@@savtuma soft top are alot of fun and safe. Also board does not get damage when you hit it or travel. I catch more waves than any one else with a high performance foamy. Also trying to fall straight up helps.
I have surfed for 48+ years. I stopped surfing in year 10 and got back into it when somebody told me to stop dropping in, bottom turn and go for the huge snap off the lip. Just flow down the line and the huge snaps will present themselves. I was always a short boarder and still am at 61. Fun boards are good though.
A great honest take. Surfing is always an up and down, I try to surf every day but there are definitely times when I have to take breaks so that I can take a step back and realize what I truly enjoy about the sport. As for this video… this is the type of transparency and realness that I strive to capture in my own content! Great job! I’m taking notes
That’s awesome - yeah trying to not be so hard on myself but just have been feeling this way for a little while now haha. Love that and thanks for your message ❤
I slowed down a lot in surfing also! Honestly the conditions, sandbar, and consistency hasn’t been the same for maybe 5 yrs. Now I go out only when it feels inviting, and when the sun is out otherwise I’ll just skip surf it. I think it’s ok to have that fear of getting hurt because I’ve gotten hurt before. Now I go knowing how to fall safely at least
yeah-- seems like there hasn't been too many constants at least with my surfing recently. Definitely ready for more consistency in my life. Yeah, I think the fear stems from a concussion I got in the water once. Was not fun at all... and now I just think about my board hitting me if I fall haha
Sister I feel this! I have been trying to learn to surf for 2 years and I have had so many obstacles in the way making it hard for me to progress and every time I have several sessions in a row that are very blah I just ask myself is this really worth it? Why do I keep doing this? Why am I not a pro at this already!? It is super frustrating! The most helpful thing for me to remember is that surfing is (I would say) one of the more difficult sports to master because conditions are always changing and the only time you can really practice is in the water. Another thing that really helps me is to just keep it fun. If that means I am on a soft-top then so be it, heck sometimes I take out the body board with fins when it's closed out or bigger than I am comfortable surfing in! It really is difficult when you have several rough sessions in a row but as I have found time and time again, for myself, all I need is 1 awesome session every so often and I am instantly stoked again! Hang in there! You got this girl!
I totally get you! Surfing can be such a rollercoaster and the bad sessions can make it feel like you're stuck or going backwards. That's such a great reminder that conditions make surfing wayyyy harder than other sports! It's definitely very humbling. Praying for one really good reset session soon. We've got this!! 💙
Thanks for sharing, very honest take, and i think we have all been there. For me at least the single biggest change came when i found some good buddys who i would go out into the lineup with and just talk shit. It became more social and fun rather than just about trying to get better all the time and getting frustrated when you plateu or have a few bad sessions. Having someone out there watching your back and having a good laugh when you have a gnarly wipeout really ups your comfort level out in heavier conditions in particular i find. Id also recommend to try and reframe those tough sessions and sketchy holddowns a bit differently. Every time i get back to the outside after getting worked i congratulate myself and remind myself that was a hell of an acheivment and that i just dug deep and pulled through and thats something to be well proud of.
love this and I think it's so true! I've had surf buddies when I lived in Santa Cruz, Hawaii, and Pacifica. Now that I moved, definitely need a new one haha. That's a good way to reframe your mindset. The other day I had a bad wipeout... Fin hit my leg and I got so much water in my ear. But that's what I was kinda afraid of happening. So after that I sent it and actually didn't care if I fell as much!! Time in the water is definitely super important!!
Good luck out there and I hope you find some new buddies soon! Sure sounds to me like you've got the spirit, and I hope you do stick with it. On the hardest days it's a massive achievement just to be out there pushing through, and every once in a while, you might get that wave that makes it all worth it. Surfing always feels like life to me. Alot of times your struggling and fear your gonna drown in the churn. But it's mostly in your head and if you can keep calm, and focus on moving forward, you'll find you have the strength to keep going long past what you would have thought possible. I think if it wasn't for surfing and the strength I found out there, I wouldn't be here today.
