SAY NO TO THREESOMES : Relationship advice , goals & tips

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  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    A woman shouldn't have to degrade herself to keep a man. If a man really loves and cares about a woman, he won't ask her to be part of a threesome.

  • @EBB9667
    @EBB9667 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Ladies: run the hell away from a man who makes jokes about threesomes, porn, etc and then says "just kidding" He will use humor to bring these evil topics up and to see what reaction you give him. Miss Faye, this is an excellent video!

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yea all this weirdo stuff is sick like something mentally off with these people who treat their privates like public restrooms

    • @nancyshell2855
      @nancyshell2855 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly it is an evil trick this 3 some mess.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xyz-mc5of and the women and men who wash those private parts (mainly the male one) in their mouths like it's a public restroom on the side of the desert road

  • @sharongomes7219
    @sharongomes7219 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Say NO period! Say NO to it all! Dont ever allow a guy to mess up your world! Save yourself and stay focused on YOURSELF!

    • @chicksummer3578
      @chicksummer3578 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Preach!!!🌟

    • @tinawhite9810
      @tinawhite9810 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly 😊

    • @MzSweetzTalk
      @MzSweetzTalk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙌❤️

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      First of all he is nasty cares nothing about himself and wants to drag her into his filth. Any woman should run from his nasty body and mind. Use common sense ladies don't stoop low to that man. He is not good for you.

    • @tinawhite9810
      @tinawhite9810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rosettajones1161 I agree full hardly 💯 & to be honest I’ve had to flee from scum like that ! Not my type

  • @alexiusscott9880
    @alexiusscott9880 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am soooo sick of giving men power. At the age of 37 I finally understand!!!!

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    These days, so many men see women as playthings, to be used, abused, thrown away and forgotten.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว

      And the women literally participate. They are Not victims in this.

  • @ilovegod9008
    @ilovegod9008 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A man who truly loves you would be offended at the suggestion of a threesome

  • @pam164
    @pam164 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My ex used to say he wanted that i said no way, then he would say well if you want to find a man we can have a 3 and i thought then what man would want to be in bed with another man and share his woman, you realise then they don't care, and they like men.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lots and lots of men out there are curious about trying out another man. That's why they'd like to have a 3some.

  • @passionatequeen6125
    @passionatequeen6125 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I am totally against threesomes! No man will talk me into it. Every time I am asked to do a threesome, I tell him the only way I will do it is with 2 men and not another woman. That shuts him up every time! Stand Your Ground and don't lower your value for any grown boy! Period!!!

    • @reptilemetaljen
      @reptilemetaljen ปีที่แล้ว +16

      💯💯💯😂 always shuts them up lol

    • @organicforlife597
      @organicforlife597 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'd reply the same way❤

    • @EBB9667
      @EBB9667 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Brava!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Guys flip out every single time when you say that. 😂😂😂

    • @suefleming
      @suefleming ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Someday he might surprise you and say yes To another man...

    • @emyleewong3600
      @emyleewong3600 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      One time someone told me that , I answered him I will do it unless the other woman would be your mother😅 he was mad 😡

  • @terristrange
    @terristrange ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This is an important topic. Never do anything you aren’t comfortable with and know the more you give them the more they are going to take.
    Men respect women that respect themselves. Never be afraid to lose a man.

    • @ta89fr
      @ta89fr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This and it’s never enough.

  • @nothingbutme1150
    @nothingbutme1150 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I’ve said this before in other videos about this subject. If a man tells you that he wants a threesome ,he’s indirectly telling you he doesn’t want you, you are not enough for him and not to mention he clearly doesn’t respect you.
    The women who are on dating apps with their man who wants to find a woman to do this only looks like a clown and just know deep down he’s laughing at you while simultaneously looking for your replacement right in your face.

    • @Educatedlame
      @Educatedlame ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true
      He may just want variety

    • @keziyahyisrael9672
      @keziyahyisrael9672 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree ❤️ it's too many negative spirits and diseases out here 💯

    • @nothingbutme1150
      @nothingbutme1150 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Educatedlame hit dog just hollered. prepare to get roasted by the ladies for your Incompetent yet misogynistic response. Have a blessed day !

