online to have a ceremony that is not religious. shall we ban that too?
    every fucking argument against gay marriage holds no water with a quick minute of critical thinking

    • @TheSm1thers
      @TheSm1thers 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage is pointless now, apart from personally with benefits like marriage allowance.

    • @jjmcn8377
      @jjmcn8377 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSm1thers from a pragmatic sense I'd agree, but I guess it does show love and commitment or whatever

  • @doctor_disco1334
    @doctor_disco1334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “I am a committed Christian” and I’m a committed lesbian who just wants to get married lady

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +914

    “Marriage is about having children.”
    Lady I know plenty of straight couples that don’t have children.

    • @Brunette84
      @Brunette84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sophie Amanda Leiton Toomey me too. My heart breaks for them. Especially the ones who have been trying unsuccessfully for years.

    • @vitathaisis9407
      @vitathaisis9407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sophie Amanda Leiton Toomey between a man and woman there is a possibility of Shared biological offspring. In case of gay marriage this does not exist.

    • @kashootourselves6709
      @kashootourselves6709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Vita Thaïs what about infertile couples? You saying they shouldn’t be allowed to get married?

    • @vitathaisis9407
      @vitathaisis9407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kashootourselves6709 there are some infertile couples but in gay couples infertility is 100 % : they cannot have babies with each other. gay couples can have some kind of union but it doesn't have to be marriage

    • @salh3326
      @salh3326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right, and some people just don't want children.

  • @RonWylie-gk5lc
    @RonWylie-gk5lc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    Who has the right to tell anyone else that they cannot marry the person they love. it is not even up for question

    • @finn191275
      @finn191275 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      +jan simonides there's a difference between a man marrying another man compared to marrying his mother (1) the other man did not give birth to him (2) the other man is not biologically related (3) it's againts the law to marry your mother

    • @finn191275
      @finn191275 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +finn191275 a lot of gay relationships last longer than straight marriages considering 50% of straight marriages end in divorce yet thy think thy have the right to stop gay people marrying wen 50% of straight people can't even make their own marriages work

    • @finn191275
      @finn191275 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +jan simonides the percentage is irrelevant why should gay people take note from straight people about the sanctaty of marriage wen 50% of the straight people get divorced thy can't even make their own marriages work yet expect to dictate over gay people

    • @wanderer1955
      @wanderer1955 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +jan simonides Too many.

    • @wanderer1955
      @wanderer1955 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +finn191275 We are not talking about whether gay or straight marriages work or not we are talking about the normality of men marrying ( GAG!! ) other men. And it just plain aint normal. And if you say it is then you aint normal either. But by judging all your previous past comments I think we pretty much knew that anyway.

  • @johnmoore9862
    @johnmoore9862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The woman speaking at 7.50 has dead soulless blackened eye pupils, windows into a dark foreboding place.

    • @copperrose4376
      @copperrose4376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she was also a self identified transphobic in a more recent political discussion panel

    • @copperrose4376
      @copperrose4376 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/QsfdqxqMzNc/w-d-xo.html I think this is it. This might not be the same woman but she looks similar

    • @johnmoore9862
      @johnmoore9862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, one & the same.

  • @kirk5152
    @kirk5152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The institution of marriage was when a man gave his daughter away for breeding in exchange for land and livestock. The daughter had no say in the matter. Gay marriage is more about love than the traditional values of marriage which in some ways let's face it, was close to sex trafficking.

  • @anotherhappylanding4746
    @anotherhappylanding4746 8 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    marriage is not about children, when you get married the vows you take are about your partner and nothing to do with marriage

    • @anotherhappylanding4746
      @anotherhappylanding4746 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With children

    • @ProtoGlenn
      @ProtoGlenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Iamatreee Children born out of wedlock a bastard children(more of an insult to the promiscuous father who is out of the picture). Marriage should have happened before children become an issue. Marriage is between the partners, not the children.

    • @ProtoGlenn
      @ProtoGlenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Iamatreee That is absurd. Marriage is the union between two people. The marriage/divorce laws were instituted to ensure children were accommodated. The marriage itself, is only between the couple being married.

    • @ProtoGlenn
      @ProtoGlenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Iamatreee yes, and marriage itself was between a couple. Marriage was not for children. In fact, history has marriage being used for social and political gain through the union of families, where the people being married did not even love each other. The concept of marriage as a union of 2 people. The fact that a marriage happens to be the best environment for raising children, was not the reason marriage was instituted.

    • @naminom7802
      @naminom7802 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      homophobes be like "every child deserves biological mother and father" but then those biological parents literally abandon their children after they came out as gay or lesbian ..while same sex parents do not abandon their children cause they are straight.. they are more committed to raising children and more tolerant ..why is everyone ignoring that ? which proves that those parents are not loving their children unconditionally and they do not understand their true feelings

  • @ericrivers8883
    @ericrivers8883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1857

    Hey blonde lady..child centric????.....my parents beat me as a child...I would prefer sweet gay parents than cruel straight parents..

    • @pickolus3032
      @pickolus3032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      but ton
      Very fun do you feel better about yourself cuz you made a joke about abuse?

    • @Squeggo
      @Squeggo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Huy Thai punctuation would've helped.

