It literally was not "cold blood", you di not know what the term means. It was what is called "heat of passion", an adulterous wife confrontation. That does not excuse it or mean it is not murder, but it does mean it is not "cold blood". Stop using legal terms you do not understand. You watch too much TV.
@@-MattMcCauley- it is cold blood! It’s definitely not “heat of passion”. This man went there with the intention to KILL. He had loaded guns in his car, went in the house guns blazing asking “where is he?”. You’re the one who clearly don’t know what you’re talking about.
She missed the opportunity to have him put in jail twice!!! Playing games to get back at a spouse is not smart. Having a boy friend come to her home while she was still married was to be vindictive. Playing 2 men against each other(screwing both of them) was not smart. NOT running out of the house with her boy friend was not smart.
An abuser should be put in jail regardless of whether the victim wants to press charges . OBVIOUSLY, and understandably , victims fear an abuser will blame/ harm them for whatever consequences the abuser gets . Just like in the video , the murderer said "SHE keeps putting me in jail". (As opposed to "I have committed violence and have been put in jail as a result of MY VIOLENT ACTIONS")
It made me sick to hear the killer say “this was a mistake and I wish it wouldn’t have happened”…NO dude, a mistake is getting her coffee order wrong or forgetting to take the trash out! You absolutely meant to kill her when you took a gun to her house! And then for his attorney to say “this was just a mistake”, made my blood boil
if my brother did this…i’d be scared to even speak to him on the phone. and his sister saying that his child “doesn’t care what his daddy did” is gross and makes me think they told the kids that it was their mom’s fault
She's DISGUSTING. Telling him the kids said they'd love their daddy "no matter what he did". The whole time, she's acting like what he did was a good thing. Disgusting family. Praying? Lmfao...ok...
This update from News4Jax makes me so happy. 👉"The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders." I know it drives him crazy to know that his kids are with Amanda's family.
That made my day! Listening to his jail phone call where the person he’s talking to says his son said he’ll love him no matter what he did tells me all I need to know about his backwards family. I hope the kids are doing well.
Amanda's family I am sure will let the children know appropriate to their age what happened to their mum. As they become adults they will understand more and make up their own minds.
Sad they lost they lives however.All she had to do when he tore up her house was call the police. He would be in jail n they would be alive. Amanda boyfriend is a coward he just left her to die.
5 minutes in and I think the neighbor should be charged as an accessory to murder! With that picture he set the whole thing into motion. Good thing she didn't run to the house of the neighbor who started this all.
You're absolutely right he should be charged It was wrong for the neighbor to be involved at all. In the event that he asked me, I would have told him that I had never come across anyone there and wouldn't send a picture of another man at his house. Absolutely insane.
Honestly, no he shouldn’t. J.R. Is a grown man who is responsible for his own actions. How is what the neighbor did any different from what a private detective would have done if J.R. Had hired one. We live in an age where once you step out of the bounds of your own home you should automatically assume that you are being recorded.
The neighbor has blood on their hands. Also, NEVER tell me someone willing to take the life of their child's mother is a good father. Not. Even. A. Little. Bit.
@samanthaschwartz2316 Right. Neighbor should have minded his own business and refused to do any dirty work for the estranged husband. HIs hands are dripping in blood. And a man who kills the mother of his children is by definition the worst kind of father ever.
I'm sorry but I'm a single father of 2 with sole custody, no no some women are put on this earth by the devil, same sentence some men are too!!! Never the less I agree murder is never the answer, I'm just saying some women are just as bad as some men!!!
That's exactly what somebody says when they deserve to be in jail. Because they never take a responsibility for what they did to get put in jail for goodness sakes
@@MsRose00yep I've been there and sadly it happens to a lot of domestic violent victims they're try to be nice and compassionate or they're even scared and then it bites them many times
You have to wonder... would James Colley's sister be talking about what an amazing mother Amanda and Lindy were, if they decided to gun down James and his friends? Or would she be crying for justice and death penalties? He's a horrible person, and a great father would NEVER have dreamed of robbing them of their mother and certainly not robbing OTHER children of their mothers. And his family is no better.
Agree..shows crazy runs in that family! Family or not. .wrong is wrong! He killed his wife and the mother of his children and another mother and his family is pampering him. Disgusting
Could you imagine growing up and watching this knowing what your dad did to your mom and how he completely changed your entire life after he killed your mom? I feel so sad for them.
This was not an accident. This was premeditated & frankly his family is pretty gross. The jail call “we know it was just an accident”🙄 Uh he murdered TWO PEOPLE!!
So, what did he expect?!? That after mistreating her until she divorced him, did he really believe he could force her to reconcile with him?!? "Get back together with me or I'm going to shoot and kill you?". Narcissist's thinking baffles me!! Poor kids got neither parent now! Selfish pr**k!!
exactly why is the family pretending he didn’t do anything and that they want him to come home when he gets out of jail. And they want to have him come back to them. I wouldn’t be able to trust him. He’s a murderer. I hope his family doesn’t get the kidson the count of the way his sister sounded on the phone. She sounded psycho.
@jeremyness2395 Agree 100% with sentiment. I shake with fury listening to them sometimes. There is a reason they talk like this, when you're soft and leave room for feeling people break down. They NEED people to remain calm to gather as much relevant information as possible, and as quickly as possible to get the proper people there. It's a tough job, I couldn't manage the robot, and snappy tones they have. It makes me mental.
The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders.Jul 18, 2018
@ninagage2311 You read my mind. I was wondering about that. Thank goodness the father's narcissistic family isn't raising them. It's easy to see how this self absorbed, poor me, despicable specimen of a male turned out the way he did. If he and his sister are any indication, the entire family is trash. If my brother murdered two people for any reason other than self defense, I would never have any contact with him again, ever. Horrid, disgusting people who think they are good Christians because they prayed. Thank you for the update.
He was not an amazing father. Amazing fathers don’t kill the mother of their children and their completely innocent friends. This guy was a complete loser. They were both moving on but he is obviously a narcissistic abuser with an anger issue. I hope that neighbor feels bad and thinks about Amanda and Lindy for the rest of his life. He was being a nosy neighbor thinking he was really doing something when he really fueled an evil monster. Shame on him. Shame on James ridiculous family for the lame excuses. I hope the kids are with her family with minimal contact with his crazy family. What a horrible story!
I think the neighbor was enjoying himself and the power he had over other people's emotions. He's told himself he didn't do anything wrong, so I seriously doubt he thinks about the innocent victims. He's a total creep.
Exactly. She admitted to cheating on her husband. You are right. She was a narcissist. She admitted that he was a good father to their kids which undermines the idea that he was a drunk. God bless
So, she did not work. A stay at home mom. Had everything. He worked hard to build a family and home and was kicked out of the home he bought and she brings her boyfriend into his house that he paid for.............
@@michaels5222 He was also cheating. He was also very controlling. Both of those are Narcissistic traits. I'm not saying that she is not to blame. It takes two to have a conflict. She could very well have had narcissistic traits as well. Needless to say, it was a toxic relationship from the get go.
@38:03 Never seizes to amaze me how the murderer wants recognition as a human being, and wanting to save their life, yet didn't care about taking their victim's rights, and life away!
