Trying to soothe ourself is probably the most important thing we can learn as humans. I mean, we do that with drinking, smoking, eating etc. and finding other less self-destructive ways to move through pain without wanting to numb it is just such a next level thing. and seeing you trying to soothe by colouring and doing something repetitive made me cry and understand the amount of pain you are in. Repetition helps kids with autism or adhd etc. so, it is a thing. thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. wishing you all the strength and peace. thank you for you.
Thank you for that phrase! I lost my husband to cancer in June this year. I will remember this saying when I am overwhelmed with emptiness and loneliness.
Oh Missy you are not mean or selfish. You are a beautiful, self aware woman who doesn’t need to explain yourself to anyone. So happy we can be here for you during this difficult time in your life and thank you so much for sharing. So very sorry about your grandfather, and yes, it is happening to you. You are experiencing a loss 😢 I can’t help but feel so proud of you and wish I can reach through the screen and give you a big hug! My deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🏻
I am so very sorry for you and your family. I lost my husband to cancer in June this year. He too chose to not take treatment. He passed peacefully at home with his family around him. I would not have made it this far without the Holy Spirit! He has been my comfort and my guide. Everyone grieves differently so grieve as you will, no matter what anyone else tells you. The best way to work through painful feelings isn’t to ignore , deny or try to change them, it’s to feel them. When you do that, real healing can begin. God bless you🙏🏼❤️
I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, I know this is heartbreaking. When you're an addict it's so much more difficult, in ways, others can't understand. I'm 13 years clean from opioids and get it, I understand and I'm so proud of you! The vulnerability that you're showing here is powerful in the realm of both death and addiction, you're absolutely helping others but posting this. Please know this!
I am so very sorry for your pain and the soon home going of your grandfather. As a new subscriber, I had no idea of your personal struggles. I am so proud of you for your success and accomplishment of that huge weight loss. I am very encouraged that you are critically thinking about your issues and making a plan of how you are going to get through these difficult days. Your strategy is a healthy and sound one. May the Holy Spirit embrace you and give you comfort going forward.
Sorry, losing loved ones is so hard.I lost my dad 20 yrs. ago, my mom 2yrs. ago, my uncle 6mths. later, then my brother. It was devastating. I was close to all of them. My mom was my best friend I still want to pick up the phone and call her. I know they are in Heaven, so that brings peace. I will be praying for you, and your family.
When your alone please cry your eyes out to release that grief. That's what I did in 94 when my husband and 22 other soldiers were killed on GreenRamp on Pope Airforce Base in NC. You do not have to apologize to people leaving comments. Everyone handles grief differently. God has you
Really feeling this. I have the same struggles with food. My husband isn’t well and I have found an unrealistic comfort with food along the way. It’s a battle daily and I’m proud of you!
@@LovieTribe I’m feeling your pain and it made me emotional that y’all are going through this difficult time. My mother in-law passed away a month ago and today was a rough day for me and my wife. You are right, the emotion comes and goes and we don’t know when it will hit. I’m so glad you were able to tell your grandfather all that you were able to. We were also able to say all that we needed to say to my mother in-law. 🙏 up for you all.
I agree cancer does suck. I've had it 9 times and I will be on chemo for the rest of my life. I'm so sorry about your grandfather. I'm saying prayers and sending you hugs and love.❤
Hi Missy! I stumbled upon your channel today and subscribed. First let me say I am so sorry you’re going through this very sad and difficult time😢. I can relate to many things you said in this video. Anticipatory grief is very real which you are experiencing with your grandfather. I never fully understood it till my Mom passed and then taking care of my Dad in hospice for 6 weeks at home. They passed the same year within 5 months of each other. Sending prayers for a peaceful transition for your grandfather🙏🏻🕊️. Remember to take care of yourself too. Like you said, one can only take it one day at a time. Sending you hugs!!❤🤗🥰
My Dad had ALS. We lived in different states, so that was hard. I have a WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL stepmom. She was amazing with him. I got to fly out to see quite often. I remember I was at work, taking care of a lady with dementia. My step mom called, and my dad wanted to talk. He knew. We talked, it was VERY hard for him to talk. I tried to hold my tears. I told my Dad, "Dad, you know how much I love you, right? I need you to know that" he said, "sweetheart, I know you do and that makes me so happy." He says, "Sweetheart, i love you so much and am so proud you are my daughter." My Dad and i had a special bond. I miss him so.
My prayers are with you and your family. I lost my dad in 2015 to lung cancer and my mama 6 years later of a sudden death, and I was her care giver and it certainly has traumatized me. It took me 3 years to even go into her bedroom to clean it out. I’m still grieving and I know both of them are in a much better place but I feel so alone at times. I try to stay busy with my children and granddaughter so I can keep my mind busy but some days all I want to do is sleep and skip the day because everything reminds me of my parents and it doesn’t feel real that they are not coming back. I just miss them so much I feel so lost without them! I love you my friend, wish I was there for you in person, but I’m here in Louisiana so I’ll send prayers your way. 🙏
Missy, l was not acquainted with your channel, but you popped up today and l am glad you did. I so admire your truth and honesty regarding your battle with food. Your recognition of what triggers you and your avoidance is remarkable. Hang in there and keep on keeping on. The beginning of your video seeing the power of the ocean brought the thought "The ocean is mighty, but God is Almighty". I'm so glad you have your faith in the One who knows all and sees all. Hugs and sympathy.
