why i haven't proposed yet...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ธ.ค. 2022
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You live together, have a baby together, do almost everything together. That’s basically marriage already. So just put a ring on it. You can’t wait for the perfect moment.
I mean if the perfect moment is when you’re in a stable situation
They have a kid ?
True
Hahahahhahaha,exactly,she gave him everything, there's nothing left to make him excited for marriage.
NEVER act as a wife if you aren't.
@@halasee4214 This !
Not getting married would be different if it didn't mean so much to Liana. Don't make her go through life without giving her the gift of a husband if that's so important to her. If it's not such a big deal to you, at least respect her feelings. If you want to spend the rest of your life with her, you shouldn't hesitate to take that step! Coming from a place similar to hers, I felt much more secure once I was married.... Maybe you can just opt for a small wedding as a compromise if that's what's bothering you? I really don't think Liana would care either way as long as she can call you her husband!!!
Well you don't need to get married just yet, They both have a life and if connor doesn't want to then just leave it. They are definitely Solemates. It is a huge thing to do for marriage it takes alot of time and effort to do.
@@OMG_MarthaGthey are basically married already. they live together and have a baby, so why not get married?
@@itzmebeIIaExpenses
Liana doesn’t just seem “tired.” She seems very sad and disappointed tbh…maybe I’m just projecting cause that’s exactly how I act when I am disappointed and sad. Regardless- whatever is going on I hope she either gets some well needed rest or figures out a way to get those feelings out. Whichever she needs at the moment
If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think you can create the perfect moment exactly, as long as it feels like the right thing for the both of you then it’ll be perfect. It doesn’t matter the place, the ring, who is there, etc. its just about that feeling you get when the person you want to commit the rest of your life to agrees to do the same. My husband gave me the best ring he could afford (which wasn’t much at the time) and asked me in our car because he was so nervous to do it. He’s asked me multiple times to let him upgrade the ring now and do a do over and I never let him. I love my story and I love who it was with. 🤷🏻♀️😊 when you’re ready Liana will love whatever you do! Don’t put too much pressure on it!
Girl I love your story
@@forit6338thank you!! 😊
Very well said, Taylor! I absolutely agree with you. You might try and do everything in your power to make it perfect, Connor, but in the end, what will make it perfect has nothing to do with the ring or anything else like that. What will make it perfect is the love you both feel for each other. 💚❤️💚
Best explanation❤
This is so heart warming 🥲
You (Connor) need to have this conversation with Liana. She really wants to be your wife. You should be so ecstatic and honored to have the privilege of being her husband. I get that you don't feel ready but talk to Liana so you are both on the same page.
Connor it doesn’t matter about the quality of the wedding it matters about the love that you give eachover
Exactly and I think your way over thinking the ring and stuff liana doesn’t seem very materialistic at all. She’s super chill it seems to be with that stuff. And having a child is wayyyy crazier and more permanent than marriage…better not wait to long or she may bounce…just saying..
Plan a marriage not a wedding. It’s such a tiny small part of the big picture. We had a simple small wedding only spent a couple thousand and it was perfect and beautiful.
If the love is the only important thing and not the wedding, why get married if you've already got the love?
I had my wedding at my house. We decided the materialistic stuff didn’t matter and also weddings cost way too much. We found it was much more meaningful this way.
@@jodia2125 The legal benefits - personally that's the only reason I'm getting married soon. My godmother and godfather are not married and have been together for more than 30 years so I never really saw marriage for anything besides legal benefits
I can honestly say I don’t understand why Connor is not ready for marriage. He is living and making a life with a woman he says he loves. They have a child together. Connor is living in a “marriage” without making it legal. So there is nothing to be afraid of.
Because he is getting everything he wants without the accountability. If I was Liana I'd give him a deadline, then leave if he did not show he was serious about commitment. This relationship is too one sided.
@@charliecharlton9782 and what exactly is accountability here? It’s not like signing a piece of paper is going to change anything. I also don’t get his fear (since he is for all intents and purposes married) but lacking accountability doesn’t make sense. He is married in all ways but one - the paper official one. It’s not like he’s refusing to take care of this woman and their baby. It’s not like he can just up and leave, as long as he doesn’t sign so marriage papers! He’s accountable already. He and Liana are more linked for life than a just married couple could ever be, because no matter what happens they’re in each other’s lives forever through their son. Which is also why I really don’t understand his fear…
@@charliecharlton9782 couldn't agree with you more.