The fact she saved him from going to jail so he wouldn’t be without seeing his kids but he killed her so she will never see her kids again. This is devastating
@@victorcampos7722or how about we tell men to go to therapy and stop murdering women!! Yes we need protection but it should be said that men need to do better
@@johnsmith-ug5tpyou must be a bitter man with mommy issues to come here and make this comment. He was a troublemaker and busybody who got two women killed by not minding his own business.
And the one defense attorney was smiling and chuckling when he was talking about the situation in the first few clips. I was shocked. What a horrible man
for real!! i don't feel sorry people online had a go at the defense. trying to deny victim blaming by saying he was trying to save the killer's life? he even used a name that made it seem they were all buddy buddy. it was no longer the case of doing their job when he blatantly blamed the victims
All the religious preachers out there please stop saying god forgives. Time and time again these criminals think that it’s okay to commit crimes as long as they pray to god for forgiveness.
@@P4trickSt4rmie EXACTLY! James had those guns - and unless he was taken into custody - had the murder planned out b4 hand! I imagine he regrets that one friend (behind the closet door when he opened it) got away! AND THE SHIRTLESS BOYFRIEND MOWING THE LAWN - - - THE MINUTE HE HEARD THE GUN FIRE BOLTED - - JAMES WASN’T THERE TO KILL HIM - JUST THE WIFE & HER FRIENDS!
Being the narcissist he was even if Amanda pressed charges it wouldn't have deterred him from killing Amanda and her friend. Even with the restraining order it didn't keep him away from pursuing her!!!!
Crazy how he could move on with his life but she couldn't/wasn't allowed to. So many people have blood on their hands, starting with neighbour. Smh, his entire family are rotten to the core! If you are reading this, I hope & pray you don't get a single day of peace. Diabolical.
Rachel’s phone call and testimony is proof that people react differently when placed in a stressful situation. Her voice was steady and calm, despite having just witnessed her friends being shot, and narrowly missing being shot herself. Other victims have been criticized for not displaying “typical” behavior post attack. I’m glad they featured a witness and victim who was calm in the face of danger. Some of us go quiet and still when faced with a frightening situation.
I’m like this. I’ve been in a couple of traumatic situations and I’m the type of person that goes completely calm rather than hysterical. I’m not sure why since I’m normally a pretty emotional person.
Nah, friends look out for friends. Who knows the spin the husband put on the sob story to the neighbor. He is not responsible for someone else's actions.
Just listening to him talk to his family on those phone calls, it’s no wonder he turned out the way he did. It’s clear he’s never been held responsible for anything a day in his life. I hope Amanda’s family got custody of her children.
@@tonyag69That is the best thing for those babies. His family would've tried to tell those children growing up that it was probably their Momma's fault. Thank you for updating us on that. That is a silver lining in an extremely dark cloud, especially for those children. I really don't think his family needed custody of them for several reasons.
Called his dad and said that she put him in jail. his dad should’ve spoke up and said that’s what happens when you don’t leave her alone. knock it off!
I cannot believe a neighbor would do such a low down disgusting thing. If that neighbor would have said "dude you are out of your effing mind I refuse to stalk your wife for you I refuse to be your personal private investigator and you need to quit with the bs. Leave her alone can't you see that YOU are the one with problems?!" All of this could have been avoided. But unfortunately he had a family that is just as disgusting as that neighbor so who knows....it's just unbelievable how some people instigate situations like this..
I agree with you but he would have found out about the guy eventually. He had already found the toys and men’s clothes. He was stalking her. If he couldn’t have her, no one was going to.
I 💯 agree!!! Even though they're not the one's who actually did the killing, they did instigate and now defending him. That neighbor is shady af though, even if he thought sending the Pic was innocent (which he didn't) why wouldn't he go straight to the police once he text him that she'd "pay". That mf'r definitely knew he'd do something to hurt her😡
@@crystallatta8770Exactly. Even if he thought sending the pic was “innocent” (it wasn’t), he STOPPED being an innocent bystander when he was forewarned and told NOBODY!!!
It’s unbelievable how many of these people are in this position and behave as if it’s an inconvenience to them to have to deal with such things. Speaking as someone who has been through a similar experience.
For a picture. No way. There are countless murder cases where the person finds out through a friend that their partner is cheating. You cant shoot or jail the messenger
As a woman who narrowly escaped being murdered by my psycho ex husband, this story sickens and angers me. Yet another tragedy of unarmed, defenseless women killed by a monster. Ladies, I beg you, please get a firearm, learn how to properly use it, and stay armed 24/7.
It's laughable that so many seem to think she committed adultery. She's with someone new, and so was he. So who cares? What gets me is the slander and character assassination he did to everyone he could talk to about her. 'Dad, she won't stop putting me in jail'. When she literally refused to do so that very day. Doesn't want her family to get custody. When her family raised a loving person and mother. And, his family raised a murderer. Make it make sense.
@@FatmanNotFatactually it absolutely does. Especially if they’re the mother of your children, you should want to model a healthy relationship for them whether you’re together or not. Ya know, so they don’t grow up thinking abuse is normal and accept the same things they saw their dad doing to their mother. People really be out here trying to justify some of these cases. Not one reason makes any of this okay.
Right and he lied to his family saying she was sending me to jail…when in fact just that morning of her death she made the decision to not send his evil arse to jail… because of the children…meanwhile they’ll never see their mother again!
States need to stiffen these laws. Better to act preemptively in court than to allow any person to do the same outside of court; that usually doesn’t end well as we see here.
@IH8YALLL Correct. The problem was that husband was gone by the time they arrived, he didn't even live there and she refused to press charges. It's sad that women are so scared of their children not having a father that they're blind to the risk they're putting everyone in.
So his response to his wife, who "keeps putting him in jail," is to commit the worst possible crime and then follow it up immediately with another crime to ensure he goes to prison?
No grip on reality, some people. Would they be praying for a different person to get out of jail if they murdered someone they love and then admitted it? Nope.
@@MarvinetteAndroid83 Found out what tho -- they were separated - the husband was crazy and controlling - maybe he would have snapped eventually but that neighbor made it happen sooner -
James is definitely a narcissist for getting a new girlfriend yet expecting loyalty from his exish-wife and telling his dad that it was all her fault he killed her. He said she won’t let him go but clearly thats not true.
My neighbor did this to me with my abusive ex. He knew when I left the house what time I came back, who was over my house, etc, which almost led to my demise. To make it worse, it was a woman with kids herself, and she knew what was going on. Despicable. I hate people.
LADIES - PUT YOURSELF FIRST. Do NOT feel bad for putting your husband in jail or away from the kids when he is obviously capable of hurting you. SAVE YOURSELVES.
@@BlackAmericanFlagit’s probably because in this particular story it was a lady who encounter this unfortunate situation. You are right though…all people need to protect themselves.
Because it is their job to keep the caller on the line. There are times when the caller cannot speak and keeping the line open helps to locate distressed and endangered parties.
Probably because Lindy was supporting Amanda in her ordeal with her ridiculous, self-entitled, hypocritical monster of a husband. Clearly, in Colley's twisted mind, nobody should have helped, or cared about, Amanda.
