It is ridiculous that grandparents get paid to babysit. Crazy and weird european culture. Uuhhh! They only will care if they get paid for it.. how funny.
Men need women to not get lonely....whereas women need other women to raise kids and run society......by earth nature ....this is followed by most mammals. Support maternal society to tackle falling birth rate as just man -woman partnership falling to give security, safety to new offsprings when men could easily run away from responsibility anytime.... Better to raise offsprings in safe and secure maternal homes at early 20s with the help of maternal granny ,sisters, cousins....
Am staying in Stockholm, Sweden... and I feel Sweden is the most rascist country I have ever lived in. And these laws are not that straight forward. There are many many hidden terms. Everything remains hidden in Swedish system.
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding.. Don't forget that Swedes don't live with parents or in laws
As a '91 kid and joint family, I spent time with my grandparents until completion of my education.. They taught me everything. Now the saddest thing is a nuclear family and kids nowadays are not even with grandparents. How life was changed 😂
My mom was a working woman and when I was born in 80's, she took her mom's help in my upbringing. When my child was born in 2017, my mom said she can't help me with my child. As a result, I became stay-at- home mom. But I have no regrets, because I bond with my son, just like how I bonded with my grandmother. In India, it's even more about money than in other parts of the world.
@@anita2053-r1f thanks. But I thank my grandmother for influencing me when it comes to human relations. Their generation was something different. Such unconditional love cannot be seen in Boomers. She died in 2017, and I still love her and respect her. With my mom ( alive) I have no emotional attachment. I don't care if my kids will love me back the same way or not, but it's alright. We can't be selfish with kids. They're not our investments.
Good move. In India parents / wife all the free service are taken for granted lifelong. The value is realised only when it pinches the pockets and hearts!
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding..
Care duties should be paid so one does feel disrespected and not valued. We paid for such shitty things in this world but cry about paying for duties related care related responsibility
It is ridiculous that grandparents get paid to babysit. Crazy and weird european culture. Uuhhh! They only will care if they get paid for it.. how funny.
In my opinion- (1) Paternity leave is important because both mother and father get the time to bond with the new born. (2) I do not agree with Sweden’s change to outsource parenting atleast not for the first year. Parents have to connect with the process of raising a kid early on. (3) Is the any details not shared as in parental leaves when outsourced to grandparents or anyone else means they would be taxed separately? (4) Agree with 70% and 30% breakdown of maternity leave to father getting paid leave for raising the kid. It’s essential since mother needs time to recover and breastfeeding which again is a crucial component to parenting well.
I came to Sweden for just fun but after learning about all the things about it, I have no reason to leave and I am a Permanent resident here now! Ask me there are 100 such reasons to stay in this beautiful country. ❤❤
@@jaytshianda Its not about money. They already have retirement schemes for elderly. And ofc people save money throughout their lifetimes. But, this practice will take away burden of working parents as their kids are being looked after by family, the grand parents will not feel lonely while they get extra money for support from government. Its good for family bonding.
What a stupid assumption, if you have to pay your parents to take care of your own kids. There is something wrong with your family. WTF how is this even a thing, I am scratching my head at this point. Your Parents gave you life, they raised you. After they grow old and weak, as a son it is your duty/obligation to look after them in the old age. Grandparents would love to look after their grandkids. I remember being the most favourite grandchild of my grandfather, he took care of me, loved me cared for me for FREE ( Its absurd I even have to mention this FREE word here ) I am his grandson, his bloodline, I carry forward his family name and legacy after he dies. Why would he ask for money to look after me. KALIYUG is here, if such things are being discussed. What a clown world we live in.
@rohitsawant5805 Sweden is the most rascist country... and these laws have 10000 hidden terms.. it is the most hypocrit country I have ever lived in. 😢
Sweden 🇸🇪 ❤. I didn’t born here but I am glad & proud that I worked hard and acquired the Swedish citizenship ❤🇸🇪. Not just about paid parental leave…. Gender equality, work life balance, child benefits, social security, free education, free healthcare & cleanliness… Sweden is the best in everything ❤🇸🇪. May be this is how a country would look like if the citizens willingly pay TAXES! I haven’t met one Swede that hates paying taxes, they whole heartedly think that’s their duty. This country always surprises me with its way of improving child care & encouraging women’s careers. Huge respect! 🫡🇸🇪
@varsharaos294 Sweden is a Mafia... It snatches high taxes and gives no benefits... Also, it is very good at hypnotizing the public with a narration that it is doing a lot for them... and unfortunately (or rather fortunately for the Swedish govt.) People are so dumb that they don't even understand these. And there is no work life balance... people just do not work here and enjoy fika the whole day. And for this attitude, every system is suffering.
