He completely loses it when she speaks out at his parole hearing
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If he can't control himself during a parole hearing he sure can't control himself on the street.
My thoughts exactly!
Exactly! Imagine the absolute bullshit he was commenting while muted. He’s not interested in being responsible at all.
Yup! Exactly! Keep him in there!
THIS is what Super Leftist, Defund Police, Tear down ALL Law Enforcement Buildings, etc. etc., "Feminist Women," don't understand about these Evil Scumbags. If they can't & don't Control Themselves in the presence of "Authority" Imagine how they comport themselves inside of a closed windows/door Home!??
Well said. It’s that incredibly lack of self-awareness…
Want to ensure that your parole application is going to be denied?
...Laugh at your victim.
😂😂IKR!
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While claiming you're the actual victim
He knew he wouldn't get parole
I’m laughing at how poorly you tried and failed, in formulating a coherent sentence.
55-years old with the emotional maturity level of a kid and completely clueless about it.
He literally sounds like a 14 year old boy with emotional problems 😬
Knowing your parole hearing is coming and you show up unprepared..childish..
Lashing out...projecting blame.
Someone didn't understand the assignment!!
It does make me wonder about his intellectual capacity or if he genuinely has some mental issues. He just doesn’t get it, at all, not even to allow him to give the usual canned assurances to the parole hearing that any simpleton ought to understand. Surely a person who has been around this same block MANY times before should be expected to be able to get it, it’s not that complicated.
@@jill7759you are right. Sometimes individuals are simply stupid. We don’t all get the same quality grey matter 😅
I honestly think (thanks to my handy dandy commenter's guide to internet diagnosis 😆), that what reads as 'immature' (although he absolutely is) and 'clueless' (well, ditto on that, too) is ultimately down to straight-up psychopathy.
"I got a job and bought a big house." Reality: he abused and coerced a woman into putting his name on the deed of the house she already owned and paid for as a nurse. He is SO gross!
These emotionally stunted men think that working and paying bills is all they need to do in life to be an adult when that is bare minimum. Even if he paid for everything and supported a whole family - it doesn't mean a thing if he has the maturity level of a child. He is a loser and should be treated as such.
A nurse, oh theyre text book bpd psychos .
@@WMyles
Bruh, nurses rock, but wtg on the next level mirroring. (DSM-5 explains it thoroughly.)
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sorry the nurse should use her brain as far as the Home Deed goes
@@forpetessake3532That doesn’t make the statement from op untrue at all!!
"I lost my son last time I was locked up. I lost my nephew. What more can I do?" Trying to use the deaths of his son and nephew as signs of his own strength is disgusting. Lowlife creep. He will never change.
If you've never lost a child, you and others like you should sit down and stfu.
What more can he do? What did he do except set bad examples?
@@kiddozooHe needs to stay right where he’s at.
As a survivor of a person much like this I can tell you that as soon as he's out he WILL take revenge.😢😢
Poor him
The creepy narcissist is a dangerous menace.
Omg. It hilarious! He can’t stop laughing. I’m surprised they didn’t let him out cuz he was laughing as that might be a sign of distress! lol…
The demonic 👹👹👹
At least he's not clever enough to fool a parole board. Those are the ones we have to really look out for. And those who do exactly what this man is in jail for, but have money and/or power, or name recognition, to evade the consequences.
I don't think he is a narcissist. Not very clever one anyway, since he wasn't able to spin some BS to get on parole. A clever narcissist would have manipulated his way out of there and back to his usual crimes...
@@ermaek2145 when it comes to manipulative behaviour, narcissists are actually a few tricks ponies. In other words they are slaves of a particular pattern of behaviour which they find impossible to break from and their cunning, conniving, crafty habit is no exception. Consequently their devious nature;- all their guile & gaslighting & scheming antics & intellectual gymnastics which constitute their perpetual enterprises in sheer "bad faith" - become extremely easy to predict; very very predictable for people cursed to spend some time close to them. The catch is that they are also very very good; exceptionally good at those few manipulative tricks up their sleeves. This is so because the pathological narcissistic personality disorder starts developing when a person is as young as 7-8 years old and becomes irreversibly concrete by the time that person is in his/her late teens. Now it is from her/his pre-teens to early teens that such a person has started figuring out which type of devious and manipulative behaviour works for her/him and then devote her/him-self at honing them, refining them, mastering them single-mindedly for the rest of her/his life. As a result, by the time they are young adults, they're already very good with those small bunch of scheming antics which they have been honing much of their formative years and are able to easily manipulate most people who did not have the misfortune of being in their vicinity ie. close enough to observe the same couple of strategies and same bunch of tactics being employed by the narcissist repeatedly over and over again.