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 ปีที่แล้ว

      If a woman does a threesome it should be with 2 guys. Yuk I don't want another woman what would I do with her? Nothing. One guy can't satisfy 2 women.
      But this letter sounds more like an orgy, Way more than 3 people. I wonder if the letter is just pulling her leg. She must know it wouldn't go over well.

    • @1racethehumanrace946
      @1racethehumanrace946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@avibecalledyespresh True facts 💯

  • @Wonderwoman79G
    @Wonderwoman79G ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Miss Faye,thank you for being
    so open about a controversial subject but much needed conversation.There are youtubers who are half your age who would never think of giving advice on this topic.Ladies,remember this is a way for men to indirectly cheat on you.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He is not only cheating he is just plain nasty. He cares nothing for his girlfriend or wife and wants to use any woman who allows him to do that stuff. A man like that doesn't even care about himself or he wouldn't stoop so low.

  • @monicacoles4238
    @monicacoles4238 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Preach! The churches need to be this raw sometimes.

  • @roses4me451
    @roses4me451 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No real man that loves and cares for you will want to "share" you with another lover. Just the very thought of it would make him angry or cringe. I feel that would be the ultimate disrespect for anyone to ask you to participate in such debauchery. Too many stds, HIV/AIDS out there when people are "nibbling & dibbling" amongst different partners. It is a very risky behavior.

  • @yolandafranklin5950
    @yolandafranklin5950 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can't do threesomes because I value myself too much to share myself with another person. I believe in two's a couple. You put yourself at greater risk of contracting diseases and losing your self-respect, self-worth, and self-value. I'll lose him before I'll lose myself.😢

  • @C.387
    @C.387 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I remember my no good Ex asked me about this. And I said NO. And I was like early 20s but I knew he wasn’t right I felt some type of way like I’m not good enough just me 😠We soon divorced and I am happily remarried today 🎉❤thanks auntie Faye.

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit5954 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My ex husband asked for a threesome. I said no. Later, he had an affair with the woman he wanted to have the threesome with lol. It wasn’t funny at the time but at least he’s marrying her soon. I’ve been happily single chile. But if a man ever asks me that again, I’d just walk away from the relationship. If he wants a threesome he already wants to cheat on you, he just wants to include you in his disrespect towards you

  • @barbaraskitchen-ju
    @barbaraskitchen-ju ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why are some women so foolish, this is disgusting and nasty, come on ladies love yourselves

  • @genxx2724
    @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When I was in my thirties, a handsome, successful man I knew through work was interested in me (L). He was older and seemed very solid. Another man who had gone to school with him, (H), warned me to stay away. He said L attended his (H’s) son’s bar mitzvah and had sex one of H’s employees in the restroom! He also said L was involved with a woman, and went to some swinger resort in the Caribbean. He didn’t take his girlfriend; he took “some woman he didn’t care about”. I stopped talking to L. Then one day he marched up to me and angrily said, “I don’t know what you heard about me, but it’s not true!” 🤣 Yeah, right.

    • @nataliemartin1232
      @nataliemartin1232 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be careful!

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nataliemartin1232 He died years ago. First he got married. Then he got very thin and had missing teeth. Maybe his pearly whites were a bridge all along. He didn’t look so alluring anymore. He had cancer and passed away.

  • @olgaharris1103
    @olgaharris1103 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    🌺🌺 Ms Faye, you are a beast! I’m so proud of you! Our young ladies need to know! They have normalized all kinds of perversion. If ever you are brave enough, please speak on a woman agreeing to oral pleasure. I believe people can do what they want, however IF it’s not a husband and you break up, then you are referred to as a slutty woman to be passed around for pleasure. Ms Faye, if anyone can pull this off, it will be you and your smiling advice. I So appreciate your bravery in attacking these important subjects. They are reducing women to the the same things a man can do and are erraticating a woman’s value of her “honey pot”! We must be able to spot things that are destroying us and our womanhood. THANK YOU for all you do! 🤗🥰

    • @Crybaby-cz8et
      @Crybaby-cz8et ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said👏👏👏

