As working mother, I wish to be a stay at home wife! It would be a blessing just to take care of my family without worries for money and payments, in sha'Allah 🤲🏻
I was in the military and often was the only woman in the unit. I never mingled at work. My profession was my profession period!! I was unhappily married then, years later, I left my husband and even then, I never mingled with men at work. It is all about being realistic.
I’ve been married for 20 years to a good man. We have interracial marriage. I’m a Filipina, and he is American. When I was not working to take care of our young kids, then I wanted to work. But when I’m back to work as an educator because our children are in school, then I wanted to be a stay at home wife and a mother. I’m often stressed at work, but I don’t want to bring the stress to home. I’m always looking forward to come home after work.
That's great to hear. You know, it depends on the level of stress tolerance a woman has. Many women work and are also great mothers and wives simultaneously. Some women might want to work out of boredom when the kids are older or when they are influenced by the 'boss babes,' but there are many activities that can alleviate boredom other than work, and a woman can find a sense of purpose in various ways when she has free time. Women who see work as an advantage are often those who have never worked before. Women who work, regardless of the type of work, whether it's babysitting or being an accountant in a law firm, will naturally have different opinions about work, especially if they are being honest.
@@Fuadtalks I completely agree with you! Thank you for the feedback! A working mom and wife should not be a problem in marriage, as long the wife’s first priority is her husband and children. Anyway, you seem to be younger than me, but you have words of wisdom for your age. Have a nice day!
I wish I could stay at home but I don't have a husband. And nowadays every man who hears that i would rather stay at home he thinks that I'm a lazy gold-digger. Can you find me a husband who will let me stay home? I will send you my portfolio 😅.
I think there are platforms that connect men with women's (walis) families. I can't recommend any because I haven't tried them before or know anyone who has. But they exist. If I figure out a solution to this problem, I will definitely present it here. )
my best friend ( arabic palistinian) of 50 yrs and my little "brother " Eyad ok Eyad ( Hospital Director) and Eyad Egyptian wife Heba ok so both are Doctors her a dr for children. She is sooo femenine and gorgeous that me and my bestie Gretta drive to her work and ask ( we are nerds) for Heba. Heba has gorgeous hair all curls and long arabic. we ask the poor girl " can we touch your hair?!". she let us probably thinking old lady dorks but my point is that this marriage with 3 adorable kids is just fine. Im sure men think wow but believe it or not Western men are not the bias interpretations thought of . If the lady has mental health issues or well no confidence in any culture trouble is going to knock at the door. We women are feminine ( Im blonde but no arabic lady long hair lol lol) , confidence, strong, and love our men only our men ( I waz engaged to a Jordanian until my own family commitments mess life up ) but we are more lioness than the lions think!🎉
Well. maybe these changes happened because the marriage was not good to begin with. In any situation the person had problems to begin with ..the flirt man was a Jerk to begin with a smarty pants. This can happen in any situation the mailman or food store can be full of flirty jerks. I am around alot of arab women years and years and there has never been 1 problems with my muslim lady friends, no they do not loose their feminine side AT all /major disagree sorry. My friends have both work as doctors and are devout muslims , or lawyers or my personal doctor is persian and his wife is italian, both are doctors/all are fine all balance work and children and all the women have the sense of not flirting with other men and the ladies some covered some not are gorgeous very feminine. You can be anyone in any culture and have no common sense and go for the office flirt or misinformation buttttttt this is that you perhaps had mental health or loneliness of unhappy marriage to begin with. Heck yes its nice to not work and my dream would be to take care of my arab husband love him and nourishing his all needs but I gotta work here all by myself but Im an educated enough girl to read the players and smart enough in my religion and devotion to God :yes I get lonely and sad I deal with horrible every day with refugees in my works :but I have never seen in my 57 years a woman not being feminine especially arabic and work life balance in fact Im asking for advice on hair, makeup etc they are so gorgeous. We women have more confidence than men think.
or maybe her husband was not bad, but she listened to the advice of a feminist who has a problem with men or with Arabs and Muslims, Or she felt that she now had a better chance of getting higher-level men than her husband.. and this is what made her destroy her home and her life. Married life is not always rosy. It is normal for problems to occur in every home. We are humans, not robots... There is a big difference between a man who abuses his wife, and normal problems that occur between a couple.
Do you know acting? There are people who act among their colleagues at work, and also caring about hair and makeup does not mean that it is feminine. Every human being acts with people who are strangers to them. It is very normal for me to have a friend who acts. He is a man in the true sense of the word, but in secret he is less than a man. Therefore, Fuad’s words are correct. Mixed work may affect a woman in her relationship with her husband, or she may gain masculine characteristics due to the intensity of the work. Regarding women being more confident than men, this is not true. Women have a lot of insecurity in themselves like men, but it differs due to gender.
Wow, Fuad. I don't know how old you are, but you are very wise.
As working mother, I wish to be a stay at home wife! It would be a blessing just to take care of my family without worries for money and payments, in sha'Allah 🤲🏻
I was in the military and often was the only woman in the unit. I never mingled at work. My profession was my profession period!! I was unhappily married then, years later, I left my husband and even then, I never mingled with men at work. It is all about being realistic.
