I would not wear those two white lace dress for the wedding. I may not even wear the white maxi dress with florals either, even though that one looks gorgeous.
No I would not wear either of those 2 nude/white dresses to a wedding! Its too close to an all-white dress, especially from farther away. But I loved the 2nd black dress you showed! :)
Unless I'm attending a wedding that specifies an "all-white" dress code, out of respect to the bride, I would never wear white, cream, or pale nude (ESPECIALLY not in any fabric resembling lace or satin). It may seem "old-fashioned", but some weddings ARE extremely traditional.The closest I would come, would be to wear a soft rose/blush/blue/lilac/grey, etc. However, I DO love a beautiful black gown/jumpsuit/LBD/pantsuit for an evening wedding. I think black is always an elegant choice. It's also important to find out what colors to avoid if you're attending an ethnic wedding; outside of America, red & gold are often bridal colors.
Wearing black is also extremely disrespectful. It’s respectful for funerals but for a wedding it is also said to set a negative start to the marriage. So it’s not just about what you “think” is appropriate it’s about etiquette.
i don't know shit about weddings but it kinda makes sense that the bride should be distinguished and since white is traditional in her role then only she should wear it
I avoid white completely. Some people say to even avoid brighter colors. I say avoid white and the bridal party color and you are good to go. You are right about how some people think differently with how to dress for black tie or even semi formal. I got married back in August and I couldn't believe the amount of people who in my opinion were a little underdressed. I didn't feel the need to put a dress code because my invitations I felt sent the message that it's a little more on the formal side. Most dressed more formal but I still had a good chunk of people underdressed. I really didn't care how my guests dressed just no white. But I personally would have been more formal if I was a guest to my wedding. I think nowadays people don't dress up as much to weddings. I always look up the venue and take cues from the invitation if there is no dress code on the invitations.
@@magienancy OOH! One of my good friends is Moroccan and I'm going to her wedding this summer. I guess I need to look up what to wear, lol. Moroccan girls are so freaking beautiful btw. :)
Dani L. Hahaha, let me give you a piece of advice, don’t invest in a dress or caftan, you’ll find really pretty and high quality ones for rental (as buying one can be super expensive)
Yep and Pregnant with a $3 find Angora Cream sweater in November 1991 by the stuffy older ladies . 4 years later I accidentally re wore a long black velvet dress , I was broke just recovered from Cancer but looked Beautiful.
Oh I loved this! All the dresses are so pretty! Those navy ones AAHHHHH Gorgeous!!! You look amazing in them all! Id say no white but something light is fine.
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I love hearing how our cultures are different. I'm old fashioned so I never wear white to a wedding ceremony regardless it's long or short. However, generally it is acceptable for ppl to wear short white dresses. Having said that, the wedding dinner is usually a different story because the bride usually wears an evening gown or traditional outfit. I have worn white for wedding dinners where I know the bride will be wearing traditional because I know there's no way I could be viewed as disrespectful or trying to upstage the bride as traditional outfits are in bright colours like red or pink. My bridesmaid asked me if she could change into a white dress for my wedding dinner and I had no issues with it. So she wore white at the dinner.
I like dress that is just like the dark blue dress. I think it would be nice for a wedding. And I love the darker color. Thanks so much! My daughter is attending a wedding in the summer and I’m going shopping with her. This helps me so much. I don’t want to suggest the wrong outfit. My daughter is gorgeous and would look perfect in a flour sack but I would like to buy her something very nice. She deserves it. You also look lovely in all the dresses. Leslye
my daughter is graduating we will have a party for her after which one would you suggest I wear? as for the white lace dresses I wouldn't wear them to a wedding....thanks for sharing
I love all the florals and bright colors but it’s so hard to find a nice dress with sleeves.. I’ve been looking for a dress for a friends wedding for ages and can’t find anything appropriate :/ sadly this doesn’t help me.
Really enjoyed the video, can be quite difficult to know what to wear to a wedding. In Europe, we don’t have lulu’s, would be amazing if you could do this again with European stores (mango, Zara, H&M etc) but totally fine if you don’t want to do it again!
