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I am with you, Leni. Where is the respect ? Just because it's culture does not mean it's right in this day and age. 😊
So do I Rosmin
She said on her account she is so happy with so many subscribers and feels like a cheerleader. I don’t think a woman wants a husband who is having marriage issues goes and open her own TH-cam account while her his ad wears the wedding band to show her he was willing to fix things. Some woman don’t need marriage .
Hi Victor. Really enjoyed your video.
If I may, sexual relations goes both ways. It is about pleasing and exploring each other.
A woman cannot always be ready just to please a man.
What about her needs?
Unfortunately, majority of the men only thinks about his needs.
Very unfortunate
Thank you for this video. I really enjoyed this conversation and I love the questions you ask Victor. As someone who was born in South Africa and lived most of my life in North America I can say the mistreatment of women is global. I think our global society has failed both men and women. I think these conversations are what’s needed to create change. We must honour women and we must encourage our boys to share their feelings and allow them to be vulnerable. We can heal together. One Love💛🙏🏽✨
The globe needs healing from this traumas that we carry with ourselves and begin the celebration of humanity not genders
Good question Victor - How would he feel if his wife, mother, or daughter was beat in a fight.
That is a terrible tradition wife fighting.
😂😂😂 and he said it’s okay I still can’t process that
I had a long relationship with a Kenyan man who did not treat me well.
He doesn’t cry, have conversations were non existent. When it came to intimacy he was an animal just jumped on me and only thought of himself only
Sad story… I’m from the USA and all he wanted was money 💰
Wow that's so sad to hear that most men love us women because they want to something from us not only in Kenya
That’s a very bad representation of our country
@@nomthembamsibi6833 a very good way to look at it
@@victorswithvictor it's a world wide problem..
Its a human problem. Men can be very selfish. Us women just wanna be nice so we let them be pigs!
Victor is such a charming person with a beautiful voice.
I think also Lenni makes Vinn feel that his every word matters. You see adoration in her eyes when she speaks to him. I love that about her
Mind blowing how this two compliment each other
@@victorswithvictor yes it's. You will find that too. I know. You are special and growing
What interesting conversation, not being African it’s interesting to have an insight into your Kenyan culture. Victor you are amazing and I can’t think of anything negative to say about your Channel, just keep smiling that amazing smile.More content like this would be very interesting.Thank you.
@@claireclarkeignite8458 thank you mama
Very thoughtful conversation! Your questions were spot on, Victor!
This is a very important conversation, and Vinn does not seem to contribute to it as he should. The husband should protect his wife, especially if he married out of his culture. Line loves her husband, and she got into this marriage without reservation. My opinion
Thank you 🙏 Maggie
Damn Victor, this is an important topic, God bless you.
Excellent questions so thought provoking 🤍
New subscriber from Canada 🇨🇦
Hey Sandra welcome 🙏
When 2 cultures marry, they should be compromise, it should not be one sided. Respect us a 2 way system.
I agree 💯 communication and respect
Vinn, very mature as well. More affable and grounded that young men who were raised with privilege. Keep on growing.
Soo proud of who he’s becoming and has become
I love this video jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
Wagwan Jamaica welcome 🙏
Fantastic. I enjoyed watching. Victor👏👏.
We should strike a compromise between our boundaries and our partiner's needs and desires. Talk about it and agree. Love is a sweet thing.
Love is the recipe to love 😂😂😂 thank you Ben
The look from you guys is very important than the content 😂. Victor ur funny leave my brother 🤣🤣❤
😂😂😂 I left him with his wife and went home 😂😂😂
Nice conversations, Victor ❤
Thanks Rosmin
Good questions & very interesting conversation.
I love you all & keep up the good work.❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏
Wow such deep conversation. I really enjoyed learning more about African culture prospective from Vic and Vinn as well as German culture prospective from Leni. Thanks so much for sharing 😁👍
Our pleasure Jackie
Victor such a mature young man. Always excellent content. Keep on shining.
Thank you Elleyona
I think the basics of a relationship is communication,Trust,Respect and love so how do you do that to two or more individuals ,every woman is jealous for her man so how can you believe its going to be easy its abuse of woman s feelings to Marry more than one woman 😊
I can’t agree less Christine
Victor, this was very thought provoking. Love it!
Appreciate you seeing that
Victor you are very intelligent
I agree marriage is between a husband and his wife and that's it.