I just googled and an article from 2018 states that the kids had been in Amanda’s family’s custody since the murders. I hope that continues to be the case!
Hearing the jail calls explains why this man took no accountability in his life”. Listening to his sister act as he is the victim and not having any remorse for the lives that were lost .
Agree. When Ambien was sort of new, I was prescribed it for insomnia - but I also had an alcohol issue at that point in my life. So I mixed the two, and yeah - I was BLITZED. Really loaded. But to use that as an excuse for what he did is nothing but cowardess. There is no way on earth mixing those two would induce murder. No possible way. PS..I got help in 2012 and thank God I’ve been clean and sober since. ❤️ This is a horrible case.
Now this monster is playing the victim. What a weak coward. Bullies like him are always cowards. My condolences to the families of these two beautiful women.
Omg I was looking for a comment like this. I thought the exact same thing!! Just watching this, I put myself into this scenario and gave myself an anxiety attack so I have zero sense of how and why she was so calm. Especially after witnessing the murders.
@KassidyKennedy1 your probably right! I just can't imagine going through all that! It's easy to say I'd do this or that but you never know until your in those shoes!
Yes! When I heard her call, I immediately thought about how I’d 100% think she was guilty if we didn’t know who the murderer was. It was a real eye-opener to hear how actual victims sound in traumatic situations.
Funny. Yall females arent bashing the women by running from the crazy man but yall bashed the new boyfriend for doing the same. Females LOVEE blaming men for EVERYTHING 🤮
Omg exactly. An amazing father doesn’t engage in chronic domestic violence against the mother and then murder her and her best friend in cold blood FFS.
How is it considered cheating if they are going through a divorce and going separate ways? You cannot identify it as cheating. It is simply moving on with her life.
the fact everyone trivialized this whole thing all the way up until he literally committed premeditated murder, and some people STILL trivializing all of it afterwards is so telling of the society we live in. i hate humanity so so effing much.
The way the law is written, we're incapacitated until an actual crime is committed. Have you seen minority report? It's a hard choice but it really is the best.
Ladies, please DO NOT hesitate to have your abuser thrown in jail. Don't save them "because of the kids." If this poor woman had let the deputy arrest him after he broke in and destroyed her home, she would be alive today. These abusers have no thought or care about you, so please protect yourselves and your kids above all else.
I wish I would have heard this advice 14 years ago with my son and my abusive ex. You are so right. Dont worry about the abusers feelings. Ultimately if they cared about there kid they wouldnt be hurting you
If something I've learn from watching crime shows, never be an "all American", never be "the life of the party" and never never "light up the room". That's just recipe for disaster.
Love the neighbor/friend telling the cops how he told him it’s no big deal…so what…let it go. There was ZERO reason to send that photo except to upset him. Real men protect women. Disgusting.
His family doesn’t deserve to raise those two children. Amanda’s family should have them. And the neighbor should also be charged. Him sending that picture started the events.
@johnsmith-ug5tp lol it could've been a friend or coworker's son or nephew. It could've been a guy cutting grass for a side hustle. U've seriously never seen any guy, ever, cutting grass shirtless? Why would u support actions that led to the murders of 2 women?
This is why you need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS unless someone is in danger. The neighbor needs to face some type of consequences. Why would you do that?
Like what? I female neighbor would have been snapping pics and sending them to her gf is her husband had some woman doing yard work if she was away. I am 99.9% sure you would have too.
His family is weird…. Esp the sister🤮 And him wanting them to make sure Amanda’s family didn’t get custody of the kids… AFTER HE BRUTALLY EXECUTED HER?! 🗣️ELECTRIC CHAIR!!!!
@@melindapye7435Makes him look alive. He removed himself from a family situation that was none of his business. She was a booty call and not worth dying over….
I’m sorry, but after you’ve physically separated from a spouse and filed for divorce I don’t think it’s really cheating if you both start dating. And this creep claiming he doesn’t really remember what happened the day of the murders and then asking his sister to sling mud to prevent his in-laws from getting custody of the kids is pathetic. He’s a diabolical, hotheaded narcissist who was consumed with jealousy and rage. And he killed her best friend too! What a monster.
That is what evil👿😈 looks like walking the earth. He murders her innocent friend pleading for her life. Hateful, evil, diabolical monster. What a nightmare.
I agree that’s evil . But I think he suspected she cheated during the marriage . She even said “he’s gonna chop me off if he found out I cheated” or whatever she told them .
The defense trying to use the fact that Amanda was done but JR was still "trying to save the marriage" as an excuse is so appealing!!! Who cares!!! This isn't the old days, we women aren't property, she was well within her rights to want to leave him!
I don't think that the children should be awarded to the murders family. That's victimizing her twice!! They should always be awarded to the victims ' family!!!
@@af4872 What happened to equality of the sexes and feminism? What was he supposed to do? Stay and jump in front of the bullets, so the women wouldn't get hit?
The neighbors should be charged with stalker Hes is technically stalking her in behalf of the husband watching her coming and goings and invading her privacy
So the boyfriend Lamar, left out of the house to save himself and then did not call 911? He left the 3 women to get shot to death. What a coward! Why didn’t he go somewhere and call 911? A wonderful father? That’s debatable.
His family is also disgusting. They were on his side and this man killed 2 women in cold blood!
It literally was not "cold blood", you di not know what the term means. It was what is called "heat of passion", an adulterous wife confrontation.
That does not excuse it or mean it is not murder, but it does mean it is not "cold blood".
Stop using legal terms you do not understand. You watch too much TV.
@@-MattMcCauley- it is cold blood! It’s definitely not “heat of passion”. This man went there with the intention to KILL. He had loaded guns in his car, went in the house guns blazing asking “where is he?”. You’re the one who clearly don’t know what you’re talking about.
@@-MattMcCauley-
Projecting much?
Vile ppl
His sister 🤮
The neighbor needs to be held accountable, too. He had no business stalking his neighbor and her home like that.
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I agree - what a dickhead. So many men think women are their possessions.
True I can’t believe he did that
It's just creepy
100% yes!!!
He had a girlfriend the entire time, she had a restraining order on him, and the wife was estranged from him….what a double standard having psycho!
He’s a narcissist. In his eyes his ex-wife was a possession to him. He can’t do any wrong, but everyone wrongs him.
She missed the opportunity to have him put in jail twice!!! Playing games to get back at a spouse is not smart. Having a boy friend come to her home while she was still married was to be vindictive. Playing 2 men against each other(screwing both of them) was not smart. NOT running out of the house with her boy friend was not smart.
Said like a true psycho 🥴@@computerpro123abc
An abuser should be put in jail regardless of whether the victim wants to press charges . OBVIOUSLY, and understandably , victims fear an abuser will blame/ harm them for whatever consequences the abuser gets . Just like in the video , the murderer said "SHE keeps putting me in jail". (As opposed to "I have committed violence and have been put in jail as a result of MY VIOLENT ACTIONS")
@@computerpro123abc he was seeing someone else too. So.. should she have killed him ?