    • @sobertowelie3267
      @sobertowelie3267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @but ton
      How can you stutter while writing a damn comment on TH-cam?

    • @dreadpirateroberts4052
      @dreadpirateroberts4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      butt on , it’s not who is joking, it’s who is laughing ! How can you find abuse amusing!?

    • @dreadpirateroberts4052
      @dreadpirateroberts4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sober Towelie study the grammar.

  • @RH-xs8gz
    @RH-xs8gz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you’re against same-sex marriage, don’t enter into a same-sex marriage. Don’t worry about what anyone else is doing if they aren’t causing you harm.

    • @RH-xs8gz
      @RH-xs8gz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @krinkov545 I’m not a Christian so your Bible means nothing to me. Again, if they aren’t harming you or anyone else, mind your own damn business and get your own life.

  • @lionelbluecobrakai9096
    @lionelbluecobrakai9096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Marriage is not primarily about love." So, if a couple can't have children for whatever reason (i.e. infertility) then their marriage is useless? Not sure where the logic for that comes from. Also think its hilarious that you'd admit on national TV that you essentially don't love your husband.

    • @hollymactaggart3769
      @hollymactaggart3769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nowadays, the meaning of marriage in majority of cases is unclear. Yes, people say it's a celebration of love but I see it as an excuse for a woman and a man to have one day where they get to flash their cash and have the spotlight on them.
      If marriage was really about love, then 50% of them wouldn't end in divorce.

    • @AndyChung27
      @AndyChung27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also if a child NEEDS both a mother and a father present for a 'correct' upbringing, what about single mothers and fathers? That women is ridiculous

  • @ricks8858
    @ricks8858 6 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    Every Child has a right to a biological father and a biological Mother? Tell the 60 Million orphans..

    • @JixieDyeAuthor
      @JixieDyeAuthor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I have a biological mother and a biological father.
      My mother is the foulest she-devil to ever walk the planet. I would rather have two loving fathers than have a mother like that.

    • @jennamariedicks
      @jennamariedicks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Or people like me with a Single father and an absent mother.

    • @jennamariedicks
      @jennamariedicks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jixie Dye exactly the same for me.

    • @vhawk1951kl
      @vhawk1951kl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      If only you could set out clearly-or define, a 'right'. As it happens-and you are in multiple company you cannot. The first rule of life that most seem to learn the hard way is:NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING-and it is often the penultimate bit of learning, and when it is too late. Bare assertion is not reasoned argument, because I bloody say so.Now you can laugh.What you mean, and I'm wholly with you, is that you would LIKE it if a small, helpless and newly arrived being had with it its causes-for it is a little of both, but the custom is to call causes parents, and in FACT each result or child is the result of two-polar opposite, causes, although there may well be a less readily apparent cause.That there is nothing objectionable about homosexual *practices* is a RELIGIOUS *belief*-a religion being any set of related beliefs assumptions presumptions and norms- the Mr god fantasy being entirely optional when one enters upon believing and assuming and norms-that maleficent invention called morals or ' I-am-right'.
      What is a right without a remedy, is a question that is posed to all students of the law of equity-which is entirely normative so long as men with guns can agree with your norms;law without power being merely a cypher.

    • @michelemcguire8995
      @michelemcguire8995 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JixieDyeAuthor gross

  • @good_feedback_again3491
    @good_feedback_again3491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    there were also many millions who were uncomfortable with freeing the slaves......

    • @LS-is-here
      @LS-is-here 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Their still are....and the slaves, now, wilfully belong to Jesus Christ

    • @elliot7753
      @elliot7753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ophelia Sebastian and, funnily enough, the people who were uncomfortable with freeing slaves are also the people uncomfortable with same sex marriage
      Source: Alabama

    • @LS-is-here
      @LS-is-here 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elliot7753 wrong again...your statements refute each other...

    • @elliot7753
      @elliot7753 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      L S well it is true

    • @LS-is-here
      @LS-is-here 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elliot7753 a. neither issue has anything to with comfort
      b. I am not for chattel slavery
      c. I am not for fake marriage
      d. it's not true

  • @wilshb
    @wilshb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That woman is expressing her opinion, and a valid one at that. Why is there a need to ascribe some kind of pseudo medical term like “phobic” to her?

    • @D33J3nk1
      @D33J3nk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because truth scares people

  • @davidpower7874
    @davidpower7874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage isn't about procreating, if it were why do they allow old age couples to marry?, why do they allow people who can't have children to marry. I married my husband 19 years ago in Holland, we're both still very much in love, meanwhile I've watched most of my straight friends marry, divorce, and marry again in that time.

  • @ALBUMOF2008
    @ALBUMOF2008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I hope I never become an ignorant old person. I want to continue to grow and learn for the rest of my life.

    • @ozricaurora6943
      @ozricaurora6943 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      ALBUMOF2008 Same. The idea of becoming and old conservative conformist terrifies me

    • @undead.rising
      @undead.rising 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES - I think about that all the time! It terrifies me that so many people are predispositioned to do that. I hope I am always the person to never drink the Kool-Aid, and question the status-quo all my life.

    • @vincentvangogh5267
      @vincentvangogh5267 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      And then go to hell when you die.