The rest is noice 😂😂😂😂
Victor i like your questions 😅😊. Very intelligent 😊
Glad you like them!
Victor 😂with vivtors🎉 you are too. intelligent 🎉🎉to have more one wife Lennie Vinn stay close to God
Victor 😂🎉 with victors watching from the Caribbean
@@jeanjohn4463 welcome 🙏
@@jeanjohn4463 Thank you 🙏 two isn’t my option
That's right One wife No fighting any animals or people
Polygamy is a big no for me😜 something aren't supposed to be shared😂😂 interesting content.
And how is it in Your country??
Some things definitely are not to be shared. Jamaican men are not going to be caught in polygamy, but I can tell you they have dozene baby mothers about the place.
@@victorswithvictor polygamy is legal in my country especially in southern part of country the tribe called (Tonga) people can marry even more than five women,for example Mami's young brother is married to 9 women and he has 47 children and 78 grandchildren and he is only 58years😁
Claire that is bombastically true😤
Are all the children his? Even with 20 wives, some men will still have girlfriends. better to stick to one😄
It’s modern times now and life, cultures are evolving, if it’s positive change then this should be embraced. There is a Massai man in a Kenyan village who married a white western woman 15 years ago, His culture promotes polygamy but he never married another wife. The white wife was embraced by the whole village and in turn really respected the village. The western woman is a pioneer of so many good projects in that village and women and children in that village adore her. When they were showing a video of herself in her twenties, it reminded me so much of Leni♥️ The Massai and the white lady are still together to this day. They have a lovely, handsome son who is 12 or 13 years now. Changes can mean development or failure. Which one will you choose?
Good one so how we walk out of this practices that reduce women and there value should be the talk for the next generation
I've watched that family😊
I think change can be made if there is respect ,honesty and trust between husband and wife. It doesn't matter if it's white women or not. I think also if you are open in others culture and don't disrespectful of it then it works,but if you come in being judgemental about others religion, culture then it will never work
@@aaf1568 quite eye opening ℹ appreciation this feedbacks and I learn a lot from a global eye 👁️
Nice questions, Victor
Really in power young couple's love u Victor and Victor so blessed
Thank you very much and Amen to the bless
Very interesting again. I would never share my husband, never! I would die of jealousy 😂 but anyway I am happily single after 32 years of marriage. And I totally agree with Leni. Maybe because I am German as well…
Yes Susi I think everyone has to know themselves and their boundaries and set that straight and should be respected 💯
I Loved the last question. (1+1=1) Such a powerful note. Hopefully it was received by many. 🙏🏽💞🙏🏽
I hope so too. Hey am glad you caught it 😂 😂
ja 🙌 & in future 1+1=3 💖
Very thought provoking!
We enjoyed the conversation.
Polygamy is prohibited in Barbados.
I believe that couples should respect each other.
Keep up the good work!👍👍
Thank you Susan for sharing this. I can’t agree less. Respect and Communication sounds to be the common theme
Victor I agree with Len I. it is against the law to have two wives in USA.
I will Love my husband and that is one thing I dont share. That is why I am single. 19 yrs married and my ex cheated.
Ooo ooohh he lost 💯
it’s still happen around the world the man has a legal wife and a spiritual wife even in the USA . Some woman say never but when you in love you do wild things.
Good video Victor learning a lot. Yes a lot of men only thing about themselves.🇬🇧🇯🇲
Thank you for your continued support
Hi my friend victor i love the laugh i enjoy this vlog vinnleni well informative love from St.vincent Caribbean 🇻🇨 🙏🙏✝️✝️💖💙💙
😂😂😂 Hello 👋 Pastor this made me laugh am sure my neighbors wonder what’s making me happy. Thank you for your continued suppprt Pastor Greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪
Wow what a good content
Thank you 🙏
Lena is a very smart girl two nice young couple
Very interesting video!!! 😊
Thank you Fowler and welcome 🙏 to my channel 🎉🎉
It's illegal in Australia too
I am glad in certain places
I enjoyed this! Great content😍
Thank you Sandy and Welcome to the Channel
Its illegal in Botswana 🇧🇼
This is amazing I wanna come to Botswana now
Very good questions, and answers❤❤❤
Thank you Ana
I subscribed to your channel after watching the video when you offered your car to Vinn & Leni. You are too funny. I couldn't stop laughing. I'm watching from NYC. Wha a gwaan.
