Woman Received Child Support While Father Had Kids for 6 YEARS!
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Notice how the mom wasn’t held accountable for any of the money she got without even having the kids. The Court system is for women and not the fathers.
That is perverted and twisted. It's got to changed. Soon.
Apparently 60% of court cases is WON by the fathers - if/when they fight for their kids, so I guess it's not just for women.
lol its Phil fault
I mean I wouldn’t have paid anything if I’m watching the kids he better than me
@@secondchance5080 then you would be in jail. The courts don’t care about you. If they said pay they don’t care about what changes for the man. They don’t care if you have the children, all they care about is that you pay. If you don’t pay you will be punished. Just like this man had his kids for four years and they still say he own back money.
ANY mother that gets child support when the father has the children.Need to pay every penny back and face charges.
True. The father should have gone to court sooner regarding a change of circumstance. The court still has a long way to go when it comes to fathers' rights.
The AG should have filed fraud charges against the mother!
She was following court order also the money went thru the AGO
The mother and the case worker should be charged
Why didn't he go to court before now. He had the kids since 2019.
The father should have gone to court a lot sooner and filed a change of circumstance. Luckily, she was a no-show, and he got credit for the time he had them. She should have to pay him back the difference, though, and then some.
She needs to be charged criminally and forced to pay all the money back
That father should get all his money back. Why should he be paying when he has the kids? Insane
I’m sorry but he’s slow af for paying for that long. After the first month he could have modified the order. Silly Af and stupid af
Don't think for one bit that she a state employee that they not gone take that money from her expeditiously. However, there are processes unfortunately that are not through the same courts. But if you listened they said they will be getting things cleared and refunded what's holfjng and the possession credit and go back to him
@@missdee212 That is the problem. We cannot have a court system that can impose payments, but not order them to be returned. It is one sided. If a judge cannot refund a payment, then they should not be able to order a payment to begin with.
My mom collected child support from my dad for years. I found out at 26 that he wasn't my biological father, and she knew she cheated on her husband all along. She tried to pass me off as his being they were married. She divorced him and demanded child support for a child that wasn't even his! Over 20k she received. Had my dad put in jail and every for child support back in the day. I was only a paycheck for her. None of the support money went to me. She is now alone and suffering with no friends to call on. She had a long run but a short fall.
Wow just wow
I hope even in her death bed you avoid last visit. I definitely would.
Talk about Karma
Hope you are able to maintain a relationship with him, if he wants it, because chances are he still loves you no matter what. Peace to you.
Parents who disregard their kids will end up being disregarded in return!
We absolutely need the laws to be changed
@@daradiant1 for real?
@Christina no way in hell will the government just give up that money
@@daradiant1 can you please elaborate on this?
I hope so , i think they just as worse as the IRS.
I’m not sure the law is the issue. I think it’s the application of the laws and the lazy use of case law that’s brought us to this.
Any time you hear ‘ in People vs Smith’ they are using case law as a precedent to ease the case burden. It’s lazy, not always wrong, with bad judgements getting cemented as ‘law’.
My kids lived with me for over 2 years and ex wife missed 4 court dates before they finally gave me custody and stopped taking child support. I was paying $6,500/month on 3 kids and alimony. Never got the money back. I had $12k in lawyer fees on top of that. The system is stacked against men.
I agree and I am a woman, sh*+ is bold asf
That is absolutely disgusting and absurd. I'm so sorry. What about taking her to civil court?
That’s horrible smh
So sorry they did this to you. The only thing I can say is your kids will respect you when they are adults & that is worth more than gold.
Dang, that's brutal!
How does even happen. She collects money and doesn’t have the kids. Sickening
This same scenario happened to me starting in 2004. For nearly 5 years the AZ. Division of Child support enforcement garnished my paycheck after I was granted full custody of my 3 young sons. They completely ignored legal documents and sent my money to a woman who hadn't seen her children in 5 years! I pawned family heirlooms, ate Ramen noodles and Worked any side job I could find, just to make rent, and keep the lights on. The hardship we endured was painful and never should have happened.
