For the girls who spent their youth studying… | lessons I’ve learned

To the studious women..how’s it going?
This is a candid, reflective video discussing how we spent our younger years. Ever wondered if it was all worth it? What if you could go back and give your younger self advice? Well, that’s exactly what we’re talking about today.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Intro
04:35 - reality check
06:35 - learn what you like 👀
08:36 - personal style
10:31 - learn some moves
12:26 - social skills
14:12 - learn your face
16:35 - hard work is good
18:16 - behind the scenes
🌻 But before we get into it, I commend you for your hard work and dedication. 🙌
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[@nnnovembergurlllll]

I hope for your great future
Love you and thank fo this video
This made me feel happy

[@timilehinkolade5088]

Creating a strong academic foundation for yourself is very good and its actually worth all the other things you sacrificed over the years. You can spend the next two or three years exploring, networking and acquiring some of the things you feel you sacrificed while studying hard in the uni. Everyone's journey wont be the same in life.
Also, you may not be the higest earner right now, but the money will come over time as you gain relevant work experience and market your skill to people and companys that matter. (And probably create your own business in the future).
I admire you...
I love your content...
Keep up the good work!

[@TEMSInfluence]

I love this comment. Thank you for watching 🤍

[@TEMSInfluence]

I love this comment. Thank you for watching 🤍

[@timilehinkolade5088]

@@TEMSInfluence Anytime dear

[@neviesx986]

Love this! So relatable

[@TEMSInfluence]

More to come 😊

[@im_just_vidu]

Coming from an Asian household we were told that if we study hard until like 18, we'll be happy for our entire lifetime. And then I got my bachelor degree but that didn't happen. Now as I'm doing my Msc. that still hasn't happened. I'm 25 years old now & my life is still centered around studying & all I do is studying. Needless to say I've never dated before. (I can relate when you said we weren't allowed when we were young but I didn't feel I need that anyway)
And it kinda seems like this cycle will never end. And maybe I've wasted my whole youth studying & I might not know how to fix it anymore. 😂

[@TEMSInfluence]

Girl I am totally with you on that. My parents basically said I’d enjoy my life later💀. Congrats on getting your undergrad and getting on your MSc course 👏🏽. You go girl!
Try your best to figure out the things you enjoy doing and make time for them! Your education is a means to an end and not the end itself! We are technically still in our youth if you look at the grand scheme of things😅 and there’s so much to discover about yourself and life as long as you take the time and effort to put yourself in spaces where you allow yourself to forget about education for a minute and just exist/live. It feels like a lot of effort at first to start (trust me I know it’s comforting to just keep studying and keep being fuelled by the next amazing grade on an assignment), but soon you’ll wonder why you didn’t start the journey earlier 😊

[@victorious.jessy_]

Hi Tems, i’m currently on my Meng year of chemical engineering, i really want to get a first! any tips and advice for me.

[@TEMSInfluence]

Hey! I’d say calculate exactly what you need for a first so you know where you’re at. Then make targets for each module. Pick a topic you’re familiar with for your project if you can!

[@victorious.jessy_]

@@TEMSInfluence Thank you soo much, tbf not sure of my topic yet, is there a way i could reach out to you if that’s okay with you x!

[@TEMSInfluence]

Yes! You can email [e-mail]. Just working on my official contact details at the moment 😊 so it’ll be updated soon!