It made me sick to hear the killer say “this was a mistake and I wish it wouldn’t have happened”…NO dude, a mistake is getting her coffee order wrong or forgetting to take the trash out! You absolutely meant to kill her when you took a gun to her house! And then for his attorney to say “this was just a mistake”, made my blood boil
i feel the same way!
So glad his inner persona was revealed as it led to that sentence by the judge
if my brother did this…i’d be scared to even speak to him on the phone. and his sister saying that his child “doesn’t care what his daddy did” is gross and makes me think they told the kids that it was their mom’s fault
Agree. Disgusting.
How is that gross? When she was just stating what the kid had said. So your saying the kid is gross??
All this fake forgiveness because they don't feel for the people who lost their lives due to this loose canon.
@@deanmullins695exactly why should children hate their parents for having a bad marriage? Hate would cause more trauma.
@@newworldgrover8588he murderer their mother ??
Sister is psycho too. "Don't say anything incriminating". How about, "tell the truth and beg for mercy".
That's sound legal advice.
And all that praying, as if God would save his sorry tail.
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She's DISGUSTING. Telling him the kids said they'd love their daddy "no matter what he did". The whole time, she's acting like what he did was a good thing. Disgusting family. Praying? Lmfao...ok...
The neighbor is trying to minimize his role in all of this, but he is fooling no one. He knew he was throwing serious fuel on the fire.
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YES, minimize after the fact because the outcome was horrendous.
Exactly he’s a nosey pos!!!
He doesn't give 2 shits
Trouble making neighbor now 2 people gone. What business was it of his? Who in their right mind would do that ?
This update from News4Jax makes me so happy. 👉"The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders."
I know it drives him crazy to know that his kids are with Amanda's family.
Thank you for this! This was about to ruin my entire night at work. Hearing him say as long as her family doesn’t get them made my blood boil over. 😭
That made my day! Listening to his jail phone call where the person he’s talking to says his son said he’ll love him no matter what he did tells me all I need to know about his backwards family. I hope the kids are doing well.
Amanda's family I am sure will let the children know appropriate to their age what happened to their mum. As they become adults they will understand more and make up their own minds.
Sad they lost they lives however.All she had to do when he tore up her house was call the police. He would be in jail n they would be alive. Amanda boyfriend is a coward he just left her to die.
@@vanessakelsie3333How ridiculous. What was he meant to do against a man with a gun out to shoot him?
5 minutes in and I think the neighbor should be charged as an accessory to murder! With that picture he set the whole thing into motion. Good thing she didn't run to the house of the neighbor who started this all.
No way
You're absolutely right he should be charged It was wrong for the neighbor to be involved at all. In the event that he asked me, I would have told him that I had never come across anyone there and wouldn't send a picture of another man at his house. Absolutely insane.
I wonder how he sleeps at night.
@@vickiekasafirek9096 probably moved
Honestly, no he shouldn’t. J.R. Is a grown man who is responsible for his own actions. How is what the neighbor did any different from what a private detective would have done if J.R. Had hired one. We live in an age where once you step out of the bounds of your own home you should automatically assume that you are being recorded.
The neighbor has blood on their hands. Also, NEVER tell me someone willing to take the life of their child's mother is a good father. Not. Even. A. Little. Bit.
@samanthaschwartz2316 Right. Neighbor should have minded his own business and refused to do any dirty work for the estranged husband. HIs hands are dripping in blood. And a man who kills the mother of his children is by definition the worst kind of father ever.
Pos!! Blood. He should pay child support to the children
@@jenivettebigham7060RIGHT!
I'm sorry but I'm a single father of 2 with sole custody, no no some women are put on this earth by the devil, same sentence some men are too!!! Never the less I agree murder is never the answer, I'm just saying some women are just as bad as some men!!!
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“She kept putting me in jail” coward please. You never sat in jail even though you should’ve
Exactly. She was being too kind. Kept refusing to press charges so he wouldn’t be away from his kids and look what good it did her in the end.
Well he’s there now! What a psycho SOB.
That's exactly what somebody says when they deserve to be in jail. Because they never take a responsibility for what they did to get put in jail for goodness sakes
@@MsRose00yep I've been there and sadly it happens to a lot of domestic violent victims they're try to be nice and compassionate or they're even scared and then it bites them many times
I know that was weird. What is he talking about. Did he mean she kept with the restraining order?
You have to wonder... would James Colley's sister be talking about what an amazing mother Amanda and Lindy were, if they decided to gun down James and his friends? Or would she be crying for justice and death penalties? He's a horrible person, and a great father would NEVER have dreamed of robbing them of their mother and certainly not robbing OTHER children of their mothers. And his family is no better.
the sister praying for her brother to “come home safe” after killing 2 people smh insane
i understand what you mean. he doesnt deserve to ever return home. i would still love and miss my brother too tho. luckily my brother is a saint.
Such delulu
Sydney Morning Herald?
Agree..shows crazy runs in that family! Family or not. .wrong is wrong! He killed his wife and the mother of his children and another mother and his family is pampering him. Disgusting
I almost rolled my eyes out of my head when she started praying.
Could you imagine growing up and watching this knowing what your dad did to your mom and how he completely changed your entire life after he killed your mom? I feel so sad for them.
I grew up like that my father killed my mother too
@@saracaruso5148 im sorry for your loss.
@@saracaruso5148 So sorry!
Maybe the dad just ruined her mom cuz the mom already ruin him
@@WiydumoBasilBerinyuy-y2oHe didn’t ruin her…he KILLED her. And she didn’t ruin him…she divorced him.
This was not an accident. This was premeditated & frankly his family is pretty gross. The jail call “we know it was just an accident”🙄 Uh he murdered TWO PEOPLE!!
Completely disgusting. Infuriating really 🤯
So, what did he expect?!? That after mistreating her until she divorced him, did he really believe he could force her to reconcile with him?!? "Get back together with me or I'm going to shoot and kill you?". Narcissist's thinking baffles me!! Poor kids got neither parent now! Selfish pr**k!!
He knew he had those guns with him and knew she was at home.
@@teresathayn5170The children never needed him. Chances are he tortured them as well as their mother. 😢
exactly why is the family pretending he didn’t do anything and that they want him to come home when he gets out of jail. And they want to have him come back to them. I wouldn’t be able to trust him. He’s a murderer. I hope his family doesn’t get the kidson the count of the way his sister sounded on the phone. She sounded psycho.
I cannot even begin to describe how absolutely infuriating 911 operators talk during emergency calls.
What the actual f*ck is wrong with them????
Hellllllloooo she's absolutely horrid.
@jeremyness2395 Agree 100% with sentiment. I shake with fury listening to them sometimes. There is a reason they talk like this, when you're soft and leave room for feeling people break down. They NEED people to remain calm to gather as much relevant information as possible, and as quickly as possible to get the proper people there. It's a tough job, I couldn't manage the robot, and snappy tones they have. It makes me mental.
I agree I don't know if they are trained to be this way or are they all just numb zombies
I agree. That are losers and bullies.
The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders.Jul 18, 2018
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Thank you for updating us!
Awesome i was scrolling forever thru comments to get this update thank you..
