um even if Ryan was your personal assistant, there would be nothing wrong with that either. We need to normalize people doing what they want without judging so much.
Yup! No one tells you how hard kids are on a marriage, especially right after your first is born. They also don't tell you how breastfeeding is literally a full-time job.
I actually love she brought this up! I'm married without children for this exact reason. Children are HARD! People on television and influencers always act like "look at this blessed life, children are amazing and easy!" and all I can think is "do you have a nanny or something?! When do you sleep?!" I've been sleep deprived without a kid and I was ready to punch my husband, I can't imagine adding a crying infant to that.
My husband and I aren't able to have kids, we've been together 18.5 years, married 10 of that. We rarely even argue. I honestly believe it's because we don't have children. Although, my uncle and his wife don't have children and they fight all the time, they even got divorced for a year and then remarried. We have separate checking accounts. We assist had them, I also have a tendency to spend too much, so I'm glad it's that way. When I was younger I didn't understand how you could be married and not have a joint account, then I realized money was the other big fight for couples.
Yes my marriage has always been strong until about 4 months post partum with my first and I just hated my husband and blamed him for all the negative emotions I had to deal with. Now I’m 2.5 years later and feel like my old self and rarely ever have arguments with my husband but I’m pregnant with my second so.. we’ll see how we handle this hurdle lol
Thank you for normalizing having troubles in a relationship and still being happy together & working it out. I always thought it's absurd how people expect you to be a perfect spouse from day one or otherwise it can't be "right" ... Like how?! You have to learn to be a good partner and that's okay!
Brittany big weddings are overrated. All it is is signing papers. My parents did a courthouse signing. I think that was SO SMART that you and Ryan decided to save money to buy a house. I learn so much from your videos everytime!!!
Personally, I think it’s a waste of money, I’d spend that money on a honeymoon/donate a portion to charity. Especially because in my culture you’d have to invite your parents’ friends, cousins, 2nd cousins etc 😑🙄
It's about the bride and groom getting married, not the material things. For many there is a deep reason for weddings. There is also the option of having a mini wedding where you go to a spot you like or love and get married there with a couple witnesses to see it all happen. A big wedding or not doesn't matter, it's not about the material things.
My husband and I got married at the courthouse 44 years ago. Saved the money to immediately buy a house. Don't regret it for an instant. I told my son that if his wife to be was more interested in the wedding than the marriage he should run away as fast as he can. They ended up having a backyard wedding with just family. YAY!
THANK YOU for saying we should not let society pressure us to do things we are not comfortable doing. I find myself struggling so often with such situations. It's exhausting. You are so right, I am trying to do better. 😊
I agree 100%! So amazing you talked about small courthouse weddings & having small birthdays for kids - people should do what they feel is the best option for them! You go girl! :)
“Communicate your needs, don’t assume that he will know.” Oh my gosh, looking back on our 51 years of marriage, I wish I had learned that when I was younger.
To be fair though, men should not need to be told that once the baby is born they need to contribute equally and change their daily routine. Especially if he's literally living with you, can see you struggling, and still chooses to waltz off to the gym.
Thanks so much for sharing some realness in your life. A lot of us women can completely relate to the resentment and lows in a marriage. It's nice to know you're not alone ❤
I agree about the wedding thing! Love going to weddings but for my situation it made more sense to tie the knot on our own and we have been able to use our resources to build our home and family! I love that you mentioned normalizing this so thank you! Also with the kids birthday as long as you get the photo with the kid smeared in cake who cares about anything else? ❤️
I really enjoyed this vlog. Spilling the tea about you and Ryan's relationship makes me feel so normal. I feel like influencers have to have this perfect life but you spilling the tea shows followers that influencers are still normal people. I think this really helps others ♥️
Brittney - I’ve been following you for some time now. Just wanted to say how refreshing it is to hear you talk about not following the crowd and doing what feels right for you, ignoring the pressure. I’ve always done this, and it’s amazing to see such a gorgeous young lady influence others to just be their own person. As well as this, you talk honestly about some subjects others just wouldn’t dream of doing - again all real life stuff, and so helpful to others. Keep on doing you - love seeing Ryan in the videos these days - you two are such a beautiful & fun couple. Thanks for sharing your life with us all ❤️🥰Xx
Brittany, our wedding was so small….we saved and paid cash for what we did do. I’ve never understood spending tens of thousand of dollars on one day. We’ve been married 36 years and have the most amazing marriage, so it didn’t matter how much our wedding cost. Oh…and Ryan needs to leave that look back wherever he found it. 😂😂😂 If Ryan gets snipped, snipped, make sure he goes back for his last appointment…..we have a post vasectomy son who just turned 20. 😜 (Wouldn’t have it any other way because he’s amazing, but if you’re sure you’re done go to that last appointment)
This video just saved some marriages! I love your vlogs and love watching Carter and Capri grow. I can tell how much Ryan loves you, he listens to your needs and does his best to be a terrific husband... and he even ditched those outerspace sunglasses!
