Are Black Fraternities and Sororities Abusive? - Dr. Stacey Patton, Author of Spare the Kids

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  • Dr. Stacey Patton is the author of Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America and her mission is to educate people that spanking is “the whitest thing you can do,” and its child abuse and domestic violence. In this clip, she explores the historical violence within Black fraternities and sororities.
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ความคิดเห็น • 50

  • @celvil1848
    @celvil1848 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    She speaking complete facts, and it’s gonna put a lot of peoples noses out, but it’s really time to wake up !

  • @Trustthatvibe8228
    @Trustthatvibe8228 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I thank God I came from a family that didn't do this. Not me or my cousins were beaten. My parents left this earth and never laid a hand on me.

    • @GregoryEastern
      @GregoryEastern 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So know other person has the right to 🙂

  • @veewalker4472
    @veewalker4472 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    That’s facts and why I never pledged

    • @Vee316
      @Vee316 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s all a Cult!

    • @tigerlilly9038
      @tigerlilly9038 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you believed this, it is best you did not as well

    • @Legendarystat00
      @Legendarystat00 ปีที่แล้ว

      🧢

  • @JasonGafar
    @JasonGafar 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What she said couldn't be any truer. She is so enlightened.

  • @hyperboi87
    @hyperboi87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My family toughened me up for real fr, they taught me how I didn’t want to be treated, and I haven’t talk to none of their asses since I turned 15, and I’m 35 now

  • @ElizabethFitTaylor
    @ElizabethFitTaylor ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wth?? That whole hazing bull. Ain't no way. The whole initiation ritual was just ridiculous and dumb to me.

  • @definitionofbeauty6861
    @definitionofbeauty6861 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My daughter will be going to college next year and she’s already considering pledging…but the sorority she chooses going to have to deal with me if they think they gone be hazing my daughter in a way that defames her hurts her, causes embarrassment, if she is disrespected in any way or touched in a inappropriate manner for any reason…hell gone be unleashed on earth! Mark my words I vowed before the lord everybody involved will pay the price…I’m that mother who won’t even call the police or press charges…I won’t you free and roaming the streets thinking you dodged a bullet, I have never in her 17 years ever had to beat or physically chastise my daughter for wrong doing because I never needed to…she has always been a good daughter who listened to her parents and did what she was suppose to, I’d loose my common sense the day I ever hear she was harmed.

    • @GregoryEastern
      @GregoryEastern 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally agree with you because I will not tolerate no disrespect towards me or my child 😎

    • @lucagabriel20
      @lucagabriel20 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If she goes through the process then you most likely won't ever find out what she went through.

  • @MMediaP
    @MMediaP ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Literally why I never pledged.

  • @lucagabriel20
    @lucagabriel20 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not everyone experience physical harm during the initiation process. But she has good points

  • @debbiep99
    @debbiep99 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That's messed up that that's what happens when people are pledging. It's not a gang wtf!

  • @FASBLAQUE
    @FASBLAQUE ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How are they blaming that on slavery then turn right around and say being compassionate and empathetic is white? That don't add up and y'all need to stop blaming everything on slavery.

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo ปีที่แล้ว

      You gotta know the history of fraternities bro

    • @FASBLAQUE
      @FASBLAQUE ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dutchcapo Nah "breh"! YOU need to go and listen to the clinical psychologist, professor Odi and learn what "emotional intelligence" is. No more excuses! Excuses are not going to save us as a people.

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FASBLAQUE This the reason black people lack power and progression we don’t work on the things that affect us today. You need to study the everything from slavery to prohibition, Juneteenth to the black power movement … and then we need to use that as a guide to make moves not replicate the stupidity of white folks…

  • @iRockwthMJ
    @iRockwthMJ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not all...

  • @elgerone
    @elgerone ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If you got scars thats abuse i wasnt abuse but i was disciplined

  • @jmatthews5685
    @jmatthews5685 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She got abused so her perspective but treating everyone like a delicate flower all the time is not the answer. Also, hazing and child abuse are NOT black specific

    • @vigarobugsbunni
      @vigarobugsbunni ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! It has absolutely nothing to do with black it is the GREEK system and it happens to all.

    • @khaosflare
      @khaosflare 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FACTS

  • @SL-ud7tf
    @SL-ud7tf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jayz, Diddy etc

  • @AngeliqueSims-g1u
    @AngeliqueSims-g1u 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "You have to get beat" Lies. That's not to say that none haze or have hazed, but to say you HAVE to be beaten is a lie. I wasn't beaten! AKA Baby For Life!

    • @isrealjudah4164
      @isrealjudah4164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Did u go to a HBCU and did you go under grad. Tell it all 😅

  • @brickybrickhouse1418
    @brickybrickhouse1418 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's not true...the hazing of college kids is totally different from disciplining your children early. The Bible says, "Spare the rod, spoil the child"

  • @colors-bx7ly
    @colors-bx7ly 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So don’t pledge. Simple. a lot of misinformation out here and old information. either way, find out for yourself or don’t.

  • @mr.notajoke1647
    @mr.notajoke1647 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lies

  • @elgerone
    @elgerone ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I disagree with her

  • @tigerlilly9038
    @tigerlilly9038 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waaaayyaminuuitt Ma'am Harpo, who dis woman?. Who is this person before I go in..because I will and am going in... let me do my due diligence...because SHE CANNOT SPEAK FOR ME AND MINE... She does not know my personal story. my line nor my organization so be easy, ma'am..move real nice-nice in your generalizations.
    "you have to get beat" 🧐

    • @dutchcapo
      @dutchcapo ปีที่แล้ว

      All black Greek organizations are an assimilation to white society that is the basis of the organizations… these organizarions haven’t established power, created economic in roads for people outside of the frat . They so things on behalf of the youth buts that’s no different then any other black group with the Greek label. I think the whole concept of being defensive about being questioned should stop of course. The paper bag test, extreme harsh hazing are just a few of the things once again…but as members of the organizations I do see power for the community I opportunists in disguise …

  • @kactusJacko
    @kactusJacko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jesus himself couldn't make me denounce the brotherhood

  • @Raven-ug8uw
    @Raven-ug8uw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fraud.

  • @ERICGRIMEY1
    @ERICGRIMEY1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So soft.....I swear

  • @Legendarystat00
    @Legendarystat00 ปีที่แล้ว

    🧢