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  • @AZearafel
    @AZearafel 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    💖PIN ME ELLAA💖
    1.)it's your parents 1st time on earth too
    2.)breathe,slow down,no hurry
    3.)be picky with men/life partner
    4.)trust your gut
    5.)surround yourself with genuine friends
    6.1)find hobbies and try new things 6.2) be grateful
    7.)call parents more
    8.) know your own worth
    9.)saying yes opens so many doors
    10.)learn to say no to things that are toooo much or not compatible with you
    11.)keep a clean space
    12.)embrace embarrassment (i.e stop fearing spectators judging you)
    13.) choose happiness every day
    14.)food is medicine
    15.) its ok to not know EXACTLY where your going
    16.)laugh
    17.) being alone is better than feeling alienated and ostracised - go on solo dates 1
    8.) your opinion matters more than others of you
    19.) comparison is the thief of joy -don't compare looks you're completely different
    20.) allow yourself to be loved

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      thank u so much. u are amazing!

  • @ellawng
    @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    sit down, grab a cup of tea, and let’s reflect for the new year

    • @wakween
      @wakween 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i’m sat.

  • @BUROGMa.KristelG
    @BUROGMa.KristelG 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    first minutes of the video and I'm already being emotional lol, i'm turning 20 this year so thank you for this ate ella!

  • @serena6145
    @serena6145 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m turning 18 this year and I am so scared but I don’t admit it in front of my friends and family because I always try to look like I know what I want to do with my life even though I am completely lost. This video was really comforting, thank you

  • @mishujo
    @mishujo 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    all of these lessons were such good reminders, wishing you an amazing 2025 ella 💗🌟

  • @forevermoresft
    @forevermoresft 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is so comforting omg :’) i love u ella happy new year!!!

  • @Saurusv
    @Saurusv 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every part you Said about parents made me cry every second💕😿

  • @sunnnyluv
    @sunnnyluv 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    happy new year!! just wrote these down in my journal! 🤍

  • @emilyr02
    @emilyr02 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    happy new year Ella , wishing you so much happiness, success for this new year. Stay safe always ⭐️🫶🏻✨

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      happy new year emily 💖 stay safe & healthy !

  • @elinaayoubi2006
    @elinaayoubi2006 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really you have lots of positive energy🤍
    happy new year I think 2025 will be good year🙂

  • @oIdricecooker
    @oIdricecooker 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    happy new year ella! 2024 was great with you and I'm so excited to see what this new year brings for the both of us :) let's keep growing together
    thank you for all these reminders
    ps hope you recover soon/are feeling better!

  • @aryy7
    @aryy7 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    happy new year ella!!!! hope you have a great year
    am also turning 21 next year

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      happy new year to you too!! 🥂

    • @CeliaDavids-s6f
      @CeliaDavids-s6f 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too ❤

  • @faizmalik3719
    @faizmalik3719 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Although its my parents first time at life, Its also my first life. Not an excuse to ruin my life just because they had trauma doesn't mean they also need to give me trauma too.

    • @ciao-yb3qu
      @ciao-yb3qu 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh my, someone I agree with 💀
      Even if I think it's a decent argument it's not a good one :/ I've been traumatised by them therefore I had the same trauma as them (me personally basically same since they think therapy is bullshit) and I would never think "oh let me do the same thing to others".
      My father for example, he got trauma in school and from his parents but he never treated me badly (or the same way his parents did) so- that's not a good reason for them to act the way they do :

    • @faizmalik3719
      @faizmalik3719 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ciao-yb3qu This is why i dont want to have kids in the future. I know i have been affected by my parents so severely there is a possibility i,ll do the same. I am scared of that and i dont want to do that. I think you dont realize how much you affect someone in the moment. My parents probably didn't realize either. I know so much from my childhood and any time i mention it to them they say they dont remember it happening cause it's the little things. And the little things pile up overtime.

  • @fionainnewyork4068
    @fionainnewyork4068 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are the smartest and most amazing girl! You got all these right ! Always love yourself first in order to love others 💝

  • @nijurose2222
    @nijurose2222 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy beautiful new years Ella ❤ this is so inspiring and we deeply admire you

  • @bxturnxs
    @bxturnxs 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy new year to you girlie!! I've been with you since early jan and now im going into 2025 with you. Hope we have all a great year, Im also turning 18..Becoming an adult! Hope it's a good year💕

  • @dodobirddori
    @dodobirddori 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    HAPPY NEW YEAR ELLA!! 💫💫I JUST FOUND YOUR CHANNEL AND IM ACTUALLY OBSESSED (you’re literally SO COOL) AND I HOPE YOU HAVE THE BEST 2025!!! 💗💗💗💗

  • @10MINUTESORMORE
    @10MINUTESORMORE 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *"Very cutesy, very considerate, very approachable, very demure."* 🕊😻✨️

  • @javimzzz
    @javimzzz 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy new year Ella!, thank you for this video, now i know what i want to change for 2025. Supporting u always! 🫶💗

  • @jeonginsslove
    @jeonginsslove 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow i really needed to hear this all as confirmation. thank you ella (;

  • @ourdiaes3
    @ourdiaes3 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thıs video literally makes me happy thank you for everything 💗

  • @__irenic
    @__irenic 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy new year!!!❤️

  • @mai1tsy
    @mai1tsy 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love this type of new content, you should make some more!

  • @VirtuasLucy4ever
    @VirtuasLucy4ever 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Happpiii newyearrr ellaaaa 🎉 I love your vids 💖

  • @ikamzcapguy4741
    @ikamzcapguy4741 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ella with glasses>>>ella with contacts

  • @AtreesaJavadi
    @AtreesaJavadi 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woww thank u for the advice😭💝

  • @manjulagandhi7826
    @manjulagandhi7826 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hy❤
    Happy new year girlee😊
    Keep growing and learning 💞🌹

  • @Yasmin-id5ip
    @Yasmin-id5ip 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow☕️🎀

  • @Mirannda.07
    @Mirannda.07 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Que legal, essa parte do não é super me identifico, eu sou muito indecisa também, não sou mudar.

  • @GhenaKadado
    @GhenaKadado 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I celebrate with books and exam tomorrow🫣💔

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      good luck ❤️

  • @suzy-nayeon
    @suzy-nayeon 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hiiiiiii
    Happy new year ! 🎊

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy new year!!

    • @suzy-nayeon
      @suzy-nayeon 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you !

  • @ZenD-gl7qt
    @ZenD-gl7qt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you lowkey look like jeon Somi

  • @mathketeer606
    @mathketeer606 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    13:09

  • @ธนวัฒน์สวรรยาธิปัติ-พ7ฐ

    น้องสวยและหน้ารัก

  • @RehemMIMI
    @RehemMIMI 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😊😊😊😊😊🥳🥳🥳🥳🫶🏻 🩷🩷🩷

  • @IkramKm-p6p
    @IkramKm-p6p 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💗💗💗

  • @RajkumarBishwokarma-eg3nx
    @RajkumarBishwokarma-eg3nx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi sister I am from Nepal

    • @ellawng
      @ellawng  20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      hiii

  • @divyashreevkumar6373
    @divyashreevkumar6373 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey ella i would luv if you'd pin me
    Btw HAPPY NEW YEAR 💗

  • @Ronjuliini
    @Ronjuliini 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMG IM THE FIRST!!