Happy Anniversary. My hubby and I went to the courthouse as well. We've been married for 27 years now. Told my kids that it's the marriage that matters, not the ceremony. Save the money, have a party, or towards a house.
When we got married we only invited our immediate family. We wanted to splurge on those we deeply love. Had a beautiful ceremony in Malibu with a string quartet, decadent food and the dreamiest cupcakes. Less is more.
I’m amazed at your energy! We used to take our daughter to Disneyland when she was young and spent hours in a sea of crowds. Now just thinking about it wears me out.
I love how real you are. Your videos are always informative, but it's not easy to discuss your marriage to thousands of strangers. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
Y'all do what works for your family. I love the Family business idea! Being a TH-camr is a full time job and having your husband by your side is a bonus. Time flies by, so take advantage of this time to enjoy your little ones. Children are a blessing from Lord! Truly love and appreciate you & yours.
Happy anniversary!!!! You should see the stuff my bf thinks looks good lol your husband's outfit screams "I'm a frat boy and my dad won't let me drive his yacht."
I was really hesitant about getting the IUD. I used the nuvaring for years but still had really heavy periods that lasted for weeks on end. My gyn suggested the IUD and after months of consideration, I finally caved. It’s been about 3 months and honestly, I wish I had switched over sooner. I have no period at all now, no cramps, no bloating. You can’t feel it. It’s been amazing so far.
Yes I love this chat about uneccessary extravagance in life. Like the weddings and birthday parties, husband's being annoying, real life stuff. So much more relatable to watch than the perfect family fasad on youtube , keep the realness going girl. Im married 10yrs with a 9 yr old girl and nobody knows what they're doing with the first kid. I love that you are connecting with us and talking about life thoughts while cleaning.
Love the marriage chats!!! Your family is one of those that looks sooo perfect (which it still is), but I love that you are open about the not so perfect times too :)
Thank you for always being honest and humble! When you talked about how you only had $15 in the bank and now look where youre at in life! its so inspiring! I would like to hear more about how you got to where you are now and financial advice for women:)
This just came up on my feed. Brittany, I respect and appreciate you so much. Your videos are consistent, and you are credible. I am so truly sorry for what you’re going through. I’m in it too in NY, and it’s been years of a nightmare without end in sight. Sending prayers and strength
Thanks for this video Britanny what a treat to have the tour of Disney land 😄 such special memories for you both and Carter . Wishing you both a very Happy Anniversary x
Omg! I could not agree more with you - big weddings are a waste of money. Marriage is hard, especially when you have a new baby. Thanks so much for talking more about this. I love watching you and your family!
Yes to everyone having their idea of wedding. Ours was quite small, and I loved every minute. I loved the feeling of being the bride and having beautiful dress all day- yes all day as I planned to wear it only once. Sometimes I joke about getting divorced so I could get my wedding day again 😂 Love the chitchat style of video/ vlog.
Us too!!! We got married at the JP when we were 22 in 1997. On the 24th of this month we will be married for 24 years!!!!! No wedding necessary to take vows to heart…❤️ - congratulations on your anniversary 🥰
“Don’t let society pressure you into doing things you don’t want to do.” Yesssss!! I love that you spoke on this because I have the same sentiments as you. A big wedding, lavish birthdays are just not my thing. Also, I love these vlogs so much!! ❤️
I started budgeting for children's parties in my annual budget. Spending $300 on a birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese was worth it to me vs. having a home party because of all the time saved preparing for the party and cleanup.
lol My sister would do something similar! She'd tell her daughter she could invite 3 friends and she'd rent 2 hotel rooms. One for her and the husband, & one for her daughter and her friends. The kids got to have an ultimate sleepover, stay awake, watch whatever and swim in the hotel pool. All while mom and dad had a nice king bed and movies next door. End of the trip only ended up being about $200 bucks and she didn't have to clean up afterward.
Wow you are so right about b-day parties. We usually have a family gathering a special meal and cake (pie) of our choice. Some of our friends do bday week so we've tried it with our 13 yr old. She loves it. It is actually a good idea. We do something special each day. Nothing big but something just for them. That keeps our expenses down but stretches out the fun.
