Interviewed Before and After Our First Date - Sarah & Daniel | Glamour

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  • Sarah and Daniel are about to go on a first date. We interviewed them beforehand and afterward, separately, and had them rate their date. From initial attraction and gauging compatibility to rating conversation and final impressions, these two let us in on how they really felt and rate their first date.
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  • @CarlyMarsh
    @CarlyMarsh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11941

    He's 27 and his age range starts at 19?!?!?!? Dayummmm, Daniel.

    • @People-Business-And-Ideas
      @People-Business-And-Ideas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

      Its a MANS WORLD!

    • @Mdb0514
      @Mdb0514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      I know right🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @nihilisticbarbie
      @nihilisticbarbie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +311

      Yuck

    • @annedevlin09
      @annedevlin09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +562

      8 years? My parents were 8 years apart. It’s not really weird at all when you take into consideration that they’re both adults... if he had said 16... that’d be a bit weird. But I think when people hear “teen” at the end of an age, they feel uncomfortable. But technically at 19, in America, you’ve been an adult for a year..

    • @NayLouise24
      @NayLouise24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +399

      I met my husband on my 19 birthday, he was 28. We've been together for 10yrs... Not that big of a deal?

  • @danzwku
    @danzwku 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3960

    Don't look at the comments. You already know.

    • @DanielaBarrientos
      @DanielaBarrientos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      LOL

    • @danzwku
      @danzwku 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DanielaBarrientos hehe

    • @rexel__5380
      @rexel__5380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Daniel Ku 😭

    • @GliteryIcecreamPanda
      @GliteryIcecreamPanda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂 favorite comment

    • @thedarknessofnana
      @thedarknessofnana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That friggen killed me when he said that. 😂😂😂 That’s such a NY guy thing to say.

  • @parayeet2252
    @parayeet2252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4641

    how is he 6’2” he gives me short person vibes all the way

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      That's because he's sort of stocky.

    • @MsPhdguy
      @MsPhdguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      is there something wrong with short people?

    • @parayeet2252
      @parayeet2252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Chase Hodge i’m 5’1” so i hope not

    • @MsPhdguy
      @MsPhdguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@parayeet2252 I was just confused when you said vibe, because that word usually insinuates a feeling. I thought you where saying that the guy's mannerisms and actions made you feel like he was a short person. I guess you where just saying he looked short.

    • @flamingpieherman9822
      @flamingpieherman9822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@MsPhdguy I'm 5' 1.75"....he gave me short person vibes too. Maybe how the camera was placed or maybe how he presented himself...

  • @nadsakla1175
    @nadsakla1175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8791

    He described her outfit in extreme detail, down to the nails. I don’t know if I should be impressed or creeped out

    • @Lizardtheblizard
      @Lizardtheblizard 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      Meghan Smith I agree that’s creepy af 🤣 he out here creating a profile

    • @tm4651
      @tm4651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +387

      If your guy doesn't do that, he ain't into you.

    • @marianalehnertz8272
      @marianalehnertz8272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      very creeped out

    • @gripitl6878
      @gripitl6878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Nad Sakla Yeah, that freaked me out.

    • @anastaki7156
      @anastaki7156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      a lot of guys are interested in the details of their dates especially in the first one

  • @lilysider1733
    @lilysider1733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1247

    In case people were wondering, the thing she said in French was “I had a lovely evening, and I can’t wait to see you again.”

    • @Cansada94
      @Cansada94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Thank you

    • @danieltakawi9919
      @danieltakawi9919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I knew I would find this somewhere. Thank you

    • @hle7767
      @hle7767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lily Sider thank you!

    • @albertmendez2262
      @albertmendez2262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Was she actually French or could she just speak it?

    • @lilysider1733
      @lilysider1733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Albert Mendez I don’t think that she’s French, judging by her English accent, but her French is very good.

  • @Venus-pd3ml
    @Venus-pd3ml 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3046

    I liked the guy in the beginning but he kept giving me reasons to dislike him as the video progressed.

    • @0rluh
      @0rluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      June Glow I don’t like either one of them to be honest. They’re both shallow and vapid and not that cute or interesting. She’s at least down to earth.

    • @jackfavvv0280
      @jackfavvv0280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Can you elaborate more on that? What were the reasons?

    • @MuthaMuthr
      @MuthaMuthr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@0rluh Is she shallow and vapid, or down to earth? Pick one weirdo.

    • @bryanschaefer7616
      @bryanschaefer7616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree, but I can't pinpoint what. His stupid smirk during the whole video IDK. She's seemed better but seemed sallow.

    • @2Truth4Liberty
      @2Truth4Liberty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same. The text to say "no match" rather than a call topped it off.

  • @pnoipr8
    @pnoipr8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6580

    george clooney? more like jonah hill.

    • @julet2627
      @julet2627 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      pnoipr8 lmao

    • @SmeltedPorkchop
      @SmeltedPorkchop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I was just gonna comment this lmao

    • @briethompson439
      @briethompson439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol. Facts!

    • @sauravsharma2077
      @sauravsharma2077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      dont you dare disrepekt jonah hill...

    • @IndiraJauza
      @IndiraJauza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      to me he looks like a cross between Jonah Hill and Jack Gyllenhaal but more towards Jonah Hill

  • @MiguelContreras0126
    @MiguelContreras0126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1933

    Police: "Who owns the--"
    Daniel: "You already know"

  • @nomalone9218
    @nomalone9218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4581

    Me, everytime watching these dating-shows: “oh, he’s so cute! How come he’s still single?“ halfway through... „Never mind“

    • @Duck-nb4ci
      @Duck-nb4ci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ikr lol

    • @TheDmcran
      @TheDmcran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    • @엘사-g2g
      @엘사-g2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      especially he been single since 2015 you know smn wrong 😬

    • @_moonopoly
      @_moonopoly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@엘사-g2g No you don't.

    • @DanielaBarrientos
      @DanielaBarrientos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought the same...!

  • @EpikVizion
    @EpikVizion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1125

    "What are your insecurities?"
    "I don't like talking about negative things"

    • @hararinrose4995
      @hararinrose4995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I think he was trying to say he didn't want to say negative things about the person in front of thousands of people who could possibly watch the video. It's out of respect.

