I've been married almost 23 years now and listening to him speak about his love for you is quite incredible. After 24 years together and 4 kids later, I'm still lost when she's not close by. My love is getting stronger every day and I thank the Lord for it. Keep that passion and drive. Be intentional. I'm proud of you guys!
@@hunglikeaslave6793 You sound like a MGTOW ince. Lots of married couples are quite happy with their lot. If women are hyper after a good provider and commitment then.men are hyper after looks and sex. Each sex needs something from the other. Fair exchange as I see it.
Nearly 50 minutes of just a pair of soul mates telling each other how much they love each other lol. That's quite the unique experience. So many people in the trans community are terrified of potentially detransitioning because they don't want to lose their lovers or friends. This video expresses the very real possibility that that won't necessarily happen. There is life after detransition. 🧡
If someone does lose a lover or a friend then the lover they lose was not the one they were meant to be with in the first place, and the friends they lose were never really their friends to begin with.
Daisy, your detransitioning videos were recommended in my feed, but I went back to older videos. I'm not far into this episode, but I'm happy for you to have found someone rich in maturity. He seems to appreciate the way you reflect grace and goodness and he also mimicks grace and goodness in his own way. I am encouraged to press on in many ways from your emotional intelligence and gentle attitude. You delve into layers and nuances and angles of different perspectives with such a balance of love and Truth. Please be wise and follow whatever choices you're led to make, but I cherish having this channel to watch.
When Jason articulated at 40:00ish about how the parents feel when a child is growing up and the deep sense of loss that occurs at each growth stage hit me right in the heart. I’m a mom of a 26 yo male who is transitioning. The tug of war on my heart to simultaneously want to accommodate and grieve brings tension. I want to support but also cry. Celebrate their ‘freedom’ but long for their ‘return’. Put to death my son and raise a ‘daughter’. These are difficult choices to make as a parent. I don’t want to bring more heaviness to their life so I carry the load of sadness so they can figure out their own life without worrying about mine. Thank you for sharing your journey. I just now found your channel and I’m grateful.
Me too sister. My ,now , daughter is the same age as your's. I feel the exact same way. Mourning the "death" of the child I've always known and learning to love this new child who is somehow the same, but still so different from who they were. So worried about their well being and wishing for their return. Looking for the valuable lessons we might be able to find in all this. I'm right there with you!
@@kimberlyboswell7714 My heart is with you. I wish we had a support group zoom chat meeting or something that we could just talk with someone who is at least on the same journey. Do you have something like that or should I start one? 😊👀❤
Jason is really well spoken! He really drove home the point that self is always changing and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in having meaningful relationships and experiences.
Ok,now that I'm listening to this video more, I'm convinced. Jason needs to be an author. What does he do for a living? I hope something in which he can talk or write a lot. He has amazing and deep insights
I almost clicked off of this thinking I'd stumbled into some kind of conversion-therapy-couple video... but then stayed for the sheer virtuosity of Jason's use of language and empathetic reason.
TH-cam threw you guys up for some reason. I watched this video as well as the one in which you explained why you were detransitioning as well as sharing your faith in Christ through the process. That said, it's amazing to see two people who just accept each other for who you are, regardless of gender/sexual orientation issues. Your love and acceptance for each other is lovely. When you asked about the "loss" of your breasts and your voice.... my heart broke. Yet, hearing Jason's response was just so beautiful. May God bless you for your honesty and transparency.
You guys are so cute, and so many of the thinks you’re describing were how I felt in the relationship with my now-husband. I’m a woman, so we didn’t have the trans issues as a „topic“ but I had just come out of an eating disorder and self-harm and also had to navigate a relationship with a changing physical self, and accepting the physical signs of where I‘d come from. And he just loved me. It’s a really powerful thing, and I hope that your relationship continues to blossom and evolve ❤️
I started on baby porcupines, and somehow 6 hours later after going down a rabbit hole of (very informative) transgender girls lives, surgeries, and transitions I ended up here. The most complicated boy meets girl story in the world!!! All kidding aside you guys are great!
As a complex person in a different way, I'm very impressed at how well you two both understand and articulate your complexity. I hope the way I wrote that isn't offensive. Your introspection is awe-inspiring.
@@Melon_studios Having an opinion doesnt automatically make you right. To you, its nonsensical. To others, its not, it makes perfect sense. What works for you, wont work for others and vice versa.
I'm so glad I found your channel so inspirational I almost transitioned or was thinking about it...all thru elementary school I told ppl I was a boy I had a best friend who thought I was...i didnt use the girls bathroom at all so I understand what u have went thru I mean as much as I can cuz I didn't go thru it myself but I understand.....i had ppl telling me to transition when I was like 17yrs old and I'm glad I didn't do it...sorry I'm rambling on but I wish u so much success in life and u got a new subscriber....💙❤❤💙
I have no idea how I got these videos recommended to me, but I wish happiness for you. You both have such a kindness about you. Even though I have no idea about transitioning , and I don’t understand it, I wish you well. My wish is for people to be kind to one another in this world, no matter what your sexuality, opinions, political beliefs, etc may be. God bless
Life is a puzzle. We all wander through it asking “why”? The two of you together seem to be getting answers to the question. Stay true to yourselves and each other.