@ninagage2311 You read my mind. I was wondering about that. Thank goodness the father's narcissistic family isn't raising them. It's easy to see how this self absorbed, poor me, despicable specimen of a male turned out the way he did. If he and his sister are any indication, the entire family is trash. If my brother murdered two people for any reason other than self defense, I would never have any contact with him again, ever. Horrid, disgusting people who think they are good Christians because they prayed. Thank you for the update.
WHAT JUDGE AFTER LISTENING TO HOW JAMES SISTER HANDLED “TELLING THE KIDS MOMMY WAS GONE” WOULD LET JAMES FAMILY SEE THOSE KIDS - UNSUPERVISED!
He was not an amazing father. Amazing fathers don’t kill the mother of their children and their completely innocent friends. This guy was a complete loser. They were both moving on but he is obviously a narcissistic abuser with an anger issue. I hope that neighbor feels bad and thinks about Amanda and Lindy for the rest of his life. He was being a nosy neighbor thinking he was really doing something when he really fueled an evil monster. Shame on him. Shame on James ridiculous family for the lame excuses. I hope the kids are with her family with minimal contact with his crazy family. What a horrible story!
Top it off, the dude had his own girlfriend!!!
I think the neighbor was enjoying himself and the power he had over other people's emotions. He's told himself he didn't do anything wrong, so I seriously doubt he thinks about the innocent victims. He's a total creep.
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Amen
I believe the neighbor was enjoying the drama and wanted to continue to fan the flames.
A narcissist will always victim blame when they get caught.
Exactly. She admitted to cheating on her husband. You are right. She was a narcissist. She admitted that he was a good father to their kids which undermines the idea that he was a drunk. God bless
So, she did not work. A stay at home mom. Had everything. He worked hard to build a family and home and was kicked out of the home he bought and she brings her boyfriend into his house that he paid for.............
@@michaels5222 He was also cheating. He was also very controlling. Both of those are Narcissistic traits. I'm not saying that she is not to blame. It takes two to have a conflict. She could very well have had narcissistic traits as well. Needless to say, it was a toxic relationship from the get go.
@@michaels5222 What did her friend do?
@@michaels5222He also had a girlfriend at the time. He wasn't exactly pious. You can't justify him killing the mother of his children in cold blood.
@38:03 Never seizes to amaze me how the murderer wants recognition as a human being, and wanting to save their life, yet didn't care about taking their victim's rights, and life away!
The fact she saved him from going to jail so he wouldn’t be without seeing his kids but he killed her so she will never see her kids again. This is devastating
Excellent point.
And then he and his family are trying to keep the kids from her family. Really sad 😢 And I hope her family got custody of the kids.
Very heartbreaking and selfish 😢💔
Buy protection women! You think police or anyone else will come rescue you?? The answer is no, but your protection will give you a chance.
@@victorcampos7722or how about we tell men to go to therapy and stop murdering women!! Yes we need protection but it should be said that men need to do better
THANK YOU TO THE JUDGE FOR TELLING THAT MONSTER THIS WAS IN NO WAY "AN ACCIDENT"...
Mike Dickens is culpable. He claims he tried to talk him down, but then sends a picture of the boyfriend. What an utter toolbag.
What a hypocrite, didn't he have a girlfriend himself?
1000%
He isn't culpable of anything and there is ZERO laws preventing a person from taking and sending pictures.
@@johnsmith-ug5tpyou must be a bitter man with mommy issues to come here and make this comment. He was a troublemaker and busybody who got two women killed by not minding his own business.
@@johnsmith-ug5tpmen need to start being held accountable for femicide. These types of comments sicken me.
I really despise these defense lawyers. They were one million percent victim shaming and the fact they straight up denied it disgusts me.
And the one defense attorney was smiling and chuckling when he was talking about the situation in the first few clips. I was shocked. What a horrible man
Lawyers were just as crazy as he was!!!!
@@jeansteel1516
Defence attorney was just as crazy as he was!!!!
for real!! i don't feel sorry people online had a go at the defense. trying to deny victim blaming by saying he was trying to save the killer's life? he even used a name that made it seem they were all buddy buddy. it was no longer the case of doing their job when he blatantly blamed the victims
His family is sleaze but they all think they’re good because they said a “prayer” 🙄
Seriously!!! That was ridiculous to me! Pretty sure God ain't listening to that prayer.
Agree 🤬
All the religious preachers out there please stop saying god forgives. Time and time again these criminals think that it’s okay to commit crimes as long as they pray to god for forgiveness.
How vehemently and self-righteously the murderer said, "Amen."
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The perpetrator, the neighbor, the 911 operator, the perpetrator’s sister…how do they live with themselves???
the judge who didnt send him to jail
I'm sure just fine. They all have to be sociopathic narcissists.
@@P4trickSt4rmie EXACTLY! James had those guns - and unless he was taken into custody - had the murder planned out b4 hand! I imagine he regrets that one friend (behind the closet door when he opened it) got away! AND THE SHIRTLESS BOYFRIEND MOWING THE LAWN - - - THE MINUTE HE HEARD THE GUN FIRE BOLTED - - JAMES WASN’T THERE TO KILL HIM - JUST THE WIFE & HER FRIENDS!
Because they felt sorry for the real victim( the husband) ho e is gone but no one has a right to take others life.
They don’t care.
Sad! She didn’t want to press charges to avoid the kids being without their dad for 1 year, and he ended up taking her kids away from her forever.
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😫 SMH
He took Amanda away from the kids & Lindy away from her husband and kids
Being the narcissist he was even if Amanda pressed charges it wouldn't have deterred him from killing Amanda and her friend. Even with the restraining order it didn't keep him away from pursuing her!!!!
Crazy how he could move on with his life but she couldn't/wasn't allowed to. So many people have blood on their hands, starting with neighbour. Smh, his entire family are rotten to the core! If you are reading this, I hope & pray you don't get a single day of peace. Diabolical.
Rachel’s phone call and testimony is proof that people react differently when placed in a stressful situation. Her voice was steady and calm, despite having just witnessed her friends being shot, and narrowly missing being shot herself. Other victims have been criticized for not displaying “typical” behavior post attack. I’m glad they featured a witness and victim who was calm in the face of danger. Some of us go quiet and still when faced with a frightening situation.
I’m like this. I’ve been in a couple of traumatic situations and I’m the type of person that goes completely calm rather than hysterical. I’m not sure why since I’m normally a pretty emotional person.
@@pilotswife06 🎯
WTF!? His family acts like he stole a candy bar Jesus!😡
Completely infuriating.
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Candy bar Jesus? Never heard of that candy 🤦
Remind me the Watts family
@@LeilexaOH YOUR SO FUNNY GROW UP
"He was a wonderful father"
Yea, right up until he started breaking into her home, harassing her, and eventually killing her and her friend.
yep, and she was an awful mother.
These parents who coddle their adult kids who murdered people are... something.
The neighbor that took and sent that photo deserves jail too imo... disgusting.
Yeah people don’t know how to mind their business smh
Nah, friends look out for friends. Who knows the spin the husband put on the sob story to the neighbor. He is not responsible for someone else's actions.
I came to the comments to say this.
Mike Dickens is probably an abuser himself. What an ahole.
Ohhhhhhhhhhh please
The Prosecution was Right in making it a death penalty case. He had zero remorse about killing those women.