I had a terrible session on my shortboard today in SoCal, literally stood up on one wave in over an hour and ate shit on it. When i got back onto the beach and saw everyone else ripping it up I literally thought to myself today is the day I QUIT I was so frustrated. Also, sucks being the only girl out in the water at my break most mornings. I'm in a similar situation as you, I've been injured from a surfing accident, and I have been scared of big waves ever since so now I'm most comfortable on a longboard although I really want to learn maneuvers on a shortboard. It's actually kind of crazy how relatable this video is to me given I had all these thoughts just a few hours ago. This video made me feel better knowing that other people struggle with fear and progression as well! You're right about being lucky to live by the beach and even be able to go out in the water. Progression will take time and consistency, but I believe in us 🙌 I'll be following along with your journey and rooting for you!
awww this was so good to read. I'm so glad you found it maybe a little comforting to know that you're not the only one feeling this way. I've since then had an okay surf that helped me get out of that mindset. I think going out on a smaller day with no expectations might be what the doctor is ordering haha. need to get back to it just being "fun" instead of stress inducing and scary!! keep me updated on how your next surf goes. we got this!!
@@savtuma went out with a friend yesterday and had so much fun! smaller, less powerful waves so i was able to actually control my board and think about what i was doing without getting launched off 😅 needless to say my stoke has been restored.
Similar thing has happened to me and I'm 64. Just didn't want to go out. Be patient with yourself find something else ( for me it was trail running) to do for a while. Sooner or later you will go out again and have an amazing time.
Social media fomo drives these thoughts. Been surfing close to 40 years and you have mentioned many of the downsides, you forgot to mention that it is crowded (everywhere on the planet) and is an exclusive sport culture , something like this spot is for locals who live here and your a beginner so go to another spot, or getting yelled at it’s pack mentality . All of things hold you back in surfing not wanting to get in the way of those you preconceived who are better than you. I would find an activity that makes you always happy and immerse yourself in that! If you can find a way to get past all of the above and that activity happens to be surfing stick with it . Don’t beat yourself up about it just choose what makes you happy life is too short to struggle with this one activity,. When I gave up my childhood dream of being a pro at one thing the whole world opened up around me and everything became more fun , this year at 60 yo I learned how to ride a horse something I never even considered before. Just keep trying things is my advice!
I used to do ballet and rock climb. those sports I loved, but never as much as I love to surf. I'm at a difficult spot because I know I can surf better on my shortboard (like I did in Hawaii).I want to get back to where I was. The road back is where I'm having difficulty. I've felt this way before (when I was learning to rock climb, every single day in ballet class, learning to shortboard the first time and of course when I first learned to surf). These battles come with every sport. Surfing just feels different because of the varying uncontrollable elements. The good sessions outweigh the bad ones and since this video I had another great surf. I'm just trying to shine light on the fact that there are highs and lows and this time I had a pretty big low. Hope this helps clarify a little. I appreciate the time you took to leave a comment and insight. All the best!
It dosn't matter what you're riding as long as you're enjoying the ocean. There is nothing wrong with a soft top. Some perform very reasonably. Go out and ENJOY
Right?!!! So crazy how people just paint the good life of living in beach towns and surfing. Nobody talks about how mentally challenging it can be at times!
Ahhh yes, we've all been there my friend 🙏 As a San Diego native and fellow surfer I really feel this but remember you have options. Running is good and for me skating is great because I'm still at the beach. Take a break from the surf and you will grow fond of it again. Switch it up and use a body board or just bodysurf. Also get a new wetsuit that's warmer and just like a new toy you'll want to use it 😂
hey, sav 🙂 i know sometimes frustration can came up even with things that we love to do, and taking some time off, taking some distance from it for a while can be good to see it in another way, think about it, learn from it or anything... just like in relationships, after all the activities we do are a sort of relationship we decide to stablish 🤔 in the meantime, hope you can still doing some run as often as you can and want to... i use to run every 2 days or something like that, very useful and healthy i think 👍 have a good one!
Get a thicker shortboard. Some of those soft tops actually surf good. Like Mason HO Lost soft tops. if you are on 30 liters get 33 liters but same shape you like.... Height with the same and just more foam in the middle.