I’ve been married for 20 years to a good man. We have interracial marriage. I’m a Filipina, and he is American. When I was not working to take care of our young kids, then I wanted to work. But when I’m back to work as an educator because our children are in school, then I wanted to be a stay at home wife and a mother. I’m often stressed at work, but I don’t want to bring the stress to home. I’m always looking forward to come home after work.
That's great to hear. You know, it depends on the level of stress tolerance a woman has.
Many women work and are also great mothers and wives simultaneously.
Some women might want to work out of boredom when the kids are older or when they are influenced by the 'boss babes,' but there are many activities that can alleviate boredom other than work, and a woman can find a sense of purpose in various ways when she has free time.
Women who see work as an advantage are often those who have never worked before.
Women who work, regardless of the type of work, whether it's babysitting or being an accountant in a law firm, will naturally have different opinions about work, especially if they are being honest.
@@Fuadtalks I completely agree with you! Thank you for the feedback! A working mom and wife should not be a problem in marriage, as long the wife’s first priority is her husband and children. Anyway, you seem to be younger than me, but you have words of wisdom for your age. Have a nice day!
I wish I could stay at home but I don't have a husband. And nowadays every man who hears that i would rather stay at home he thinks that I'm a lazy gold-digger. Can you find me a husband who will let me stay home? I will send you my portfolio 😅.
I think there are platforms that connect men with women's (walis) families. I can't recommend any because I haven't tried them before or know anyone who has. But they exist. If I figure out a solution to this problem, I will definitely present it here. )
No ..on online apps guys only look for quick free sex or they want dirty chats and nude Picts.
my best friend ( arabic palistinian) of 50 yrs and my little "brother " Eyad ok Eyad ( Hospital Director) and Eyad Egyptian wife Heba ok so both are Doctors her a dr for children. She is sooo femenine and gorgeous that me and my bestie Gretta drive to her work and ask ( we are nerds) for Heba. Heba has gorgeous hair all curls and long arabic. we ask the poor girl " can we touch your hair?!". she let us probably thinking old lady dorks but my point is that this marriage with 3 adorable kids is just fine. Im sure men think wow but believe it or not Western men are not the bias interpretations thought of . If the lady has mental health issues or well no confidence in any culture trouble is going to knock at the door. We women are feminine ( Im blonde but no arabic lady long hair lol lol) , confidence, strong, and love our men only our men ( I waz engaged to a Jordanian until my own family commitments mess life up ) but we are more lioness than the lions think!🎉
Thanks Diane for sharing
@@Fuadtalks Always F.
Hi, I think a lot of men want children but I don't think I’ll want this. Do you think it will be a problem?
Why don't you want children?
I just never desired that. I understand others do but personally i dont
@@Fuadtalks I just never wished I had them and i dont think it will change.
@@Anoek66 My wife says she never wanted kids until she met me, then loved me and wanted children badly.
Well. maybe these changes happened because the marriage was not good to begin with. In any situation the person had problems to begin with ..the flirt man was a Jerk to begin with a smarty pants. This can happen in any situation the mailman or food store can be full of flirty jerks. I am around alot of arab
women years and years and there has never been 1 problems with my muslim lady friends, no they do not loose their feminine side AT all /major disagree sorry. My friends have both work as doctors and are devout muslims , or lawyers or my personal doctor is persian and his wife is italian, both are doctors/all are fine all balance work and children and all the women have the sense of not flirting with other men and the ladies some covered some not are gorgeous very feminine. You can be anyone in any culture and have no common sense and go for the office flirt or misinformation buttttttt this is that you perhaps had mental health or loneliness of unhappy marriage to begin with. Heck yes its nice to not work and my dream would be to take care of my arab husband love him and nourishing his all needs but I gotta work here all by myself but Im an educated enough girl to read the players and smart enough in my religion and devotion to God :yes I get lonely and sad I deal with horrible every day with refugees in my works :but I have never seen in my 57 years a woman not being feminine especially arabic and work life balance in fact Im asking for advice on hair, makeup etc they are so gorgeous. We women have more confidence than men think.
or maybe her husband was not bad, but she listened to the advice of a feminist who has a problem with men or with Arabs and Muslims, Or she felt that she now had a better chance of getting higher-level men than her husband.. and this is what made her destroy her home and her life. Married life is not always rosy. It is normal for problems to occur in every home. We are humans, not robots... There is a big difference between a man who abuses his wife, and normal problems that occur between a couple.
I absolutely love your response! Im also learning to be a feminine woman. I grew up with a dad. So i operate in my masculine energy most times.
Do you know acting? There are people who act among their colleagues at work, and also caring about hair and makeup does not mean that it is feminine. Every human being acts with people who are strangers to them. It is very normal for me to have a friend who acts. He is a man in the true sense of the word, but in secret he is less than a man. Therefore, Fuad’s words are correct. Mixed work may affect a woman in her relationship with her husband, or she may gain masculine characteristics due to the intensity of the work. Regarding women being more confident than men, this is not true. Women have a lot of insecurity in themselves like men, but it differs due to gender.