Changing Your Beliefs: Self-Image/Self-Concept Review
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A quote that really helps me put things into perspective is “you cannot solve a problem with the same mind/consciousness that created it” 🤯
Omgggg
To change your self concept :
1. Detach from old story
2. Identify what you want
3. Integrate new beliefs related to #2
❤️❤️❤️
what does help you to detach? =)
Yes. What are ways that can you detach?
Yes
If you want to come at this from a psychological point of view and want actionable, step by step tools, I recommend the book "Psycho Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz. That book changed my self concept and as a result changed my life.
@@Praveen-meets-TH-cami second this !!! tht book literally took me from being insecure to creating a confidence & self love within tht i didn’t even know was possible & it basically follows the same rules of manifestation
A few months ago I got super triggered by a girl that had a high self concept and watched guys flock. Just discovered she watches this stuff! Luckily I found this on my own and it’s already working.
Hahahha awesome
This might be a personal question but how long did it take for you to see results?
Even though he says more or less the same thing over and over…. Never get tired of hearing it lol. These videos have truly given me so much empowerment 🫶🏼✨🙏🏼
People don't listen lol hence all channels on this topic do this lol
Exactly
That’s what a coach does lol. We are supposed to eventually graduate from their teachings just like in school. People learn best through repetition. I used to watch him everyday but now I don’t have to bc I finally understand
@@nesha8229 So now that you finally understand, how has your life changed?
@@sagevibes3458 I went from chronic depression and anxiety to not even needing my meds anymore. I went from being in foster care to being able to rent my own 2bd 2bathroom apartment comfortably. My finances skyrocketed. I manifested and sustained my relationship with sp for about 2 years now. I manifest things that I want instantly and im more confident and energetically attractive. I manifested my own vehicle and a career that supports me and a supervisor that is understanding. I now advocate for myself effectively. I recently manifested a new friendship that I once thought was impossible and even an apology. So much has changed. However there’s always room for improvement!
because i have a belief that i'm beautiful, i have people constantly telling me that. it's so much honestly that i think "ok i'm tired of this now!" but it's not going to stop just because i'm tired of it because the belief is that people find me beautiful. so in my experience, wanting is not enough. you have to believe. beliefs are everything! do you guys agree? this is why dylan says manifesting is not a trying process. when you have great beliefs, you don't need techniques! but in order to create the new beliefs you will have to use techniques but not once it's set in your subconscious
Trump supporter but rts
Thankyou Dylan . IT WORKSSS 😭✨Today I just got a call from his family and they're asking if this is the right time to talk to my family about our marriage.❤️ I started listening to you around November when he stopped talking to me , I was Soo desperate and hopeless. And just by the end of December he came back to me , although I got with much better new SP at that time , and thought that I didn't want him back . But Things ended with new SP and our relationship grew even stronger by the time . It's June and time to talk about marriage . I mean I'm scared at how fast it's going . Although I don't want a marriage rn , I'd love to wait few more yrs and work on my business and studies first . But I'm here to assure everyone , YES IT WORKS ❤️
What all did you do?
OMG Avantika, I remember your comments a few different places in the channel where you were in the process of manifesting. So happy you are successful now, your manifestation materialized. I am sure your old SP is now a better version of himself. Congrats 👏 👏
@@the_goddess5654 hehe thankyou ❤️ good luck to you too dear ❤️
Hey I am from India as well, what did you do to turn things around ?
@@avantikaphuyal6793 I am from India too… I am working on manifesting my sp too… I don’t know what will happen… can you please help me… I can give you my email id… can we talk
The king has returned!
I had a tough day yesterday & while I handled it better than I would have, THIS IS WHAT I FUCKING NEEDED TO HEAR.
THANKS KING. And you don't have to apologize for anything
You are a living example of balance and self love
Yeah. I think more people should listen to your free of addiction & trauma sleep affirmations. I just started listening to it and I already feel like it’s done the most work out of all of the others. Too many people want to treat the bleeding and not the wound so they go straight to love or money affirmations. This was my problem and I cannot stress how important it is to acknowledge your feelings while tending to issues in life.
I’ve been doing this too and it’s helping. However my SP has finally blocked me for her own good and for us to both heal - she sent me a massive text in the most heartfelt way. It feels different, more real and permanent and I’m uncertain if there’s ever a way back - because I do have a fair bit of work to do on myself.
@@HarrisKray hey harris, you could look at it like it's part of the bridge of events. i view every movement (good or bad) as good for the long term. you're gonna get what you want no matter what.