The beginning of your video was beautiful with the views of the ocean and such, love the music choices!! Your daughter was so cute imitating the seagull that nodded to her.. so sorry to hear about your grand father having cancer and being on hospice… my step dad had cancer and was put on hospice and then did so well that he was taken off of hospice and a couple of years later, passed away… my dad passed from cancer 2 years ago… he didn’t know that he had cancer… he went in to the ER not feeling well on a Friday and was admitted where they told him that he had a couple of months to live… he went home the following Monday and by Wednesday, he was gone… just before Father’s Day l💔💔💔 you are so right when you say # Cancer Sucks!! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers💝💝💝🙏🙏🙏 I just recently had your video come up on my feed and decided to watch and ended up subscribing… God has a way of sending, good Christian women for me to follow
I’m so sorry sweetie my heart breaks for you . I can honestly say that I understand how you feel I just lost my brother a little over a year ago to cancer and I wouldn’t put my worst enemy through it . Cancer is an evil demon it’s horrible ! This may sound crazy but it was easier losing him than it was to see him suffer from cancer it was so brutal to only him but us that loved him so much . As a matter of fact today is his birthday and I miss him so much but I know that he’s not suffering anymore . Sending prayers for you and your family sweetheart . 🙏🏻
I totally understand what your going through. I had my dad living here with me while on hospice. They are the greatest organization you hope to never need. Grieve however you need to not how others think you should. Glad you feel better sharing with your you tube friends and take care of yourself however you need to.
I just beat kidney Cancer. I am an older single mom. I know one day I won't beat this. I am however grateful for the time I have left for my boys who just graduated from Michigan State. I pray for strength for you.
Dont be sad. The good lord is calling home his child. It is time. None of us make it out alive. Many of us wallow in the sadness of death but fail to realize that death is the portal to ever lasting life. The good lord misses his children. Remember this...we will be together again!
I am sorry to hear about your Grandpa. I can relate to the fact that both my parent’s had very different passing, but both very traumatic and the grief is the same. Grief is the price you pay for loving so deeply. You are doing great.
I'm sorry about your grandfather. I lost both of mine, one I was 3 yrs old and one I was 20yrs old. It was hard. But when I lost my dad 15 years ago, it was so overwhelming. Being a nurse I found myself on the other side of everything I've witnessed others go through. My dad died in a hospice facility, and I was his mefical POA. He had renal cancer. He battled for 3 years. You are not selfish, don't ever think that. You loved your grandfather, there is nothing selfish about love. Let yourself grieve whatever that looks like, it's your way. You are right no one grieves the same. We all have different relationships with our loved ones. No one should judge you. Don't let anyone take you out of your comfort zone. God bless you and your family.
hi missy. first of all you are very articulate. you explain yourself very well. i am so sorry you are going through this once again. but as you say it's a part of life. my mama and father in law were both on hospice before passing. thank God for hospice. ...i'm glad you can talk it out with people who care about you even through your channel. i will pray, many will be praying i'm sure. your grandfather has a hope and a future in Christ. so wonderful to have a church family at this time as well. stay strong missy. Jesus is enough.🙋💜🙏...by the way, you do a great job video taping.
I’m so very SORRY that about Your Grandfather….Losing ANYONE HURTS but Family is the WORST…..I lost My Dad 4 yrs ago and I was the 1 who found him…He had a HEARTACHE it was TRAUMATIC I still have hard time over This….My Dad & I were very Close I LOVED this Man and MISS Him EVERYDAY he got to live to 80 yrs and I was BLESSED to have had him all of these Yrs…I still have My Mom who now is 81 the very Thought to lose her is unthinkable to Me and I PRAY the I go first…..It’s life We all are going to Die but it sure HURTS…. You take care of Yourself your Grandfather would want U to do that….. Sending Love from Virginia 🌹
As a hospice nurse, I always say, it’s labor and delivery of a different kind, my friend. The patients are always ok with the journey of death. The families are not. It’s ok to be selfish with your process of grief. If you were not downtrodden, what a sad thing that would have be. He mattered to you. Love and light sent your way.
My heart was saddened to hear the news about your grandfather. My heart breaks for you and your family. Praying for peace beyond all understanding. We are here for you! We love you!
Sweet sweet lady, I sorry for your sorrow, you and your family are going through a difficult time, stay brave, strong, sending healing prayers to you and your family 🙏💥
So sorry to hear this Missy, prayers for you and your family 🙏💞 im so proud of you for knowing how you would have dealt with this painful loss, and doing what you know you should for yourself. Your definitely an inspiration and a strong woman, anything is possible through God 🙏
Missy My heart breaks for you during this time, I'm so sorry about your grandfather, many prayers for you all. Thank you for sharing your emotions, I can relate to many of what you said about food. I'm so proud of you Missy you are stronger than you think I know you got this with God at your side. I just want to reach out and hug you this has me all crying, love you friend ❤
Your grandfather is an extraordinary man. All that is good in him, is in you. He will know all that is in your heart. I wish him a peaceful transition. I wish you and your family comfort and joyful remembrance of your grandfather. Sending love and prayers. X
Missy, I can’t thank you enough for posting this. You speak so beautifully and, so many people need to hear what you say. I love you, you are a beautiful and spirit filled person and I thank God for you and your family. Keep posting, what you say is incredibly important so don’t hold back. God bless you!