It's fascinating to listen to the two of you. I see two people who are deeply loved by God and I hope you both know that. I also see two people who appear to deeply love one another and I hope and pray you will grow together and find all the deep meaning and spirituality that will bring you closer to each other and to God.
OMG some of the comments here! Daisy and Jason I am so sorry for the scrutiny that you are under and I think you are both very brave and strong. May God bless you and thank you for talking about your journey so openly.
“It’s really difficult to describe that moment of ecstasy as being entirely sober” Get yourself a man who describes your relationship like he does someone high on the good stuff 😍
I'm pansexual and many things your partner says deeply resonate with me. People never seem to get when i try to explain to them that I don't care about the gender of a person. If i love the person and find them attractive (oc that plays a role, too), I don't care about the rest. And if a person i love changed, my love would not become smaller.
If you called your love unconditional, then people would understand you,. Sex (male/female) has little to do with gender, which is why pansexual doesn't make sense.
@@lavinder11 firstly, pansexual doesn't mean unconditional love. I still need to feel some kind of attraction and unconditional means that you love a person no matter what they do (and i think that is too big of a label to put on myself). Pansexual does make sense because it means you like a person regardless of gender. Whether that person identifies as a male, female or binary or if that person changes I do not agree that people would understand me if i said unconditional. Because unconditional can be used in a non-romantic sense (we often say we love our children unconditionally) and here i am talking about romantic love. I am not some saint who has no needs or boundaries in a relationship. I will not love every romantic partner for the rest of my live unconditionally. Pansexual simply means you can fall in love/have attraction and sex with people regardless of their gender. That is not the same as unconditional love
The ability to recognized that a second decision does not negate the value of the first. As Jason points out, BOTH can be good, even if one reverses the other. Recognizing and acting upon things that have changed is maturity.
I appreciate you doing this. As a parent, I wonder about all of these issues and how it affects the individuals going through them. This was an eye opener. Thank you both.
Two extremely beautiful souls expressing, as purely as possible, in their human experience. Thank you for sharing and demonstrating how amazingly lovely it is to actually relate in our relationships.
Daisy, I really appreciate the level of thought you put behind your words and in turn the depth into your thoughts. You seem like a really nice and interesting person, I trully wish you happiness☺
Y’all are so adorable 🥰. Glad I saw u in my feed. I got a cousin-law that is transitioning MTF so my man and I are supportive of her transition and welcome her in our home whenever she she comes in from Dallas. I am happy your found your peace and closeness with the Lord. Also, that you found a partner in life that is by your side. Y’all will have beautiful babies together cause y’all are a beautiful couple together 💕❤️. New subscriber from Austin, TX. Daisy fits your personality and suits u 💯.
This is one of the most beautiful and genuine videos I have ever seen and I am incredibly thankful for both of your perspectives! I love the idea that our “mistakes” even if they have long lasting effects shouldn’t be looked at as if they shouldn’t have happened! Because if you really think about it, that is the quintessential reason God put us on this earth; to know the bad so that we can fully embrace and deeply understand and appreciate the good. I also think this helped me to distance myself and others from my and their mistakes in a healthy way; like my mistakes aren’t a death sentence to my personal character or to others; like I can grow from that and in reality God is ultimately using them for my good in his ultimate wisdom. It finally made me understand them when people say that in the good and the bad, God is leading my life for me and for my good even if I don’t understand it or appreciate it, or if I have deep regrets or damage or PTSD. I will be applying that to my own life. I am a life long Christian and you guys taught me so much even about myself, so I thank you so very much for sharing! It means so much to me on a personal level. You guys are such beautiful people and I feel blessed to have witnessed even a small part of your remarkable journey. I was literally tearing up by the end of the video. Thank you again and may God be with you! 💞
What a beautiful and sweet guy Jason is. It is so lovely you found each other and are so well suited to what each of you needs from a relationship. Such a heart warming video to find ahead of Valentine’s Day - you guys made me feel all the love! ❤️
It seems like you two were made for each other. You both seem to truly understand the other whole heartedly. I stumbled across your detransitioning video and absolutely fell in love with you and your words. I had a hard time understanding why someone would be trans. Your videos give me a better understanding. Honestly, only your vids have made me understand more (and I’ve been watching a lot of vids trying to fully understand this concept). So thank you for that. I really connected with you in your detransitioning video when you talked about God. That takes so much courage to say to the world. I could literally go on and on forever here lol. You’re such an intriguing person to me. You’re so intelligent and you are wise beyond your years. I think you look absolutely stunning in this video, you are so gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your life with me. You have really touched me in so many ways. Jason seems like such an honorable man, looks like you found a keeper!! I’m so happy that you found each other. God has so many plans for you both. I wish you the best in your future. Sending lots of love from Michigan 💕
So sweet to watch, seeing two people in love is always beautiful. Jason is so well-spoken. This conversation was so intimate and thank you for sharing this tidbit of your lives with us, keep being you, Daisy. You're absolutely wonderful.
