Something Important I Learned About Women
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Im sure there’s a lot of speculation about whether or not this video was made as a diss towards content creators. With that being said, I don’t argue people, I debate ideas.
LFA, mad props on the background decor and lighting. On point and sexy as fuck! Are you using an led strip for the back wall that’s blue/purple?!
Bro I don’t even know where I’m at right now
@@LFA seriously 🤣 you okay?
@@LFA 😂
I appreciate you for making this content it definitely reinforced my way of thinking and feeling about this subject and it was on the money, time is really all we have and we need to stop wasting it hating anyone who we feel did us wrong and taking it out on others. Thanks for the advice sir I needed it
Honestly going about things in the red pill way most of this year, has not helped me one bit. I found more luck doing things my way and treating this women like I'd want them to treat me. I'm glad this video exists bc more people definitely need to hear it.
What kind of fucked up world do we live in where interacting with the world in an honest and truthful manner is actually the wrong way to go about things if you want the world to work out in your favor?
Red Pill is just awareness. Too many guys are clueless, so when something bad happens it destroys them. The right approach is to just be mindful and cognisant of how things could go against you, and act accordingly but still with optimism over pessimism. It’s a balance and too many go to either extreme: total naïveté or total cynicism. Neither helps anyone.
@@Ashtonishing1812 Very well said. I couldn’t agree more.
You can only do that because of Red Pill awareness. I also decided to simply stop with some RP information because too much of it makes you behave unnaturally. And you decide to just do it your own way. But you can only do it because you are taught to differentiate what good from bad is. You are taught a lot of things from the RP community. Just don't solely rely too much on it. And have some autonomy. Think for yourself, too.
@@NeoZeta Red pill information simply confirm that blue pill Chad's hook up and marry the hottest women. Nothing else. lol
This should be your final video on this channel, because you gave the ultimate advice.
yea for sure :)
Video of the year
I agree. Impeccable.
@countait TRUE COMMENT- -just IMPECCABLE...
So honest and humble period...
My ex-wife and I divorced after many years of taking each other for granted. Eight months after our divorce was finalized, she was gone (heart, kidney, and liver failure). Hardly a day goes by that I don’t think about her, wishing things had turned out differently. I’m moving forward now and dating some decent women and things are looking up for me. I’ve become Red Pill aware, but not an asshole about it. LFA’s advice is good.
LFA- "Everybody dies"
Brutal death pill
th-cam.com/video/Six7rXR0RBk/w-d-xo.html
Act 2:38 or hell is the end destination
Fight club
I won't lie this video totally change my way of thinking
Dont get emotional and confused. Stay safe and hold your boundaries. Women will never think towards you how LFA does in this video, always remember that.
@@hankson5002 I always keep my guard up but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt
Stay safe? Lol. They’re just girls man. Nothing to be afraid of.
@@LFA Not everybody is as emotional stable as we are buddy. Did you never had blue pill phases in your life? I had. And I can tell most guys get attatched and through a lot of pain with these 304´s.
this is beta garbage
When I came into the manosphere, one thing I realized was: while a lot of what you learn will be helpful, most of the takes are extremist and need to be taken with a grain of salt. A lot of guys have these quaint little statements and just apply them to any and every situation with no real adjustment or nuance. The more I watch you more recent videos, where you break down more and more of these RP doctrines, the more I'm convinced of this truth about the community. Keep doing your thing, LFA.
I’ve been following you for a couple years man. I really appreciate your takes and I think this is a very healthy mindset. Keep it up
The more I think about it I also think the big issue with most red pill content is the lack of personal responsibility on men. I think LFA listens to the late Patrice O’Neal as do I and that is his big thing. It’s your fault. I personally can’t stand the whole alpha/beta argument. But if you blame someone else when shit goes south you’re a damn coward. I’ve had rough situations with women in the past and you know what? It was my fault because I chose those women and allowed some of those things to happen. You live and learn and become a better smarter man. I also always get the impression 75% of dudes that spout that shit have never really had success with women and want to blame everyone instead of getting off their ass and taking responsibility.