What about the kids?
@@francesegan514they’re better of with her family, then to live with a murderer!
And I'll bet that eventually there would be another victim in the future.
Just listening to him talk to his family on those phone calls, it’s no wonder he turned out the way he did. It’s clear he’s never been held responsible for anything a day in his life. I hope Amanda’s family got custody of her children.
Righttt!!
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They did!!
@@tonyag69That is the best thing for those babies. His family would've tried to tell those children growing up that it was probably their Momma's fault. Thank you for updating us on that. That is a silver lining in an extremely dark cloud, especially for those children. I really don't think his family needed custody of them for several reasons.
Yes, I swear some people just don't understand that it's supposed to be stressful to parent a child, you actually DO want a civilised person!
Damn, the SECOND he left court for violating his injunction against her, he calls her. Smh absolutely ridiculous.
He was on a mission
Called his dad and said that she put him in jail. his dad should’ve spoke up and said that’s what happens when you don’t leave her alone. knock it off!
I cannot believe a neighbor would do such a low down disgusting thing. If that neighbor would have said "dude you are out of your effing mind I refuse to stalk your wife for you I refuse to be your personal private investigator and you need to quit with the bs. Leave her alone can't you see that YOU are the one with problems?!" All of this could have been avoided. But unfortunately he had a family that is just as disgusting as that neighbor so who knows....it's just unbelievable how some people instigate situations like this..
I agree with you but he would have found out about the guy eventually. He had already found the toys and men’s clothes. He was stalking her. If he couldn’t have her, no one was going to.
I’ve seen people on TH-cam filming a girl getting beat up. Sick. Shawn, I’m with you. Or I would have told Amanda what he asked me to do.
@@standback5806 Exactly!!! I would've warned her too
I 💯 agree!!! Even though they're not the one's who actually did the killing, they did instigate and now defending him. That neighbor is shady af though, even if he thought sending the Pic was innocent (which he didn't) why wouldn't he go straight to the police once he text him that she'd "pay". That mf'r definitely knew he'd do something to hurt her😡
@@crystallatta8770Exactly. Even if he thought sending the pic was “innocent” (it wasn’t), he STOPPED being an innocent bystander when he was forewarned and told NOBODY!!!
The sisters are only crying for their brother not for the victims. Sad.
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Why do you care? 😂
@@autofocus4556why do you 😂😂 it’s a public comment section 😂
@@smellymellss I don’t that’s why I asked why 🤡
They're a disgusting family
The defense attorney smirking while talking about the victim as if he knew her is beyond disturbing
That 911 operator needs to be fired
I agree. She was annoyed & was probably about to scold her for screaming in her ear when the poor woman was about to be shot & then was shot.
First thing I thought. How tf you acting that way when someone is getting shot to death
It’s unbelievable how many of these people are in this position and behave as if it’s an inconvenience to them to have to deal with such things.
Speaking as someone who has been through a similar experience.
Did she do a “huff” sound like this call was ruining her day …
She had zero concern for women being shot. She better be fired what a disgrace.
Absolutely! I could just see her rolling her eyes at the beginning of the call.
Mike Dickens should be charged too! It was none of his business! Taking the picture and sending it to someone unstable was low down and dirty! 😠
I feel he’s definitely involved in involuntary manslaughter
"Charged" with what actual crime, Perry Mason?
I get that he seems to be culpable - but legally, he’s not. Morally? Yes.
@@-MattMcCauley- Accessory to murder.
For a picture. No way. There are countless murder cases where the person finds out through a friend that their partner is cheating. You cant shoot or jail the messenger
As a woman who narrowly escaped being murdered by my psycho ex husband, this story sickens and angers me. Yet another tragedy of unarmed, defenseless women killed by a monster. Ladies, I beg you, please get a firearm, learn how to properly use it, and stay armed 24/7.
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My dog’s are a big part of my protection.
I agree. As long as you’ve mastered your emotions. Get professional training and take some defense classes
@@Rach-baumdoesn't seem like the husband mastered his emotions
My question is, did you cheat on him for him to try to kill you
It's laughable that so many seem to think she committed adultery. She's with someone new, and so was he. So who cares? What gets me is the slander and character assassination he did to everyone he could talk to about her.
'Dad, she won't stop putting me in jail'. When she literally refused to do so that very day.
Doesn't want her family to get custody. When her family raised a loving person and mother. And, his family raised a murderer. Make it make sense.
It triggers me every time I hear someone call an abuser a “good dad”. Good dads are dads that do not terrorize their wife and children.
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Wife has nothing to do with being a dad
SAME!!! Then how the lawyer said the abuser was trying to SAVE THE MARRIAGE..UMMM NO
@@FatmanNotFatactually it absolutely does. Especially if they’re the mother of your children, you should want to model a healthy relationship for them whether you’re together or not. Ya know, so they don’t grow up thinking abuse is normal and accept the same things they saw their dad doing to their mother.
People really be out here trying to justify some of these cases. Not one reason makes any of this okay.
@@amandapaulsen2096 Any parent who murders the other parent or their own children is a terrible person and parent.
How do you violate a protective order and get probation
Right? And how delusional he and his family are to say that Amanda was giving mixed signals.
Right and he lied to his family saying she was sending me to jail…when in fact just that morning of her death she made the decision to not send his evil arse to jail… because of the children…meanwhile they’ll never see their mother again!
Exactly!
States need to stiffen these laws. Better to act preemptively in court than to allow any person to do the same outside of court; that usually doesn’t end well as we see here.
Unsupervised!
11:06 This is exactly why some states demand an arrest on domestic calls even if the person doesn’t want to lock them up!
Yes! This should be the law in every state.
I thought that was the law in Florida. (From watching Cops.)
Yeah. Laws like this saves lives.
That’s the law in Florida. When the police are called for a domestic violence call, one or both of the parties HAS to be arrested.
@IH8YALLL Correct. The problem was that husband was gone by the time they arrived, he didn't even live there and she refused to press charges. It's sad that women are so scared of their children not having a father that they're blind to the risk they're putting everyone in.
The neighbor will never have peace. He added fuel to the fire. He knew what he was doing. Terrible tragedy!!
Who the f**k says a prayer for someone who killed 2 people in cold blood?
That was nauseating to hear
His family didn't seem bothered one bit.
Christians.
Actually religious people. 🤷🏽♂️
trump supporter
Did I actually hear the dispatcher ask the caller if those noises were gunfire during an emergency call to report an active shooter?
yes,,,you did,,,
Yes because you can’t assume they are gunshots. You have to confirm.
Some of the emergency dispatchers are ridiculous.
The dumbest operators/dispatchers are so freaking insensitive because it's not happening to them. It can't be any worse than this. 😱👺👿😈👹😈👿😱
She didn't press charges
Didnt want him to be away from his kids. Now shes gone
I wouldn't want this monster near my kids. Good father or not.
Yes, he was a "monster" for being upset that his wife was cheating, put him out of his OWN house and had the new guy right there around his kids.
@-MattMcCauley- sometimes you need to move on! Now, the kids have no parent and he is in prison. Was it worth it .....
@@-MattMcCauley-you don't kill someone for that along with her friend. You file for divorce and custody
You don't go around killing people.
