Discovery voiceover - on toxic friendship/relationship asmr

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  • @ccisthesekxs
    @ccisthesekxs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I’ll never forget when 3 years ago I told you I was going through major depression and you sent me a beautiful little tea cup and a flower tea ball wrapped in a French newspaper. You are a beautiful soul and you’ve touched so many hearts with your warmth and wisdom including my own. Thank you for being. 🙏

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did I ? This makes me so proud of myself. I used to be such a nice person.

    • @SuperSyro1
      @SuperSyro1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yanghaiying has that changed?

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SuperSyro you decide.

  • @ASMRer
    @ASMRer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Very relatable !! No friends here but I love it so far. Great advice!!

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You re not alone. I admire your achievements.

    • @zeddistic
      @zeddistic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tony Bomboni ASMR I thought I saw some haiying influence in your videos and style and boom you do a really watch her too! 😊

  • @TheAlia1996
    @TheAlia1996 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    when sad-insomnia hits me, your videos remind me that life is actually really beautiful, thanks 🌻

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your comment reminds me that life is actually beautiful. People are beautiful. Love

  • @pumpkinmomma155
    @pumpkinmomma155 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree with you that friends are overrated! I enjoy being by myself, it is more comfortable because I have social anxiety, so when I'm alone I don't feel stressed like I do when I'm around people.

  • @leospanac6962
    @leospanac6962 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I could watch you all day long, you have no idea how much quietness and relaxation you bring in my life! i wish i found you out sooner

  • @stoicstrawberries
    @stoicstrawberries 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    we stan a queen!!!! 💕💕💕💕

  • @ashleymarie8811
    @ashleymarie8811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all...... that golden sunlight and how it enhances the beautiful glow that already eminates from you. This is so perfect. It bounces off of your skin gorgeously 🌞

  • @georgesrhart
    @georgesrhart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    singing to the choir with the last five minutes, i think people like us relish the freedom of solitude, there is no pressure to entertain and there is no need to compromise and go along with what others want to do, unlike others we dont need constant companionship, however in a world that is by and large very social it is not the easiest way to be wired, its more of struggle for people like us to put on our social (phony) faces in social settings

  • @li_li_li_li
    @li_li_li_li 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Currently dealing with this with my own mother, so it's a tricky type of situation. I'm learning that boundaries are my best ally. Lovely video, thank you

  • @ChaiTogether
    @ChaiTogether 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right on time!:)

  • @CruelYoru
    @CruelYoru 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad to have found your videos! They are wonderful! Thank you for sharing. Looking forward to seeing more. :3

  • @erinbrown9395
    @erinbrown9395 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this beautiful video, and all your other videos!

  • @vivalaelsa
    @vivalaelsa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how peaceful and calming this video was. Beautiful scenery, voice, and advice. Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @nighteyesiv
    @nighteyesiv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I work super early morning shifts and have had a hard time falling asleep early enough due to anxiety, your videos always help calm me down, and the topics you cover hit close to home every time. Thank you for everything you do 💕

  • @RipeLemon
    @RipeLemon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is such a beautiful light shining from you that goes far and wide 💖

  • @snookerjam
    @snookerjam 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OK HALLO DEAR FRIENDS! thats the best sentence of 2021👌

  • @MALU_604
    @MALU_604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I'm on a boat!"

  • @KanwaltheArtist
    @KanwaltheArtist 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are very crystal clear person.

  • @janeisadora8986
    @janeisadora8986 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in the process of ending a friendship with someone who stirs up so much drama, and I always feel so terrible after I’m around them. I want to stay friends with him because I’ve known him so long, but it’s really not healthy for me to be his friend. It seriously sucks having to end a friendship.

  • @davehugstrees
    @davehugstrees 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this footage. Looks like a very serene, peaceful place.

  • @AmberMaloneAZ
    @AmberMaloneAZ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. I live in a climate that makes walking around outdoors in the afternoon this time of year very, very hot. What a pure and beautiful blue sky and sunset. How beautifully green that foliage, even after humans tried to destroy the plot of land. I love being alone too! I even love vacationing alone. But all of the therapists I've had over the years seem to imply that spending a lot of leisure time alone indicates that a person may not be emotionally well-adjusted. 😞. So that in the back of my mind sometimes interferes a little with the joy of my fun times alone. But it can't be true in every case because you seem to be incredibly sound emotionally. You're awesome.

    • @AmberMaloneAZ
      @AmberMaloneAZ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In hindsight, when I look at this issue rationally it becomes more clear. What's a better marker of emotional stability? Staying home alone instead of exercising or doing emotionally soothing pleasant events because one can't find an available companion or perhaps because one can't summon the energy to say, take a walk AND text 40 people to see who's available to tag along? Or just doing what you can, when you can-whether anyone else is on board or not? I'm certain that any descent therapist would agree, It's the latter.

  • @jennieanderson971
    @jennieanderson971 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello again Haiying, Oh how lovely you look with the warm golden sunlight on your face ✨ I agree with you about trying to give back to our earth some help to replace what we have taken from it... and maybe we shall watch as it begins to mend again 🕊 You help to heal my spirit as I am becoming sicker in my body and I am crippled and can no longer walk, Thank You and blessings Dear Friend 🌺

  • @thewhisperkitchen9035
    @thewhisperkitchen9035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Haiying! Is this Steven’s Creek? We were just there on Sunday. :) I’d love some free advice if you’d be willing to talk about this question: Is it better to raise kids in the city, in the suburbs, or in the country? My husband and I had a baby 5 months ago and we are looking to upgrade to a larger place. We cannot seem to agree on whether it’s more important to have a quiet, safe neighborhood near nature where our daughter can one day run around (my preference) OR to stay in San Francisco and be near all kinds of neat things for her to do but have a smaller living space and no yard (my husband’s preference). Thanks in advance.

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Whisper Kitchen I will think about it and then blablabla. You will see in two weeks. I can only use cell phone, it’s hard to type. This is bay shore natural reserve in Mountain View.

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Whisper Kitchen Do you live in San Francisco?

    • @thewhisperkitchen9035
      @thewhisperkitchen9035 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      yanghaiying No rush! I appreciate you taking the time to talk about it. Yes, I currently live in San Francisco.

    • @erinm9445
      @erinm9445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Leaving aside that this was three years ago and you asked Yang, not the internet: there is no objective answer here. Kids grow up happy and fulfilled in all kinds of environments, and different kids have different temperaments and preferences, so what is more right for one kid will be less right than another. What is important is the parents finding a way to honor each others' preferences, and be a strong partnership that can provide a happy and supportive home, and make the best of wherever it is that they live. If one of YOU is miserable or resentful about where you live, that will not be great for the family.
      Did Yang ever record this video? I'd love to hear her answer!

  • @esmee4760
    @esmee4760 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i needed this, thank you

  • @Meganyourface
    @Meganyourface 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The sun looks orange like when there are fires. Is it very smokey there? It was quite smokey in Davis today and the sunset was so orange.

  • @ssikhcnerf
    @ssikhcnerf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That place looks like you'd need a pip boy ;-)

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don’t understand this comment.

    • @ssikhcnerf
      @ssikhcnerf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reference to the Fallout video game series... the pip boy is a device that keeps track of your radiation level among other things ;-) That place looks quite like the post nuclear war wastelands in those games...