This didn’t happen! If they knew you had FULL custody! Unless you had JOINT custody! But STILL it didn’t happen IF she never saw the kids!
I'm so sorry that happened to you!
You suffered enough, but your kids really paid the price.
@@janettemartin4604It does happen
@@janettemartin4604 it does happen that waffle there are several men I've seen sat the same thing
But a woman thinks she knows what a man deals with shocking 😂
It's outrageous how fast the child support court holds a father accountable when he misses his obligation but doesn't do anything when a mother abuse the system and take money she knows she shouldn't get .
What is "outrageous" is that this father waited six years to do something about it. The court can't do anything if they don't know whats been happening. You snooze, you lose.
@@nickv4073they could make the mother pay retroactive child support the same way they make Fathers before a court order is issued. That would at least bring him back to even but he would still be out what he should have been getting the whole time from her.... But you're not wrong, it was hella stupid to wait all this time the fix it
It's blows my mind. That even though they are taking the money from his check. And still owes more money($11,641). Haven't finished the vid. But seems like they would use this to cancel out what she owes. Like a sneaky sucks to be a guy court thing.
@@nickv4073but they are quick to back charge a man for child support if the mom waits 6 years to apply.
@@nickv4073 Guy was just happy to get the 304 out his life and still have his kids and was probably terrified if he went to court he would get screwed over again.
That’s good that he finally got child support dismissed because she was trying to run over on him. She definitely need to be paying him back child support and the lawyer fees
That’s a great point Brittany!
@@pinkbooklessons that’s not fair for him to pay all of that and he had them for 6 years while she got to do what she wanted to do
I'm glad the father finally received some relief. However get the other party to repay back money is rare. I've only seen one case that the mother had to repay child support. That only happened because my friend who was assumed the father wasn't, he was also a Police Officer. That was the only case that I've seen a reversal.
No one know that she was trying to run over him, once these things are set in motion the State does all of the rolling and the custodial parent is passive. (what ever happens - happens because of those slanted ass legal construct! Even if they had an understanding between themselves - The State will not usually help. The State will have both paying at the same time in Illinois - They real crooks!
@@whitejodeci8926 it's for the benefit of the system, they definitely get their cut out of it, the system is run by a bunch of criminals who use these black women to aid & abet them in their criminal activity
And I will bet money NONE of that child support was saved for those kids to go to college or get a trade.
exactly
Of course not 😢
It never is
I think he should take a shot in civil court.
Child support isn't for college lmfao
It's to support the child with their Day to day needs
Most orders also have a thing that says who will pay what of the college 😂
How could that happen??? She should be giving him child support.
He will have to file a lawsuit to get any monies he paid that she received while he had the children. Sad!
The fact she didn’t even show up for court says a lot about her character and her intent. She knew they were gonna cut it off and she’s embarrassed. Good for him. Too bad he couldn’t get back refunds 🤦🏾♀️
She's had a federal job all those years.
They also said their is back payment owed. That's probably money he owed prior to previous 6 years.
He was concerned about his children. If he had went after before, because she wasn't the primary custodian of the children, but had legal custody, he didn't want his children taken away from him and given back to her. So he stayed silent, supported his children, and continued to pay child support to her. He didn't want the drama or the trauma to his children. His priority was in the right place. That's why she didn't show up for court. She knew she was wrong and thought legal issues might arise against her. Her children will know what she did while their father was providing for them twice over. At this point she will be lucky if they ever speak to her again. She committed fraud and got away with it.
I am sick and tired of this slavery court. We need to gather together and protest this mess. The entire family court system is a travesty. These people are evil and wicked.
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Child support is unconstitutional. Men need to come together and end it.
I'm down for it. How should we start though?
You bet because they make a lot of money off of this
Agreed, I got railed after raising my daughter her first 4-years, they claimed that as back payments of 4-years, and used the income from a job that had not worked for more than a year, and at that time I was on unemployment. They constructed it this way to dis-enfranchise, and divide us.
My BM passed in 2008 and Friends of the court still wanted me to pay support when I have full custody. Immediately, I got a lawyer and got off that foolishness
That is crazy and unfair to you.
