I know ur right. I have spent so many yrs putting my NEED & desire to transition on the back-burner, that now it just can't happen fast enough. Just feel guilty that so much of my time, attention & energy are devoted to transition & myself. It's just been dificult to get used to after always taking care of others & ignoring myself.
Glad that you felt comfortable enough to make this video, self awarness always insights growth. I dont think its selfish to take care of yourself....if you dont then who, not to mention if you dont meet your own needs how can you possible expect to meet the needs of others. I deffinately think youh have to figure out what your priorities are and set your plans accordingly. If transition is what you want to focus in then that is what you should be because your heart will not be in anything....
else. The hold basis of transition is to become comfortable in ones skin, seeking ones own happiness is one of the most selfish things you can do but that does not make it wrong...everyone wants to be happy and the only path to that is self-seeking. Follow your heart, it will not lead you astray. Keep your chin up, and if you ever want to talk my inbox is always open.
yeah i know. Trying to focus on the positive & work with what i've got. My dysphoria is thru the roof & causing me a lot of anxiety. I just really wish top-surgery was within reach.
I know ur right. I have spent so many yrs putting my NEED & desire to transition on the back-burner, that now it just can't happen fast enough. Just feel guilty that so much of my time, attention & energy are devoted to transition & myself. It's just been dificult to get used to after always taking care of others & ignoring myself.
Glad that you felt comfortable enough to make this video, self awarness always insights growth. I dont think its selfish to take care of yourself....if you dont then who, not to mention if you dont meet your own needs how can you possible expect to meet the needs of others. I deffinately think youh have to figure out what your priorities are and set your plans accordingly. If transition is what you want to focus in then that is what you should be because your heart will not be in anything....
else. The hold basis of transition is to become comfortable in ones skin, seeking ones own happiness is one of the most selfish things you can do but that does not make it wrong...everyone wants to be happy and the only path to that is self-seeking. Follow your heart, it will not lead you astray. Keep your chin up, and if you ever want to talk my inbox is always open.
yeah i know. Trying to focus on the positive & work with what i've got. My dysphoria is thru the roof & causing me a lot of anxiety. I just really wish top-surgery was within reach.