Missy my heart was breaking watching you, I’m so so sorry that your grandfather is so ill and your family is going through such a tough time. You are such a lovely lady, please remember that you’re not alone my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family xxx🥰
I stumbled upon your channel when your decorate for fall video popped up on my feed 😊 & I watched this video as well & I want to say you are simply amazing Missy 😊 & so right in your words especially towards the end of the video talking about wanting to help & God being your peace & feeling his love & comfort 😊 I totally understand where you were coming from in the entire video. And I love how God gave you the words to feel & share & touch others 🥰 I’m sad to hear about your Grandpa but the positive is Grandparents truly are Grand 🥰 & he will be healed & happy again 🥰 I will continue to lift you & your family up in prayer through this time 🥰🙏
So sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. Praying that God will grant you comfort, peace and understanding as you're going through this and in the days and weeks ahead. 🙏
I am very new to your channel but wanted to let you know how much of an inspiration you are to me. You are an awesome soul. I can relate to what you said in today's video. I have lost parents, grandparents, sister and best friend through my life and i found comfort in what you said. Keep going like you have been in your journey with an ED. sounds like you have a good plan. God bless, prayers for comfort and peace to you and your family.
I just subscribe to your channel. The first video I watched of you was the video of you making chili. I really love your content. It’s so beautiful and positive. I am very happy that I found your channel. I will be praying for your grandfather for yourself and for your family. Cancer is a disease that is so horrible and it’s very devastating when a family member is diagnosed with cancer, I am so sorry. God is in control and God will bless you and your family with the comfort to get through this difficult time. God bless you and your family.
So sorry to hear about your grandfather and what you are going thru. I just found you today and was binge watching your videos. I wanted to reach thru the screen and give you a hug.
Praying for comfort and peace. I understand what you are going through, just this month I lost a very close family friend and my Uncle's wife to cancer. Gid will get you through this. 🙏🙏
I’m sorry about your grandpa! my grandfather died of bone cancer so I know how you feel. One thing that makes me relieved is I know that I’ll see him in heaven. I’m glad to know that your grandfather is a Christian and that you are too. prayers for you and your family and I pray that your grandfather will be at peace.
I have just come across your post and I want you to know you are not alone and please keep sharing your feelings with us on here. Losing a loved one is extremely hard. I’ve lost a lot of family members and friends over the years and it was my mother in law that helped me by saying you don’t get over it but you learn to live with it. I really hope you find peace and strength to keep going. You are doing
You and your family are in my prayers, from one person who has went through two family members who was in hospice, it's not easy and lots of emotions, just go through every one of them and ask questions, they are so kind and understanding 🙏💜🐦🦋
Im so sorry my dear. I understand your pain. I lost my Dad to Stomach/Esophageal cancer 17 yrs ago. Watching him suffer in pain for 3 momths was truly the most heartbreaking experience of my life. As much as I didnt want to loose him, I was relieved when he passed because I knew he was happy and healed with Our Lord in Heaven. Please take care. Seding love❤️ and prayers 🙏 from Connecticut. GOD BLESS.
I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Sending prayers to you and your family. Please take care of yourself. You have a good head on your shoulders. Stay strong we love you.
It’s never easy no matter what. You’re right no child should have to make those decisions. I’m glad you had your sister to go there with. And your family. It’s tough. My prayers are with you and your family. 🙏
I'm so sorry to hear what you and others are going through. Losing loved ones is never easy but God is your comforter. Your grandfather will be here one minute and the next minute be with the Lord. No more pain and suffering . Stay strong and stay busy! I believe we are the generation that will be raptured out and God speaks to my spirit and tells me this when I see what's happening in our country now. I truly believe that you will see your grand father again sooner than later. We need to be ready! Praying for you and your family🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Missy, you are right. We all grieve in different ways. You do it the way it makes you feel better, and if distracting your mind is one of them and it works, then do it. I know what grief is about. It hurts terribly; it will always hurt; however, it gets easier. I'm so sorry you are going through this. The good Lord is there, and he will comfort you and your family. You are in my prayers. God bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤
"Doing nothing frees the hand of God to move..." Thank you for sharing that profound truth, Missy. Praying that you and your loved ones feel His arms wrapped around you as you walk through the grief and sorrow. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us...and I know that I speak for all of your "besties" here...if we could reach through the screen, we would surround you with our love and hugs...which we are doing in spirit, this very moment. We love you, hon...Pam xoxoxo P.S. Prayers for your Grandma, Mom and family, too
Missy I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. I understand the stress that you and your family are going through. Something that helps me when I get stressed out is to think of the song called God Will Make A Way. It is a beautiful song. Maybe listening to it might help you!🙏👼💓🙏😇💕
My dear friend… At least that’s what I feel like calling you these days I’ve watched so many of your videos! Definitely praying for you. I prayed for you and Savannah and your husband last night just that God would give you direction, I’ll allow you to grieve in your own way, also to give you clarity on how you can help your family. You’re just like me you want to help and you want to fix things and it’s your gift. Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us to have the honor and privilege of going to the Lord on your behalf for prayer.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Loss is hard. Grief is hard. You have to feel it. I also eat my feelings. Food is my comfort. I don't know how, but I just saw your chili video today. You are sweet and real. Jesus loves you ❤️ I will be praying for you to have comfort and peace 🕊🕯
Missy you’re a good person, never doubt that. And exactly right, we all grieve differently. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you do what works and helps you. God is in charge of your grandfather right now, and you have to be in charge of you. That’s what your grandfather would want, you doing what’s best to take care of yourself. We all love you Missy. I’m so very sorry for your pain. Sending prayers and hugs your way.