"How to fail a parole hearing".
Laughing at the victim's statement will really help his cause!
How to FAIL PAROLE 101
You're not lying! Sorry I didn't see this before making my post which is kinda similar to yours. Great minds think alike 😁
WAR EAGLE @@TTownTCG
How to fail in life.
20 yrs of protective orders, why is he up for parole ever????
Because the sentencing court decreed it so.
GOOD question...😮
@@Jimbo0341usmc Possible...but not too probable...
@@Jimbo0341usmc😂😂😂 This guy is a crackhead, an alcoholic, a hothead, a habitual offender but yeah, THEY'RE lying
@MomMom4Cubs because the Legislators in that state mandated the law and sentencing guidelines. Domestic abuse victims need stricter laws for their abusers! I had my face crushed 50 years ago, look in the mirror and see a reminder of the abuse every day. The Narcissistic SOB only got 2 years probation! Laws must be changed!
I love when they clearly show us why they should stay locked up
That was loud and clear during his opening statement.
The good news is that he cannot fake it . Society is safer for it.
You can tell by the way he talks that he’s gonna be a problem forever
To every woman's horror
@@KimberlyBishh Females aren't his only victims. The husbands, children, friends, relatives, and the members of society are also his victims.
true. But women will be his primary target. @@EvanBlaze-fq5eg
Well put lol
Yup
Dudes like this are the type of people that should never be allowed out of prison 🙄
Yet half the country wants to make another guy, who's pretty much the same, President.
@@stevenbrucci I don't think it's half, but probably like 35% of voting age people do. Just need people to turn the hell out and vote and that idiot goes away.
@@stevenbrucci
Pick either one. We are so fcked.
He doesn't like being grilled by a woman. Arms crossed, raising his voice and acting defiant at a parole hearing of all places. He hasn't learned anything. It's only lip service so he can get out.
Yes. I noticed his knee was really bouncing up and down when the first woman grilled him. It stopped when the man was talking to him.
He’s not “ acting “ his defiance is set in stone.
Shudder at the thought of him released from prison.
That wasn't even good lip service
He said" I only did crack once!" It must have been from 2012-2022!
Women can be very shrill
Prime example of a narcissist.
Grandiose even (in his mind) lol 🤯 😵💫
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Not at all
Seems to be most people that end up in prison
As is everyone - maybe you can’t stay in a relationship because you’re the problem.
After listening to his interview for 14 minutes, it's clear he's not rehabilitated. I would deny his parole.
Brilliant observation.
After the first 14 seconds...
He hasn't learned anything from his DV classes! A control freak will never change, he'll just find another victim!
He's been convicted 14 times for violence
Domestic abusers NEVER change. I learned this from a DV counselor who had been a police officer for over 30 years. He counseled abusers. He saw first-hand over the course of his career that they DON'T CHANGE, the DON'T STOP HURTING OTHERS!
Spot on! 🎯
Him walking out of this hearing should be EMPHASIZED at his next hearing. What a man-baby.
The Judge did, right after he's left.
I love how too when he was told to turn around he childishly only turned halfway back.
Will he have another hearing before his release date? I hope not.
@@tp5561 if I was a prosecutor seeing that I'd demand a psych profile and a hearing to determine if its safe to release him.
Yes and why didn't the guard stop him from leaving? The hearing wasn't over.
Whoever sentenced him to just 4 years for this crime should be removed from office
They have guidelines for how long they can put someone in jail based on their crime. They cant put someone in jail for 20 yrs for littering. And they cant put this guy in jail for over 4 years just for violation of a protective order.
@@Tech9Jacket”just for violating a protective order “ is a horrifying statement.
This man beaded an attorney
He violated a protective order. She even said he didn't hit her! What do you want, give him life!😂 People like you think with emotions. Bet you are a woman.
@@George-sc3wo Like cornrows?
When he gets out he'll polish up his false charm, latch on to another woman with low esteem and will violate parole, Every Single Time.
His body language speaks volumes.