You two are WAY intense. As if life needs to be given meaning to have meaning. I pray you two get to experience peace, relaxation, acceptance, and happiness. You are amazing and accepted. Time to find meaning in other things of life other than gender and identity and not even worry about identifying as anything but a being. ♥️
Can I just say that his expression of how he loves your wholeness and your personhood is an image and expression of the depth of love God has for you. This is redeeming Love. Its soulmate energy. I love to see it.
It’s so amazing to see how God is working in your life! 😊 I became a Christian a year ago, knowing Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to me! God bless you and will be praying for you 🙏🌈🌸🌞🌻
Thank you for your openness and vulnerability. I have to not let fear keep me from these conversations. As a mom, I am walking through hard thing and I appreciated your acknowledgement of the persistent losses as a mom of adult children.
I'm a little late in commenting here. I've never met a man with so much insight, sensitivity and able to express it like Jason. Your love for Daisy shines, and has also helped me to see how real love accepts the person you love (when you really love the other person). I really appreciated how you expressed the hard work that Daisy has done in asking the hard questions of 'who am I'. I remember doing this when I was really young, and today Jason showed me how that is an important step for every human to take. Jason, you have shown me that I can also show more love for my fellow 'man' or person, whatever their expression is. Your explanation of how documenting one's life is not selfish, really helped me understand better, as I did see it as paying too much attention to ourselves. Well said. Keep taking care of each other.
I think it's amazing and timely that you met each other when you did. God definitely works in mysterious ways, and appears to have given you to each other at the perfect moment. I think the lives that you lead up to this point prepared you for one another, and nothing was a "mistake" (since that word was brought up)
What would anyone say anything mean about Jason? He is amazingly perceptive and introspective and expressive! You are both amazing and I would love to be so lucky to find such a connection with another like you two have. 🌸
I'm detrans like you but a lesbian and wow the stuff about wanting to have biological kids with your partner just crushes my heart. I have so many of the same thoughts as Jason, and I have never heard someone else say them out loud or so articulately. That homosexuality requires mourning for that which can never be--a child from both lovers. I'm just so sad. I love my female fiancee so much and could never be attracted to a man but wow, the fact that we can never have that just hurts so much. I followed long ago for unrelated reasons but man that piece of commentary just killed me. Godspeed my friend.
I did not watch the whole thing but I am so proud of you for sharing your de-transition journey and being brave enough to do so. You will be a source of light for many that are going through the same things you did!
Hey Daisy! Just subscribed because someone shared your story!!! Your story is an amazing testimony to how God works!!!! Keep on the narrow path, for His Spirit guides and protects you in Jesus Christ 💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
This is the most deeply articulate and moving account of what it means to be in a loving relationship, even apart from the topic at hand. Daisy, you’re so intelligent, your de-transitioning story should be accessible in a book you and Jason could write together to reach more people. Darling couple. ❤️
Incredible. This wasn’t coincidental. He shared about the character “Daisy” he wrote about? The Lord had His hand on both of you! Daily the Lord becomes so real to me when I hear stories like this! ♥️
Thank you for articulating the dynamic of the enjoyment of being with others being recognized as being less with understanding the fruitfulness of developing self relationship in solitude as the way to enjoy togetherness fully. How you said what you said answered a complex question that few ask well and many ask awkwardly and ineffectively. This is a video I will watch and listen to again. Alpha Jesus Omega. The Way. The Truth. The Life.
You are a fascinating person. Not in terms of your identity or anything like that, but in just how open and insightful you are. It is such a rare and valuable thing for someone to have such self reflection and be able to critique their experiences it in a way that's so eloquent and respectful. Watching your videos helps me understand things about myself and my human experience that I didn't fully understand or have the language to express, just a familiar and constant feeling. I wish more people would speak as open and freely as you do, free from judgment and hate, just pure experience and feeling. Also Jason's super cute, so happy for the pair of you :D
This sounds like the deep conversations my husband and I have when we’re stoned. Minus the Bi, trans de-trans stuff. Meaning 2 souls inlove regardless of genders.
I stumbled upon your page and find your story fascinating. One of my best girlfriend has transitioned. So can understand some of the things that you are going through. I am so glad that you are finding who you are and are living your best life. You have a wonderfully supportive and loving man. I wish you guys the best. God bless. ❤🙏
I accidentally found your page earlier today. I'm so glad I did. Your story, your journey are so powerful. Both of your insights, self awareness and introspection is inspiring even outside your personal stories. It takes incredible strength to truly listen to yourself and change what you need to or accept or...tbh I don't know the right words. I just know that I truly hope life brings great things for both of you. I think I needed to see this today for some reason. I have my own struggles, different than yours, but no less real and something that was said in this video about Jason looking at you and really seeing you for you no matter the outer trappings spoke to me. I remember when I looked at my (now) husband and felt that. I can tell anyone exactly when that was (well not the date but where we were and what we were doing and what he was wearing).Which is weird for me because that's not how my mind or memory works, I don't see "pictures" or scenes or visual depictions when I remember, I see words on a page. Anyway that statement you made spoke to me. I really believe that I needed to hear that. I'll remember that in my heart forever.
