Aye, aye. A male can be a lying, faking golddiger too. He didnt give a sh** about me, only the money he thought he could lie, embellish n give me fake sob stories thinking im a sucka, a suga moma for his whims. BS. I left, im gone, i realize i was an idiot mark. Im glad im done w/that piece of sh**. Im a Q😮ueen & the King all by myself
Yes, I was so nice to him. He was nice to me and out of nowhere he ghosted me. I just Blocked his ass! I don’t beg., Silence all day and all night. I’m never going back either. Can’t stand his stupid ass. I’m unbothered and Don’t care!
Remember ladies, WE are QUEENS. Queens don't chase, they don't beg. They stand in royalty and they know their worth and they realize this worth does not change, regardless of who is or is not in their life.
I had to block him on everything so I could heal. I deleted all the photos and chats. It was too painful to see his presence. I had to go no contact for myself. My silence is my power.
Same with me I had to delete everything on my phone Dispose of everything in my home that was ours We had 6 years together all of those years was of him cheating lying going on dating sites he took men women's phone numbers in the end I made him leave The same day I disposed of everything of his even going through draws cupboards disposing of everything of his I am a queen I am strong resilient and beautiful
Wasted 4yrs on him , finally moved on and he messaged after six months asking how is was . I ignored and trust me since then I feel like the most powerful woman on earth . I noticed that he had blocked me for one day and unblocked me . Am unbothered Thank you for this amazing video My silence is my power indeed
Only 4 how about 5 then left him alone and 10 more and just recently left him alone because I knew him for over 26 yrs and man I wish I had of not went back
@erikaanthony2726 Look how you've grown ! Never have regrets. You did it your way darling. And all by yourself. So pat yourself on the back + walk into that Self Love + Self Care. You've earned it Lady ❤.
Honestly, ladies, if he really doesn’t care. You going silent is not going to impact him that much. Guys can be very driven. And if they want to be left alone, leave them alone.
Are you a psychologist? This video and what these women believe in is that silence is power, and it's to regain the power back after going through abuse or a breakup. We are all in pain here, and making ladies feel worse by your comments isn't very nice of you. Your right that if the men don't care they don't care but that isn't the point here.
You're anything but a psychologist, you respond reactively, like a wounded animal, which tells us that you're definitely not one, but seeing one would be very helpful to relieve all that pent up anger you got there. Good luck healing all that pain, Diane.
Whenever I would say something he didn't want to hear, he would say "SILENCE" in a growling commanding voice. Now I am. He didn't even realize he drilled into my head. He didn't realize he was giving away his power and empowering me. MY SILENCE IS MY POWER
Love Bombed Me for 6 years . Finally gave in. When He knew He had Me- I could Feel the Devaluing. I Went Silent. My Friend said He Started Posting a New Girlfriend all over His Facebook and how They’re SO in Love! She’s Nothing compared to Me. I’ve been Tempted to Text or Call. But, NO! I’m Keeping My Dignity! Silence is My Power!
He doesn't deserve you. You can do so much better without him, lady😊. We get emotionally attached and that's what kills us. You have class! Don't track him. Cut the common friends and the Goss. Let him go. You move forward and achieve your dreams. Find yourself and celebrate the new you❤️
I did this after a long time boyfriend broke up with me. I stopped all contact. Never called, contacted him, nothing. Then after some time, I saw him, I had moved on, and I was really dressed up, looking good....i acted like 'oh, yeah, hey' then drove away smiling....it worked! He came crawling back. We spent some time together but I kept him at arms length. just friends. Then he wanted me back....I said NOPE! I met someone else....then saw him later and he was a mess, telling me I was his girl, the best thing he ever had, blah, blah, blah, I said sorry, you had your chance! HAHA!!!
I am crying - this was so powerful and empowering! After 2 years of giving it my all, I left two weeks ago. He just reached out saying, "I miss you :(" and I blocked him, this time for good. He said that before, and I gave him another chance, only for him to keep on with his antics. I miss you offers no information about how he's changed, what he'll do differently etc. Only my silence and space will give him that reflection. And when he fully realises, I'll be long gone. Good riddance. I'm so relieved I reclaimed my power and my self-worth.
@@DavinaconcettaItaliano thank you!! 25 days of no contact now! It's like weaning off a drug, very difficult, but I'm so proud I'm choosing me. He has texted me four times (they still show up in my blocked messages folder), things like, "I don't want to lose you" and "I love you" and "this is so hard, I can't believe this." The old me would have thought wow, he loves me, and kept giving chances. But now all I see is low effort, empty self-centredness and manipulation. Pathetic and thoughtless and zero accountability. I deserve so much more. I won't fall for it anymore. I'm healing.