So sorry for both situations
All of that support wasn't going to your children but to other kids too
They should have ordered the mother to pay child support and back child support.
Someone owes him back child support.
sad thing is that the father has to pay the lawyers and court fees ... so unfair
Well he'll be getting a check
@@b.schannell747 u can bet they will do everything in their power to hold on to that money.
@@sgtblackrock4997 sad... wouldn't drag my kids dad...they need him. Blessings to the men of the world 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
I guess that little bit of refund can go to court fees
I’ve seen them make an inmate pay court cost rather than mom. The system if for women
She should have to pay that man every dime back.
Accountability is like kryptonite to modern women. Fellas be safe out here
RIP Kevin Samuels
There are far more men who refuse to pay to help support their crotch goblins than women who successfully game the system like this. Making a blanket statement like that just shows your ignorance & bias.
Didn't the judge say the father has to appeal for backdated payments? or am I mistaken?
It’s awful for women also . These “feminists” are like snakes even to other women. They lach on to any married man they can
But the Feminazi doesn't need a MAN for nothing😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's CHILD support, NOT mom support!! The money mom got did not go towards the kids!
Oh, they want to double dip alimony + child support.
This is a shame , our child support ststem is fully broken. Im sorry men, that there are women that behave this dispicably..
Nope they probably won't go after her because she'll get that pass they give women, one minute they're strong and independent and the next minute they're just weak women.
I had my kids, my kids mom was still receiving child support. I went to the county and applied. They got her for fraud, canceled my $103,000 arrears and I started receiving child support from her. In California
In Cali??? Dude you’re lucky because California is one of the strictest states when it comes to child support
There is the option of pressing charges. The problem there is that most attorneys advise against it, as it can look bad on the father in the family court proceedings. AND in criminal court it actually looks bad for men to press charges on women too. it is really disgusting.
This man and others do also have the option of a civil case... suing her.
@@dalimitless01 It's true. I'm in Texas. My child's father repeatedly would go months without paying. My daughter had her card most of the time. So I wouldn't notice until seeing the statement they'd send each month. Then would slip my mind. I remember one time I finally called because he swore he was.
They said they wait 3 months. then send him a notice. then after 90 days if he does not give sufficient reason, they schedule an appearance, which takes more months.
Look how much this guy supposedly owes.
Texas is pretty lenient
You are absolutely right that she should pay the court costs. She should not only pay the court cost but his legal fees.
That woman is despicable to continue taking that money from him.
OMG 12 minutes in this judge sounds like he wants the best for the father.
This almost had me in tears of happiness.
But gave him no money back
@@victormuhammad1393That’s a completely separate legal action. He has to sue the mother
@@ryanm4013The judge should have advised the father to take the baby momma to court to sue Her and get the fraudulent child support returned to Him. She should also be jailed for fraud!
@@stephendriscoll7549 He has a lawyer sitting right next to him. His lawyer should be advising him to fo this.
This doesn't surprise me at all. My husband was telling me his ex-wife did the same thing with her other ex-husband. He had the kids, and she wouldn't give up the child support. She lied to my husband, but he found out later on through the ex.
Unfortunately, the ex went to jail for non-payment, and she would laugh and talk mess. My husband said that's when he started to take her seriously.
My husband should've taken heed. He went through hell after that with his own child he shared with her. It's so sad that when women do this, they never face any criminal sanctions.
@James Sonatore I agree, my husband won custody but she kept harassing us. Eventually, she turned my stepson against us because she couldn't live without child support. She took him during a summer visit and refused to send him home. The amount of money I watched my husband spend on litigation just to be with his son was insane. I'm so thankful he's turning 18. Now she's trying to force him to go to college, and she claims she is going to take a new support order in FL until he's 21. He's been telling my husband how sorry he is for everything.
But remember "women are oppressed" just sad
I never took my husband to child support
we worked thing's out together without involving the white man and we all was happy 😘 ♥ ☺
@MzzNewYork I didn't take my ex-husband to court either. We both were in the Army. My husband's court woes opened my eyes.