    • @JoeCnNd
      @JoeCnNd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      my teeth are crooked.

    • @kevinshirley2875
      @kevinshirley2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hararinrose4995 exactly. Hes trying to be respectful and not drag her through the mud. But because most of the girls here are saying things like "shes out of his league anyway" because society clearly values women who are physically attractive over average looking guys with values and an idea of what they want.

    • @assholebyginger
      @assholebyginger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kevinshirley2875 society places a woman's value in her looks and a man's value on his wealth. You can't know their income by seeing this video so naturally everyone resorted to comparing their looks in the comments.

    • @flohwalzer
      @flohwalzer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JoeCnNd LMAOOO IM CRYING

  • @ValerieAbena
    @ValerieAbena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2890

    Go on dates every 4-6 weeks but has been single since 2015? Hmm

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      LadyChaos101 not everyone wants a relationship.

    • @JE-yre
      @JE-yre 5 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      @@Seanonyoutube If you go on dates every 4-6 weeks, then you clearly do

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      J E nah, plenty of people just date for fun

    • @J040PL7
      @J040PL7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      some people simply dont settle into a relationship unless they are certain long term. he answered your questions at least 4 times during the video.

    • @Twilightgirl674
      @Twilightgirl674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      J040PL7 that’s 34-52 dates without finding a partner ...I’m gathering that the point of the comment is that he must be extremely picky

  • @pnoipr8
    @pnoipr8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2754

    He doest like to talk about negative things, but during first date he asked her about her least attractive thing about her?

    • @weatherbitten
      @weatherbitten 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Reminds me of those gross pick-up artist tactics...

    • @zachretamoza9839
      @zachretamoza9839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      pnoipr8 asking someone to talk about their own flaws will tell you a lot about the person and only wanting to talk about positive things when recording a youtube video for thousands to see is not unreasonable

    • @Phalxxx
      @Phalxxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      And apparently he had a sit-down with his *family* to discuss all her red flag - within less than 24 hours.

    • @jennajackley2770
      @jennajackley2770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Phalxxx yeah, I thought that was really telling

    • @pnoipr8
      @pnoipr8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@jennajackley2770 smh jonah hill haha. are you a fan of deep/uncomfortable questions on the first date?

  • @sandrahito5668
    @sandrahito5668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4551

    He knew he wouldn’t date her but he initiated the kisses. If you don’t wanna date someone don’t kiss them. You shouldn’t do that.

    • @briethompson439
      @briethompson439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +310

      Right?! He's misleading and slimy!

    • @0rluh
      @0rluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      He’s a sleeze

    • @fadeonsky5797
      @fadeonsky5797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      says every girl who gets attached to quick

    • @TurdFurgeson571
      @TurdFurgeson571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Why shouldn't one do that?

    • @florencelove1895
      @florencelove1895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      He's for sure a player

  • @katsweeterly2039
    @katsweeterly2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1340

    Somehow, his part of this gave me aaaaaaaaaall the red flags.
    I have known cocky sweettalkers like him, who set their low end of the age of his dates at "just over being minor".
    Sarah was cute and gorgeous. Glad he was (kinda) honest. The loooooooong text did not surprise me at all, a friend gets those on tinder all the time with so much crap in them. It seems nice at first...but then...

    • @noname-jr3qr
      @noname-jr3qr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      vegan feminist but then what?

    • @TheBrenanas
      @TheBrenanas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I got incredibly lucky on Tinder and met the most amazing man. However, I also had many long texts sent to me as well as just general ghosting. It was odd at first. I tried to set up dates with the guys who swiped on me but they were self-conscious and avid about taking things slow, then they would send a long text explaining their reasoning behind not going on dates and just stopped talking to me. I hate Tinder for that reason. Don't swipe on me just to text me for a month and not at least try to go on a date. I was on Tinder to MEET people in my area, not date them via my phone. Those long texts are a warning sign of non-commitment, wish I could warn future ladies about those guys so they wouldn't swipe on them and waste their time.

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@noname-jr3qr but then if you let it sink in, they are narcissistic and condescending.

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TheBrenanas those are the texts I meant! Happy for you that it worked out ♡

    • @eritafinds
      @eritafinds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      vegan feminist...that name itself broadcasts that you've insecurity so just shut up

  • @missdawn9068
    @missdawn9068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2015

    He seems like the "I'm a mamas boy" type - but the "my mama taught me how to be the perfect partner so now I can control you better" kind.
    Also, 19?! Dude grow up.

    • @TheBrenanas
      @TheBrenanas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I was in a relationship with one of those "I can control women thanks to mama" types and they are scary.

    • @Yoshiii99
      @Yoshiii99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What's wrong with him wanting a 19 year old? He is only 27, the age difference isn't that big

    • @missdawn9068
      @missdawn9068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@Yoshiii99 Technically speaking, no. But based on his personality he is aiming young because he seems to have a predator mentality. The younger they are, the easier the prey.
      There is a huge gap between who you are as a person at 19 vs 27.
      Manipulation at it's finest.

    • @user-mv5tm8eu5z
      @user-mv5tm8eu5z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@Yoshiii99 only the fact that in a couple of years he might want to settle down, start a family while the girl is still figuring herself out and learning about the world... not as bad as 17 ofc but still kinda creepy

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@missdawn9068 Even though you have power over people. I doesn't mean that you will use it. If he is a decent person and loves the girl then he won't have any desire to manipulate her. Even though he could. ...

  • @lillianbaptist3687
    @lillianbaptist3687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2711

    I’m so confused by his answers

    • @snicholson8884
      @snicholson8884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      you already know

    • @amatakyiannan4030
      @amatakyiannan4030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ST N lmfao😂

    • @Latanya-eq2hz
      @Latanya-eq2hz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

    • @nutritionperfection
      @nutritionperfection 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      His answers are essentially "It was fun and I'd love to sleep with her, but a relationship? No"

    • @mrsplashman8308
      @mrsplashman8308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nutrition how? He didn’t even go on a second date. Meaning he didn’t want to sleep with her

  • @archerart
    @archerart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3811

    he weirded me out, just seemed like the kind of guy that tries really hard to seem nice but really isn't

    • @BK-dv3hh
      @BK-dv3hh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Little Talks well put.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      Nahh.. truly weird is over-interpreting video interviews of strangers and then choosing to be disturbed by one's own baseless judgements.