"There's nothing more I can do to better myself!!"
Wow. Zero self-awareness.
Sadly that is a very true statement, he can't better himself.
I am not defending him, but I wonder if he was trying to articulate that there was "nothing more I can do to better myself within the prison walls" and he just didn't have the articulation skills to say that? Just food for thought.
That comment was unreal.
@@bratlygirlbut truthful 😂
@@KayPrescesky Pretty sure everything else he said before and afterwards indicates that is definitely not what he meant.
This dude can't take accountability for anything! He is broken no fixing him! Keep him locked up!
Clarice Caufield reminds me of cauliflower smoothy
Exactly. If he can't live by the rules of society, then he can't live in society. That's what the whole point of jail and prison is for. Harsher sentences are what we need to get back to because these light sentences and early parole are just not teaching these people anything.
"I take 100% responsibility." Proceeds to blame everyone else.
Precisely. . .
I, I, I, ME, ME, ME,--- Truly Psychopathic Ideology.
We are ALL Safer with him Exactly Where He IS.
@@teresayates8274Thankyou Darling Person.
As a retired parole officer I keep waiting for him to say he found God and is now a new person.
Me too. They all find god in jail
Yup
It truly happens to some but I know what you mean. Jail is “God’s Hotel.” 🕊️
@@WJK2198 “There are no atheists in a foxhole.” 🕊️⚡️🙏
And he did and he is, according to his statement
“I’m not a crackhead, I just smoke crack sometime!”😂😂
I’m not a hooker. I just stand on the street corner asking men if I can love them long time.
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Crack is expensive
There’s a difference between a smoker and a crackhead. I smoke on occasion. It is what it is. Every few months. Might party…but I work. I don’t have time to be out like a crackhead chasing it all day every day. There’s a lot of ppl I know that are lawyers. Doctors. That smoke on occasion. I get what he’s saying.
@@crownviclx2000you are a crackhead if u smoke crack. No such thing as a functioning addict. Just addicts.
His narcissism does not allow him to help his own case. That’s downright hilarious.
Yeah right
Glad the garbage is staying in the can.
Not for long...In the stb parolee's own words: "I didn't even ask for this parole hearing..."; The prison wants him gone, so they have room for more prisoners that actually physicaly harmed someone...He has "changed", in that he knows this, and was attempting to be brutally honest about the reality surrounding his incarceration. He has learned he is better off alone. (Whether the cause of all the issues in his relationships, or not...Him staying/forming these relationships is at least %50 of his problems. No relationships= No problems.
@brentfarvors192 a scary amount of projection in your comment 😬
@@brentfarvors192 You seriously think the “cure” is staying out of relationships and he will in fact stay single??!!
@@brentfarvors192 this kind of thing scares me. This guy is obviously a criminal who is doing “circle thinking” by not realizing his mistakes and improving. He’s obviously mentally and emotionally bereft, and a substance abuser, with no intention of ever living in society without pushing back. For you to say what you said is just astonishing and I’m having trouble closing in my jaw.
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He's the perfect picture of a sociopath.
You are exactly correct! Sociopaths always blame others. So manipulative etc. True Eddie Haskells of the world.
@@Big_Pickle same with narcissists.
Or possibly just a true village idiot!
Sociopaths are better at pretending
blaming everyone and everything but himself
He says he takes "100% responsibility" so he needs help with math too.
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😂😂😂😂 brilliant
Teaching him to count is the least of the problem for society. He's a real clown isn't he.
He's mad as hell.lol
What a stupid comment!
His opening statement should disqualify him. There's NOTHING more he can do to improve himself? HA!
One step away from a murderer.
For real!
That we know of
So right. Surprised he hasn't done it yet, or has he?
This dude's level of comprehension is far below what it should be for his age.
Narcissists are adult toddlers. They don’t comprehend.
You're not wrong.
Always the victim, never the victimizer. This guy will never change!
Yea 😒 unfortunately growing up in chaos & continuing it into older age. Age does not represent mental/emotional growth! More less raised by teen adults & continued it. Education does much more than just line the pockets nicely!
Years of substance abuse will do that...
Notice the only time he doesn't cut someone off from talking is when it's the man speaking to him. Throw that key away, that woman will never be safe with him free.
That was the first thing I noticed he has no respect for women in any way
Exactly! He’s never going to respect women! I hope he had a female judge the next time he ends up back there!