Can you wear a white floral dress to a wedding? The dress I plan to wear has a pink/coral flower print with greens and blues. Also, I have a pinkish half sweater to go over it.
The last two are definitely a no for the wedding! They look too close to white and they’re very lacy, which is a wedding dress vibe! The last two are dresses the bride would wear to her wedding shower and the rehearsal dinner! I considered birth of those last two dresses for that for my own wedding coming up, actually!
Wow! In US wedding dresses are so simple where i’m from in Balkan Europe everyone wears over the top dresses some of them are tacky in a bad way. I’m most likely to wear some gold or Red to weddings since i look the best in those colours. I usually have my formal dresses custommade since i usually don’t like anything in stores like they’re either too tacky for me or too simple I did wore white to a wedding but i was like 10 and the bride suggested me and my sister to wear white or baby pink or nude princess dresses
Amazing as always. I was wondering, Ashley, will you be filming any vacation lookbooks or styling videos while you are in Florida? I would love some summer holiday inspo. Lots of love
It always seem to end up wearing a floral day dress for the day ceremony and feel wierd wearing a day dress to an evening dinner or vice versa. The navy lace one and the black dress is probably the onlys that suits both.
Can you please add time stamps for the different types of attire? I would have liked to skip straight to business casual if you had a business casual option
Same both of those are a 'no' too close to white even light pink sometimes looks white in pics so that's a no for me too. But I do love the navy blue & black I think is fine for a wedding. Great vid love lulu's:)
Im going to an “all white” pre wedding and just dont wanna wear all white and am having trouble finding an appropriate dress thats not too white but still respect the bride’s wish. Cream or white with other prints/floral may work but still a hard choice. What do you think?
I hear white, cream, and black are not to be worn at weddings. I chose a nice navy blue off the shoulder dress. It is a barn wedding and I want to dress is down with white or brown wedges.
I made the mistake of wearing a white suit, I feel bad about it still 😩 But jokes on me cause I fell in the evening in the grass and my pants were all green
Thank you for showing us really great looks. Agreed, Lulu’s offers great occasion dresses at a nice price. Ordered the mustard floral dress,,,and it’s an extra 30% off right now so it was $41. No place to get ready for,,but this one is versatile enough for everyday. ❤️⭐️
Please is a eggplant color formal gown for Me, I am the Mother of the Groom. This dress has beads on top and a v neck line And has a bow in the waist like a wrap dress but It is formal and looks elegant to me. Please what do you think? It’s Black Tie, formal, and my formal dress is Down to my ankles, and fits great! What do you think about this color and What type of color for the shoes and little purse?
You're so beautiful in every single dress 😍.. I'm like 5 ft 2 and really skinny and always struggling with longer dresses or jumpsuits😓 I'm jealous! ❤️
Ashley: I don’t want to stand out. I just want to be in the background. *throws on bright orange jumpsuits with “WOAH SLEEVES”* Lol! Loved this video. Love your style! 🙌🏼♥️
Girl is there no color you don't look great in!!!! I don't know i think the off white lacey dresses would be okay if the were a little longer maybe knee lenth They were both very cute !!!!
Ooh I love the mustard yellow floral print! I’m going to a wedding that starts at 5pm and it doesn’t specify black tie but I searched the location and being inside it looks fancy. Kind of wish it was an outside wedding now but is there any way it can work?
Agreed not to wear the light nude/white dresses. One of my guests wore a white dress to my wedding and I didn’t mind but pictures do look strange with us standing together x
In Mexico the wedding attire is almost always black tie -formal, if you don’t wear a full gown you will look so underdressed! It is a shame cause I’m petite and i would love to wear something more like cocktail
I think I have to say no for the last 2 dresses because as you said, there are so many colors out there, there's always a safer option and you also never know how the bride/the family will react. I don't like standing out at weddings either and the last thing I want is the bride to be mad at me for wearing something close to white! Anything lighter than blush to me is a big no no!