Missy, the joy of the Lord is your strength! You will get through this and you will see your grandpa again. The Lord is with you! Our God is just so good❤
Missy, Life is so very painful at times. I never was close to a Grandfather. You are Blessed to have beautiful memories of your Grandpa!! I am so sorry honey!!
Missy im so sorry to hear bout ur grandpa my heart goes out to u n ur family greive how u need to forget bout other people that dont understsnd i understand just take care of ur self on what works for u missy
I am so sorry. I will put him on my prayer list.🙏 may the Lord give wisdom, knowledge, guidance, and direction to everybody that is involved in your grandfather care, in Jesus’s precious name, Amen🙏
Missy, I am so, so sorry for the pain you are going through. I know how hard it is. I’ve been there. You can get through it by the power of God!! I will pray for you. Much love and prayers and hugs to you. Be strong.
My prayers for you and your family. I understand and know it's hard to go through this pain. I just know deep inside God is calling him home. He will no longer be in pain. My aunt was diagnosed las December with bladder cancer and she passed on Easter Sunday 2024. Stay strong for yourself and your family. God will be with all of you
I just stumbled upon your video. I’ve been where you are. It’s hard. Good luck not turning to food. It will try hard to trick you into thinking it will help you but it won’t.
Hi Missy, im Robert from Wisconsin. I'm new to your channel, All i can say is thank you. I'm like you I have a Bing eating disorder. Right now is a very horrible time for me. My partner had some strokes, and now he has vascular dementia. One of the hardest times In my life We also lost Mom aka my, best friend during, this time. I talked to her twice a day I told her everything. I get it. I really do sending love and hugs, too. u. Thank you for being so open. I agree and empathize with everything you're saying
I'm so very sorry my sweet friend love you and sending Prayers n hugs! Cancer sucks I deal with it in my mind everyday survivors guilt the whole nine I'm here if you need to talk ❤
Hello again My 2nd video of you I can relate and I’m sorry your going through this Family is so important I’m so proud of you for keeping God close to you I always say whatever I’m going through He pulls me through the storm Doesn’t mean it’s always easy but He’s there guiding you I don’t know where I would be if I didn’t believe in Him Anyway enough about me Your video was so peaceful seeing the deer and the ducks and the beautiful waves This is what we need to do for ourselves and you are doing a great job I love your spirit and your vulnerability Stay true to you Prayers for your grandfather 🙏 Thank you Jesus for bringing you to me ❤️
Trying to soothe ourself is probably the most important thing we can learn as humans. I mean, we do that with drinking, smoking, eating etc. and finding other less self-destructive ways to move through pain without wanting to numb it is just such a next level thing. and seeing you trying to soothe by colouring and doing something repetitive made me cry and understand the amount of pain you are in. Repetition helps kids with autism or adhd etc. so, it is a thing. thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. wishing you all the strength and peace. thank you for you.
Someone once said( Don't cry because you lost him, smile because you had him.)❤🫂
So true❤
Thank you for that phrase! I lost my husband to cancer in June this year.
I will remember this saying when I am overwhelmed with emptiness and loneliness.
@@nitadonaldson9173 You're welcome. It has really helped me.❤️🫂
That's so lovely ❤
So sorry for your loss Keep your chin up although that will be hard Condolences from Scotland @@nitadonaldson9173
Oh Missy you are not mean or selfish. You are a beautiful, self aware woman who doesn’t need to explain yourself to anyone. So happy we can be here for you during this difficult time in your life and thank you so much for sharing. So very sorry about your grandfather, and yes, it is happening to you. You are experiencing a loss 😢 I can’t help but feel so proud of you and wish I can reach through the screen and give you a big hug! My deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🏻
I am so very sorry for you and your family.
I lost my husband to cancer in June this year. He too chose to not take treatment. He passed peacefully at home with his family around him. I would not have made it this far without the Holy Spirit! He has been my comfort and my guide.
Everyone grieves differently so grieve as you will, no matter what anyone else tells you.
The best way to work through painful feelings isn’t to ignore , deny or try to change them, it’s to feel them. When you do that, real healing can begin. God bless you🙏🏼❤️
I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, I know this is heartbreaking. When you're an addict it's so much more difficult, in ways, others can't understand. I'm 13 years clean from opioids and get it, I understand and I'm so proud of you! The vulnerability that you're showing here is powerful in the realm of both death and addiction, you're absolutely helping others but posting this. Please know this!
I am so very sorry for your pain and the soon home going of your grandfather. As a new subscriber, I had no idea of your personal struggles. I am so proud of you for your success and accomplishment of that huge weight loss. I am very encouraged that you are critically thinking about your issues and making a plan of how you are going to get through these difficult days. Your strategy is a healthy and sound one. May the Holy Spirit embrace you and give you comfort going forward.
So sorry to hear about your grandpa, sending many prayers and thoughts and hugs your way,take care🙏💙.