@@indianprincesstarot yeah exactly, no matter what the best is happening for me and i’m learning and have learnt alot about myself these past couple of months. There’s nothing but love and care between us so hopefully that means something. Or, who knows maybe she really is done forever and we both grow from it 🤷♂️
@@HarrisKray Can I just add that a constant saying of DJ is that life is not happening to us but through us. By this standard you don't need to look at what is happening in the outside world (3d) and work off of it. What we all need to do is internally make a decision or choice, stand by it, and the outside world will have to conform. I.e unless you want the break to be permanent it won't be. Because you decide. It's your life and you are choosing. And when it feels like it's happening and you are responding instead of dictating then those are the areas that probably need our own attention.
@@skylergrey8655 brilliant. Will meditate on this tonight.
After listening your tapes at night during month (with great results), I started using my own tape with my own affirmations and my voice this week. Your tapes helped me becoming a master manifestor and the person I've always wanted to be and am today ❤
Dylan in a tank top? My jaw dropped 😮 Hot boy summer 🔥 is here, this is our time to dress up, workout and be our best selves and focus on our feeling state! We got this 💪
This video really hit home. Its not the person that I need to focus on, it's the belief behind what's going on around. Thank you! ❤
I appreciate this so, so much. Even though you feel like it's already been said, every time you reiterate information, it feels refreshed and has all the new knowledge/experience you've had since the first time you said it. New energy! I also love how your goal is to empower people enough that we don't *need* you or a coach, that OUR goal is to be completely independent and navigating through our lives AS someone we legitimately love. Thanks, Dylan :)
My Understanding of these concepts just gets better and better. Like its hitting me wayyy different.
Srsly. I feel like as you work on your self concept and are going thru perspective shifts, key concepts that you kinda overlooked/couldn’t fully grasp before in his content become more apparent to you. You might be trying to find a solution/readjust your approach, just to find yourself clicking on one of Dylan’s old videos because “why not?” and boom he gives you the answer/explanation that you’ve probably heard from him before but this time, it just finally clicks. Maybe you tell yourself “it’s just cuz he worded it differently in a way that made it easier to understand” but nah.. you’ve got to realize you manifested the solution yourself. Your unconscious self brought it into your awareness. You could watch all of Dylan’s videos in 1-2 days but certain things might go in one ear and out the other. That’s why I don’t mind how long I stay watching his channel or how many videos I watch for however long. I feel like I unlock more and more understanding over time as I grow and change.
@@MeganLynn4ever yes I agree, it feels like a shedding of my old thought process. It’s like wow I’ve been doing this wrong and it does make more since the more I listen to it, the repetition. Thank you for this 🙏🏾🖤
Y’all I’ve met a new person 3 weeks ago and he’s everything I wanted my SP to be! Every.little.thing.matches.
We vibe so amazingly together, almost like we know each other for YEARS. Like that motivates me to work even more on myself. Manifestation is real and I totally believe in it 100% now
Can you please explain how did you go about it ? Did you affirm for a new SP ? Or only lisen to affirmation tapes ? What did you do throughout the day ?
@@nbn1018 I affirmed once before bed. I affirmed what I wanted, believed in it and that’s it. I didn’t do anything throughout the day but be kind to myself.
Dylan James this works ! I have been using all of your tracks at night for the last 60 days n I tell u what my life is changing in the most positive manner!!!! I’m attracting exactly what I am and what I believe. It’s amazing. Thank you!
This is a magical thing that you are teaching us dylan. It's natural and flipping amazing . Literally flipping..flipping my life right around to what it should be 💯🎯 it's taken 7 months to manifest a new job New apartment New car and my significant other is showing up exactly how I expect him to. 7 months seems like a long time but in reality it happened all at once. The day I started listening to your sleep tracks I saw things shifting. Thank you for everything that you do dylan ❤️
did you Just listen to one Tape?
No I started off with the love track, my ex left his wife to come back to me the very next day . It seemed off so I started the limitless for 30 days, he eventually left and I got a new place to live for cheaper, plus it's bigger. New job at 30 days of the limitless track...then I switched to the love again after 8 Months of personal tracks mixed in with the limitless. At day 30 of the love a totally new man came in , totally obsessed with me. Now I'm on the Money track. I watched my thoughts and noticed what my limiting beliefs were and did what was relevant to that. Mostly my personal tracks were aimed at being a great parent. Do the 30 days and stick to that until you see it materialize. I'm making 6xs the money, new car life is magical
genuinely feel so much better after watching his videos when im having negative thought patterns i put him on and remember what i gotta do
Thank you definitely needed this.
I think my self concept is drastically improving, I don't talk badly about myself, i always say nice things about myself, but I'm kind of scared I may end up being a narcissist and I don't want that.
