I think confidence is not something superficial or artificial. It has some solid foundation. For example, if someone has to speak about something before a group of people, They should have sufficient knowledge and experience of that matter. Otherwise there will be either no confidence or fake confidence. And with a fake confidence, a person rather looks foolish. In day-to-day life, confidence increases when your exposure to life increases. when you practically experience something, imagination goes and real knowledge comes. and this real knowledge makes you confident. If talking about confidence in children, if they are academically strong, then they are naturally confident. And if they have travelled more than other children, then they are more confident naturally. Because with travelling they learn what the real word is. So practical experience and exposure is key to confidence.
Exactly, Confidence is built through reading, research, analysis, skepticism, an eagerness to learn and grow. Knowing that I am not completely knowledgeable in this field and need more hard work and when one is still in that process one stays calm and quiet, like a butterfly in its cocoon. Confidence comes with time and experience, indeed! Thank YOU so much for your valuable input. Through your comments you add value to my work and to my own thinking process. Stay blessed and keep smiling! 🥰🥰🥰
😃 Thank YOU, I guess it comes naturally when you have an exposure of multiple languages. But I am sure I will have to listen to this phrase "bus urdu bolain" forever. ☺
Yes, better late than never. It's never too late. The word you used "self-awareness" that is very powerful factor to clear our perspective and always make us do the right thing.
Please discuss these points in your video: -What should be kept in mind while choosing a spouse -Tips for a healthy married life -Pregnancy for a newly wed couple
Very True Syed Hassan, a true confidence is knowing yourself, and keep on evaluating yourself till death. Knowing our weaknesses and our strengths makes us aware and confident.
10000000% agree with u kids r learning about brands,class difference or new trends along with the studies now a days at school.especially how to bully people , how to bully domestic staff or relatives.Getting outspoken These r the cool things 🤘and this is the CONFIDENCE I totally agree with ur each n every word because I faced the same negative attitude of ppl when I was homeschooling my kids even though they were learning more batter than the regular school going kids .
what a fine definition of confidence. "know yourself and be yourself" and "tic for tac"... after wasting 35 years in people pleasing. I achieved confidence i achieved this level. totally resonate. I am homeschooling my girl she is 5 and i am teaching her same values and boundries.
By confidence we mean to be thyself what you actually are and behave accordingly. There is no such rocket science in learning about developing confidence. By confidence we mean to decide and settle matters independently. By confidence we mean to have acquired that level of intelligence which enables us to differentiate between good and bad, vice a virtue, etc. Secondly, in my estimation, degree of confidence varies from person to person because of intellectual caliber, socio economic scenario, educational level and last but not least the personal observation, flight of imagination etc. I gained confidence by interacting with the people having different tastes of minds, likes and dislikes, temperament with different pursuits and interests. Now I am far more confident and I am bold enough to talk to anyone, face any situation and the like. Ma'am what convinced me to listen to you is because of the maturity normally lacked in most of the people. I think that with the passage of time you developed a great deal of understanding about life and that how to live it.
I am student I am very happy someone is talking so good, on these topics...you don't know how much these topics blowing my mind and some time I feel these are my words ...or sab sy barri bat Kuch to acha sunny ko Mila hai Jo thoughtful hai ..keep going and I am mentioning some points below for your thoughts please share your thoughts : How to be a good professional member in your working place. How to overcome on society fears. As a student how you become independent and good learner.