Agrees 100%. I'm tired of the negativity and defeatest attitude. If you're having bad luck with women, then maybe take a look at yourself. There's good and bad apples in both genders, everyone has been burned once in their life. But if you put in the effort, good things will come your way. Sure, be careful with your time and resources, but don't think every woman is evil, that's not productive.
That's blackpill and mgtow doctrine.
LFA has grown. Not in subscribers, but in life. Thanks for sharing.
When the quality goes up, the views go down. But I’m not going to bully 19 year old tictok girls for a quick buck.
@@LFA Way to go!
Its been great seeing your evolution. Thanks from Venezuela my brother!
Greetings from Venezuela. The Venezuela gang it's present.
@@armandodelfindiaz889 Venezuelan present.
I can tell seeing your mom hit that age sparked something something different inside you. I just lost my mom a couple days after my birthday. She was 69. We always think we have more time to spend with those we love but when it’s your time it’s your time. It doesn’t even matter how old you are. Be grateful everyday for another chance to be the best version of yourself for your family and friends. Much love and respect brothers. ✊🏽
Funny how LFA went from the exaggerated, funny „alpha male” content to on of the wisest observations and thoughts in the manosphere.
Integrity is the new counter culture.
You must be talking about Darius M. I’ve noticed that with him
@@LFA leading a new trend 👍
Regardless of women being mortal, it's true that simping doesn't work. What works is confidence and masculine frame. That means that if a man is interested, he should propose a sexual relationship as soon as possible. They don't respect men who are afraid of rejection or men who don't act like the boss in the relationship.
Facts!
I agree too, but I don't agree with some of the content that says you should wait for choosing signals before you approach. You will only get proper choosing signals if you are a chad or chad lite. If you are not one of these then you will need game. If you are below the normy looks threshold then you will need high status, money, and ideally game as well.
@@leemorrell9912 Why do you want women to use you for status and money instead of improving your looks and physique?
@@coldsteel2105 I lean more towards the red pill philosophy which says that a man’s attraction is based on his looks, money, status, and game. So I believe that all men should be doing their best to maximise on all of these areas. However, if you have poor physical genetics then you can only maximise so much on looks and physique. It sounds to me like you lean more towards the black pill philosophy which says that men and women are exactly the same and it’s all about looks for both men and women?
@@coldsteel2105Because looks and money don’t pay the bills, son! A man doesn’t make women his PRIORITY. That’s something a simp does. A man who has resources in this world will easily find women AND he will be able to live the lifestyle he wants. A man who only has looks (which will fade) and an aesthetic physique (which will fade) has nothing. A man’s value is in what he DOES in this man’s world, and the respect he commands among other men, not what he looks like on Instagram. That’s a feminine mentality. I speak for most grown men when I say that I’d rather be on a boat in the Seychelles with Jessica and Dominique than taking selfies in the bathroom mirror and looking in the couch cushions for 73 more cents so I can buy something for dinner from the Taco Bell value menu.
All self-identity issues reduce down to parental relationships. Forgiveness is the beginning. Go, forgive, and be reborn.
Isaiah 40:11
Man, my dad cheated on my mum haven’t talked to him since but it’s his birthday today and you convinced me to call him
You're a good man.
This is easily in the top 3 of your best videos yet!
You're absolutely right that I'm jaded.
I shouldn't be but I am. Let me be clear that I don't hate women at all, I just have no use for them and I find them to be a drain financially and mentally.
Last meaningful relationship was 4 years ago and I got burnt badly. I thought I had vetted her thoroughly and she was my age (50+). I really had feelings for this woman and a little bump in the road in our relationship caused a meltdown on her part that blindsided me. She went from spouting peace, love and harmony(seriously) to accusing me of wanting to get back with my ex wife. All because my daughter was having a problem and me(the father) and my ex(the mother) got together with our daughter to fix the problem.
I got called every name in the book even though I explained what had happened. Hell, I even apologized and said, "I should have called you and told you what I was doing". In hindsight, I should have never said that. My daughter is more important to me than anyone and I'll do anything to help her if she needs it. So will her mother.
So that ended badly. I don't think I was in the wrong. Still not together with my ex. She's 2 time zones away from me now.
So I stopped. I stopped dating. I stopped talking to women. I may have a casual conversation here and there but most of the time, I'm with my veteran friends.