I love that you spoke about choosing to buy a house over having a large wedding; and about spending bday funds on the kids instead of elaborate parties.
My husband and I just welcomed our second and final child 5 months ago. We decided that him getting snipped was the best option. I called and scheduled it since he'd never go through with it. Just had it done a couple weeks ago!
My husband and I were also talking about that but what are the chances of them coming back together and getting pregnant?? I had a high school friend whos dad had it done and surprise surprise she ended up with a little a sister because it had reversed itself.
Thanks for sharing the “tea”. As a single woman I find many men don’t want to date me because I am an engineer and make more money than them. We really do need to normalize that it doesn’t matter who makes more money in the relationship. Ryan wanting to work in businesses you are starting proves that he is comfortable in his own masculinity and doesn’t let our culture tell him he is worth any less for doing so. @lindseylimitlessliving
Degree in Aerospace, but my job can be done by Civil, Mechanical, and some others which can provide more options than an Aerospace degree unless that is really the field you want to work in.
The fact that this turned into a surprise Disneyland vlog made my heart so happy. I hope you guys had a magical day! I can't wait to get back there. 💜🌻
Happy anniversary! I’m loving this style video since I love seeing your family moments and getting to know you as a person more! Such a wonderful family I’m happy for u :)
The onion slicer tool. Try cutting the onion in half first and put the halves flat side down on the cutting board. Slice each half separately. Insert the tines into one half of the onion, and slice through the way you were doing. Then without removing the slicer, turn it 90 degrees and slice across in thin slices. My mom had one when I was growing up, and I have had one at various times also. With a little practice you might really like it.
This was really refreshing to hear! It’s so easy to get caught up thinking you’re the only one w/ problems in life or relationship etc. which is why it’s always nice to hear other people speak so openly about their own stuff. Out of curiosity (and I don’t know if this is too personal) but would you ever share how you guys worked on the resentment and anger you talked about?? Thank you so much Brittany you are awesome!
Happy Anniversary, those flowers are beautiful! I really enjoyed this video; got to see your cute kids, got to know more about you, the top transformation was neat, etc. If Ryan wants to wear those glasses then you wouldn't need to carry a mirror. 😄 You and Ryan made it through some difficult times together, if you choose to forgive each other before going to sleep every night of whatever, then you can start each day without resentment which leaves room for love. I wish you both much success in your businesses.
You are so beautiful and you’re just such a Bright person. Like I love just hearing you talk and watching literally every video you post. You have incredible style as well so I hope you feel good about yourself today🤍 you are loved and appreciated
Totally agree with you, there is so much pressure on people to compete with weddings, birthday parties etc. What a waste of money. What a lot of stress to put yourself through. When we got married we had a total of 14 people present. However, each to their own!
Love these videos your amazing , I have an autistic child and a lot of times I get a break to unwind and watch your videos so I love the positivity ❤ 💕 thanks never stop making videos .
I need full attention when I’m using scissors let alone chopping up fabric. Such an inspiring human! Love the day in the life vibe. Happy anniversary! Copper IUD is the least chemicals
When I had my first baby I felt same! She had acid reflux and super underweight and we had no help, no family. It was so hard! Now glad we made it trough! Can you please do a video on discipline and kids routines? I have same ages as you two girls!
I absolutely love this new way of the video...this seems like talking to a friend!!! 💗 Like working while talking I'd the best part about friendship 💗💗
We had a courthouse wedding. Same reason, never saw myself in a formal gown/all eyes on me situation. Going on 21 years with no regrets. There is no perfect couple because there are no perfect ppl and, as my uncle recently told me after 62 years of marriage, “you just make it work”.💝💝
Omg… I can definitely picture him wearing a vest with nothing under and using it as an excuse “if it gets too hot I can just unbutton them and if it gets cold I can button it back up.” 😂 Ryan fashion should be a whole new reel.
I'm helping my sister plan her destination island $80,000 wedding. I am not about that bougeeee already have the perfect plan for a permit at national park and intimate wedding. thank you for sharing the hard truths of life. thank you for sharing your family with us. definitely keep doing the VLOGS its nice to see you just doing boss mom things.
What makes Ryan so appealing is that physically he’s gorgeous and looks like a swole bro, but his sense of humor is so corny that you know his ego is pretty much in check. ❤️
My favorite wedding I ever went to was held in the religious establishment (for free). She wore the dress she wore on their first date, and he wore a nice suit. They had cake and punch in the building, and asked for cash gifts because they were saving for their house. The whole thing lasted an hour. I used to want the whole wedding thing, with a big reception and all that. Now, I just need a license. Nothing else. I don’t want to be the center of attention because for me, the focus should be on the marriage, not the wedding.