I don't know how and y people trust schools that institutes develop confidence in kids???? They don't, they can't, they just put your kids in too much compitition, discouraged all his feeling. Bullying is soo comen in institutes, the kids who are not so clever in negitive arguments they become victom again and again. I am also putting lots of efforts to grow parents and thier minds that kids needs more valuable upbringing at home and if you celebrate your kids failures just like you celebrate thier success or victory they become confident automatically. Stand with your kids, see the world from your kids eyes then educate them from your past learnings and experiences, but don't forget to grow yourself with your kids as a person remains in learning process throughout his life to Polish his abilities. Because if you have enough knowledge then you can deliver it to your kids but if you haven't so you will leave them to become a victom by society.❤
Very true that celebrate their failures as well kyon k jo kuch failure sikhata hy wo kabi success nai sikhati. See through their eyes and keep on growing yourself with them. What you described is the essence of authentic parenting today. Let's just keep on reminding people and in case we are able to bring about a microgram change then a life lived well. Thank YOU for your input yara! Stay blessed! 🥰🥰🥰
For me confidence is when you feel some1 is trying to degrade you just give a single n last chance to it.. but no further that should be tolerated. They truly need shutup call n total ignorance. No matter us k bad puri family ki taraf say ap k upar "bad.tameez" ka tag lag jaey. N ya... love your urdu n love English lady ❤
You have touched a very sensitive yet important topic.still don’t know how to deal with the trauma of being insulted by closed ones. I have figured out that bushing this trauma under a carpet has led me being a hoarder
Hello i just watched ur vedio by random nd i like to comment as i m not commenting on any channel bt u spoke well nd answer of your question is in my openion confidence is believing in urself belief in your strength and weakness and in your abilities to do something to achieve ....
confidence is when you accept your self, you trust yourself, and above all you love ypur self. I am not talking about self obesession here, self love is totqlly different. Confidence is when you see the world and ypurself with your own lens. Not caring ehqt people think of you is a strong indication that you ate confident.
That sure is the point. You know yourself, your weaknesses and strengths, your abilities and short comings, willingness to unlearn and abandon norms that are no longer helpful. Self obsession and narcissism is basically a very weak emotion that only makes one a parasite who actively tries to look for people to take advantage of. Bullying and disrespectful attitude is also one form of it. Which people erroneously call confidence these days.
Im using my husbsnd's account....now i am your regular follower...thanks for talking about such an important topic....seems like you have experienced life to the fullest....i wish i could share my concerns with you and get some advice
feels like ages since i watched your last video,please try to upload video earlier, i know you must have been busy but consider the massive impact that you are creating on most of your community members like me. I know that i have told you this before but again " you have changed my whole perspective" , these recent years i have been lucky enough to find people who transformed me in a good way. I recommend everyone here the book "mein anmol" by nemrah ahmed. its a great self help book that adress most of our problems like insecurities, moral valued etc.
Ap ik ik word sahi bol ri hu .hm ayse hi bare huy hn .mother apne sural me khudi dab k rehti he to wo apne bachun ko kia confident kre gi.mera zara dil ni krta bachun ko school bejne ko .but meri sas boht hi baten sunati hn ik din b bacha school se chuti kr le
I want to share one thing about it that it might be possible if you are introvert than automatically you are less confident, second thing I want to share is that when ever (just like you said mou phat :confident)you converse with these people and they always ready to throw so called confident towards us and when we did the same with or talk with them in the same manner they start an issue with you that if you have done sin thing , sorry for a very long comment but liked your topic and I start listening .
Very very true! If we do the same, give them the taste of their own medicine they mind. True that k they think hm nay to koi gunah kr diya hy. But I guess we need to commit this sin very often 😉
Please dont care about the language selection. People will always be critical. So You cannot satisfy anyone. Also in Pakistan confidence is misinterpreted in many ways. You will be loud and obnoxious and people will call it a confidence. In my view the real confidence simply means that you have guts to talk about your opinion in a polite and convincing manner. And you are one of the examples of a Confident woman. So keep it up.
Confidence is the collection of qualities like; 1. Respect your self 2. Be insensitive to what people think about you. 3. Be positive. 4. Stay busy in working toward your goals. 5. Always follow good cultural norms.
Thank YOU very much Mr. Sajjad. That sure is the confidence that you know who you are and you believe in yourself as well as you keep on evaluating and improving. 😊 Thanks a lot for your valuable input.