Wow. Jason, you gave me a lot to think about but I am so happy that you have found someone who is willing to match your openness, empathy, and inquiry, Daisy. And I am so happy you found someone who is able to see that vulnerability and those insecurities and be able to lift you up through them. Not to lean into the pun but I think it is really evident even in this video that the two of you bloom around one another. And it is so beautiful to see two people to be truly transcendent and inspired by their own love. (Also, Jason, just some really interesting philosophical content here - I've been thinking about returning to childlike state as a returning to the primordial Buddha and being able to see joy and kindness in all things recently!)
I am so impressed by how caring and thoughtful many younger adults are these days. So many have such a great developed sense of self and understanding. Ok wow, most people get adopting, and having your own child is equally important and the meanings of both. I have 3 myself and always want to adopt. I'd say ou don't need to give a speech about it. I see you like the movie Avatar. I see the real you, not just the vehicle you are in. You see her soul
Daisy, I hope I'm not being invasive, I just wanted to say you look great. I followed you as Ollie and am following you as you are now, because your heart hasn't changed. J looks adorbs too! And puppercino :3
Oh my god! Recognised your face, just realised who you are. I hope that you are doing okay. You are a bright and intelligent person and I wish you a smooth transition.
Popular Opinion: Daisy has eyes like a Disney princess :D
Amazing eyes! So big and beautiful.
This is so true!
@@shastacastor normally I would skim by certain videos. I'm glad I didn't, the eyes they are beautiful.
She does!
So true!!!
Two wildly articulate, self-aware, deeply philosophical people found each other. There's nothing better in this lifetime than that.
I've been married almost 23 years now and listening to him speak about his love for you is quite incredible. After 24 years together and 4 kids later, I'm still lost when she's not close by. My love is getting stronger every day and I thank the Lord for it. Keep that passion and drive. Be intentional. I'm proud of you guys!
This made my heart swell and all the glory goes to God!
I hope he blesses me and my love in the same way.
She's f*cking Chad. Sorry bro. Girls are hypergamous
@@hunglikeaslave6793 You sound like a MGTOW ince. Lots of married couples are quite happy with their lot. If women are hyper after a good provider and commitment then.men are hyper after looks and sex. Each sex needs something from the other. Fair exchange as I see it.
@@sissyrayself7508 Get your gay off me, weirdo
@@hunglikeaslave6793 takes one to know one..apparently
“I'm her lover” is so cute 🥺
Nearly 50 minutes of just a pair of soul mates telling each other how much they love each other lol.
That's quite the unique experience. So many people in the trans community are terrified of potentially detransitioning because they don't want to lose their lovers or friends. This video expresses the very real possibility that that won't necessarily happen. There is life after detransition. 🧡
Willow!! Thank you so much 😊
If someone does lose a lover or a friend then the lover they lose was not the one they were meant to be with in the first place, and the friends they lose were never really their friends to begin with.
@@DMWolFGurL Amen 🙏
I won't force or demand anyone to want to be with me 👍🧡
Now that’s one well spoken lad
yeah, the answer to the boobs question. what a gentleman.
riiigghhhhttttt!!
The soft, wistful smile she has on her face when he says something sweet about her ... so, so beautiful. I love your story, Daisy!
Glad you both were able to find someone who is willing to be vulnerable and open to each other. God is good.
God is awesome
Ameeeeeen 🙏🏽
Yes he is!!!!!
Daisy, your detransitioning videos were recommended in my feed, but I went back to older videos. I'm not far into this episode, but I'm happy for you to have found someone rich in maturity. He seems to appreciate the way you reflect grace and goodness and he also mimicks grace and goodness in his own way.
I am encouraged to press on in many ways from your emotional intelligence and gentle attitude. You delve into layers and nuances and angles of different perspectives with such a balance of love and Truth. Please be wise and follow whatever choices you're led to make, but I cherish having this channel to watch.
“I am her lover” GOT ME agh I’m happy for you
“I love you *essentially* “ GOD I’m crying
When Jason articulated at 40:00ish about how the parents feel when a child is growing up and the deep sense of loss that occurs at each growth stage hit me right in the heart. I’m a mom of a 26 yo male who is transitioning. The tug of war on my heart to simultaneously want to accommodate and grieve brings tension. I want to support but also cry. Celebrate their ‘freedom’ but long for their ‘return’. Put to death my son and raise a ‘daughter’. These are difficult choices to make as a parent. I don’t want to bring more heaviness to their life so I carry the load of sadness so they can figure out their own life without worrying about mine. Thank you for sharing your journey. I just now found your channel and I’m grateful.
