He's the kind of person you love to hate, but he's not a bad guy at all at all. I have lots of compassion for this young man because he seems to have the basics right, which are to love God and honor your parents. I hope he healed and God remembered him with a suitable wife💕
Mfundisi there is nothing wrong oyenzile and no sisi nothing wrong ayenzile... I love this woman bcs she knwz very well what she want and it was not u... And nawe u will be a perfect husband to someone and naye she will be a perfect wife somewhere
Ngyayithanda I silence kalo cc (the wife) ..lo mfundisi mbumbulu une drama n too full of himself....uthanda amehlo and I know there's much wrong he did that he's not telling. Ebengeke umfazi alahle umtshato wakhe so early and so easy ..inkulu into eyenzeke apha
I also don't know this woman but I command her. She did best. Also her silence is golden. The lies expose themselves. I hope she is healing and prospering.
When he said she must kneel infront of him so he can give her her crown. That was the first red flag. He wanted to rule her. Why would he ask her to kneel hayi man
Mina I believe u Cedric. U really loved her. I can see even when u speak about her. N her singing. Oh my God mfudisi. God will give u the strength to move on. It's so hard breaking. I think she was going through something herself. U were so genuine n u went all out. She was not ready for marriage n commitment Mfudisi. Thank u for sharing ur story to the world. U've helped a lot of people.
Umshando uma usafika kuwona une pressure, on top of the phase ye honeymoon. Especially, ngoba noma kushunyayelwa kufundiswa ngokulwa, ukubekezela, ukuthandaza.. Nje yonke leyonto komunye umuntu ifike imothuse. Thus, one or two problems within two days ivele kube ukuthi ooh yiyona lempilo engangi shumayezwa ngayo. Kusho kona ukuthi impilo yalaa izoba njena. Loku kwenziwa ukuthi, abomama ikakhulu abayimemezeli into emnandi ngomshado, 10 minutes it's all about izomo, 2second is about the beauty of marriage nge version yeBible. Not sharing the excitements in the real world we live in. Marriage is beautiful bakwethu😍 ukuba nomuntu wakho ngemvumo kaNkulunkulu heeibo. Bazalwane ake nimshumayeze umakoti nomkhwenywana ngalelanga lomshado. Say it! Kumnandi bo, ishonini bo. The honey it is there. 😔Uthola bamemeza abazalwane uma eyala uMma owashada kudala, ethi "ungene ekamelweni ulwe noSatane heeiii!!", what I am saying there is a a need for a balanced advices and encouragement. Memezani nobuhle, ibandla limemenze. Amen 🙏
HE WILL HAVE THE LAST WORD? so this guy will use bible when it suits him then use Zulu culture when is in his favor. Usaseumncane kakhulu. Akana ubuntu, even his demeanor is over bearing,typical of most pastors. He gonna despise this life if he continue this way
My sentiment exactly. This one is a attention seeker n control freak nje. I soo wish the ex-wife could give her side of the story. Maybe one day she will break out and talk.
@@thabiemsiza5236 attention seeker, yes: But from his version of the story except stupid questions from listeners, dont you belive the lady was wrong and she z still wrong not telling her side.
Why would a wife bring police to her marital home if she feels safe? Iqiniso lizophuma lona. The one who speaks 1st seems right until the other party speaks. Pride iyinkinga kulomuntu uyishow off. They spent too much money of the wedding day and spent less time preparing for the marriage even starting counseling too late.
Now I get you Mr Zulu as you saying that you are not perfect I get that. Definitely a 3rd person in marriage uyamosha, family or no family, your ex wife was not supposed to listen to them. And if she's that faithful she was gonna comment and give her side of the story. I'm sorry my brother, uzomthola owakho. Kuzolunga. God bless you..
@@balungile_maswazi eyikudlaliwe ngathi lokuthiwa full story part1 & part2 but wonke awanalo qiniso lokuthi kwenzakalani aybooo why usitshela ngo9 days marriage if esazofihla nokuthi kwenzakala between dis 9days.
@@myworld_05 Nifuna liphi qiniso, from a distance the guy z telling the truth, if it was not true the girl have a right to oppose but she z not.. an tell her side
@@bonginkosizikhali6769 the honesty truth yinile yaqeda umshado wabo, mina namanje isuzathu angikasizwa, yes uthikhona okwakuvela before marriage but wakuziba bcz wayekholelwa kuthi he can't prospone umshado wabo, then nakhu sebeshadileke yinile yabeseyinzima kangaka in such a way dat their marriage only last 9days? For example khonowabhaqa omunye myb or .....angimelapho.
defend herself for what for who sis? kuledrama engaka kaCedric. Cedric made a sober decision to make this public (which he says it his way of healing, fine) but the lady does not owe any one any explanation, not the media not us. People will have to believe what they want to believe finish. Haibo!