Aap urdu bolain ya english.. i just love you and want to hear from you❤❤❤ JazakAllah khair.. ya comment video kay shuru may hai :) ab baqi video sunti ho 😊
Mere husband mere bachun k samne meri jethani jeth sas k samne hi muj pe zor zor se bolty hn por me sara dinya to roti rehti hn ya chup hu k andr andr mrti rehti hun.suchti hn hmare bachun ki kia such bnti hu gi
Kya sahi baat boli hai aapne...kal parents se darte the ab bachon se ...pehle rishtedaron se beizzati sehte the ...ab inlaws se
I think confidence is not something superficial or artificial. It has some solid foundation. For example, if someone has to speak about something before a group of people, They should have sufficient knowledge and experience of that matter. Otherwise there will be either no confidence or fake confidence. And with a fake confidence, a person rather looks foolish.
In day-to-day life, confidence increases when your exposure to life increases. when you practically experience something, imagination goes and real knowledge comes. and this real knowledge makes you confident.
If talking about confidence in children, if they are academically strong, then they are naturally confident. And if they have travelled more than other children, then they are more confident naturally. Because with travelling they learn what the real word is. So practical experience and exposure is key to confidence.
Exactly, Confidence is built through reading, research, analysis, skepticism, an eagerness to learn and grow. Knowing that I am not completely knowledgeable in this field and need more hard work and when one is still in that process one stays calm and quiet, like a butterfly in its cocoon. Confidence comes with time and experience, indeed!
Thank YOU so much for your valuable input. Through your comments you add value to my work and to my own thinking process.
Stay blessed and keep smiling! 🥰🥰🥰
Mujay laga casual si self confidence py video hogi magar dakh k one second b skip b nae karny wala tha
You have wisdom a lot of us have only knowledge
Thank YOU so much Maria for listening and appreciating! Such a heart-warming comment you wrote! Keep smiling!
Im happy that your mixing 3 languages: english, urdu, punjabi. I'm an overseas Pakistani living in uk ( born here). And I mix all 3 languages as well
😃 Thank YOU, I guess it comes naturally when you have an exposure of multiple languages. But I am sure I will have to listen to this phrase "bus urdu bolain" forever. ☺
The best part is…. “I have the tools…. I can fix myself,” I wish I can remind myself this at the difficult moments of my life
Pakistan me rehty hoy ap ki thinking bohat zaberdast ha,
Thank YOU very muchhhhh!!!! 😀
واقعی ہی ایسا ہی لگتا ہے کہ ڈیلے ہی بدل گئے ہیں I totally agree with you
I become confident at the age of 38, so late but not bad because I have self awareness , and right direction now.
Yes, better late than never. It's never too late. The word you used "self-awareness" that is very powerful factor to clear our perspective and always make us do the right thing.
Please discuss these points in your video:
-What should be kept in mind while choosing a spouse
-Tips for a healthy married life
-Pregnancy for a newly wed couple
I believe that having confidence entails having a strong faith in oneself and one's capabilities.
Very True Syed Hassan, a true confidence is knowing yourself, and keep on evaluating yourself till death. Knowing our weaknesses and our strengths makes us aware and confident.
U r the Best love you so much Allah ap ko emaan kasay namat sa malamall kare ❤❤❤❤
10000000% agree with u kids r learning about brands,class difference or new trends along with the studies now a days at school.especially how to bully people , how to bully domestic staff or relatives.Getting outspoken
These r the cool things 🤘and this is the CONFIDENCE
I totally agree with ur each n every word because I faced the same negative attitude of ppl when I was homeschooling my kids even though they were learning more batter than the regular school going kids .
what a fine definition of confidence. "know yourself and be yourself" and "tic for tac"... after wasting 35 years in people pleasing. I achieved confidence i achieved this level. totally resonate. I am homeschooling my girl she is 5 and i am teaching her same values and boundries.
More power to you, girl! ❤
By confidence we mean to be thyself what you actually are and behave accordingly. There is no such rocket science in learning about developing confidence.
By confidence we mean to decide and settle matters independently. By confidence we mean to have acquired that level of intelligence which enables us to differentiate between good and bad, vice a virtue, etc.