*hugs* from a stranger
I totally understand
Me too sister. My ,now , daughter is the same age as your's. I feel the exact same way. Mourning the "death" of the child I've always known and learning to love this new child who is somehow the same, but still so different from who they were. So worried about their well being and wishing for their return. Looking for the valuable lessons we might be able to find in all this. I'm right there with you!
@@kimberlyboswell7714 My heart is with you. I wish we had a support group zoom chat meeting or something that we could just talk with someone who is at least on the same journey. Do you have something like that or should I start one? 😊👀❤
@@aimeereed6750 I don't know of one. It might be a good idea to start one!
Daisy, Jason seems made for you. The way you both communicate and your dispositions match is just extraordinary. I wish you both the best. ❤️
Communication skills on point. You guys seem like such a great couple!
Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, we are all seeking true intimacy....... to be with someone without the fear of rejection.
So true!
You're doing more than I am on the dating/relationship front and I am not even deransitioning (or transitioning for that matter). You GO GIRL!!! 😊
Haha same
Jason seems like a really kind and gentle human. Thanks for sharing this conversation with us.
You look very pretty, Daisy.
She's just beautiful!
Yet shy...🤗
Beautiful
The name Daisy seems to fit you perfectly. You have such a gentle nature.
Jason is really well spoken! He really drove home the point that self is always changing and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in having meaningful relationships and experiences.
Ok,now that I'm listening to this video more, I'm convinced. Jason needs to be an author. What does he do for a living? I hope something in which he can talk or write a lot. He has amazing and deep insights
Take things slowly Daisy...You are going through a lot of changes. There is no rush. Love yourself for a while. Just be gentle with yourself.
Great advice!
I almost clicked off of this thinking I'd stumbled into some kind of conversion-therapy-couple video... but then stayed for the sheer virtuosity of Jason's use of language and empathetic reason.
Whatever trips your trigger
Me too. I agree with you 100%
TH-cam threw you guys up for some reason. I watched this video as well as the one in which you explained why you were detransitioning as well as sharing your faith in Christ through the process.
That said, it's amazing to see two people who just accept each other for who you are, regardless of gender/sexual orientation issues. Your love and acceptance for each other is lovely.
When you asked about the "loss" of your breasts and your voice.... my heart broke. Yet, hearing Jason's response was just so beautiful.
May God bless you for your honesty and transparency.
" threw up" is a good way of putting what TH-cam did.
You guys are so cute, and so many of the thinks you’re describing were how I felt in the relationship with my now-husband. I’m a woman, so we didn’t have the trans issues as a „topic“ but I had just come out of an eating disorder and self-harm and also had to navigate a relationship with a changing physical self, and accepting the physical signs of where I‘d come from. And he just loved me. It’s a really powerful thing, and I hope that your relationship continues to blossom and evolve ❤️
I started on baby porcupines, and somehow 6 hours later after going down a rabbit hole of (very informative) transgender girls lives, surgeries, and transitions I ended up here. The most complicated boy meets girl story in the world!!!
All kidding aside you guys are great!
As a complex person in a different way, I'm very impressed at how well you two both understand and articulate your complexity. I hope the way I wrote that isn't offensive. Your introspection is awe-inspiring.
Jason is a poet, I could really feel everything he was saying.
@@Melon_studios speech* a lot* nonsensical*
@@Dmchadra 👏
@@Dmchadra xD ngl typing on my phone with my fat ass hands and after doing a night shift wasn't the best idea I ever had
@@Melon_studios Having an opinion doesnt automatically make you right. To you, its nonsensical. To others, its not, it makes perfect sense. What works for you, wont work for others and vice versa.
His speeches are long and self-indulgent, he's going to grow into a boring old man, your basic old windbag
Daisy just has the cutest doe eyes I've ever seen. Prayers for your continued happiness and commitment to each other ❤️
I'm so glad I found your channel so inspirational I almost transitioned or was thinking about it...all thru elementary school I told ppl I was a boy I had a best friend who thought I was...i didnt use the girls bathroom at all so I understand what u have went thru I mean as much as I can cuz I didn't go thru it myself but I understand.....i had ppl telling me to transition when I was like 17yrs old and I'm glad I didn't do it...sorry I'm rambling on but I wish u so much success in life and u got a new subscriber....💙❤❤💙
“Being a person who asks very seriously of themselves and of the world who am I?” Very nice!
"Daisy is so courageous and vulnerable..." 100% AGREE WITH THIS STATEMENT!
I have no idea how I got these videos recommended to me, but I wish happiness for you. You both have such a kindness about you. Even though I have no idea about transitioning , and I don’t understand it, I wish you well. My wish is for people to be kind to one another in this world, no matter what your sexuality, opinions, political beliefs, etc may be. God bless
This is the kind of love I'm looking for.
Life is a puzzle. We all wander through it asking “why”? The two of you together seem to be getting answers to the question. Stay true to yourselves and each other.