Obsessed with both shoe options!!! I’m tall, 5’10” so I don’t want to draw too much attention but it’s also a formal wedding. These two strappy ones are cute and low heels, also some low heel pointy sling backs? I don’t have a dress yet. Thoughts? Where did you get these two? Thank you!! 💛
Where I am from, the "no white to a wedding" was not really a big thing/rule in the past. It's kinda changing now, as people hear it from other cultures. Maybe it's just me, but a short white dress just does not scream bride and in our culture is also unusual to wear a short wedding dress.
Yeah a short white dress doesn’t scream bride. I think it’s just a tradition that’s been around for a while here out of respect for the bride...even though I wouldn’t care haha
Those white/lace dresses are definitely a no for a wedding!!
I agree!
Unless you're the bride lmao
I would not wear those two white lace dress for the wedding. I may not even wear the white maxi dress with florals either, even though that one looks gorgeous.
But lace is ok right ?!?!! I'm taking a red lace one tomorrow
Kind of nervous to wear red but it's the only decent wedding one I had:(
No I would not wear either of those 2 nude/white dresses to a wedding! Its too close to an all-white dress, especially from farther away.
But I loved the 2nd black dress you showed! :)
Black is funeral and white is for the bride
@@Kfssan it's both
Unless I'm attending a wedding that specifies an "all-white" dress code, out of respect to the bride, I would never wear white, cream, or pale nude (ESPECIALLY not in any fabric resembling lace or satin). It may seem "old-fashioned", but some weddings ARE extremely traditional.The closest I would come, would be to wear a soft rose/blush/blue/lilac/grey, etc. However, I DO love a beautiful black gown/jumpsuit/LBD/pantsuit for an evening wedding. I think black is always an elegant choice. It's also important to find out what colors to avoid if you're attending an ethnic wedding; outside of America, red & gold are often bridal colors.
In a lot of countries its not acceptable to go to a wedding in black, because its the colour of grief.
Wearing black is also extremely disrespectful. It’s respectful for funerals but for a wedding it is also said to set a negative start to the marriage. So it’s not just about what you “think” is appropriate it’s about etiquette.
@@janarossiter6790 Some weddings specify LBD as the dresscode.
i don't know shit about weddings but it kinda makes sense that the bride should be distinguished and since white is traditional in her role then only she should wear it
Omg thank you so much for this comment! It’s 10pm & im barely looking what to wear & it starts at 5pm 😢
I avoid white completely. Some people say to even avoid brighter colors. I say avoid white and the bridal party color and you are good to go. You are right about how some people think differently with how to dress for black tie or even semi formal. I got married back in August and I couldn't believe the amount of people who in my opinion were a little underdressed. I didn't feel the need to put a dress code because my invitations I felt sent the message that it's a little more on the formal side. Most dressed more formal but I still had a good chunk of people underdressed. I really didn't care how my guests dressed just no white. But I personally would have been more formal if I was a guest to my wedding. I think nowadays people don't dress up as much to weddings. I always look up the venue and take cues from the invitation if there is no dress code on the invitations.
With the lace dress... I say no coz it’s too bridal. I think, out of respect to the bride....
Not sure how it's done in the us but if I wore these to a wedding I'd be sooo underdressed, they look more "chic cocktail" to me
Cool! What country are you from and what kind of dresses would be appropriate there?
Dani L. Hey! I’m from Morocco and we usually wear ball gowns or traditional outfits
@@magienancy OOH! One of my good friends is Moroccan and I'm going to her wedding this summer. I guess I need to look up what to wear, lol. Moroccan girls are so freaking beautiful btw. :)
Dani L. Hahaha, let me give you a piece of advice, don’t invest in a dress or caftan, you’ll find really pretty and high quality ones for rental (as buying one can be super expensive)
@@magienancy Oh my gosh thank you! :)
I agree, no white or the light with lace at the end. You have some great options there.
I think If you wear white to someones wedding whether or not u think its ok your going to be hated on by at least 1 person haha.
Yep and Pregnant with a $3 find Angora Cream sweater in November 1991 by the stuffy older ladies . 4 years later I accidentally re wore a long black velvet dress , I was broke just recovered from Cancer but looked Beautiful.