Secondly, in my estimation, degree of confidence varies from person to person because of intellectual caliber, socio economic scenario, educational level and last but not least the personal observation, flight of imagination etc.
I gained confidence by interacting with the people having different tastes of minds, likes and dislikes, temperament with different pursuits and interests. Now I am far more confident and I am bold enough to talk to anyone, face any situation and the like.
Ma'am what convinced me to listen to you is because of the maturity normally lacked in most of the people. I think that with the passage of time you developed a great deal of understanding about life and that how to live it.
Bilkul theek kah rahi hain aap
Mashallah you're best
Whenever you speak about any topic I feel myself 100%agree with you.
Lots of respect for you from the bottom of my heart..❤❤
I am student I am very happy someone is talking so good, on these topics...you don't know how much these topics blowing my mind and some time I feel these are my words ...or sab sy barri bat Kuch to acha sunny ko Mila hai Jo thoughtful hai ..keep going and I am mentioning some points below for your thoughts please share your thoughts :
How to be a good professional member in your working place.
How to overcome on society fears.
As a student how you become independent and good learner.
I don't know how and y people trust schools that institutes develop confidence in kids???? They don't, they can't, they just put your kids in too much compitition, discouraged all his feeling. Bullying is soo comen in institutes, the kids who are not so clever in negitive arguments they become victom again and again.
I am also putting lots of efforts to grow parents and thier minds that kids needs more valuable upbringing at home and if you celebrate your kids failures just like you celebrate thier success or victory they become confident automatically. Stand with your kids, see the world from your kids eyes then educate them from your past learnings and experiences, but don't forget to grow yourself with your kids as a person remains in learning process throughout his life to Polish his abilities. Because if you have enough knowledge then you can deliver it to your kids but if you haven't so you will leave them to become a victom by society.❤
Very true that celebrate their failures as well kyon k jo kuch failure sikhata hy wo kabi success nai sikhati. See through their eyes and keep on growing yourself with them. What you described is the essence of authentic parenting today. Let's just keep on reminding people and in case we are able to bring about a microgram change then a life lived well.
Thank YOU for your input yara! Stay blessed! 🥰🥰🥰
@@thepakistanihomeschooler5510 In Sha ALLAH. Qatra qatra ker k hi derya benta he. Ak qatra hum bhi Sahi. May Allah bless u too Ameen
Confidence is to believe in yourself ,that comes with knowledge n faith in Allah n prophet pbuh
For me confidence is when you feel some1 is trying to degrade you just give a single n last chance to it.. but no further that should be tolerated. They truly need shutup call n total ignorance. No matter us k bad puri family ki taraf say ap k upar "bad.tameez" ka tag lag jaey.
N ya... love your urdu n love English lady ❤
You have touched a very sensitive yet important topic.still don’t know how to deal with the trauma of being insulted by closed ones. I have figured out that bushing this trauma under a carpet has led me being a hoarder
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Hello i just watched ur vedio by random nd i like to comment as i m not commenting on any channel bt u spoke well nd answer of your question is in my openion confidence is believing in urself belief in your strength and weakness and in your abilities to do something to achieve ....
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I bcm great fan of u....U r my voice Wana C nd listen U agn n agn ..stay blessed with unlimited happiness and joys of life..❤❤❤
confidence is when you accept your self, you trust yourself, and above all you love ypur self. I am not talking about self obesession here, self love is totqlly different.
Confidence is when you see the world and ypurself with your own lens. Not caring ehqt people think of you is a strong indication that you ate confident.
That sure is the point. You know yourself, your weaknesses and strengths, your abilities and short comings, willingness to unlearn and abandon norms that are no longer helpful. Self obsession and narcissism is basically a very weak emotion that only makes one a parasite who actively tries to look for people to take advantage of. Bullying and disrespectful attitude is also one form of it. Which people erroneously call confidence these days.
