90 Day Fiancé: Emily’s Dad SHOCKED by Kobe Asking to Take Over His Business

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  • ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 9, episode 9 of ‘90 Day Fiancé,’ from Kobe asking Emily’s dad to take over his architecture business, to Shaeeda asking Bilal’s daughter to call her ‘Mom.’ Also, Jibri comes to the conclusion that Miona is distracting him from his career thanks to warnings from his best friend David. ‘90 Day Fiancé’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
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  • @a.m.3921
    @a.m.3921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    There is literally nothing attractive about Emily. Bossy, nagging and spoiled. WTH is stopping HER from getting a job?

    • @xiomaragomez6649
      @xiomaragomez6649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her parents babying her annoying self 🙄

    • @bellarina
      @bellarina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      or shoveling horse poo..?

    • @willowwillow1748
      @willowwillow1748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Don't forget heavy tongue and her parent's money is stopping her from ever getting a job.

    • @MsRishaghosh
      @MsRishaghosh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly that lol

    • @ikeasanders6211
      @ikeasanders6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with you 100% not attractive whatsoever

  • @jaghond448
    @jaghond448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    "my 30 year old daughter doesn't have a clue how to move out and get from point a to point b"
    ... I'm not sure how to tell him that this is his own fault

    • @jays45673
      @jays45673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      FACTS!!!

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      At first I gave them the benefit of the doubt now I see it

    • @JP-br4mx
      @JP-br4mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes

    • @jessicajennifer9827
      @jessicajennifer9827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These helicopter parents do their children a huge disservice by coddling them. Then in turn stunting them

    • @CherrrrBear
      @CherrrrBear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s his own damn fault point black period.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    Let's be honest. They don't see kobe as equal. Emily talks to him crazy, and her family stands by watching, and supporting her.

    • @willowwillow1748
      @willowwillow1748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      From the look of him they never will.

    • @elinorlee1539
      @elinorlee1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's be real and say what it is which is! that they are racist!!

    • @modelstatus0198
      @modelstatus0198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They dont respect , nor see him as equal and they will never do

    • @millcitychris4303
      @millcitychris4303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That family looks racist as hell

    • @millcitychris4303
      @millcitychris4303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @S. Módica just look at the dads face. U can see that he hate that his daughter got involved with a black guy with no money.

  • @sbello361
    @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Emily's dad has a lot of nerve asking Kobe when he plans to work. When he's raised an unemployed, entitled 29-year-old.

    • @cygnevara8400
      @cygnevara8400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      emily is HIS daughter....kobe is nothing to him. i dont see anything wrong with that.

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@cygnevara8400 Kobe has everything to do with them- he's the father of their grandchild. Kobe can't work, Emily can. So why put pressure on him when he can't work for 6 months? That's what's wrong.

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Mark Armstrong part-time nanny. She's not in high school. You can't raise a child/family on a part-time nanny income.

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How is she 29? She looks 40.

    • @onlythebrave4655
      @onlythebrave4655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least that's his daughter 🤷🏾‍♀️....

  • @kerchow2062
    @kerchow2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Kobe can't work until he gets his work visa, Emily on the other hand has every opportunity to go out and get a job but doesn't want to, her parents spoiled that annoying brat and now she can't even work? 🙄

    • @Starrrwarrrs6rbluey
      @Starrrwarrrs6rbluey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      at least i have an excuse. im mentally ill.

    • @imho5485
      @imho5485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m tired of the family coming down hard on kobe when Emily is quite capable of working to help support her family. Why isn’t she looking for a full-time job? Maybe they should tell Emily to shut the f up so that she’ll get her act together. Coming from a spoiled daughter, my parents taught me to be responsible and I’ve supported myself since graduating college. Her parents failed her miserably. I see next week that sue bought herself a gaudy ring for herself that I’m sure she considers a wedding expense. Her parents deserve her. Poor kobe and Coben.
      Manipulative Mohamed is creepy. His voice is so robotic and the tone never changes. Yve needs to send him back to Egypt. She can’t drink because it’s against his religion. I guess he forgot that premarital sex is also against his religion. He first saw her in a bikini and now she’s forbidden from wearing one. SMH.
      Bilal has never fought so much before because no woman has ever stood up to him. And reportedly, he’s been divorced twice already! He wants a prenup because he knows no woman can tolerate him. He needs a stepford wife.

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They never hold her accountable

    • @faz7531
      @faz7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The thing is he can leave the U.S after marriage. If he really had a job outside the U.S, he would have insisted on getting married asap then apply for the marriage green card and leave the country till it gets processed. This just tell all of us how irresponsible and man-child this guy is.