    • @lindalewis8001
      @lindalewis8001 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Ms Faye how are y'all doing I agree with you many women have lost low self esteem broken from hurt when men give them comment Walk around breasts out showing all your good don't do it. No value at all ladies listen to Ms Faye most women give bodies for a few dollars no respect dirty dogs glad loving being single 73 percent men cheat Ms Faye we love you thanks for sharing blessings 🙏

    • @monicacoles4238
      @monicacoles4238 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Forward this message to your teenage daughters. Seems like you’re brave enough. ❤

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right Ms Faye is great and she speaks directly to the women and how men try to take advantage and use women. I like listening to her because she is transparent and down to earth the real deal.
      Now, when it comes to this oral stuff, I definitely don't think that oral as you mentioned is pleasure. God never made any woman or man to use their body like that. It is a nasty way to live and no one should do that; it is not pleasure. Your mouth is made to consume food that has teeth etc that should stay clean. Not one person has a clean mouth doing that filth it is not even normal. To his or her own but doing stuff like that and being in a threesome is crazy and total nonsense. Plus just plain "nasty."
      Women shouldn't lower themselves but should set better standards for yourself and never let a man use you for their so-called pleasure. He is no good and cares absolutely nothing about you. You can do better than that. Sin will catch up with you and all of us for sure. So do the right thing and Value yourself NOW! Remember: Aids, Herpes and Stds are lurking out here everyday so think about it when having these threesomes and any other abnormal sexual act. 🙄

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those toys that I know nothing about and never will get one. I think that is absolutely abnormal as well. First of all, that is not normal and it is weird.
      Listen to me, you will not die because you don't have sex but you can if you run around with people who spread to other folk. Also, using toys makes no sense at all. God made a woman for a man he never made toys to pleasurize you it is nonsense in all facets. If you are going to be celibate than live that way (without these crazy toys) that are man-made. Just another way the enemy gets people and a way for the industry to make a ton of 💰!
      Don't make them even more rich than what they are.. Ask the Lord to deliver you and he will do just that. Forget being religious but get to know the Lord for yourself. Go to John 3:16 and 2nd Chronicles 7:14. Also, You don't need any toys you just need Jesus in your heart mind and spirit. When I say God I am speaking of the creator of the universe who has a son called "Jesus."

  • @tinawhite9810
    @tinawhite9810 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Say no period. It’s just not worth it . I don’t want any man to Mess up My world . I want to stay focused.I darn sure wouldn’t even want to degrade My self . No way all bets are off . It’s a sure fire way to get some type of disease. Don’t jeopardize your health & self worth .

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As the late great Rick Nelson once said,
    "You can't please everyone. You gotta please yourself."

  • @bee12355
    @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Letter 1- did you say she was 26yo and the guy was 65yo?
    Letter 2- if you are feeling convicted about what you are doing, please listen to your heart and stop it. That’s the Holy Spirit convicting you. Don’t let others take you down the wrong path. The Holy Spirit is there to guide you, don’t let people guide you.

  • @reptilemetaljen
    @reptilemetaljen ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A man asks for this if he doesn’t respect you lol I had an ex that said he’d only commit if I’d be down with that and I said no yet he ended up marrying an older chick that’s more of a prude than I am lol weird lol don’t be their fun practice girl before they settle down and act normal for another chick 💯💯

  • @TheAnashea
    @TheAnashea ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sin is sin, fornicating is fornicating. Masterbation is a sin.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว

      God blessed with a right hand and a clitoris for a reason. So F that.

  • @1racethehumanrace946
    @1racethehumanrace946 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ladies you have to be willing to walk away.. If a threesome is not something that you don't want to participate in. Listen to your intuition. Miss everything you said was right on point. Good morning and blessings. 🌷🙏🙏

    • @pam164
      @pam164 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats what i did, was hard but at least i have my self respect, and thats priceless.

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No man in his right mind would or ever dared to even ask me such a thing 🤢🤡🦠

    • @1racethehumanrace946
      @1racethehumanrace946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@xyz-mc5of Good for you!