    • @thewab1974
      @thewab1974 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, the older folks are the ones who are wise. Regrettably, they debate younger people who have been very easily brainwashed into believing in the evil, Satanic leftist pro-sodomy agenda.
      "Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools" - Romans 1:22

    • @thefierce4324
      @thefierce4324 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You wrote what I've been thinking all this while! Haven't you noticed a disturbing trend where people are quite liberal in their views when they're young but become increasingly fixed and conservative as they grow older? That scares me. I don't ever want to be in a place where I refuse to acknowledge the other side of the argument.

  • @crazychap5329
    @crazychap5329 6 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    If you don't agree with gay marriage then don't go to one.

    • @philk1853
      @philk1853 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @crazychap - They don't what the hell made you think they DID ??????

    • @luke7727
      @luke7727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If you don't agree with murder then don't commit one.

    • @professionalmemeenthusiast2117
      @professionalmemeenthusiast2117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ambro
      What harm does gay marriage do that could be comparable to murder?

    • @johnh226
      @johnh226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      crazychap
      If you don't agree with traditional marriage don't go to a Christian baker.

    • @marinadiaz1762
      @marinadiaz1762 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also “if you don’t agree with gay marriages then don’t get married to the same gender”

  • @retro2vr
    @retro2vr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Watching 6 years later in 2021. It's like watching a debate in the 70's.

  • @pokiigames4167
    @pokiigames4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It really annoys me when people like her say it's about the joining of a man and a woman in terms of procreation.. is she apposed with the elderly getting married? Because they won't be popping out babies, some women are knowingly unable to make babies, by her definition, they aren't allowed to get married. my husband and I got married in 2015, and our marriage has been wonderful to date.. 6 years this year and here's to a lifetime more.

  • @iamnoone5745
    @iamnoone5745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1036

    Am uncomfortable when people bite into their ice cream but i dont think making it illegal is going to make me feel less uncomfortable by it. Thats my argument lol

    • @elliesmith8076
      @elliesmith8076 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I'll file a lawsuit bitch ya supposed to lick dat

    • @MissStephy100
      @MissStephy100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I get uncomfortable when people swallow gum rather than throw it out. I'm not planning to make it illegal simply because it makes me uncomfortable

    • @moonlightbae6143
      @moonlightbae6143 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      JOHN JAMES HARPER not really its no difference that someone saying there uncomfortable with two people of the same sex being together

    • @cobra4793
      @cobra4793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Moonlight Bae Come on there's a difference between ice cream and same sex marriages.

    • @moonlightbae6143
      @moonlightbae6143 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      c obra not really there both another persons preference that is none your buisness... i see a similarity

  • @Emmatriaaa
    @Emmatriaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +835

    Don’t like same-sex marriage?
    Don’t marry someone of the same-sex.

    • @alancadwallender
      @alancadwallender 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is a really stale, stupid, and illogical comment. You might as well say, "Don't like incestuous marriage? Don't marry a member of your own family." Same sex marriage is a sign of a morally corrupt, decadent, degenerate and decaying society.

    • @oliverpotts8664
      @oliverpotts8664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@alancadwallender That is a fucking stupid analogy. There are laws against incestuous marriages, as children born of incest are at a higher risk of genetic conditions. However, there are no negative consequences of one dude marrying another dude. So explain to me how allowing gay people to get married is a sign of "morally corrupt, decadent, degenerate and decaying society".

    • @alancadwallender
      @alancadwallender 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oliverpotts8664 It is impossible to convince a pig that it is living in a sty.

    • @alancadwallender
      @alancadwallender 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @twelvepeoplesz Sorry but that has to be one of the most idiotic and totally illogical statements that I have heard for a long time, but then I have yet to hear an objective and logical comment from the LGBT brigade.

    • @scipioafricanus5871
      @scipioafricanus5871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@alancadwallender Listen, Mr Codswallop, the only thing morally corrupt, decadent, degenerate and decaying about all this is your view.

  • @kurisensei
    @kurisensei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Mick Hucknall."
    Wasn't expecting that

    • @waynejohnson8009
      @waynejohnson8009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very well said. Total respectful comments made by Mick Hucknall

    • @Zkkr429
      @Zkkr429 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know! He’s now a vampire and no one’s even going to mention it.

    • @halimak625
      @halimak625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sick ginger enabler

  • @christianbolze7092
    @christianbolze7092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage is a concept that is older than christianity. So dont use the idea, that it came with christianity, to force other people to adhere to your beliefs.

  • @sadiestjohn7537
    @sadiestjohn7537 8 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    If choosing your sexuality (if your gay or straight) is a choice then my question is when did you decide to be straight?

    • @matthelm3249
      @matthelm3249 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      great point.homophobia is disgusting

    • @betaleftist9218
      @betaleftist9218 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No you fucking moron you are inherently heterosexual, its fucking nature.

    • @freebeing6952
      @freebeing6952 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      National Socialist+ Science does not support your assertion about human sexuality.

    • @betaleftist9218
      @betaleftist9218 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *****​ No you are wrong, do not manipulate biology for your agenda.

    • @freebeing6952
      @freebeing6952 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      National Socialist Just reading the findings of scientists in peer-reviewed academic journals. Not manipulating anything. Don't need to.