You're right. We call that dragging her
I feel bad for Liana. Connor needs to sort out his insecurities ASAP.
Tip for the nails thing: instead of you telling her to go get her nails done, ask someone that she’s close with to ask her to go get their nails done together. That way it doesn’t come from you, and she gets extra bonding time with someone she loves!
Good idea 👍
Yes!! 😁
Best advice I was given; Don't overthink it. Before my husband and I got married (being only 20 at the time), I had a conversation with my future mother in law about possibly getting married. She said, "Well, can you imagine your life without him?"....and I said "...No"...And the rest is history. 10 years on and I can safely say, theres no one else I'd rather do life with.
Liana deserves someone who is *HELL YES!!* about her and a future with her.
Exactly. He seems very much uninterested in marriage. Yet, he lives with her and had a child with her. Makes a lot of sense….NOT
I don't really understand why men would have a child with their partner but think twice about getting married, not even that, but simply proposing. Like what's their logic?? (Same situation as Liana here! But my baby just turned one and still waiting 😅) Bless them
Im 37 and in all my experience, personally, watching friends, and in subreddits: the reason men act like this is because they have this stupid, selfish "grass might be greener elsewhere" mentality. It's mostly subconscious but at the end of the day, most will admit that they think there MIGHT BE SOMETHING MORE TO EXPERIENCE OUT THERE. And what could there be to experience that they CANT experience with their partner??
SOMEBODY ELSE.
If i could do it all over, I'd have dumped that partner so he could go experience everything he thought he needed, while marrying the good friend who offered when I was 3 months pregnant. Manbabies who procreate during a long-term, committed, live-in relationship but "arent ready for marriage", will always feel (and act) like they 'settled" because they didnt get to bang enough strangers. Like i said, Liana is gorgeous, successful, and she deserves a man who is so infatuated with her that it's a HELL YES rather than a "mmm i dunno, im not readyyyyy".
He literally says he wants to marry her. He is HELL YES!! about her..
@@skarletcharityYOU are so right. His CREEPY I want it to be perfect for her is such a complete Load of Crap. I could shake all the girls that don’t realize they need someone that wants to be with them completely
the beginning just says everything. i guarantee that 8/10 youtubers would have cut that part and made everyone believe it happened naturally, this is why i love Connor and liana just the most authentic youtubers couple out there.
edit: btw everyone what i mean is by in the beginning Connor didn’t cut out the part where he couldn’t work the coffee machine so liana had to do it, whereas most youtubers would have cut that part out and staged it. i know it sounds petty but there’s nothing better than youtubers that are genuine and don’t fake stuff for viewers.
Agreed! ❤
cut what part?
Which part
Which part
The part where Conor can’t work the coffee Machine and liliana has to help him (in the comment or says in the begging)
Your proposal doesn’t have to be anything big and fancy or perfect, it just needs to be heartfelt. It seems like Liana just cares about having a ring on her finger, which symbolizes the forever bond between you two that you seem to already have anyway. Don’t be scared, and don’t overthink it, she will love whatever you decide to do because she loves you!
Yeah but last thing anyone wants is him to be doing it because of outside voices. Has to be what he thought and just wants to THEN .. but all this chatter is not helping either of them
I’ve been in the same position that Liana is in. I was hopelessly in love and raising his children. I feel like I was good enough to make children with, live with, and make a home with, but not good enough to marry. We finally married when our daughter was 10 and our son was 2. He did it because he wanted to keep me since I had lost security and trust in the relationship and was unhappy, resentful and planning on leaving. This was the wrong reason for him to ask and for me to say yes. We stayed together for another 6 years, but it just didn’t work. I should have left when our daughter was little and it was obvious that he didn’t want to get married. It’s not that the piece of paper makes the relationship. It’s just a feeling of security that your partner loves you enough to make that commitment. I was with my ex husband for 18 years and went from being glossy eyed in love to feeling insecure and not good enough. I don’t want that for Liana. And I certainly don’t want that for Connor. All I’m saying is that it messes with a person’s mental health in a situation like this and makes them insecure. This leads to unhappiness and they distance themselves emotionally. I don’t want this for you. I hope the very best for you two. ❤
oh wow this was my thinking exactly! i actually wasn't worried until he explained why he hadn't proposed.
i'd been assuming he had a really good reason + was working toward making a proposal happen. to hear his reason is just that he's content w| his life as-is//"not ready," despite knowing how much Liana wants it, was the first time i was "worried" (? for lack of better words) for them//Liana.
i really don't want to project! it's just that so much of what he said is red flag language. things others have said verbatim in situations in which the man doesn't propose for _years_ or does it out of fear of her leaving + not b|c _he_ truly wants to be married (to that particular person or sometimes at all).
still, i won't project or pretend to know them//their relationship better than they do (or at all for that matter LOL) so i'm trusting they know what's best for them + will do what's best for their family.
ultimately, it's better for Connor to be completely ready + want it for the right reasons than to do it to placate Liana, etc.
as long as they're both happy, continue to be happy, + have a happy healthy relationship - all good.