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@1racethehumanrace946 Yes. You sometimes have make your boundaries unmistakably clear as a woman right from the start especially with certain type of men who will always look for a weakness to exploit. At the same time these men aren’t worth your time but with all men you got to set strict boundaries and stick to till the end bcuz once they see you break your own values for him he’ll try to break every last one of your boundaries and leave you broken

  • @dawndemet3331
    @dawndemet3331 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Would NOT. Heck no. Can’t believe this is even a topic😳

  • @joy5885
    @joy5885 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If something is so good why share it... That's how I see it 💯🤷

  • @wrussell7273
    @wrussell7273 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Truth always rules out over foolishness. Evil is running rampant.Let’s not get it twisted, they want your soul. Women fall victim to this. Low self esteem, keep fighting. Save yourself. This an’t Love.This is one of Satins last tricks ! Keep fighting for your hart and soul.Children are watching.

  • @locgoddess3513
    @locgoddess3513 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Good morning " Fayers". Great commentary as usual. Say no to threesomes. I almost went there and I'm glad I didn't. It's not for me. Like the last writer said those toys been a better experience than the man because they don't have patience, don't know what spots to hit and flat out selfish throughout the whole experience and I understand now on a spiritual level, no real connection etc. No hard feelings or ill wills towards my past because it made me who I am today ❤❤❤. Take care everyone

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's embarrassing. That means majority of women be out here not even having orgasms ... That's why when women talk about being sexually free or how they love sex just as much... I just be like, what sex? 🤔🤣🤣🤣 lol yall don't even be getting off ass women. Just be ... rags and dumps for men to get off. . You're lucky if you actually get off, cause it's like flipping a coin. Nah. That don't make any sense

    • @courtneypalmer53
      @courtneypalmer53 ปีที่แล้ว

      She trips me out when she talks about the toys. 😂😂😂 I love it.

  • @neciababi7583
    @neciababi7583 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hell nawww..to the naw naw nawww🎶🎶🎶

  • @winning3329
    @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im not getting a soul tie to 2 people and end up feeling used a depressed

  • @Jo.Raquel
    @Jo.Raquel ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The age range is sick and nasty. She’s old enough to be his great granddaughter. 3 to a party never ends well because people get attached easily. It’s a lot of wolves in sheep’s clothing they love lurking and watching.

  • @queenb2287
    @queenb2287 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't know how I found you. I appreciate your wisdom. No threesomes for me, not my cup of tea. I am a new subscriber ❤️

  • @annstewart8506
    @annstewart8506 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    !ha!ha! Just saw an old Jerry Springer show where the wife gave in to the fantasy of her husband wanting a threescore. She fell in love with the other man and dumped her husband!😂

  • @PaulinaJohnsonMBA
    @PaulinaJohnsonMBA ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Miss FAYE!!! At 31:30 I fell out laughing!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    That rose changed my life!! Lol😅

  • @clairewilliams7762
    @clairewilliams7762 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My ex tried to get me to have a 4 some so 2 couples and said no many time in different ways. He tried, his friends tried so many times in different ways it was disgusting. So glad I never did it because I was pregnant with our daughter imagine if I did!?

  • @jouezmoi
    @jouezmoi ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Regarding Herpes, you need to differentiate between regular Herpes HSV-1, and genital Herpes HSV-2. The majority of people have HSV-1 that causes cold sores around the mouth. That is very different from genital Herpes which is sexually transmitted and said to be present in only 12% of the population. After being very, very sexually active, at age 45, I still tested -ve for genital herpes. It is likely that she got it from her boyfriend, but it does not necessarily mean he cheated. It is a virus that lays dormant for years and then may activate and the person will become contagious again for a period of time.

  • @lotishh
    @lotishh ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The title of this video is sending meee😂

  • @Curlyblonde
    @Curlyblonde ปีที่แล้ว +15

    YUK! What will the next request be? It's the start of the end of the relationship.

    • @C.387
      @C.387 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

  • @kjjune8603
    @kjjune8603 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes! Miss Faye, I dont even have to watch!!! No, no, no to threesomes because one of ya'll will get left out!