Me and hubby decided to get married three weeks before our son was born . I was 9 months pregnant. We went got a ring for me a dress a suit from Kohl's. Our pastor after church used the hymnal and did the marriage ceremony. We had his parents and his friends . My family couldn't come . His mom made dinner and pie was our wedding cake . It was amazing wouldn't trade it for the world .
Happy Anniversary. My husband and I also had a registry office wedding, for the same reason as. You and Ryan. Next week we with be married 43 years. Enjoy your family, and love one another!🥰
I was going through a lot of anxiety and came to watch your videos. This one made me laugh and feels so at ease. I’ve always loved all your videos, but if you want some feedback, this style suits you and made me enjoy, laugh and want more. 😍
They can fix that by contributing equally, lol. Of course they'll feel unneeded if they choose not to support their children's mother. On top of coping with raising a newborn baby and recovering from birth, women should not also be expected to give men a how to guide on being a father. That is the man's responsibility.
@@oliviap8404 well they are not mind readers- and if the mom is breastfeeding they maybe don't know what to do... its silly new for both parties- a little kindness and grace for your partner would go a long way instead of sitting silently bitter that they aren't contributing. What's so hard about saying- can you get me water when I'm breastfeeding etc etc.
Please bring back budget vs Boujee with Ryan!! Also love when you used to compare low, mid, and high level prices of the same item 🤩🤩
Yes yes yes!
same!!!!!
OMG!!!!! THIS!!!!!!!!!!
Yess! I’ve been waiting for the air fryer version
@@2cwn2 without plastic or teflon too.
um even if Ryan was your personal assistant, there would be nothing wrong with that either. We need to normalize people doing what they want without judging so much.
TRUE!
exactly and its amazing to see husbands supporting their partners like that.
Absolutely.
Such a great statement
Ryan is a monster
Yup! No one tells you how hard kids are on a marriage, especially right after your first is born. They also don't tell you how breastfeeding is literally a full-time job.
YES soooo hard especially early on!
THIS!! Both of these things!
I actually love she brought this up! I'm married without children for this exact reason. Children are HARD! People on television and influencers always act like "look at this blessed life, children are amazing and easy!" and all I can think is "do you have a nanny or something?! When do you sleep?!" I've been sleep deprived without a kid and I was ready to punch my husband, I can't imagine adding a crying infant to that.
My husband and I aren't able to have kids, we've been together 18.5 years, married 10 of that. We rarely even argue. I honestly believe it's because we don't have children. Although, my uncle and his wife don't have children and they fight all the time, they even got divorced for a year and then remarried. We have separate checking accounts. We assist had them, I also have a tendency to spend too much, so I'm glad it's that way. When I was younger I didn't understand how you could be married and not have a joint account, then I realized money was the other big fight for couples.
Yes my marriage has always been strong until about 4 months post partum with my first and I just hated my husband and blamed him for all the negative emotions I had to deal with. Now I’m 2.5 years later and feel like my old self and rarely ever have arguments with my husband but I’m pregnant with my second so.. we’ll see how we handle this hurdle lol
Thank you for normalizing having troubles in a relationship and still being happy together & working it out. I always thought it's absurd how people expect you to be a perfect spouse from day one or otherwise it can't be "right" ... Like how?! You have to learn to be a good partner and that's okay!
I agree
I second that 👍
Brittany big weddings are overrated. All it is is signing papers. My parents did a courthouse signing. I think that was SO SMART that you and Ryan decided to save money to buy a house. I learn so much from your videos everytime!!!
some people love and dream about their big day but I've never been interested so had to follow my heart on it!
Personally, I think it’s a waste of money, I’d spend that money on a honeymoon/donate a portion to charity. Especially because in my culture you’d have to invite your parents’ friends, cousins, 2nd cousins etc 😑🙄
It's about the bride and groom getting married, not the material things. For many there is a deep reason for weddings. There is also the option of having a mini wedding where you go to a spot you like or love and get married there with a couple witnesses to see it all happen. A big wedding or not doesn't matter, it's not about the material things.
My husband and I got married at the courthouse 44 years ago. Saved the money to immediately buy a house. Don't regret it for an instant. I told my son that if his wife to be was more interested in the wedding than the marriage he should run away as fast as he can. They ended up having a backyard wedding with just family. YAY!
