Unfortunately this is my current situation. I am a mother of 4 and we’ve been staying in an extended stay since May 2024. I am praying that God will put us in a home soon.
I was in the same exact situation when my kids were little. They are grown now and it DOES get better. We made it an adventure and to this day they loved when we lived in the extended stay.
You made it a beautiful memory for them, and not a nightmare. It’s all about our mentality. Your children have good memories, I bet it was filled with happy times. 💜
Me and my autistic son have been living in a hotel for 6 months I can 100% relate to all those who are and have lived in hotels and it's not easy I pray for myself and those to have a home and be safe and stable. And I pray for those who have no idea what it's like, to not ever find out, I couldn't find anywhere else to live after the house I was living in was gone.
This is so heartbreaking 💔 no one wants to be in this position keep the faith and pray 🙏 God has a plan for you 💜💜 he hears your prayers and know your needs 🌹🌹God Bless you and your beautiful family 🙏🙏 Your a strong beautiful woman and nothing can hold you back 💐🌷💐
It was easier for me in an extended stay because my circumstances were different. I moved to a new state on a travel nurse assignment. When my contract ended, I had to move somewhere safe because the free housing ended. I had free utilities, cable, a kitchenette and private bath. I also had an address to put on my job applications. This family has food, a roof over their head, free utilities and all of her children are together and God should be given thanks for these blessings. Prayers for directions does help. It did for me.
Where is this so called father? If he has a home he should be allowing her and the kids to live there or just the kids at the very least until mom find stable housing. Shame on whoever this father is. Absolutely ridiculous & sad! 💔 I pray this momma found adequate housing for her and her babies. If they have not and are around the Cincinnati Dayton area - if anyone happens to see my comment, PLEASE let me know and I can give her some great places to apply to that get you in quick and do not require an arm and a leg to move in. Sending love , hugs and peace to all who are struggling. 💗
Many families have fathers and are victims of abuse. Many fathers have melt downs under the pressure and commit suicide, some after killing their families. How many fathers are killed in various ways? So far in the news, some fathers have been nothing but problems and the mother is better off without them being there.
My husband and are facing this choice. We got behind due to circumstances outside of our control and have been fighting to survive and stay in our rental home but we cant get out of the pit. Everything is too high and not too behind . I'm looking forward to saving money and getting on our feet even if that means living in a hotel for a season
You are doing a great job please continue to keep your family together even if it’s in a hotel do not split up that can bring on other problems like abuse or anxiety I remember we moved to another state and it was 4 of us in a 1 bedroom but we moved to a 3 bedroom in 1 year but I have the best memories at that apartment but after that mom split us up twice and I hated it I was never hurt or abused but just felt my mom didn’t want us I would have been happy to go back to a Studio or 1 bedroom as long as we were together I’m 54 and this still bothers me
My heart goes to them especially the children. This is only temporary not permanent but please no more kids. The more you have the harder it is going to get. Its not fair to them . They deserve the world. Not to be put through the ringer.
The father of these children is not helping? She has to believe that it will get better and do what is necessary for her and the kids. One step at a time
I didn't see a father in the picture. When will people stop having kids you can't afford! I'm a black woman in Georgia and my husband and I could only feed one child. Ladies be responsible and stop complaining about the mess you made. It's nobody's fault but your own!
Living in a hotel is a vicious cycle that very hard to get out of cause it digest allow you to save for a apartment deposit and 1st moth and in some places last moth rent
Imagine being "childless" and/or single - we get nothing. If I didn't have my husband, I'd be on the streets. We need to stop rewarding breeding. This is why our poor planet is in the state that it's in. It's us mentally ill that are always shafted, and it's a mistake because EVERYONE pays when we're not taken care of.
At least they are together and can put a lock on the door at night to be protected.
Unfortunately this is my current situation. I am a mother of 4 and we’ve been staying in an extended stay since May 2024. I am praying that God will put us in a home soon.
You are not a failure. You have to look at your life as a journey. This is where I'm at but won't always be here.
I was in the same exact situation when my kids were little. They are grown now and it DOES get better. We made it an adventure and to this day they loved when we lived in the extended stay.
You made it a beautiful memory for them, and not a nightmare.
It’s all about our mentality.
Your children have good memories, I bet it was filled with happy times. 💜
Me and my autistic son have been living in a hotel for 6 months I can 100% relate to all those who are and have lived in hotels and it's not easy I pray for myself and those to have a home and be safe and stable. And I pray for those who have no idea what it's like, to not ever find out, I couldn't find anywhere else to live after the house I was living in was gone.