It's boring just surfing 🏄♂️ 🌊, and fighting the weather and if you get decent waves, so I got into many other activities, pro cycling, hunting, tennis 🎾, 🎣 fishing, motocross etc etc, 😀 alot of these other sports were more satisfying, but I've always owned boards for 55 years for whenever I'm in the mood ❤❤❤ 😂😂😅😅😊
1. Get a helmet or change your spot to a sandbar. 2. Go back to your board where you caught the most waves and had fun. 3. Get a thicker wetsuit and gloves or wear a L/S underneath your suit. (game changer) 4. Rewind your mind to expect nothing. 5. Have fun again. 6. Your welcome 😁🤙🏼
It is in your blood girl. All you need to do is have a more comfortable experience. I have do done this for 45 years and go hard at 64, 50 surf days so far this calendar year
Hey Savannah, sorry to hear this, have you thought about getting a Surf coaching session? If you have someone good, they know a lot about mental health.. Wishing you all the best and please be more kind to yourself 💙💙💙
Soft top long board.....I am way too old to whacked in the dome in the ocean. Nice chill rides. You could also just go to Oahu, if you haven't been. Trust me. You will feel better about surfing there! I am also in Northern Cali. Cold water is bullshit.
haha yes! I always have such fun surfs when I take out my Wavestorm!! I used to live on the big island of hawaii actually and surfing there was AMAZING! no wetsuit, no freezing conditions, sunshine basically every time we paddled out. I miss it, but I'm really trying to adjust to conditions here so I can get comfortable in cold water. I definitely think it's just time for a new wetsuit for me. I start shivering the moment I paddle out.
@@savtuma Good luck with the adjustment. I went to Santa Cruz one time in an August. It was one of those 114 days in the Sac Valley and mid eighties at the beach. I tried. I surfed all day then thought I could AT LEAST ditch the wetsuit top. Nope. Too cold. The surfing was all right but scary with all the rocks and the sea lions. Sea lions = sharks.
Aww, young un..jus take 2 boards and swap out to the bigger board if conditions are not great..I know the feelin of wanting to surf shorter boards but if ya not catching waves ya not gonna get better..Too much emphasis on "progressing" your surfing nowadays. I remember the feeling of comfort and safety on a soft top..Everybody else says they felt a whole lot safer when I was on a soft top too..XD
Stay under water an extra second, come up slow. Leashes cause more injuries than any other piece of equipment used for surfing. Get good enough to not use one
It's hard to get good at surfing if you don't grow up surfing and/or live near good waves. The locals who've been surfing since they were kids make it look easy, but most people who start surfing after their teens and don't do it all the time, which is hard when you have adult responsibilities, will never get past novice. It's pointless to put so much effort into something where there's so little return.
Sorry meant to say anytime I don’t feel scared is when I’m on a soft top board be that a longboard or shortboard***
Sometimes you need to go backwards to move forward - ride a soft top, or wear a helmet
@@savtuma soft top are alot of fun and safe. Also board does not get damage when you hit it or travel. I catch more waves than any one else with a high performance foamy. Also trying to fall straight up helps.
I have surfed for 48+ years. I stopped surfing in year 10 and got back into it when somebody told me to stop dropping in, bottom turn and go for the huge snap off the lip. Just flow down the line and the huge snaps will present themselves. I was always a short boarder and still am at 61. Fun boards are good though.
love this-- just go with the flow!!
@@savtuma
Embrace the suck ! Everyone goes through this. Just keep taking the rough with the smooth ❤
Love this! ❤❤❤
awh sav i feel you 😭😭😭 i went thru this feeling for like 6 months straight! it gets better i promise
ah thanks jade! hopefully I'll get over this bump soon. nice to know I'm not the only one feeling this way!
A great honest take. Surfing is always an up and down, I try to surf every day but there are definitely times when I have to take breaks so that I can take a step back and realize what I truly enjoy about the sport. As for this video… this is the type of transparency and realness that I strive to capture in my own content! Great job! I’m taking notes
That’s awesome - yeah trying to not be so hard on myself but just have been feeling this way for a little while now haha. Love that and thanks for your message ❤
the journey is difficult, but Slavs never give up!
I slowed down a lot in surfing also! Honestly the conditions, sandbar, and consistency hasn’t been the same for maybe 5 yrs. Now I go out only when it feels inviting, and when the sun is out otherwise I’ll just skip surf it. I think it’s ok to have that fear of getting hurt because I’ve gotten hurt before. Now I go knowing how to fall safely at least
yeah-- seems like there hasn't been too many constants at least with my surfing recently. Definitely ready for more consistency in my life. Yeah, I think the fear stems from a concussion I got in the water once. Was not fun at all... and now I just think about my board hitting me if I fall haha
@ oh no! Maybe for now go back to baby waves with a fishy board they are still fun and safer!
