growing up in our household our dad always took the biggest pieces and the best parts (our mum doesn't give him those, he just takes them for himself) and sometimes when food is scarce, he gets to eat the most because he's "the provider". my siblings and i wanted to taste the good parts too so whenever we got a chance to eat outside our home-like in gatherings or parties-we ate like our dad. we would always try to take the biggest pieces and the best parts, which gained us a reputation of being greedy and ill-mannered. we never thought there were dads who would rather go hungry than let their wife and children go hungry until we met some of our friends' dads. and now with these videos, it's nice to know there are more good men, who may become generous self-sacrificing loving dads.
I’m really sorry for you😢 If I were them, I'd have said you were greedy and ill-mannered too. But now that I understand where your attitude comes from, I feel sorry for you. ❤❤❤
Right?! Him trying to make excuses. Oh I’m fat and this is the exact amount I need. I like this one better. I’m not even that hungry. Too sweet and it didn’t seem like he actually knew he was being filmed.
My parents would rather be starve than watch their kids go hungry. The steak and salad situation really happened a long time ago in my family. I'm just so grateful that now we can eat whatever we want, whenever we want and anywhere we want. I hope God bless you guys with abundance ✨
I cant imagine boys not being like this. All four boys in my family would do this including my stepdad and this video makes me tear up thinking about it 😢❤
Literally happened to me last night. Made BWW style garlic parmesan wings and ghetto pommes aligot, and didn't realize there wasn't enough, so I made myself some (actually super delicious) hot links and the last 3 chicken nuggets, and he reached over and split our meals evenly and I feel blessed
When we had little my ex husband and I made sure kids ate first, and my ex husband next. I would tell him I had eaten earlier. I would never let him or the kids know. It was my choice. It was only on rare occasions, because he did his best, and worked hard.
My mama did this we had as much cinnamon sugar toast Das would have a few pieces or gp to gas station and my mom would say we go first. I do this now people animals before me though sometimes I've to learn when draw line
I did this once my sarcastic son came by put his food on my plate n my daughters then our youngest said we can always eat something else mom my husband said no hold up we all split equally between the 5 of us .... then my son realized what I was doing gave me a seriously mom look grabbed his food n said wth mom lol 😂
I always try to give my husband the lion share because he's the one working. But there has been more times then I can count he'll ask me to get him a refill of drink or I wait for me to have to grab something and when I return half of his food is on my plate. I look at him and try to protest but he just goes back to eating and completely ignores my protests. We both grew up poor and were homeless as kids so food for us is something that means so much more then just a meal. Until you're in literal hunger pains after not eating for a week you treasure everytime you take a mouthful of anything.
OMG....I just fell in love with these guys. ❤Of course, the last guy didn't really get it but, in all fairness, she did sound totally convincing when she said it was fine. 😊
I don't understand it either... switching plates will still make one eat less than the other. I would make sure both plates had the same ammount of food.
My fiancé has me figured out. I’m a notorious food waster and he usually has to finish my food. If I did this, he’d he shook that I for once wasn’t “trying to fatten him up” by eating half my food and triggering his childhood trauma of being told to clean his plate bc “there’s starving kids in Africa/ foods not free”. 😂
I expect my husband to be like this. Because we are two healthy adults in a healthy relationship. If I say the small portion is a enough for me, he can count on that being the truth. I know this is meant as a fun video, but you can't blame a man for trusting his woman telling the truth. I'd feel bad for both the woman and the man if she doesn't just tell him what she wants and needs. Good men don't want us women to lie or to not take good care of ourselves.
Such great and sweet men. The women can be proud and they are keepers. They were raised right. I will always make sure my husband and kids have more food than me and i will take what is left. My husband always want me to eat more too and will share his food with me. Love this videos
I went out to eat with my man and we ordered. His plate ended up being super big, and mine was TINY. We looked ridiculous like he was mad cheap or something. It was EMBARRASSING 😭🤣
Ever since I was a kid to now (and I am most definitely a grown woman), my dad has not only given food to me or my mom, but he will have like the best steak, cut off the best piece of it, and offer it up without being asked. Its awful how gracious he is with food. I hate to take any of it, because he does it so much, and I want him to just enjoy his food and not offer sometimes, but I guess it's part of his love language.