  • @formalbug5716
    @formalbug5716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Do they forget that their religion doesn't own the concept of marriage?

    • @stevepayne5965
      @stevepayne5965 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      President Garrison's Pink Strapon Well, yes.

    • @jont39
      @jont39 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      President Garrison's Pink Strapon actually originally it does Adam and eve were married God joined them Jesus went to a wedding and so many more in the scriptures but you know neither the scriptures that clearly condemn dame sex marriage regardless of the things said by those on the show who are in same sec relationships

    • @stevepayne5965
      @stevepayne5965 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      live let liv I'm *aware* of the scriptures that condemn same-sex relationships just as I'm *aware* that there are books that say Mohammed flew to heaven on a winged horse. You reject the latter, I assume, whereas I reject both since only children are interested in fairy tales, sonny.

    • @philk1853
      @philk1853 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @President Garrison the gay boy - Well show us a religion that thinks gays are a good thing. Accepting them with revulsion, and in most cases these days WITH COWARDICE - but Islam.......funny how you gays shit yourself when dealing with THEM, isn't it hypocrite ?

    • @amybowers1023
      @amybowers1023 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Phil K pagan religion, wiccan religion are not against gays and so sorry but marriage has existed long before the fake bible and the fake god did, ancient greeks were bisexuals, they also got married and guess what the religion was pagan, no bible even existed then,

  • @oakpkdude
    @oakpkdude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7 years later and still waiting for the sky to fall.

  • @Phoenix1664
    @Phoenix1664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being against gay marriage is like complaining about the weather in another country.

  • @gagaftagb6621
    @gagaftagb6621 9 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    "When equality already exists." It clearly doesn't if you're that same - sex couples shouldn't be able to marry.

    • @stretch90
      @stretch90 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hazbin Equality does exist. Every person has the same rights as everyone else.
      Calling this a debate about equality is stupid.

    • @Queencrazy1997
      @Queencrazy1997 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      so, lgbt folk have the right to marry who they love and women have equal pay? Because last I checked that's BS

    • @jimkeddy7905
      @jimkeddy7905 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hazbin same sex has nothing to do with marriage

    • @gagaftagb6621
      @gagaftagb6621 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jim Keddy stretch90 Queencrazy1997 What I'm saying is that she said about why should they change the definition of marriage when equality already exists when it doesn't when she is saying that they shouldn't be able to marry because of that reason.

    • @gagaftagb6621
      @gagaftagb6621 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jim Keddy I didn't understand most of that, but you said "GAYS are odd people" What is odd about being attracted to someone and loving them? Love has no gender, race or religion. LOVE IS LOVE. And I don't understand if you think that being gay is a choice or not. But as a gay person, I can tell you that it is NOT a choice and there is NOTHING wrong with it! What's wrong with two gay people marrying each other? It's love and love is beautiful! And if you say that throughout history marriage has been between a man and woman. Women never used to have the same rights as men did, but they do now. History moves on!

  • @AngelDearest
    @AngelDearest 9 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    All my life i have believed people getting married just got married because they loved each other. I still believe this. Marriage isnt all about the kids. Having kids is a choice. Marriage is about bringing in two people that ACTUALLY LOVE EACH OTHER together for the rest of their lives til death do they part.

    • @HelloThere-ln2cb
      @HelloThere-ln2cb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yay, someone I can understand

    • @wanderer1955
      @wanderer1955 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Nic F No its not. This is done the world over. Its called a marriage licence.

    • @uK8cvPAq
      @uK8cvPAq 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Karrie Being gay is also a choice.

    • @HelloThere-ln2cb
      @HelloThere-ln2cb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +uK8cvPAq
      Against the Laws of nature?
      Homosexuality is completely natural, do some research

    • @wanderer1955
      @wanderer1955 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello There Completely natural?????? PWHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Who told you that???

  • @louise5834
    @louise5834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can’t believe how recent this was. I forget how far we’ve come as a country (although in the past year appear to have gone backwards in other ways)

  • @nomaidens5734
    @nomaidens5734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Who cares what gender you would marry, if you love some one enough to consider spending the rest of your life with and someone saying you can't because of your gender is the most shallow thing I've ever heard

  • @NumziNumBoi
    @NumziNumBoi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +545

    a question for the woman at 7:45 :
    if marriage is about children, then should we ban infertile heterosexual couples from getting married... its the same principle is it not?

    • @TheaTheGenius
      @TheaTheGenius 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Nium Johal And if we are also strictly following the biblical doctrine, shouldn't any woman who wasn't a virgin before marriage be put to death? The bible is rather clear about that; as well as demanding that women be totally subservient to their husbands, not speak unless spoken to and generally never leave the house without their spouse. So techincally this lady, for all her preachy attitude is actually breaking her precious biblical laws herself.

    • @howey935
      @howey935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Thea The Genius just another typical religious hypocrite judging people when only god is meant to judge people. Reading the bible turned me into an atheist.

    • @tinyass2007
      @tinyass2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nium Johal she is fucked in the head.