Honestly I had abig fancy wedding and it was worth every penny it was the most magical amazing day of my life. It’s different for everyone
I would LOVE to see a video from both you and Ryan on healthy relationship tips / advice 😍 please and thank you!
Great idea
I'd love that
THANK YOU for saying we should not let society pressure us to do things we are not comfortable doing. I find myself struggling so often with such situations. It's exhausting. You are so right, I am trying to do better. 😊
Yes!
I loved how "real" and honest you came across in this video, so thanks for that Brittany! And, have a blast in Cabo.
Thank you for being so honest and real. Sometimes youtubers seem so perfect that it cqn seem unattainable. You have a lovely family.
I agree 100%! So amazing you talked about small courthouse weddings & having small birthdays for kids - people should do what they feel is the best option for them! You go
girl! :)
“Communicate your needs, don’t assume that he will know.” Oh my gosh, looking back on our 51 years of marriage, I wish I had learned that when I was younger.
To be fair though, men should not need to be told that once the baby is born they need to contribute equally and change their daily routine. Especially if he's literally living with you, can see you struggling, and still chooses to waltz off to the gym.
@@oliviap8404facts. And now they’re divorced.
Thanks so much for sharing some realness in your life. A lot of us women can completely relate to the resentment and lows in a marriage. It's nice to know you're not alone ❤
Omg Ryan is a character! I enjoy him so much. The anniv flowers are gorgeous! Together you are a great match!!!
I agree about the wedding thing! Love going to weddings but for my situation it made more sense to tie the knot on our own and we have been able to use our resources to build our home and family! I love that you mentioned normalizing this so thank you! Also with the kids birthday as long as you get the photo with the kid smeared in cake who cares about anything else? ❤️
I like this style of video…casual yet entertaining and talking about real life! I always feel like I’m catching up with an old friend :)
I really enjoyed this vlog. Spilling the tea about you and Ryan's relationship makes me feel so normal. I feel like influencers have to have this perfect life but you spilling the tea shows followers that influencers are still normal people. I think this really helps others ♥️
Brittney - I’ve been following you for some time now. Just wanted to say how refreshing it is to hear you talk about not following the crowd and doing what feels right for you, ignoring the pressure. I’ve always done this, and it’s amazing to see such a gorgeous young lady influence others to just be their own person. As well as this, you talk honestly about some subjects others just wouldn’t dream of doing - again all real life stuff, and so helpful to others.
Keep on doing you - love seeing Ryan in the videos these days - you two are such a beautiful & fun couple. Thanks for sharing your life with us all ❤️🥰Xx
That's so sweet you had a fun outing with just your oldest kiddo. I bet he enjoyed the special day just you guys and him together 💖
Brittany, our wedding was so small….we saved and paid cash for what we did do. I’ve never understood spending tens of thousand of dollars on one day. We’ve been married 36 years and have the most amazing marriage, so it didn’t matter how much our wedding cost.
Oh…and Ryan needs to leave that look back wherever he found it. 😂😂😂
If Ryan gets snipped, snipped, make sure he goes back for his last appointment…..we have a post vasectomy son who just turned 20. 😜 (Wouldn’t have it any other way because he’s amazing, but if you’re sure you’re done go to that last appointment)
This video just saved some marriages! I love your vlogs and love watching Carter and Capri grow. I can tell how much Ryan loves you, he listens to your needs and does his best to be a terrific husband... and he even ditched those outerspace sunglasses!
I love your comment about not letting society pressure you into things you don’t want to do. literally so true 💕💕
Happy Anniversary.
My hubby and I went to the courthouse as well. We've been married for 27 years now. Told my kids that it's the marriage that matters, not the ceremony. Save the money, have a party, or towards a house.
When we got married we only invited our immediate family. We wanted to splurge on those we deeply love. Had a beautiful ceremony in Malibu with a string quartet, decadent food and the dreamiest cupcakes. Less is more.
I’m amazed at your energy! We used to take our daughter to Disneyland when she was young and spent hours in a sea of crowds. Now just thinking about it wears me out.
I love how real you are. Your videos are always informative, but it's not easy to discuss your marriage to thousands of strangers. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
Y'all do what works for your family. I love the Family business idea! Being a TH-camr is a full time job and having your husband by your side is a bonus. Time flies by, so take advantage of this time to enjoy your little ones. Children are a blessing from Lord! Truly love and appreciate you & yours.
Happy anniversary!!!! You should see the stuff my bf thinks looks good lol your husband's outfit screams "I'm a frat boy and my dad won't let me drive his yacht."