I'd be annoyed getting yapped at by someone who can barely speak english.
@@beeeater8893DEI hire
He cut the man off the same way he cut the women off...
Why are these people even up for parole? Just because they haven’t been in trouble in prison? Of course he hasn’t been in trouble - no women to abuse in jail!
They have more rights than their victim.
Too many corrupt prosecutors, judges, police etc have put away innocent people so the over correction what we see here.
Wouldn't dare make trouble with men.
His response to the Chairperson mentioning his repeated violation of restraining orders orders was ,"She's my childhood sweetheart." as though he claims immunity from reason since they have a long history. It appeared it was taking all his restraint to bite his tongue. Woe is me. No matter what I do everybody is against me. Perpetual recidivist machine.
He got a letter of support from his sister. The sister trying to extort the victim for money. Nice.
Huh. Sounds like the sociopathic tendencies run in the family. Shocking.
“How To Stay In Jail 101”
He should NEVER be in public again!
Absolutely! Now somebody needs to inform the parole board bc they release these abusive, dangerous monsters everyday !!! 👿🤬🤮 Heart breaking!!! 💔
I am not sure why you all think that. Let the dude speak God
He still thinks that he is the victim. I can't see his mindset ever changing for the better.
Just like any other drunk, nothing is his fault.
Narcissist's are never wrong /at fault. / if its undeniable it's still someone else's fault they were in that position or had no choice.
Not a drunk .. a narcissist
Not completely
That is unfortunately an incorrect statement. The root of his problem is his personality disorder. Lots of individuals fall into bad habits for various reasons . However, they learn from it correct it, and become stronger and better for it.
I hate this statement, it’s judge mental and disrespectful plus demonstrates your lack of awareness. Yes, this guy needs to remain behind bars.
I found it rediculous when the parole board member told him that people are watching. Yes lady, but we're watching YOU! We're watching how weak this system is when faced with clearly dangerous offenders. We're watching you people delude yourselves with the hope that he will "learn a lesson" . He certainly MAY learn. He will learn to say the crap you require him to say, and you will buy it hook line and sinker, even though you have ALL the evidence you need to know that he won't believe a word of it. Yes lady, people are watching
At several points they pretty much tell him exactly what they want to hear from him, and he doesn’t get it.
All I hear are excuses... why nothing is really his fault... parole DENIED
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Talking about excuses, please watch the interrogation of Jennifer Eiland. I’ve never heard someone come up with an excuse for literally everything that they’re called out on, it’s insane.
@@George_Tropicanado you have a link? I searched TH-cam and nothing came up.
@@Whitey2716 I’m not the original poster, but I think the creator was TRU RED Crime vault.” This mother let her daughter drown “ is the Title.
I do not think this guy has a clue as to what the right answer even is.
He’s made himself crazy inside his cocoon of lie upon lie upon lie. That’s why he can’t find the right answer.
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She said you stopped drinking in 2012 and picked up the crack.... that laid me out😂😂😂😂😂
Was reading 📖 this just as she said it . Omg the way she said it.
I thought it's going to be the victim saying that, the parole board saying it is 💋 chefs kiss
Talk about your trade ups! 😉 😜
I find that to be not odd only because I picked up more substances but didn’t drop the old ones. I am 4 years clean and sober from iv meth and opiates. I also drank until black out drunk and did ghb every day the last year of active addiction. When I decided I was tired of living that way I got up the next day and was done. I just didn’t do any drugs and didn’t drink and got up every day after that and made the choice not to. It never made me do something horrible to another person! It is not the fault of drugs or alcohol! These men are predators and drugs and alcohol just make their inhibitions low where they don’t think about consequences. They are just awful monsters.
He only used crack once! 😂
Misogyny is hate. Charge these men with hate crimes.
I’m feeling a lot of anger in this post. 😂
Long does it also goes the other way around, which we know is not going to happen.
😂😂😂😂 seethe and mald
incels can somehow sense when the word misogyny is correctly applied and still come flocking like moths to a flame to invalidate it cuz of their feefees. 😂
Well put.
He seems to think everyone else is the problem and not him.
Seems?
He’s in so much denial. No way is he ready to be released. He’s dangerous to society.
So rude and full of himself. He is dangerous 😳
I agree. He's not a good person. He gives me a bad feeling.
And he lives stimulants. Bye 👋 back to your cell you go.