    • @SweetNSassy77
      @SweetNSassy77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s almost 30! What a overgrown spoiled brat

  • @rosejohnson-briggs1109
    @rosejohnson-briggs1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    Love how Emily’s parents are shocked and appalled that Kobe told her to shut the F up… totally enabling her disgusting borderline abusive behaviour that lead Kobe to rightly tell her to shut the F up!! She is a giant baby with no real ambition and her parents are 100% to blame for how she turned out. Good luck Kobe!!! I hope you get shared custody one day.

    • @mistymitchell2842
      @mistymitchell2842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen! Can't stand Emily

    • @bellarina
      @bellarina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Emily is not even worried that her parents would say No, she knows they'll keep enabling her, she just doesn't like the "inconvenience" of having to ask... 😝

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kobe said what we all wanted to say to her in that moment 🤣

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen!!! This needs to be pinned and sent to the parents!!

    • @CherrrrBear
      @CherrrrBear 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly … she’s disgusting 🤮

  • @chrisr.426
    @chrisr.426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Emily is a grown child. Good luck to Kobe.

  • @SweetNSassy77
    @SweetNSassy77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    Kobe was absolutely fine!!! Emily’s dad asked what his goals for employment and wanting to be trained under dad and keep business in family was a wonderful goal! His intent was perfectly normal! Kobe is better than what Emily has to offer

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I actually agree...i think Kobe is a really nice guy and emily sorta messes with him

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      All her dad had to do was say you can job shadow me get a degree and we'll talk

    • @janettechapman9681
      @janettechapman9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You're delusional if you believe Kobe was realistic in becoming an engineer and taking over the business. He wasn't even a good underwear model, but then maybe for Cameroon he was exceptional....not.

    • @acestarone
      @acestarone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think 🤔 he would love to do that eventually but not after being trained or doing a good job at it
      He prob should not have said take over.

    • @acestarone
      @acestarone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@terynb4407 exactly.

  • @jays45673
    @jays45673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    He should have had that conversation with both of them because what's her plan this why you don't sleep with strangers unprotected on vacation 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @faz7531
      @faz7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Preach!

  • @KillaG3590
    @KillaG3590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Kobe gets a A for Effort but a F for execution like the audacity to ask to take over the family business with no experience 😑

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He did say maybe Emily's dad could train him...

    • @KillaG3590
      @KillaG3590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sbello361 that’s going to take some time lol he has to go to school for that

    • @farayimatibiri1724
      @farayimatibiri1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He said u can train me gimme a job what's wrong with that ? He's got no one in the USA to guide him they expect him to have the answers?????

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He asked if he could be taught by him so it wouldn't have been with no exprience

  • @thembekx_
    @thembekx_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I love Kobes ambition. Also, y’all are forgetting he said, “Maybe you can train me…” and only focussing on the last part.

    • @agrant4701
      @agrant4701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They don't even like him, why would they do that?

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Can’t train someone to be an architect. Lol. Also way too early to ask someone that.

    • @agrant4701
      @agrant4701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ambition needs to be tempered by intelligence and a way forward. Anybody can say, I want to be president of company X. How will you achieve that? What are your credentials? What are you doing towards that end? If you have not asked yourself such questions, your ambition comes across as clumsy and stupid, quite frankly.

    • @peacemaker1502
      @peacemaker1502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He only went to high school or do you mean his ambition to be in America and putting up with the moaning and constant nagging that takes something!?

    • @JP-br4mx
      @JP-br4mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@agrant4701 shut up. yall always tryna break down black people

  • @ilovegoodsax
    @ilovegoodsax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Shaeeda needs to give up wanting to be called "Umi" (mom) by Bilal's kids. They have a mother! Furthermore, these are not small children with whom the moniker Umi might work. And the "washing your lady parts" comment made to a teen girl you just met was more than cringy, it was inappropriate.

    • @shatal7176
      @shatal7176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's definitely a cultural thing coz I'm from South Africa and I call every adult women "ma"(which means mom) /"ausi" which means sister(we normally us the "sister" one on someone who's not that old but older than you). We were taught from a young age not to call our elders by name coz it's disrespectful

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol the lady parts thing was cringy, but I think she was just nervous and trying to lighten the mood up

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      For real she needs to chill and earn their trust first and then let them decide
      Not push that on them

    • @ilovegoodsax
      @ilovegoodsax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jannalam6861 Yes, I agree. Shaeeda is eager to establish a familial relationship with Zana as quickly as possible but she was trying too hard. The kids will warm up to Shaeeda on their own timeline and terms. It can't be forced -- especially with teens.

    • @ilovegoodsax
      @ilovegoodsax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@shatal7176 I can see that it being a cultural thing, and it certainly is for Shaeeda, but that's just not how it's done here lol. And as a mother, I'd be pissed my husband's soon to be new wife was trying to force this on my kids.