Sister I feel this! I have been trying to learn to surf for 2 years and I have had so many obstacles in the way making it hard for me to progress and every time I have several sessions in a row that are very blah I just ask myself is this really worth it? Why do I keep doing this? Why am I not a pro at this already!? It is super frustrating!
The most helpful thing for me to remember is that surfing is (I would say) one of the more difficult sports to master because conditions are always changing and the only time you can really practice is in the water.
Another thing that really helps me is to just keep it fun. If that means I am on a soft-top then so be it, heck sometimes I take out the body board with fins when it's closed out or bigger than I am comfortable surfing in!
It really is difficult when you have several rough sessions in a row but as I have found time and time again, for myself, all I need is 1 awesome session every so often and I am instantly stoked again! Hang in there! You got this girl!
I totally get you! Surfing can be such a rollercoaster and the bad sessions can make it feel like you're stuck or going backwards. That's such a great reminder that conditions make surfing wayyyy harder than other sports! It's definitely very humbling. Praying for one really good reset session soon. We've got this!! 💙
@savtuma so true! Also it helps me to remember that winter can be difficult at times with bigger swells and stormy conditions. It will get better! 🤍
Thanks for sharing, very honest take, and i think we have all been there.
For me at least the single biggest change came when i found some good buddys who i would go out into the lineup with and just talk shit. It became more social and fun rather than just about trying to get better all the time and getting frustrated when you plateu or have a few bad sessions. Having someone out there watching your back and having a good laugh when you have a gnarly wipeout really ups your comfort level out in heavier conditions in particular i find.
Id also recommend to try and reframe those tough sessions and sketchy holddowns a bit differently. Every time i get back to the outside after getting worked i congratulate myself and remind myself that was a hell of an acheivment and that i just dug deep and pulled through and thats something to be well proud of.
love this and I think it's so true! I've had surf buddies when I lived in Santa Cruz, Hawaii, and Pacifica. Now that I moved, definitely need a new one haha. That's a good way to reframe your mindset. The other day I had a bad wipeout... Fin hit my leg and I got so much water in my ear. But that's what I was kinda afraid of happening. So after that I sent it and actually didn't care if I fell as much!! Time in the water is definitely super important!!
Good luck out there and I hope you find some new buddies soon! Sure sounds to me like you've got the spirit, and I hope you do stick with it. On the hardest days it's a massive achievement just to be out there pushing through, and every once in a while, you might get that wave that makes it all worth it.
Surfing always feels like life to me. Alot of times your struggling and fear your gonna drown in the churn. But it's mostly in your head and if you can keep calm, and focus on moving forward, you'll find you have the strength to keep going long past what you would have thought possible. I think if it wasn't for surfing and the strength I found out there, I wouldn't be here today.
Surfing is a very difficult, complex sport & it sometimes involves scary situations. I can relate to your feelings!
totally!! they're always so much to learn sometimes it can be overwhelming!
I had a terrible session on my shortboard today in SoCal, literally stood up on one wave in over an hour and ate shit on it. When i got back onto the beach and saw everyone else ripping it up I literally thought to myself today is the day I QUIT I was so frustrated. Also, sucks being the only girl out in the water at my break most mornings. I'm in a similar situation as you, I've been injured from a surfing accident, and I have been scared of big waves ever since so now I'm most comfortable on a longboard although I really want to learn maneuvers on a shortboard. It's actually kind of crazy how relatable this video is to me given I had all these thoughts just a few hours ago. This video made me feel better knowing that other people struggle with fear and progression as well! You're right about being lucky to live by the beach and even be able to go out in the water. Progression will take time and consistency, but I believe in us 🙌 I'll be following along with your journey and rooting for you!
awww this was so good to read. I'm so glad you found it maybe a little comforting to know that you're not the only one feeling this way. I've since then had an okay surf that helped me get out of that mindset. I think going out on a smaller day with no expectations might be what the doctor is ordering haha. need to get back to it just being "fun" instead of stress inducing and scary!! keep me updated on how your next surf goes. we got this!!