Yeah- I mean, to be fair, she just never imagined he'd take it this far. She was a good person, and he was not.
@@-MattMcCauley- didn’t this fool have a gf. Wtf are you talking about
So his response to his wife, who "keeps putting him in jail," is to commit the worst possible crime and then follow it up immediately with another crime to ensure he goes to prison?
She kept him out of jail and that was a huge mistake
What a complete coward.
You're being kind.
Who Lamar or the killer?
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@@mullcrumthesage6303, yes
Lamar was a coward.too in my opinion , way he ran off not try help
The defense was victim shaming no matter why he did it.
Yes!! Two mothers murdered in cold blood by a psychopath and the defense is SMILING and justifying it. Garbage.
Hope the neighbor Mike Dickens has a reality check. Clearly nothing good was coming from that!
Hope he gets sued for everything he has.
@19:16 Lies Mike! The last thing he said in response to YOUR picture being sent, was "She's going to pay".
And they even said a prayer for bud to get home soon. What a sick family🥺
Yeah, absolutely disgusting
His relationship with his sister seemed a little incessant.
No grip on reality, some people. Would they be praying for a different person to get out of jail if they murdered someone they love and then admitted it? Nope.
What a neighbor!!! I hope he thinks about what he did and the responsibility he has in what happened.
Better than state farm
I agree; however, this man would have eventually found out and I doubt him finding out sooner than later would have changed the eventual outcome.
@@ottylorena exactly this. Gossiping is a sin for a reason. Look what it led to. My heart breaks for her, her friends, and her kids.
That neighbour likely would have no remorse, he likely behaves the same otherwise he wouldn't have done such a thing.
@@MarvinetteAndroid83
Found out what tho -- they were separated - the husband was crazy and controlling - maybe he would have snapped eventually but that neighbor made it happen sooner -
James is definitely a narcissist for getting a new girlfriend yet expecting loyalty from his exish-wife and telling his dad that it was all her fault he killed her. He said she won’t let him go but clearly thats not true.
It’s called adultery and they both did it…notice that the cheating boyfriend took off faster than speedy Gonzales!
The neighbor who stalked and reported on Amanda should be tried and then sued by Amanda's family.
My neighbor did this to me with my abusive ex. He knew when I left the house what time I came back, who was over my house, etc, which almost led to my demise. To make it worse, it was a woman with kids herself, and she knew what was going on. Despicable. I hate people.
Me to that's why I stay to myself!!!!
I'm getting my own apartment soon and I'm super nervous of this happening.And i'm finding out where I live running
I’ve had smthg like that too I dk y ppl don’t stay in their lane bc I don’t even pay attention to what anyone is doing!!
You had bad neighbors
Hate your neighbor, but not all people are like that.
LADIES - PUT YOURSELF FIRST. Do NOT feel bad for putting your husband in jail or away from the kids when he is obviously capable of hurting you. SAVE YOURSELVES.
Or vise versa. Always Ladies and never Ladies and Gents protect yourselves and your kids.
Not all men do this.
How about picking better men
@@MarioMartinez-vh4dvmost of you are trash
@@BlackAmericanFlagit’s probably because in this particular story it was a lady who encounter this unfortunate situation. You are right though…all people need to protect themselves.
Why do 9-1-1 operators say Hello when people are screaming and there are gunshots going off ?
Because it is their job to keep the caller on the line. There are times when the caller cannot speak and keeping the line open helps to locate distressed and endangered parties.
@@nataliebussjaeger6488 But do they have to sound so cavalier about it sometimes even sounding annoyed??
That 911 operator was annoying.
@@nataliebussjaeger6488go sit down
Most 911 operators are the most incompetent, of all and any human being. The worst and dumbest ever. 😮😮😮
She didn’t want to take him from their kids for a year , but he took her from their kids forever 😔
Even if he could conceivable justify killing his wife out of emotions, why kill the friend?
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I seen another story on this and it said he blamed her friends for him getting divorced
Single women who are friends of a married woman are always in there ear undermining the marriage
Probably because Lindy was supporting Amanda in her ordeal with her ridiculous, self-entitled, hypocritical monster of a husband. Clearly, in Colley's twisted mind, nobody should have helped, or cared about, Amanda.
He could never be justified, he murdered two innocent women pleading for their lives, like are you mad serious with your statement?
Never comply and get involved with your neighbors!!. This neighbor really had a part in getting the wife killed!!.😮
I just googled and an article from 2018 states that the kids had been in Amanda’s family’s custody since the murders. I hope that continues to be the case!
I hope that’s true hope they stay with her family!
Yea I hope they dads family wont see them till they are adults.
Hearing the jail calls explains why this man took no accountability in his life”. Listening to his sister act as he is the victim and not having any remorse for the lives that were lost .
His family…!!!! My gosh. Absolutely sickening case.
Yes ambien and alcohol is a dangerous mix but to blame this senseless murder on that is ridiculous!
Agree. When Ambien was sort of new, I was prescribed it for insomnia - but I also had an alcohol issue at that point in my life. So I mixed the two, and yeah - I was BLITZED. Really loaded. But to use that as an excuse for what he did is nothing but cowardess. There is no way on earth mixing those two would induce murder. No possible way.
PS..I got help in 2012 and thank God I’ve been clean and sober since. ❤️
This is a horrible case.
I don’t drink but do take prescription sleeping pills most nights. I agree it’s no excuse, not even close.
Yes ambien and alchol is a
Dangerous mix but to blame
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Exactly. And he was the one taking ambien and drinking alcohol. It's not like he was forced to mix the combo. Crazy.
10:56 Where are the kids during all of this?
That entire family MAKES ME SICK
Now this monster is playing the victim. What a weak coward. Bullies like him are always cowards. My condolences to the families of these two beautiful women.
I'm shocked at how calm the friend is as she calls from the neighbors
Omg I was looking for a comment like this. I thought the exact same thing!! Just watching this, I put myself into this scenario and gave myself an anxiety attack so I have zero sense of how and why she was so calm. Especially after witnessing the murders.
She was probably in shock and her brain/body didn’t know how to process what she had just been through/witnessed.
@KassidyKennedy1 your probably right! I just can't imagine going through all that! It's easy to say I'd do this or that but you never know until your in those shoes!
Yes! When I heard her call, I immediately thought about how I’d 100% think she was guilty if we didn’t know who the murderer was. It was a real eye-opener to hear how actual victims sound in traumatic situations.
Funny. Yall females arent bashing the women by running from the crazy man but yall bashed the new boyfriend for doing the same. Females LOVEE blaming men for EVERYTHING 🤮
He is a narcissist, he had a girlfriend, but he didn’t want Amanda to have anyone! 😡
The neighbor should go to prison too! 😡
Nah. Why?
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5my For provoking a crazy person...he knew that would provoke a crazy man going through a divorce..nothing but the devil..
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5mythe neighbor should be sued for wrongful death.
@@Ilene-pz8fp Did the neighbor kill anyone?
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5my the neighbor participated. It referred to as contributory negligence.
"Amazing father"😂😂 How did she say that with a straight face. It's amazing how he murdered their mother.