  • @KPazzz
    @KPazzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    “I’m worried about moneyyyy…” Then go get a job Emily! 🙄 She has her priorities messed up - go to the courthouse, get married, then get your own place to live with your husband & child. Her dad just keeps putting it on Kobe to “provide for” Emily when he’s not even able to work yet and Emily is more than capable to start earning money to support her own family 🙄🤮

    • @thulipule4754
      @thulipule4754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly my thought,thank you...Kobe is not yet eligible to work there,how is he supposed to provide now... Emily's parents are sooo scared of her

    • @zeroregrets5901
      @zeroregrets5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she should of known that from the beginning, she wants what she wants, he cant work, its ALL on her but she wont. these women are something else.

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should know he cant work rn....like idk why shes such a bitch sometimes. Kobe is a sweet and good guy. If they cant afford a wedding they shouldn't be getting married. I mean the father is supposed to pay for the wedding its sorta a american thing..i would know im an American gal! But my sis got married and her husband paid for some stuff and so did his parents and my dad too. Soooo it can be different. But these ppp are adults. They need to grow up.

    • @faz7531
      @faz7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He might be traditional and there is nothing wrong in that.

    • @KPazzz
      @KPazzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@faz7531 Well, if *that’s* the case, his daughter had a child out of wedlock to a random foreign guy she had only known for 2 months, soooooo I think “traditional” has left the building and they need to start living in the reality of their situation in 2022.

  • @damienabsalon
    @damienabsalon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Bilal is a control freak indeed. He comes across as a narcissist as well. Something about him is…OFF…BIG TIME

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree!

    • @hayleybarbara1589
      @hayleybarbara1589 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hes not nearly cute, rich, or smart enough to have such a disgusting personality. He makes my skin crawl

    • @NoWayJose3456
      @NoWayJose3456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He probably whoops her when the cameras aren’t around

    • @Substanz82
      @Substanz82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s the typical closeted gay man. OCD, prim, demeaning to his female mate etc. . He will be a lot happier once he comes to terms with his sexuality and stop hiding behind his religion.

    • @elinorlee1539
      @elinorlee1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well she married him anyway they got married in December so apparently she is just as shallow as he is!!! This man showed you the narcissist that he is and we could all see it but you married him anyway because you wanted to live in that big ass house so have fun sorting spoons and forks to make sure they're all in the right draw!!

  • @kinley.-.
    @kinley.-. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I don’t think Kobe meant anything wrong by asking to take over the business, He seems like a sweet dude and i wish Emily’s dad would try harder to have a real relationship with him

    • @TWLogik
      @TWLogik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry but that 'stfu', I would have a problem w too.

  • @ilovebuns9502
    @ilovebuns9502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Emily’s parents show how a real Karen is born and raised

  • @polarmac5734
    @polarmac5734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    getting really tired of melicia antagonizing the foreign partners and always being on the americans' side. Kobe was not implying in any way that he was going to take over the company right now, he meant when emily's dad retired, and EVEN THEN he only asked for training. Ya'll are acting like he was trying to steal this man's job.

    • @caleenswack4825
      @caleenswack4825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 100% melicia is very Hypocritical because she’s making it sounds like theses guys are the victims when the truth is that they are treating the immigrants like trash especially Emily and Bilal 😏😏

    • @polarmac5734
      @polarmac5734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@caleenswack4825 I KNOW it made me so upset when melicia sided with bilal over the ‘house prank’ that was totally his fault and shaeeda had every right to react that way 😫😫

    • @caleenswack4825
      @caleenswack4825 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@polarmac5734 I know they act like because you’re from another country you’re not use to anything good 😏 Especially for a woman of colour she’s degrading her own kind the most 😏 some of these people when they come to our country and they married you and brought you back to their country they make you feel like it’s a slave trade 😡 and that they own you so it’s always whatever they say goes 😏

    • @terrencempengesi4200
      @terrencempengesi4200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, it's amazing how ignorant most Americans are, anything black or from Africa is something to look down at, it just shows how brain washed they are, go our and see the world ppl, b4 u judge other ppl, u yourselves are not special, its your media propaganda that makes u think u are, plz grow up.

    • @sellyjon2751
      @sellyjon2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How can she be changed its very exhausting listening to her

  • @fabianaguerra3813
    @fabianaguerra3813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I can't believe Emily ask her dad to paid for her wedding just go to court house 🙄

    • @aliciabarron2771
      @aliciabarron2771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would hv said, HELL NO!! Go get a job n and ur own place to live!!!! But then he agrees to pay for it!!😡

  • @SupremeBeing79
    @SupremeBeing79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Emiley is like a teenager that wants to marry and has no money.

  • @seygra20
    @seygra20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The dad should have told Emily go to the court house and get married it is cheaper

  • @rawmo7336
    @rawmo7336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    How do they allow people to bring their lovers over while they don’t have a job or their own place???