The man who rejected me.......his own friends had told him I was the best thing that ever happened to him. They had never seen him so happy. I was the first woman who didn't use him. But he rejected me and got with a woman who stole from him, and the one after that did the same They just used him and dumped him. We never reconciled.
I’m in no contact from a toxic man and I was so addicted to his toxic behavior and this video is helping me stay away from his toxicity. He was slowly killing me and I needed to be strong enough to stay away from him. I’m proud to say today is 325 days of no contact. This is the longest I have ever been away from him before. I’m trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered heart still. Day by day it’s getting better and better now.
Proud of u lady. You don't need validation from a loser. Chop off the emotional connect, straighten your crown and lift your banner of victory, he's gone....leave him behind. Chase your dreams and make yourself great. He's just another pebble on the shore. The right one will come along. Never talk about the past or it will overtake your new joy.
No more repeating myself. No more tears that he will see. No more fighting every night. No more disrespect. Every time I start to doubt my decision, im going to come to this video. I've told him so many times you're taking me for granted. All the sacrifices I made like moving states away from my friends and family. No longer will i be manipulated. No longer will i have my phone recording so i can show you how you treat me when you drink. No more anxiety when you punch the walls. No more hiding in the rooms trying to hold the doorknob and trying to hold the door back from you because you love to remind me how easily you can unlock the door. No more toxicity. My silence is my power. Thank you for this video. Keep it up. Edit: hearing you call us queens reassures me so much. I try and tell him that i should be treated like a queen and he tells me im no queen. I am a queen. Thank you again. My silence is my power ❤
Beautiful video. It's given me insight too. Heck these dreary sad men. They don't deserve good women. U move forward and learn to hit back next time...
From a very young age, I have never fought for someone who tells me they don't want me in their life. I use this as a lesson in life. You can never force someone to like you. Walk away from a loosing battle.
I ran across this video today for a reason. It is the best one I have seen on the subject. I am loving it. My ex ran to another after four years with me , and wanted to be friends. Nope.I let him go without tears or drama. He thought I would always be a part of his life. Nope. He texts occasionally at birthdays, holidays. I have decided no no longer respond to texts or calls. My year of inner work each day is paying off for me. I am moving on. I am becoming my best version. I am returning to the happy secure person I used to be, actually even better. Peace and love .💕🙏🤗
Thank you🙏 I needed it today. My ex is still sometimes lives in my head rent free but my silence is my strenght. I went no contact after his disrespect and discard. Never again. I'm not waiting for him. Karma has no expiry date and knows everybody's address. Sending love to all who suffers from avoidant's mistreatment. Go no contact. Delete and bin all related stuff. Keep healing. You will be very proud of yourself. And if the feelings/pain are unimaginable ask for help, but not him/her. Consider healing from your childhood traumas, limerence, love addiction, co-dependency, cptsd, rejection sensitivity disphoria etc. Pray. There is a reason why you suffer soo much. God bless you all.
His moving on while we was still together I found him when I he had nothing losing his job his wife devor e him but I chose to stay with him now he chose other girl over me but is fine my silence is my power thank you for the video😅😅
I honestly don’t care what they think or feel now. That’s their problem and not mine. You take my efforts and love for granted. I have no problem walking
My silence is my power and I keep him blocked. Over 2 yrs since he discarded me. I hope the storm that builds continues to become the storm of the century! My silence is my power!
COMPLETE and PERMANENT SILENCE. No desire to reach out. Narcissist don’t care. Divorced him after 19 years…..thought I would never leave him…and hopefully he did find someone else. That part.
That must be why he got so mean after about 4 months. I was never looking for power. I just went into survival mode. We have to take on all the responsibilities they had when they were there. But hearing this years later is another step in healing. Most healing I find comes from hearing real truth about the situation. We so blame ourselves. It was very painful. Thank you.
It’s hard to put into words that silence is my power! Now , I know the strength of being silent and that I know it sting his heart and that I’m irreplaceable person ! Silence is my power! Thank you very much for the advice! Please continue to teach the right path and to maintain our peace and energy’ your teachings are highly appreciated sir! Thank you and God bless you!
