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Limerence: how to get help
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Thanks a lot for sharing this video. Well, I am a higher secondary school student. I developed this limerence on one of my classmates. When I identified the problem, I decided to go no contact with her. It's been over a month since I passed out from my school and haven't met her ever since then.
I still have contact with her on social media but never bother to talk to her. It's actually very painful to do this stuff. Ever since I went no contact, I have lost interest in other activities. I feel completely detached from my normal social life. It feels like as if I have lost my purpose in life. Many a times, I even felt suicidal, as if it's the end of the world for me and I can't live without her.
I have shared this with my social circle, involving a few friends. But repeatedly telling the same story again and again frustrates them. Everytime I feel like my mind is waging a war against me to go and text her but I always refrain from doing so. The more I resist, the more painful it is. I am feeling extremely helpless at this point.
Thank you for these videos featuring limerence. This helps out immensely
The algorithm delivered your video to me, and I did not even know this word existed. I've been suffering of this my entire life. Now I have a way of getting out of it, thank you!
My therapist had heard of limerence but was skeptical, when I talked about what I was going through she said in all her years I was her first and only case.
I managed to stop obsessing over her in my mind while I'm apart from her but I still obsess over her when I'm around her. We work together once a week and I feel immense urges to take opportunities to see her or interact with her outside of that. I try to avoid her at work but I always cave in the end talk to her 😂
I'm about to see her in 3 hours 😭, I'll try and play it cool
My therapist hasn't got a clue about limerence and my GP is pretty useless
Hi Mario
I think I have limerence. The LO has rejected me and of course I respected their decision. Unfortunately, I have been making up scenarios in my head in which I impress them and they realize 'their mistake'. Any advice to completely get over them and actually focus on myself rather than external validation ?
Are you going to have any more livestreams?
Yes thanks for asking! Busy with uni at the moment but will try and squeeze some in.
What are the causes for limerence? Where does it originate from? Is there some unmet need? Some psychological phenomenon? Im curious for answers
Thank you for your work and your videos on limerence. They're so helpful for me and my clients. I'm a therapist in Canada, and a coach internationally and I work people experiencing and suffering from limerence. I'd be happy to share my contact/info if you like.
Sure please drop me a link or email and I’ll get in touch.
Спустя десять лет я воспринимаю это как настоящую болезнь, а не как что-то что нормально и со всеми бывает. Меня нужно было лечить. Оно до сих пор преследует меня. Оно сожрало мою личность