Im using my husbsnd's account....now i am your regular follower...thanks for talking about such an important topic....seems like you have experienced life to the fullest....i wish i could share my concerns with you and get some advice
Assalamekum nadia , can you please add english subtitle so i can practice along with you . I am also trying to learn Englsih .Respect from India .
Learned a lot ❤❤❤
Thank you very much ❤
Keep doing this,,👍
You're welcome 😊
Exactly sister whatever u have said but plz discuss how to overcome ur hesitataion about things bcz its a hurdle in the way of confidence
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Say it in urdu or English no problem ❤ you conveyed in most simple and effective way ❤ keep it up ❤
mashallah ,mam you are so intelligent. I suggest you to read quran translation with understanding at least one time in life for depression .
Pls keep making vedios on parenting...education .
feels like ages since i watched your last video,please try to upload video earlier, i know you must have been busy but consider the massive impact that you are creating on most of your community members like me. I know that i have told you this before but again " you have changed my whole perspective" , these recent years i have been lucky enough to find people who transformed me in a good way.
I recommend everyone here the book "mein anmol" by nemrah ahmed. its a great self help book that adress most of our problems like insecurities, moral valued etc.
Can yo please make a vd on youtube channels recomendations!! I want to know what do you watch?
Sure, thank you very much! 🥰🥰🥰
one word for you : Beautiful lady mashallah
Ap ik ik word sahi bol ri hu .hm ayse hi bare huy hn .mother apne sural me khudi dab k rehti he to wo apne bachun ko kia confident kre gi.mera zara dil ni krta bachun ko school bejne ko .but meri sas boht hi baten sunati hn ik din b bacha school se chuti kr le
Whats the instagram page you havent mentioned
Dhair apologies, I totally forgot. Here is the link:
instagram.com/nadiaarshad1988?igsh=ZGpvZGc3YjJ0bG5m
Ap plz in chizun k sath sath agr week me 2 bar bachun ko kia Lear krwaen topic wise to ap vedio bnaya kren
I want to share one thing about it that it might be possible if you are introvert than automatically you are less confident, second thing I want to share is that when ever (just like you said mou phat :confident)you converse with these people and they always ready to throw so called confident towards us and when we did the same with or talk with them in the same manner they start an issue with you that if you have done sin
thing , sorry for a very long comment but liked your topic and I start listening .
Very very true! If we do the same, give them the taste of their own medicine they mind. True that k they think hm nay to koi gunah kr diya hy. But I guess we need to commit this sin very often 😉
Love you sister!
اج پنجابی دا ھک لفظ نہی آیا۔ پر فیر وی چھونڈیاں اس ھار ھی لگیاں نے۔
Please dont care about the language selection. People will always be critical. So You cannot satisfy anyone. Also in Pakistan confidence is misinterpreted in many ways. You will be loud and obnoxious and people will call it a confidence. In my view the real confidence simply means that you have guts to talk about your opinion in a polite and convincing manner. And you are one of the examples of a Confident woman. So keep it up.
Allah bless u dear💖
Many many thanks 🥰
Confidence is the collection of qualities like;
1. Respect your self
2. Be insensitive to what people think about you.
3. Be positive.
4. Stay busy in working toward your goals.
5. Always follow good cultural norms.
Thank YOU very much Mr. Sajjad. That sure is the confidence that you know who you are and you believe in yourself as well as you keep on evaluating and improving. 😊 Thanks a lot for your valuable input.
Aap urdu bolain ya english.. i just love you and want to hear from you❤❤❤
JazakAllah khair.. ya comment video kay shuru may hai :) ab baqi video sunti ho 😊
Mere husband mere bachun k samne meri jethani jeth sas k samne hi muj pe zor zor se bolty hn por me sara dinya to roti rehti hn ya chup hu k andr andr mrti rehti hun.suchti hn hmare bachun ki kia such bnti hu gi
Stay blessed mammmmm .....personal contact i want...
Api plz Urdu me bat kr lia kary❤
Hw can i contact u?