Love how you were like i try to be able to look cute but lowkey and immediately brought out a bright red jump suit w a bold shoulder
The floral purple and gold flowing dress is fantastic, so tasteful
Adore the first two dresses OMG I don't know why they kinda reminded me of the dress Anastasia had for the Russian ballet in Paris
Oh I loved this! All the dresses are so pretty! Those navy ones AAHHHHH Gorgeous!!! You look amazing in them all! Id say no white but something light is fine.
Momma From Scratch navy is always a good choice for weddings!
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I love hearing how our cultures are different. I'm old fashioned so I never wear white to a wedding ceremony regardless it's long or short. However, generally it is acceptable for ppl to wear short white dresses.
Having said that, the wedding dinner is usually a different story because the bride usually wears an evening gown or traditional outfit. I have worn white for wedding dinners where I know the bride will be wearing traditional because I know there's no way I could be viewed as disrespectful or trying to upstage the bride as traditional outfits are in bright colours like red or pink.
My bridesmaid asked me if she could change into a white dress for my wedding dinner and I had no issues with it. So she wore white at the dinner.
Watching this video hearing you say “ always a bridesmaid never a bride” & scrolling and seeing your new “pregnancy videos” ✨ congratulations 💕
That piece you are wearing I love , did I miss where you got it
ahh im going to a wedding in September and they told us NOTHING about what type it will be!! i am freaking out lol. Thank you for the suggestions!!!
Very handy modifications for the 'do not' dresses!!!! Love it
This was very helpful and tasteful. Thank you!
I would love to see a luxury bag collection video!
Definitely a NO on the white/lace dresses for a wedding!
Agreed!
I like dress that is just like the dark blue dress. I think it would be nice for a wedding. And I love the darker color. Thanks so much! My daughter is attending a wedding in the summer and I’m going shopping with her. This helps me so much. I don’t want to suggest the wrong outfit. My daughter is gorgeous and would look perfect in a flour sack but I would like to buy her something very nice. She deserves it. You also look lovely in all the dresses. Leslye
LOVE THIS VIDEO! I just have a thing for pretty dresses. Can’t wait to do the electric slide at your wedding. I’ve been practicing.
Any recs for dress rental besides rent the runway ? Looking for a glam maxi that is not black , for a black tie wedding in NY .
Love this videos and all the dresses are gorgeous. I do agree with you and your mom that white is a big no go to a wedding. Xx
Awsome vid!! Anyone know the brand of the orange flowerdress?
Omg the jumpsuit is gorgeous 💕💕💕
I love LuLus. I bought my wedding dress from them. Xx
Thank you so much. I am going to a wedding in a few hours. This helped me decide on my choices. Thank you
my daughter is graduating we will have a party for her after which one would you suggest I wear? as for the white lace dresses I wouldn't wear them to a wedding....thanks for sharing
I think any of these will work for a graduation. They are all so different so whichever speaks to her style :)
That baby blue lace dress is Soo cute💋 all of them look great on you though💕💕
I love that one also! It was so comfortable
What about Black pants with a colorful top Casual is that bad? I had a sparkly sleeveless leopard top and black shawl accent .
Obsessed with the lavender colored dress!! Obsessed with this color recently!
I love all the florals and bright colors but it’s so hard to find a nice dress with sleeves.. I’ve been looking for a dress for a friends wedding for ages and can’t find anything appropriate :/ sadly this doesn’t help me.
I LOVE that second long black dress, it's so pretty.
I have to attend a court wedding/ reception next month. What do you suggest? I mean like formal, casual, cocktail dress?
Really enjoyed the video, can be quite difficult to know what to wear to a wedding. In Europe, we don’t have lulu’s, would be amazing if you could do this again with European stores (mango, Zara, H&M etc) but totally fine if you don’t want to do it again!
Can you wear a white floral dress to a wedding? The dress I plan to wear has a pink/coral flower print with greens and blues. Also, I have a pinkish half sweater to go over it.
Cute Ideas!! I definitely would not use the last 2 dresses for a wedding, unless it's a all white-themed wedding that I was invited once
Every single one of these is beautiful 😍
I wore a black short strapless dress with sparkle decorations to my cousin's wedding in Germany.
Very helpful video. Also i think your new appartement its more suitable for style videos, i love the minimal decor on the walls . love ya.