Oh my word, I have no words for this guy: no accountability, arrogant, a hot head, a sociopath... how scary that people like this are in society.
Girl protect yourself at all cost
I'm genuinely scared for her. He's sat in prison getting angrier and angrier at her " for putting him in there" I hope the police keep extremely close tabs on him and that LE make sure there's no way he can find her. The lengths a narcissist will go to if you leave them is frightening.
Hopefully she has a new identity & has moved far away.
@@Ruth78620 that's part of the problem with protective orders. And they said she has a 25 year protective order. But the problem is that he has to know where to stay away from to avoid violating the order, so her home & work address is put on these orders. But obv in his case he uses these orders to find, harass, & obviously violate the order. This is not safe, she may be while he's on parole, but like he did the last time, as soon as he got off parole, he immediately went back to doing what he does best, abusing women. With all the charges & convictions going back to the mid 80's, I don't know why he's not considered a habitual offender or a predicate felon that should be used to give harsh sentences.
He will eventually get out and she better be prepared to protect herself. She needs to be very familiar with a firearm.
2:30 THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO TO BETTER MYSELF. he said it, I didn't 🤣🤣🤣
Yup....
I just thought the same thing.
Right there, I was like send him back, interview over!
Textbook narcissism! No insight, only blaming and gaslighting. If he can not pull himself together at a PAROLE HEARING….. 🤷♀️
He’s 55 and acting like this speaks volumes
Maybe, he's so self-aware that he knows he's not ready to get out of prison that he's blowing it on purpose... Bwahhhh
@@B_Bodziak could be, if that’s true he could’ve still been honest instead of acting like a two year old
SAME thing I thought! 0 maturity, & where he is, he’s already one of the “old guys!”
Given that history, the courts are as much to blame as the drugs-maybe more! Because “privileged/entitled” is written all over his cases as recited by the parole board, & as Mandoo reiterated. Sad to see states with $$$ & programs doing so poorly at rehabilitation.
Trauvedey is having fun right where he is. HE calls the shots regarding when the meetings are OVER! Even the deputies/guards don’t double-up on him to keep him in his seat. The bailiffs/cops don’t go after him when he’s buzzing the courthouse where his hearings are being held-even if they recognize him! Soooooo, WHO ARE they going after in CT, really?
Looks about 40
This poor soul has zero self awareness. He has no understanding of his behavior. All he wants to do is blame others and drugs/ alcohol.
No self-preservation either.
Yes I also agree with you as well.
Just keep him locked up. There is no hope for some people. His criminal record, his lying and immaturity makes him too dangerous. Going before a panel to decide if you can be released early and still acting like a clown. Unbelievable !!!
Poor soul? He has no soul.
For sure! and minimize his behaviors big time. What he said and what she said about his behaviors were so far apart. Including his drug-alcohol usage. He should leave women alone!!
You would think they give 10+ years for violating THAT many restraining orders
If it were ten separate people maybe, they dont care if one woman gets killed, a community being bothered while cops do nothing will cause some problems however.
Removal of moniter and escape on a motorcycle that alone and failing community work release. Good grief this guy needs more time in added on. Not parole
This damn man child is ridiculous. He didn't give a straightforward answer to any question that was asked. 40 years of being in trouble and he only gets 4 years! He hasnt learned anything, he will never change and he's going to eventually kill someone. Our justice system sucking once again.
He is so narcissistic I can't stand it! The folding of his arms are a true sign that he's not remorseful. He thinks that he is a bad ass.
Yep. Speaks volumes.
He thinks he's done nothing wrong, and he's a victim of circumstance and "her."
He's refusing a settlement to remove his name from the deed. Therefore, he has NO ability or intention to respect a no contact order. End of story.
He wants the money (1/2 the house).
His shaking his head and laughing at the beginning of and during the victim’s impact statement say it all
Keep him in prison for as long as possible
@@Grammichal Pig had no right to ask to be on it in the first place.
No responsibility whatsoever
He has no respect for women
They dont deserve any, 90 percent are toxic, self sabotaging, batshit crazy cop calling liars, not victims.
Nobody does. They are women.
@@WMyles
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Sewing kit thimble matches whaaat?
Quite a 'tell' - in poker and the DSM-5.
Seeing a pattern of it? That's not about them.
He needs to stay in prison. He’s clearly a danger.