Life is precious and none of us are leaving alive. I won't mistreat women, they just don't matter to me. No ill will either.
It sounds like your daughter matters to you.
yep they just dont matter...IN THE END WE ARE ALL ALONE EVEN IF YOUR LOVED ONES ARE BESIDE YO BED YOU WILL HAVE TO DIE---ALONE,....SO LETS EMBRACE SOLITUDE GUYS
The juice is not worth the squeeze even with good ones. I like steady emotions.
Thank you for saying these things. ❤
Not sure if you are getting wiser or consciously taking the channel in another direction but I love your work brother 👊🏻
@@andikrause399 Haha and outside against the brick wall.
Great comment
LFA: “2+2=4 and 5+5=10”
Andi Krause and his boyos: “LFA you contradicted yourself. Make up your mind. Does 2+2 equal 4 or does 5+5 equal 10?! Next week he’ll say 7x7 equals 49. What a flip flopper.”
Damn. Perfect timing because I really needed this....thanks brother.
Good video. I started watching Red Pill content after a bad breakup myself and it made me a bit Jaded for a few years. I've been in a great serious relationship for a year and a half now but I remember the first 3-6 months it was hard for me to commit despite her being a great girl and not having many of the red flags the manosphere teaches. I've now moved in with her and it's been amazing. What I've learned is take the red pill but don't apply it generally. You have to see how it fits into your situation. It has given me a heightened sense of awareness but to be fully jaded because of it isn't the right path.
Ok tbh last time I watched LFA was a while ago. I'm pleasantly surprised to see he's come to show a more thoughtful and caring side to him. I've always respected u man, and I respect you even more now.
This is huge! Another great video from you LFA👍
The utmost respect, I can give a man is, how he speaks about his mother.
As usual, on point ma man 👊
Thanks friend. I now realize i was the one bullshiting. What i needed was a respect to others and also to myself
That's why Theology is more important than chasing World.
Thank you LFA. From your Northwest Oklahoma Brother👊
I did the same as my mom turned 50, i am 28, couldn´t find my own hapiness, like, why don´t just forget and move forward as family... After tjat happier then ever.
Great video LFA. Lotta dudes need to see this. Angling people in the direction they need to be directed.
Great video!! Whatever I believe is based on my experiences and I know everyone is different. I’ve been betrayed by guys I’ve known all my life. Should that mean that I should never trust anyone or have friends? No. You just cut out the bad ones and move forward. This topic of death is definitely something people should think more of. It’ll definitely make you focus on what’s REALLY important. The last chapter of the 50th law by Robert Greene was life changing for me. The shortness of life by Seneca is another. Be patient and be good. And if it’s not returned move on, don’t let the negative people entangle you in their drama.
You will attract what you are.
Money and looks means everything?
If you believe that you haven’t been paying attention to those divorced who have both.
What’s on the inside will get you the furthest.
If you are out of shape, your insides are not where they need to be. Do you laugh? If not your insides are not where they need to be.
Does anyone get this??
Yep...
@@JakeArmyRetired Enjoy a great night.
Well said LFA. Out of all of the life coaches on TH-cam you are the only one I respect. Your advice is sound and coming from a place of experience. I'm glad that you have your own ideas and beliefs and aren't just parroting the same paranoid nonsense that all the RP content creators do.
Love the channel, Broski. You've given me great advice and none of the drama or bitchin like some of the other channels I've seen. Keep it strong 💪🏻
This is one of your most important videos LFA. I do think the Manosphere is a little bit too hard on many women. I’m very red pilled but I love women and have spent the best moments of my life with a woman. And when things didn’t work out, I can blame myself as much or even more than the woman. I really like your channel buddy. And yes, life is crazy short.
I love how the red pill community had really involve into something positive ie Positive Masculinity. God bless you LFA 💯💯
Excellent Speech, my brother! Yes, we need to do more of what you are saying. It' goes back to what we were taught as kids, all about following the Golden Rule : "Do unto & treat others the way you want to be treated!" Sow good seed into her and moral behavior; then they'll generally come around. I have seen it a few times, and Some will go bad...on ya, but she will know that she was loved - if you love her properly! Then in the future when she cannot find a guy to love her, then she will remember you...! " I was loved by this guy!"
