it's childish and "feelings" based. What willhappen when this feelings ends? oh it ends lol, this isn't "lovE"THIS IS infactuation. These two aren't mature yet, love in totality includes these feelings but is more about growth and loyalty yes being locked in with the person you chose lol
@@diogoalexandree you're an idiot. Feeling is part of it but not even most of it. I am not bitter . I don't process that emotion. I am either happy or sad.
Lerato is so gentle in his love, I don't even know if that makes sense ... but just even look at how he leans in to kiss her 😢😢😢😍😍😍😍😍 ... argh, I'm not crying, I'm sweating through my eyes// and can we talk about how gorgeous Refiloe is!!
Hi 5 to all my single people watching this melts my heart due of missing my non existent boyfriend Lerato& Refiloe wish you more bountiful years ahead of you from 🇬🇧❤️❤️
When these Hatfield boys keep dribbling me ill keep coming back to this video in order to restore my faith in love. Your love is beautiful Refiloe and Lerato🌼💕
Your kind of love reminds me of the man I'll always love even though we didn't last as long as we hoped to. Advice to you guys :never let the ego be the cause for your division.
Most people really struggle to define love which explains failure in most relationships. These kids remind me of my my youthful love and how it grew to a now 24 year marriage.
Refiloe is one of theee most beautiful girls I’ve seen at Tuks 🔥🥺❤️ I think I even had a mini girl crush on her, ayi this girl is gorgeous, effortlessly 🤞🏽🔥🔥😍
I think when you are whole and at peace with yourself and have dealt with any traumas and hurts in your life that enables you to find true love. Both of them look peaceful and that's how they found love
I'm subscribing because of these two. Purest definition of love😭😭😭like you can see their love comes off natural, it ain forced, it's just phenomenal and amazing😻😻😻
She's so beautful. it inspire me cause im natural and small and more "cute" than sexy so sometimes i feel guys don't see that as attractive especially if they don't also look young themselves
they gorgeous together man.. beautiful love story, and WHOA Refiloe is really pretty man, her skin is flawless and they have so much in common, i wish them all the best in their love.
Damnit, I am all teary eyed thinking about how great love is. These two are gold. I love love and I am so blessed to know how it feels to choose someone daily.
This is my absolute favorite episode and I've come back to it at least 60 times in the past year. Their love is the most beautiful thing I have ever witnessed, so pure and simple♥in tears every time
If there is one thing that I look up to on a Thursday is #defining. You guys have made me believe love exists in all forms. Shout out for the 15K.... #roadto20K
I'm watching this for the third time, now. It's one of the most beautiful episodes I've seen, probably because this is the kind of love I've always wanted. It's good to know that it really exists. ❤ Edit I'm back here.
I don't think Refiloe knows how pretty she is, her face literally does justice to the human race
Bruhhhh😍😍😍😍
And her eyes😍
Shes gorgeous!!! Wow 😍
She has a beautiful smile.
She really is an amazing combination of cute and beautiful all at the same time , I can see this and I'm a girl!!
She’s beautiful!! her aura is so innocent..
Right thought she was his daughter lol
She looks like a baby
Absolutely gorgeous ❤️
@@cloudman1006 Lol she is cute and tiny 🥰
@@BeenGucciMaximus I agree
They remind me of Lisa bonnet and Lenny Kravitz😍
Mo mohlala I was about to say that!!!
aren't they divorced 😳
Mo mohlala Yes, I can see it too! 😍🤩
I don’t even know them but I’ve fallen in love with their love. May their love be eternal
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
it's childish and "feelings" based. What willhappen when this feelings ends? oh it ends lol, this isn't "lovE"THIS IS infactuation. These two aren't mature yet, love in totality includes these feelings but is more about growth and loyalty yes being locked in with the person you chose lol
KAIZO POLYMATH love is feelings based lol, you sound bitter
@@diogoalexandree you're an idiot. Feeling is part of it but not even most of it. I am not bitter . I don't process that emotion. I am either happy or sad.