During 26 years of pure misery and suffering, I decided that if I had to ask Yah to watch my back/over me while I sleep to protect me from my husband who suppose to protect me and keep me in the arc of safety then it was time for me to go. It was hard, hard, hard, but It was like I found a peace mind beyond my own understanding. So exhilarating. So much joy. I did take my power back and I will fight for it. I can't let that go. I no longer care what he thinks or feel. I have lost all manner of respect for him. Silence is what he is being served. He is not my friend nor will ever be again. Today, I Pray for him, only because he is my children's father and they need that somewhat relationship with him. I forgave him because Yah says very clearly that He forgives AS we forgive. I move onward and enjoy my life. I thank Yah for my peace of mind. It's beyond measure.
@@JustLookingLikeAWow03 he's abusing u verbally & u r still asking girl wether u should block him or not!!! Go ahead just block him, what u expect he 'll come running to u wd flowers, even if he's coming to u he 'll sure be abusing u again for slightest of things!
Your Silence After His Rejection is Killing Him. Steps: 1. Not A Big Deal At First ( 4:03 ) 2. The Quick Realization of Change ( 10:50 ) 3. The Odd Habit of Checking In ( 17:13 ) 4. The Annoying Feeling of Discomfort ( 22:33 ) 5. Looking For You in Small Moments ( 26:08 ) 6. The Frustration with New Connections ( 28:45 ) 7. The Unavoidable Regret ( 31:21 ) Mantra: “MY SILENCE IS MY POWER !”
How can he feel my absence if I’m the cook, homeschool teacher of his grandson, the person that does everything from laundry to groceries.. but he holds all the monies .. he’s given me congestive heart failure... from the past stresses of trying with him for the past 39 years... how can I be silent in this household???? Much respect.. I’m loving this Philosophy! In the last few years he’s been having actions of a narcissist! I’ve researched these traits he’s been sending and yes it’s that up and down... he’s playing a game with me it seems but he’s acting as if he’s dumb to everything!! And it’s all me ! I have no way of leaving or finding a new life yet! Praying God will give me wisdom in this mess !
He married without even informed me. Im in heavy pain and can't able to move on. 😢. I hope he shouldn't be happy with his new life. But he has to pay off to my cry and hurtings. 😢
Love the empowerment! This also goes both ways if a man is being mistreated. Don’t allow anyone to belittle your inner strength & power. You can start your day over at anytime. Demand respect. ❤
Keep it up❤ My silence is my power. I just wrote it on a large card and placed it where I will see it every day. I know my value; I do not beg, I do not chase. I will henceforth only ATTRACT men who are willing and ready to invest in me.
Silence is not about returning him. You return him and everything repeats after a while. Good relations means he gives you and you give a little bit to him. At the beginning of relations all you give him is your smile and "thank you". Man will never leave a woman which he supported a lot and invested a lot. When you start a relationship keep silence all the time. Do not give him much of your precious time. He must deserve this. Keep silence and all what you should think about is how to please yourself but not how to please a man. Think about what you enjoy, what you want, do your most crazy projects in realisation of your own needs and interests. Share the ideas with him. Man will be pleased, man feels his significance if he helps a woman. Keep silence if a man dares to ask you anything to please him, but be vocal asking him to do something to please you. Men love queens, not chambermaids. Step out and keep silence if he ever vocalises his needs. Consider his demands as a personal offence. You can get engaged in supporting some of his needs after he proves multiple times that he serves you reliably, after a few years only.
He treat me horribly and I stayed with him at his worst, gave him food to eat, visited him 100% of the time defended him from people who said bad shit about him. Only for him to turn around on the week my brother passed away and say that he never wants to be in a relationship w me and that he’d been talking to two other women. From that point I went ghost . Fast forward to now and through 2024, he has tried to reach out 5 different times through spam email. 😂 I keep telling the universe that I will NOT be goin there again. I do not have any interest he got what he wanted! BLOCKED. great blessings to come for our amazing strength and resilience 😢❤
With my silence, I found the person I thought I lost forever. Myself. The peace that I have discovered I had no idea existed. The clarity of how to move forward with my goals with or without him by my side is the freedom that silence bestowed upon me. I am not the same person anymore. I know my worth and so does he. It only took two months of radio silence. I highly recommend it. Everything in this video is 100% true. Believe it.
I chose silence from the minute i left. Have only communicated with him when there was letters for me at my old house or something i left that i wanted him to give me. he knew I was wildly unhappy and he was too but he wasnt prepared to do anything about it, or even talk to me. i realised there was nothing left and quietly took my stuff while he was at work and left. He was shocked that after 10.5 years of doing whatever he wanted and me always being there, I wasn't gunna be there anymore. He cannot replace me coz there's noone like me. One day he'll realise what he did in pushing me away. this video makes me feel triumphantly vindicated in my decisions. My silence is my power.