    • @victorias5272
      @victorias5272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They don’t. You have to make enough to cover both people financially since they can’t work. Since Emily doesn’t work, her parents probably co-sponsored the visa.

    • @rawmo7336
      @rawmo7336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victorias5272 Thanks for explanation.

  • @kristelngami4816
    @kristelngami4816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Why isn’t Emily getting a job?

  • @tea_rex303
    @tea_rex303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Why is all this pressure on Kobe to get a job right this second? Emily and her family knew he can't work until he gets his permit. He's new to the US & it takes time to build a resume or find a job that pays enough to support a family of 3. She should've had a job for herself to at least pay for their own food and son's expenses. Her parents are going to STAY in their business as long as they're paying for everything.

    • @faz7531
      @faz7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The thing is he can leave the U.S after marriage. If he really had a job outside the U.S, he would have insisted on getting married asap then apply for the marriage green card and leave the country till it gets processed. This just tell all of us how irresponsible and man-child this guy is.

    • @icantwiththis
      @icantwiththis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They obviously have money anyway. The dad has an architect company and they have horses! They just don't like this whole Kobe living at their house situation and they (the parents) are assholes.

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@faz7531 why would he want to leave the country? He's been away from his son long enough. Emily should have been working and saving money for the past year.

    • @faz7531
      @faz7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jannalam6861 we are talking about job and being a provider. If he had income, he surely wouldn't have difficulty arranging yravel for both Emily and his son to the country where he is working at ( if he is working)

    • @LimoLiza
      @LimoLiza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@faz7531 He is from Cameroon. I don't know about Cameroon, but I know about Ghana. The average salary is waaaay less than those in the US. Even if he had a good living in Cameroon, it might not even be enough to pay rent for an apartment in the United States. Different currency, different economy. It's not that easy.

  • @Benny-ye7ro
    @Benny-ye7ro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Melicia your videos are the BEST!! Thank you!

  • @klaird_h4727
    @klaird_h4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Whose fault is it that she doesn't know how to get from point a to point b ?!...who raised her.?!!!.😒🤔...and clearly enabled her her entire life this far...they need to let her figure it out for real. And I am sure her dad has said worse to her mom at some point in the heat of an argument..it doesn'tmake it right but-...he needs to address his daughters issues also..to be fair🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @hannahbartlett5336
    @hannahbartlett5336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Bilals daughter is wiser and more mature than most adults 😂

    • @ThePimmy11
      @ThePimmy11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Credit to her mother I'm sure.

  • @CJohnson19121
    @CJohnson19121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    He should've just asked him for a job.

    • @michaelbishop3439
      @michaelbishop3439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He did.

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He may not have known the structure of American companies
      They may do apprenticeships in his country for family businesses.

  • @sbello361
    @sbello361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    To Emily, Africa is not one big country. I feel bad for her son as he will never get to know his culture. She's ignorant.

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For real

    • @obimalope8154
      @obimalope8154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most Americans think like that. Europeans are more exposed and informed.

  • @saribi638
    @saribi638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Kobe should come back to Africa and get himself an African wife. These people are too judgmental of him. They're neither understanding nor accomodative of him given it's a new country and he need to start over from scratch. It's not like he's lazy or something..

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I kindly disagree. He's asking that man to foot the bill and to take over his architecture business with zero experience whatsoever. He is the new Andrei

    • @amalmoallin
      @amalmoallin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@djregina6897 what bill did he ask him to foot ?

    • @saribi638
      @saribi638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@djregina6897 he's asking them to teach him how to do it.. That's where the experience comes in. Besides, maybe the man is just trying to figure out where he could started. If they don't want that, they can give him more suggestions and support him in his settling journey...

    • @l-kin3480
      @l-kin3480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No he needs to take care of his child over there. An African woman doesn't need his drama

    • @saribi638
      @saribi638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@l-kin3480 which drama? The kindest, nicest man so far..

  • @melissadiamond8029
    @melissadiamond8029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Y'ALL in the comments sure know how to forget that Y'all have been supporting Kobe until he asked the dad if he could one day take over the business. He did ask to be trained & work on what he will need to do the job

    • @sesayida
      @sesayida 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s Americans for ya . He is asking to be trained

    • @swamp-nymph
      @swamp-nymph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right? And in his view he was probably trying to take some off the dad's shoulders it just didn't come across right.

    • @melissadiamond8029
      @melissadiamond8029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sesayida how else will he learn and where will he get a job If he's from a different country? Emily & her people are annoying.

    • @melissadiamond8029
      @melissadiamond8029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@swamp-nymph I understand the way he said it might have been delivered the wrong way. The dad could've been more understanding & asked if Kobe wants to learn the ins&outs & give him a job to earn his position

    • @GG-qy2wy
      @GG-qy2wy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Melissa Diamond. You are so right!! Yes, he did ask to be trained. He was nervous during that talk, and should have maybe left out the part about "one day running the company." He should be given at chance, something entry level, and not cleaning out disgusting horse crap. Peace.