Yho hayi ingaba locc usindisiwe nyani. M just thinking how s she even praying now esenalento imdlayo I believe if myb she found umfundisi engathembekalanga and if there ws adultery. Ibhayibhile data the only condition eziyivumelayo bible. I believe theres something else here esingayixelelwa la. Cc does nt owe explanation 2 anyone bt concerned about her. Hoping she found a closure abe ukhululekile ekumkhonzeni uThixo.
Yhoo you nkow where d the danger is? Red flags when giving your wife a crown the demands you made where ridiculous firstly who wear a crown every where you go , secondly are you God to demand the twins,thirdly i wonder what form of abuse you did at the honey moon my advice change for your goodness
I respect the ex-wife’s silence. It’s indeed golden
He's the kind of person you love to hate, but he's not a bad guy at all at all. I have lots of compassion for this young man because he seems to have the basics right, which are to love God and honor your parents. I hope he healed and God remembered him with a suitable wife💕
Mfundisi there is nothing wrong oyenzile and no sisi nothing wrong ayenzile... I love this woman bcs she knwz very well what she want and it was not u... And nawe u will be a perfect husband to someone and naye she will be a perfect wife somewhere
This man is still hurting. He will heal some day.
God knows everything 🙏 that women was so humble and chose by god only god knows everything i pray to god to heal her
Ngyayithanda I silence kalo cc (the wife) ..lo mfundisi mbumbulu une drama n too full of himself....uthanda amehlo and I know there's much wrong he did that he's not telling. Ebengeke umfazi alahle umtshato wakhe so early and so easy ..inkulu into eyenzeke apha
I also don't know this woman but I command her. She did best.
Also her silence is golden. The lies expose themselves.
I hope she is healing and prospering.
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If I was that sister, I would have probably left while the honeymoon was in progress because wow
When he said she must kneel infront of him so he can give her her crown. That was the first red flag. He wanted to rule her. Why would he ask her to kneel hayi man
He is giving narcissist 2 me
Mfundisi nomlomo manzi😊
Introspection is the key in this situation. Lastly your happiness come 1st in both parties.
You are so deceptive. A wolf in sheep skin. Vuma izono zakho. Phenduka bab Zulu.
God is faithful shem butana. Uyeza unkosikazi olungile for wena.
Mfundisi awu yazi lutho mina angikakuzwa hle hle
You got married ningazani at all...🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Mina I believe u Cedric. U really loved her. I can see even when u speak about her. N her singing. Oh my God mfudisi. God will give u the strength to move on. It's so hard breaking. I think she was going through something herself. U were so genuine n u went all out. She was not ready for marriage n commitment Mfudisi. Thank u for sharing ur story to the world. U've helped a lot of people.
Umshando uma usafika kuwona une pressure, on top of the phase ye honeymoon. Especially, ngoba noma kushunyayelwa kufundiswa ngokulwa, ukubekezela, ukuthandaza.. Nje yonke leyonto komunye umuntu ifike imothuse. Thus, one or two problems within two days ivele kube ukuthi ooh yiyona lempilo engangi shumayezwa ngayo. Kusho kona ukuthi impilo yalaa izoba njena. Loku kwenziwa ukuthi, abomama ikakhulu abayimemezeli into emnandi ngomshado, 10 minutes it's all about izomo, 2second is about the beauty of marriage nge version yeBible. Not sharing the excitements in the real world we live in. Marriage is beautiful bakwethu😍 ukuba nomuntu wakho ngemvumo kaNkulunkulu heeibo. Bazalwane ake nimshumayeze umakoti nomkhwenywana ngalelanga lomshado. Say it! Kumnandi bo, ishonini bo. The honey it is there. 😔Uthola bamemeza abazalwane uma eyala uMma owashada kudala, ethi "ungene ekamelweni ulwe noSatane heeiii!!", what I am saying there is a a need for a balanced advices and encouragement. Memezani nobuhle, ibandla limemenze. Amen 🙏
Guyzini the story starts at 4:36
Enkosi
Uthini.... unkosikazi will never have the last word.....? Haibo mog!
Izinto ezinjani ezinga xazululeki emshadweni mog?
25:54 🔥🔥🔥🔥 VEEERY Important
HE WILL HAVE THE LAST WORD? so this guy will use bible when it suits him then use Zulu culture when is in his favor. Usaseumncane kakhulu. Akana ubuntu, even his demeanor is over bearing,typical of most pastors. He gonna despise this life if he continue this way
My sentiment exactly. This one is a attention seeker n control freak nje. I soo wish the ex-wife could give her side of the story. Maybe one day she will break out and talk.
@@thabiemsiza5236 attention seeker, yes: But from his version of the story except stupid questions from listeners, dont you belive the lady was wrong and she z still wrong not telling her side.
@@bonginkosizikhali6769Telling her side to who?
It's giving narcissistic vibes from this guy
This was three years ago my thinking logic was immature at that time, the lady do not owe us anything...