    • @javedfk3997
      @javedfk3997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You need help...

    • @yallknowwhoiam7036
      @yallknowwhoiam7036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Kind of too cocky but hey 6'2 and used to be captian of the basketball team that would make cocky too 😂

    • @fredpierce9610
      @fredpierce9610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chill out

  • @elzeus13
    @elzeus13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +977

    The woman that interrupted them already knew they were doomed.

    • @roberthermann97
      @roberthermann97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Yeah, but for the wrong reasons. He rejected her, not the other way around like the woman thought.

    • @MistyGlades567
      @MistyGlades567 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She probably doomed them

    • @imfiveone7158
      @imfiveone7158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm that lady

  • @fluffywhitemanju
    @fluffywhitemanju 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2697

    Dude...at least have the decency to start your minimum at 21 LOL You can't even go drinking with a 19 year old, wtf are you doing

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      In other countries the legal age to drink is 18

    • @mikaelav8964
      @mikaelav8964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Simo Maserati this is American thooooo

    • @44RisingSun44
      @44RisingSun44 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Maybe he doesn't care about drinking?

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mikaelav8964 I'm well aware maybe he was thinking of taking her to another country so she can have the privilege to drink lol😂

    • @sneekz07
      @sneekz07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@painlife6799 Is he in another country or America. Use some common sense.

  • @onegreenenvy
    @onegreenenvy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2267

    because she doesn't drink??? neither should the 19 year olds he dates

    • @dreamfactory5223
      @dreamfactory5223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When did he say that?

    • @lenaintveldt7431
      @lenaintveldt7431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@dreamfactory5223 1:39 for the age range (he said 19-28), and 5:34 for the no alcohol

    • @dreamfactory5223
      @dreamfactory5223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@lenaintveldt7431 he said "which was fine"

    • @Plague_Doc22
      @Plague_Doc22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Doubt it was because the alcohol. More likely something like religion which tends to be a deal breaker. If someones strongly religious and another doesn't like religion it can be a big deal.

    • @shalini_sevani
      @shalini_sevani 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I think it was that she likes to have lots of stuff. I think that he sees her as high maintenance.

  • @tylerd8609
    @tylerd8609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3554

    What would a 27 year old have in common with a 19 year old girl fresh out of high school .... weird.

    • @kinkykirby4798
      @kinkykirby4798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I was thinking the exact same thing!!!

    • @Hottinsley
      @Hottinsley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      19 isn’t fresh out of high school I’m in my second year of college 🤨

    • @Helinat
      @Helinat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Well i was 20 and turning 21 when i met my partner of 4 years. He was 28 at that time. We had lots in common and still have

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Plenty of mature 19 year olds out there, plus that was his low end of the range, meaning she would need to be very mentally mature.

    • @zubairkhan-wb5sy
      @zubairkhan-wb5sy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      fam just because certain western cultures think that way. most people around the world know that after a certain age people are capable of making their decision. if they can make their contractual decision then they can make their own dating decisions. power disparities can exist in many other ways too (like status, income, attractiveness disparity b/w the couple etc).

  • @idksorry5576
    @idksorry5576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    So is no one gonna talk about how the girl thought she looks like Amal Clooney and the like like George Clooney. Coincidence ? I think not.

    • @44RisingSun44
      @44RisingSun44 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      No one gonna talk about how neither of them actually looked like either of them though lol

    • @ohhsally2797
      @ohhsally2797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      She at least is brunette like amal...but him! He's literally a redhead/ fair skinned and George is Tan and dark haired like there's absolutely no comparison

    • @sarasamaletdin4574
      @sarasamaletdin4574 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well Glamour matched them up somehow and maybe this was one of the questions they used? Although it would be a pretty shallow one.

    • @blackjacktm9531
      @blackjacktm9531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ohhsally2797 he literally said it's what his mum says

    • @ohhsally2797
      @ohhsally2797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@blackjacktm9531 well his mom clearly needs her glasses updated

  • @emilieb3244
    @emilieb3244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1213

    I thought they were both very mature and handled it well. Personality wise, I think they matched well, but their lifestyles would definitely clash long term.

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      and the fact that they don't follow the same faith

    • @HAZE-rq4gl
      @HAZE-rq4gl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree! They both seemed like good people

    • @jackfavvv0280
      @jackfavvv0280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@evastood4539 What were they?

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@evastood4539 hahaha. My grandfather an atheist my grandmother a Christian. Have been married since ca 1947, hasn't clashed with them so far. People don't have to have the same faith.

    • @nyleo04
      @nyleo04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Atlas65 ok, that's two different beliefs, maybe with his belief, it's different or more strict. It wasn't mentioned but with him saying he's Iranian, it was illuded to

  • @sassystoic
    @sassystoic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    Glamour: *asks question*
    Daniel: you already know ;)

    • @weatherbitten
      @weatherbitten 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yikes

    • @dinh5532
      @dinh5532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's gross, he thinks it's cool to say that.

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dinh5532 he most probably said it because she was interviewed before him

  • @frederiksteffensen4083
    @frederiksteffensen4083 5 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    So weird. In the beginning I felt like he was a nice, down to earth dude, but when he was brought in after the date, he seemed so slimey and creepy

    • @20cs65
      @20cs65 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wth i’m ngl i thought he was a decent dude until i looked at the comments

    • @elliotross3217
      @elliotross3217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      he seemed so respectful to me? just that he couldnt get over the minimalist thing and didnt want heat 4 it

    • @tarataylor6584
      @tarataylor6584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s definitely not it

    • @spottedstar1123
      @spottedstar1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elliotross3217 to me the biggest weird things were him taking over the date (ordering for her) and also asking her for her insecurities on a first date

  • @msmith6568
    @msmith6568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1237

    Can someone enlighten me as to why a minimalist would, single-handedly, decide to spend nearly $300 on a first date (remember gelato and new outfit) but complain about his date being excessive? But women are hard to read, right?