    • @luke7727
      @luke7727 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think so. You do raise a very interesting question. I think marriage between a heterosexual, infertile couple is like a symbol of child bearing marriage - something good and pure. It encourages settled domesticity, seriousness and responsibility and allows those who could not have children to foster those things. People who marry in later age often mark an understanding of their union's lesser significance by being less extravagant with their party and invitations. It is a symbol in a pure sense and the rings and traditions are perfect tokens. I think those marriages are still good and useful.

    • @alexbennet4195
      @alexbennet4195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ambro Wait, you're actually defending that argument?? Infertile heterosexual couples can marry because they're "good and pure", but gay couples aren't??? You're acknowledging that marriage has symbolic value, but only for straight people??? At least you've been driven to the point where you're outright admitting your bigotry.

  • @GuyWhoLovesGames
    @GuyWhoLovesGames 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    There is no logical reason to be against gay marriage. It doesn't affect straight marriage in any way; in fact it doesn't prevent us from doing anything. If you disagree with the lifestyle, don't practice it.

    • @calvintyler9281
      @calvintyler9281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James.H. fear is an illogical thing because people fear what they don't understand there's nothing wrong with that you can't help but get scared once in a while but if you use that as an excuse your weak and repulsive

  • @BennAndIzzy
    @BennAndIzzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i fully cant comprehend that this was only 7 years ago

    • @olliedwards8069
      @olliedwards8069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, I was only born in 2004 and it feels very late for someone my age.

  • @xavierrose8208
    @xavierrose8208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    "We're uncomfortable with this." OMG WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS

    • @Sam-op6us
      @Sam-op6us 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whispering Jack lol truuuu

    • @xavierrose8208
      @xavierrose8208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @Chris Rosendahl Hansen Straight people aren't oppressed, lol. And I typed, not spoke.

    • @xavierrose8208
      @xavierrose8208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The FACT is, FACTS don't care about your feelings. And the FACT is the general public wanted same sex marriage. Stop relying on feelings to make arguments.

    • @xavierrose8208
      @xavierrose8208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Should I care about your sexuality? I never asked, so irrelevant. So am I, but I'm not apologetic to people who put their emotions in the rule of law. Law is not about wrong or right, or bad and good...its about legal and illegal. Number one thing if you study law is - law is determined by what's legal and illegal.
      You don't get brownie points or a gold star for being gay. Irrelevant to the conversation. You've misjudged the comment entirely. We're talking about changing laws, and emotions are not what we use as Carte Blanche to rule out the definition of a law or right. If every politician who was sad about famine ruled by emotion there wouldn't be a homeless person on the street. Stop being ridiculous...

    • @damla5665
      @damla5665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I HAVE A POINT i mean, it is all about WHAT made them uncomfortable. if me or someone just existing as a gay human being makes a straight person uncomfortable, fuck them! they are not right. but if a gay person tongue fucking someone in the middle of a park, they have all the rights to be uncomfortable. because i wouldve get uncomfortable seeing someone’s PDA if theyre gay, or straight.
      i mean, in the end, it’s all about the equality i gurss.

  • @jeremygonzalez7433
    @jeremygonzalez7433 7 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Marriage is about love and not about having children

    • @frankpeter6851
      @frankpeter6851 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jeremy G
      Community property and end of life care... etc.

    • @theuniversalscholar2362
      @theuniversalscholar2362 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeremy G - It's about tax breaks and handouts.

    • @Zoney06
      @Zoney06 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's more about attaining social status and attention seeking rather than expressing love.

    • @markoleary3050
      @markoleary3050 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeremy G ... Marriage is a religious ceremony. No religion in the world recognises the concept of same sex marriage. To call a "civil partnership" ... a marriage is offensive to the billions on people who follow the three abrahamic religions!

    • @markoleary3050
      @markoleary3050 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plushguyconnor ... you sound like a bird! Grow a pair. Marriage is a religious event! No religion in the world endurances same sex marriage. Facts don't care about your feelings. My position isn't biast. As I have no religion! But at least I have the respect to offend billions of people's faiths! Civil partnership is not marriage! And never will Be! Call it whatever you wish! But it is not reality! By all means dream away..

  • @jonioannou4359
    @jonioannou4359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s not changing any definition of marriage - it’s still marriage & doesn’t detract in any way from heterosexual marriage!

  • @jeanbanks7301
    @jeanbanks7301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mick Hucknall was on point!!!!
    This day and age folks homophobic attitudes totally bewilder me.

  • @NzPhenomenon
    @NzPhenomenon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    To have someone state that they’re ‘uncomfortable’ really perplexes me. How do you think lgbt people have felt all their lives? You think they live comfortably? LGBT people face prejudice left, right and centre. That’s something to be uncomfortable with! You feeling uncomfortable is definitely no comparison to what all these people endure...

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @tubehows4life You just have to look at the injustices and harassment gay people have to deal with, along with the high levels of depression in the gay community that occurs as a direct result of the sigma and rejection experienced everyday, to see that no one is gay because they think it's trendy or cool.
      Homosexuality has always existed. There were periods were homosexuals were much less visible due to the higher levels of intolerance at those times. You do know it was actually considered a crime before?