Thanks for pointing this out!!
It's so important to take that step while you're young, silly, and immune to responsibility. When you GROW with your partner, you grow together... you can never get that time or trust back when the relationships ages and you grow apart.
I'm sorry it didn't work with your love.
I think to often society does a disservice to women by pissing on the ones who want the traditional roles and find fulfillment in them. It's never all roses in marriage but my gosh is it worth it when both spouses have grace for each other.
I know couples who got together when they were 13 and are in their 80s and 90s now and still together and never got married but are the happiest couple i know. Jsut because they dont give you a ring, or sign a paper, doesnt automatically mean they dont love you or arent serious about being together for life.
Amazing words spoken , I've lost 2 husbands one to suicide one to a drunk driver 7 years later, life is unexpected. I would waste your time not being ready what aren't your ready for ? Your already doing it, your all ready married there's just no paperwork. Which again to the MOTHER of YOUR son who LOVES YOU! IS security. what again are you waiting for?
@@jodia2125 you happen to know multiple individuals born in the 1930s and 1940s who have been together their whole lives but never married? The generation notorious for mandatory marriage??? Yeah right mate.
Hearing Connor say this about proposing made my heart break for Liana ..... 🥺💔😔
@@kellyjean3175 He does feel that way. He’ll do it when the time is right, it’s not like he doesn’t want marriage
I did not expect that. As a bystander I was under the impression that the family and foundation started was the ultimate commitment. When all is said and done marriage is less easy for people to walk away from bc it's legally binding. Fiddle farting around making bs excuses for why you don't want to marry this person is manipulation. You're always going to find a reason to hesitate and overthink everything in life at some time or another. You know by now whether this person is who you want to do life with.
Not everyone has the same thoughts as you. Marriage is not the most important things in life
It’s a commitment
It’s not even a big thing - you love her, you already have a child together, you live together, if you get married legally it’s a better protection for both Liana and Koazy and honestly you don’t need perfect ANYTHING…that’s a misconception. The fact that the proposal happens is the perfection of it. Go for it and don’t stress. She and Koazy deserve it. ❤
Edit to add: yes, if they’re legally married it’s a better protection to liana and Koazy if God forbid something should happen to Connor. Liana would have access to all his assets and be able to take care of Koazy the best she can. I think once children enter the picture and you love each other it just seems like the right thing to do.
Agree
That's what i meant.
What do you mean about legally protection
@@forit6338 I think they mean if you marry you can divorce and have to do all the legal stuff to decide how to manage the baby between the two. You can do it even if you're not married but you have a baby together. Hopefully they will never split up, but I think that's the meaning of the commenter saying "legally protection"
If Conner isn’t ready to marry Lianna yet then he isn’t ready just because they have a child and they live together dosnt mean they have to be married.
Liana deserves more.
She could stand on her own 2 feet and make Millions without you.
She gave you a beautiful baby boy and you're too much of a coward to commit to the mother of your child. Shame on you Conner
4 years and you cannot man up to this beautiful woman
He will when the time is right. They’ve been through a lot these past couple months. I’m sure when they’re in a stable lifestyle he will
I was in Lianas position and I can tell you that it hurts. You start to ask yourself what you’re doing wrong. Why you’re not good enough to marry. If you’re a second choice.
Stop leading her on. Either be honest or propose.
He’s not leading her on. Its the comments that are
Liana was so ready to get engaged and I felt so bad for her when it didn't happened I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad but put a ring on her hand and tell her you want to be with her for the rest of your life
Me too. Heartbroken for her! She was so giddy.
imagine he made babies, live together, but was “not” ready for getting married? lol. i just can’t.