Only when someone close to a woman is affected do they see this crap court system for what it is
This is awesome. A man actually winning in Family Court.
Even a broken clock is right, twice a day.
I had custody of my two older daughters and never received a dime of child support. I had an order for the mother to pay. When I went to support enforcement. I was told by the case worker that support enforcement was there to collect money from the fathers, not from the mothers. This was over 20 years ago.
Now, when I got custody of my son who has a different mother, I once again went to support enforcement. The case worker again basically tried to put every obstacle in my way until I contacted the head person in the state of Washington. I had recorded the conversation with the case worker. She first tried to say I was combative and argumentative, that I had used foul language and that's why she hung up on me. She didn't know I had recorded the conversation. When I played the recording, it showed she was the combative one, she was the one that used foul language, she was the one that was trying to make me jump through all these costly hoops to get her to do her job. Not only did I immediately start getting child support but the case worker was fired. How do I know? She called me from a private line cussing me out because she got fired.
People really have no idea what men go through. Now, when a man is being garnished and he has custody, he must come up with a 5 to 10k retainer before any lawyer will even talk to him. On top of that, the minute he tries to get the support order changed, most women will fight to take custody back. Those reasons are why most men just let sleeping dogs lie. Most men are just happy to have their children and that's more important then stopping the child support payments.
Wow
Wish I could share this story
Sometimes I Ask Why Are Men The Constant Punching Bags of Society, And Women Don’t Have To Account For A Damn Thing They Do?
This Wicked World Belongs To Women If We Are Being Honest.
Seems like they make it personal with some ppl. I know 2 women from 2 different states that pay child support and the pressure was present from day one to pay.
This is facts said this in another comment
My husband went through this with his son when he was a minor. The mom was getting child support of $300 _a week_ for him & she was getting food stamps & Medicaid from the state. She was double dipping. He went to do his taxes 1 year & was supposed to get back $15k & they took it all because of her getting food stamps! She didn't notify her worker that the child support payments increased from $60 a week to $300 for the last 2 years so they put the bill on him for it. He was beyond pissed. He ended up taking her to court & pressing charges against her for fraud.
My step son is 32 now & literally squatting at a home with illegal power & his gf who's with him is supposedly 5+ months pregnant! She already has 4 kids & doesn't have custody of any of them.. his mom only speaks to him when she needs something. When he was 19 she wanted him to come cut her grass. We drove him down there & as soon as he was done, she told him to call us for his ride back home! He'll date anyone who shows him an ounce of attention because he never got it from her!
Sad for your step son because of it was that bad for him as a minor y'all should have fought her for custody. My mom filed all the paperwork for my step dad to get his son out a toxic situation
This is what’s mind boggling, people doing report the issues and then complain later. Dude in this case paid child support knowing he had his kids and didn’t modify the order. 🤦🏽♀️
She should be ordered to pay him child support for the last four years he had the kids.
While he was supporting his kids. His ex was using the child support as income. But the dad also should have said something a long time ago.
He definitely should’ve gone back to court.
The courts don't want to deal with it and tell the Father to kick rocks!!
He probably had no more for an attorney. In my husband's case, they never took him seriously until he showed up with a lawyer. Some courts play games and constantly delay the case.
The man is behind the eight ball when it comes to child support court he has to prove everything but the woman all she has to say is it’s him without proof, then she controls the situation knowing men don’t trust the system because it’s against us so unfortunately we just accept it 🤔🤷🏿♂️🧐🤦🏿♂️
why should he have said something when nobody is going to care or listen about what he's got to say? why bother? going back to court ? it means, more money spent, more stress, developing depression, and what for? no matter how much you fight, this is really hard for us men to deal with, 0 accountability for women and they know it, that's why they act like that
My brother was receiving $110 child support from his ex-girlfriend. He found out she was bullying her new baby daddy. And she asked the new guy for $1600 a month.
My brother took her to court for an increase. She paid it and never spoke to her daughter again.
Damn
@@newlifegroupinc She went to Miami for seven month's. My brother took her to court for full custody.