    • @amyisaway7800
      @amyisaway7800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      tubehows4life i think it’s nice that people feel comfortable saying they’re gay, although, if you read some of this comment section, i certainly wouldn’t be if i were gay... and i think it’s more that people have always been gay, it’s just more widely accepted now. the LGBT community has always been massive, just underground, and now it’s at a forefront in the media, etc. people may disagree with someone’s sexuality, but it doesn’t mean it’s going to go away anytime soon.
      (also, as a side note, gay people do still suffer horrifically just for being who they are, being killed, shot, beat up, harassed, even if it’s not the biggest taboo anymore. i mean, just read some of these comments. the women in these videos aren’t the victims - if they’re happy being openly homophobic on live television, happily so, i think they’re bold enough to deal with the backfire of it.)

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @tubehows4life
      "Any trolls are being shot down and overwhelmed"
      Thank God they are shot down. It would be a huge concern if they were not. But the fact that they are here in the comment section say the most violent and gross things in proof homophobia is still a thing.
      The fact that the majority of people accept homosexuality does not change the fact that homophobia still exists. And homosexuals are regularly physically assaulted just for being gay.
      You can't state homophobia is gone and "that's a fact", when all facts show the opposite. I provided you with many link to various sources that all show homophobia is sadly still very alive in the UK.
      And comparing you're experience as a cyclist to the horrific experiences that gay people have to deal with is just stupid.
      If the Gay Pride is not your thing then fine. A lot of people (not only homosexuals) enjoy the parade and go along to party. So it has become bigger over the years. It doesn't change the initial message of the gay pride that is the gay community should not have to hide and should be proud of how they are.

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @tubehows4life
      You said "demonstrating exactly the point that harassment of gays is all but gone." in your last post...
      I gave 5 separate links that all show homophobia is still a huge problem. And physical assaults are still happening at a daily basis. You just choose to ignore them as it doesn't fit your narrative.
      And stop it with the bicycle thing. That's your typical go to when losing an argument: "I'm the real victim here. Poor little me!"
      As for the gay pride, you are aware that not all homosexuals go to it? It's not everyone's scene. Stop trying to define the entire gay community with one event.
      Any festival or large event has some pretty crazy stuff going on. It doesn't reflect peoples everyday lives.
      Have you never been to any parties where people were letting down their hair and getting a bit wild?
      Why do you keep saying it's a fad? Are you saying it's a choice???
      Please don't tell me you're functioning under that out-date assumption that has been disproven thousands of times?
      Here are the links about homophobia and violence we still have to deal with in the UK again if you missed that post (but my guess is you are just rejecting anything that doesn't suit your narrative):
      www.gov.uk/government/publications/national-lgbt-survey-summary-report/national-lgbt-survey-summary-report
      --> Some extracts from the link:
      "At least 2 in 5 respondents had experienced an incident because they were LGBT, such as verbal harassment or physical violence, in the 12 months preceding the survey. However, more than 9 in 10 of the most serious incidents went unreported, often because respondents thought ‘it happens all the time’"
      "The existing evidence suggests that LGBT people are at greater risk than the general population of being victims of crime"
      "70% said they had avoided being open about their sexual orientation for fear of a negative reaction"
      And it actually seems homophobic incidents are becoming more frequent in recent years :
      www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/gay-lgbt-hate-crimes-stats-rise-four-year-physical-verbal-homophobic-abuse-community-a7933126.html
      "More than one in five LGBT people have experienced a hate crime or incident due to their sexual orientation or gender identity in the last 12 months, compared with 16 per cent in 2013."
      Here you can see the number homophobic incidents per 10000 LGBT people in each region that were actually reported in just one year :
      www.amnesty.org.uk/homophobia-map-uk-england-wales
      But in all sources here above, you will find that over 80% of homophobic hate crimes go unreported (see also here : "Four in five LGBT people (81 per cent) who experienced a hate crime or incident didn't report it to the police" www.stonewall.org.uk/lgbt-britain-hate-crime-and-discrimination )
      So as horrific as that map is, it's only the tip of the iceberg.
      You can also see many stats here that show how frequent homophobia and discrimination against gay people is. And that includes, everyday life, schools and the work place:
      www.stonewall.org.uk/media/lgbt-facts-and-figures