@@savtuma went out with a friend yesterday and had so much fun! smaller, less powerful waves so i was able to actually control my board and think about what i was doing without getting launched off 😅 needless to say my stoke has been restored.
Similar thing has happened to me and I'm 64. Just didn't want to go out. Be patient with yourself find something else ( for me it was trail running) to do for a while. Sooner or later you will go out again and have an amazing time.
Ugh I feel this way sometimes too. The frustration is overwhelming. I would just take a break to reset. You’ve got this! 🙌
yes-- I've totally been in my head recently!! definitely a good idea
Social media fomo drives these thoughts. Been surfing close to 40 years and you have mentioned many of the downsides, you forgot to mention that it is crowded (everywhere on the planet) and is an exclusive sport culture , something like this spot is for locals who live here and your a beginner so go to another spot, or getting yelled at it’s pack mentality .
All of things hold you back in surfing not wanting to get in the way of those you preconceived who are better than you. I would find an activity that makes you always happy and immerse yourself in that! If you can find a way to get past all of the above and that activity happens to be surfing stick with it . Don’t beat yourself up about it just choose what makes you happy life is too short to struggle with this one activity,. When I gave up my childhood dream of being a pro at one thing the whole world opened up around me and everything became more fun , this year at 60 yo I learned how to ride a horse something I never even considered before. Just keep trying things is my advice!
I used to do ballet and rock climb. those sports I loved, but never as much as I love to surf. I'm at a difficult spot because I know I can surf better on my shortboard (like I did in Hawaii).I want to get back to where I was. The road back is where I'm having difficulty.
I've felt this way before (when I was learning to rock climb, every single day in ballet class, learning to shortboard the first time and of course when I first learned to surf). These battles come with every sport. Surfing just feels different because of the varying uncontrollable elements. The good sessions outweigh the bad ones and since this video I had another great surf. I'm just trying to shine light on the fact that there are highs and lows and this time I had a pretty big low.
Hope this helps clarify a little. I appreciate the time you took to leave a comment and insight. All the best!
Honestly, I felt this lately and have been going back to bodysurfing. I dono, I feel bodysurfing is always more fun.
I’ve tried this a couple times! It feels like going on a water slide haha so much fun!
Always cover your head with your arms when wiping out or surfacing.
yes yes yes!!
It dosn't matter what you're riding as long as you're enjoying the ocean. There is nothing wrong with a soft top. Some perform very reasonably. Go out and ENJOY
I feel this so much!! And I feel like no one but Jade talks about it!!
Right?!!! So crazy how people just paint the good life of living in beach towns and surfing. Nobody talks about how mentally challenging it can be at times!
Ahhh yes, we've all been there my friend 🙏 As a San Diego native and fellow surfer I really feel this but remember you have options. Running is good and for me skating is great because I'm still at the beach. Take a break from the surf and you will grow fond of it again. Switch it up and use a body board or just bodysurf. Also get a new wetsuit that's warmer and just like a new toy you'll want to use it 😂
If it’s of any consolation, your level is where I dream of being rn. Keep going.
Don't quit, just have fun and baby step the progress. But you need a good warm suit to be comfortable, that's normal!!!!
Its the people who surfed as kids, their surf journeys are a bit different I feel
haha yes! starting anything as a kid is the best way to do it!
hey, sav 🙂 i know sometimes frustration can came up even with things that we love to do, and taking some time off, taking some distance from it for a while can be good to see it in another way, think about it, learn from it or anything... just like in relationships, after all the activities we do are a sort of relationship we decide to stablish 🤔 in the meantime, hope you can still doing some run as often as you can and want to... i use to run every 2 days or something like that, very useful and healthy i think 👍 have a good one!
yes so true!! thanks for the encouragement
@@savtuma welcome ☺ you too!
Get a thicker shortboard. Some of those soft tops actually surf good. Like Mason HO Lost soft tops. if you are on 30 liters get 33 liters but same shape you like.... Height with the same and just more foam in the middle.
Sounds like an upward spiral tbh. Don't get discouraged!
yeah... just was having a moment and thought others could relate in some way!
