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Can a child of 6 or 7 be taught they creat their own emotions? I teach 1st grade and I do my best to teach them they are able to think and recognize good thoughts and uncomfortable thoughts and choose between them and that they are responsible for being happy or sad. Would love to here your thoughts. Thank you
These flippin videos have literally shifted my perspective & I've done the work through Byron Katie and thought that we deep. Thank you for this as my nervous system has been calmer. These messages have literally been the voice of reason & so digestible. I'm grateful.
It took me 30 years to realize that my commitment phobia is tied to trauma I experienced at 13 where I took on the responsibility of a parent when my mom was hospitalized for depression after a difficult move. Its been arrested development, effectively I became locked emotionally at 13. To get away, I escaped to my room and this habit has continued to this day. "This does not define you."
About a week ago I came upon your videos. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish that my entire family aunt's, cousin, etc could listen to you both because you're a blessing 🤗 Thank you
Hi Maureen Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're delighted you've found our channel and are finding the teachings inspiring :) If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
The inner child feels They are protecting you and they don't wont to be hurt again i told her black beauty is het name i told her let me go to love and be happy i told her i can protect my self she said ok mommie 😮❤😅
Hi @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA, It's wonderful to see how you're communicating and reassuring your inner child, acknowledging her concerns and fears while also guiding her towards trust and happiness. Naming your inner child 'Black Beauty' and having this dialogue is a powerful step in resolving past issues and moving forward with strength and self-love. Remember, this journey is about balance and understanding, embracing both our vulnerabilities and our strengths. If you wish to share your experiences or gain further insights, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ is a supportive space for such discussions. Kind Regard
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Hi David and Alex ..Thankyou so much for this wonderful video.. It's totally understandable why my inner child prefers to stay stuck ..Still working progress.♥️ Your support means so much.Love and best wishes .Denise xx
Hi Alex and David, another great video! I struggle with Intimacy, is this also Fear of Commitment, Fear of Responsibility in relationship with others. Needing certainty, feel if I make a decision and it doesn't work, I will be Trapped no way out! This also affects me in other areas of my life, in trying to keep myself safe from experiencing pain ..my life is actually painful as I'm aware how often I have panicked had high anxiety ambivalence when there's potential for a relationship. Believe I don't act with integrity, truthful, nor trust myself with one foot out the door. As a child physical and sexual abuse age 6 and 10 years of age. Good girl as a child to be loved/ validated.
Hi Bernadette Meade, Thank you for your comments, we are pleased that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey. As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. The issues you have raised would involve the Inner Child work we demonstrate in many of our videos. Perhaps you could research through our Inner Child playlist for help and inspiration: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html These Life Lessons can be learnt and understood to get you back to emotional and self-responsibility. David
This video comes on point for me! Starting dating somebody new all my fears kick in!!! So scared of being hurt or abandoned!! I want to change my dynamic and start to trust again, so I can be vulnerable again to create a loving relationship!!! Discussed it with my parents today, and wow I got back to the lament I was 6 or 7 being so terrified to lose my parents and so being abandoned! Talking about it my inner girl was so in panick again, pfieuw!!!
What am I missing here? Something is not clicking for me and I am finding aspects of this hard to understand. Abusive situations DO come from the outside. The painful action/arrow DID come from the other person. The consequential emotional response may well be a shutdown or withdrawal- a response which DID protect- it is a wise response. From that point on I think what is born is a heightened radar for anything/anyone that appears “off”- I’m not convinced that this intuition- if it is an intuition? is wrong? To my mind it is a tool of discernment; not necessary for every situation/person that we meet but a tool to be used if needed. I don’t agree that adverse childhood experiences don’t define us, My experience is that the result of such experience is actually cellular but we can learn skills to navigate and understand hard wired tendencies. My definition of trust would be having the confidence that I am ‘safe’ with you, mentally, emotionally and physically.
She agreed to let me be in control of my own life and that she trust me now thank you for your coaching my life is on a great turn around it is real the inner child we spoke for 15 minutes together the biggest thing about them is that they are afraid.
Thank you for your help you are a great pair together and David he is such a humble smart man I finally got her to trust for the first time we spoke was 2 months ago she said she didn't want to talk to me later but today she answer me when I call to her name Black beauty that's the name they call me when I was 5-7 years old that was my nick name is a little girl
Dear Alex& David, the root of the problem branches out into so many aspects of life.... there has not been a life lesson yet where I didn't recognize myself at some point. Thanks for explaining and that wonderful good spirit. Lots of things to think about. Love, Ellie
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023 Kind regards, David.