Me too. When the rices not enough, but my dad and mom wants to eat fried rice which they not planned before. I cooked for my parents and I don't eat anything as there's not enough rice. My father asked: "Is the rice enough for you too?" I lied and said: "Yeah, of course" Because he never checked whether I lied or not, I made sure my dad and mom eats enough to filled their stomach I remember doing this to my own parents. And, I don't regret doing it. As long as I can sow the seed of sacrifice, i know one day I will have a good family that wants my good for my life too. 😇
In Ghana, this is how it really is normally. I'm an American missionary married to my beautiful Christian wife from Ghana, by God's grace and living here almost 3 years, the men always get more food, and it always makes me feel bad when she has less, so I try to get her to eat more usually lol.
Did this a month before seeing this trend..me and my girl were at work..yes we work together. She bought left overs for lunch. After heating both up she accidently dropped hers on the floor. I gave her mine. Walked out to throw the the onfloorvfood away,came back in and she was crying..but a happy loving cry. ❤ i love that girl.
Whenever I go out with my partner she isn't allowed to order the same meal as me. When the food I chose which one I want and she gets the other meal. It works out well.
Most women have zero idea how concerned they made this men. So much concern it starts becoming anger, an urge to protect and correct somethat isn't right. Need proof? Watch each man and see if you cant see his body language yell "Are you fucking kidding me?"
And women say men have it easier. We were raised, programed to be protectors and providers. We put our loved ones first always. No one should be surprised with these outcomes.
I doubt anyone would notice or care if I ever tried this. That is how I basically eat, it’s the correct serving size for me. I have always served be according to NEEDS. A man’s caloric needs are simply higher, especially if he’s active AND the provider. 🤷🏽♀️ I’d be touched if he cared enough to notice, but likely upset if he STILL insisted on eating so little out of guilt when he’s the one that needs it… I’m just wired that way I guess.
When I got married I gained 20kg. I decided to diet but my husband always bought me food when he came home from work. He said that now I am much better he tried to thwart my plan.
The idea is cute on the surface, but if you're in a relationship where someone can say 'we didn't have enough', you're not doing enough. It's not even about having money, but being properly aware of what's going on in your house and with your partner.
All these skits , the people behind it are clowns ….3,000$ apartments/Houses and don’t have enough . Come at me when I’m 2 days away from payday and no TP😅
I doubt anyone would notice or care if I ever tried this. That is how I basically eat, it’s the correct serving size for me. I serve according to NEEDS. A man’s caloric needs are simply higher, especially if he’s active AND the provider. 🤷🏽♀️ I’d be touched if he cared enough to notice, but likely upset if he STILL insisted on eating so little out of guilt when he’s the one that needs it… I’m just wired that way I guess. I care about the health of those in my circle!
Hahaha my guy was never like this he would never share his food with me, he would go out of his way to get things I was allergic to so he wouldn't have to share his food with me. I'm glad he is my ex thank you Jesus for getting this selfish prick out of my life. My life was about him and he always came first above every one in my life, but in his life it was all about him. When I was with him I lost 50lbs there were days I went without eating and he didn't care. It was literally killing me being with this guy and he never cared about me not once.
I don't know.. I have like this father energy.. I am the guy that will give whole my plate to them.. I am that much selfless.. Not exaggerating.. Just saying what I feel..
I have now seen several of your different replies, all of them referring to and shaming people for just eating. Do you have some kind of eating disorder that this is triggering for you? Also, you are seriously trying to control peoples eating habits on the internet? You should probably talk to your therapist about why you feel the need to do that.
growing up in our household our dad always took the biggest pieces and the best parts (our mum doesn't give him those, he just takes them for himself) and sometimes when food is scarce, he gets to eat the most because he's "the provider". my siblings and i wanted to taste the good parts too so whenever we got a chance to eat outside our home-like in gatherings or parties-we ate like our dad. we would always try to take the biggest pieces and the best parts, which gained us a reputation of being greedy and ill-mannered. we never thought there were dads who would rather go hungry than let their wife and children go hungry until we met some of our friends' dads. and now with these videos, it's nice to know there are more good men, who may become generous self-sacrificing loving dads.
I grew up like that, too. My dad always got the biggest and best parts.