This hearing is absolutely out of control. They are not here to debate why what happened with the protective order, it’s about what he’s learned, and he is taking zero accountability. That could have been decided in about 10 minutes 🤯 This guy ain’t going nowhere 🗝️
THIS IS A MONSTER, AND THAT NOT GOING TO CHANGE.
If I were on the parole board, I would've stopped the hearing and entered a motion for denial as soon as he started laughing!
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As well as what he needs to do and demonstrate and attend and get proof of….for his next hearing or don’t bother to apply for one. Like all abusers, he is a professional victim.
He doesn’t take accountability, laughing just shows how dangerous he is still after all those years, he is done.
“Nothing I do is good enough…” is what crappy people say when they are confronted with evidence of their total lack of effort to please anyone.
Not always. In this case, yes.
@@thebenjandboc6981 Yes, clearly OP has never dealt with a controlling narcissist who can never be pleased.
No, not always.
@@annehedonia156Sounds like they ARE the narc 😂
I love your name, btw!! 👍
@@PallasAndDove yes you got me there. There are other things crappy people say instead of accepting responsibility.
This is a seriously dangerous man. Next time, he'll be in there for murder, blaming his victim. Laughing just showed how cruel he is. This is a disgusting human being.
They expect him to murder someone that’s the point of parole without rehabilitation or any real time served.
His childishness laughing and smirking should show who he really is
You will get nowhere with this type of person, he will always have an excuse for everything. He is never wrong, and everyone is to blame . He will never take accountability for his actions.
Everyone should feel sorry for him.. Lala dada.etc..
He feels he shouldn't have to change. Everyone around him needs to change.
Narcissist.
I wish I had known this years ago when I was married to a narcissistic abuser. He never took any responsibility for what he did. I’m sure he still doesn’t. He literally ruined my life. It took many years to finally get rid of him. I’m still very afraid of him.
@@Roxanne_PNW they never change!
@@Roxanne_PNW The Crappy Childhood Fairy and Live Abuse Free are really good channels.
You can't light yourself on fire to warm another person. Take care of yourself first Roxanne. Think positively.
@@lorimiller4301 thank you!
Then he cannot be released. Ever.
"I did a complete 180." Nah, man, you did a 360.
He did a 180....twice
@@CharlesSeipel😏 😂
The parole board got a masterclass of a prisoner demonstrating "I am an incorrigible bastard".
As well as being an insufferable bastard.
Notice how he passive aggressively only partially turns around when the deputy gestured for him to.
You dropped the alcohol and picked up the crack. 😂.
At 55, in and out of prison, pos attitude…ya, he’ll never change. Keep him in forever.
Why
To all females.. If you see this man, run! Remember his face.
He’ll never change. His words drip with disdain every time he speaks about his victims.
Women are drawn to men like this, like flies to a dog loaf. Half the engineers that work for me can not find women. No sympathy here...
13 unsuccessful releases is 12 too many.
Yes he should stay in for life
He doesn’t necessarily want to get out. Very dependent offender trying very hard to get them to let him stay.
No matter what. Live stream is not a human manner.
It’s 13 too many.
This guy should NEVER be allowed to be free 😡
Let hope you get locked 🆙
This psycho needs to be in prison FOREVER! I’m assuming all involved in this judicial system has never been a victim of anything. Uggh
Lol he didn't learn anything in domestic violence class. Dropped alcohol and picked up the crack😂😂
He needs to repeat that class and take a test proving he at least learned something. Keep repeating until he learns or can at least fake it.
What we have here is a man losing control of his situation.
He came to this with absolute conviction about how it was going to go.
He’d rehearsed it in his head over and over….it was a given…he was going to get what he wanted. He’d done his part and the rest of the world has to fall into line because he’s done his bit.
His script was learned and what we have here is it not happening hence the explosion and genuine confusion. It’s genuine. He’s bewildered….and dangerous.
They should have been more explicit about what he needs to do to pass the dv program. Because he flunked it.. Just saying I take responsibility is not taking responsibility. How? Maybe sign the house over? Apologize and send her money or work donate cash to women's shelter. Something..
