Wow. I'm a 63 yo man, married 25 yrs and I've been applying these things lately. For the first time this past weekend my wife said, after glorious foreplay since the last time, "you can do whatever you want to me" Of course the following was amazing, but it was all about putting all these things mentioned here into every day sincere interaction. The "climaxes" were like the thumbnail image because the buildup was work and improvement on the loving relationship. The concepts have always been "available" but this lady brings it perfectly into unified focus. Wow
"Your partner is only ever on loan with an option to re-new." What an interesting sentence! And I love the idea of jealousy as a creative sexual energy that can move you to re-new that relationship.
i dont mean to be so off topic but does anyone know of a method to get back into an instagram account? I stupidly lost my password. I love any help you can give me.
Enjoy Esther Perel, there are sooooo, many people talking about Energy, Transformation, Manifestation, Inner Work, Relationships, Sex, and intimacy, etc....basically how to live the best life and have deep lasting love, Esther puts a fresh spin on old and new topics. Talks with plain and direct laugage that makes you think. Seeing through new eyes is fuel for the mind, body, and spirit and if you want leads to spiritual love and erotic sex.
Really beautiful 😍 conversation, Esther Perel is just about one of the most attractive beings ever!!! I am so envious of that accent AND attitude!!! Her advice on love is very thought provoking, helps me TRY n understand men!?!? Haha 😄 Thx Goopie!!! Have a great day 😊
This just hits home! I am single now but learning so much for my hopefully next relationship! I see this a lot happening around me. I meet many married men who want to rediscover themself with me, off course I don’t engage cause I want to write my own story.
Would have loved to hear her answer to being asked about the practice of Karezza (say as described in the book Cupid’s Poisioned Arrow) - and how that might coordinate with her points of view and the questions she poses.
I did open myself to my husband of 49 years, in every way possible. I did tell him what I liked, ect. U was the one who kept the marriage alive, by being the one to continue to introduce a new vibe into our marriage, an excitement of renewal! However, he was eager to be receptive to everything thing, but he seldom initiated the same energy and desire to be Creative in the same manner as I, on his own! I grew uninterested at times with being the erotic creator, or the one keeping the marriage alive n interesting. I felt like he took more than he gave😞. Help! What went wrong🤔??. We are now divorced after those 40 years of soo many things that were good and productive between us. He just went 180 degrees as if we never knew each other. Never even looked back. Im so deeply confused and traumatized 😪!
Ugh, what a BLEEP!!! You get to carry with you that YOU WERE THE FUN ONE!!! haha His ol boring butt will regret it.... You sound like a vivacious, nurturing soul and please know you are the one you need.... And, maybe a dog or a best friend. My ex was similarly SPOILED n basically didn't love himself, so couldn't show love!?!? 😄 Bask in the Glorrious ways you are unique n divine, you might find single-dom FUN, and FREEING!!! Luv ya, Doll!!!
Life gave you the gift of exciting sex for some time. Fantastic! Then you changed the rules. He'd been happy to be receptive but you started to resent his receptivity so he was hurt and withdrew. It wasn't his fault or your fault. You just outgrew the relationship and that hurt a lot. At least be grateful for having had that magical time which isn't something that everyone has.
He sounds to me that he is unable to love. He was there when everything went his way; but he sounds locked inside himself, just going through the motions. Of course this must have been traumatic for you, and yes confusing. 49 years? That's a VERY long time. I hope you feel you have regained yourself.
36 years for me. And I get it. Confusion reigns for me too. Part of it is moving forward as a single person. How the hell do I do that? I’m just moving forward one step at a time. I tried dating but the men I went out with were interested in sex not me as a human being. So I’m no longer dating men. I had a short time in a relationship with a woman (Bisexual) and she was emotionally fragile. I think right now I’m on my own. I’m making peace with that. Good luck with your journey. Thanks for giving me an opportunity to share mine.
Esther once again I feel like you have just put into words my world….my world of fantasy, it feels like it’s always out of my grasp. I want to expose, bring out that erotic woman that is imprisoned inside of me.
I'm age 69 and my husband is age 75 and we have been married 25 years. I have found what works best for us is taking bio-identical hormones. When my hormones are optimized I want to have sex with my husband. My husband is not likely to "initiate" but if I share my fantasies with him he wants to participate.