Lol I thought women are better with children. I'm happy this channel is exposing the LIES
Woooow
kaboom
My ex wife is 84k in arrears on child support! People tell I am lying until I login and show them! Texas OAG is useless however my friend he is 3k in rears and they truly trying to jail him!
Wow 😯
I would like to know if more money is made off of men in jail opposed to women in jail
Equality is so awesome.
@@nickbeam5541 there is
I believe it.
I love seeing a Judge that cares.
The problem here is when he had possession of the kids permanently he should have take the mom back to court for custody. He messed up by not going back for custody. So mom been living off him without having to any mother duties she been living high on the hog.
Yeah he should have but court is very agonizing and frustrating so I understand him just wanting to be happy having his kids though he was getting priced out from the gold digging mama.
Evidently y'all don't know how expensive court is you giving the lawyer 5to 6 sometimes $7,000 for a session. The judge and the lawyer both belongs to the bar they both are robbing your pockets . Basically it's just legalized extortion
@@eddieelliott1496 I know first hand. It’s either you get fleeced by the courts or the baby mamma. He lost 18 stacks waiting to do this and she been living off him with no penalty. Probably taking care of her and her new man.
People go back to court and get denied. He needs to sue for the money or join other and file a class action lawsuit against the state
@@JustThinkingAboutIt Honestly it hurts to say right now I would take this as a Big win and stay out of the courts unless it's needed. Soon as courts get wind you want to fight after a win that's when they fleece you and dig up more dirt like some tax form from 2000 lol. Let this dude live now and progress.
I have a similar story, my children were 5 and 7 when the Mom and I divorced, I got them back when they were 6 and 8...and I had to pay child support to the mother until they both reached 18
They are now 28 and 30 but they lived with me in my house and the mother collected child support, the courts would not stop it, I brought school records, mortgage papers to prove that I was in the home, medical records, etc. and they still would not stop it, the judge didn't care what I showed or what I had
Glad that I'm done with that, I have a much better life now
These Judges have God to account to. F*ckers !!!
That's a shame. This system is wicked.
YOU NEED TO SUE THE JUDGE FOR THE MONEY YOU PAID‼️‼️‼️
Who was the judge? This story should be told and that judge should be punished.
It's a hustle. The court sees that money as income for the system and if they can't find an alternative to replace that they will keep you on it. It's extortion at its highest level
People are quick to take money, and slow to give it back
Sure she owes him that money
Was glad to see this judge side with the father in this case
There is no justice for Fathers and this judge just proved this.
I learned alot watching. In my 30's with no kids. This is nerve wreaking
@PinkBookLessons your channel is an everyday reminder why I am 40 with no kids and yet to be married. Folks always ask why I don't have kids, THIS IS WHY!!!!!
Not all women are that disgusting and evil. I applaud you for being smart enough to hold your legacy and seed to a higher standard. To many one night stands and rushing into sex.
the minute you are caring full time for a child, child support should be the first stop, not 4 years later.
This case is not the only one it’s sad that mother knew she was in the wrong
He should take her to court to recover his funds. That will set her hair on fire.
When my siblings and I were taken into foster care, my biological mom would still use our wic and other state benefits, take out loans in our name using our social and use our birth certificates to use to smuggle people through the border. Shes still the worst person I’ve ever known.
Wow 😲
Damn! 😳
Wow that’s different kinda wickedness
Wow what kind of person ruins their kids like that way!? Letting you guys to foster wasn't enough I see. Bless your heart!
I thought they changed the laws so that raggedy parents can't do that anymore Taking out loans in their children's names
This story hits close to home. My son just turned 18 last year but I had to fight for 5 years to get child support even though I had primary custody and she lived in another state 8 hours away. Her excuse was that she was re married and kept having more kids and said I am a stay at home mom now and can't afford child support. Let a man go to child support court and say I can't pay child support for the same reason. You would be laughed out of the courtroom and be called a irresponsible parent bringing more kids into the world without supporting the ones you already have. I asked for back support because it took 5 years to finally get support and the judge asked me how much I made like that should have anything to do with getting back child support. I was only making $60k per year and the judge told me I made enough to not need back child support. The audacity.