Everyone on the red pill: “ShEs NOt YoUrS iTs jUsT yoUR TUrN”
Fuck that noise. As someone who has has been with a decent amount of women, and now in a happy healthy long term relationship, I cringe. A woman will never cheat or leave you if you are so god damn awesome. I don’t care what anyone says.
That is so True... You just got to be yourself and show you are confident about it
I also start to see that Girls will like you if you give her proper attention, everyone can get whoever he wants
He speaks a lot of truth this man is very wise people should really listen to him
100% agreed... AWALT is a simpletons way of understanding a complex issue
My guy stays dropping gems... thanks. Also if you remember my screen name, I was just joshing with the comment I made on the past video. It was actually "smokescreen", hope you understand. Keep up the gold nuggets.
Imagine a world where we all treat each other like human beings instead of objects to be used....we can all hope.
Powerful content here, man. Keep up the good work.
I don't think there's anything wrong with a man who knows what he wants, and would rather be with a woman who isn't basic. Skipping over the thots/beautiful party animals puts a man in line for the truly beautiful women who actually have virtues. Don't judge anyone, but don't suffer fools needlessly either.
In other words, don't get your pearls before swine. Choose wisely and walk away from ungrateful women.
So nice, I had to watch this twice.
LFA, you have a plethora of great videos, but this is probably the best one. I truly appreciate your content, brother.
100% real talk here bro
Very true :)
Significant. Thank you.
Toni/Lake Mille Lacs, MN
Female, age 73, never married.
I'm Very Proud of you LFA!!! You're wise. Thinking long term is mature & adult like.
This message you should
repeat yearly - like in early spring - for your new people & older followers.
Timeless Message!
The man the myth the legend. "El Guru" . When LFA speaks...ya better listen up. Brother all your material is gold.....but this one just hit different. Well played sir well played.
You're a wise man, L.F.A. Always enjoy tuning into your content.
Great therapy, LFA! Keep up the good work (sermons), preacher!
You have some good points about family!
Watching this video I remember Jordan Peterson saying "there is no better option you pick the ones you're willing to suffer through". Yes, this world isn't all sunshine it's full of stupid stuff and the sooner people open their eyes and see it for what it really is the better.
Carpe Diem we all die eventually and a life spent on resentment isn't worth anything and I'm speaking from personal experience. I'm glad this was uploaded.
Damn an even more real LFA video. Channel has definitely matured over the years. Gentlemen, be careful with those red pills. Change the paradigm and the way you see the world and people around you. ☝️
Awesome video. Thanks for keeping things real.
Spittin brother. The power of forgiveness not only on relationships but your own mental well being has opened up a new world for me that I just wouldn’t have allowed myself to experience a short time ago. Life is too short.
Elaborate self forgiveness?
@@eladbari no. Forgiveness for those who hurt me long ago. I’ve held onto the hurt, pain, disappointment for many years and made myself a sort of victim mentality because of it. Over time I have let it go, forgave and dropped the victim mentality. The manosphere helped some but it can also be it’s own detriment if you let it consume your worldview.
Same here
Maturity at its finest. (Minus the snifter glass) alcohol=a drug.
And you’re so right about forgiving your mom, you’re so lucky to have your mom. My mom died at the age of 32.
Mend all fences.💟
I watch alot of TH-cam videos and subscribe to alot of different content creators....this may be one of the best "wake up call" videos I have seen. I appreciate you helping wipe some of the manosphere way of thinking from our minds. Keep up the good work 👍
So incredibly important to share this. You are a top notch dude! Good message.
Here comes the reality of the life ☺
LFA is the traditional man💥
Setting healthy boundaries in all of your life relationships will pay the biggest dividends of all … your sanity and continued happiness.
I am glad I found your content brother. I always loved the people in my life and you made me realise that I was not a fool. I respect you man.
I will keep up the good work that God has assigned me
God bless you bro, may your life be showered with blessings in Jesus mighty name
this is a good way to reframe life not just for them but for us it will make you happier
Good video man! We live in the era of dehumanization. The media, social media, politics, are all pushing it. Now of course not every person can be helped, saved, etc. but most relationships (with women or otherwise) can be fixed or improved. It starts with respecting and caring about yourself. When you do that you can trust and be vulnerable (to a point) with women because even if it doesn’t work out you know it won’t break you.