I wonder if you could flirt around his/her mystery, calling him "My mystery man." Would you be able to create little fantasies about him? e.g. "I wonder if you had a really crazy day at work today but you kept thinking about what it would be like to arrive home." Or ... "I can imagine that you have a whole affair going on in your heart with a film star. That's so exciting. My unknown rival." He may well hesitate to open up because we women are so bad at NOT sharing everything. You may need to gradually demonstrate that you can be trusted to respect and love his inner self.
Yep, I try not to judge celebrities, cuz don't know em personally(I KNOW how that backlash feels) but ya gotta admit, she is a bit annoying for us.... LOVE 💘 her acting chops, etc. However,Did anybody REALLY ask her about Fast Food? She is KNOWN for food-snobbery.... um, I do want that egg..... though!!! Hahaha
There's something about Gwyneth Paltrow that speaks to you, it seems. I wonder what you like about her. Possibly there is something about her that brings out a side of you that you need to encourage. Is it that you feel kind towards her, or you imagine being courageous with her, or you love the idea of how attentive she might be to you? In some way, her personality is a gift to an aspect of your personality.
25:0036:00 jealousy: this is a woman fighting; a woman in the grip of her erotic rage; it's not a victim; a stage acknowledge I don't own this person, i Don't take it for granted;I want him back, and I will fight for that; instead of I will punish you, i want you back, this is the energy you tap into, and from that place, show me your dignity.
What about role reversal the other person won't be able to handle infidelity.And what about trust and friendship She always has that Cherish her or each other A person just want the thrill of the chase and nothing else sucks
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Wow. I'm a 63 yo man, married 25 yrs and I've been applying these things lately. For the first time this past weekend my wife said, after glorious foreplay since the last time, "you can do whatever you want to me" Of course the following was amazing, but it was all about putting all these things mentioned here into every day sincere interaction. The "climaxes" were like the thumbnail image because the buildup was work and improvement on the loving relationship. The concepts have always been "available" but this lady brings it perfectly into unified focus. Wow
"Your partner is only ever on loan with an option to re-new." What an interesting sentence! And I love the idea of jealousy as a creative sexual energy that can move you to re-new that relationship.
i dont mean to be so off topic but does anyone know of a method to get back into an instagram account?
I stupidly lost my password. I love any help you can give me.
Enjoy Esther Perel, there are sooooo, many people talking about Energy, Transformation, Manifestation, Inner Work, Relationships, Sex, and intimacy, etc....basically how to live the best life and have deep lasting love, Esther puts a fresh spin on old and new topics. Talks with plain and direct laugage that makes you think. Seeing through new eyes is fuel for the mind, body, and spirit and if you want leads to spiritual love and erotic sex.
Ghosting frightens me and turns me off makes my illness worse. This is happening now for years. Can you imagine?
I SALUTE this woman she has mastered her art!!!
@32:10 on jealousy. Quite insightful!
Amazing talk!
I wish, if someone was for us Men, like how Esther talked about with you. Great interview, insights and wisdom noted.
jorden peterson???
Really beautiful 😍 conversation, Esther Perel is just about one of the most attractive beings ever!!! I am so envious of that accent AND attitude!!! Her advice on love is very thought provoking, helps me TRY n understand men!?!? Haha 😄 Thx Goopie!!! Have a great day 😊
This just hits home! I am single now but learning so much for my hopefully next relationship!
I see this a lot happening around me.
I meet many married men who want to rediscover themself with me, off course I don’t engage cause I want to write my own story.
Esther, you are insightful. Thank you
Yep
Love Esther, must have her on again!❤️
The chuckle at 9:39 🤣🤣🤣
Would have loved to hear her answer to being asked about the practice of Karezza (say as described in the book Cupid’s Poisioned Arrow) - and how that might coordinate with her points of view and the questions she poses.
Perel is great
Wow incredible encore!!
Esther is amazing!
I wish I found this a lot sooner.
I know what . That's enough .Trust.
I did open myself to my husband of 49 years, in every way possible. I did tell him what I liked, ect.
U was the one who kept the marriage alive, by being the one to continue to introduce a new vibe into our marriage, an excitement of renewal!
However, he was eager to be receptive to everything thing, but he seldom initiated the same energy and desire to be Creative in the same manner as I, on his own!
I grew uninterested at times with being the erotic creator, or the one keeping the marriage alive n interesting.