The other Nordic countries will follow suit immediately.. All the five of them have exactly the same child care regulations. Great countries for its citizens!
As a new dad. Let me recount a sad experience. My paternity leave was already approved but in the meantime, I got another opportunity and I resigned. A very well known and famous company relieved me immediately without notice period just like that. I was suddenly a new dad with no job as the company I was going to join had given me a joining date after 2 months as per my own request as I wanted to leave post serving my notice period and on a good note. My poor Manager had to keep calling me for help with ongoing projects even after I left. There needs to be a law against such Jungle Raaj.
I am Indian but me and my wife too pay my parents, babysitting allowance, as a token of gratitude for taking care of my kids. My parents use what's necessary for kids (food, transport, medicines, clothes etc.) and keep the rest in Recurring Deposit against my kids'names which my kids would get when they are 18. 😊 Edit: Some proud Indians are shaming me for paying my parents. For them my humble response. Grow up!!
I find it strange that being an Indian you consider it giving YOUR money to YOUR PARENTS. Cause in my area, whatever we earn is already considered as our parents money too and it would be shameful for us to give money to our parents in such a way. My kids are automatically my parents family member and we don't PAY our families. Strange family you have! Don't you feel shameful doing so?
@@aaronderyl Dragging everything into money isn't progressive lol. It shows that how selfish and individualistic people have become. Just going socially BACKWARD nothing else.
@@KrsnaDas-g2h I wish being so "self declared noble" had taught you any decency that the world doesn't operate as per your wishes or your small outdated family rules. My parents believe in being independent. Not create unnatural expectations from kids by taking control of their kids finances. That is simply pedantic and pathetic. Being a parent is being selfless. Our family is full of independent people who don't need each other's money. That's why our Lakshmi moves freely and get invested for my kids future. We don't have any obligation. We have love and respect. Not rules and obligations.
@@vinitvsankhe Firstly no one would tell their kids to give them their money. It's child's devotion towards his/her parents. And that's not included in being INDEPENDENT. Love goes both ways. And I exactly wrote the same as you in your 2nd para. But the difference is,not just as parents, but being a child should also be selfless !!! That's why money should and always freely move for those who have shaped you,not just kids,but parents too. Maybe it's your way but not just me, even my parents will be shameful that I'm paying them for taking caring of their OWN GRANDKIDS. You claim your independence by using wealth for kids,but paying your OWN parents is also a sign of independence as per you. Is there any difference between your child and your parent morally. Our parents shaped us, feed us, provide morals and can't equate it in wealth just like in west.
Men need women to not get lonely....whereas women need other women to raise kids and run society......by earth nature ....this is followed by most mammals. Support maternal society to tackle falling birth rate as just man -woman partnership falling to give security, safety to new offsprings when men could easily run away from responsibility anytime.... Better to raise offsprings in safe and secure maternal homes at early 20s with the help of maternal granny ,sisters, cousins....
ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@@aaronderyl Yes, definitely. Also, all the benefits in India are geared towards men and their family. It doesn't incorporate women. Its heavily biased.
@@tanjulchourasia8839I Have never expected anything positive and motivating from Indian society and people , it's a failed country and an utterly disgusted society.
The countries where population is declining will provide more incentives so as to encourage parents to have more children. India is not in that category
State is in far better situation than Sweden... Sweden in reality gives you no benefit at all but deduct huge taxes. They just maintain an image as if they are caring a lot for the civilians.
you can't impose parental leaves on the private sector as india is trying to be a manufacturing hub. let Sweden be Sweden and focus on growth of India.
Part of the things that contribute to India being one of the saddest and most depressed places on earth. This attitude. There is no growth without health and happiness.
ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@@svart7716 Its a selfish, individualistic society that does not respect its family, parents or children. It is caused by a lgbt leftist woke muslim-appeasement culture
@@svart7716 Maybe in the West this is a surprise, but in rest of the world is is very common for grandparents to help raise their grandchildren while their parents go to work. There is no pay for such work, grandparents do it out of love for their grandkids. Imagine paying my father to raise my son while I go to Work, such a thought would be absurd in my country😅
Even with all these progressive child care policies, they still don't make enough babies. Bring this to DRC or Eswatini we'd have up to 10 kids or more. 😂😂😂 we don't have these policies but I want to have 5 kids minimum.