It's fascinating to listen to the two of you. I see two people who are deeply loved by God and I hope you both know that. I also see two people who appear to deeply love one another and I hope and pray you will grow together and find all the deep meaning and spirituality that will bring you closer to each other and to God.
Ugh, I love love. You both are so indubitably lucky to have each other. I can only hope to find something even half as authentic as what you two have.
This is remarkable. Thank you so much for bringing Jason on, he sheds much light and understanding.
OMG some of the comments here! Daisy and Jason I am so sorry for the scrutiny that you are under and I think you are both very brave and strong. May God bless you and thank you for talking about your journey so openly.
You should make podcasts. Such a calm and eloquent voice.
They should have a "CALMversation" with Benjamin Boyce.
“It’s really difficult to describe that moment of ecstasy as being entirely sober”
Get yourself a man who describes your relationship like he does someone high on the good stuff 😍
What an incredibly authentic and beautiful couple. What a precious gift to have each other. It is an honor to witness your truth. Thank you.
I'm pansexual and many things your partner says deeply resonate with me. People never seem to get when i try to explain to them that I don't care about the gender of a person. If i love the person and find them attractive (oc that plays a role, too), I don't care about the rest. And if a person i love changed, my love would not become smaller.
I very much love and admire many people without having romantic or sexual thoughts towards them.
@@sissyrayself7508 ah yes, that oc, too. But here they talked specifically abput romantic interests
If you called your love unconditional, then people would understand you,. Sex (male/female) has little to do with gender, which is why pansexual doesn't make sense.
@@lavinder11 firstly, pansexual doesn't mean unconditional love. I still need to feel some kind of attraction and unconditional means that you love a person no matter what they do (and i think that is too big of a label to put on myself). Pansexual does make sense because it means you like a person regardless of gender. Whether that person identifies as a male, female or binary or if that person changes
I do not agree that people would understand me if i said unconditional. Because unconditional can be used in a non-romantic sense (we often say we love our children unconditionally) and here i am talking about romantic love. I am not some saint who has no needs or boundaries in a relationship. I will not love every romantic partner for the rest of my live unconditionally. Pansexual simply means you can fall in love/have attraction and sex with people regardless of their gender. That is not the same as unconditional love
Yet he clearly does care, which is why he wants a female to live his 'trad' fantasies out. He clearly KNOWS what's what ffs
I need to find a spiritual man in touch with his deep thoughts like this.
you can't do me like this Daisy, I almost got diabetes from how sweet this vid was
Best comment!
I actually did. 🤔
Diabetes is a serious condition which can lead to disability and death. Don't joke about it.
@@GeorgiaGeorgette Using a car is the main non-health related cause of unforseen death and injury, don't joke about using cars
@@fakename7901 👌🏼🤣🤣
The ability to recognized that a second decision does not negate the value of the first. As Jason points out, BOTH can be good, even if one reverses the other. Recognizing and acting upon things that have changed is maturity.
I appreciate you doing this. As a parent, I wonder about all of these issues and how it affects the individuals going through them. This was an eye opener. Thank you both.
Two extremely beautiful souls expressing, as purely as possible, in their human experience. Thank you for sharing and demonstrating how amazingly lovely it is to actually relate in our relationships.
Girl you’re beautiful and your boyfriend is cute! So happy things are going well.
Her mother named her well..... She is so beautiful.
This was in my recommended tab and you two are INCREDIBLY beautiful souls and very clearly soulmates.
you guys are giving Franky and Matty from Skins energy... Im glad you found someone willing to explore the meaningful part of being people.
Daisy, I really appreciate the level of thought you put behind your words and in turn the depth into your thoughts. You seem like a really nice and interesting person, I trully wish you happiness☺
Your makeup looks so natural and beautiful. Really complements your features well . ❤️
All I see is two beautiful humans very much supporting and loving one another ❤️❤️❤️
Y’all are so adorable 🥰. Glad I saw u in my feed. I got a cousin-law that is transitioning MTF so my man and I are supportive of her transition and welcome her in our home whenever she she comes in from Dallas. I am happy your found your peace and closeness with the Lord. Also, that you found a partner in life that is by your side. Y’all will have beautiful babies together cause y’all are a beautiful couple together 💕❤️. New subscriber from Austin, TX. Daisy fits your personality and suits u 💯.