  • @toocutepuppies6535
    @toocutepuppies6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I felt so bad for Kobe because you could tell he really thought he was doing a good thing, and he really was. He just didn't realize that it wasn't enough. Why, why, why do they NEVER look into the country they're headed for??? 🤔

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      same. I felt sad when he mentioned he had saved $4000, and thought it would be enough.

    • @toocutepuppies6535
      @toocutepuppies6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jannalam6861 If Emily ruins this I'll be SO mad at her!

    • @tashatash8812
      @tashatash8812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think he knew it was not enough and that is why he did not want to tell her from the beginning.

    • @acestarone
      @acestarone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is trying to be close to his father in law

    • @toocutepuppies6535
      @toocutepuppies6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tashatash8812 I disagree. He looked genuinely proud of what he had, it felt pretty genuine to me.

  • @ThePimmy11
    @ThePimmy11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What I find completely stunning about this is old dude sits down to find out if Kobe has a plan for how to be a responsible parent and partner and then, without any self awareness at all, admits he raised his own kid to not have a clue about how to meet this standard! Why did you do that, Sir? Why did you raise your own child to be completely inept at being an adult and making sound choices as a partner and parent?

  • @joanalexander1942
    @joanalexander1942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Does anyone think Emily's dad had no knowledge about Kobe's STFU comment. Mom stalks Kobe and it probably took her about 5 minutes to tell daddy.

  • @laylacakes333
    @laylacakes333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think Kobe’s execution was poor. I don’t feel like he wanted to straight on take over the family business, but rather work in the business and work his way up to maybe own it “one day”

  • @jackyavaa3459
    @jackyavaa3459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Kobe and Emily wanting to marry with NO house or a job of their own 😂 and with a baby, what in the world?? These folks think very backwards 😅

  • @jb-ze1yh
    @jb-ze1yh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kobe seemed like he was coming from a genuine place, not a jerk like that other guy. Why would it be so odd that a son in law would ask of that from his father in law. Emily’s family are dysfunctional and don’t see Kobe as one of their own, clearly. Ps Kobe said what we all have been saying lol

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I completely agree. They don't really see Kobe as part of their family, even though he is marrying into it.

  • @jb-ze1yh
    @jb-ze1yh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bilal is lying. He has Been divorced. He doesn’t want an equal partnership, he wants a subservient woman who doesn’t stand up for herself. Typical narcissistic toxic man.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This show is so chaotic I can’t 😭

  • @linaevolved8468
    @linaevolved8468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    If Kobe is willing to put in the work, the family can help him find a degree or trade program to enroll in.
    Emily's dad could also hire Kobe in a basic entry level job when he is able to legally work. He doesn't have to take over the company but the sooner he has a stable job...the sooner the parents can stop being financially responsible for everything if Emily doesn't want to play the "provider" role.

    • @tennilledenson5168
      @tennilledenson5168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She doesn't want to be the provider but wants to be in control.

    • @monas
      @monas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he is a man, he should help himself 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @denyss3476
      @denyss3476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree with you on this one!

    • @denyss3476
      @denyss3476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@monas How can he get a job to 'help' himself? How do you suppose he do that?

    • @monas
      @monas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@denyss3476 That's not for me to know but for him to know. Why did he go there when he has no job or anything lined up. He went there just thinking that he is gonna live off the woman and her family?
      He should have stayed where he was.

  • @celebvillage
    @celebvillage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The audacity. Mans probably had stomach aches that lasted longer, and asked for less

  • @CJohnson19121
    @CJohnson19121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kobe is 34+, he knows what he's doing.

  • @bp1980
    @bp1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn Kobe isn't trying to take over, He's trying to find his place in the family...The whole family seems to have control issues..

  • @JulieDeuxFois
    @JulieDeuxFois 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think most of the misunderstandings with Kobe comes down to language. Even though he doesn't have a thick accent, he is clearly somewhat limited with his vocabulary. I find his choice of words to be perfectly fitting in french conversations but it doesn't work in american english! Like his 'shut the f up' wasn't said with a matching tone... in french he would have said it in a less offensive way!

    • @wizzysloungetitaure
      @wizzysloungetitaure 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mark Armstrong bit still h 8i s English is quite limited l can also see that.

    • @mamashabana1732
      @mamashabana1732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has superior English skills in contrast to many US born-natives.

    • @mamashabana1732
      @mamashabana1732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate the sarcasm but it apparently got lost in translation to some

  • @254Hooligan
    @254Hooligan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This whole season needs to be rebooted.
    Chaos at it’s best.