    • @susanmorano405
      @susanmorano405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Well remember, the date was in NYC. The city has certain standards 😁

    • @kehbab
      @kehbab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@susanmorano405 idk bout you but you wont catch me paying 60 dollars each on desert and 1st course alone

    • @susanmorano405
      @susanmorano405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kehbab just be sure to avoid NYC for dates, it is a money pit 🤑

    • @AndSoWeLaughed
      @AndSoWeLaughed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      He said he was surprised about the amount of things she owned. He doesn’t buy many things therefore has money to spend on experiences. Minimalism doesn’t mean not spending at all.

    • @msmith6568
      @msmith6568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kaittose0372 for some reason, my comment gets continuously misconstrued. I understand minimalism focuses on experiences, however, his harsh judgement of her was unnecessary bc most people (including himself) attempt to dress nicely for a first date, which involves MATERIAL goods.

  • @hotchocolatefitness
    @hotchocolatefitness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2955

    His 19 year age limit is so way out. Wtf Daniel lol

    • @muskangupta5610
      @muskangupta5610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      It's a 8 year gap. Chill.
      She said as long as they are younger than my parents

    • @uvlove
      @uvlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      @@muskangupta5610 A 27 year old and a 19 year old are at vastly different parts of their life. What would a 27 year old man have to talk about with a 19 year old girl?

    • @muskangupta5610
      @muskangupta5610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@uvlove you know that there are some really well accomplished and nature 19 year olds out there right?

    • @uvlove
      @uvlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@muskangupta5610 I'm sure you know plenty

    • @Lyttlebird
      @Lyttlebird 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It really depends on the person. I was 19 when I met my husband. He was 34.

  • @impishishere
    @impishishere 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1764

    God the guy seems slimy AF. Maybe not what he's actually like. But definitely how he comes across in this video

    • @annalisaarcuri2862
      @annalisaarcuri2862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      wow really cool to acknowledge the maybe not what hes actually like LOL

    • @ninaleahjosierose1680
      @ninaleahjosierose1680 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think because she may be muslim and he may be jewish? Also the minimalism maximalism thing?

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      He’s got money, smarts and wit, I know the type. He’s not slimy, he’s respectful but knows how to have fun and isn’t hurrying to be tied down. And you know what? There’s nothing wrong with that.

    • @briethompson439
      @briethompson439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!!

    • @user-wr9xm4zq2r
      @user-wr9xm4zq2r 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      idk I didn't get the same vibe

  • @SoSBxo
    @SoSBxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    “long term 3, short term 5” this guy keeps going on and on about how they’re not compatible at all, but also how he wants to go out again and blah blah.. like he just wants to sleep with her and that’s it..

    • @chloerines
      @chloerines 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      and I don't get it because she's clearly out of his league anyway

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@chloerines the girl is straight up fatter them him with a wierd face shape why is everybody saying she is out of his league wtf

    • @user-yp7uq8it3z
      @user-yp7uq8it3z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@grafit8615 stop commenting all your comments are about how the girl is unattractive when she really isnt. get off ugly

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@user-yp7uq8it3z all i see are negative coments about the guy and no she is not atractive

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@user-yp7uq8it3z y'all are hypocrites

  • @alicegiuditta
    @alicegiuditta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    "at the end of the day i'm a good person with good intentions" is probably the most worrying way someone could describe themselves LOL

    • @michaelsotomayor5001
      @michaelsotomayor5001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      but did anything go wrong? He doesn't seem to be wrong about it.

    • @hollybauer739
      @hollybauer739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alice Giuditta 🚩 🚩🚩

  • @anarchist_parable
    @anarchist_parable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1209

    He's so unattractive on so many levels. He reminds me of the guys who curse at you when you reject them.

    • @lilamhk7265
      @lilamhk7265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @brittbecka8552
      @brittbecka8552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hyacinth Miles had that happen to me, went on a date on a guy he came back to my place wanted to sleep with me then he ghosted me. His loss 😂😂😂

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She didn't have much to offer. He was polite about it.

    • @Its_Jess00
      @Its_Jess00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@lilamhk7265 he dates 19yo girls. He's almost 30 years old. He should know better.

    • @albertmendez2262
      @albertmendez2262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jessica Su As if that matters. Probably wouldn’t bat an eye if Leonardo DiCaprio was dating 19 year olds, which I can assure you he’s done.

  • @Mykasan
    @Mykasan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1293

    230$ why. it's so unnecessary to go all out like that on the first date.

    • @lowabunny2
      @lowabunny2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Mykasan cause they’re in New York 😫

    • @jamsteracton
      @jamsteracton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      beta behaviour

    • @darinak2235
      @darinak2235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      why do you care? because you're too cheap?

    • @jamsteracton
      @jamsteracton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@darinak2235 Nah beta males need to impress women by spending money. An alpha could take her out for drinks and let his high value attract her rather then money.

    • @darinak2235
      @darinak2235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@jamsteracton lol stop you're hilarious

  • @SauceyySarah
    @SauceyySarah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1024

    Is anyone else incredibly curious what the real reason he didn’t want to pursue anything with her was?? They blurred out so much of his text to her which means there is more to the story than what he said....

    • @kristawheale8785
      @kristawheale8785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      He was pretty vague, but its probably because she's not Jewish.

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      @@kristawheale8785 ding ding, he did mention not wanting to change a person's value and you can't change a person so

    • @SauceyySarah
      @SauceyySarah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      And she’s probably Muslim considering she is Middle Eastern most-likely and Daniel mentioned she does not drink.

    • @candysweet434
      @candysweet434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +395

      probably because she's not 19

    • @avagonzalez3237
      @avagonzalez3237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@kristawheale8785 i agree i thought religion too

  • @briethompson439
    @briethompson439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    I don't know why you would kiss someone a couple times on a date when you think there's no long term potential. people are just so slimy sometimes

    • @cuteclassi2004
      @cuteclassi2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      He just wanted to sleep with her

    • @sevencolours5014
      @sevencolours5014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You should go to a night club sometimes and see what happens there.