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Somebody eventually gets the short end of the stick …. that someone most likely will be you.😢

    • @nancyshell2855
      @nancyshell2855 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      preach

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's incredible to me how women would even participate when majority of women don't even get off in the first place. Make it make sense. Sexual deviants and dumbassesss

  • @keziyahyisrael9672
    @keziyahyisrael9672 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh yesss! I agree Ms.Faye my toy work miracles.😂😂😂😂 but i had to limit the toy i found myself releasing energy everyday 😅 now that i have found "True Love" it feels amazing to feel a man that knows what he's doing ❤🎉

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Were you not with any men prior who knew what they were doing?

    • @keziyahyisrael9672
      @keziyahyisrael9672 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chayo4537 The past sex just pleased my body. But when it's "True love" it pleases your mind, body, and soul❤️ that's a whole different magical feeling 💥

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good morning! You’re looking healthy with your beautiful bronzed skin. Thank you for what you do!

  • @crystalbee9706
    @crystalbee9706 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm disappointed that this is a topic that needs to be discussed.

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G ปีที่แล้ว

      May I ask - why are you disappointed?

    • @crystalbee9706
      @crystalbee9706 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Wonderwoman79G Because women either don't know better or they do know better but they're afraid to lose the men who asks them for threesomes. A couple of years after I became sexually active, a guy that I was infatuated with asked me to participate in a threesome and I never spoke to him again after that because I knew deep down that he did not value me and no one had to teach me that.

  • @billywatson9821
    @billywatson9821 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Go ahead Ms. Faye. Say no.

    • @selfesteem3447
      @selfesteem3447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LittleBilly gonna do what LittleBilly gonna do !

    • @billywatson9821
      @billywatson9821 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@selfesteem3447 I love your comment Ms. Gena. Thanks again!

  • @astroroutine
    @astroroutine ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I did not even click play yet that I want to thank you Miss Faye. You are gold! Bless you ❤️

  • @passion-ministrythroughthe726
    @passion-ministrythroughthe726 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a wise woman and I'm listening. God bless you!

  • @Blaaaah98
    @Blaaaah98 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I only have to say this, thank you to the genius inventor of the female toys! The women appreciate the innovation and has helped us in so many areas of our lives! Dr. Joseph Mortimer Granville 🎉🎉

    • @atlfun08
      @atlfun08 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I was about lose my mind... and then was like that's it!

  • @thettarobinson5009
    @thettarobinson5009 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Good morning Miss Faye🌺 you always have interesting topics. I’m a spiritualist to, what I find interesting is how you aren’t afraid to tackle modern issues. Folks definitely need to practice safe sex too. Keep manifesting I’m going to begin my channel too. We’re in the same generation old school!

  • @debberacoleman3932
    @debberacoleman3932 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So true Ms Faye. Brings drama, stress and gives your man many reasons to cheat. Or lady . Just nasty. And yes I agree totally with bringing others energy in.

  • @yahweh_health3941
    @yahweh_health3941 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Good morning, Miss Faye!🪷 peace and blessing to the community. I hope everyone has a great day🌞. As far as the herpes, traditional medicine will not cure the disease, but through the homeopathic route, many women have been cured. If you read Medical Apartheid, she explains how 90% of the population became infected. It's shameful 🤨 Miss Faye. In previous videos, you explained how media and other methods of communication like music have destroyed the moral compass of our society. Today's music is filled with sex and degeneracy. I used to love watching music videos, but now, no way will I watch those videos. If you go on main stream media and speak against these demonic things, please be ready for the crucifixion. Lord, please protect your children.🙏🏾

    • @dianamary6170
      @dianamary6170 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look into olive leaf supplements. one dose a day can work for a person with herpes. Also know your triggers and take 2 doses when you are sick or the immune system is compromised.

  • @amberparedes875
    @amberparedes875 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Once you give into this kind of stuff, they push the envelope with more kinky stuff.
    Maybe if there weren't so many DL men, you can joke to say "sure, if the 3rd person is a man"...😂😂😂

    • @jaslyn5501
      @jaslyn5501 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of men’s eyes would light up if you suggested another man 😂

  • @Jenny-e4v
    @Jenny-e4v ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Ms Faye, thanks for your great advice and wisdom. You are a nice lady. You speak to us like a mother would. Since i started listening to you, i am wiser about men. Keep up the good work. Always interesting , never boring. You explain and teach us very well . U should consider writing a book. It would be a best seller