@@susanna-It’s cause of these comments constantly pushing this out…
Perfection is the thief of happiness. Sometimes simple is best. Best advise as being married is dont get lost in the details. You wont remember every little thing. But you will remember how it felt and how you feel about each other
You've made the biggest commitment anyone can make.. a baby! So bloody propose to that woman! Trust me she won't care if its perfect she just wants to marry you xoxoxox
Connor, there's no "perfect time" except the perfect time for your heart and mind to just go for it. No matter what you do or how you do it, just going through with it is what matters. Liana will be thrilled no matter what. The right time will simply happen if it's meant to. Honestly, it's not really about the proposal or the wedding, if you want to know the truth. It's about letting your partner know you're in it for the long haul. Ring or no ring, your bond with one another and Koazy says it all.
Beautifully said 💯😊
I agree
One day she’ll be tired of waiting.
Someone else will be more than happy to put a ring on it.
My mom told me that she and my dad talked about getting engaged first, and then they went out to the park for my dad to propose. They both knew what was going on, they just went to the park for fun I guess. If I'm being completely honest, the only thing that makes a proposal perfect is if it's with the person you love. There isn't a rush to get engaged or married, but I think Liana will be plenty happy with it whenever, even if you just go out to the park to propose after talking about going to the park to propose.
My husband and I picked the ring, paid it off and then he took a little while to propose because he was worried it wouldn’t be perfect. I told him that any proposal would be amazing because we would be getting married, let’s just go to the beach tomorrow and if you feel like it, you can ask me. And that’s what we did. 12th Dec we will be 8 years married.
When Liana goes “Hewooooooo!!“ and Koazy starts to do a little baby grin it’s soo adorable
Can't understand why you aren't ready to get married but have a lifetime commitment of a child. Its more security for Liana and the babe. I would be questioning me relationship if my partner of several years, father of my child didn't actually want to commit to me...I was the only thing he wasn't sure of 🤷♀️
You’re not alone, I too feel the same way
PREACH
Exactly 💯
This right here. Like they obviously love each other but 👀 I would fucking leave
Marriage is just a paper saying your in love which is not the same as having a baby
From a girls mindset, it’s definitely has to be hard to hear your partner say they aren’t ready for marriage. (Not that there’s anything wrong with that). When my husband proposed to me, I knew it was happening, WE CAN JUST TELL 😅 but it didn’t make it any less perfect. I’d say to just pick a date that make you comfortable and plan something that feels true to you two ❤
Marriage is making an official declaration of your love and dedication to each other. If you are already living like you're married (sleep in the same bed, live together, have a child together, and always share your life with each other) then making it official is not much different yet it means more. Women like the big declaration of commitment so what are you waiting for? Just something to ponder. You guys are wonderful and ment to be together so imbrace it 😊
I agree with Connor, but it's pretty interesting to see how two people can have a child together (a symbol of commitment and responsibility) only after a few years of knowing each other. However, still take years and years to get married...
A lot of people, myself included, ending up getting married after we had our son. Neither of us wanted any "shotgun wedding" jokes, and we also are not religious so the whole baby before marriage never bothered us.
@@Starbug11 exactly, and it's okay to be unsure and take time, but when a couple has decided to have a baby together, I feel like being still unsure about one's partner is quite surprising.
this is one of the more balanced takes. Personally marriage is scary for me (partially because there is no divorce where I live and I've seen both men and women cheat) so I get not just jumping into marriage - even after kids. shotgun marriages might not work out
@@bluz1864 well in that case, a guy can completely cheat on the girl while she's carrying their child cause ultimately it's the girls who have to go through all. And if the guy can't commit to her then what's the point of going through all the struggles- just adopt a child or go for surrogacy. You body your choice 🌟
I hope Liana starts to feel better soon. I've seen that look in her eyes before on other people and I heard the demons they were battling..I want her to know that she'll make it out of this battle and she will be okay.
Koazys little smile when he saw Liana is the most adorable thing!! ❤
A child is far more of a legal and moral commitment than marriage.. I think you’re in your own head about this one mate. Marriage isn’t religious, it’s defined by the two people involved. Your kiddo deserves for his mama to have the same name ❤
the kid deserves it too. i wanted it so badly i hyphenated my last name to include my momms'.
interestingly, i was treated better once i did. something i did not see coming + wouldn't have guessed would happen.
Ohhhhh this is sooooooo far from the truth.
I'd name him after me until he married me tbh
SPONTANEOUSLY! NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE FILMED ! make it spontaneous...
even if your just watching a movie then you think of it... Do it then or whenever....I promise you
sincerity with all your love & she'll always remember that tender moment
My partner got our daughter a vest saying mummy will you marry daddy... He got up with her on my birthday, got her ready and had put rose petals all round the house and that was how he proposed... It was perfect to me because it incorporated our baby girl♥️
That's so sweet🥺❤
Aww!