  • @caroleparker5271
    @caroleparker5271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I thought there was nothing wrong with what he was asking maybe the way he asked was a bit off but asking her dad to mentor him in the family business was a actually good move !!

    • @greg33770
      @greg33770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      thats what I thought, start off with a lower position and learn the ropes, and if he does well....he moves up.....

    • @kinley.-.
      @kinley.-. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought so too, Kobe seemed to have the right intentions with that. I thought it was really sweet when he asked Emily’s dad to mentor him and teach him how to take over the business. I think the cultural/language barrier could be why it seems like Kobe thinks it will be really easy

    • @ladycanuck66
      @ladycanuck66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Doing what? How/when is he going to get a degree in architecture? who’s paying for it? He has no plan and neither does Emily…they just sit around living off her parents.

    • @caroleparker5271
      @caroleparker5271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ladycanuck66 i think thats right about emily but i think kobe wants to work i see absolutley nothing wrong with learning from her dad thats how family business operates

    • @ladycanuck66
      @ladycanuck66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caroleparker5271 You’d still need a degree to be an architect and run her Dad’s business lol that’s my whole point.

  • @greg33770
    @greg33770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Whats wrong with starting Kobe out with a lower job in the company and if he does well, he can work himself up the ladder......

  • @avonjames2352
    @avonjames2352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SHAEEDA NEEDS TO JUST GO BACK TO TRINIDAD. CUZ THIS RELATIONSHIP AINT GONNA WORK OUT

  • @kopo7466
    @kopo7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how it's being framed as "Kobe FELT Emily was being disrespectful by telling him what to do while shoveling horse sh*t",no, it WAS disrespectful. Instead of being helpful, she's standing there micromanaging and he asked CALMLY, several times to stop trying to boss him around. I don't condone telling someone to STFU, but if you've exhausted the peaceful option and it's getting you nowhere, it's pretty much warranted.

  • @berniceseima6083
    @berniceseima6083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kobe please go home while you're still in 1 piece

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    she doesn't like how he talks to her but its ok the way she talks to him??

  • @Sandra.-.
    @Sandra.-. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The must be nice interjection 🤣🤣🤣🤣. You kill me

  • @kathleenweinberg6442
    @kathleenweinberg6442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Kobe has a lot of nerve and a lot to learn

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn’t agree more. He’s a mess

    • @caroleparker5271
      @caroleparker5271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can almost bet his boo told him he could work with her dad i dont see anything wrong with him asking to be mentored by him i think his words just messed him up

    • @kathleenweinberg6442
      @kathleenweinberg6442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay

    • @rethabiler
      @rethabiler 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Poor guy saw an opportunity 😂... Short cut to success - take over your in-law's business 💀

  • @Night_Skinned
    @Night_Skinned 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't even watch these shows but I love Malicia'a coverage of them. She is so funny and needs her own show. I'd watch!

  • @vanessadowe5515
    @vanessadowe5515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't see emily moving period.

  • @sesimakoya
    @sesimakoya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂 I’m dying 😭😭😭😂😂😂 he’s gonna take over that company mark Kobe’s words 😂😂😂😂

  • @moniquebish
    @moniquebish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need Kobe to get away from Emily she talk to him like property someone needed to tell her to stfu if I was treating someone the way she's treating him my mother woulda been said something to me

  • @nikbarker3640
    @nikbarker3640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Emily-
    I’m MAD he told me to “STFU”
    But I’m allowed to tell him “this is not going to FKEN work”
    🙄🙄🙄 so one sided!

    • @shawnlove4502
      @shawnlove4502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's not the same at all lol

    • @cathyincolorado1432
      @cathyincolorado1432 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I noticed that too. I would have told her to STFU too. She's a horrible nag.

  • @Jibril_Abdulkadir
    @Jibril_Abdulkadir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If Emily father paid for her other siblings weddings like chuck did for his other kids and complains about her that’s wrong but if he didn’t pay for his other children weddings they will have resentment towards him because he favoured Emily

  • @Rachelief
    @Rachelief 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yay!! I’ve been waiting for this recap! I saw only the thumbnail of the TLC clip talking about Kobe trying to take over the business and I was cringing lol.

  • @stephk1970
    @stephk1970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Off topic, but Melicia is amazing, and her makeup looks great too!

  • @noonie2560
    @noonie2560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The edits make me laugh so much 😂😂 Emily’s dads face I can’t breathe hahahah

  • @taniat5204
    @taniat5204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don’t think it’s only about Kobe not having experience. He wants to take over a family business of a family that isn’t his… When they break up, how would that affect the “family” business if he did take over?

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He said eventually lol. Not like he's asking for it now

    • @terrencempengesi4200
      @terrencempengesi4200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why are u thinking abt a break up?I just think his approach was not appropriate bt he ddnt mean it in a bad way and he ddnt think abt a breakup at some stage either.