I’m really sorry for you😢 If I were them, I'd have said you were greedy and ill-mannered too. But now that I understand where your attitude comes from, I feel sorry for you. ❤❤❤
Grew up like this in South Africa. So sad
Boomers were always the most selfish of men. I swear
I am so sorry, its not your fault.
Aww first guy soooo sweet
Right?! Him trying to make excuses. Oh I’m fat and this is the exact amount I need. I like this one better. I’m not even that hungry. Too sweet and it didn’t seem like he actually knew he was being filmed.
He is A KEEPER ❤❤❤
I literally started crying . So sweet
This honestly made me cry. These are some good men right here especially the first one
made me also cry bc they are such sweethearts.
These guys were raised right, except the last one. 😂
1. The fact that they NOTICED.
2. They actually ASKED about it.
Wow that first guy really loves her. It was so sweet to see.
Then he coughs on the food😂😂😂
Im a father. Always fed my babies first. I always served myself last. On top of that, always do the dishes too.
The first guy is a gentleman.
They don't even have cutlery....
@@reydez84 ever heard of eating with your hands dumbass
38 year old man, and I cried watching these
Same over here 😢
These guys are so sweet. That's what love and human compassion looks and sounds like. Heartwarming❤
That’s awesome how all the men in this video are being kind to the women in their lives
Women do this every day
Not the last one
My parents would rather be starve than watch their kids go hungry. The steak and salad situation really happened a long time ago in my family. I'm just so grateful that now we can eat whatever we want, whenever we want and anywhere we want. I hope God bless you guys with abundance ✨
I cant imagine boys not being like this. All four boys in my family would do this including my stepdad and this video makes me tear up thinking about it 😢❤
Literally happened to me last night. Made BWW style garlic parmesan wings and ghetto pommes aligot, and didn't realize there wasn't enough, so I made myself some (actually super delicious) hot links and the last 3 chicken nuggets, and he reached over and split our meals evenly and I feel blessed
Why Am I literally crying over some of these men…. I miss my man , he passed three years ago 😢
Aooo, sorry for that, may his soul rest in eternal peace.
Bro, those are some good guys. Almost made me cry. The ending was hilarious!🤣✌🏽❤️
My eyes are literally welling up as I watch how good and loving these men are (except the last one 🙄) 🥰
When we had little my ex husband and I made sure kids ate first, and my ex husband next. I would tell him I had eaten earlier. I would never let him or the kids know. It was my choice. It was only on rare occasions, because he did his best, and worked hard.
Same. Even when it was out of necessity, I wouldn’t guilt anyone by letting on! I NEED to make sure I’m caring for those I love!
My mama did this we had as much cinnamon sugar toast Das would have a few pieces or gp to gas station and my mom would say we go first. I do this now people animals before me though sometimes I've to learn when draw line
My man is this kind, he gets upset when I eat just a little😂
I did this once my sarcastic son came by put his food on my plate n my daughters then our youngest said we can always eat something else mom my husband said no hold up we all split equally between the 5 of us .... then my son realized what I was doing gave me a seriously mom look grabbed his food n said wth mom lol 😂
So sweet to see the good men on here who cared so much…heroes
Lol this a gem. I watched my husband deny food as myself to feed someone else i loved besides ourselves. ❤
I always try to give my husband the lion share because he's the one working.
But there has been more times then I can count he'll ask me to get him a refill of drink or I wait for me to have to grab something and when I return half of his food is on my plate.
I look at him and try to protest but he just goes back to eating and completely ignores my protests.
We both grew up poor and were homeless as kids so food for us is something that means so much more then just a meal. Until you're in literal hunger pains after not eating for a week you treasure everytime you take a mouthful of anything.
Watching this made me hope that my son is a good man like most of these men. Thank you to the women who raised these men.
*Women can't raise good men. You should be thanking the good MEN who raised them. Silly comment*
A King always looks after his Queen…without question ( Raised right ) ❤❤❤
the last one no concern😂
4:09 😢 aww that's a sweet video
OMG....I just fell in love with these guys. ❤Of course, the last guy didn't really get it but, in all fairness, she did sound totally convincing when she said it was fine. 😊
What I don't understand is why they just keep switching plates instead of scraping more food onto the other
Who's on first type shit
Because they're stupid.