  • @nhlibra
    @nhlibra ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yah, that is pretty icky. I think it is nasty too, lol #neverdid/neverwill
    On a similar topic...
    I was dating a very, very handsome man that in the initial getting-to-know you phases, I found out he knew friends of mine (and had, for years). He had split with a woman/fiancee one year prior. My friends were so positive when they told them I had met him, so I continued dating, we were eventually intimate. At about the 3rd time I had visited him at his house, he told me about his X-wife of 20 years (w/2 sons) and that they had participated in swinging. UGH!!! I was finding this out for the 1st time. So, I asked Qs to see how he felt about it. He told me that his wife had asked and he went along with it, but it wasn't really comfortable. His wife assured him that it would spice up their marriage, blah, blah. After a few sessions, he and the wife of the other couple had "finished" their biz...he and her were in the kitchen sipping coffee. That wife says to him, "I'm very happy for X and Y. LOL He responds, "What?" Again she says, "Oh, you didn't know yet? They are very much in love."
    Gaaaahhh. Divorce followed, his wife ended up getting married to this swinger husband, and still is today! I basically told the man I was seeing..."Well, that is what I figure would happen. Firstly, I'm not interested in sharing out my relationship like that, but even if I was interested...I don't play with fire."
    Every single person I have talked to about issues like these...NOT ONE of them can keep the emotions detached from the s3x. Touch is a very powerful thing. It eventually attaches itself to need and desire, ending with feelings scrambled in. And I agree with Miss Faye, the demons get shared and work there way into you.
    SO...same applies! Don't try that Swinger's crap either.

  • @cutietae247
    @cutietae247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anything good isn’t worth sharing .. that’s what I always think and say. I value my shoes so I don’t let random people come share them with me. I value my home so I don’t let people just come in when they want. I don’t share my paycheck, nothing. So why am I sharing my body and partner with someone when I won’t share most of my possessions ???

  • @paulamckenzie2356
    @paulamckenzie2356 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you Miss Faye. Your words are empowering us women.

  • @janedoe3900
    @janedoe3900 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was randomly thinking of this literally yesterday wondering if you’d ever touch this subject and you literally post this today ? Oh gosh ! Nothing is a coincidence!

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Miss Faye I've met someone new and I'm taking all your advice and it's going really well ❤

  • @callmecanolli322
    @callmecanolli322 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you for sharing this. You are 100 percent correct. It is spiritually and morally demeaning. How are you supposed to look at yourself in the mirror after you get up with another woman?

  • @sunshine2343able
    @sunshine2343able ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Miss Faye, but there’s more then the Universe! It was created by God! Our father, his son Jesus Christ! And the Holy Spirit! I to use toys as well, but it’s just as bad as soul ties!!! The lady in the second letter knows what she talking about.

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Stop the madness! These 3somes, never end well. Why would want another person in ur bed? This is so wrong. Besides, one person, may fall for the other....leads to disaster. Then what. I believe that most men who suggest this, just want to get their rocks off. They lie and tell u, that it improve the marriage. That's BS. Don't fall for that shyt. That should be a deal breaker!
    If he wants to be a swinger, join a swingers club, but without U!

  • @feliciaweatherspoon2303
    @feliciaweatherspoon2303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good morning Miss. Faye. There were great advice, you told that young lady. She needs to respect herself more. She heading down the wrong path. Thank you for your expert advice!!

  • @Aleese625
    @Aleese625 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And Swingers too Ms Faye with other couples, more than with one other person.

  • @tonyahockless588
    @tonyahockless588 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh wow! I really enjoyed this one, thank you so much Miss Faye! Hello everyone and I hope we have listened/learned something to apply to our lives. Stay safe!

  • @CassieJFox
    @CassieJFox ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Agree with you Miss Faye, religion is man made, all the fables and magic in Bible stories. I'm so glad Ive learned so much beyond organized religion and the heaven and threat " going to hell" Youre so right: Dogma=Dog Mess.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Religion in some ways may be made by man. But knowing Jesus genuinely is never made by man since God is real 💯. He can save anybody from their sins. John 3:16 and 2nd Chronicles 7:14.