Bro, how is abandoning your parents when they grow old a normal thing in the WEST ? They raised you, isn't it your obligation to take care of your parents when they grow old and weak. Also, why is the Swedish Govt paying Grandparents to take care of their own grandkids ? Bro, that would be considered absurd in my country. Both my parents worked so I and my brother were raised by our Grandparents for most part, and they did it for FREE. Why would my grandparents ask my parents for money to raise their own Bloodline who is going to carry the family's name and legacy forward after they die. Bro, I feel The WEST has made a lot of progress materially & technologically but this nuclear family, abandon your parents once they grow old, kick out your kids when they become 18 is not going to sustain the WEST for long. It will destroy the your families and social fabric eventually.
Crazy and Weird European culture. 😂 Paying grandparents to take care of their grandchildren.. This shows how self-centered are the people of The bloody West.
@@rohitsawant5805ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@@TheGypsyWorldultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@aaronderyl That is not comparable... the size and population of Sweden is not even comparable to a single small state in India.. So your question and points are baseless.
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding. Swedish family runs mostly all members like to work untill their death.
Brilliant move. The Grandparents will not be lonely and the grandchildren will not suffer neglect.
Bro, this is pretty normal in India, grandparents take care of grandkids for free, why are Europeans acting like this is some profound discovery ?
It is ridiculous that grandparents get paid to babysit. Crazy and weird european culture. Uuhhh! They only will care if they get paid for it.. how funny.
Men need women to not get lonely....whereas women need other women to raise kids and run society......by earth nature ....this is followed by most mammals.
Support maternal society to tackle falling birth rate as just man -woman partnership falling to give security, safety to new offsprings when men could easily run away from responsibility anytime....
Better to raise offsprings in safe and secure maternal homes at early 20s with the help of maternal granny ,sisters, cousins....
Sweden has so much money. Its literally a free service in India
Am staying in Stockholm, Sweden... and I feel Sweden is the most rascist country I have ever lived in. And these laws are not that straight forward. There are many many hidden terms. Everything remains hidden in Swedish system.
😂😂😂😂😂true thinking the same
Nooope, the working mothers pay it in the form of their mental health in India
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding..
Don't forget that Swedes don't live with parents or in laws
@@brodaism it's still a very good and friendly move by the Swedish government despite some clauses , can't expect anything like that in India
As a '91 kid and joint family, I spent time with my grandparents until completion of my education.. They taught me everything.
Now the saddest thing is a nuclear family and kids nowadays are not even with grandparents. How life was changed 😂
My mom was a working woman and when I was born in 80's, she took her mom's help in my upbringing. When my child was born in 2017, my mom said she can't help me with my child. As a result, I became stay-at- home mom. But I have no regrets, because I bond with my son, just like how I bonded with my grandmother. In India, it's even more about money than in other parts of the world.
😢😢you have an angelic heart
@@anita2053-r1f thanks. But I thank my grandmother for influencing me when it comes to human relations. Their generation was something different. Such unconditional love cannot be seen in Boomers. She died in 2017, and I still love her and respect her. With my mom ( alive) I have no emotional attachment. I don't care if my kids will love me back the same way or not, but it's alright. We can't be selfish with kids. They're not our investments.
Good move. In India parents / wife all the free service are taken for granted lifelong.
The value is realised only when it pinches the pockets and hearts!
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding..
@@aastha222 who is stopping you individually asking money for care given by you.
@@itsme-sq5rd it’s a general scenario comments why mentioning personal attacks?
@@itsme-sq5rd cheap personal attacks. I don’t need anyone’s permission. TH-cam general videos for general comments and not personal.
@@aastha222 everyone one don't do for money. People who want money can ask for money. Why are you generalising everyone.
Care duties should be paid so one does feel disrespected and not valued. We paid for such shitty things in this world but cry about paying for duties related care related responsibility
It is ridiculous that grandparents get paid to babysit. Crazy and weird european culture. Uuhhh! They only will care if they get paid for it.. how funny.
Their is love amongst them they it for money
In my opinion-
(1) Paternity leave is important because both mother and father get the time to bond with the new born.
(2) I do not agree with Sweden’s change to outsource parenting atleast not for the first year. Parents have to connect with the process of raising a kid early on.
(3) Is the any details not shared as in parental leaves when outsourced to grandparents or anyone else means they would be taxed separately?
(4) Agree with 70% and 30% breakdown of maternity leave to father getting paid leave for raising the kid. It’s essential since mother needs time to recover and breastfeeding which again is a crucial component to parenting well.
I came to Sweden for just fun but after learning about all the things about it, I have no reason to leave and I am a Permanent resident here now!
Ask me there are 100 such reasons to stay in this beautiful country. ❤❤
This should act as an eyeopener for policy makers who have long ignored the role of parents and families especially in Early Child Education.
They need to pay their people to love and care for the family members
Its such a great policy. It will help strengthen family relations as well.