    • @sarahdavey7711
      @sarahdavey7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @tubehows4life
      So unsurprisingly, you have dismissed all links provided as being "leftist".
      By the way this one is a government link : www.gov.uk/government/publications/national-lgbt-survey-summary-report/national-lgbt-survey-summary-report
      Here are just a few extracts:
      "The existing evidence suggests that LGBT people are at greater risk than the general population of being victims of crime"
      "Despite this progress on legal entitlements, research and evidence has continued to suggest that LGBT people face discrimination, bullying and harassment in education, at work and on the streets, hate crime and higher inequalities in health satisfaction and outcomes."
      "Over two thirds (68%) of all respondents with a minority sexual orientation said they had avoided holding hands in public with a same-sex partner for fear of a negative reaction from others."
      After simply dismissing any evidence that doesn't fit your narrative, you start with the "what about" arguments.
      "Gay people get harassed, but what about Jahova's Witnesses?"
      "Gay people get harassed, but what about cyclists?" (still can't believe you seriously use this as an example...).
      This kind of logic is toxic. As if one form of discrimination justifies or lessens another.
      All discrimination is condemned whether it's to do with ethnicity, sexual orientation or religious belief.
      And defending one group, doesn't mean you can't defend the other as well.
      But you'll never convince me that we need something special put in place for cyclists... "Cycliphobia" is not a thing.
      Homosexuality isn't a choice. I don't see what you're trying to prove by bringing paedophilia into the mix. That has nothing to do with homosexuality.
      Comparing a consensual relationship between two adults and a predatory behaviour towards a child is totally absurd and offensive.
      "Where has anyone defined homosexuality by just one event? Give direct referenced quotation."
      ==> You're the one who brought up the Gay Pride as if it had anything to do with the topic. You seem to think it is some kind of proof that homophobia is over and being gay is just a fashion choice.
      Again, attending a Gay Pride is one thing. Living as a gay person is another.
      As you said, there are non-gays at the Gay Pride. The Gay Pride is fashionable. But living as a gay person is totally different. We're talking about someone's life, not what clothes they are wearing...
      And again, like in one of your previous comments, you compare being gay to nazis.
      While simultaneously claiming homophobia is disappearing.
      I mean this is homophobia: "it's a fad and people get caught up in fads all the time (see Nazi fads, drugs fads, depression fads, tattoos fads, etc)"
      You just put being gay on the same level as nazis, drugs, depression and tattoos...
      That's mess up.

  • @sibby3663
    @sibby3663 7 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    I simply don't understand people who are against gay marriage.
    Love is love, everyone is the same. It's human rights for everybody!

    • @paulkeogh9435
      @paulkeogh9435 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sibby Rose I think you'll find its about population control and social engineering ..couples reproducing is what the state required for a working population..that is no longer a necessity

    • @calvintyler9281
      @calvintyler9281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BU11ZxX go to hell we don't need you

    • @hasan_z
      @hasan_z 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes and tomorrow if a man wants to marry his mother you will support that too!

    • @johnnonamegibbon3580
      @johnnonamegibbon3580 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, things a a bit more nuanced than love is love, but they should be allowed through law. Even though most gays don't really marry. It's a non-issue. Speaking of love being love, I fell in love with my coworker while my wife raised our kids at home. Don't hate me, love is love, the heart wants what the heart wants.

    • @samuelk.2040
      @samuelk.2040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Siobhan Rose Hey I love your name ❤

  • @Lifthill_lauren
    @Lifthill_lauren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The legend who said
    “Not any more!”🤣

  • @o_o-lj1ym
    @o_o-lj1ym 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People seem to think that homosexual relationships are a threat to heterosexual relationships. Which is just dumb.

  • @aidencurl
    @aidencurl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +692

    "marriage isn't about love" - crazy christian 2014

  • @heatheralice4704
    @heatheralice4704 6 ปีที่แล้ว +634

    Because heterosexual marriage works out soooooo well

    • @ollierose6284
      @ollierose6284 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      As if...

    • @dimosereqko2
      @dimosereqko2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes,actually marriage is better then not

    • @tomza649
      @tomza649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Anton Babani do you understand that homosexuality is common among the animal kingdom, and we're not particularly natural beings either.

    • @tomza649
      @tomza649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Anton Babani oops you're wrong there, some animals have populations that are *exclusively* homosexual, sheep for example where about 10% of Rams are exclusively homosexual, I'd say that'd be enough to be considered a lifestyle

    • @tomza649
      @tomza649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Anton Babani you obviously wouldn't have because the farm has very few Rams, and because in the presence of humans they would be focused on fleeing from you. Do you understand statistics by the way? Also here: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3085551/

  • @willgoodall1529
    @willgoodall1529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Still baffles me how somebody can have a problem with SOMEONE ELSE'S sexual preference

  • @sabanajafi5340
    @sabanajafi5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who's here during quarantine, because you've finished all the tv shows and movies on netflix.

  • @Memo36011
    @Memo36011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    "Marriage isn't completely about love--"
    Me: *Exscuse you??*

    • @sapphire3215
      @sapphire3215 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ThEn WhAt IS iT aBOut ThEn!!!

    • @Damon242
      @Damon242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That one girl to be fair, the original purpose of marriage was political and used to unite houses
      It didn’t become a romantic concept until much, much later

    • @Memo36011
      @Memo36011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Damon242 true

    • @Damon242
      @Damon242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      DespairNemesis the entire argument here as to biological children in marriage is basically a slap in the face to every solo parent, widow or adopted parent.
      It’s also conflates two very separate issues.
      An individual or child (isn’t exclusive to children) will seek out role models regardless of whether they have a mother or father present - it’s not guaranteed that those parents automatically fill the role by simply being present.

    • @scootergang8326
      @scootergang8326 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bitch saaaammmeee

  • @penglingwhisperer3382
    @penglingwhisperer3382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1345

    Bigot : “Marriage is about a man and a woman”
    Heckler : “Not anymore!”
    Audience : “wooo!!”

    • @UmmCarl
      @UmmCarl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So are Muslims and Jews bigots in your tiny little world? Because all three religions, Christianity, Islam and Hebrew are opposed to gay marriage. And they have as much right to their opinion as you do without you dismissing them as 'bigots' because they don't agree with you.