It's boring just surfing 🏄♂️ 🌊, and fighting the weather and if you get decent waves, so I got into many other activities, pro cycling, hunting, tennis 🎾, 🎣 fishing, motocross etc etc, 😀 alot of these other sports were more satisfying, but I've always owned boards for 55 years for whenever I'm in the mood ❤❤❤ 😂😂😅😅😊
I’m the same get anxious abt drowning AND DIE TOO
Thanks for being honest.
Always ❤❤❤
Get a longer leash and have fun.
1. Get a helmet or change your spot to a sandbar.
2. Go back to your board where you caught the most waves and had fun.
3. Get a thicker wetsuit and gloves or wear a L/S underneath your suit. (game changer)
4. Rewind your mind to expect nothing.
5. Have fun again.
6. Your welcome 😁🤙🏼
great tips! thanks!!
Wear a helmet everybody. It looks funky and its a chore but I have been wearing one for several years now. Safety first.
It is in your blood girl. All you need to do is have a more comfortable experience. I have do done this for 45 years and go hard at 64, 50 surf days so far this calendar year
That’s amazing!! Do you longboard or shortboard?
Keep trying!👍
that's the plannnn :)
Hey Savannah, sorry to hear this, have you thought about getting a Surf coaching session? If you have someone good, they know a lot about mental health.. Wishing you all the best and please be more kind to yourself 💙💙💙
If the waves are beyond your ability, don’t sweat it and go to a break that’s more your level…
i feel the same way i think its because of my mother.
Soft top long board.....I am way too old to whacked in the dome in the ocean.
Nice chill rides.
You could also just go to Oahu, if you haven't been.
Trust me. You will feel better about surfing there!
I am also in Northern Cali. Cold water is bullshit.
haha yes! I always have such fun surfs when I take out my Wavestorm!! I used to live on the big island of hawaii actually and surfing there was AMAZING! no wetsuit, no freezing conditions, sunshine basically every time we paddled out. I miss it, but I'm really trying to adjust to conditions here so I can get comfortable in cold water. I definitely think it's just time for a new wetsuit for me. I start shivering the moment I paddle out.
@@savtuma Good luck with the adjustment. I went to Santa Cruz one time in an August. It was one of those 114 days in the Sac Valley and mid eighties at the beach. I tried. I surfed all day then thought I could AT LEAST ditch the wetsuit top. Nope. Too cold.
The surfing was all right but scary with all the rocks and the sea lions.
Sea lions = sharks.
Hella good
Wear a helmet. You fix the fear problem.
Aww, young un..jus take 2 boards and swap out to the bigger board if conditions are not great..I know the feelin of wanting to surf shorter boards but if ya not catching waves ya not gonna get better..Too much emphasis on "progressing" your surfing nowadays. I remember the feeling of comfort and safety on a soft top..Everybody else says they felt a whole lot safer when I was on a soft top too..XD
this is smart! 2 boards is a good idea ;) yes foam boards definitely take off some pressure for sure!
@@savtuma yea swaping to a big board after a short bord is like a cheat code..)
Stay under water an extra second, come up slow. Leashes cause more injuries than any other piece of equipment used for surfing. Get good enough to not use one
Wear a helmet...and good luck with the sharks
If you voluntarily think about quitting surfing you were never a surfer
Idk who told you that 😂
@savtuma surfer is a lifestyle not a sport
Don’t take surfing seriously girrrl! Only pros need to do that lol
Just avoid crowds, and aggro hyperactive, look at me rip, surfers. Get with other chicks and kids, to rediscover ur stoke. Its meant to b fun❤😊
It's hard to get good at surfing if you don't grow up surfing and/or live near good waves. The locals who've been surfing since they were kids make it look easy, but most people who start surfing after their teens and don't do it all the time, which is hard when you have adult responsibilities, will never get past novice. It's pointless to put so much effort into something where there's so little return.
moar waves foar meeee bahahahaha! nah seriously just relax. try a different board. try bodyboarding for awhile, or even just bodysurfing.
good idea!!
Get a 8’0” Odysea board so that maybe you’ll get your fear gone🙏🤙
I've got a Wavestorm that I loveee :)
Oye Paco
quit and pick up rock climbing
I used to rock climb
quit
I was waiting for this comment
Please do there is too many people anyway get a job! And a life ! 😂
😂😂 yeah, you’re right I’ll just quit thanks for the advice 🫡