Sorry, losing loved ones is so hard.I lost my dad 20 yrs. ago, my mom 2yrs. ago, my uncle 6mths. later, then my brother. It was devastating. I was close to all of them. My mom was my best friend I still want to pick up the phone and call her. I know they are in Heaven, so that brings peace. I will be praying for you, and your family.
I’m so very sorry for all your loss 🩷
When your alone please cry your eyes out to release that grief. That's what I did in 94 when my husband and 22 other soldiers were killed on GreenRamp on Pope Airforce Base in NC.
You do not have to apologize to people leaving comments. Everyone handles grief differently. God has you
Really feeling this. I have the same struggles with food. My husband isn’t well and I have found an unrealistic comfort with food along the way. It’s a battle daily and I’m proud of you!
I’m so very sorry, Missy. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Thank you so much! ☺️
@@LovieTribe I’m feeling your pain and it made me emotional that y’all are going through this difficult time. My mother in-law passed away a month ago and today was a rough day for me and my wife. You are right, the emotion comes and goes and we don’t know when it will hit. I’m so glad you were able to tell your grandfather all that you were able to. We were also able to say all that we needed to say to my mother in-law. 🙏 up for you all.
I agree cancer does suck. I've had it 9 times and I will be on chemo for the rest of my life. I'm so sorry about your grandfather. I'm saying prayers and sending you hugs and love.❤
Hi Missy! I stumbled upon your channel today and subscribed. First let me say I am so sorry you’re going through this very sad and difficult time😢. I can relate to many things you said in this video. Anticipatory grief is very real which you are experiencing with your grandfather. I never fully understood it till my Mom passed and then taking care of my Dad in hospice for 6 weeks at home. They passed the same year within 5 months of each other. Sending prayers for a peaceful transition for your grandfather🙏🏻🕊️. Remember to take care of yourself too. Like you said, one can only take it one day at a time. Sending you hugs!!❤🤗🥰
My Dad had ALS. We lived in different states, so that was hard. I have a WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL stepmom. She was amazing with him. I got to fly out to see quite often. I remember I was at work, taking care of a lady with dementia. My step mom called, and my dad wanted to talk. He knew. We talked, it was VERY hard for him to talk. I tried to hold my tears. I told my Dad, "Dad, you know how much I love you, right? I need you to know that" he said, "sweetheart, I know you do and that makes me so happy." He says, "Sweetheart, i love you so much and am so proud you are my daughter." My Dad and i had a special bond. I miss him so.
My prayers are with you and your family. I lost my dad in 2015 to lung cancer and my mama 6 years later of a sudden death, and I was her care giver and it certainly has traumatized me. It took me 3 years to even go into her bedroom to clean it out. I’m still grieving and I know both of them are in a much better place but I feel so alone at times. I try to stay busy with my children and granddaughter so I can keep my mind busy but some days all I want to do is sleep and skip the day because everything reminds me of my parents and it doesn’t feel real that they are not coming back. I just miss them so much I feel so lost without them! I love you my friend, wish I was there for you in person, but I’m here in Louisiana so I’ll send prayers your way. 🙏
Missy, l was not acquainted with your channel, but you popped up today and l am glad you did. I so admire your truth and honesty regarding your battle with food. Your recognition of what triggers you and your avoidance is remarkable. Hang in there and keep on keeping on. The beginning of your video seeing the power of the ocean brought the thought "The ocean is mighty, but God is Almighty". I'm so glad you have your faith in the One who knows all and sees all. Hugs and sympathy.
Ty so much my friend! What a beautiful thought! 😊🩷
The beginning of your video was beautiful with the views of the ocean and such, love the music choices!! Your daughter was so cute imitating the seagull that nodded to her.. so sorry to hear about your grand father having cancer and being on hospice… my step dad had cancer and was put on hospice and then did so well that he was taken off of hospice and a couple of years later, passed away… my dad passed from cancer 2 years ago… he didn’t know that he had cancer… he went in to the ER not feeling well on a Friday and was admitted where they told him that he had a couple of months to live… he went home the following Monday and by Wednesday, he was gone… just before Father’s Day l💔💔💔 you are so right when you say # Cancer Sucks!! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers💝💝💝🙏🙏🙏 I just recently had your video come up on my feed and decided to watch and ended up subscribing… God has a way of sending, good Christian women for me to follow
I’m so sorry sweetie my heart breaks for you . I can honestly say that I understand how you feel I just lost my brother a little over a year ago to cancer and I wouldn’t put my worst enemy through it . Cancer is an evil demon it’s horrible ! This may sound crazy but it was easier losing him than it was to see him suffer from cancer it was so brutal to only him but us that loved him so much . As a matter of fact today is his birthday and I miss him so much but I know that he’s not suffering anymore . Sending prayers for you and your family sweetheart . 🙏🏻
so sorry to hear bout your grandpa , hugs and prayers
I totally understand what your going through. I had my dad living here with me while on hospice. They are the greatest organization you hope to never need. Grieve however you need to not how others think you should. Glad you feel better sharing with your you tube friends and take care of yourself however you need to.
I just beat kidney Cancer. I am an older single mom. I know one day I won't beat this. I am however grateful for the time I have left for my boys who just graduated from Michigan State. I pray for strength for you.
Sarah I feel your pain ❤❤ so glad you are documenting your grief. It helps you, and others to know their feelings are validated.
Dont be sad. The good lord is calling home his child. It is time. None of us make it out alive. Many of us wallow in the sadness of death but fail to realize that death is the portal to ever lasting life. The good lord misses his children. Remember this...we will be together again!