I don't understand it either... switching plates will still make one eat less than the other. I would make sure both plates had the same ammount of food.
I think it's fake.
These men... I'm impressed. real human, compassion, empathy, sacrificing their meals.. I miss that so much.
My fiancé has me figured out. I’m a notorious food waster and he usually has to finish my food. If I did this, he’d he shook that I for once wasn’t “trying to fatten him up” by eating half my food and triggering his childhood trauma of being told to clean his plate bc “there’s starving kids in Africa/ foods not free”. 😂
I felt so bad for the last girl😢
I’m speechless 😶
In all this I laughed at the end of the video 😂😂😂😂
I expect my husband to be like this. Because we are two healthy adults in a healthy relationship. If I say the small portion is a enough for me, he can count on that being the truth. I know this is meant as a fun video, but you can't blame a man for trusting his woman telling the truth. I'd feel bad for both the woman and the man if she doesn't just tell him what she wants and needs. Good men don't want us women to lie or to not take good care of ourselves.
I mean she said she wasn't that hungry but still. That one wasn't that bad though
I don't, he tried and she said shes not that hungry, now if she said there wasnt enough that'd be a different story. closed mouths dont get fed😂
Such great and sweet men. The women can be proud and they are keepers. They were raised right. I will always make sure my husband and kids have more food than me and i will take what is left. My husband always want me to eat more too and will share his food with me. Love this videos
Oh I remember my mom she always make sure we eat and get full first if there's something left in our plate that's what she going to take to eat.
All of these are skits 😂😂😂😂
The first guy omg awww 🥰 ❤❤❤
When he pushed his food to her and took her salad 😮💨😮💨🥺🥺🥺🥺 all the green flag energy
I went out to eat with my man and we ordered. His plate ended up being super big, and mine was TINY. We looked ridiculous like he was mad cheap or something. It was EMBARRASSING 😭🤣
0:53 I want a husband like him
Almost teared up with the first guy 😢
Last one is just rocked😂❤❤😂😂ok and started to eat❤❤❤😂😂😂
Yoooh the last one he doesn't care!
That dude even took her soda. Wow
Ever since I was a kid to now (and I am most definitely a grown woman), my dad has not only given food to me or my mom, but he will have like the best steak, cut off the best piece of it, and offer it up without being asked. Its awful how gracious he is with food. I hate to take any of it, because he does it so much, and I want him to just enjoy his food and not offer sometimes, but I guess it's part of his love language.
To be fair to the last guy, I think he really did think she wasn't hungry. Once he saw that she was only saying that, he was willing to give more.
Me too. When the rices not enough, but my dad and mom wants to eat fried rice which they not planned before.
I cooked for my parents and I don't eat anything as there's not enough rice.
My father asked: "Is the rice enough for you too?"
I lied and said: "Yeah, of course" Because he never checked whether I lied or not, I made sure my dad and mom eats enough to filled their stomach
I remember doing this to my own parents. And, I don't regret doing it. As long as I can sow the seed of sacrifice, i know one day I will have a good family that wants my good for my life too. 😇
Lol my husband would say well let's go get something to eat lol
Awwwwww the first one is definitely my man reaction
When my fiance sees my serving myself way less, he just split it in 50/50 when I leave for a short time. No discussion needed😂
I like the social competence ❤❤❤
In Ghana, this is how it really is normally. I'm an American missionary married to my beautiful Christian wife from Ghana, by God's grace and living here almost 3 years, the men always get more food, and it always makes me feel bad when she has less, so I try to get her to eat more usually lol.
Did this a month before seeing this trend..me and my girl were at work..yes we work together. She bought left overs for lunch. After heating both up she accidently dropped hers on the floor. I gave her mine. Walked out to throw the the onfloorvfood away,came back in and she was crying..but a happy loving cry. ❤ i love that girl.
If had done this with my husband, he would have transferred everything to one plate and insisted we share 😂.
Andy & Michelle are so cute 😂❤
"A little bit" was actually the *right* amount!
The guy at 3:22 was pissed...lol
all of them staged, like they cant see the phone recording😂😂😂
5:50 was so sweet🥹
Last guy believed her.. Fishing for that foolish behavior.
Guy that loves potatoes was " fukin" sweet.