Thank you Aunt Doris! :) We have a video playlist of our best LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS videos that you may find helpful: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX.html If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
This is a bit lengthy but, I’ve felt separate from everyone my entire life. I’ve had an ego of being special, better or worse than everyone since a very young age, being popular, being good at sports all attributed to my mindset of separating myself from others. I can remember when I was 10 years old I told my mom when I scored the championship goal in hockey that my coach told me I was his secret weapon which is why he put me out there, I can’t rationalize why a 10 year old would lie to his own mother about something like that. Have any thoughts on this? IFor instance this one day I was feeling extra unlike myself I felt one with myself and those around me and I felt love for myself and others then later on I was in the change room with the hockey guys and someone pointed out how muscular I am and Immediately felt a change in vibration, and felt separate from everyone. I hated it but I thought to myself don’t I work out mostly to impress people? Like I probably wouldn’t workout if I didn’t care what people thought of me. I’m 19 I’ve done inner work on myself for a long time but still few seperate and lacking worth. I’ve yet to have meaningful relationships and I’m not close with either parents. Yeah
Hi Quinn Vitum Thanks for sharing your story. Yes, I have heard of this before, unfortunately, it is all too common. This is where the Golden Thread Process work can be extremely powerful. Reconnecting to that part of you we label the Inner Child. The separation you experience is what we mention on several of our videos, the separation from you Shen (spirit/essence). As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. I would suggest watching our videos on this subject and doing the self-enquiry work to learn the Life Lessons being offered to you. Why don’t you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our TH-cam channel and don’t forget to click the BELL icon. David
hey Quinn! I grew up in a similar competitive society, and I relate to your story a lot. Taoism sees comparing yourself and others (and not ONLY the momentarily performance) as a fundamental mistake, certain reason for suffering. The question you should ask yourself should be, to my knowledge, why do you still chose to see yourself as unworthy. And check the meaning of words: unworthy of...what, precisely? If you for example wanna be president tomorrow, will you consider yourself "unworthy" for 5 years because someone else will be president instead? ditch irrelevant or toxic views of you, and observe what you can do to make your standards and your life good according to your standards, first. Good luck!
Thanks for the video... exactly what I have created again and again in my relationships. I'm aware of issues from my childhood has had an impact. Not aware cognitively of making emotional decision to protect myself. Situation was frightening as only 10 year old ..never told anyone until I was 40. Now 56 but still running away from myself and emotional intimacy, vulnerability and shame that I am not enough, must give love in order to get.. Withdraw and end relationships when it's going well, high anxiety ambivalence. Unable to sleep, lose weight, have nightmares about getting away being trapped.
We are pleased that the video helped on your spiritual journey.
It sounds as though you are taking the first steps to understand the root and core of the issues and Life Lessons involved.
Remember: "You can't change what you don't understand!"
I trust that now you have made a start you can love and support 'Little Bernadette' to grow stronger. You may find our Inner Child videos helpful in your healing process.
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@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you David for your reply. I have been unable to find the core beliefs around my fear of being in a relationship. In part I do recognize there is a big aversion to taking responsibility for my feelings, turning away from myself ( little B) she seems weak. She's feeling so much grief at the moment. The symptoms I experience are high anxiety and panic attacks, in part terror which I feel strongly in my solar plexus...the energy chakra of feeling secure/ safe? Even thinking about a relationship brings on the sensations. Is the Facebook page private for members only and not general ? Kind regards Bernadette
Hello , thank you for your videos, they help me so much. I wanted to ask a question : Ive been talking with a man for six months and as a former healed codependant ,I now see that he is codependant too , so he presents me the issues I have healed in myself, that s why I cant seem to find attraction with him because he doesnt love/respect himself. So now Im asking myself , is this lack of attraction from a part of me that still might fear intimacy or uncertainty of a relationship ., or is it my intuition because me and him wounded cannot work ?
One more question: how to communicate our vulnerability? Don’t know how to express it! When I did people told me I am being naive to trust people to easily 😔 And yes been used due to my “nativity” in relationships.
Hi Nathalie dp, Thanks for your question. To help me answer you will have to define what you mean by "communicate our vulnerability" This is where you do the Golden Thread Process: "What part of you is vulnerable?" "Why is it vulnerable?" "What is stopping you from communicating it?" "What is vulnerability?" You get the idea :-) Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our TH-cam channel and don't forget to click the BELL icon. David 🙏
The messages in my mind can often be traced back to some variation of "I can't cope" or "there must be something wrong with me." When that happens, what do I do, just say "Yes I can cope" or "There is nothing wrong with me?" When I ask why, I get nothing back, so I don't know where to go from there.
In an attempt to impress, I got into a terrible trap and got out alive but with severe trauma and ptsd. Is there still hope to repair the initial belief? how long can it take, in a wu wei model of self therapy?
Hi Mario We appreciate your support! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
We appreciate your support Ace. If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
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Can a child of 6 or 7 be taught they creat their own emotions? I teach 1st grade and I do my best to teach them they are able to think and recognize good thoughts and uncomfortable thoughts and choose between them and that they are responsible for being happy or sad.