    • @johngablenz8171
      @johngablenz8171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If not religion, I wonder if it has anything to do with her immigration status. She mentioned she has only been in America for 2 and a half years. If she is here on a visa and not a permanent resident/citizen he/his family may be judging her thinking that she is just looking for citizenship. Even though he didnt want a serious relationship with her, it seemed pretty obvious that he was willing to "hook up" with her based off of the comments he made. Then he spent time with his family and called off the second date. I wonder if they think she might try to get pregnant and trap him for money or citizenship so he decided against even hooking up with her. It wouldn't surprise me. Unfortunately there are a lot of "subtly" racist people who assume the worst of immigrants. Sarah seemed lovely though. She certainly didn't deserve the extremely mixed signals he was sending out.

    • @iamgosa
      @iamgosa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johngablenz8171 personally i think its because he is a "minimalist". he has embraced that lifestyle which is kinda hard to do, and probably doesnt think she will be willing to convert like him; or doesnt want to try to change her or wont appreciate it if she tried to change him; He mentioned "core values" so yeah, its either this or religion.

    • @krissydrake3528
      @krissydrake3528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kissing is not a big deal to some people. Also, not seeing someone as long term potential doesn’t mean that you don’t like them. He may just want something short term or casual. Not necessarily slimy if she’s down.

  • @doniibradley2527
    @doniibradley2527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    i like her waaaayyyy more than him. his energy is just off.

    • @BobbyMack
      @BobbyMack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't really know what that means. How is his "energy" off? People keep saying they can't stand him and thinks he's creepy but I just don't see that coming off as a blatantly obvious fact.

    • @lousunny5682
      @lousunny5682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right??? He was sooo creepy and funky. I didn’t like him

  • @princessmilkyway7390
    @princessmilkyway7390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    That’s so weird that he ordered for her 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @wooof.
      @wooof. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah fr if I guy did that for me I would have been like wot, if that's the case let me order. At least take into consideration what my tastes are

    • @kevinshirley2875
      @kevinshirley2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It used to be the gentlemanly thing to do to take initiative and make things easier and more comfortable for the woman. Now a guy does that and he is patronizing and controlling her. I guess its a generational difference of values. He clearly has a more old school approach and is looking for a deeper connection.

    • @wooof.
      @wooof. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kevinshirley2875 lol or trying to be a nice guy disguised. I understand what you mean but sometimes it can come off as he knows better than you.

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said she was fine with it 🤦‍♂️

  • @nirvananaidoo8780
    @nirvananaidoo8780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    Just read the messages they exchanged at the end. Sarah's message is exactly how i message ppl when I want them to just go away, my energy is done on you.

    • @ChatiseE
      @ChatiseE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      that is such a relatable mood... "my energy is done on you"

  • @ql0314
    @ql0314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    Daniel's whole talk on why not long term is basically "she has too many stuff - not a minimalist"

    • @thehapagirl92
      @thehapagirl92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Q Liu He’s a dumbass. She really can do ten times better.

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I thought he seemed really nice actually! I get how he doesn’t want to give up his values or make someone else give up theirs.

    • @becomingme6216
      @becomingme6216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That and she's probably really insecure

    • @musclemommymichelle
      @musclemommymichelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well its better that he didnt get himself in to deep with her because that may seem like something so small not a big issue but a year down the line he would resent her for that.

    • @melissamariee710
      @melissamariee710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Daniel seems hella controlling and she gave off confident vibes and hard to manipulate. Plus shes a year older and he prefers younger impressionable girls and mentioned he wouldn't wanna compromise on that 😳 he should be happy this girl even wanted a 2nd date with him lmao.

  • @yungkalypsotv8605
    @yungkalypsotv8605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    ...19 sir? 19.

    • @troyecara7017
      @troyecara7017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @TyRCelto lmao sooo not the same thing

    • @durzoblint8738
      @durzoblint8738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@troyecara7017 Try again. Same exact thing. Double Standard, thy name is TyRCelto.

    • @hayleyamg511
      @hayleyamg511 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Durzo Blint but it’s not the same thing. It’s all about the level of development and maturity. I’ll go into further detail if you want.

    • @stormwarden1287
      @stormwarden1287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hayleyamg511 Please, do enlighten us.

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hayleyamg511 we waiting...

  • @Sellieskiddiehaven
    @Sellieskiddiehaven 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Daniel: 3 bracelets, 4 rings
    Me: wow, very detailed... not creepy at all
    Daniel: You already know...

    • @Livontheg0
      @Livontheg0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Selique Kay my reaction exactly 😂

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, i do not get it, i only notice he is weird...

  • @mia_bell
    @mia_bell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Let me guess: the real reason he didn't want her because she was too old for him... he wants a 19 years old that can become however he likes

    • @mrsplashman8308
      @mrsplashman8308 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mia Bell he said he’d date 28 year olds

    • @jaypay1252
      @jaypay1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      19 year olds generally look better than late twenties.
      You can say that’s creepy or whatever all you want but most men if they were honest would agree with the statement.

    • @jaypay1252
      @jaypay1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Arnab Chakraborty “he’s rich so if he chooses wrong, give away half his fortune.”
      That’s only if he marries. He could just date younger women and keep exchanging girlfriends every few years or so.
      That may sound gross but it’s no different than how a lot of women date these days always flipping bfs for another new one who they think is “better.”

    • @mia_bell
      @mia_bell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaypay1252 so not true. I think at 19 most people look less good than at 27, per say.

    • @jaypay1252
      @jaypay1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mia_bell We can agree to disagree

  • @ReenWhisky
    @ReenWhisky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    why would you kiss her when you don't have the feeling to see her again?
    Thats weird....

    • @jayyykayyy
      @jayyykayyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      guys lol

    • @Tucent
      @Tucent 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does have the feeling to see her again oh, he just doesn't think that the relationship they would form would go anywhere next.

    • @ooooo3624
      @ooooo3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arnab Chakraborty wtf

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayyykayyy guys? More like people who like to keep it casual. A bunch of my girl-friends are like that and there's nothing wrong with it if you're honest

  • @anaya6500
    @anaya6500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I’m actually really irritated that we didn’t get to hear if she thinks it will last long term. You have them answer all the same questions besides that, they even asked him twice like tf.

    • @beachbudd92
      @beachbudd92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      they probably didn’t ask her that question, because he was one bringing up long term

    • @Taymanator0051
      @Taymanator0051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, and they interviewed her first afterward, so they probably didn't plan to ask that question.