It’s illegal in America as well if I was married to an Africa man it would be no second wife I would get that on paper before I would married him are I wouldn’t married him good content victory
Thank you
Good topic Victor vinn , and Leni love ❤️
Thank you Herman we are glad you enjoyed
Vinn is just chilling and smiling 😂 interesting questions . I think Vinn is enjoying question than the ice 🍨 cream 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Love your questions
Thank you Nina😊
Ukiona mwanamke anaogopa sema ukweli anaogopa kuachwa, and this is Love Slavery
Victor I now see y Leni 🏃it's your fault .2 wives?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What an interesting and educative topic and discussion.
Thank you 🙏 vey much
No second wife, it's illegal in Jamaica as well
Am glad it is in Jamaica 🇯🇲
That’s why men in the USA, Jamaica and other countries men still go with more than one woman. It doesn’t have to be marriage. Bob Marley did it.
@@lillies4023 And your point is. So Lenni told you Vinn was cheating on her now? Why then will Lenni not come and say it to all subscribers then
@@claireclarkeignite8458 Those are your words and do not put words in my mouth. What I said was she jumped on one man to the next which is what she did and said it in the interview .
So are you saying that Vinn has a second wife? Is that what Lenni asked you to advise us?
The wives should both beat him for not setting boundaries in the first place. 😂 You're creating an impact on Vinn & Leni. Your content is very informative/challenging. I enjoyed this video immensely. ❤
Also illegal to have two wives in USA!
Good to know about this dynamics
15 minutes in this is getting interesting. Body language.... and the date of this vlog is tomeously...
Does this culture call themselves Christian’s?
Like Yourself Vinn, you’re selfish
What about special needs children in the culture. They can’t provide a thing for the parent they can be financially cared for their entire life. What status is that? Where do Disabled Children go?
Thank you so so much all of you
Welcome Percy
Yessss a real man crys❤
Coming from Marcelline I hope you don’t laugh when I cry 😂😂😂😂
@@victorswithvictor do you know how many men I have comforted in my lifetime lol..quite a few🥰 letting go tears can help the mind a lot..otherwise you get a build up of anger worry stress,and sadly the ending isnt well..if you know what I mean..never judge a book by its cover, we dont know what people are battling in their minds..times are changing,hopefully that stigma of a man crying will end..
@@ChumLee-wo7hs I agree with you 💯it might take time but I hope with coming generations healing ❤️🩹 shall be a song
I feel so sorry for Lenni in that crazy culture l feel so sorry for African women
It’s depends on what kind decisions not all decisions I have to accept them , nitakuwa mjinga Fulani
Victor is such an intelligent man. I love the conversation. Really enjoyed.
Other things Come to our life but hukujua thamani ya Leni I think
This is not for everyone to agree the husband to have 2 wife. If you know that you are an African man you get married to a muzungu that means you have no way to get married to another woman. All the European countries they don't do that kind of thing
A very good video and informative.
I am glad you learnt and ℹ appreciate your support Marilyn
It's also illegal in Canada to have 2 wives!
This is great to know any details of the law??
Delete all the videos with Lenni.
I like to listen to you
A woman says yes when is no she means because she is tired of the arguments or because she feels intimidated and is abuse if she tells him she is not satisfied
Mmmhhhh this now insights my next question with fam
The power of your woman question.. Absolutly beautiful !
We agree! Lisa
👍💖Nice watching video about your people ,culture,traditions , a lot of people wants to know the reality in your place , Thankyou 👍
Yes, thank you 🙏
If you want to build intimacy first of all you need to be good to each other. you need to treasure each other value each other respect each other have conversations help one another stand at each other side as you build one block at a time if you’re open and your tender hearted and merciful and forgiving one another you will build intimacy… And eventually it leads to sexual intimacy. But if you’re selfish thoughtless callous disrespectful how can you expect someone to want to build intimacy with you whoever their partner is
I can’t agree less… my grandpa use to say start initiating intimacy early in the morning if you want to have your partner later in the evening 😂😂😂
I am enjoying our conversations 😁🤣i think this is the 2nd time you have disagreed with me 😄 nevertheless good conversation
@@vickiedemand112no Vickie I agree with you. Here when we say I can’t agree less means I agree 150% 😂😂😂😂😂 is that right?