Would love to here your thoughts. Thank you
Love ❤️
Yes the video was amazing it open me right up you guys are great teacher please keep up the good work
These flippin videos have literally shifted my perspective & I've done the work through Byron Katie and thought that we deep. Thank you for this as my nervous system has been calmer. These messages have literally been the voice of reason & so digestible. I'm grateful.
It took me 30 years to realize that my commitment phobia is tied to trauma I experienced at 13 where I took on the responsibility of a parent when my mom was hospitalized for depression after a difficult move. Its been arrested development, effectively I became locked emotionally at 13. To get away, I escaped to my room and this habit has continued to this day. "This does not define you."
Thank you for this video. Your work is very valuable and much appreciated. Sending love from Asia.
Thanks for your support HMP 🙏
About a week ago I came upon your videos. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish that my entire family aunt's, cousin, etc could listen to you both because you're a blessing 🤗 Thank you
Hi Maureen
Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're delighted you've found our channel and are finding the teachings inspiring :)
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The inner child feels They are protecting you and they don't wont to be hurt again i told her black beauty is het name i told her let me go to love and be happy i told her i can protect my self she said ok mommie 😮❤😅
Hi @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA,
It's wonderful to see how you're communicating and reassuring your inner child, acknowledging her concerns and fears while also guiding her towards trust and happiness. Naming your inner child 'Black Beauty' and having this dialogue is a powerful step in resolving past issues and moving forward with strength and self-love. Remember, this journey is about balance and understanding, embracing both our vulnerabilities and our strengths. If you wish to share your experiences or gain further insights, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ is a supportive space for such discussions.
Kind Regard
You have the best advice to navigate life's challenges. I look forward to your next show!
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Hi David and Alex ..Thankyou so much for this wonderful video.. It's totally understandable why my inner child prefers to stay stuck ..Still working progress.♥️ Your support means so much.Love and best wishes .Denise xx
Thanks Denise! Sending love 🙏
Hi Alex and David, another great video! I struggle with Intimacy, is this also Fear of Commitment, Fear of Responsibility in relationship with others. Needing certainty, feel if I make a decision and it doesn't work, I will be Trapped no way out! This also affects me in other areas of my life, in trying to keep myself safe from experiencing pain ..my life is actually painful as I'm aware how often I have panicked had high anxiety ambivalence when there's potential for a relationship. Believe I don't act with integrity, truthful, nor trust myself with one foot out the door. As a child physical and sexual abuse age 6 and 10 years of age. Good girl as a child to be loved/ validated.
Hi Bernadette Meade,
Thank you for your comments, we are pleased that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey.
As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms.
The issues you have raised would involve the Inner Child work we demonstrate in many of our videos. Perhaps you could research through our Inner Child playlist for help and inspiration: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
These Life Lessons can be learnt and understood to get you back to emotional and self-responsibility.
David
This video comes on point for me! Starting dating somebody new all my fears kick in!!! So scared of being hurt or abandoned!! I want to change my dynamic and start to trust again, so I can be vulnerable again to create a loving relationship!!!
Discussed it with my parents today, and wow I got back to the lament I was 6 or 7 being so terrified to lose my parents and so being abandoned!
Talking about it my inner girl was so in panick again, pfieuw!!!
Hi Natalie dp,
Thanks for your comments!
I think the points I will raise on your next comment/question will also help here.
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What am I missing here? Something is not clicking for me and I am finding aspects of this hard to understand. Abusive situations DO come from the outside. The painful action/arrow DID come from the other person.
The consequential emotional response may well be a shutdown or withdrawal- a response which DID protect- it is a wise response.
From that point on I think what is born is a heightened radar for anything/anyone that appears “off”- I’m not convinced that this intuition- if it is an intuition? is wrong?
To my mind it is a tool of discernment; not necessary for every situation/person that we meet but a tool to be used if needed.
I don’t agree that adverse childhood experiences don’t define us, My experience is that the result of such experience is actually cellular but we can learn skills to navigate and understand hard wired tendencies.
My definition of trust would be having the confidence that I am ‘safe’ with you, mentally, emotionally and physically.
Thank you! Brilliant as always!
We appreciate you and your support Andrea 🙏
Wu Wei Wisdom Thank you! I appreciate you!❤️
Yes!, Alexs example explained my thoughts, feelings.. exactly.. 🙄😼👏
Thank you for the questions !!!
It's really helpful of the reverseal..
🤤🙄
Happy good Sunday morning wu Wei🌠
Wishing you a peaceful Sunday 🙏
Today i spoke to my inner child for the second time this time is open to me
She agreed to let me be in control of my own life and that she trust me now thank you for your coaching my life is on a great turn around it is real the inner child we spoke for 15 minutes together the biggest thing about them is that they are afraid.