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Thank you. I am disgusted at the Judge/Court who let this psycopath back into society to abuse, intimidate, humiliate and destroy numerous women's lives. Watching him made me feel physically sic, he's revolting and despicable. His record demonstrates his narcissistic, psychopathic, violent, insolent and unconscionable behaviour. He should never have been released from prison to continue his pathological threatening and terryfying persistent sexual molestation, when his entitled and aggressive advances were made on women. His sister sounds as bad by refusing to sign over the house his ex-wife was bullied and no doubt intimidated to sign.
5K into his account 🤦🏻♀️ Put his name on her deed
Well, they can’t just keep human beings in prison when that person didn’t even physically touched the victim. Throwing out names and dishes doesn’t call for one to be locked up forever. So naturally, he’s going to be released after some time. They didn’t release him here after 2 years of prison time and the victim stated he had never physically abused her.
@@BS-dq1kz Domestic violence hasn't historically been taken seriously in legislative circles and laws were weak and often unenforceable. After many highly publicized cases in New York the law was changed and police officers responding to emergency calls no longer had to depend upon victims to make arrests. That was a game changer
@@BS-dq1kz Domestic violence against women hasn't historically been taken seriously in legislative circles. Laws were weak and often unenforceable; women unbelieved. After many highly publicized cases in New York the law was changed and police officers responding to emergency calls no longer had to depend upon victims to make arrests. That was a game changer
Liberalism.
Sir sir sir, you were outside screaming absurdities! That's interesting, I wonder what kind of absurd things he was screaming. I know she meant obscenities, but that just struck me funny. I must have a whack sense of humor. LOL
This poor woman (victim) will never be safe if/when they let him out. 💔🙏🏻
Narcissistic Personality Disorder 101
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Agree wholeheartedly... survivor of lifetime abuse, neglect by a gaslighting male parent.
@penelopelgoss2520 both of mine were, but it was mom who targeted me. Hugs 🤗 🫂
@@Sandra.Sandy.Robinson I am so sorry to hear this Sandra. I hope you have found, collected and set up both your professional and personal foundations of support, advice, guidance, hand-holding, shoulders to cry on and ears that listen. My best to you on your road of life! 🤗 Hugs back😉
The most Overused term of the past 3 years…. 🙄
The way I screamed when she said “you dropped the alcohol and picked up the crack!” 😂😂😂
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My son in-law was bi-polar. Once they separated (he wanted his freedom), he made several death threats. When her and the girls were on vacation, he went into the home and destroyed a lot. All sorts of crazy threats to kids, to her, tried to kill his sister, etc. We were all terrified as he seemed hell bent on killing my daughter & he beat his current girlfriend - but all of a sudden, he committed suicide. It was very sad but also relieving that no one has to be constantly afraid. Horrible for his children and my daughter still grieves, but they can go to bed at night not wondering what may happen. At court he acted like this man, same disposition, smarter than anyone, all lies against him, no respect for lawyers or judges, threats to his wife, my daughter.
Yea this guy video does NOT have bi polar 🙄🤬 stop excusing these malignant narcissists…..he’s got ZERO hope of ever being normal and nor emotionally and physically violent he’s a lost cause….and I’m gonna guess that son in law didn’t JUST have bi polar from the sound of it….I mean are you that uneducated on abusers and how they operate? How they talk? Guess not.
I’m sorry that someone felt they had to take their life, but it was probably the “best worse “ outcome in the end. I’m glad you and your daughter and the kids are safe now.
Why do you think he would do that? Your son in law had bipolar, as far as we know this man does not. I HIGHLY doubt Alan would ever commit suicide. He thinks WAY too highly of himself, and not just due to a manic episode etc, he just lives and breathes believing he is more important than others, and nothing is his fault.
@@sadiefalco4673They didn't say that they thought Alan would do the same. They were simply sharing their own story with a similarly frightening abuser. Simple. Not sure what about that confused you.
That's usually how they end up, same happened to me
Breaks my heart she has to do this every time up for parole. Brave !! Keep at it. I hope someone else can speak as well to perhaps give her a break? I cannot imagine how difficult to relive.
He was mouthing something at the parole board, grinning, laughing and left before the meeting was over.
Didntt notice. Thanks for explaining...
The man will reoffend period. Keep him in prison to fulfill his entire sentence and mandatory parole. He needs intensive psychological counseling.
This monster is laughing.
Monster is a strong word. Why do you say that? Seems like he never hit her. Every man has a breaking point. You're a woman, you clearly don't understand how crazy a woman can drive a man even when he has the best intentions.