I also have a problem when I'm seeing that people do like me it's reflecting in my reality but I have this thought that i know i am worthy, i deserve the kindness but I am not used to it and i don't know what to do and i think i do have trust issue...
Tho I'm glad I don't talk bad about myself anymore, i still have a lot to work on when things i want is reflecting on my reality
Loving yourself doesn’t make you a narcissist. For me, the difference is confidence vs cockiness. Also the energy you put out. Loving yourself will help you love others more. Narcissists don’t truly love themselves. They are insecure which is why the act the way they do. Keep loving you!!
It is too late for you to become a narcissist. It happens in early childhood development.
Creating a wonderful life with my SP, and it’s so funny how I keep bringing in multiple different people with the exact same name as them
Thank you Dylan after 5 months of listening to sleep tracks stabilising myself. My new sc is really setting In. I am so grateful I believe in myself I no I can achieve anything ❤️🙌
Have you been listening to the "I am" or the "you are" tapes?
@@queengorjess I am
@@matthewisthebest8152 Thank you
How do you know you’re new sc is settling in?
@@arielharp1026 I thought the same before it did lol. Trust me you will know literally no opposing thoughts, feeling good 90 per cent of the time just really enjoying being alive. Real quick manifestions
You have truly helped me to become what I always knew I was meant to be! I am Powerful, Worthy, Condident, and Loved!! Everything is happening now! Thank you Dylan 😊 🙏🏾
Definitely needed this today ! Thank you Dylan 🙂 I’ve been catching myself lately when I have intrusive thoughts about my SP and I have to ask myself what belief do I have that is bringing this up and I don’t flip it I face it head on. It can be hard but I’m starting to see a pattern
11:43 this whole break down of playing out the manifestation from previous old beliefs is literally what I’m going through at the moment. What I’m going through currently is what made me realize and come across self concept videos. I’ve been researching and learning everything about self concept and manifesting the last 6 days
I really really want to work on myself because there are several things I don't like anymore and I can't pretend anymore . Now either it goes as I say, or it goes as I say .
This video helped me a lot . In a nutshell we have to talk to ourselves, to know and understand ourselves. Our mind has all the answers . Happy New Year ❤️
Dylan changed the game.
Hey Dylan, haven't listened to this yet but glad you're back. I don't have insta and I know some others don't. We just want to know you are ok sometimes.... We do actually care about you as a person! ❤️❤️
This one is a stellar video. If one can listen to it over and over again, it will bring forth tremendous clarity & reassurance. Thanks DJ 💜
Thank you Dylan for all the amazing lessons. You are changing lives for the better! May the universe bless you over and over for the help you're providing the world. Love to all here. Go team humanity! ❤
I really needed this video. I was triggered over the past three weeks because my schedule for work changed to an overnight shift. It’s not ideal for me. I stopped listening to the affirmation tapes, stopped regulating my nervous system, and stopped persisting. You’re right about accepting what has happened and moving forward. I’m getting back to my routine starting tonight so that I can get the life I want.
Omg I seriously needed this. I have been completely triggered and spiraling for a few weeks. The thing is I know I am and I haven’t been able to stop it. I know letting go is when everything comes to me. I don’t need to try. I’m starting from day 1. ♥️
You got this. Sp blocked me few nights ago and said it was over and time for us both to heal. Painful but we need to move forward and work on ourselves.
It’s not just you who has been spiraling out the past few weeks. That’s been my experience too. I was doing so well but it started feeling like I was slipping and then I just fell right in! I knew I was doing it too but it felt impossible to completely stop.
But it does feel like a turning point, especially today. Let’s keep persisting from here on out.
as a gay guy probably a little younger than you -- I really appreciated this video. to hear it from someone like me
He is 28/29
Thank you 🙏🏻
All charges are inside of us so we seecthe world in another way because we have change the scenario inside us
It’s very rare to find people who want to change, most of the time they think problems are coming from outside ; and they repeat the same point of view again and again ; usually they decide to change only if something horrible happens to them
We are very brave to becoming aware and decide to change
This one struck a cord holy hell in the best way possible and also so much gratitude for you mr.james ❤
YAYY he’s back 💞 I love when you link the teachings to your personal experience. Btw it’s winter here in Australia and one of the coldest winters too 😩
Edit: Omg please make a subliminal. I keep saying it but many people cannot sleep with affirmations 🥹
Ahhhhhh this was soooooo good and perfectly timed🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹 thank you Daddy Dylan😘💯 36:36 runtime=99=18=9 divine timing never fails and the 9 will mean something different for each of us 💪🏽😌
Thank you, I feel like I am on my way to be more successful by studying myself everyday, every aspect. I'm working on it diligently.