Oh i did not realize that 😂 thank you for explaining it. Over here we would say I can’t agree with you more which means you’re in total agreement. I can’t agree less would mean you disagree 😊🎉 It really is all about communication isn’t it! Thank you so much for helping me to understand what you were really saying!!!!!🦋
@@vickiedemand112 haha 😂 grammatical it’s not right but in the streets we say it a lot 😂😂😂 the most grammatically correct should be I couldn’t agree more
We want to see you kiss - Vinn and Leni♥️♥️♥️
😂😂😂😂😂 I saw it for you Dike 😂😂
No,noo,no
Good conversation victor with victors🎉🎉iant that Africa culture
I absolutely love your videos. I found you on Vinn and Leni's chanel :)
Yay! Thank you! Jenni
Anyway Thanx Vic for the topic it's a good lesson to most of the new generation to do away with the old culture of polygamy, especially in this nowadays wereby life is changing dramatically and it's not easy 😅😂🙏
It comes with its share of challenges that no one addresses
I am on their vlog.
Very interesting discussion. I appreciated the insight of everyone. In order for any relationship to be successful, there must be respect, understanding, honesty and good communication. Those are the backbone of having a successful marriage. My parents are 46 years married and they have set the perfect example for me to follow once I'm ready to find love again. 🥰
Hello Nads Respect, understanding which covers communication and honesty stands out for me
@@victorswithvictor yes but Victor you can respect and understand your partner and she you but you guys are not mind readers , without communicating properly there will always be problems as she assumes you're angry when you might not be and you assume she's tired and doesn't want to be intimate when it might be stress from work and not you . Without communicating properly everyone is in the dark.
No no no
Polygamy is a no no to my understanding it's a way of oppressing women in the tribes where they implement it Most of the times the man who have 2wives doesn't afford to look after those 2wives and their kids.
Great conversation you'all
Thank you 🙏
Also it's illegal in u s a it's called polygamv
Nona would you expound more on this
People in the US sometimes do open marriages but they don’t have to support or live with them. They stay with their own spouse. That is more for sex and whatever then pro creation. :)
@@auburnelectrologyskincare1167which is a dynamic I would love is to talk about at 3k
Thank you Victor for the topic this was very interesting that even long standing couples see themselves through with marriage without knowing how their successful marriage happened. You have really brought us closer to finding out more about partnership ❤. I salute you Victor and please keep posting more of this kind. ❤❤❤
You are so welcome
I love this ,,, I think as a mature woman I agree with Leni. Also intamacy is about trust and precense and honesty.
I agree ☝️ 100%
Yoooo Victor this was so insight full conversation, please keep on bringing such tops ❤🇿🇦🇿🇼
Thank you 🙏
I enjoyed this video
Thank you Donna
Your mindful questions shows, that you are a true philosophic being that likes to dive deep into sensitive topics! I appreciate that very much! Thank you for this beautiful interview ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤍 More "deep talks" please 🙏 We all are human family and we come into this life naked and we will leave it naked - the real treasure of ones life is experience & consciousness 🪶 What really matters in the end is how much you loved & was loved by others! And I mean all 3 forms of Love - Agape, Philia & Eros - not just Eros 😂😇 Be blessed bro! Greetings from Austria
I thought Vinn would say : My strength is Leni❤
😂😂😂😂 they are each other strengths and I believe they know this or hope
Victor, you make me laugh when you say "come" means also let the woman come first. 😂😅 that is why I love ❤️ you, say my son
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you laughing at me or laughing with me mama 😂😂😂😂😂
@victorswithvictor with you. Never at you my son.
@@claireclarkeignite8458😂😂😂😂 I appreciate 💯
Victor! The word of God states in the book of Genesis, that a man should leave his father and mother and join his wife in holy matrimony/marriage and the two shall become one. Only one wife!
I enjoyed this discussion. You raised hard questions to Vinn and Leni. Thought thinking . You were excellent. I would love to see more of this .
Uliharibu Mahusiano yako kwa kutokujua ni mtu wa aina, Pole Vinn
Awesome Conversation 🎉🎉
Culture is crazy
Adios. See you in the morrow.
Thanks 🙏 mama see you Tomorrow
@victorswithvictor OK so you understood that morrow or morrows means tomorrow. Just as how see you in the strong would mean the same thing or later. Big up
@@claireclarkeignite8458haha 😂 Moro in sheng here or Kesho in Swahili
Once upon a time in our culture, boys were given prominence, but now, even though it is still present , it has dropped significantly.
They are called mules if they do not have children
Mmmhhh very interesting
Amazing ❤
💖
Thanks Nina
Good topic❤