What a beautiful narration !! Even the voice actor did a great job, it feels like how a healthy body is slowly affected by cancer. One day at a time the cells are growing and taking down the body while the person doesn't even know when it started
I was tempted to text him “Happy Birthday” a couple weeks ago.
I am SO glad that I didn’t do that!
Proud of you sweetheart
You go girl! Because I'm sure he DIDN'T text you for yours!
My silence is my power
So proud of you❤❤❤
@@jeriwilliams5131 sure huh.
Gossip sucks
By my silence....I don't care what he feels or thinks.....all I know is that I take back my peace & power 💖🧘✊💫✨
My silence is my power.
Aye, aye. A male can be a lying, faking golddiger too. He didnt give a sh** about me, only the money he thought he could lie, embellish n give me fake sob stories thinking im a sucka, a suga moma for his whims. BS. I left, im gone, i realize i was an idiot mark. Im glad im done w/that piece of sh**. Im a Q😮ueen & the King all by myself
I don't even care whether he speaks to me again or not, the good thing i regained my inner peace
@@juki3451 I love that!
Yes, I was so nice to him. He was nice to me and out of nowhere he ghosted me. I just Blocked his ass! I don’t beg., Silence all day and all night. I’m never going back either. Can’t stand his stupid ass. I’m unbothered and Don’t care!
Remember ladies, WE are QUEENS. Queens don't chase, they don't beg. They stand in royalty and they know their worth and they realize this worth does not change, regardless of who is or is not in their life.
Very True 🤔 Thank you for Sharing Queen 👑🙏
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Thank you ❤
Exactly!!!🤷🏽♀️
My silence is my power! I'm victorious! I'm irreplaceable.
U an me both u .got that past right !💯
Your silence is your power!!!
Amen x 2
@@KrystalLee-i3w😮
I had to block him on everything so I could heal. I deleted all the photos and chats. It was too painful to see his presence. I had to go no contact for myself. My silence is my power.
I had to do the same thing, for myself. I unfriended on social media, deleted photos, put away gifts, deleted texts and phone contact. No more.
@@Flufero23 it is easy😢😢
Same with me I had to delete everything on my phone
Dispose of everything in my home that was ours
We had 6 years together all of those years was of him cheating lying going on dating sites he took men women's phone numbers in the end I made him leave
The same day I disposed of everything of his even going through draws cupboards disposing of everything of his
I am a queen
I am strong resilient and beautiful
@@kathreenoconnell2843did you block him? Or he blocked you?
I still can’t do the same things as you did, still keep the photos, contact, text 😢try to move on
Wasted 4yrs on him , finally moved on and he messaged after six months asking how is was . I ignored and trust me since then I feel like the most powerful woman on earth . I noticed that he had blocked me for one day and unblocked me . Am unbothered
Thank you for this amazing video
My silence is my power indeed
What a loser he is for blocking and unblocking 😂
Only 4 how about 5 then left him alone and 10 more and just recently left him alone because I knew him for over 26 yrs and man I wish I had of not went back
@erikaanthony2726
Look how you've grown ! Never have regrets.
You did it your way darling. And all by yourself.
So pat yourself on the back + walk into that Self Love + Self Care.
You've earned it Lady ❤.
@ thank you that means a lot
17 years in the drain but by the grace of God and this video, I’m ok niw🎉
I'm a queen who chooses her worth. My silence is powerful ❤
Amen
Honestly, ladies, if he really doesn’t care. You going silent is not going to impact him that much. Guys can be very driven. And if they want to be left alone, leave them alone.
Are you a psychologist? This video and what these women believe in is that silence is power, and it's to regain the power back after going through abuse or a breakup. We are all in pain here, and making ladies feel worse by your comments isn't very nice of you. Your right that if the men don't care they don't care but that isn't the point here.
@ yes I am. Does that change how you feel? Probably not. But thank you for your reply and I hope you find the healing you deserve.
shut up diane
You're anything but a psychologist, you respond reactively, like a wounded animal, which tells us that you're definitely not one, but seeing one would be very helpful to relieve all that pent up anger you got there. Good luck healing all that pain, Diane.
@@ValeJustice-u6j Well said🎉
I choose my worth over his comfort ❤️🙏🏻
Oooh that hit, nice saying 👏
My silence is my power. I never chase I attract. What is for me will come to me effortlessly. ❤
Whenever I would say something he didn't want to hear, he would say "SILENCE" in a growling commanding voice. Now I am. He didn't even realize he drilled into my head. He didn't realize he was giving away his power and empowering me.
MY SILENCE IS MY POWER
Update?
I hope u gave him permanent silence
@TheOracleOfApollo Most definitely.