Kubuhlungu amathanga ahlanzela abangana mabhodwe phephisa ndodana
Kodwa Mageba uyosibelesela nge 9days kuzekube nini kodwa ke wawukhethe umfazi wangempela owafundiswa inhlonipho bona yena uzithulele akasho lutho ngawe ngobekuhlonipha🥺
Shem buti it was painful
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Why would a wife bring police to her marital home if she feels safe? Iqiniso lizophuma lona. The one who speaks 1st seems right until the other party speaks. Pride iyinkinga kulomuntu uyishow off. They spent too much money of the wedding day and spent less time preparing for the marriage even starting counseling too late.
Into endingayisho kunina nobabini ningamagwala engikwaziyo akafuneki amagwala kwayesu benisempini nina nayihlehlela benivivinywa nina nahlule in 9 days 🤔Kanti ningamakholw anjani ngoba kwakumele nizicishe ukudla nikhuleke ndawonye uSathane akayifuni imitshato
entlek why Ugod akufake engkingeni soo mara. sorry bosso 😂😂😂
The problem is, you love bombed her, love bombing is very dangerous.
It is done by narcissists who want to fool you so you get confused and dnt listen to your inner voice that is showing you redflags
Now I get you Mr Zulu as you saying that you are not perfect I get that. Definitely a 3rd person in marriage uyamosha, family or no family, your ex wife was not supposed to listen to them. And if she's that faithful she was gonna comment and give her side of the story. I'm sorry my brother, uzomthola owakho. Kuzolunga. God bless you..
Bengikubukele on live but angilitholanga qiniso namanje but ke kancane kancane lozeliphume, am also following u on Instagram
Nam mntase ayyyyi andibambi kwanto
@@balungile_maswazi eyikudlaliwe ngathi lokuthiwa full story part1 & part2 but wonke awanalo qiniso lokuthi kwenzakalani aybooo why usitshela ngo9 days marriage if esazofihla nokuthi kwenzakala between dis 9days.
@@myworld_05 Nifuna liphi qiniso, from a distance the guy z telling the truth, if it was not true the girl have a right to oppose but she z not.. an tell her side
@@bonginkosizikhali6769 the honesty truth yinile yaqeda umshado wabo, mina namanje isuzathu angikasizwa, yes uthikhona okwakuvela before marriage but wakuziba bcz wayekholelwa kuthi he can't prospone umshado wabo, then nakhu sebeshadileke yinile yabeseyinzima kangaka in such a way dat their marriage only last 9days? For example khonowabhaqa omunye myb or .....angimelapho.
@@myworld_05 ngicabanga ukuthi uvikele isithunzi sikasisi lapho cos yena namanje usanmthanda usisi, kodwa ke uma ngizwa iside lakhe usisi uyilenhlobo eshesha ukthatha idecsion engazane ecabange.... noma umuntu ubambe into erong ngaye akumele ushiye ngalesosikhathi... zama ukulungisa kuqala
Is very sad, I think you both needed theraphy morethan a divorce... understanding that power of God is not limited...He works also in Marriage...
You also chose to leave the marriage didnt you say? Not just her
Yoh mos a lot happened in 9 days
9 days in marriage, uqophe umlando what happened was very deep I can say
hmmmmmm the Samson and Delilag narrative does not sound right here. Mina nje ngiyithathat ngathi umfundisi ufanisa the ex wife with Delilah.
mfundisi khuluma mannnnn!!!
That is your choice
Eish you throwing too much shade its sad ai.
But what really happened lana
If u sisi is really that innocent, why ethule???? Why isnt she defending herself???? Haiboooo haibo
defend herself for what for who sis? kuledrama engaka kaCedric. Cedric made a sober decision to make this public (which he says it his way of healing, fine) but the lady does not owe any one any explanation, not the media not us. People will have to believe what they want to believe finish. Haibo!
@@mabongin1609 then we will believe this one part of the story.
@@sesonamafalala7100 it your choice dear... ..
Yho hayi ingaba locc usindisiwe nyani. M just thinking how s she even praying now esenalento imdlayo I believe if myb she found umfundisi engathembekalanga and if there ws adultery. Ibhayibhile data the only condition eziyivumelayo bible. I believe theres something else here esingayixelelwa la. Cc does nt owe explanation 2 anyone bt concerned about her. Hoping she found a closure abe ukhululekile ekumkhonzeni uThixo.
Not every action deserves a reaction!!!
Yhoo you nkow where d the danger is? Red flags when giving your wife a crown the demands you made where ridiculous firstly who wear a crown every where you go , secondly are you God to demand the twins,thirdly i wonder what form of abuse you did at the honey moon my advice change for your goodness
You opened a door for the devil by drinking that glass of wine. That is the problem that actually coursed your divorce Sir.
U.me.nze.ni???
Umbuzo usamile ? 😂
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Ewe Shem buti. It was bad