  • @ciciheart6085
    @ciciheart6085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Jonah Hills less attractive brother and Adriana Lima don’t go well together. She is waaay out if his league and such a sweetheart

    • @cussyrichards6121
      @cussyrichards6121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Let's face it, ANY woman is out of every guy's league unless he's a 6ft 4in underwear model and she's 4ft 11in and 28 stone.

    • @liz5473
      @liz5473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean, he's cute

    • @albertmendez2262
      @albertmendez2262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If she’s Adriana Lima then homeboy is definitely George Clooney. 😂

    • @AbcDef-jq2ue
      @AbcDef-jq2ue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He can sleep with 10 girls more beautiful than her for $230.

    • @fabricio5021
      @fabricio5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao, the girls and white knights in this comment section are so egotistical. They are nitpicking on the guy even though he seems like a chill, cool dude and talking about the girl as if she was flawless and a 10/10.

  • @sarasamaletdin4574
    @sarasamaletdin4574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    So his age range was 8 years younger than him (and only one year above adult) but only one year over his own age? Tells something about him.

    • @edwardadams1024
      @edwardadams1024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If you look at scientific surveys, men of all ages find women around 20 - 24 most attractive. Doesnt matter if they are 25 or 95.

    • @jorge12films
      @jorge12films 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@edwardadams1024 youre barking a concrete wall here edward have your not read the comment section. its full of weirdos.

    • @mrsplashman8308
      @mrsplashman8308 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sapphiresky yo u seen his browsing history?

    • @AbcDef-jq2ue
      @AbcDef-jq2ue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would he spent $230 in first date for old aged aunts?

    • @kellyv6075
      @kellyv6075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edwardadams1024 due to due to society's gross sexualisation of young females

  • @nirvananaidoo8780
    @nirvananaidoo8780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Aww she is lovely and i instantly saw the Amal reference. He is definitely no George! Guys like him remind me of those guys who call themselves "nice guys", but just peel back 2 layers and they're toxic AF. He speaks about red flags lol. The truth is, she is too many levels ahead of him and he can't handle it. Guys like this choose women who are only marginally better looking than them, not the miles ahead type. They psychologically brainwash themselves into liking ppl more on their level and reframing the Sarah types as fake or "not that good looking without makeup" or some other nonsense like that.

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she really isnt atractive i dont know why people keep reafirming that she is above him wtf, its like women are getting triggered for the girl being rejected

    • @valerieb4446
      @valerieb4446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      GrAfIT compared to him tho...

    • @HAZE-rq4gl
      @HAZE-rq4gl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are so incredibly judgemental, it's blowing my mind at how ironic and toxic this comment and comment section is. How is it so okay and normal for you to completely judge these strangers based off of a 14 minute video......? Do you not see how much of an r/nicegirls YOU'RE sounding? Girl really stepped into psychology just because he didn't wanna pursue a relationship with her.....

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@valerieb4446 i think he can get better them that she is as ugly or more in my opinion

    • @nirvananaidoo8780
      @nirvananaidoo8780 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grafit8615 "She really isn't attractive" - Really??? Oh please! That's all I can say.

  • @gabrielazki
    @gabrielazki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Isn't it obvious that the deal breaker for him was her age? His upper limit is 28 and she's 28. His upper limit is probably younger than he was willing to admit, especially considering that 19 was his lower limit.

    • @CatMoca
      @CatMoca 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! I wouldn't be surprised if he stops at like 25

    • @Turnpost2552
      @Turnpost2552 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or religion

  • @ghostofvalor4349
    @ghostofvalor4349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Advice to Daniel's future dates: only own as many items as you are old.

    • @pearlgurl24
      @pearlgurl24 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao I love how there are 19 likes on this

  • @FratBoyFitness
    @FratBoyFitness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    This dude thinks he’s a 9 when he’s a 4

    • @christineramiro3457
      @christineramiro3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Money gives him confidence

    • @aguynamedatidade
      @aguynamedatidade 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Confidence makes guys more attractive. When you're dating, it's a lot better to have too much than not enough.

    • @wooof.
      @wooof. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You already know

    • @__-yh7zl
      @__-yh7zl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      idk why he's getting hated on

    • @adomaster123
      @adomaster123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lookism at it's finest. In the eyes of society, males (and to a lesser degree women), below a certain level of attractiveness are not ALLOWED to display confidence. They must be submissive or they'll be chastisted for it.

  • @Frilleon
    @Frilleon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The guy didn’t fully share his contentions to be polite but everyone is calling him slimy for speaking positively about her despite having differences in values. He seemed respectful to her at all times. I don’t think he did anything wrong by her. Good luck to both

    • @SWIFTzTrigger
      @SWIFTzTrigger 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women can't stand being rejected. He rejected her and basically stated she has short term value at best lol. All these women trying to live vicariously through these shows are mad triggered.

  • @abbys592
    @abbys592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I don't understand the hate for this guy! To me he genuinely seems like a cool, honest dude

  • @Whimswirl
    @Whimswirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I thought she was Rebecca Black when I saw the thumbnail.

  • @kylegeee
    @kylegeee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    "We got water and lemon and the bill was $230..." jesus christ

  • @Pichipichiprincess
    @Pichipichiprincess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    the low key shade of her talking about his "broken french"

  • @jbyrd9118
    @jbyrd9118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I feel like this was about religion. I'm curious to see what that lengthy text actually said though.

  • @pearlgurl24
    @pearlgurl24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved her reply to him cancelling the date.

  • @julianacharlebois-berg9413
    @julianacharlebois-berg9413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    bruh wtf he described her outfit in creepily accurate detail. like ???? who notices that?

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's when you know a guy is feeling you a lil bit😂

    • @Savaril
      @Savaril 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      a minimalist who keeps track of exactly how many things he owns, that's who
      are people really this stupid? can they not connect the dots there?

    • @emihal8187
      @emihal8187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Juliana Charlebois-Berg intelligent people are observers

    • @jimmypadilla3441
      @jimmypadilla3441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Out of all the weird things this dude said and did that's the one that got you

    • @hollybauer739
      @hollybauer739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stalkers.

  • @melissaterblanche1598
    @melissaterblanche1598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    DEFINITELY his loss. She's a catch! ❤️

    • @0rluh
      @0rluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Melissa Terblanche she doesn’t seem very intelligent. Pretty vapid.