U deserve better ❤
Wtf! He was a narc. You are so free my darling! Live in your powerful peace Sister we win❤🎉
Love Bombed Me for 6 years . Finally gave in. When He knew He had Me- I could Feel the Devaluing. I Went Silent. My Friend said He Started Posting a New Girlfriend all over His Facebook and how They’re SO in Love! She’s Nothing compared to Me. I’ve been Tempted to Text or Call. But, NO! I’m Keeping My Dignity! Silence is My Power!
Same!!!
@renehalstead3522 That's right. Don't respond to him at all. Your silence is your power! You got this! 👏
He doesn't deserve you. You can do so much better without him, lady😊. We get emotionally attached and that's what kills us. You have class! Don't track him. Cut the common friends and the Goss. Let him go. You move forward and achieve your dreams. Find yourself and celebrate the new you❤️
@@lisadobz1320He's a loser. Straighten your crown, dust your robe n move forward ❤
My silence is power, im victorious! I am irreplaceable.
Are you alone? Did he/she come back?
I did this after a long time boyfriend broke up with me. I stopped all contact. Never called, contacted him, nothing. Then after some time, I saw him, I had moved on, and I was really dressed up, looking good....i acted like 'oh, yeah, hey' then drove away smiling....it worked! He came crawling back. We spent some time together but I kept him at arms length. just friends. Then he wanted me back....I said NOPE! I met someone else....then saw him later and he was a mess, telling me I was his girl, the best thing he ever had, blah, blah, blah, I said sorry, you had your chance! HAHA!!!
He blocked me everywhere what to do can i block him too?
@@JustLookingLikeAWow03Don't block him... Stay silent... He will come back to you
I am crying - this was so powerful and empowering! After 2 years of giving it my all, I left two weeks ago. He just reached out saying, "I miss you :(" and I blocked him, this time for good. He said that before, and I gave him another chance, only for him to keep on with his antics. I miss you offers no information about how he's changed, what he'll do differently etc. Only my silence and space will give him that reflection. And when he fully realises, I'll be long gone. Good riddance. I'm so relieved I reclaimed my power and my self-worth.
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@@DavinaconcettaItaliano thank you!! 25 days of no contact now! It's like weaning off a drug, very difficult, but I'm so proud I'm choosing me. He has texted me four times (they still show up in my blocked messages folder), things like, "I don't want to lose you" and "I love you" and "this is so hard, I can't believe this." The old me would have thought wow, he loves me, and kept giving chances. But now all I see is low effort, empty self-centredness and manipulation. Pathetic and thoughtless and zero accountability. I deserve so much more. I won't fall for it anymore. I'm healing.
U did the right thing. Sometimes we don't need a man to validate our worth. Don't look back.
The man who rejected me.......his own friends had told him I was the best thing that ever happened to him. They had never seen him so happy. I was the first woman who didn't use him. But he rejected me and got with a woman who stole from him, and the one after that did the same They just used him and dumped him. We never reconciled.
Good for you.
Keep loving you.
And your hands on the driving wheel.
Enjoy Life.
That is terrible what happened to you, and you certainly did not deserve that, but he did deserve what he got back. What goes around comes around.
@@elenabernardo5024 He's been married 4 times now and is living a good life managing a tourist resort in Fiji.....
Men today want porn stars, not good women.
My story exactly
I’m in no contact from a toxic man and I was so addicted to his toxic behavior and this video is helping me stay away from his toxicity. He was slowly killing me and I needed to be strong enough to stay away from him. I’m proud to say today is 325 days of no contact. This is the longest I have ever been away from him before. I’m trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered heart still. Day by day it’s getting better and better now.
Proud of u lady. You don't need validation from a loser. Chop off the emotional connect, straighten your crown and lift your banner of victory, he's gone....leave him behind. Chase your dreams and make yourself great. He's just another pebble on the shore. The right one will come along. Never talk about the past or it will overtake your new joy.
No more repeating myself. No more tears that he will see. No more fighting every night. No more disrespect. Every time I start to doubt my decision, im going to come to this video. I've told him so many times you're taking me for granted. All the sacrifices I made like moving states away from my friends and family. No longer will i be manipulated. No longer will i have my phone recording so i can show you how you treat me when you drink. No more anxiety when you punch the walls. No more hiding in the rooms trying to hold the doorknob and trying to hold the door back from you because you love to remind me how easily you can unlock the door. No more toxicity.
My silence is my power.
Thank you for this video. Keep it up.
Edit: hearing you call us queens reassures me so much. I try and tell him that i should be treated like a queen and he tells me im no queen. I am a queen. Thank you again.