What a beautifully thing to say. Amen. 💕
Refiloe has such a beautiful face , she's adorable
This is my most favourite defining love episode 🥹4 years later and I’m still rewatching it 🥹🤧it’s so beautiful 🫶🏾
Same
Lerato is so gentle in his love, I don't even know if that makes sense ... but just even look at how he leans in to kiss her 😢😢😢😍😍😍😍😍 ... argh, I'm not crying, I'm sweating through my eyes// and can we talk about how gorgeous Refiloe is!!
I don't know how I stumbled across this video but ha.a I get it I'm single 😭
It's absolutely amazing ❤❤❤
You know when you're not single but you're single when you watch this video 😭😭😭😭
Bra I feel so single ryt now....this video though
😭😭😭
Yazin both you and I sis shuu
"Watching this still in 2024"❤
Anyone watching this in 2020?
Sure
Me
@khumo baloyi Yesss, I can't help but keep watching it either.
2021
Hope they get married, have a bunch of cute little babies and grow old together. They are soo beautiful 😍
THANK YOU 16K😭🙌🏿🍾.
Edit: I've included their handles + the music in the description
Congratulations💃👏👌
We got you D we got you
@@khunindlovu3310 Always🙌🏿😊
road to 20K
You very much deserve it 😍
dude she is so breathtaking wow wow wow wow!!!!!!
Hi 5 to all my single people watching this melts my heart due of missing my non existent boyfriend
Lerato& Refiloe wish you more bountiful years ahead of you from 🇬🇧❤️❤️
Hi five back❤❤😂😂
Ayanda Kekana Dankie Dearie I just smiled receiving your hi five from a distance 😁💛❤️
Hi 5 back from 🇿🇦 . LIKE honestly they're such a cute couple. This the purest of pure young love
Girl hi 5! They are so cute!
I agree with u I'm emotional as I'm watching it love is a beautiful thing
The fact that they officially met at Tom Misch's concert... they'll last forever 🤗
I feel you on that
I felt that on a spiritual level.
right!
🤨are they still dating vele ?
@@boity88.bm.yeah ❤
He pays so much attention to her, what she does and who she is. It's too beautiful to watch. Their love is so beautiful to watch ❤
Home girl is pretty though..... like gorgeous!!😩😩
Refiloe is GORGEOUS bethuna😭Have I ever mentioned how much I love this series, well I do A LOT🤗🤗
A very unique, and genuine couple. Their letters just screamed “it’s really all in the little things”. Soooo authentic! ❤️
When these Hatfield boys keep dribbling me ill keep coming back to this video in order to restore my faith in love. Your love is beautiful Refiloe and Lerato🌼💕
Sis!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DreamyRain-ASMR lmfao yoh kubi kubird!!!
😂😂😂
Lmaoo😂😂😂
Yeyi 😂😂😂 I felt this
Refiloe are you even real? iyohhh youre so beautiful hle
Moitshepi plaatjie true
Moitshepi plaatjie she’s a stunning girl! Shuuuu
"You choose your person every single day"🥺
We won't skip ads cus you needs to get paid😄😄to provide us with such quality content....one of the best authentic videos ever I loved it
Facts🙌🏿😂🔥❤
I see you there😜😁
@@kgotsolesang4435 yesaaaaa😄😄😄😄😄
This is the most genuine episode I've watched!!
I agree 50 times over with you
@@aminaali3451 You're forced! lol
When are you going on the show?👀
@@sandisiwemakhathini3419 Hahaha don't start with me asseblief! You've got jokes.
His hand is shaking as he reads. That’s how you know it’s real. 😭😭
Lmao😂😂😂😂
Did you notice a hickey on his neck 🙊?
Yessss I noticed too, he's so inlove 😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂
hahahaa reminds me of a certain scenario I had in the past.... kusuke kunzima 🤣🤣🤣
Oh my God!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍, this lady’s face is exotic and soothing at the same time!
Your kind of love reminds me of the man I'll always love even though we didn't last as long as we hoped to. Advice to you guys :never let the ego be the cause for your division.