Just daddy daddying us and giving us what we need... Thanks daddy
you and abraham hicks have helped me a lot.
Honestly, I've kind of realized the love tapes are surface level for me, I think it goes deeper because my mother was not so emotionally nice, so relationship wise I'm good, I'm an amazing partner but I think I'm gonna drop it and hop to the addiction and free of trauma, because not wanting to be around my mother seems like a pretty big issue that probably goes deeper than I think.
Finding the balance between embodying that version of myself and not feeling like it is me acting/comes from an authentic place. I’ll def try what you mentioned from 26:00 onward ✨
Dylan, this was a brilliant video. I love how you spoke about personal affirmations needing to be done in a general way, and the self-concept needs to be about ourselves, not a particular situation or subject. I think that was my scant hangup with myself and my Instagram growth. Wonderful! Thank you, dear heart! Cuddles!
this advice is literal magic yall
Thank you Dylan for all your affirmation tapes! I’ve been following you since August of last year and I’ve made so much progress with my self-concept in most areas! Will you be releasing a new overnight affirmation tape for money/career?
I really appreciate you. You’re able to articulate what we all need to do when going through these positive transitions. The beauty in it is that we all have made these transitions before, so one can visualize and remember. 2023 has been a positive year for me so far, the things I tripped about 2022 are not affecting me now. I’m surprised and happy.
This is all we need to know, Dylan Thankyou ❤ so glad to have found your channel 😭
I engage with a lot of this content, and this is all very well explained and laid out. Stoked. 💕🙏🙏
Oh my heavens! The angel is back! Missed you Dylan!!! 🤧❤💖❤
Awww..Dylan..i just manifested U today..😁😁 As this is the day i totally didn't look for ur videos.. I told myself..you'll come in the divine timing! And here U r.. 💖❤️💖Sooo happy to see u back again! In fact..inspite of u saying Welcome in the intro.. We should say to U.. 'Welcome back to the channel'! 😂And really waiting to see the new puppy the next time..🐶❤️
DYLAN! MY BOYYY❤️ Crazy how I talked with you about these exact, specific points in our session while I hadn't even watched this video yet. Then I watched the video, and it was spot on to what we discussed.
So. Many. Synchronicities.
It did not sink in with me at the time.
Also, amazing how we shared the tattoo stories, and how we have many similarities.
Love you Dyl! You're the leader of the New World ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!! So much juicy information. I will be listening again several times. ❤🎉
How have I never seen this one, it’s so good. Thanks Dylan! ❤
Actually I think I’ve “seen” it but I’m only now really “hearing” it 😌
Omg you’re amazing!! Right place right time. Thank you universe!! Thank you Floraz for leading me here. Thank you all co creators ❤️
Greta reminder to stay disciplined
I lost him again! First time around we were together for 1 year. We
broke up. After 6 months of no contact he came back. It lasted 8 months.
last week he broke up with me again. This time around I didn't beg and
went NC right away. We will see if he comes back. My instinct is we are
not done yet. He will come back again.
U deserve much more
For me its walking in nature cold showers that completely turn my brain in the positive mindset and of course mediations I try to not let myself being trapped into 3D or people mindsets that doesn't help me
Well worth waiting for !!,So amazing!!,wish everyone could be taught this knowledge. I've been following Dylan's teaching and it's wonderful, but life can still trigger me...until I watched this and suddenly I'm dancing through the triggers with joy !! What a precious soul Dylan is. Love him xx
Aww I can't wait to meet the puppy 😍 ☺ 💕
I need to listen to this every day…
Thank you, Dylan for coming on!You are AMAZING!!!Congratulations on your new fur baby!Your videos always come when I need a good reminder of my own power to choose my reality.
Dylan, I just want you to know, You are my home. ♥️
you always give me a reason to not give up.
I’m really enjoying your energy absolutely right on many things.
Greetings from Europe.
Thank you Dylan. We all love you and think you're a very special light in our lives. Always golden with your words and kind soul.
👑💕💛💕👑
I can listen to you all day you are the only mindset coach whose concepts get into my head I really enjoy your content and created change here and there you sir is a blessing in life keep on posting and helping love you ❤️ thank you so much Dylan
I found this advice to be incredibly helpful--thank you for sharing!!
Thank you Dylan for everything you do on your channel ❤
0:00 to 7:00
8:50 the moment you stop looking out into your reality as a gauge as to whether or not you will be successful is the moment when you are going to be successful
25:00 should not be forced / instead ask what wouldn’t I be doing
27:00 detach from the old story
32:00 things🎉 are too hard , it’s never going to happen for me 😢😢😢😢
Thank you Dylan your videos are always helpful. Especially on the worst days, your words help my perspective shift. Appreciate you.