I am sorry to hear about your Grandpa. I can relate to the fact that both my parent’s had very different passing, but both very traumatic and the grief is the same. Grief is the price you pay for loving so deeply. You are doing great.
I am so sorry your grandfather is going through this. Prayers for him and your family. 🙏🏼✝️
❤️🙏🏻My heart and Prayers goes out for you and your family
GOD Bless you and family 🙏🏻❤️
I'm sorry about your grandfather. I lost both of mine, one I was 3 yrs old and one I was 20yrs old. It was hard. But when I lost my dad 15 years ago, it was so overwhelming. Being a nurse I found myself on the other side of everything I've witnessed others go through. My dad died in a hospice facility, and I was his mefical POA. He had renal cancer. He battled for 3 years. You are not selfish, don't ever think that. You loved your grandfather, there is nothing selfish about love. Let yourself grieve whatever that looks like, it's your way. You are right no one grieves the same. We all have different relationships with our loved ones. No one should judge you. Don't let anyone take you out of your comfort zone. God bless you and your family.
hi missy. first of all you are very articulate. you explain yourself very well. i am so sorry you are going through this once again. but as you say it's a part of life. my mama and father in law were both on hospice before passing. thank God for hospice. ...i'm glad you can talk it out with people who care about you even through your channel. i will pray, many will be praying i'm sure. your grandfather has a hope and a future in Christ. so wonderful to have a church family at this time as well. stay strong missy. Jesus is enough.🙋💜🙏...by the way, you do a great job video taping.
Thinking of you. ❤ thank you for posting the shore pictures i grew up in Brick town actually it was called Herbertsville. Im sorry for your family
I’m so very SORRY that about Your Grandfather….Losing ANYONE HURTS but Family is the WORST…..I lost My Dad 4 yrs ago and I was the 1 who found him…He had a HEARTACHE it was TRAUMATIC I still have hard time over This….My Dad & I were very Close I LOVED this Man and MISS Him EVERYDAY he got to live to 80 yrs and I was BLESSED to have had him all of these Yrs…I still have My Mom who now is 81 the very Thought to lose her is unthinkable to Me and I PRAY the I go first…..It’s life We all are going to Die but it sure HURTS….
You take care of Yourself your Grandfather would want U to do that…..
Sending Love from Virginia 🌹
Much love and all my prayers for you. What a beautiful legacy your grandfather leaves behind.
You are so kind! Yes he absolutely does
I'm very sorry about your grandpa, that's so tough😢 may God comfort you all. Your lovey tribe is here for you.🫂💟
I am very sorry to hear your Grandfather is not well. Blessings to you and your family 🌟🙏🌟
Thanks so much
As a hospice nurse, I always say, it’s labor and delivery of a different kind, my friend. The patients are always ok with the journey of death. The families are not. It’s ok to be selfish with your process of grief. If you were not downtrodden, what a sad thing that would have be. He mattered to you. Love and light sent your way.
My heart was saddened to hear the news about your grandfather. My heart breaks for you and your family. Praying for peace beyond all understanding. We are here for you! We love you!
Praying for you all dear Missy. I’ve lost quite a few people myself to cancer and know the heartache.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sweet sweet lady, I sorry for your sorrow, you and your family are going through a difficult time, stay brave, strong, sending healing prayers to you and your family 🙏💥
I’m so sorry ur going through such pain in seeing your Grandpa suferring so 💞n🙏🏻
Bless you Missy and your family may the Lord wrap his arms around you all ❤ xx
Missy, you grieve how it is good for you. I, too, HAVE to keep busy when there is "tragedy".
Oh dear sweet, Missy, we're here for you! Prayers continue for you and your family. 💔
Thank you so much!😊
So sorry to hear this Missy, prayers for you and your family 🙏💞 im so proud of you for knowing how you would have dealt with this painful loss, and doing what you know you should for yourself. Your definitely an inspiration and a strong woman, anything is possible through God 🙏
Missy My heart breaks for you during this time, I'm so sorry about your grandfather, many prayers for you all. Thank you for sharing your emotions, I can relate to many of what you said about food. I'm so proud of you Missy you are stronger than you think I know you got this with God at your side. I just want to reach out and hug you this has me all crying, love you friend ❤
Thanks so much
Your video came up as suggested! So I subscribed. God works in awesome and mysterious ways. God bless you and your family.
Awesome! Thank you!😊
Your grandfather is an extraordinary man. All that is good in him, is in you. He will know all that is in your heart. I wish him a peaceful transition. I wish you and your family comfort and joyful remembrance of your grandfather. Sending love and prayers. X
Missy, I can’t thank you enough for posting this. You speak so beautifully and, so many people need to hear what you say. I love you, you are a beautiful and spirit filled person and I thank God for you and your family. Keep posting, what you say is incredibly important so don’t hold back. God bless you!