That is sweet....but also kinda shitty at the same time. He just used a proposal as your birthday gift. That should not have been YOUR birthday gift....I just think that's a shitty thing to do.
@@cassthompson3386 Jeez maybe he wanted to do it on a date that she'd remember every year for the rest of her life; and I'm sure if he loves her he cherishes that day as well..
I know yall probably aren't going to see this but for others.... Something that helped my now husband (who was feeling exactly how Connor is) was "your already essentially married in your hearts". And for my situation absolutely nothing changed except now I can call him my husband.
I totally get wanting it to be "perfect" but when you know you have found that person all the other stuff just won't matter later on. All that being said don't let anyone push you into being ready to take that step.
Blessings and Merry Christmas all the way from Texas
A marriage is a promise to eachother, to stick with eachother no matter what the world throws at you. Marriage is easier than having kids!
Actually having kids is easier….marriage is a huge undertaking…..
@@kathychase234 must depend on the children's needs. My youngest has special needs so having kids is harder for me than my marriage
Please please please Don’t ever say your not ready! You already made one of the biggest decisions in your life and that was having Koazy. That was one step farther than marriage. You love her and have a child with her so just take a step backwards and put a RING on her finger. 😁 By the way I love watching you both! You both always make me smile. Thanks for that! 🙂
You are right
I get that you want them to be married but let them do it at their own pace. It isn't a need and it'll happen when it's supposed to.
People have unplanned babies... Marriage is not to he same thing and won't end great when it's not their choice EACH of them
@@sabshoneybee Liana wants him to propose 🙄
@@missmaddox Regardless, it’s their relationship and they’ll propose when the time is right.
I don’t get why people like y’all who only see what’s online and don’t know them personally think you have a say in this
Oh Connor, the longer you wait the more pressure you will put on yourself to make it EVEN MORE PERFECT to make up for the time. I don't think that anyone should chase perfection, maybe perhaps it's better to just want to do as good a job you can, and move on?
Connor, love, you have already started your family with Liana. I think Liana needs that permanence. If she wants her nails done beforehand, send her off for a “Mommy spa day”. Send her to get a massage, her nails done, her hair done, and a mani pedi. Tell her how much she deserves it just for being such a wonderful mum to Koazy. Then she’ll be ready for your proposal
You’re valuing waiting for the perfect moment over Liana’s happiness and sense of security.
So you want him to be pressured into proposing when hes not ready and then regret it or feel resentful later on? They have a child and live together. They love eachother. A ring isn't going to change that. You sound like an incredibly selfish person.
@@cattbutt7758 you have it all wrong. If a ring won't change anything then why the reluctance?
@@cattbutt7758 why would he regret marrying the mother of his child who he *says* he wants to spend the rest of his life with? They’ve already did the big thing of having a child, now time to do the symbolic thing that is clearly important to his partner. It just reeks of wanting to keep his options open.
@@cattbutt7758 bless your heart. Yet another example of the downfall of society. Creating another human being together is THE most intimate thing you can do that literally makes you connected to that person for life. Even when that child grows into an adult, there is no more obligatory scenario one person could have to another. That said, he is another example of today’s backward society. They are already bonded for life. They live together. Have a child together. Their “jobs” are making videos together. But he isn’t “ready” to give her the signed piece of paper and his last name? How bizarre.
@@originalcynHe may regret the way he executed the whole thing. He may regret that he didn’t do a better job. Yalls are all accusing him of wanting to be with someone else💀
She is honestly such a perfect human I simply cannot understand why your not ready to lock that down 👁👄👁 but each to their own..
It's not about how you feel or want it to be. It's about how you make her feel. She's good enough to be the mom of your child, but not your wife.
"We have a baby, but I find it strange Liana though I will propose" 🤡🤡🤡 "I thought marriage is only religious???" "I'm not ready, but no perfect moment?"
Lame excuses, that have nothing in common other than him whimpering.
I'm so sorry for Liana she deserves better than that. I think maybe he really is not ready for marriage. He seems to be very childish and insecure. That is such a low excuse, I never was a fan of Connor but that just tops it all. Liana deserves someone who is like HELL Yes we will marry, you guys just wait. Not this damn man child. Cozy is such a darling but I really wished Liana someone who's more mature, brave, smart and completely into her.
Don't date and have children if your goal isn't marriage.