I must have manifested this 🥰
Daddy D! As always, Perfect Timing! Thank you 🙏
I discovered you recently, feeling heartbroken, but you have quickly become my favorite youtuber:) you are helping me so much. Thank you 🙏
Soo happy your back papa Dylan! You bring nothing but joy and happiness to us! 🙌🏻💞✨
❤️❤️❤️ very helpful.. I am in a new relationship so.. well you know.. 😅 I am tapping out things that come up and living and loving my new life
Infinite Love & gratitude to you Dylan 💕 !!
He is back!!
You are amazing to me. Thank you for all the wisdom its something ive lacked in my life and i will try to detach from my story so I can be who i want to be who i see myself as happy and deserving
oh my god, we miss you Dylan
THANK YOU DYLAN
This is one of the best videos I ever seen! Thanks 🙏
Glad your back your videos really help thanks dylon 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Dylan I mean sometimes my phone spells what it wants lol
I love the details in this video❤❤❤
Wow, what an awesome video!! Super helpful thank you so much🙏
Precious message! Thx so much Dylan ❤️🌷
I missed this gorgeous man❤
He is absolutely wonderful! So grateful for his return 🥰
Exceptionally well done. Bravo! Thank you
Hi Dylan, I love your work and your loving being!! It would be very helpful to me if you felt like doing a more in depth night affirmations video on being an amazing partner in an amazing relationship.
Hee Dylan!! Welcome back:))
i cant wait for your new set of love and relationship affirmation tracks 🥺🥺💕💕
I have a boxer too but he is 10 years old. Still remember the puppy en puberty fase. But they are sooo worth it. Good luck 🤣🥰🥰
Hey everyone, can you guys give me suggestions on what affirmations I should add for my own tape of self concept as a rap artist. What kind of good beliefs would I have as a rap artist?
I already wrote some here's my list;
1) You're a successful rapper 2) You Have an easy and effortless time making rap music 3) you are a creative and talented rap artist 4) you're the best lyrical rapper 5) you make rap music that deeply connects with people 6) you have millions of people who love your music 7)you're the best rapper of all time 8) you're confident in your ability to create the best lyrics 9) you're confident in your skills and abilities as a rap artist 10) you're confident with performing on stage in front of thousands of people 11) you always know to say in your music 12)you deeply believe in yourself 13) you're confident and secure with yourself 14) you're confident with the rap music that you make 15) you always get millions of views with your rap music 16) you're highly successful in anything you do 17) you're confident in your ability to make amazing rap music 18) you're confident in your ability to perfectly rhyme words together 19) you're confident in your ability to be successful in anything you do. 20) You make the best rap music ever 21) you have the best ideas for your music 22) Everything always works out in your favor 23) The ideas and inspirations come to you easily and effortlessly. Please comment what other beliefs I should add to this.
You should make these "I am" statements
My music reaches people on a massive scale, lyricism and rhymes come to me easily, my songs influence those that listen to them, I enjoy making music and the success it brings me, I am so grateful to be following my passion with massive success, I am endlessly blessed with musical talent, my music is played all over the world and brings joy to people
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UGH DYLAN I NEEDED THIS
Apparently I have been slowly integrating a new type of me while manifesting something. Attending a party this weekend, which I dont normally do, I realised that I have changed a lot, I dress differently, I stand taller, I look younger, I show more confidence and that is exactly what I felt like I maybe needed to do but wasnt consciously trying too hard.
I love you Dylan 💜!
I had an abusive sibling and a mother that gaslit me. Trauma is my identity. I’m just not able to move on and create a happy life.
You deserve a happy life though, start with the intention not to give up on yourself..you are in the right place, just listen to the night affirmations..I could never imagine to love myself and be able to stabilize myself so fast in midst of my biggest triggers just in few months...stay here ❤
@@bk_cdf8733 I’ll try, hope I can last a month. Thanks!
I recommend reading the book The Inner Work. It dives deep into this, and it changed everything for me. You deserve to be happy and free
@@Carolynnh I see, let me look it up. Thanks!
I would look into CBT
I always sleep with ur tapes on at night so A few days ago I had a dream that you and I were hanging out as besties lol
GOD BLESS YOU DYLAN
I love your channel❤️❤️❤️
Very glad I saw this. ❤️
Hey! How good I like you! I could listen to you for hours! Thank you!
Thanks Daddy D! Always love your videos and vibe ❤️❤️❤️