    • @heysilly1341
      @heysilly1341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Orla she knows 4 languages. That sounds pretty intelligent to me

    • @chaztitan6457
      @chaztitan6457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      if she lost 40 lbs

    • @melisa6609
      @melisa6609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Chad w wow can’t watch a single video without someone making an unnecessary and insensitive comment about somebody else’s body. Whether she has 40 lbs on her or not it doesn’t have anything to do with her intelligence

    • @fadeonsky5797
      @fadeonsky5797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      shes materialistic, bad person for long term, look at her earings lol

  • @nungacynderilla5095
    @nungacynderilla5095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think she’s pretty cute and likes fancy cute stuff like me 🥰.. I love both her LV and Chanel earrings..
    The guy initiated a kiss when he knew he was prolly not gonna date her 🤷🏼‍♀️....

  • @cherfancherfan6682
    @cherfancherfan6682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    19 seriously 19??? Are you kidding me?!?!?!
    And idk I didn't like him he seems like the type of guy that will sleep with you and forget about you the other day

    • @cherfancherfan6682
      @cherfancherfan6682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Zoran eum I just have 14 and I am Christian I will never sleep with someone until I get married and if I don't get married then I'll stay virgin all my life so don't judge me before you even know me !!!

    • @cherfancherfan6682
      @cherfancherfan6682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Zoran that's a good advice tysm 😄
      And I am a very religious person so I will never stray away I am in a point in my life where god is the only person I can trust (and ofc my family)😊

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing wrong with that. Ever heard about one night stands? Both men and women do it a lot, and as long as they're honest and upfront about it there shouldn't be any problem

  • @kezia-priscillavalentine1274
    @kezia-priscillavalentine1274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    HE IS SOOO VAGUE! Tell us Dayummm Daniel

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      guys typically tend to be that way

    • @Yoshiii99
      @Yoshiii99 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is he vague?

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yoshiii99 he says "she is beautiful, smart, etc" she is not for a long term... so confusing... he is lying he is not honest...

    • @kevinshirley2875
      @kevinshirley2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iaf4454 most of their conversation we are not privy to and the text messages are greyed out so we don't know what they talked about. I have a feeling that his reservations are of a religious nature. but thats just me.

  • @Iloona974
    @Iloona974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    Long term - 3, short term -5?? Even though no one asked about “short term”. He obviously wants to sleep with her and leave it at that. Go get you that 19 year old boi

    • @AbcDef-jq2ue
      @AbcDef-jq2ue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He can sleep with 10 girls more beautiful than her for $230.

  • @eall5630
    @eall5630 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i love how she says she wants a middle eastern man... gets a persian dude who looks completely white lmao

  • @magicalmalu
    @magicalmalu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Sarah was so cute! Daniel came off a bit all over the map though tbh

  • @evastood4539
    @evastood4539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    2:27 he looks like Jonah hill and hoodie Allen

    • @smithmarina970
      @smithmarina970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      got it , thats the vibe i was getting too.

    • @jailenegarcia8547
      @jailenegarcia8547 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eva Stood omg DEADASSSSSSS

  • @AmariHetep
    @AmariHetep 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwww, “remember to try to sleeping on you back.” Idk why that made me smile, but it did.

  • @sabrinaevans8388
    @sabrinaevans8388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Daniel is the guy who is nice so he can talk about how nice of a guy he is.

  • @_I-wk5em
    @_I-wk5em 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    No one:
    Daniel: you already know

    • @Livontheg0
      @Livontheg0 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      -- hahaha yes I was just laughing about that 😂

  • @ounaemeno377
    @ounaemeno377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He said 19 yo what TF I'm 19 and he literally looks like my dad I swear

  • @EllyLikesToSmile
    @EllyLikesToSmile 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Her response to his text, YASS GIRLLLLLL

  • @thesnowflakediaries5267
    @thesnowflakediaries5267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    thats so funny they said the clooneys

  • @princessonuoha79
    @princessonuoha79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loved this interview Glamour! Really appreciated it. I also loved both of them! I related a lot to Daniel, and I'm surprised that there are actually guys who think long term in a relationship, and actually include their family in their decisions in looking for a partner! Was refreshing to see! It probably has a lot to do with being Persian and the family values they have. All around great interview! And Sarah seemed like she had a beautiful heart as well.

  • @bubba061796
    @bubba061796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Sarah is so deserving of love!! please put her in more of these until she finds the one

  • @amaka6445
    @amaka6445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Idk why people are so creeped out by Daniel or confused by his respones
    He seems like a regular, reasonable guy

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      exactly! wtf, and the girl aint pretty either

    • @grafit8615
      @grafit8615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryantinor339 is shallow when ia pointless but since everyone thinks this girl ia beautifull and that the guy has to "step It up to get to her" people are blind to how unatractive this girl is, and im pretty sure that you wouldnt bê commenting this If It was about a man

    • @MMmm-bg9li
      @MMmm-bg9li 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same. Ironically, i think it’s just group-think

    • @ihatehandles111
      @ihatehandles111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm really confused by it too. he seemed good to me

  • @fizzashaikh1418
    @fizzashaikh1418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I HAVE NEVER THIS PHRASE MORE BEFORE “Tall, because I’m tall and I like my heels” SIS ME TOOOOO

  • @tydamaker2657
    @tydamaker2657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    My boy Daniel is not as bad as you guys are making him out to be. Sure his age range is a little wonky, but overall he seems like a cool guy that has a really good memory, which seems to creep a lot of women out for some reason lol, and who is very confident in themselves. 9/10 probably not a serial killer

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      he is the catch and knows it

    • @JKnight1316
      @JKnight1316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the attention thing wasnt that bad it started getting creepy when he was counting how many bracelets on which arm or rings like if he just said he liked her jewelry it would of been fine but the amount of detail he went into not even a girl would say all that lol it was odd

    • @Yumichan62
      @Yumichan62 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@JKnight1316 He is a minimalist, people like that often remember the exact amount of stuff you where, have or whatever. My stepdad is a minimalist and also is like that, he knows exactly how many earrings I have and always makes a funny comment when I get new ones. "Why do you meed 25 different pairs of earrings?" People like that just notice.