Yes 😂😂😂
I was really hesitant about getting the IUD. I used the nuvaring for years but still had really heavy periods that lasted for weeks on end. My gyn suggested the IUD and after months of consideration, I finally caved. It’s been about 3 months and honestly, I wish I had switched over sooner. I have no period at all now, no cramps, no bloating. You can’t feel it. It’s been amazing so far.
Yes I love this chat about uneccessary extravagance in life. Like the weddings and birthday parties, husband's being annoying, real life stuff. So much more relatable to watch than the perfect family fasad on youtube , keep the realness going girl. Im married 10yrs with a 9 yr old girl and nobody knows what they're doing with the first kid. I love that you are connecting with us and talking about life thoughts while cleaning.
Love the marriage chats!!! Your family is one of those that looks sooo perfect (which it still is), but I love that you are open about the not so perfect times too :)
"He wants me to be seen with him in public" 🤣🤣🤣 You guys crack me up!
Happy Anniversary 💐
Happy anniversary Brittany. I live by your hacks. I swear your hacks are life changing.
Appreciate how open and relaxed you are in your video. Keep it up!
Thank you for always being honest and humble! When you talked about how you only had $15 in the bank and now look where youre at in life! its so inspiring! I would like to hear more about how you got to where you are now and financial advice for women:)
This just came up on my feed. Brittany, I respect and appreciate you so much. Your videos are consistent, and you are credible. I am so truly sorry for what you’re going through. I’m in it too in NY, and it’s been years of a nightmare without end in sight. Sending prayers and strength
Thanks for this video Britanny what a treat to have the tour of Disney land 😄 such special memories for you both and Carter . Wishing you both a very Happy Anniversary x
Omg! I could not agree more with you - big weddings are a waste of money. Marriage is hard, especially when you have a new baby. Thanks so much for talking more about this. I love watching you and your family!
I want to see you guys pick an outfit for each other 😝🤣
She has a done a video where Ryan picked her clothes. It was cute, of course.
I appreciate how real and relatable your videos are. Great job girl! Your kiddos are adorable 😊
Yes to everyone having their idea of wedding. Ours was quite small, and I loved every minute. I loved the feeling of being the bride and having beautiful dress all day- yes all day as I planned to wear it only once. Sometimes I joke about getting divorced so I could get my wedding day again 😂 Love the chitchat style of video/ vlog.
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@@radkabuddy1112 👋☺️
Us too!!! We got married at the JP when we were 22 in 1997. On the 24th of this month we will be married for 24 years!!!!! No wedding necessary to take vows to heart…❤️ - congratulations on your anniversary 🥰
Happy Anniversary! I wish you many more years of happiness!
Thank you so much!
“Don’t let society pressure you into doing things you don’t want to do.” Yesssss!! I love that you spoke on this because I have the same sentiments as you. A big wedding, lavish birthdays are just not my thing. Also, I love these vlogs so much!! ❤️
I started budgeting for children's parties in my annual budget. Spending $300 on a birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese was worth it to me vs. having a home party because of all the time saved preparing for the party and cleanup.
lol My sister would do something similar! She'd tell her daughter she could invite 3 friends and she'd rent 2 hotel rooms. One for her and the husband, & one for her daughter and her friends. The kids got to have an ultimate sleepover, stay awake, watch whatever and swim in the hotel pool. All while mom and dad had a nice king bed and movies next door. End of the trip only ended up being about $200 bucks and she didn't have to clean up afterward.
It’s definitely a personal decision and I think that’s the idea. If it’s important to you and works go for it 😊
@@smm855 oh I love that idea! I remember going to a friend's sleepover party at a hotel in 5th grade and I thought it was so fun and fancy.
Wow you are so right about b-day parties. We usually have a family gathering a special meal and cake (pie) of our choice. Some of our friends do bday week so we've tried it with our 13 yr old. She loves it. It is actually a good idea. We do something special each day. Nothing big but something just for them. That keeps our expenses down but stretches out the fun.
Love these videos! You and your family are so relatable and I can’t tell you how much I enjoy watching!
Your children are absolutely ADORABLE! Cannot get over how cute Capri’s tiny pigtails are! I don’t know how you do it all but well done!
I feel so sorry for you two, for your whole family, cuz you were so good together, I'm sorry things went down, I wish you the best~~
I love that you spoke about choosing to buy a house over having a large wedding; and about spending bday funds on the kids instead of elaborate parties.
My husband and I just welcomed our second and final child 5 months ago. We decided that him getting snipped was the best option. I called and scheduled it since he'd never go through with it. Just had it done a couple weeks ago!
My husband and I were also talking about that but what are the chances of them coming back together and getting pregnant??