The level of attention Lerato pays to her. Like, wow 😍😩
Jesus, who are these men on defining love😳
They are so sincere and just being themselves 👑💖
They had awesome parents or didn't hang out with trashy people
@@Dainess365 basically.
We all wanna know
My single ass was not ready for this yho
Same 😂
Lerato's letter to Refiloe uggggggh man. Love is beautiful
Their love is so wholesome and pure.
My heart has become warm after watching this.
The way Refiloe looks at Lerato😭😭😭
It melts my heart too😭😭❤️♥️
I wanna cry tears of joy too😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Refiloe is absolutely beautiful. You guys suit each other so much, it's beautiful to watch 😍🌻
Most people really struggle to define love which explains failure in most relationships. These kids remind me of my my youthful love and how it grew to a now 24 year marriage.
To think I see her almost every day on campus, oh my gosh, she's so beautiful and small. one of my favourite couples thus far
How do they not have a TH-cam channel? Am I missing something? 🥺 Fine, gonna watch this again.
🔥🔥🔥
SAME DUDE
I even checked them on insta- NOTHING , like that's insane!
@@fashiontalkswithaura hers are thesunkissedojouner
Okay my faith in love has been restored. This was so beautiful, I'm not chopping onions okay.
Haha, if I could like your comment twice, I would.
Favorite Couple by far .. They bounce of each other sooo well .. Im totally rooting for them..❤️
Can they please start a youtube channel because i could listened to them talk all day, they're so cute!!!!
yoh I started crying with Refiloe I'm literally crying, people at work e looking at crazy love is beautiful.
Why do I keep coming back just to watch this😫😫
Lerato said a whole lot of beautiful things in his letter, these 2 make me so happy 😍😍
This love is so young and innocent we tend to lose that as we get old, I really hope they're still together.
They are
I’m here a year later and all I can say is love is so beautiful. 🥺❤️
Definitely🥺
His hand is TREMBLING (like my ❤️) when he is holding his letter....😭. I am going to watch this everyday. I love LOVE
One of the very best episodes by far!!!!! They don't come across as trying too much
Every few months I come back to this video. They are so beautiful, what they have is so beautiful!!!
Update: I've found mine 🥰
Pressed the like button after Refiloe said " we met at Tom Misch's concert " 😫
I honestly imagine all UCT love stories look like this 💛
Wow! whoever is chopping onions here, please stop!
Update : they moved to South Korea together 😭❤️
I'm invested thank you
They are now back in SA and living such wholesome lives😭❤
Aaaw my heart 😭 thanks for an update @@lindal3841 ❤
Cute is an understatement Yoh 😍😍😍😍... I'm outchea holding a candle 😅
I wanna be a better partner because of this video 😭
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I know right 😢😭😭
Refiloe is one of theee most beautiful girls I’ve seen at Tuks 🔥🥺❤️ I think I even had a mini girl crush on her, ayi this girl is gorgeous, effortlessly 🤞🏽🔥🔥😍
😢😢 love is such a beautiful thing man, sweetest moment was when they both knew which song they were talking about urgh mahn so adorable😢😍😍❤
Yes it's so cute that he knew exactly which song she's talking about, shows how well he knows her 😭😭
@@khanyalynn1674 😭😭 right? Looks like they vibe to the same music it's amazing😍😍😢
At the beginning when you showed snippet from other #DefiningLove videos, absolutely love that.
Thank you🙌🏿🤗
Hey wait a minute... I'm a student in her tutorial 😂😂😂😂😂 I'd be touched if this video wasn't all shades of cute. Two beautiful people right here
Bathong Refiloe is so beautiful!! Shu!! Their letters to each other were so sweet and written with so much care!
Right😭🙌🏿🔥
He’s so deep! Wow, that letter ... I would cry too girl!