I've never lifted a finger toward a woman. But been cheated on, mentally and emotionally abused by women. Lack of empathy, lack of understanding; but I don't blame you. You just have never been there, and so you don't get it.
If your analysis is "he's a monster". That is so 1D, so mid honey, so mid.
Monster is a strong word. Why do you say that? Seems like he never hit her. Every man has a breaking point. You're a woman, you clearly don't understand how crazy a woman can drive a man even when he has the best intentions.
I've never lifted a finger toward a woman. But been cheated on, mentally and emotionally ab*sed by women. Lack of empathy, lack of understanding; but I don't blame you. You just have never been there, and so you don't get it.
If your analysis is "he's a monster". That is so 1D, so mid honey, so mid.
Showing his TRUE COLORS!
That's a nervous reaction but aside from that he's a danger to society and he's an idiot.
Zero remorse. He's like a giant man-baby
Years ago, locally, we had a shooting in the court house parking lot. The abuser shot his ex-girlfriend after their protection order hearing. He had never physically abused her before, but she was terrified of him. He had enough other disturbing, abusive behaviors that he was an absolute risk to her life.
That's ridiculous. People aren't terrified of a partner that never abused them.
@@JewelEzra > he hadn't physically but clearly he abused her in other ways
@@TariAkpodietehe physically abused her. She just didn’t talk about it.
One of our staff had her partner come to the hospital looking for her. Something about his demeanour just didn’t seem right and the ER nurses hid her down the back hallway until he left. He went next door and Sh0t himself behind the office supply place there. Nothing on earth will ever convince me that his original plan wasn’t to take her with him and who knows who else might have become entangled in that terrible day. Domestic violence is no joke and partners who are violent or threaten their mates are absolutely a danger to the lives of their partners.
When I was highschool, back in the day my boyfriend at the time had a friend that a girl I went to school with dated. My boyfriend and her boyfriend were best friends and we occasionally went out together on double dates. When she decided to break up with him, he called me. I didn't know her really well or him, but she and I were in band together. He never hit her, never even verbally abused her. But when they broke up, he went off the deep end. Cried so hard he puked in my car the day she broke up with him. Then after he and I had talked while driving around for maybe an hour he took a .22 semi automatic to the grocery store where she worked and waited for her in the parking lot. Shot her five times. She lived, and recovered and he went away to prison. He gave ZERO indication that he was the kind of young man that would do something like that. You just never really know people, ever.
I love how confused he looks, acting as if he is earnestly trying to grasp the "Greek" being spoken to him. haha
She has a second amendment right and should use it and the right to protect herself.
Boy… he’s got a giant chip on his shoulder. He hasn’t taken accountability for nothing. I doesn’t want out very bad. Did it too himself 😊
It's a woman who has power over his release at the moment.
Four years?! Meanwhile, we have countless innocent people serving life sentences for stuff they never did. Our judicial system is so bass ackward.
When you got prisons for profit there is definitely something wrong!
Theres not that many innocent people locked up anymore since DNA was discovered.
He says there's nothing more he can do to better himself. Ok. I guess he's a lost cause, then. Egotistical creep.
It would be great if the parole board took him at his word and said, "okay if this is your best, you will never be released because you are not fit to live in society."
“You Dropped the alcohol and picked up the crack!” 😮😂😂 unhinged much?! 😂😂
Please never release him into society........
How to fail a parole hearing in 10 minutes or less. 😅
How about “even with no audio”!
13 unsuccessful releases. Wtf?
Now that is insane. 13 times
Yep, 13 and saying I just want to get back to my regular life and there is nothing else I can do to improve myself. Retired, never been in trouble and I still have things I would like to improve about myself. Yikes
Yet that woman thought getting with him was a grand idea?!? Yea ok 🙄🤣 women need to start NOT BEING SO DESPERATE FOR ANY MAN ANY DICK TO PAY ATTENTION TO THEM!!!
She's not at fault for him but you've got TO OWN YOUR CHOICES!!!
Our justice system at work
He takes ZERO responsibility for anything he has done.
Typical of a narcissist
He had no clue
yep, he is 100% the victim in his own mind.
When he says there's nothing else that he can do to better himself, he means it. It's true. It's not because he's done everything he can do, It's because he will never do anything that would help him be any better than he is.
And they need to force him to sign over the house back to the victim and not pay him or his sister anything.