    • @dawntheeducator7455
      @dawntheeducator7455 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Bible is real.. I have seen Seavif Galilee.. River Jordan.. my Calvary..

  • @kbraxt2613
    @kbraxt2613 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GM Ms Faye, peace and love ❤. They side eyed her because the mem enjoyed having a new body in their lair. My spiritual Father. Help Us All!

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They feel sick after participating and they’d rather blame her than blame themselves.

    • @Myaa1980
      @Myaa1980 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I was thinking. A touch of jealousy.

  • @kimredmond7500
    @kimredmond7500 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Ms Faye,
    My take on this "hell on earth" lifestyle is that the healing is easy to accomplish once the decision is made. It's maintaining that decision that's challenging!

  • @suefleming
    @suefleming ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good morning Miss Faye!!!
    ❤❤❤
    I agree with everything you said this morning.
    I've been there...done that...
    I'm healthy and healed now !!
    Have a beautiful day!!
    ❤❤❤

  • @cookeechoc8824
    @cookeechoc8824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was absolutely hilarious, the letter as much as the comments ! 😂 Yayyy to miss Faye !! 🎉🥳

  • @pauletteellis-valentine3214
    @pauletteellis-valentine3214 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank You Miss Faye

  • @carrolllinda2519
    @carrolllinda2519 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ooh, Miss Faye!! You bettah tell the beautiful truth 😁

  • @Momo-lv4kn
    @Momo-lv4kn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Miss faye, you are 100% ✅️, I am a victim of gang stalking for being who I am, a firm and strong lady. Saying No is powerful, I have tried to email you, but it's not passing through yet the email is right

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🤣🤣🤣😂🤣Miss. Faye said these toys can rock your world 😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣I’m laid out

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G ปีที่แล้ว

      She is too funny😂👌🏿😎🤣😂

  • @RK-su4hs
    @RK-su4hs ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i was seeing a man off & now for a long time. Recently he asked me if i would come & watch him have sex with someone else
    I said “no way”. He was very upset. My attitude was ‘who cares’ lol!
    Next time i saw him he told me “I trust you” for the first time ever
    So if i had agreed he would not of trusted me…yet it was His idea
    I swear it’s a crazy mixed up shook up world

    • @Myaa1980
      @Myaa1980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you don't trust him. That's that "I'm just playing" mess.

    • @RK-su4hs
      @RK-su4hs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Myaa1980 he didn’t say later he was joking/playing. i think he was testing my integrity
      I don’t “mistrust” anyone. I believe in people until they show me they don’t care about me at all…then i wish them well & move quietly on :)
      He’s a very attractive intelligent man
      However i told him i need a break
      He was very nice about it
      “All is well that ends well”

  • @theresaragland6382
    @theresaragland6382 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good morning Miss Faye's 💓 say no to threesome okay 💯 no no thanks Ms Faye's 💓

  • @catrinahickman1716
    @catrinahickman1716 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's sad to see that it's a lot of people that's in that new age stuff. We only have one God. You are right religion is false. God is not religion God is a relationship like a father and a daughter. That what wrong with people now because they had bad experience in church now they want too run to that new age. New age is not going to save you the universe that's not going to save you. The God I serve created universe. The God I serve it's very patient. That was wrong with people now they don't know how to be patient. I love your videos. I can't agree with you with the universe because that is false as well. New age is false two. Try to get out of new age and see how them demons is going too attacked you.

  • @queensun6059
    @queensun6059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👸3 means he don't love❤️u. bc love is sacred & extremely selfish. ain't nobody sharing if they respect & care for u😌. stop fooling 😤urself. 🏃‍♀️run. for ur life.

  • @lauraoki8368
    @lauraoki8368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great message, Miss Faye. Thank you.❤

  • @cyyrious
    @cyyrious ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My friend use to be into swinging her and her man but they eventually grew tired of the lifestyle and actually are happily married now after they found religion. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @hellostorm7661
    @hellostorm7661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing again ❤.

  • @kimberlynewman1081
    @kimberlynewman1081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Aunt Tea Faye!

  • @mikaleone6719
    @mikaleone6719 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, no matter what it is, men are self focus and you are a tool. Another that breaks down the root of what is going on energetically with women so willing to sacrifice themselves for men is Princella, the Queen Maker.