Omg this is perfect. Literally was looking all over to find a wedding guest dress and am STRUGGLING
Well...You have a lot to choose from! You’ll look great in whatever you choose
Fyi, many of the dresses are on Sale. Good luck!
The last two are definitely a no for the wedding! They look too close to white and they’re very lacy, which is a wedding dress vibe! The last two are dresses the bride would wear to her wedding shower and the rehearsal dinner! I considered birth of those last two dresses for that for my own wedding coming up, actually!
Wow! In US wedding dresses are so simple where i’m from in Balkan Europe everyone wears over the top dresses some of them are tacky in a bad way. I’m most likely to wear some gold or Red to weddings since i look the best in those colours. I usually have my formal dresses custommade since i usually don’t like anything in stores like they’re either too tacky for me or too simple
I did wore white to a wedding but i was like 10 and the bride suggested me and my sister to wear white or baby pink or nude princess dresses
can I wear a high waist dark greenish floral maxi skirt paired with a simple plain white tee shirt tucked in to a wedding?? Xx
Yi Hui yes, that’s good
Where is your black denim outfit from? It’s super cute!
I absolutely love these looks! 😍❤️ You always look so well put together 💞
Amazing as always. I was wondering, Ashley, will you be filming any vacation lookbooks or styling videos while you are in Florida? I would love some summer holiday inspo. Lots of love
This is such a good video idea!
I know your twin sisters Kylie and kambree they go to my school they told me to check u out your so pretty and so are they
What about a cocktail type dress that is white up top and navy on the bottom??
It always seem to end up wearing a floral day dress for the day ceremony and feel wierd wearing a day dress to an evening dinner or vice versa. The navy lace one and the black dress is probably the onlys that suits both.
Nothing that resembles white for me. Nothing.
I loved the video!!! Loved the jumpsuit idea!!
Me too! I think they are such a good alternative (but hard to go to the bathroom 😬)
I love all of them! You have great taste 🙂
Whats the brand of the white sandal? Thank you 💕
Beautiful may I please get the song title
Rent the runway is a go to for weddings too!! We share what we wore to a wedding in our California travel vlog ♥️
Hi Ashley! Can you please link your white shoes? 😊
ahh I'm desperately looking for a dress to wear to a wedding, the only one I own is JUST like the ones you showed at the end 🥲
Can you please add time stamps for the different types of attire? I would have liked to skip straight to business casual if you had a business casual option
Thank you for this! You should do a video about what shoes to wear for weddings!
It would probably be between the only two I wore for this video haha
Same both of those are a 'no' too close to white even light pink sometimes looks white in pics so that's a no for me too. But I do love the navy blue & black I think is fine for a wedding. Great vid love lulu's:)
Constantina KS lulus is the best ♥️♥️♥️
Does anyone know where she got her black heeled sandals from?
At the tail end she said Zara..
Oh lol don’t know how I missed that! Thanks!!
Im going to an “all white” pre wedding and just dont wanna wear all white and am having trouble finding an appropriate dress thats not too white but still respect the bride’s wish. Cream or white with other prints/floral may work but still a hard choice. What do you think?
I hear white, cream, and black are not to be worn at weddings. I chose a nice navy blue off the shoulder dress. It is a barn wedding and I want to dress is down with white or brown wedges.
yes i think it's good for a wedding
The red/orange jumpsuit 😍
P.s I will mess me up the girl that wears a white dress to my wedding 🤣
Nicole Ryan omg people wore white to our wedding and it was SUPER distracting 😭
I made the mistake of wearing a white suit, I feel bad about it still 😩 But jokes on me cause I fell in the evening in the grass and my pants were all green
I have 3 weddings coming up and my god do I need all the help I can get 😂
Thank you for showing us really great looks. Agreed, Lulu’s offers great occasion dresses at a nice price. Ordered the mustard floral dress,,,and it’s an extra 30% off right now so it was $41. No place to get ready for,,but this one is versatile enough for everyday. ❤️⭐️
Great advice. Love these suggestions!!
PS your hair looks so good like this!!
Please is a eggplant color formal gown for
Me, I am the Mother of the Groom.