    • @mycollegeshirt
      @mycollegeshirt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JKnight1316 I doubt it was creepy, or that much of a mystery, they dated for three hours, the girl, not super talkative, so he probably just brought it up in conversation, if someone doesn't talk too much and your trying to talk, nice go to, you can riff about what their wearing, something that's not too deep. like if it were me I'd go what you only bedazzled 6 of the fingers for this? gotta say... little insulted, I'm worth at least like 8 bedazzled fingers out of ten, and then if their fun they'll be like "eh. maybe a strong 7" and then mock outrage or whatever. Then its just more fun I think. and as a result you're not going to forget what they're dressed like.

    • @roberthermann97
      @roberthermann97 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They're triggered because he rejected her, and likes younger women.

  • @kmseileen
    @kmseileen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    he looks more like jessica biel than he looks like george cloney.

  • @AcostaMethod
    @AcostaMethod 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    ‘Who initiated the kiss’
    Daniel- you already know
    #dayumdanielll

  • @tuetran9212
    @tuetran9212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "What are your insecurities?" is not something you should ask on your first date.

    • @michaelsotomayor5001
      @michaelsotomayor5001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha don't date a middle eastern or Ukrainian woman.. they will interrogate you. They protect themselves in that manner. If you're not mature enough to be turned off or personally attacked by a simple question.. then somethings wrong..

  • @figfox2425
    @figfox2425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sarah sounds really like a genuine french girl... when she speaks french. ^^

  • @hemanthchukku
    @hemanthchukku 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    She is sooo beautiful. Ohh boy I never been in a relationship. I'm comfortable with being alone. I don't want to screw it all up.

  • @juliahoffman6787
    @juliahoffman6787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SHE'S SO PRETTY

  • @nq2178
    @nq2178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She’s out of his league anyways👋🏽 and 19 wtf??

  • @krystalmcgee1514
    @krystalmcgee1514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The way he so vividly described everything she was wearing down to how many of her nails still had polish on them seemed a bit creepy, like he was taking notes.

    • @krystalmcgee1514
      @krystalmcgee1514 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zoran Everything you just said had absolutely nothing to do with why it felt creepy lol, but go off 👌🏻👌🏻

  • @mari-ne6hv
    @mari-ne6hv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    her being least attracted to his shoes is my biggest thing omg if hes wearing weird shoes im like 😳😳😳

  • @newjack900
    @newjack900 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that he made 2 things very clear 1. He disagrees with something about her lifestyle / long-term plans 2. He's very attracted and compatible with her and would love to "be friends" and would always be available to "hang out" ..

  • @unholychloe1159
    @unholychloe1159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    daniel every other answer: ya already know

  • @charlestiparent
    @charlestiparent 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When she started to speak french i felt weird because i'm not used to hear my first language on this channel. His accent is really cute tho.

    • @cocojo2002
      @cocojo2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      C'est la seule partie que j'ai compris vas-y 😆

  • @KP-dd2ci
    @KP-dd2ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He looks like a poor man's version of Jonah Hill.

    • @KP-dd2ci
      @KP-dd2ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Arnab Chakraborty What the heck does Daniel do to make him filthy rich?

    • @KP-dd2ci
      @KP-dd2ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Arnab Chakraborty You must be his friend...seems kinda douchey with 1st impression for me.

  • @sambell309
    @sambell309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Asking her what she thinks her imperfections are is a massive red flag (among many others) jesus, negging research

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol how if that a red flag no one is perfect 😂😂😂

  • @thesnowflakediaries5267
    @thesnowflakediaries5267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    TWO HUNDRED AND THIRTY DOLLARS? UHHH

    • @duaaali3369
      @duaaali3369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      welcome to the tri state area lol, dates in NYC and northern NJ average about $270, it's normal

    • @creamofthecrop5868
      @creamofthecrop5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Duaa Ali not first dates

    • @duaaali3369
      @duaaali3369 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@creamofthecrop5868 it's weird but ya it's just falls under the cost of living there. Rent is higher than most places, for ex, so the cost of going out would correspond to the same high price.

    • @creamofthecrop5868
      @creamofthecrop5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Duaa Ali there is so many places in nyc and so many places that do not cost that much

    • @vampiregirlTVD
      @vampiregirlTVD 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@duaaali3369 It is definitely not normal, I paid 300 bucks for 2 people, 3 course with wine in a three star restaurant. I'd say average is tops 100 bucks for both

  • @b.flucus693
    @b.flucus693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone is in the comments saying they don't like him, lol to me he's a certifiable cinnamon roll. He was thoughtful of her and paid attention to detail. Plus he showed respect for not being what she needs longterm, which shows real foresight ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @marianalehnertz8272
    @marianalehnertz8272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    No one:
    Daniel: u already know

  • @omram566
    @omram566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Daniel. So cringey. Does he actually know who George Clooney is? Surely he means Jonah Hill?

  • @audreysims3396
    @audreysims3396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “I don’t really like talking about negative stuff”
    Cut to him asking her imperfections.

  • @JadeCouture9093
    @JadeCouture9093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He’s a 2 and she’s a straight 10 what y’all doin

  • @LUKALAmusic
    @LUKALAmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I felt like he was super interested until the producers mentioned his shoes weren’t cute. How is it that when everything was rated, all his answered were above 4/5 yet there are red flags? That doesn’t make sense lol.

    • @Tucent
      @Tucent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because there's a difference between liking somebody in a short-term fling and imagining growing old with somebody, relying on them in the tough times, and relating with them over similar ideologies. TL DR, she has no obviously bad qualities but she doesn't have any great qualities to make him believe that a relationship with her would be possible. Might also be a little bit of a religious thing as well

  • @mycollegeshirt
    @mycollegeshirt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    this guy has triggered something hard in women in the comments, like he's an amalgamation of their exes

    • @bnwo
      @bnwo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yep Lol

  • @cybroz495
    @cybroz495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dayum that girl tho

  • @Lena2light
    @Lena2light 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I don’t know about the rest of the ladies on here, but for a first date, I would like the guy to be a gentleman and chivalrous, of course, but a simple coffee or having a date at a sandwich shop would be perfect for me. ❤️