Really. They need money to look after their family 😬😬😬
@@jaytshianda Its not about money. They already have retirement schemes for elderly. And ofc people save money throughout their lifetimes. But, this practice will take away burden of working parents as their kids are being looked after by family, the grand parents will not feel lonely while they get extra money for support from government. Its good for family bonding.
What a stupid assumption, if you have to pay your parents to take care of your own kids. There is something wrong with your family. WTF how is this even a thing, I am scratching my head at this point.
Your Parents gave you life, they raised you. After they grow old and weak, as a son it is your duty/obligation to look after them in the old age. Grandparents would love to look after their grandkids. I remember being the most favourite grandchild of my grandfather, he took care of me, loved me cared for me for FREE ( Its absurd I even have to mention this FREE word here ) I am his grandson, his bloodline, I carry forward his family name and legacy after he dies.
Why would he ask for money to look after me. KALIYUG is here, if such things are being discussed. What a clown world we live in.
@rohitsawant5805 Sweden is the most rascist country... and these laws have 10000 hidden terms.. it is the most hypocrit country I have ever lived in. 😢
@@rohitsawant5805money is asked so men realise that unpaid labour is not an entitlement for them...
Sweden 🇸🇪 ❤. I didn’t born here but I am glad & proud that I worked hard and acquired the Swedish citizenship ❤🇸🇪. Not just about paid parental leave…. Gender equality, work life balance, child benefits, social security, free education, free healthcare & cleanliness… Sweden is the best in everything ❤🇸🇪. May be this is how a country would look like if the citizens willingly pay TAXES! I haven’t met one Swede that hates paying taxes, they whole heartedly think that’s their duty. This country always surprises me with its way of improving child care & encouraging women’s careers. Huge respect! 🫡🇸🇪
It’s changing since singled won’t have any benefits paying high taxes
@varsharaos294 Sweden is a Mafia... It snatches high taxes and gives no benefits... Also, it is very good at hypnotizing the public with a narration that it is doing a lot for them... and unfortunately (or rather fortunately for the Swedish govt.) People are so dumb that they don't even understand these. And there is no work life balance... people just do not work here and enjoy fika the whole day. And for this attitude, every system is suffering.
The other Nordic countries will follow suit immediately.. All the five of them have exactly the same child care regulations. Great countries for its citizens!
Same here in Jamaican only 3 week
As a new dad. Let me recount a sad experience. My paternity leave was already approved but in the meantime, I got another opportunity and I resigned. A very well known and famous company relieved me immediately without notice period just like that. I was suddenly a new dad with no job as the company I was going to join had given me a joining date after 2 months as per my own request as I wanted to leave post serving my notice period and on a good note. My poor Manager had to keep calling me for help with ongoing projects even after I left. There needs to be a law against such Jungle Raaj.
I am Indian but me and my wife too pay my parents, babysitting allowance, as a token of gratitude for taking care of my kids. My parents use what's necessary for kids (food, transport, medicines, clothes etc.) and keep the rest in Recurring Deposit against my kids'names which my kids would get when they are 18. 😊
Edit: Some proud Indians are shaming me for paying my parents. For them my humble response.
Grow up!!
I find it strange that being an Indian you consider it giving YOUR money to YOUR PARENTS. Cause in my area, whatever we earn is already considered as our parents money too and it would be shameful for us to give money to our parents in such a way. My kids are automatically my parents family member and we don't PAY our families.
Strange family you have! Don't you feel shameful doing so?
@@KrsnaDas-g2hit’s very progressive. Everyone has their own individuality and their time is respected. Cool
@@aaronderyl Dragging everything into money isn't progressive lol. It shows that how selfish and individualistic people have become. Just going socially BACKWARD nothing else.
@@KrsnaDas-g2h I wish being so "self declared noble" had taught you any decency that the world doesn't operate as per your wishes or your small outdated family rules. My parents believe in being independent. Not create unnatural expectations from kids by taking control of their kids finances. That is simply pedantic and pathetic.
Being a parent is being selfless. Our family is full of independent people who don't need each other's money. That's why our Lakshmi moves freely and get invested for my kids future. We don't have any obligation. We have love and respect.
Not rules and obligations.
@@vinitvsankhe Firstly no one would tell their kids to give them their money. It's child's devotion towards his/her parents. And that's not included in being INDEPENDENT. Love goes both ways.
And I exactly wrote the same as you in your 2nd para. But the difference is,not just as parents, but being a child should also be selfless !!!
That's why money should and always freely move for those who have shaped you,not just kids,but parents too. Maybe it's your way but not just me, even my parents will be shameful that I'm paying them for taking caring of their OWN GRANDKIDS.