But if the roles was reverse. Yes would have thrown you on jail
That's sucks, Thanks for your story. Men are fearful of the things other men are fighting with.
When I took my ex back to court for back support, the judge told me that I made too much being a petroleum engineer and that I didn’t need CS.
I then got smart and took her to civil court and got the judgment I was seeking and she still hasn't paid up.
Wow what a shitty judge. How come the women don't get asked these questions
@Miguel Bermudez What the hell does your income have to do with that? Why are these women getting off scott free. I've only seen the police get away with more.
She should have to pay back everything from the time he got the kids & pay him chid support & medical insurance.
This man been done dirty. And he seem like he is such a good man… smh. He sitting there patient, he’s listening and he has been respectful. Glad he won
How does he owe back child support if they have been garnishing his wages?
Won the case and still has to pay the court fees Of course, not a single word on what they are going to do with the fraudulent ex that's been getting free money for the last 4 years.
Ladies and gentlemen of the jury: I present to you, women's equality in the year 2023
Mate, just as likely this was court ordered by a conservative leaning male judge.
Nice to see justice partially served in this case. Thank you for sharing.
File a lawsuit against child support enforcement and file a lawsuit against the mother, you will win.
Why isn’t she facing charges ?
Collecting child support even though she doesn't have the kids! I'm soooo glad I don't have kids
That should be against the law! 🤨
The reason the system does not care if the mother has custody is because the state gets a percentage from the child support as a kickback. They do not make any money if the fathers are not paying into system. *It doesn't matter who has custody as long as money is being exchanged and the state is getting their cut.* If you have not filed to change it when you have custody the state has no problem collecting for the duration of the child's adolescence and teenage years.
And therein lies the problem. I really wish he had not waited so late. I also wish that he can get some type of retroactive refund. But I guess that is asking too much.
Good luck trying to go to court and get it overturned as it almost never happens. States benefit all too much on child support and don't want to make things right
Wow
THIS IS THE TYPE OF GOOD BLACK MEN THESE MODERN WOMEN CLAIM THEY CANT FIND,,,,AND FU#K OVER WHEN THEY GET THEM AFTER THEY HAVE BEEN RANNNNN THRU!!!
He can sue her for not only court costs but back child support!
He should have gotten his refund on every dollar. She has gotten when he had their children And also her pay him back to child support
The judge was genuinely happy for the guy! I love it! 🎉😊
I am so glad you did this case study. The mom should be prosecuted and she should be responsible for court costs! The mother should also repay the last four or six years of his child support payments. He could’ve used the support for the kids…I just thought about Senior Fees!! That lady needs pay up!!
He could use that money to pay off the debts accrued while taking care of two kids all those years. He. Is a good man. I know his kids love him big time.
It will never happen. Men are hounded into the ground but women seem to sail through these situations with zero culpability.
I was awarded sole custody of my daughter when she was 17 years old. Trust me, this is a big deal in New York State since child support goes to age 21 or higher if the child is in college. The very day that I was awarded custody, I petition the court to have child support terminated. I was able to get a date three weeks later, I made sure my job did not take any more money out of my paycheck since I had a court document stating that I had custody. The mistake many fathers make is not petitioning the court to have a terminated when it’s over. Some assume it will stop automatically but it just doesn’t.
NY State hit me the very same way. I had joint custody of my son until he was 13, then he moved to MD with me until he finished college (which I payed for).
Initially I filled all of the appropriate documents to terminate/modify the support order, but the State/Onondaga county denied all attempts change the order.
After dealing with child support enforcement for almost 20 years I filled a suite against the State and Onondaga County and was awarded a six figure judgment.
I understand that not everyone has the means to fight a corrupt system on their playing field, but at the very least that young man needs a better attorney!
That is true. Many fathers who take possession of the children don't really know the options they have once custody has changed or they believe what the others tell them and don't question it sometimes in fear that the others will take back the children.