Thank you so much!😊 blessings to you
@@LovieTribe You’re welcome and thank you! 😊
Missy my heart was breaking watching you, I’m so so sorry that your grandfather is so ill and your family is going through such a tough time. You are such a lovely lady, please remember that you’re not alone my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family xxx🥰
I just came across your video……I send prayers to you and your family…..your Grandfather has your heart in his hand….💙🦋💙
I’m so sorry for your loss❤️
Stay strong in your self-care and self-love at this hard time 🙏🙏🕊️
Praying for you Missy. Sending you strength, peace & comfort ❤
I stumbled upon your channel when your decorate for fall video popped up on my feed 😊 & I watched this video as well & I want to say you are simply amazing Missy 😊 & so right in your words especially towards the end of the video talking about wanting to help & God being your peace & feeling his love & comfort 😊 I totally understand where you were coming from in the entire video. And I love how God gave you the words to feel & share & touch others 🥰 I’m sad to hear about your Grandpa but the positive is Grandparents truly are Grand 🥰 & he will be healed & happy again 🥰 I will continue to lift you & your family up in prayer through this time 🥰🙏
Ty so much! This means so much!!! 🩷
@@LovieTribe quite welcome 🤗🥰 Sending hugs from Ohio 🤗
So sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. Praying that God will grant you comfort, peace and understanding as you're going through this and in the days and weeks ahead. 🙏
I am very new to your channel but wanted to let you know how much of an inspiration you are to me. You are an awesome soul. I can relate to what you said in today's video. I have lost parents, grandparents, sister and best friend through my life and i found comfort in what you said. Keep going like you have been in your journey with an ED. sounds like you have a good plan. God bless, prayers for comfort and peace to you and your family.
Awwww ty sooo much my friend! This was so sweet! I’m so sorry for your losses 😞
I just subscribe to your channel. The first video I watched of you was the video of you making chili. I really love your content. It’s so beautiful and positive. I am very happy that I found your channel. I will be praying for your grandfather for yourself and for your family. Cancer is a disease that is so horrible and it’s very devastating when a family member is diagnosed with cancer, I am so sorry. God is in control and God will bless you and your family with the comfort to get through this difficult time. God bless you and your family.
Aw Ty my friend! Welcome 🤗 to the Lovie Tribe!!!
I lost my mom to cancer in Oct 2021, I miss her dearly. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs.
So sorry to hear about your grandfather and what you are going thru. I just found you today and was binge watching your videos. I wanted to reach thru the screen and give you a hug.
Awww Ty! I feel your hugs my friend 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Praying for comfort and peace. I understand what you are going through, just this month I lost a very close family friend and my Uncle's wife to cancer.
Gid will get you through this. 🙏🙏
I’m sorry about your grandpa! my grandfather died of bone cancer so I know how you feel. One thing that makes me relieved is I know that I’ll see him in heaven. I’m glad to know that your grandfather is a Christian and that you are too. prayers for you and your family and I pray that your grandfather will be at peace.
I have just come across your post and I want you to know you are not alone and please keep sharing your feelings with us on here. Losing a loved one is extremely hard. I’ve lost a lot of family members and friends over the years and it was my mother in law that helped me by saying you don’t get over it but you learn to live with it. I really hope you find peace and strength to keep going. You are doing
So well with your diet and keep your goal in sight. You are doing the right things to keep yourself busy
Ty sooo much my friend!!! Welcome my new friend 😊🩷
You and your family are in my prayers, from one person who has went through two family members who was in hospice, it's not easy and lots of emotions, just go through every one of them and ask questions, they are so kind and understanding 🙏💜🐦🦋
Im so sorry my dear. I understand your pain. I lost my Dad to Stomach/Esophageal cancer 17 yrs ago. Watching him suffer in pain for 3 momths was truly the most heartbreaking experience of my life. As much as I didnt want to loose him, I was relieved when he passed because I knew he was happy and healed with Our Lord in Heaven. Please take care. Seding love❤️ and prayers 🙏 from Connecticut. GOD BLESS.
I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Sending prayers to you and your family. Please take care of yourself. You have a good head on your shoulders. Stay strong we love you.
You were there when my papa and fil passed. I am always here for you ❤️❤️
You're the best! Ty Kelly 🩷🩷🩷🩷
A big hug and lots of prayers that God will give you the peace you all need to cherish the memories 🙏🏾❤️
It’s never easy no matter what. You’re right no child should have to make those decisions. I’m glad you had your sister to go there with. And your family. It’s tough. My prayers are with you and your family. 🙏
I'm sorry you're going thru all this, your strong you can do this. also, congratulations on the weight journey Im rooting for you!
Thank you so much!😊
I am so sorry your hurting and your family. I Know how you feel. I lost my brother last week and I know that feeling of grieving in waves. Hugs 🫂 🙏🏻
I'm so sorry to hear what you and others are going through. Losing loved ones is never easy but God is your comforter. Your grandfather will be here one minute and the next minute be with the Lord. No more pain and suffering . Stay strong and stay busy! I believe we are the generation that will be raptured out and God speaks to my spirit and tells me this when I see what's happening in our country now. I truly believe that you will see your grand father again sooner than later. We need to be ready! Praying for you and your family🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Missy, you are right. We all grieve in different ways. You do it the way it makes you feel better, and if distracting your mind is one of them and it works, then do it. I know what grief is about. It hurts terribly; it will always hurt; however, it gets easier. I'm so sorry you are going through this. The good Lord is there, and he will comfort you and your family. You are in my prayers. God bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤
"Doing nothing frees the hand of God to move..." Thank you for sharing that profound truth, Missy. Praying that you and your loved ones feel His arms wrapped around you as you walk through the grief and sorrow. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us...and I know that I speak for all of your "besties" here...if we could reach through the screen, we would surround you with our love and hugs...which we are doing in spirit, this very moment. We love you, hon...Pam xoxoxo P.S. Prayers for your Grandma, Mom and family, too
I'm sorry to hear that you and your family are hurting. 😢
Missy I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. I understand the stress that you and your family are going through. Something that helps me when I get stressed out is to think of the song called God Will Make A Way. It is a beautiful song. Maybe listening to it might help you!🙏👼💓🙏😇💕
My prayers to you and your family, thank you for a beautiful volg the scenery is absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much🩷
I am new here to your channel but I subscribed to your channel . I am very sorry for the pain you are feeling 😢 sending love to you and your family ❤
Thanks and welcome 🤗
Prayers are with you and your family. 🙏❤
My dear friend… At least that’s what I feel like calling you these days I’ve watched so many of your videos! Definitely praying for you. I prayed for you and Savannah and your husband last night just that God would give you direction, I’ll allow you to grieve in your own way, also to give you clarity on how you can help your family. You’re just like me you want to help and you want to fix things and it’s your gift. Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us to have the honor and privilege of going to the Lord on your behalf for prayer.