Refiloe is making me miss wearing my natural hair out. Beautiful couple,wishing you guys all the best. Awesome show.🌼🌼🌼
I think when you are whole and at peace with yourself and have dealt with any traumas and hurts in your life that enables you to find true love. Both of them look peaceful and that's how they found love
I'm subscribing because of these two. Purest definition of love😭😭😭like you can see their love comes off natural, it ain forced, it's just phenomenal and amazing😻😻😻
She's so beautful. it inspire me cause im natural and small and more "cute" than sexy so sometimes i feel guys don't see that as attractive especially if they don't also look young themselves
This was SPECTACULAR. During this I fell in love with myself and with that I can give love as well 💛
That’s so beautiful ❤️
You guys are a beautiful couple. Refiloe is so gorgeous
This literally made me cry.. wow so beautiful,I really crave being in Love.
I'm not crying, you are !
Natural hair makes her more gorgeous ❤️ With hair defying gravity ❤️ beauty crown 👑
Their eyes look alike!! Cuteness
Legit in tears. This is beautiful.
I’m not doing it if it isn’t as great
they gorgeous together man.. beautiful love story, and WHOA Refiloe is really pretty man, her skin is flawless and they have so much in common, i wish them all the best in their love.
I think life is unfair. They are so perfect together.
Damnit, I am all teary eyed thinking about how great love is. These two are gold. I love love and I am so blessed to know how it feels to choose someone daily.
The way Refiloe looks at Lerato oh my gosh
can yall just get married already, im literally in tear.this is so beautiful
This is my absolute favorite episode and I've come back to it at least 60 times in the past year. Their love is the most beautiful thing I have ever witnessed, so pure and simple♥in tears every time
Me: being single as a Pringle doing single as a Pringle things and minding my own business.
TH-cam recommendations: OH HELL NAHHH IKYFL.
Lerato has a love bite on his neck, am i the only one who noticed this? (cute lol)
No you not,😂😂 i see it too
I scrolled down for this comment.
@@nosi8457 me too lol...
It's super cute 😍
😂 Yes
She is so beautiful 😭... They are so cute I can't 😍😍😍😍
Refiloe is super gorge😍,I love how they are so inlove with each other,it is lovely.
😭😭😭 Ilove this episode of the series. So real and authentic ❤❤❤ so natural.
May your love for each other grow it seems so genuine. Refiloe is so beautiful are you even real girl?
This is just too beautiful 😭❤. I WANT!!!😭😭 where is this love kodwa eSouth Africa 😂🙆🏾♀️
This episode is top 2 and defs not 2😍
If there is one thing that I look up to on a Thursday is #defining. You guys have made me believe love exists in all forms. Shout out for the 15K.... #roadto20K
Yassss!!!!! THE WAIT IS OVER
😭🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
This lady is pretty😭🔥🔥🔥😍😍❤ This is definitely Top 2 for me😍❤ thank you Defining💖👊
15:25 he's even shaking. This is true love.😭😭
😭😭😭❤️ Lerato's letter. Yho ha'a, andalila ingathi ndithunyiwe. Wow rha.
😂😂😂I feel you
😂😂😂
@@LindoSkosana-Ndlovu @Wow rhaa 😂😂😂
Sabaweli ujola😂
I'm watching this for the third time, now. It's one of the most beautiful episodes I've seen, probably because this is the kind of love I've always wanted. It's good to know that it really exists. ❤
Edit
I'm back here.
They are soo beautiful❤. I wish them a beautiful future together. Imagije the babies😭
This has to be the best defining episode I have seen 🥺came back here for this
Refiloe is so beautiful 😭♥️ you both just seem like kind hearted people♥️
Lerato shaking when he read his letter 🥺💗 this episode was beautiful. If a guy doesnt love me like that then I am good
Been binging on these Defining love video's for the past 2 days and this one moved me to tears! Love is such a beautiful thing to witness wow guys!
🤗🤗
This right here, is the content I signed up for. I appreciate the work guys, the whole Defining gang, bring to us. Love is so beautiful guyzini😍😍😍
Thank you Puleng🙌🏿🤗🔥📺
Peeling onions about to make my single self lunch!!
😂😂😂😂
One of my favourites episodes😍 Such a beautiful and sincere couple😭 Also Refilwe is gorgeous!!!
Beautiful and great QUALITY .
Can we please have Yolz and Lwazi?
Wow even their energy is beautiful 😭❤️