This is one of the most beautiful and genuine videos I have ever seen and I am incredibly thankful for both of your perspectives! I love the idea that our “mistakes” even if they have long lasting effects shouldn’t be looked at as if they shouldn’t have happened! Because if you really think about it, that is the quintessential reason God put us on this earth; to know the bad so that we can fully embrace and deeply understand and appreciate the good. I also think this helped me to distance myself and others from my and their mistakes in a healthy way; like my mistakes aren’t a death sentence to my personal character or to others; like I can grow from that and in reality God is ultimately using them for my good in his ultimate wisdom. It finally made me understand them when people say that in the good and the bad, God is leading my life for me and for my good even if I don’t understand it or appreciate it, or if I have deep regrets or damage or PTSD. I will be applying that to my own life. I am a life long Christian and you guys taught me so much even about myself, so I thank you so very much for sharing! It means so much to me on a personal level. You guys are such beautiful people and I feel blessed to have witnessed even a small part of your remarkable journey. I was literally tearing up by the end of the video. Thank you again and may God be with you! 💞
Daisy has such perfect skin, the cutest nose and big beautiful eyes. She reminds me of a pretty little pixie! 😊
What a beautiful and sweet guy Jason is. It is so lovely you found each other and are so well suited to what each of you needs from a relationship. Such a heart warming video to find ahead of Valentine’s Day - you guys made me feel all the love! ❤️
It seems like you two were made for each other. You both seem to truly understand the other whole heartedly. I stumbled across your detransitioning video and absolutely fell in love with you and your words. I had a hard time understanding why someone would be trans. Your videos give me a better understanding. Honestly, only your vids have made me understand more (and I’ve been watching a lot of vids trying to fully understand this concept). So thank you for that. I really connected with you in your detransitioning video when you talked about God. That takes so much courage to say to the world. I could literally go on and on forever here lol. You’re such an intriguing person to me. You’re so intelligent and you are wise beyond your years. I think you look absolutely stunning in this video, you are so gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your life with me. You have really touched me in so many ways. Jason seems like such an honorable man, looks like you found a keeper!! I’m so happy that you found each other. God has so many plans for you both. I wish you the best in your future. Sending lots of love from Michigan 💕
So sweet to watch, seeing two people in love is always beautiful. Jason is so well-spoken. This conversation was so intimate and thank you for sharing this tidbit of your lives with us, keep being you, Daisy. You're absolutely wonderful.
the way you look at each other makes my heart melt
You two are WAY intense. As if life needs to be given meaning to have meaning. I pray you two get to experience peace, relaxation, acceptance, and happiness. You are amazing and accepted. Time to find meaning in other things of life other than gender and identity and not even worry about identifying as anything but a being. ♥️
Totally agree!
You are both such beautiful people. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences so openly and sincerely. God bless you both 💛💛🙏🏼🙏🏼
Can I just say that his expression of how he loves your wholeness and your personhood is an image and expression of the depth of love God has for you. This is redeeming Love. Its soulmate energy. I love to see it.
Amen
This is so beautiful. May your connection grow even stronger.
It’s so amazing to see how God is working in your life! 😊 I became a Christian a year ago, knowing Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to me! God bless you and will be praying for you 🙏🌈🌸🌞🌻
Congrats Hannah!! Welcome to the kingdom!!!
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Welcome to the family 💖
Thank you for your openness and vulnerability. I have to not let fear keep me from these conversations. As a mom, I am walking through hard thing and I appreciated your acknowledgement of the persistent losses as a mom of adult children.
daisy, your relationship is very sweet and you guys are so wholesome, i even cried listening to jason explaining how he rlly loves you 🥺
You guys are really fortunate to have found each other. I wish you both much happiness.
I'm a little late in commenting here. I've never met a man with so much insight, sensitivity and able to express it like Jason. Your love for Daisy shines, and has also helped me to see how real love accepts the person you love (when you really love the other person). I really appreciated how you expressed the hard work that Daisy has done in asking the hard questions of 'who am I'. I remember doing this when I was really young, and today Jason showed me how that is an important step for every human to take. Jason, you have shown me that I can also show more love for my fellow 'man' or person, whatever their expression is. Your explanation of how documenting one's life is not selfish, really helped me understand better, as I did see it as paying too much attention to ourselves. Well said. Keep taking care of each other.
I think it's amazing and timely that you met each other when you did. God definitely works in mysterious ways, and appears to have given you to each other at the perfect moment. I think the lives that you lead up to this point prepared you for one another, and nothing was a "mistake" (since that word was brought up)
What would anyone say anything mean about Jason? He is amazingly perceptive and introspective and expressive! You are both amazing and I would love to be so lucky to find such a connection with another like you two have. 🌸
I'm detrans like you but a lesbian and wow the stuff about wanting to have biological kids with your partner just crushes my heart. I have so many of the same thoughts as Jason, and I have never heard someone else say them out loud or so articulately. That homosexuality requires mourning for that which can never be--a child from both lovers. I'm just so sad. I love my female fiancee so much and could never be attracted to a man but wow, the fact that we can never have that just hurts so much.
I followed long ago for unrelated reasons but man that piece of commentary just killed me. Godspeed my friend.
Yeah..sometimes reality bites
I did not watch the whole thing but I am so proud of you for sharing your de-transition journey and being brave enough to do so. You will be a source of light for many that are going through the same things you did!