Omg exactly. An amazing father doesn’t engage in chronic domestic violence against the mother and then murder her and her best friend in cold blood FFS.
After harassing her for months!
@@MsRose00I agree… but STALKING would be a better choice of word to describe his behavior/actions
@@Justice-ef9skstalking IS a form of harassment...DUHHH
How is it considered cheating if they are going through a divorce and going separate ways? You cannot identify it as cheating. It is simply moving on with her life.
The death penalty feels correct in this case. How did he accidentally drive over there, bust in, and shoot and shoot?
the fact everyone trivialized this whole thing all the way up until he literally committed premeditated murder, and some people STILL trivializing all of it afterwards is so telling of the society we live in. i hate humanity so so effing much.
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Seriously, the amount of people justifying this are disturbing tbh
You and your parent are human😔🙏🏻🕊✝️
The way the law is written, we're incapacitated until an actual crime is committed. Have you seen minority report? It's a hard choice but it really is the best.
Ladies, please DO NOT hesitate to have your abuser thrown in jail. Don't save them "because of the kids." If this poor woman had let the deputy arrest him after he broke in and destroyed her home, she would be alive today. These abusers have no thought or care about you, so please protect yourselves and your kids above all else.
Thank you!!!!
Vise versa
You're absolutely right!
I wish I would have heard this advice 14 years ago with my son and my abusive ex. You are so right. Dont worry about the abusers feelings. Ultimately if they cared about there kid they wouldnt be hurting you
If something I've learn from watching crime shows, never be an "all American", never be "the life of the party" and never never "light up the room".
That's just recipe for disaster.
Lol, I felt that at the start of the show! Lol!
Love the neighbor/friend telling the cops how he told him it’s no big deal…so what…let it go. There was ZERO reason to send that photo except to upset him. Real men protect women. Disgusting.
I doubt he told him to "let it go". Those text messages didn't say "let it go". That 💩hole was stirring the pot.
The same person who took the picture and sent it to him SMH
@@user-oy1fj6vq8f Real men protect woman. That part.
Why even include censored material. So frustrating!
His family?? Wow something is wrong with them too! And the neighbor should be held accountable!
She wasn’t cheating if they were separated. The neighbor should be charged with SOMETHING. Disgusting.
Rubbish. Separated isn't divorced. They were both cheating, but no one should die for that.
@@Julie-k3tseparated is divorced however much the court hasn't decided so. You well know that when it's over it's over
The neighbor that sent him the photo = An instigating busybody.
I can't believe he didn't call 911 though. The other friend left and she did but that dude just ran as far as he could
His family doesn’t deserve to raise those two children. Amanda’s family should have them. And the neighbor should also be charged. Him sending that picture started the events.
The neighbor aided in their stalking and is complicent in their deaths. How did he even know the guy mowing wasn't hired from a lawn service?
People are dangerous they dont think
@lizettmclat1903 if the neighbor did it for the "bro code", is he still supporting his "bro, the murderer?"
Lawn service guys dont dress like that and there was no contractor truck/trailer Also, I am sure he saw him in the house and coming and going! ha
@johnsmith-ug5tp lol it could've been a friend or coworker's son or nephew. It could've been a guy cutting grass for a side hustle. U've seriously never seen any guy, ever, cutting grass shirtless? Why would u support actions that led to the murders of 2 women?
@@jikook7457 It’s not really a common site outside of Florida, to see people mowing the lawn shirtless.
You KNOW his family enabled him! His dad was already making excuses for him! SICK family.
Wow. His lawyer and family are disgusting. It was a mistake??!! No it wasn’t.
Domestic violence never gets better; it only gets worse
Right! A mistake is buying decaf coffee, not murdering someone
And…..DV is NEVER an accident 😡 NEVER!!!!
The neighbor that sent the pic to him is a sorry pos for stirring the pot further knowing she was terrified of him!
Now he has to live with THAT and the ENTIRE WORLD knows his name!
This is why you need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS unless someone is in danger. The neighbor needs to face some type of consequences. Why would you do that?
Like what? I female neighbor would have been snapping pics and sending them to her gf is her husband had some woman doing yard work if she was away. I am 99.9% sure you would have too.
@johnsmith-ug5tp
The neighbor aided in the killers stalking...the fact you can't see that IS disturbing
@johnsmith-ug5tp
Man you're a creepy thing 😳
@johnsmith-ug5tp This isn't about women though and all women aren't the same.
Then stop making it about MEN!@@wakeupluv
His family is weird…. Esp the sister🤮 And him wanting them to make sure Amanda’s family didn’t get custody of the kids… AFTER HE BRUTALLY EXECUTED HER?! 🗣️ELECTRIC CHAIR!!!!
Dang! The BF just booked it like he missed the school bus!
Heck yeah he did and I don't blame him! Her ex was there to kill him too!
And he survived without physical injury.
Right?! I wonder if he has survivors guilt? Maybe he thought Colley would only shoot him but it sure makes him look like a coward.
Coward.
@@melindapye7435Makes him look alive. He removed himself from a family situation that was none of his business. She was a booty call and not worth dying over….
I’m so tired of these uncaring 911 operators
I’m sorry, but after you’ve physically separated from a spouse and filed for divorce I don’t think it’s really cheating if you both start dating. And this creep claiming he doesn’t really remember what happened the day of the murders and then asking his sister to sling mud to prevent his in-laws from getting custody of the kids is pathetic. He’s a diabolical, hotheaded narcissist who was consumed with jealousy and rage. And he killed her best friend too! What a monster.
That is what evil👿😈 looks like walking the earth. He murders her innocent friend pleading for her life. Hateful, evil, diabolical monster. What a nightmare.
I agree that’s evil . But I think he suspected she cheated during the marriage . She even said “he’s gonna chop me off if he found out I cheated” or whatever she told them .
The defense trying to use the fact that Amanda was done but JR was still "trying to save the marriage" as an excuse is so appealing!!! Who cares!!! This isn't the old days, we women aren't property, she was well within her rights to want to leave him!
The operators are getting on my nerves.
Same!! They’re saying “He-llo?” like they’re annoyed that the caller isn’t able to give clear concise information while they’re being shot at
Dispatchers are some of the worst ppl ever.
Yeah like it’s not obvious enough that they are in desperate need…..Plus gun shots are going off in the background.
I don't think that the children should be awarded to the murders family. That's victimizing her twice!! They should always be awarded to the victims ' family!!!
absolutely
the neighbor who sent the pictures is prime example of "mind your own business"
also, wild how Lamar just ran like a track star without question😭😭😭
And left the women inside the house!
I feel bad because I could believe that he thought he was the target & separated himself but 😬
@@af4872 What happened to equality of the sexes and feminism? What was he supposed to do? Stay and jump in front of the bullets, so the women wouldn't get hit?
Wild how presumably feminist women expect the guy to remain in the house, and get shot.
The neighbors should be charged with stalker Hes is technically stalking her in behalf of the husband watching her coming and goings and invading her privacy
So the boyfriend Lamar, left out of the house to save himself and then did not call 911? He left the 3 women to get shot to death. What a coward! Why didn’t he go somewhere and call 911? A wonderful father? That’s debatable.