I had a high school friend whos dad had it done and surprise surprise she ended up with a little a sister because it had reversed itself.
Thanks for sharing the “tea”. As a single woman I find many men don’t want to date me because I am an engineer and make more money than them. We really do need to normalize that it doesn’t matter who makes more money in the relationship. Ryan wanting to work in businesses you are starting proves that he is comfortable in his own masculinity and doesn’t let our culture tell him he is worth any less for doing so. @lindseylimitlessliving
I feel you girl! I'm an engineer as well!
What type of engineers ladies? I'm considering different fields to go school for once my youngest starts school!
Degree in Aerospace, but my job can be done by Civil, Mechanical, and some others which can provide more options than an Aerospace degree unless that is really the field you want to work in.
Yes, well said!
Those men weren't right for you then! Finding that intimidating says a lot more about them than you. Typical fragile masculinity such a cliche
The fact that this turned into a surprise Disneyland vlog made my heart so happy. I hope you guys had a magical day! I can't wait to get back there. 💜🌻
Happy anniversary! I’m loving this style video since I love seeing your family moments and getting to know you as a person more! Such a wonderful family I’m happy for u :)
The onion slicer tool. Try cutting the onion in half first and put the halves flat side down on the cutting board. Slice each half separately. Insert the tines into one half of the onion, and slice through the way you were doing. Then without removing the slicer, turn it 90 degrees and slice across in thin slices. My mom had one when I was growing up, and I have had one at various times also. With a little practice you might really like it.
I was looking for some of her organizational videos and she just posts! I need to watch this first. Happy anniversary 🎉
chaotic energy in this video i LOVE it
I love the jeans!! He looks like he’s going to an 80’s party
This was really refreshing to hear! It’s so easy to get caught up thinking you’re the only one w/ problems in life or relationship etc. which is why it’s always nice to hear other people speak so openly about their own stuff.
Out of curiosity (and I don’t know if this is too personal) but would you ever share how you guys worked on the resentment and anger you talked about?? Thank you so much Brittany you are awesome!
Happy Anniversary, those flowers are beautiful! I really enjoyed this video; got to see your cute kids, got to know more about you, the top transformation was neat, etc. If Ryan wants to wear those glasses then you wouldn't need to carry a mirror. 😄 You and Ryan made it through some difficult times together, if you choose to forgive each other before going to sleep every night of whatever, then you can start each day without resentment which leaves room for love. I wish you both much success in your businesses.
The last time I checked your channel you were 3 months pregnant with the baby girl. How sweet is to check again and see how time flies ❤️😍
You are so beautiful and you’re just such a Bright person. Like I love just hearing you talk and watching literally every video you post. You have incredible style as well so I hope you feel good about yourself today🤍 you are loved and appreciated
I actually really enjoyed this vlog. A lil cleaning, trying new items, real talks, and a lil fun. 😊
3:09 Ryan's outfit and sunglasses is giving me 90's Saved By The Bell vibes. He looks like a combo of AC Slater mixed with Zack Morris! :D
Totally! So funny
This video brought back so many wonderful memories of taking my son on it's a small world. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful family.
This video was great, looked like a perfect day at Disney. I'm loving the new vlog style too!
I love watching you clean and spill the tea... can this be a trend?!
When Ryan was wearing the pink hat it reminded me of Marty McFly from back to the future the 2nd one when Marty’s son was dressed like the future 😆
Totally agree with you, there is so much pressure on people to compete with weddings, birthday parties etc. What a waste of money. What a lot of stress to put yourself through. When we got married we had a total of 14 people present. However, each to their own!
I just was thinking that Capri looks like carter with pigtails when you said it out loud! Lol. Beautiful babies
Love these videos your amazing , I have an autistic child and a lot of times I get a break to unwind and watch your videos so I love the positivity ❤ 💕 thanks never stop making videos .
Brittany I absolutely love your videos. Keep up the great work! ❤
Love your videos and I enjoyed your vlog. I appreciate how real you are and that your willing to be honest rather than sugar coat everything.
So sweet looking back at these. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through:(
I need full attention when I’m using scissors let alone chopping up fabric. Such an inspiring human! Love the day in the life vibe. Happy anniversary! Copper IUD is the least chemicals
I'm with Ryan on this one. His glasses scream "Frat Boy Vacay" and I'm here for it 🤣 Happy Anniversary y'all!
I love vlogs! Weeklies are the best. You and Ryan together are so funny 😂.
I love your videos Brittany, and the background music!! Your kids and your husband are awesome :-) thank you for sharing
I love how regular you both are!