Daisy, that man LOVES you 👌🏽❤️
Hey Daisy! Just subscribed because someone shared your story!!! Your story is an amazing testimony to how God works!!!! Keep on the narrow path, for His Spirit guides and protects you in Jesus Christ 💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
Watching you grow up is so stramge and sweet. I am so happy for your family. Congrats on the bundle of joy. God bless!
This is the most deeply articulate and moving account of what it means to be in a loving relationship, even apart from the topic at hand.
Daisy, you’re so intelligent, your de-transitioning story should be accessible in a book you and Jason could write together to reach more people. Darling couple. ❤️
It's awesome you two came together. To find a person you can be be yourself with. Stay yourself, both of you.
Incredible. This wasn’t coincidental. He shared about the character “Daisy” he wrote about? The Lord had His hand on both of you! Daily the Lord becomes so real to me when I hear stories like this! ♥️
Jason is awesome, a true philosopher but more importantly a very levelled human being
Thank you for articulating the dynamic of the enjoyment of being with others being recognized as being less with understanding the fruitfulness of developing self relationship in solitude as the way to enjoy togetherness fully. How you said what you said answered a complex question that few ask well and many ask awkwardly and ineffectively. This is a video I will watch and listen to again. Alpha Jesus Omega. The Way. The Truth. The Life.
You are a fascinating person. Not in terms of your identity or anything like that, but in just how open and insightful you are.
It is such a rare and valuable thing for someone to have such self reflection and be able to critique their experiences it in a way that's so eloquent and respectful. Watching your videos helps me understand things about myself and my human experience that I didn't fully understand or have the language to express, just a familiar and constant feeling.
I wish more people would speak as open and freely as you do, free from judgment and hate, just pure experience and feeling.
Also Jason's super cute, so happy for the pair of you :D
This sounds like the deep conversations my husband and I have when we’re stoned. Minus the Bi, trans de-trans stuff. Meaning 2 souls inlove regardless of genders.
You guys found each other. That is it. Be happy ! We love you guys
Glad to hear you're doing well! I've prayed for you occasionally. 😊
You are both incredibly articulate in the way that you explore your emotions and processes and it is such a pleasure to watch and listen to.
Great video, I love that you said BE NICE To JASON! Your relationship is wonderful keep sharing who you are with each other and the world.
I stumbled upon your page and find your story fascinating. One of my best girlfriend has transitioned. So can understand some of the things that you are going through. I am so glad that you are finding who you are and are living your best life. You have a wonderfully supportive and loving man. I wish you guys the best. God bless. ❤🙏
I accidentally found your page earlier today. I'm so glad I did. Your story, your journey are so powerful. Both of your insights, self awareness and introspection is inspiring even outside your personal stories. It takes incredible strength to truly listen to yourself and change what you need to or accept or...tbh I don't know the right words. I just know that I truly hope life brings great things for both of you. I think I needed to see this today for some reason. I have my own struggles, different than yours, but no less real and something that was said in this video about Jason looking at you and really seeing you for you no matter the outer trappings spoke to me. I remember when I looked at my (now) husband and felt that. I can tell anyone exactly when that was (well not the date but where we were and what we were doing and what he was wearing).Which is weird for me because that's not how my mind or memory works, I don't see "pictures" or scenes or visual depictions when I remember, I see words on a page. Anyway that statement you made spoke to me. I really believe that I needed to hear that. I'll remember that in my heart forever.
Daisy, I also thought I was a male but I've come to the realization that I'm not.
Two beautiful beautiful souls!
Wow. Jason, you gave me a lot to think about but I am so happy that you have found someone who is willing to match your openness, empathy, and inquiry, Daisy. And I am so happy you found someone who is able to see that vulnerability and those insecurities and be able to lift you up through them. Not to lean into the pun but I think it is really evident even in this video that the two of you bloom around one another. And it is so beautiful to see two people to be truly transcendent and inspired by their own love. (Also, Jason, just some really interesting philosophical content here - I've been thinking about returning to childlike state as a returning to the primordial Buddha and being able to see joy and kindness in all things recently!)
This video is astonishingly helpful to me in so many ways. I enjoyed listening to the both of you. I wish you the very best in life, Daisy.❤️
I am so impressed by how caring and thoughtful many younger adults are these days. So many have such a great developed sense of self and understanding. Ok wow, most people get adopting, and having your own child is equally important and the meanings of both. I have 3 myself and always want to adopt. I'd say ou don't need to give a speech about it. I see you like the movie Avatar. I see the real you, not just the vehicle you are in. You see her soul
Daisy, I hope I'm not being invasive, I just wanted to say you look great. I followed you as Ollie and am following you as you are now, because your heart hasn't changed. J looks adorbs too! And puppercino :3
This is very comforting and hopeful to witness as someone who frequently is convinced that I will never find someone right for me.
Oh my god! Recognised your face, just realised who you are. I hope that you are doing okay. You are a bright and intelligent person and I wish you a smooth transition.
Thank you for introducing us to Jason.
I wish you both the best going forward! :)
PS: love your shirt, Daisy.
okay, but daisy. You are so incredibly beautiful 🥺