    • @taniat5204
      @taniat5204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jannalam6861 right. Which I understood. I’m just surprised that he’s bringing that to his gfs fathers attention when they aren’t necessarily family. Blood or marriage. They’re still getting to know him.

  • @AHatake
    @AHatake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trinidadian here..born, raised, still live here.. I HAVE NEVER HEARD THE WORD UMI IN MY LIFE.

  • @Fourlittlefurpeople
    @Fourlittlefurpeople 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Shaeeda is crazy as well.

    • @liverpoollass9915
      @liverpoollass9915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is and there's nothing shy about her

    • @kimberlylewis2185
      @kimberlylewis2185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! They have a Mom, and she's too pushy. Why doesn't she approach this subject with their real Mom? Everyone is finding fault with Bilal, and some I agree with, but she's something else too.

  • @berniceseima6083
    @berniceseima6083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kobe you can't marry someone if you can't afford to provide for them or yourself and clearly you are in too deep. Go sort your own life first.

  • @TheStewieGriffinShow
    @TheStewieGriffinShow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'll tell you what being shocked is! It's how much Emily looks like her homely dad. She's lucky to have found anyone who would want to spend time with her.

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kobe dosent have the advantages that Emily has 2 parents who support her at home !

  • @MaraMelanin808
    @MaraMelanin808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Emily is annoyingly spoiled, Kobe could've worded that better, but at least he's trying to learn something rather than just sitting around. Emily and her family will eventually run him away and then he'll be labeled as a bad guy!

  • @francismarie8912
    @francismarie8912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can we appreciate how beautiful malicia looks! That hairstyle compliments her so well😍

  • @kristelngami4816
    @kristelngami4816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2:31 Bilal is done…Ever 😅😂🤣

  • @lovemusik39
    @lovemusik39 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always say choose wisely...& never put yourself in a situation that you have to live to be dependent on people you don't know .....

  • @krenakrneki7636
    @krenakrneki7636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kobe should get custody for his child (and I mean Koban, not Emily) and run.
    Shaida should pack and go home, but first make some mess in Bilal's house, stick a hundred pins all over and mix the cutlery....than he would complain and lecture for weeks before even notice she is gone.
    Jibri should marry David.
    And so sorry but I cannot help my self imagining Binyam jump/kick whining Ari instead of that guy in the ring.

  • @Demilawz
    @Demilawz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the re-cap!! Love it!!

  • @susanventura3910
    @susanventura3910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Emily's mom is so beautiful.

  • @YsaBelisario
    @YsaBelisario 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had fun watching Melicia roast em all. She’s hilarious 🤣

  • @marlenemunoz7905
    @marlenemunoz7905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I would have told her to shut up too

  • @lisaloki5337
    @lisaloki5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your segment Melicia!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Besafe782
    @Besafe782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was shock too 😂😂😂😂 like who are you to take over my business sir not everything will be handed to you.

  • @josephineamara855
    @josephineamara855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He's crazy, what's really going on on these guy's heads to want to take over their father-in-laws business 🤔 😳 🙄

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Feels like Bilal is on a mission to make himself the most unlikely character for this season of 90 days.

    • @janettechapman9681
      @janettechapman9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The word is unlikable, he's already a character on the show....

  • @magaritaavila8535
    @magaritaavila8535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Emily has the nerve to ask 😤 🙄 😒 for a wedding???
    Both Emily and Kobe are old enough to take care of themselves.
    But Emily can start working anywhere while Kobe waits for the green card.

  • @silvanasalazar1918
    @silvanasalazar1918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have a question, is it really worth giving up your individual freedom to get together with a mommy’s boy who just wants his breakfast done?

    • @MrKihika
      @MrKihika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The answer is "Yes" if you are in it for sexy time, aka jiggy-jiggy! Mommy's boy is way more mature than this 40+ and her teen circle. I'm not necessarily a fan of Mo, but he knows what he wants and has articulated it since day 1. It remains to understand what SHE wants from him other than sexy time and, maybe, a babysitter for her child. She went to Egypt and saw their mode of life. Did she just hope/assume he would give up his Egyptian culture and beliefs once in the US?

  • @vbaeklinz7357
    @vbaeklinz7357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl ur voice was made for dis show 😂👌

  • @lindaallieri8536
    @lindaallieri8536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You go Dad!!! That being said part of the problem may be the parents indulging Emily so she is not used to doing it on her own? Has no idea.

  • @ками88
    @ками88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kobe 😂 I know he has good intentions but it’s hilarious 😆

  • @tyralikadiamondstar8960
    @tyralikadiamondstar8960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this show is for desperate people that can't find people in America

  • @agrant4701
    @agrant4701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kobe is delusional. How could he have NO plan? Or think he could takeover a business with his African high school education. Come on, NEVER.