I'd leave his ass and let him only visit on weekends for saying stuff like that. Girl know your worth! ❤️
If you never liked him, why watch this channel then? They’re in their 20s. They’ve been through a lot, have just gotten into a more stable lifestyle recently at least that’s what it seems like. He wants to get married and will when the time is right. She thought he would propose because of all these comments. You guys don’t make things better, in fact, you’re making things worse. I hope he does propose and gets married to Liana, but doesn’t announce it lmao so people like you can look like fools💀💀💀
No one seems to say this in the comments, Connor you have to understand that the longer you put it off she WILL be a little heart broken every time. She will tell you she is fine but it will hurt. Be truthful about how you feel and make sure it is not coming across as rejection to her.
This is such a true comment..i was having full blown panic attacks thinking i wasnt good enough to be chosen and really heartbroken but i hid it out of respect so like..my partner had no idea about the truth until he accidentally saw me and he woke up after that and was like "my fears are getting in the way of what matters"..I cant help but feel for these two here :( its a tough one..
Sorry Connor, I don’t see it. You have a baby, you love her, you only want her… You guys aren’t 18. It doesn’t have to be perfect, she just wants it to happen.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly 21 years. He proposed after 12 years together and 3 children.
He wasn’t ready to ask until then because we were struggling financially and he felt like a failure as a man. We’re not married yet because I’m extremely anxious about a wedding and there’s been stuff crop up where we had to cancel due to various reasons.
However until he proposed I didn’t feel secure in the relationship.
When a man says he’s not ready, it means deep down he isn’t ready to fully commit to that person for life.
You must propose or you’ll risk losing her. Clearly she wants the married lifestyle or she wouldn’t have wanted a baby.
And this is what happens when you do wife duties at girlfriend prices
He has a wonderful woman, he has a beautiful child, they live in a nice house, Liana kinda gave him everything. I get why he doesn’t want marriage, he has it all.
And nothing worse than a man who does not want to make you his wife
I love them as a couple, but Connor not wanting to marry Liana just makes it seem like theres something not quite right
He does want to marry her though?
For over 6 years my ex said he was going to propose. But somewhere special. Then he had an affair while away at work and I was thrown out and lost our home etc before Christmas. So please, make sure she knows she's YOUR forever love xx
Damn. So sorry that happened to you. Hope you're at a better place now.
There will never be a 'perfect' moment to propose. Liana deserves that security of knowing things are solid. Heaven forbid there is a breakup down the road but a legally binding contract (marriage) where a chid is involved is security. Connor is a lovely man and you can see how much he loves his little family. I realize it means a lot to him to do this right. And as he said you don't have to marry right away after putting a ring on it, but it would make Liana so very happy. And I'm a hopeless romantic who wants to see all the smiles, laughter and tears of that moment! 💘
She wants her name to match her little families. ❤
And not much changes when you sign the papers. You’re already closer than a lot of couples.
You, Lianna and Kozey. Those are the three people who matter within that moment - it could be in the comfort of your home, or somewhere incredibly special. When it means a lot to a woman it doesn’t matter how it is done or where it is done - she’ll find it just as special wherever it’s done ❤
The most perfect moment is one out of honesty and true feelings. My husband asked me in my car with a gumball ring with a studdard speech full of truth and emotion. And to this day it's my favorite story to tell. Best of luck Conor and Liana
My husband had the same problem.
He wanted perfect but basically ended up proposing without a ring, over a heated conversation (because both of us got frustrated with all of the delays), and it was very far from the “perfect” moment that he tried to plan for over 6 months.
What I’m trying to say is, in the chase after perfect, we loose good enough.
If you want to propose, do it. She’ll love it either way 😊
On the bright side: our wedding turned out to be nothing less than magical and I wholeheartedly believe that it was because we learned from our mistakes and let go of unrealistic expectations.
We made it about us, and not about meaningless ideals, and it was definitely one of the best days of our lives ❤
This is so ridiculous and I know they literally have a child together but this is such a red flag! The fact that they literally are living together and have a child but he is “not ready for marriage” is such bs. The fact of the matter is he is scared of commitment. Men these days need to step up. If you don’t get married then if you ever want to leave each other it’s way easier than getting a divorce, but you’ve literally built a life together! This is why relationships are so dysfunctional these days, because couples build whole lives together and never get married and as soon as they aren’t in love with their partner as they were at the beginning of their relationship then they break it off. Marriage is life long, it’s a commitment and it’s hard, but it’s the story of 2 people learning to love each other through it all.
I know this comment is going to be way controversial but it’s the truth, and Connor you need a reality check.