I felt like he took more than he gave😞.
Help! What went wrong🤔??. We are now divorced after those 40 years of soo many things that were good and productive between us.
He just went 180 degrees as if we never knew each other. Never even looked back.
Im so deeply confused and traumatized 😪!
Ugh, what a BLEEP!!! You get to carry with you that YOU WERE THE FUN ONE!!! haha His ol boring butt will regret it.... You sound like a vivacious, nurturing soul and please know you are the one you need.... And, maybe a dog or a best friend. My ex was similarly SPOILED n basically didn't love himself, so couldn't show love!?!? 😄 Bask in the Glorrious ways you are unique n divine, you might find single-dom FUN, and FREEING!!! Luv ya, Doll!!!
Humans will never be fully analyzed. Period.
Life gave you the gift of exciting sex for some time. Fantastic! Then you changed the rules. He'd been happy to be receptive but you started to resent his receptivity so he was hurt and withdrew. It wasn't his fault or your fault. You just outgrew the relationship and that hurt a lot. At least be grateful for having had that magical time which isn't something that everyone has.
He sounds to me that he is unable to love. He was there when everything went his way; but he sounds locked inside himself, just going through the motions. Of course this must have been traumatic for you, and yes confusing. 49 years? That's a VERY long time. I hope you feel you have regained yourself.
36 years for me. And I get it. Confusion reigns for me too. Part of it is moving forward as a single person. How the hell do I do that? I’m just moving forward one step at a time. I tried dating but the men I went out with were interested in sex not me as a human being. So I’m no longer dating men. I had a short time in a relationship with a woman (Bisexual) and she was emotionally fragile. I think right now I’m on my own. I’m making peace with that.
Good luck with your journey. Thanks for giving me an opportunity to share mine.
Esther once again I feel like you have just put into words my world….my world of fantasy, it feels like it’s always out of my grasp. I want to expose, bring out that erotic woman that is imprisoned inside of me.
I'm age 69 and my husband is age 75 and we have been married 25 years. I have found what works best for us is taking bio-identical hormones. When my hormones are optimized I want to have sex with my husband. My husband is not likely to "initiate" but if I share my fantasies with him he wants to participate.
Sexual act can become painful for women. HRT is a good solution for more enjoyable intercourse. Aging process for women is not pretty
Wow.
Very deep, where I usually get turned on by the recipes, but holy lord!
What if the partner is not ready to divulge or talk?
I wonder if you could flirt around his/her mystery, calling him "My mystery man." Would you be able to create little fantasies about him? e.g. "I wonder if you had a really crazy day at work today but you kept thinking about what it would be like to arrive home." Or ... "I can imagine that you have a whole affair going on in your heart with a film star. That's so exciting. My unknown rival." He may well hesitate to open up because we women are so bad at NOT sharing everything. You may need to gradually demonstrate that you can be trusted to respect and love his inner self.
An uncommunicative partner should only be a temporary one. Wait for the one with no secrets; it will be worth the wait in Gold.
Gwyneth Paltrow is my answer 👍
Is the question "Who is a con artist?"
blouptqy lol
Yep, I try not to judge celebrities, cuz don't know em personally(I KNOW how that backlash feels) but ya gotta admit, she is a bit annoying for us.... LOVE 💘 her acting chops, etc. However,Did anybody REALLY ask her about Fast Food? She is KNOWN for food-snobbery.... um, I do want that egg..... though!!! Hahaha
There's something about Gwyneth Paltrow that speaks to you, it seems. I wonder what you like about her. Possibly there is something about her that brings out a side of you that you need to encourage. Is it that you feel kind towards her, or you imagine being courageous with her, or you love the idea of how attentive she might be to you? In some way, her personality is a gift to an aspect of your personality.
25:00 36:00 jealousy: this is a woman fighting; a woman in the grip of her erotic rage; it's not a victim; a stage acknowledge I don't own this person, i Don't take it for granted;I want him back, and I will fight for that; instead of I will punish you, i want you back, this is the energy you tap into, and from that place, show me your dignity.
God is changing things!
Lmao
She should stop cooking and go
What about role reversal the other person won't be able to handle infidelity.And what about trust and friendship
She always has that Cherish her or each other
A person just want the thrill of the chase and nothing else sucks
Yep, WE ALL love to chase and be chased, it's kinda annoying 🙄
Snake oil