    • @kerchow2062
      @kerchow2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i like how everyone including Emily keeps saying "Africa" like Africa's one big ass country😂😂

    • @agrant4701
      @agrant4701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kerchow2062 it has many nation's in it, but how the f---- do you think it is regarded?

    • @hildagranados5623
      @hildagranados5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You said African high school education blindly!!! 🥴 Africa (continent) has some of the best education.

    • @kay_red1156
      @kay_red1156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hildagranados5623 girl where? Name that high school.

    • @agrant4701
      @agrant4701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hildagranados5623 it's not enough to run a company. No high school education is going to be enough for that, OK? So you don't think im picking on places. I would never stick my chest out, if I merely obtained a high school education.

  • @7846885
    @7846885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Meliciaaaa , you look gorgeous as always! ✨

  • @123jamiez
    @123jamiez 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahahaha!!! Space ship man “trying” to break up the fight!!! Dead!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Benny-ye7ro
    @Benny-ye7ro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yve, leave that relationship! It’s not worth giving up who you are just to please him!

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think she decieved him too lol. It doesnt sound like he has a problem with going back to his country

    • @algraham9003
      @algraham9003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This kid is too controlling, she will hate him if they get married

  • @tsyd691
    @tsyd691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think he was thinking what they do in his country. Maybe handing that down...

  • @eurekamackey2873
    @eurekamackey2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video only shows a glimpse of how Emily and her parents behave! These people are rude and judgemental. Her parents already knows that he can't work because he doesn't have a green card so how would you expect him to work!! They treat Kobe badly and he needs to go back to his country!

  • @Nachoza
    @Nachoza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jibris friend daveed is so phony lmao 😂

  • @Burlykim13
    @Burlykim13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It may be a cultural thing for Shaeeda, but the ADULT also needs to understand it’s a cultural thing for the CHILD not to call a stranger mom. Stop rushing it. Let her do it in her own time. Seriously messed up to push any child to do that let alone a teenager.
    Also, Emily was being a micro managing, arrogant, disrespectful nag who said she hasn’t helped put with anything in a long time yet her parents support her. She’s beyond controlling and I think she manipulates them all with her Kobin. Her and mom conveniently left out all her build up that led to the STFU. I’m exasperated watching a few minutes of clips with her…couldn’t stand dealing with her.

    • @allisonaguillera5510
      @allisonaguillera5510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its definitely not a culture thing in Trinidad most of us called our step parents by their first names it doesn't matter the religion. Shaeeda needs to STOP saying its a culture thing , she means it her thing🙄 She's is an embarrassment to us Trinidadian women , she's very materialistic and puts up with his insults just because he has a nice house and car 🤣🤣 what a 🤡

  • @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206
    @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That culture does not exist in all households. She is lucky the kids give her respect. They are teenagers, with a Living mother, grandma, aunt's,🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @PostUp_Time
    @PostUp_Time 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *TLC UK SHOW, CONTINUES PLAYING. EMILYS DAD SAYS "YOU KNOW HOW EMBARRASSING IT IS TO MY NEIGHBORS TO HAVE KOBE LIVING HERE AND TO HAVE A BABY WITH MY DAUGHTER. PURE HUMILIATION" HE SAYS. "I REALLY FEEL LIKE ASKING HIM TO USE THE BACK DOOR, BUT THAT WOULD UPSET MY DAUGHTER" HE CONTINUES*

  • @garylogan4566
    @garylogan4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Calling her Aunty I think that's ok, pushing that mom thing it's going to be uncomfortable.

  • @yvonneblake2
    @yvonneblake2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is he going to take the company to his grave kmt... What is wrong with him teaching Kobe how to run the company? They were happy for him to clran up horse poo

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He needs... A degree maybe?

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you know architects need that? He should of told Emily's dad how to become an architect first maybe?

    • @yvonneblake2
      @yvonneblake2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@djregina6897 u mean like Richard Branson?

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yvonneblake2 You mean a self made man? Richard Branson created his businesses, he didn't just go ask an architect to take over his business without a degree. Kobe can start a magazine and create Virgin too. No one is needed.

  • @devinemindz
    @devinemindz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do you ask somebody to take over their business. He could’ve at least just asked for a job… 🤣 didn’t think of that huh

  • @Fourlittlefurpeople
    @Fourlittlefurpeople 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This dude is crazy, y'all need to send him back. Smh!

  • @wizzysloungetitaure
    @wizzysloungetitaure 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kobe is just happy, positive person and this family will seem his light. They cant get it that they come from different places in life. They need to be compassionate and understanding to the fact that he needs guidance. You just don't ask a person what his plans are when he is getting to know that small town. His language is not that broad so he is going to be misunderstood.