My silence is my power ❤
Your strength and resilience are inspiring! 💪
Beautiful video. It's given me insight too. Heck these dreary sad men. They don't deserve good women. U move forward and learn to hit back next time...
My silence is my POWER.
It really is life changing.
From a very young age, I have never fought for someone who tells me they don't want me in their life. I use this as a lesson in life. You can never force someone to like you. Walk away from a loosing battle.
Walk away and never look back
Was your father the first one you had to walk away from? ❤
I ran across this video today for a reason. It is the best one I have seen on the subject. I am loving it. My ex ran to another after four years with me , and wanted to be friends. Nope.I let him go without tears or drama. He thought I would always be a part of his life. Nope. He texts occasionally at birthdays, holidays. I have decided no no longer respond to texts or calls. My year of inner work each day is paying off for me. I am moving on. I am becoming my best version. I am returning to the happy secure person I used to be, actually even better. Peace and love .💕🙏🤗
It's so empowering to see you prioritizing your own happiness and growth! You're doing amazing.
Wow! I'm impressed by You Thank you for Sharing 🤗🌹
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Your video is perfect 👌
Thank you for this gift.
@@masterstoicphilosophy Thank you. Great video!❤️🙏
Thank you🙏 I needed it today. My ex is still sometimes lives in my head rent free but my silence is my strenght. I went no contact after his disrespect and discard. Never again. I'm not waiting for him. Karma has no expiry date and knows everybody's address. Sending love to all who suffers from avoidant's mistreatment. Go no contact. Delete and bin all related stuff. Keep healing. You will be very proud of yourself. And if the feelings/pain are unimaginable ask for help, but not him/her. Consider healing from your childhood traumas, limerence, love addiction, co-dependency, cptsd, rejection sensitivity disphoria etc. Pray. There is a reason why you suffer soo much. God bless you all.
"lives in my head rent free" humour is a sign that you've moved on.
Thank you and God bless you too, I pray daily for strength to stay away from these toxic heartless people!
Thank you
Did you block him? Same thing happened with me now 😢
His moving on while we was still together I found him when I he had nothing losing his job his wife devor e him but I chose to stay with him now he chose other girl over me but is fine my silence is my power thank you for the video😅😅
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MY SILENCE IS MY POWER ‼️👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽✌🏽
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I choose my worth over his comfort
My silence is my POWER ❤
I now can really start healing because Silence Is My Power
A Very good reading ! A woman who is okay to be alone is powerful.
My silence is my power. Freshly heartbroken 😢😢😢😢 crushed
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I’m almost 4 months post breakup and the pain still comes and goes in waves. 😞
Be proud. You can find YOU now. And deserve all that Self Love. Peace 🙏🌺
@@melissabrzescinski494
It will, always, until you recognise how wealthy you have become, with this lesson.
Be well 🙏🌺❤️.
It's so hard...I'm so sorry
I honestly don’t care what they think or feel now. That’s their problem and not mine. You take my efforts and love for granted. I have no problem walking
My silence is my power ,I am taking over the control,The Victory is Mine.
My silence is my power and i will make it through.🙏🏻
We will make it through ❤
My silence is my power and I keep him blocked. Over 2 yrs since he discarded me. I hope the storm that builds continues to become the storm of the century! My silence is my power!
My silence is my peace and strength
COMPLETE and PERMANENT SILENCE. No desire to reach out. Narcissist don’t care. Divorced him after 19 years…..thought I would never leave him…and hopefully he did find someone else. That part.
I’m fresh on this journey of silence. 15 years. Please send me some of your strength 😢❤
My silence IS my power
Keep it. My silence is my power!
You are absolutely right! It's your strength and confidence that you're choosing to cultivate!
Love this. It is like this man has seen my life. Now I keep my my silence. Because I know it is my power. Thank you for helping me. X
My Silence is my POWER
Ur voice saving my life daily....let our ALMIGHTY LORD BLESS U🎉
My silence is my power. ❤ I'm the winner, a woman of worth. This Queen will move forward as my silence is my power.
Silence is a respect yourself...& your dignity.... move on be happy again ❤
Ur on point . I'm a VIRGO woman who's chosed to walk away from Cancer man, keep it up,!!
You’re right - your strength is inspiring! 💪
The Bible condemns astrology as the occult. Your basically cursing your life. Run to Christ.
My silence is my power. Your message gives me clarity Thank you so much Gratitude
My silence is my power.. 💯% I live for me I bring energy to myself.. and bring myself peace..
I am so proud of myself, I now know my worth! My happiness is not determined by how anyone feels about me! I am enough ❤
My Silence is my POWER!!!