That's true I went through the same thing it actually took me four months to get it terminated now check this out im serious about what I'm about to text it was court ordered to terminate my child support in the city the did child support sent my information to a county court house to be reopened I kid unot I had to go to a different child support office that I was zoned for for help because the one I was zoned for refuse to help me and they helped me big time help me get my over payments back to ms Troutman the dam Goat
@@phillipdemry9346 what they did was unethical, immoral, and it sounds illegal. If you had a lawsuit against them I hope you win.
Blessings to everyone that sees this comment 🙏🏽
Thank you 😊 to you as well
Amen 🙏 and to you as well
Amen. God bless!
Why did he wait so long to stop them from garnishing his wages?!?! Geez!
Scared , I’ve seen guys in this situation and they got ordered to pay MORE .
He was probably afraid she would try to take the kids away from him so she can keep getting the child support
He was getting his check garnish plus bills and taking care of children. He probably had to save to get a good family attorney. In Texas cheap lawyers be working for the the state against you even though you hired them.
And that mother had the audacity to accept the support payments every single month!!
I glad he went to court to get off child support. I wish he done it sooner but better now then never.
Here's a breath of fresh air. When I was a kid, something happened with the state (I don't know exactly what, I was little) that they raised child support for me and my brother. We were doing fine with what we got, but my mom was concerned that the increase would cause hardship for my dad's kids. So she raised hell with the state and told them to put the support rate back down to what it was, so ALL the kids could be adequately supported. She held the interest of all the children in her heart, not just her kids. I cannot describe the amount of love this woman has.
This is such a feel good story right here. Man takes of children for four years, pays absentee mother child support, puts both kids through high school. Child support is terminated, debt wiped, and held funds returned to him. Complete vindication from the state.
Except the mother received money she didn’t deserve and so far isn’t paying the dad child support or returning all the money she got from him when she should not have been receiving anything. It’s absurd, there should be six monthly or at least annual adjustments on support paid due to changes in income and where the children are living so any changes that need to be made are done so asap not years later . That woman should be charged with fraud because she knew damn well she should not have been getting any money from the Dad .
Good for this dad…sounds like he’s done exactly what he should to be a good dad. And the more I watch of these to more I see where moms get a lot more leniency than dads.
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Things won't change until we hold women accountable SMH been through this as a child. God bless my late mother but I'm still healing from remembering my mother manipulating us to ask my dad for more money acting like we didn't get enough just to find out every time my mom pushed for child support increase it was denied because my dad paid above and beyond and paid it even when we spend summers and holidays at my grandmother's and dad's. In the end, ladies you lose if you move like this because it will come back to bite you and your children may resent you for it 😢 please don't take the easy route because it will cost you much more in the end. And men, stand up and say something. You're letting them get away with it you're part of the problem. Stop being so nice. Literally an ahab and jezebel situation. Be a man and speak up and stop getting abused. You deserve kindness and respect too.
Thank you for sharing 🙏
You're letting them get away with it ???? you're part of the problem??? Stop being so nice??? Literally an Be a man and speak up and stop getting abused ??? Apostle, it's pretty obvious that you don't have children nor have you have gone through this ordeal, 1. that is why dads take babies mama to court ,hoping to get some justice (but then you get all the odds against you) , dads are not letting babies mama get away with it, the states supports them and that is why they get away with it, is not up to dads. 2. You are part of the problem? Really? Do you think any father loves having to experience this shit? Really?. 3. if you want to act tough not paying child support then you go to jail, so, it's not about being nice , it's about being responsible as a father for your child and at the same time saving your ass of not going to jail. 4. Be a man, speak up, stop getting abused you say? I will pray to the almighty God for you my child, so that you don't have to have such experience, you're not prepared for that.
The women are not the true problem. It's the court system. They're doing this on purpose and are using selfesh nature of women to destroy the nuclear family.
The judge has the authority to take the money but cannot tell the holding agency what to do with it in a case that he is overseeing. Everything is set up so that they can hold you down as much as they can. What a justice system we have.
Thanks for a feel good story. We so often bathed in the negativity around men and courts.
They should take her to court and make her pay back all the money she got
This happened to me. I was still paying support to my ex wife while my kids lived with me. The child support enforcement agency told me I had to get permission from my ex wife to stop the support. Talk about crazy.. SMH..