No rush for a wedding after a proposal, just enjoy each other. Ring just eases anxiety in the relationship. You love each other sooooo Put a ring on it. 💕
Liana, pleeeeaaase dont waste your beautiful youth with somebody dragging their feet to commit to you!! I did the same thing and it's one of my BIGGEST regrets!
What would you do with your beautiful youth instead? Jw
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You're leading her on just to disappoint her over and over again, Connor. When a man says he doesn't feel ready to get married after being with his gf for years, it's a huge red flag, you obviously think you could still find someone better which, reality check, you won't. She birthed your child, you live together, she basically acts like your wife without a ring on her finger and you're not "ready"?! That's a load of crap, Connor and you know that! Be upfront and honest with her and let her go if you think you could find someone better because you're on some kind of ego trip.
She deserves a man who cannot wait to commit to her and who doesn't delay these things to manipulate her into staying, saying "oh yeah sure I wanna get married... Someday." when in reality he doesn't.
Being in her position is torture, it really is and it will definitely start to attack her feeling of self worth. Don't be cruel to her.
Propose or break up.
She deserves the world with how much she has to put up with! The best parents about 💙
Put up with what?
Yess
@@missydonald6381 connor! But obviously this is a joke lmao
@@urlocalghanaian3738 lol 🤣🤣🤣😂
Ur parents?
My engagement was me in bed with my now fiancé stressing about proposing and finally I said I don’t care about the actually asking I just want to be married to you, he got down on one knee and pulled out the most beautiful ring I’ve ever seen and asked if I’d make him happy for the rest of his life it was sweet and special and totally unexpected:) it doesn’t have to be grand and if your not ready your not ready nothing wrong with that :) ❤ enjoy time with each other you’ll know when your ready!
The way Liana plays with Koazy is so heartwarming❤️❤️
My husband didnt propose to me. We don't have a big fancy proposal story. What happened is that we were chilling together and my birthday was coming up and he asked was there anything particular that I wanted as a gift and I said that anything would be nice. He said "jewellery?" and I laughed and said "what like an engagement ring?" and he said well we could yeah, do you want to be engaged? I said if he is serious then sure we could. We discussed it for a bit and agreed that we would like to be engaged and eventually married. So boom, I spoke to my parents to see if they were against it or anything and then we went out together to find our rings. Two years later we got married and twenty one years later and we are still blissfully happy.
I didnt need a big fancy proposal. The DJ at our engagement party made him get down on one knee for all to see and it felt like the most disingenuous moment ever and I preferred how we did it.
So it's cute if people do a big fancy thing, but it sure as heck doesnt need to be big.
If it means a lot to your partner to be engaged to you and you do know that one day you will marry them, just ask them to marry you and make it known that it will be a long engagement. Just the proposing part seems like it will make Liana happy and so long as it doesnt make you unhappy, just do it.
The only reason not to is if you arent sure you want to marry her.
When you have a child, I think for a mom, the want/need to share the last name as the one's you love most becomes much stronger. Don't wait too long. If you love her, if you know she's the one, it's time. There is no being ready.
Oh, and to make sure she has her nails done on a special occasion, buy her a spa day as a gift. Propose a couple of days later. Good luck to you and your beautiful family.
It sad that he doesn't think he is ready and she chooses to stay and wait for him when its very clear its something she really wants. If you wait for perfection it will never happen because there is no such thing as perfect. Just hope she doesn't get tired of waiting for the "perfect" time.
A xmas eve proposal is super romantic and its Koazys first christmas !! A proposal does not have to be perfect it just needs to be thoughtful.
My parents got married after a few months cause they knew they liked each other and decided that’s what mattered. I’ve never heard anyone say that they were 100% ready. There’s always a little doubt, a little fear, hesitation. You have to move past that and go for it. My parents did everything the non-traditional way and they’ve been married for I think 25 years or something like that. I say go for it cause it’s time. :)
I'll be honest I told my now husband on our first date that marriage had to be on the cards. He ended up proposing a year later it was not very romantic, but he was down on one knee but it didn't matter. I cried my eyes out all that mattered to me was tha I got to spend the rest of my life with him. I told him that I didn't care as the proposal was one moment and I wanted a marriage with him. Been married two years now, with a one year old and a second on the way. It really doesn't need to be perfect. Xxx
The perfect moment is however you want to do it, whenever you want to do it. My husband proposed to me in our living room last november as i was messing with our christmas tree. I get really uncomfortable being the center of attention in public so it was absolutely perfect just being us in our home
You guys are the best, and the most amazing parents. Cant wait to watch! Lots of love X❤️
There is never a perfect or right time to propose. Just do it, if that's what she wants and you truly love her. Love watching you guys, you are amazing parents and a very cute couple
i'm loving vlogmas you guys are amazing parents xx
It's OK to not be ready. As long as your both happy, then that's all that matters 🥰
I so agree if I wasn’t ready I would defo feel pressure so I feel so bad
Amy you're not ready to get married but you're OK having a kid with her? That's not right what you're doing to her.