That must be why he got so mean after about 4 months.
I was never looking for power. I just went into survival mode. We have to take on all the responsibilities they had when they were there.
But hearing this years later is another step in healing.
Most healing I find comes from hearing real truth about the situation. We so blame ourselves. It was very painful.
Thank you.
"My silence is my power"
It’s hard to put into words that silence is my power! Now , I know the strength of being silent and that I know it sting his heart and that I’m irreplaceable person ! Silence is my power! Thank you very much for the advice! Please continue to teach the right path and to maintain our peace and energy’ your teachings are highly appreciated sir! Thank you and God bless you!
MY SILENCE IS MY POWER
I'm a Queen, and I honor myself and know's my worth over his comfort and etc. My silence is My Power!!!❤
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During 26 years of pure misery and suffering, I decided that if I had to ask Yah to watch my back/over me while I sleep to protect me from my husband who suppose to protect me and keep me in the arc of safety then it was time for me to go. It was hard, hard, hard, but It was like I found a peace mind beyond my own understanding. So exhilarating. So much joy. I did take my power back and I will fight for it. I can't let that go. I no longer care what he thinks or feel. I have lost all manner of respect for him. Silence is what he is being served. He is not my friend nor will ever be again. Today, I Pray for him, only because he is my children's father and they need that somewhat relationship with him. I forgave him because Yah says very clearly that He forgives AS we forgive. I move onward and enjoy my life. I thank Yah for my peace of mind. It's beyond measure.
Forgive yourself. Grow, for yourself. Learn Self Love. Live without looking back over your shoulder. You are Free.
It’s incredible how taking back your power can bring such joy and peace! You are a strong woman!
Did you block him
Thank you for Sharing this 😅🙏👑 Good For You 😜
He waited too long, I'm over him now ...
My silence is my power ❤🔥
If someone doesn't appreciate ur presence, fill them with the gift of ur absence, "SILENCE" 😌🤘
He blocked me everywhere and abused me with cheap words just because of someone else girl to get marry..Can i block him too what to do please tell me?
@@JustLookingLikeAWow03 he's abusing u verbally & u r still asking girl wether u should block him or not!!! Go ahead just block him, what u expect he 'll come running to u wd flowers, even if he's coming to u he 'll sure be abusing u again for slightest of things!
THAT WHAT I Say❤❤❤😊😊😊
The journey of silence is so powerful in every word said in this video
Your Silence After His Rejection is Killing Him.
Steps:
1. Not A Big Deal At First ( 4:03 )
2. The Quick Realization of
Change ( 10:50 )
3. The Odd Habit of Checking In
( 17:13 )
4. The Annoying Feeling of
Discomfort ( 22:33 )
5. Looking For You in Small
Moments ( 26:08 )
6. The Frustration with New
Connections ( 28:45 )
7. The Unavoidable Regret
( 31:21 )
Mantra:
“MY SILENCE IS MY POWER !”
This is so True 😊
My silence is powerfully..and I know myself worth and from today I hold that power in my hands and no one will take that away 💯👌
My silence is my power reclaiming my strength,power from him
My silence is my power. Three years silence.
My silence is my power
My silence is my power
My Silence is My Power, 🙌🏾
How can he feel my absence if I’m the cook, homeschool teacher of his grandson, the person that does everything from laundry to groceries.. but he holds all the monies .. he’s given me congestive heart failure... from the past stresses of trying with him for the past 39 years... how can I be silent in this household???? Much respect.. I’m loving this Philosophy!
In the last few years he’s been having actions of a narcissist! I’ve researched these traits he’s been sending and yes it’s that up and down... he’s playing a game with me it seems but he’s acting as if he’s dumb to everything!! And it’s all me ! I have no way of leaving or finding a new life yet! Praying God will give me wisdom in this mess !
💅🏽 "MY SILENCE IS
'MY😇POWER'!!"💥🔥
My Silence Is My Power
My silence is my power❤❤❤
He married without even informed me. Im in heavy pain and can't able to move on. 😢. I hope he shouldn't be happy with his new life. But he has to pay off to my cry and hurtings. 😢
My silence is my power base.
Love the empowerment! This also goes both ways if a man is being mistreated. Don’t allow anyone to belittle your inner strength & power. You can start your day over at anytime. Demand respect. ❤
Keep it up❤
My silence is my power.
I just wrote it on a large card and placed it where I will see it every day.
I know my value; I do not beg, I do not chase. I will henceforth only ATTRACT men who are willing and ready to invest in me.
Wonderful!