Aww Ty soooo much FRIEND 🩷
Amen 🙏 God will never leave us comfortless. I’m sorry for the illness your grandfather has. Just lean on Jesus.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Loss is hard. Grief is hard. You have to feel it. I also eat my feelings. Food is my comfort. I don't know how, but I just saw your chili video today. You are sweet and real. Jesus loves you ❤️ I will be praying for you to have comfort and peace 🕊🕯
God is with you missy just keep the faith you got this.🙏🏻🌻
Missy you’re a good person, never doubt that. And exactly right, we all grieve differently. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you do what works and helps you. God is in charge of your grandfather right now, and you have to be in charge of you. That’s what your grandfather would want, you doing what’s best to take care of yourself. We all love you Missy. I’m so very sorry for your pain. Sending prayers and hugs your way.
Missy, the joy of the Lord is your strength! You will get through this and you will see your grandpa again. The Lord is with you! Our God is just so good❤
Missy, Life is so very painful at times. I never was close to a Grandfather. You are Blessed to have beautiful memories of your Grandpa!! I am so sorry honey!!
Thank you so much!☺️
SENDING HUGS AND PRAYERS ❤️🙏
Missy im so sorry to hear bout ur grandpa my heart goes out to u n ur family greive how u need to forget bout other people that dont understsnd i understand just take care of ur self on what works for u missy
I’m praying 🙏 for you 😢 I love your transparency. Don’t feel like it’s selfish it’s ok to feel this .
I am so sorry. I will put him on my prayer list.🙏 may the Lord give wisdom, knowledge, guidance, and direction to everybody that is involved in your grandfather care, in Jesus’s precious name, Amen🙏
Missy my heart goes out to you and your family ❤️
Missy, I am so, so sorry for the pain you are going through. I know how hard it is. I’ve been there. You can get through it by the power of God!! I will pray for you. Much love and prayers and hugs to you. Be strong.
Sending major prayers your way!!! Please hold....Praying for your Grandfather too☺
I’m sorry for your loss Missy. I’ll pray for your family. 🙏🏼❤
You the greatest power a mortal human being can have " prayer "
Im so sorry missy, i know it's hard for you, your in my prayers. 😢
My prayers for you and your family. I understand and know it's hard to go through this pain. I just know deep inside God is calling him home. He will no longer be in pain. My aunt was diagnosed las December with bladder cancer and she passed on Easter Sunday 2024. Stay strong for yourself and your family. God will be with all of you
I'm so sorry Missy....know you are loved and have support and we will all be praying for you and your family for comfort and peace! ❤
Ty Lori🩷🩷🩷🩷
I just stumbled upon your video. I’ve been where you are. It’s hard. Good luck not turning to food. It will try hard to trick you into thinking it will help you but it won’t.
Missy sending prayers to you and your family
even though it's a sad moment it was still a great video
Hi Missy, im Robert from Wisconsin. I'm new to your channel, All i can say is thank you. I'm like you I have a Bing eating disorder. Right now is a very horrible time for me. My partner had some strokes, and now he has vascular dementia. One of the hardest times In my life We also lost Mom aka my, best friend during, this time. I talked to her twice a day I told her everything. I get it. I really do sending love and hugs, too. u. Thank you for being so open. I agree and empathize with everything you're saying
Aww I’m so very sorry 😣 Sending hugs to you and yours! I hope things look up for you! Eating disorders suck…. 🩷
Thank you so much they really do.@LovieTribe
Prayers for you and your family. I’m so sorry you all are going through this. 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you so much!
Merciful grace abounding in christ❤
I'm so very sorry my sweet friend love you and sending Prayers n hugs! Cancer sucks I deal with it in my mind everyday survivors guilt the whole nine I'm here if you need to talk ❤
Hello again My 2nd video of you I can relate and I’m sorry your going through this Family is so important I’m so proud of you for keeping God close to you I always say whatever I’m going through He pulls me through the storm Doesn’t mean it’s always easy but He’s there guiding you I don’t know where I would be if I didn’t believe in Him Anyway enough about me Your video was so peaceful seeing the deer and the ducks and the beautiful waves This is what we need to do for ourselves and you are doing a great job I love your spirit and your vulnerability Stay true to you Prayers for your grandfather 🙏 Thank you Jesus for bringing you to me ❤️