    • @elliotcarpenter2823
      @elliotcarpenter2823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Carl Swanson theyre entitled to their opinion...of course they are. Enforcing their religions views onto others is just wrong. And I have Christian and Islamic friends that are incredibly supportive of LGBT+ people. They can have their opinion but enforcing it into other people’s lifestyles is too far.

    • @jmcman6104
      @jmcman6104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Carl Swanson Just because I’m Christian doesn’t mean I’m opposed to gay marriage my dude

    • @FW10826
      @FW10826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@UmmCarl in fact yes, if they dont believe in equality they are bigots, many Christian's believe in gay marriage

    • @tahliarose877
      @tahliarose877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@UmmCarl
      I'm Jewish and I support

  • @gaberaph
    @gaberaph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There are nearly 70 million people in the uk, and that woman thought 660 000 signatures is earth shattering?

  • @feraljim
    @feraljim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When Elton John got married it wasn’t the first time the vicar had seen his ring

  • @starslushii
    @starslushii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    Isnt it scary that this was only 5 years ago

    • @odin8352
      @odin8352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      We still have a long way to go.

    • @Fleurig-xr5mm
      @Fleurig-xr5mm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      In the Netherlands same sex marriage was legalised in 2001..

    • @odin8352
      @odin8352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @Beverly Mandahl Do you even know what's wrong with pedophiles? Because if you do you wouldn't say this. Two grown up people in love =/= raping kids!

    • @hawwy1987
      @hawwy1987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Beverly Mandahl Prove this law. There is nothing about this at all. Not sure if just trolling or a conspiracy theorist.

    • @svetliopopgeorgiev2999
      @svetliopopgeorgiev2999 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It makes me happy to see a person with an Ahri avatar making this comment =)

  • @meliathemuffin7416
    @meliathemuffin7416 6 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I'm sterile. guess that means i shouldn't be able to get married then!

    • @johnmoore9862
      @johnmoore9862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      MeliaTheMuffin, That’s about the long & short of some of these arguments, makes you kind of sad for some of these people who want to deny you the rights they take for granted.All the best.

    • @lewisner
      @lewisner 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only to a tin of pasteurised milk (joke)

    • @KubPlaz
      @KubPlaz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whar does that mean?

  • @StRoRo
    @StRoRo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    8:41 look at the fear on her face when the lady next to her says "Why cant you accept us being married" lol

  • @saulshellokittyphone
    @saulshellokittyphone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Marriage is about children.” Sooo you gonna be putting up a fight if two straight people get married and choose not to have kids? Same-sex couples can be parents too ya know. 🙄

  • @PeterJohnJnb
    @PeterJohnJnb 9 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    There is still, despite HUNDREDS of hours of television debate et al on the topic, still not ONE.SINGLE.PERSON. who has been able to explain, to any degree of efficiency, just why gay marriage will affect anyone else's sanctity of marriage.

    • @Sirracco
      @Sirracco 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Peter-John de Kock Indeed!

    • @TheAdeleLonestar
      @TheAdeleLonestar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Raimund Bilei So, by your logic and based on your comment, you are also opposed to heterosexual marriage *unless* the couple has children, correct? If you answer no, then you'll need to edit your response above as it only speaks to marriage where children are involved. So .... not only are you a religious bigot, you're bigoted against those that are childless. Gee. TH-cam really brings the asshole out in some people!

    • @TheAdeleLonestar
      @TheAdeleLonestar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Raimund Bilei Yes, religious bigot. You want to encroach upon the lives of free people and legislate via your superstitious beliefs, (i.e. "religious"), and based on those religious beliefs, you are intolerant of certain people's right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Hence "religious bigot". Do you comprehend the use of those two words together in a sentence? I am happy to clarify further if it's still a struggle for you to understand. Based on your comment you are against people marrying if they are medically unable to have children. With that very rare and inane ideology why wouldn't you relocate to a Hutterite community or North Korea or somewhere else where you can feel snuggled up in a political/religious cocoon? You would be much better off in a theocracy or fascist state. It is just unbelievable how many people like you yearn for big brother, big-government ... to step into the lives of free people. And you call ME a liberal, lol. No liberal here ... as for you though, you've made it quite clear you wish for your religion and your government to intercede in the lives of free folks. Ugh. So many religious busy bodies who want a theocracy instead of our wonderful republic. Very disappointing. :(

    • @TheAdeleLonestar
      @TheAdeleLonestar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Raimund Bilei Weird. And I expect you to dodge this fact the same way you dodged my last ones, but the animal kingdom has many, many examples of same-sex mating. You're 0-3 here, cowboy. ;)

    • @TheAdeleLonestar
      @TheAdeleLonestar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Raimund Bilei Surely you've heard of chimpanzees? Vampire bats? These aren't just companionships, (though several mammals do mate for life in *same sex pairs*), these are animals that rub genitalia together, they *mate*.Okay. ONE more time. You said: "People who choose not to have children should not get married", and then proceeded to call me a liberal. I then said YOU are the "liberal" that you are trying to stereotype, as YOU are the one whi wishes for government to encroach upon and interced IN the lives of free people. This is a republic, jack. Not sure where you live, but there is no big brother here. Do you believe every single couple who has been married in the last 2,000 years who did not beget children should not have been married?