This video has truly awakend me. My silence is my power and I'm taking it back, much love to this video!❤
I needed to hear this today. Funny how it just appeared here for me.
My silence is my power after 17 years
This is Sooooo True. I'm starting to see my hard work is starting to pay off . The longer you are silent the faster they come in
MY SILENCE IS DEFINITELY WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT MY POWER...BOOMSHAKALAKA...THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ✅️🪄✨️🙏🏽
Keep it up. My silence is my power.
You are powerful, keep shining!
My silence is my power. Keep it up!!! I will stay true to myself.
Keep it up n let's keep moving together in shaa Allah ❤ tq so much for the videos❤❤❤ I'm going thru it...🤲💖
Thank you so much for the support, you're in my thoughts. Sending love and strength your way! 🙏
A narcissist never apologizes. He got meaner and meaner forever. Even abandoned his children he had with me.
Silence is golden.
He remarried quickly.
You abandoned him, not him.. think this way. I was with covert narcissist too
Good he can be someone else's Misery and not yous. I feel sorry for whoever he married. KARMA
@@hejwi5832 ? Don't understand your comment. It's good that you acknowledge this. I hope you have chosen to get help.
My silence is my power 🔋
Keep it up, sisterhood - love yourself, choose yourself, Queens 👸 ✨️ 💖
My silence is my power 🔥🔥🔥
My silence is my power. I’m finally free from the demon
My silence is My POWER!
My silence is my Power ❤🎉
Keep it up and let keep moving together..
Silence is not about returning him. You return him and everything repeats after a while. Good relations means he gives you and you give a little bit to him. At the beginning of relations all you give him is your smile and "thank you". Man will never leave a woman which he supported a lot and invested a lot. When you start a relationship keep silence all the time. Do not give him much of your precious time. He must deserve this. Keep silence and all what you should think about is how to please yourself but not how to please a man. Think about what you enjoy, what you want, do your most crazy projects in realisation of your own needs and interests. Share the ideas with him. Man will be pleased, man feels his significance if he helps a woman. Keep silence if a man dares to ask you anything to please him, but be vocal asking him to do something to please you. Men love queens, not chambermaids. Step out and keep silence if he ever vocalises his needs. Consider his demands as a personal offence. You can get engaged in supporting some of his needs after he proves multiple times that he serves you reliably, after a few years only.
He treat me horribly and I stayed with him at his worst, gave him food to eat, visited him 100% of the time defended him from people who said bad shit about him. Only for him to turn around on the week my brother passed away and say that he never wants to be in a relationship w me and that he’d been talking to two other women. From that point I went ghost . Fast forward to now and through 2024, he has tried to reach out 5 different times through spam email. 😂 I keep telling the universe that I will NOT be goin there again. I do not have any interest he got what he wanted! BLOCKED. great blessings to come for our amazing strength and resilience 😢❤
With my silence, I found the person I thought I lost forever. Myself. The peace that I have discovered I had no idea existed. The clarity of how to move forward with my goals with or without him by my side is the freedom that silence bestowed upon me. I am not the same person anymore. I know my worth and so does he. It only took two months of radio silence. I highly recommend it. Everything in this video is 100% true. Believe it.
Your journey of self-discovery is inspiring! 💪
This video has helped me and relieved my pain thank you❤
Glad it helped!
This video has been changed my life
Thank you so much sometimes we always be panic but now realizing silence is better than words.❤❤❤
My silence is my power!!!!.a week of silence and he is already looking for me in small moments 😊❤
I chose silence from the minute i left. Have only communicated with him when there was letters for me at my old house or something i left that i wanted him to give me. he knew I was wildly unhappy and he was too but he wasnt prepared to do anything about it, or even talk to me. i realised there was nothing left and quietly took my stuff while he was at work and left. He was shocked that after 10.5 years of doing whatever he wanted and me always being there, I wasn't gunna be there anymore. He cannot replace me coz there's noone like me. One day he'll realise what he did in pushing me away. this video makes me feel triumphantly vindicated in my decisions. My silence is my power.
What a beautiful narration !! Even the voice actor did a great job, it feels like how a healthy body is slowly affected by cancer. One day at a time the cells are growing and taking down the body while the person doesn't even know when it started
I needed to hear this
My silence is my power 💪🏼🤝!
My silence is my power now and always. Thank you
My silence is and has been my power over the past 6 months!!!!!
MY POWER IS MY SILENCE & IT'S DEFINITELY ONLY ME NO MORE GENUINE LOVE ADMIRATION OR ATTENTION
My silence is power
Thank you so much for your message. That answer all my questions.