But flip the script and your name would have been Ben Dover.
I was in this exact situation and I took it to court, they stopped the child support to her and the lawyer for the state asked me how did I convince my daughters to come back home and state to the court that they preferred living with me? His next statement was, do you want us to get child support from her now? Thirsty AF, The system has issues to say the least!
Thank you so much for uploading this. I'm representing myself against the State and my ex in Federal court right now. This is valuable information. I also have possession of my child too. This is a confirmation. Thank u. BTW, he is responsible for court costs because he was dutifully served to appear because he was in arrears. If they have a legal and valid reason for the summons in child support court you still have to pay the court cost as the defendant.
Keep us updated on your journey! Be prepared and have your records together. Blessings 🙏
@@pinkbooklessons Will do
@@DocMatthews0311 Thanks big bro...
i absolutely love your case studies! Thank you for creating this content.
The system is so broken, and unfair, that it’s actually maddening. At least this guy finally got some relief.
Some people are shameful. How come the woman gets the money even if the kids don't live with her. Shameful. 😢
I’m always baffled at how the guy, even when innocent, always starts off looking like the deadbeat enemy in CS court.
Like the man comes into court feeling pressure 😬
The biggest plus that a man can do in these cases is to wear a suit! Don't care if it's too big, small or wide. A suit shows that you mean business.
@@jasonakumetsu4929 Really? What data do you have that a man that wears a suit does better in a child support case?
What does a "deadbeat" dad look like?
Yeah I’m calling ducktales on that one bc I dressed up and I was treated like garbage even though she was the deadbeat and the abusive one. But I had a female judge and she sided with my ex.
@@TheMightymo05 One who doesn’t care about the well-being of his child(ren)
Wonderful result. Nice to see an example of a good man winning. 👏
Good work PBL. Love to see a man finally get justice. My brother finally got his CS order reversed, and was paid back. His Daughter's mother owes him now, and they are not going after her.
Can he file for garnishment of her wages and tax refunds?
That mom should be paying child support and back support
The mother should be paying court costs and child support.
Awesome!!!! I’m so glad that justice was served for him 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
wait...she KNEW she didn't have these kids and was collecting upwards of $20K and said NOTHING?!?
I'm not surprised that the woman in this case hasn't said anything about not having the children or not living in the state. I believe that the ex never showed up in court is because she believed that there was no way that the man would fight for himself. Also, she probably believed that the court would side with her because she is the "mother" and the courts are notorious for siding with the woman. Just because you pushed out two children doesn't make you a mother. This woman is going to have a rude awaking when she realizes that the money she counts on to fund her life is no longer flowing, she will go to court to fight for her children back and put the father back on child support or she will tell the father she wants to see her children (in her state) and not return them and take this man back to court for sole custody again and child support. This is sad all around.
Luckily the judge awarded him custody. He said the underage child is to remain with him. Crazy thing, he will be 18 in a couple of days.
Yeah, still sucks though.
Also, I just subscribed to your channel. I love your videos because you aren’t afraid to tell it like it is. I agree with a lot that you say. Keep it up.
Such a respectful young man/dad
The mother has been Robbin him for years she should go to jail!!
As a woman who would never do this to a man thsnk you judge for backing this man 🌾🌻🌻🌞✨✨🌞🌻👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He’s not bright for continuing to pay knowing he had the kids the whole time lol he waited til they were adults to clear this up. Smh not that bright.
Here we go, Honorable Judge Weasel again 🤣🤣🤣.
Glad it worked out so good for him, but normally other parent shows and fights, so it gets much nastier. This is exactly why it's absolutely necessary to get orders in place for custody & support, even if you work it out together without a hearing. If both parents agree it's not a big expensive ordeal, put your agreement on paper and file it with the court. It's meant to protect both of you when someone inevitably changes their mind.
I don’t understand why they aren’t questioning the mother as to what she did with all that money?!?! That was FOR THE CHILDREN! NOT HER, it’s appalling! She wasn’t held accountable for a thing! So unfair!
Had my son form 13 until now, he is 26 never got a dime for those minor years, It's hard for those who do right by their kids.