This is so heartbreaking 💔 no one wants to be in this position keep the faith and pray 🙏 God has a plan for you 💜💜 he hears your prayers and know your needs 🌹🌹God Bless you and your beautiful family 🙏🙏 Your a strong beautiful woman and nothing can hold you back 💐🌷💐
My story I'm staying at a hotel too with my son with no stove we eat out of a microwave every night.
At least you eat every night.😊
Hope y'all are doing well ❤
Sis, are you ok now? I hope your situation is better with you and your son ❤️
I Pray the situation Betters. God Bless
It was easier for me in an extended stay because my circumstances were different. I moved to a new state on a travel nurse assignment. When my contract ended, I had to move somewhere safe because the free housing ended. I had free utilities, cable, a kitchenette and private bath. I also had an address to put on my job applications. This family has food, a roof over their head, free utilities and all of her children are together and God should be given thanks for these blessings. Prayers for directions does help. It did for me.
Where is this so called father? If he has a home he should be allowing her and the kids to live there or just the kids at the very least until mom find stable housing. Shame on whoever this father is. Absolutely ridiculous & sad! 💔 I pray this momma found adequate housing for her and her babies. If they have not and are around the Cincinnati Dayton area - if anyone happens to see my comment, PLEASE let me know and I can give her some great places to apply to that get you in quick and do not require an arm and a leg to move in. Sending love , hugs and peace to all who are struggling. 💗
Wheres the father?
I can tell you where he isn’t..
Or fathers? 😮
Many families have fathers and are victims of abuse. Many fathers have melt downs under the pressure and commit suicide, some after killing their families. How many fathers are killed in various ways? So far in the news, some fathers have been nothing but problems and the mother is better off without them being there.
@dtyallen9864 Exactly! 👍
My husband and are facing this choice. We got behind due to circumstances outside of our control and have been fighting to survive and stay in our rental home but we cant get out of the pit. Everything is too high and not too behind . I'm looking forward to saving money and getting on our feet even if that means living in a hotel for a season
Praying they have the strength to endure and get back on their feet soon. 🙏🏾
I and my son are homeless now in Arizona. Need more Section 8 Vouchers.
As someone in this situation for 2 years, it’s very hard and sad. I can relate to hanging things up and getting comfortable
Praying for you and you're family
You are doing a great job please continue to keep your family together even if it’s in a hotel do not split up that can bring on other problems like abuse or anxiety I remember we moved to another state and it was 4 of us in a 1 bedroom but we moved to a 3 bedroom in 1 year but I have the best memories at that apartment but after that mom split us up twice and I hated it I was never hurt or abused but just felt my mom didn’t want us I would have been happy to go back to a Studio or 1 bedroom as long as we were together I’m 54 and this still bothers me
I hope things are better for her and her family these days!
We as women have to take accountability where are the husbands and fathers !?? Always have a plan B !! Babies ain’t cheap
Your not a failure your a sweet single mom who wants her best for her kids i pray good things come your way
I'm praying for brighter days for you and your family.
NC state is hiring And starting people off at $13.50 minimum. God bless your family
13.50😮😮 in CA it's $20
@@mzzkc86 that's very true I assumed the person who posted Lived in NC
My heart goes to them especially the children. This is only temporary not permanent but please no more kids. The more you have the harder it is going to get. Its not fair to them . They deserve the world. Not to be put through the ringer.
The father of these children is not helping? She has to believe that it will get better and do what is necessary for her and the kids. One step at a time
God Bless and Good Luck 🤞
I didn't see a father in the picture. When will people stop having kids you can't afford! I'm a black woman in Georgia and my husband and I could only feed one child. Ladies be responsible and stop complaining about the mess you made. It's nobody's fault but your own!
Some Men make promises and create broken homes.
I agree !!
@@kckandy276true I guess we have to be lie detectors now
Do you have house keeping there?
She got kids make them clean 😅
Amen 🙏
Living in a hotel is a vicious cycle that very hard to get out of cause it digest allow you to save for a apartment deposit and 1st moth and in some places last moth rent
I been there…it’s definitely a cycle. It was easier for me to break because I started living in my car…but with kids it’s a different struggle
Imagine being "childless" and/or single - we get nothing. If I didn't have my husband, I'd be on the streets. We need to stop rewarding breeding. This is why our poor planet is in the state that it's in. It's us mentally ill that are always shafted, and it's a mistake because EVERYONE pays when we're not taken care of.