You claim your independence by using wealth for kids,but paying your OWN parents is also a sign of independence as per you. Is there any difference between your child and your parent morally.
Our parents shaped us, feed us, provide morals and can't equate it in wealth just like in west.
I would rather pay grand parents than strangers as I know they have more good will and if it helps them feel empowered and not used it’s a win win!
hona hi chahiye bhai
Childcare comes first. I want to live in this world.
Great move
Men need women to not get lonely....whereas women need other women to raise kids and run society......by earth nature ....this is followed by most mammals.
Support maternal society to tackle falling birth rate as just man -woman partnership falling to give security, safety to new offsprings when men could easily run away from responsibility anytime....
Better to raise offsprings in safe and secure maternal homes at early 20s with the help of maternal granny ,sisters, cousins....
You forgot to mention Finland.
In western countries, it is all about money.
In under developed countries, it’s all about misery.
ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@@aaronderyl Yes, definitely. Also, all the benefits in India are geared towards men and their family. It doesn't incorporate women. Its heavily biased.
@@aaronderyl you are living for indexes.
@@tanjulchourasia8839I Have never expected anything positive and motivating from Indian society and people , it's a failed country and an utterly disgusted society.
The countries where population is declining will provide more incentives so as to encourage parents to have more children. India is not in that category
They are able to afford all this because uncle USA is providing all Defence and Technology to Sweden without Swedes needing to work at it
I wish we'd do better here in the States. 😔
State is in far better situation than Sweden... Sweden in reality gives you no benefit at all but deduct huge taxes. They just maintain an image as if they are caring a lot for the civilians.
When parents are working class people and cannot take care of their children, then grandparents come into play who are already retired.
you can't impose parental leaves on the private sector as india is trying to be a manufacturing hub. let Sweden be Sweden and focus on growth of India.
Part of the things that contribute to India being one of the saddest and most depressed places on earth. This attitude.
There is no growth without health and happiness.
ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
If you have to pay , why not pay for someone qualified?
such a sad and degenerated society
Why?
@@svart7716 Its a selfish, individualistic society that does not respect its family, parents or children. It is caused by a lgbt leftist woke muslim-appeasement culture
@@svart7716 Maybe in the West this is a surprise, but in rest of the world is is very common for grandparents to help raise their grandchildren while their parents go to work. There is no pay for such work, grandparents do it out of love for their grandkids.
Imagine paying my father to raise my son while I go to Work, such a thought would be absurd in my country😅
Exactly... The most rascist country I have ever lived in.
@@TheGypsyWorld How exactly was it racist? Give me examples
Even with all these progressive child care policies, they still don't make enough babies. Bring this to DRC or Eswatini we'd have up to 10 kids or more. 😂😂😂 we don't have these policies but I want to have 5 kids minimum.
@@godbillion_nathan When you give birth out of your own womb, then think about 5 kids. Nobody is entitled to give you kids.
Swedish culture is different; it’s not a good move; parents should have responsibility to take care of their own children not outsource
💕💕💕
Not only Sweden. It’s common in the west.
Bro, how is abandoning your parents when they grow old a normal thing in the WEST ? They raised you, isn't it your obligation to take care of your parents when they grow old and weak.
Also, why is the Swedish Govt paying Grandparents to take care of their own grandkids ? Bro, that would be considered absurd in my country.
Both my parents worked so I and my brother were raised by our Grandparents for most part, and they did it for FREE. Why would my grandparents ask my parents for money to raise their own Bloodline who is going to carry the family's name and legacy forward after they die.
Bro, I feel The WEST has made a lot of progress materially & technologically but this nuclear family, abandon your parents once they grow old, kick out your kids when they become 18 is not going to sustain the WEST for long. It will destroy the your families and social fabric eventually.
Crazy and Weird European culture. 😂 Paying grandparents to take care of their grandchildren.. This shows how self-centered are the people of The bloody West.
@@rohitsawant5805ultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@@TheGypsyWorldultimately - the question is - after all the differences in management of various issues, which population is happier. Because that’s the whole point isn’t it. Where does India rank in indices like Human Development Index? Or Happiness index? These are official indicators and not someone’s opinions.
@aaronderyl That is not comparable... the size and population of Sweden is not even comparable to a single small state in India.. So your question and points are baseless.
Thank you USA - we have 0 days Paternity leave
India two days, not even that 😂😂
So love and affection is also available for money.
😂
This is for working grandparents..they can take off from work, more than money the employer needs a reason to let an employee off. Win win for the kid and grandparents and parents. Helps family bonding. Swedish family runs mostly all members like to work untill their death.
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