This dress has beads on top and a v neck line
And has a bow in the waist like a wrap dress but
It is formal and looks elegant to me.
Please what do you think?
It’s Black Tie, formal, and my formal dress is
Down to my ankles, and fits great!
What do you think about this color and What type of color for the shoes and little purse?
For me, even a floral/printed dress with a white background is a no-go
Definitely would not wear those white/nude dresses to a wedding
You're so beautiful in every single dress 😍.. I'm like 5 ft 2 and really skinny and always struggling with longer dresses or jumpsuits😓 I'm jealous! ❤️
Anita Polet same! I’m 5ft and it’s a struggle!
I have a wedding (my first ever) in September and the dress code is pastel, any tips?
What about Cream? My mother in law found a Creamy Angora sweater dress for a November 1991
wedding as a Guest plus I was 3 months pregnant hiding.
Ashley: I don’t want to stand out. I just want to be in the background. *throws on bright orange jumpsuits with “WOAH SLEEVES”*
Lol! Loved this video. Love your style! 🙌🏼♥️
Haha! Well this video was to show a variety for everyone’s style :)
But I do love a whoa sleeve 🖤👀😃👍🏼
Ashley Brooke you right, you right. I always forget that you (a lot of youtubers) do this to give US options. Lol!
Girl is there no color you don't look great in!!!!
I don't know i think the off white lacey dresses would be okay if the were a little longer maybe knee lenth
They were both very cute !!!!
Ooh I love the mustard yellow floral print! I’m going to a wedding that starts at 5pm and it doesn’t specify black tie but I searched the location and being inside it looks fancy. Kind of wish it was an outside wedding now but is there any way it can work?
How about a shorter blush lace dress?
I wore white to my cousins wedding cuz nobody told me about it being a no go. But since it was a short and very simple dress i guess it was okay.
What’s the name of the song in your intro?
Beautiful selection of dresses 👍
Loved that white dress! Not for a wedding tho.
Always better to be overdressed then underdressed
update on your weeding plz!
I would def say a hard no for the white lace dresses to a wedding. Loved the video! So many great dresses ❤️
I can wear that lace white dress because in my country India the bride wears red/yellow
Love all of the dresses but wow it is so weird to see a balck dress as a wedding guest dress because in Europe it is a huge no no
Where’s your zippier jump suit from?
Agreed not to wear the light nude/white dresses. One of my guests wore a white dress to my wedding and I didn’t mind but pictures do look strange with us standing together x
In Mexico the wedding attire is almost always black tie
-formal, if you don’t wear a full gown you will look so underdressed! It is a shame cause I’m petite and i would love to wear something more like cocktail
I think I have to say no for the last 2 dresses because as you said, there are so many colors out there, there's always a safer option and you also never know how the bride/the family will react. I don't like standing out at weddings either and the last thing I want is the bride to be mad at me for wearing something close to white! Anything lighter than blush to me is a big no no!
No white at all unless the invitation says so, I've seen some weddings where everyone is requested to wear white at a beach.
I hate dressy casual weddings but I have one coming up so I need ideas 😁
I know this is a video about dresses but.... Where is that black jumpsuit from??!!!
For a very hot day looks ok.
Amazing dress choices xx
Obsessed with both shoe options!!! I’m tall, 5’10” so I don’t want to draw too much attention but it’s also a formal wedding. These two strappy ones are cute and low heels, also some low heel pointy sling backs? I don’t have a dress yet. Thoughts? Where did you get these two? Thank you!! 💛
Where I am from, the "no white to a wedding" was not really a big thing/rule in the past. It's kinda changing now, as people hear it from other cultures.
Maybe it's just me, but a short white dress just does not scream bride and in our culture is also unusual to wear a short wedding dress.
Yeah a short white dress doesn’t scream bride. I think it’s just a tradition that’s been around for a while here out of respect for the bride...even though I wouldn’t care haha
Great video! No, no, no ,no on the two white dresses at the end. The blue one, though, perfect!
Thanks for sharing! Love the video!
I lovvvveee this
I love the dresses, the tips
Everything! ♥️
Thank you!