❤😢These men was raised right 😊
The majority of those guy exceptional men 👏
Whenever I go out with my partner she isn't allowed to order the same meal as me. When the food I chose which one I want and she gets the other meal. It works out well.
THOSE ARE REAL MEN , KNOW THAT
The last 1 I’m sure they broke up 😂😂😂
What’s with all the drama 😂
My man will immediately split his food even if i didn’t ask for it.
When we were kids my father always eats last, so that we all can eat well and full.
These men are awesome❤❤❤
JOEY DOESN’T SHARE FOOD!!!
Any other ladies grow up with an ed and food insecure?? I'm crying - I love how amazing these men are 😢
Lol guy took the last girl for her word
7:13 I wish he was a little nicer
Most women have zero idea how concerned they made this men.
So much concern it starts becoming anger, an urge to protect and correct somethat isn't right.
Need proof? Watch each man and see if you cant see his body language yell "Are you fucking kidding me?"
And women say men have it easier. We were raised, programed to be protectors and providers. We put our loved ones first always. No one should be surprised with these outcomes.
I doubt anyone would notice or care if I ever tried this. That is how I basically eat, it’s the correct serving size for me.
I have always served be according to NEEDS. A man’s caloric needs are simply higher, especially if he’s active AND the provider. 🤷🏽♀️
I’d be touched if he cared enough to notice, but likely upset if he STILL insisted on eating so little out of guilt when he’s the one that needs it… I’m just wired that way I guess.
When I got married I gained 20kg. I decided to diet but my husband always bought me food when he came home from work. He said that now I am much better he tried to thwart my plan.
Why are they not tagged??
I loved the first one
if it was the man in this situation, he would get shamed on for being broke
The idea is cute on the surface, but if you're in a relationship where someone can say 'we didn't have enough', you're not doing enough. It's not even about having money, but being properly aware of what's going on in your house and with your partner.
I REALLY LOVE THESE BOYFRIEND'S❤ THANKS FOR SHOWING WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT🥰 LOVING YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S, THANKS A LOT❤️
All these skits , the people behind it are clowns ….3,000$ apartments/Houses and don’t have enough . Come at me when I’m 2 days away from payday and no TP😅
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To the girl in the last video, run fast he's not for you at all.
*''ITS A TRAP!!*
I get just fries cause then i can eat more fries! Lol
Apart from the video.. We the men are created to feed our families 💓✊
Honestly, I will not give the whole plate,but I share halve halve,but my wife will only take so much.
My dad also got the biggest pieces but he always saved them for me ❤
Growing up, my step-dad did the same.
In the last one she said she wasn't hungry while all of the other videos they said they didn't have enough food left 🤔
8:06 bro what did you think
It’s fine means there’s a problem lol
I doubt anyone would notice or care if I ever tried this. That is how I basically eat, it’s the correct serving size for me.
I serve according to NEEDS. A man’s caloric needs are simply higher, especially if he’s active AND the provider. 🤷🏽♀️
I’d be touched if he cared enough to notice, but likely upset if he STILL insisted on eating so little out of guilt when he’s the one that needs it… I’m just wired that way I guess.
I care about the health of those in my circle!
You better care about your health too.
last clip was the only one not staged xD
Why don't they share the plates instead of switching the plates?
Hahaha my guy was never like this he would never share his food with me, he would go out of his way to get things I was allergic to so he wouldn't have to share his food with me. I'm glad he is my ex thank you Jesus for getting this selfish prick out of my life. My life was about him and he always came first above every one in my life, but in his life it was all about him. When I was with him I lost 50lbs there were days I went without eating and he didn't care. It was literally killing me being with this guy and he never cared about me not once.
Last one full of shii😂😂
Why switch plates, just make it even. Does people not think?
I don't know.. I have like this father energy.. I am the guy that will give whole my plate to them.. I am that much selfless.. Not exaggerating.. Just saying what I feel..
Truthfully, in these videos all I see is people normalizing using serving trays as dinner plates and calling an actual serving size “a tiny bit”.
I have now seen several of your different replies, all of them referring to and shaming people for just eating. Do you have some kind of eating disorder that this is triggering for you? Also, you are seriously trying to control peoples eating habits on the internet? You should probably talk to your therapist about why you feel the need to do that.