As a woman, even I would caution this advice. A woman that truly likes a man, would NOT make it hard for him. Trying to get her to do anything by being “masculine” is a waste of time. If she’s not doing it already, she never will. Even you that has a “decent” woman, on an off and won’t commit to her? That’s all I’m going to say here.
I’ve said a million times that a woman will make it easy for him if she likes him. This video wasn’t even about that topic.
@@LFA As a womban saving for marriage and chooses to live a quiet life, I promise you these party/only fans/tool types have a completely different mentality than me. If They understood femininity and submission, they would not be 1)living that type of lifestyle 2) purposely bring chaos into a mans life. A womban should always strive to bring peace and love into a mans life, FROM THE BEGINNING. Your wasting your time trying to change a party tool. Many womban of today are too far gone and even I know that because I live an extremely different life from them and can see it heavily. I believe this video is good in the sense that many womban are the type that you describe and men have to adjust accordingly to not die single and alone. My fiancé told me he took me off the market quick because of how rare I am. Says a lot from a successful, masculine man like him (who can literally get any womban)
LFA in my opinion u have the best advice when it comes down to this stuff.. letting go of anger, ego.. f&f podcast goes overboard with this stuff.
Most men out there are teaching other men from their bad experience with women whitch is wrong! LFA you are amungs the small percentage of men that's HUMAN! RESPECT!👍👍
Deep stuff. This is basically how I think about things. It's about caring but being detached somewhat or being free of outcome
Eye opening brother.
Damn... this one hit home. Thank You
One of your best videos!, much appreciated!
That thumbnail joke was gold
This video was speaking the truth
A breath of fresh air. Thank you for sharing this.
I’ve been jaded by the red pill unfortunately, I needed this video. It’s healthy to hear this, I believe the secret is to make a woman feel important and appreciated and genuinely care about her.
I love this video man. Such perspective.
I really like LFA's content. One of the very few redpillers who isn't phrase mongering and doesn't think in black and white.
Awesome video man¡¡ i also have come to the same realization, sometimes we get lost in technology and neglect face to face interactions with our loved ones..
you start of with "jaded men say all women are the same if you treat her like a celebrity..." "only narcissist psycho wont give back if you treat them nice" and in the middle you go into "if you know how to be a man and know how to guide her" which kinda proves the point all women gonna fck your shit up unless you know how to be a man so it's not about men being jaded or internet gurus being wrong - it boils down to males not knowing how to be a man, all chicks are narcissistic psychos if you let them do whatever
Happy birthday to your mother LFA. Because of her we are hearing this gem of advice from you.
Dropping gems one video at a time
I can't thank you enough for your valuable content!
Did you really just reference Looks Maximus at the beginning of the video? If so I love you.
7:30 LMAO!!! Shit just got real!
Its obvious who he is referring to. That kid is a real dork.
@@TidesofWarHighlights Yes but there's somebody else that all of a sudden started doing that same crap...
@@TidesofWarHighlights who is it?
@@cipryan96 darius m i believe
@@smitty02345 and fitxfearless.
a very fair analysis … i’ve a good friend who had a stroke … life is precious ⭐️☘️… a modern man needs to live life with a moral and civic backbone … lead and be of service to others and stand up and fight for what is right . oh and make your bed every morning ❤️
this is very alpha of you - as leader of the pack to guide the stranded
Great advice brother
Fell for a girl, she said I was too nice and ripped my heart out. The guys who ran off with she said it was the perfect kind of asshole that one.
Not gonna lie. You made some good points that are useful for one's own stable mental health and sanity. Dunno if it'll work for every man and improve his lot with women. Different strokes for different folks as they say.
But you are right about accountability and scrubbing off that jadedness. Because you can have RP tucked in the back of your mind, but if the bitterness permeates throughout you, then you haven't accepted it.
And despite all that truth, there are some things I won't accept. But I understand you.
It's refreshing to hear some common sense, good job.
Mark 12:34 “You are not far from the kingdom of God.”
Thank you for this video.
great insight lfa
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