When I had my first baby I felt same! She had acid reflux and super underweight and we had no help, no family. It was so hard! Now glad we made it trough! Can you please do a video on discipline and kids routines? I have same ages as you two girls!
I absolutely love this new way of the video...this seems like talking to a friend!!! 💗 Like working while talking I'd the best part about friendship 💗💗
I love your videos so much, thank you for being so open and honest. Also, it was so relaxing to watch you doing your hair!
Happy anniversary!
What do you do for your kiddos’ birthdays? Maybe a few suggestions on a video, how you keep it simple?
I also had a courthouse wedding and so glad I did! I also don’t like attention lol 😊
Same here.
I did a 5 minute wedding through Facebook live because of COVID shutting things down. So much better than a big wedding!
We had a courthouse wedding. Same reason, never saw myself in a formal gown/all eyes on me situation. Going on 21 years with no regrets. There is no perfect couple because there are no perfect ppl and, as my uncle recently told me after 62 years of marriage, “you just make it work”.💝💝
My husband was also hesitant to get a vasectomy ….. so I just called and made the appointment 🤣
that's what I need to do!
Y'all are the cutest funniest couple 😂❤️ congrats on 6 years!
Happy Anniversary. I totally relate - marriage is tough. Sunglasses are cool - u could totally use it to check your make up in public.
Happy six years Brittany and Ryan! I loved this vlog. Your family brings me joy. 💖
Omg… I can definitely picture him wearing a vest with nothing under and using it as an excuse “if it gets too hot I can just unbutton them and if it gets cold I can button it back up.” 😂 Ryan fashion should be a whole new reel.
"I have done enough!"=no truer words! Disney looked so fun. Happy Anniversary!
I'm helping my sister plan her destination island $80,000 wedding. I am not about that bougeeee already have the perfect plan for a permit at national park and intimate wedding. thank you for sharing the hard truths of life. thank you for sharing your family with us. definitely keep doing the VLOGS its nice to see you just doing boss mom things.
That’s a lot of money 💰!!!
Eloped at the courthouse, SAME! I never wanted a wedding. Zero regrets. Zero wedding debt.
What makes Ryan so appealing is that physically he’s gorgeous and looks like a swole bro, but his sense of humor is so corny that you know his ego is pretty much in check. ❤️
Do you still think he's appealing now? 😶
@wamz9191 why would a divorce change that? You don't know the reasons why they are divorcing.
I never thought he was that appealing.
Hi Brittany! I love all of your videos but I really miss your DIYS!! Please bring them again they're so unique 🥰 much love from Greece ❤
My favorite wedding I ever went to was held in the religious establishment (for free). She wore the dress she wore on their first date, and he wore a nice suit. They had cake and punch in the building, and asked for cash gifts because they were saving for their house. The whole thing lasted an hour. I used to want the whole wedding thing, with a big reception and all that. Now, I just need a license. Nothing else. I don’t want to be the center of attention because for me, the focus should be on the marriage, not the wedding.
Me and hubby decided to get married three weeks before our son was born . I was 9 months pregnant. We went got a ring for me a dress a suit from Kohl's. Our pastor after church used the hymnal and did the marriage ceremony. We had his parents and his friends . My family couldn't come . His mom made dinner and pie was our wedding cake . It was amazing wouldn't trade it for the world .
Happy Anniversary. My husband and I also had a registry office wedding, for the same reason as. You and Ryan. Next week we with be married 43 years. Enjoy your family, and love one another!🥰
Happy Anniversary! It's our 31st year of dating anniversary. We've been married for almost 28 years.
I was going through a lot of anxiety and came to watch your videos. This one made me laugh and feels so at ease. I’ve always loved all your videos, but if you want some feedback, this style suits you and made me enjoy, laugh and want more. 😍
I think new dads can feel un-needed and especially when we don't tell them what we need them to do to help 🙂🙃 glad u guys pushed through
Esp. if they r clueless about housework and children.
They can fix that by contributing equally, lol. Of course they'll feel unneeded if they choose not to support their children's mother. On top of coping with raising a newborn baby and recovering from birth, women should not also be expected to give men a how to guide on being a father. That is the man's responsibility.
@@oliviap8404 well they are not mind readers- and if the mom is breastfeeding they maybe don't know what to do... its silly new for both parties- a little kindness and grace for your partner would go a long way instead of sitting silently bitter that they aren't contributing.
What's so hard about saying- can you get me water when I'm breastfeeding etc etc.
Agree with you so much! The wedding, the birthday party etc...