Then he shouldn't have a kid with her because that's leading her on
@Dee's Corner yeah exactly..
If it means that much to Liana, he'll propose!
I hope he proposes soon
Thank you for doing vlogmas! I am enjoying it so much! Love you guys! ❤️❤️
Love the vlogmas series!
I loved this time with my baby. That time when you've gotten over the shock of being a mother and all it demands of you, you've found that routine, that groove. Feeding times, bed times, going out is a well oiled machine and not terrifying anymore.
You begin to feel you can actually do this!!
loving vlogmas so much
This smile on Koazy face when he saw Liana and Connor was so cute!!
Loving vlogmas guys
Your proposal and your wedding is about you and your partner - not about what is expected by family, society (or followers). You have your family. Essentially, you are a couple. There are so many customs out there - another youtuber just shared that in her culture there is no ring. There is just a conversation and then the wedding and life together forever after. It is what you make it. As far as the nails...Liana, just have your nails done all the time (if that really matters). 💞
This was a fun Vlogmas. Connor, you’ll do it when it feels right. Sounds like you two love each other to the moon and back so don’t worry, no pressure. 🫶🏻🌷😉
Compromise: buy a ring and hold onto it for a day that liana has gotten her nails done just because and THEN ask her😂 she got her nails done cuz that’s something she does on the regular (so she feels good) but it’s also completely organic and spontaneous🥰🥰you can take her shopping after w/a budget and say “pick any ring not above X dollars!” Less stress for you and she gets the exact ring she wants!
Liana you are such an incredible mum! When you were making koasy laugh in the living room, you looked so natural. It was so lovely to watch ❤️❤️💙
Loving vlogmas so far guys❤❤❤❤
Koazy is the cutest most adorable chunky baby boy. ❤️ All the blessings to him
He always makes my heart melt!
i love how cute you guys are. and koazy cuteness overload!
I’m 5 minutes into the video and you guys have already changed my day around!!!!! I went from feeling sad and defeated to feeling happy and bubbly. I can’t thank you enough.
His giggle is so cute!!! Love watching him giggling with Liana 🥰
These videos make my day. Love u guys
Babi is so cute and he is growing so fast like I honestly remember when she was still pregnant.❤ I love you guys so much
I’ve tried to watch other family channels but they just haven’t captured my heart like yours does! You guys are so lovely and genuine. It’s lovely to watch.
The vlogmas into is so cute
Im loving vlogmas you guys are awsome 😀
I love watching you two and baby is adorable 😊 But I do think that the way my husband and I looked at marriage was it was the commitment we made to each other , we didn’t have a big wedding just close family and friends, it was lovely and we went home afterwards lol my advice is as long as you understand that nothing changes once your married your good to go !
Please don’t take offence but if Liana was brave enough to give you Kozy that was her way of showing how committed she is to you ❤
Glad you guys are able to get these tiny getaways as new parents I hope it helps you mentally and physically even if you miss koazy so much 💜 also personally I think a proposal/engagement is about the commitment to a future together rather than the exact moment it happens you know? But can’t wait for the day it happens for you guys!!!
You are literally a married couple!!! You have a baby and living together and sharing everything!!! Just do it 🥶
Thank you so much for doing vlogmas and I can probably say everyone loves it!!!♥️
Hello , love you guys and wish you good health for the holidays and one thing Connor did u realise how liana is cooking so much mom after being a mom so proud of her and how you have help her with everything.
Have fun and have a good day
Hopefully you guys have a great Christmas❤!
I love how you do the editing cam review thingy, it makes me laugh lols
Can't wait to watch it, i love you guys and Koazy so much!
You both are so cute together😍 Love ur videos. When you both are ready it will be the perfect time and it will be a perfect proposal as well.
I vote yes, decorate the outside of your house!!! Seeing how festive Liana is with Christmas, it feels natural to decorate the outside of the house too 🎄🧡🎄🧡