  • @PeOpLeArE2nEeDy
    @PeOpLeArE2nEeDy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Ms. Faye. How about you talk about the fact men need to practice leaving women alone? Men might understand how much they need to control themselves. If the woman want to deal with them for any reason she going to get him if he ain't pushed up on her. Men, let it be the woman decision wether she wants you. If you a real man there is no insecurities.

  • @Ladybug4730
    @Ladybug4730 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @cutietae247
    @cutietae247 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anything good isn’t worth sharing .. that’s what I always think and say. I value my shoes so I don’t let random people come share them with me. I value my home so I don’t let people just come in when they want. I don’t share my paycheck, nothing. So why am I sharing my fbody and partner with someone when I won’t share most of my possessions ???

  • @tracyhill4405
    @tracyhill4405 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ladies are older. This is why they hating on her because she is younger. Those older men probably chattering about how awesome she was for a first time. Maybe his friends are his age.

  • @connydm729
    @connydm729 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for your video Miss Fay...´it really helped me a lot in my belief about religion, i do believe it was men made to control people...
    Love and blessings,
    Conny

  • @dianakamanga5009
    @dianakamanga5009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We also appreciate ❤

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think letter one is this. She acts nasty and flirtatious at the barbecue when the other women compartmentalize the group sex and act normal in public. That's why they are mad at her. Don't flirt with their husband's! Are you crazy!? Just stop. Don't act sexual with their husbands at family gatherings. She needs to just get out of that situation. That's inappropriate. She's all sexed up and doesn't have any boundaries anymore. Get out and heal like Ms. Faye said.

    • @Myaa1980
      @Myaa1980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't think of it that way. 🤔

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Say that Miss Faye ….your value went all the way down

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truth and wisdom always prevails. Let me take care of my vagina, my mind, and my body. Just tell him your managamous and celibate.
    1st letter: 6 broken relationship by 26.
    2nd letter: sound advice.

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of people feel guilty after masturbation. It’s because masturbation is lustful and lust is a sin.

  • @MsRoryGreen-gp1uy
    @MsRoryGreen-gp1uy ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’re certainly welcome to your opinion. You may be right, but We won’t all agree

  • @mercedesmumbela.4185
    @mercedesmumbela.4185 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Miss Faye and everyone. I have a question on these threesomes. Are the types where two men and one woman common?

  • @blackdiamond696
    @blackdiamond696 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did she say that man was 65?😮 He need to retire 😅

  • @anniewalker7821
    @anniewalker7821 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Multiple partners in a relationship never turn out well. Look at Sister Wives. It's better to be alone than to be a third wheel. Remember ladies you'll never be good enough, or give, enough for the wrong man.Not even if you give him your life

  • @lorrainebarnes1378
    @lorrainebarnes1378 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u Miss Faye

  • @alexiusscott9880
    @alexiusscott9880 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know what was going on with that first girl 😳

  • @joshlowell3075
    @joshlowell3075 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The second comment is a question,when using sex toys are they to be used while watching porn or just using one's imagination?

    • @joshlowell3075
      @joshlowell3075 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lovechild528 I don't use toys because I'm a man and all I need to use is the 5 against one method. My question is does a person watch porn while in the act of masturbation or rely on their imagination? Women don't need toys either, they can use their fingers and apply friction to the right places.

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว

      Studies have shown that pornography is bad for the brain.
      It distorts a man natural attraction to nature looking women because alot of the women in the video's have eaatin disorders and plastic surgery addictions.
      Also it creates unnatural views of how s3x should be like it brainwashed men into wanting 3somes when it's unnatural because a pregnancy can happen even with birth control failure and now he created a fatherless home ( the beast system)
      Also it actually causes depression among men because dopamine receptors in the brain get spent out and used up and once it's gone then depression sets in.
      Pornography was created to make men fail and struggle in relationships and depression and keep them in a hamster wheel and when you don't feel your best you are easier to control.
      Read about the beast system.

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 ปีที่แล้ว

    When first dated my Ex hubby he asked about it. I told him No ,,,he is with me no one else. That is demeaning for a female soul to bein group sex. Plus unsafe. Ugh!