Thank you for your help you are a great pair together and David he is such a humble smart man I finally got her to trust for the first time we spoke was 2 months ago she said she didn't want to talk to me later but today she answer me when I call to her name Black beauty that's the name they call me when I was 5-7 years old that was my nick name is a little girl
Dear Alex& David, the root of the problem branches out into so many aspects of life.... there has not been a life lesson yet where I didn't recognize myself at some point. Thanks for explaining and that wonderful good spirit. Lots of things to think about. Love, Ellie
So true! Thanks for your support Ellie 🙏
Absolute excellent video
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Yes!, I trust their integrity.. 😼 ❤
& I do trust myself..
Great information ❤
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
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Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023 Kind regards, David.
You guys are amazing! Thank you
Thank you Aunt Doris! :)
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This is a bit lengthy but, I’ve felt separate from everyone my entire life. I’ve had an ego of being special, better or worse than everyone since a very young age, being popular, being good at sports all attributed to my mindset of separating myself from others. I can remember when I was 10 years old I told my mom when I scored the championship goal in hockey that my coach told me I was his secret weapon which is why he put me out there, I can’t rationalize why a 10 year old would lie to his own mother about something like that. Have any thoughts on this? IFor instance this one day I was feeling extra unlike myself I felt one with myself and those around me and I felt love for myself and others then later on I was in the change room with the hockey guys and someone pointed out how muscular I am and Immediately felt a change in vibration, and felt separate from everyone. I hated it but I thought to myself don’t I work out mostly to impress people? Like I probably wouldn’t workout if I didn’t care what people thought of me. I’m 19 I’ve done inner work on myself for a long time but still few seperate and lacking worth. I’ve yet to have meaningful relationships and I’m not close with either parents. Yeah
I can talk through email or on the phone vitumsquinn@gmail.com
Hi Quinn Vitum
Thanks for sharing your story. Yes, I have heard of this before, unfortunately, it is all too common.
This is where the Golden Thread Process work can be extremely powerful. Reconnecting to that part of you we label the Inner Child.
The separation you experience is what we mention on several of our videos, the separation from you Shen (spirit/essence).
As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms.
I would suggest watching our videos on this subject and doing the self-enquiry work to learn the Life Lessons being offered to you.
Why don’t you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
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David
hey Quinn! I grew up in a similar competitive society, and I relate to your story a lot. Taoism sees comparing yourself and others (and not ONLY the momentarily performance) as a fundamental mistake, certain reason for suffering. The question you should ask yourself should be, to my knowledge, why do you still chose to see yourself as unworthy. And check the meaning of words: unworthy of...what, precisely? If you for example wanna be president tomorrow, will you consider yourself "unworthy" for 5 years because someone else will be president instead? ditch irrelevant or toxic views of you, and observe what you can do to make your standards and your life good according to your standards, first. Good luck!
Thanks for the video... exactly what I have created again and again in my relationships. I'm aware of issues from my childhood has had an impact. Not aware cognitively of making emotional decision to protect myself. Situation was frightening as only 10 year old ..never told anyone until I was 40. Now 56 but still running away from myself and emotional intimacy, vulnerability and shame that I am not enough, must give love in order to get..
Withdraw and end relationships when it's going well, high anxiety ambivalence. Unable to sleep, lose weight, have nightmares about getting away being trapped.
Hi Bernadette,
We are pleased that the video helped on your spiritual journey.
It sounds as though you are taking the first steps to understand the root and core of the issues and Life Lessons involved.
Remember: "You can't change what you don't understand!"
I trust that now you have made a start you can love and support 'Little Bernadette' to grow stronger. You may find our Inner Child videos helpful in your healing process.
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Thank you David for your reply.
I have been unable to find the core beliefs around my fear of being in a relationship. In part I do recognize there is a big aversion to taking responsibility for my feelings, turning away from myself ( little B) she seems weak. She's feeling so much grief at the moment.
The symptoms I experience are high anxiety and panic attacks, in part terror which I feel strongly in my solar plexus...the energy chakra of feeling secure/ safe?
Even thinking about a relationship brings on the sensations.
Is the Facebook page private for members only and not general ?
Kind regards
Bernadette
Great job guys!! 😃
Hello , thank you for your videos, they help me so much. I wanted to ask a question : Ive been talking with a man for six months and as a former healed codependant ,I now see that he is codependant too , so he presents me the issues I have healed in myself, that s why I cant seem to find attraction with him because he doesnt love/respect himself.
So now Im asking myself , is this lack of attraction from a part of me that still might fear intimacy or uncertainty of a relationship ., or is it my intuition because me and him wounded cannot work ?
One more question: how to communicate our vulnerability?
Don’t know how to express it! When I did people told me I am being naive to trust people to easily 😔
And yes been used due to my “nativity” in relationships.
Hi Nathalie dp,
Thanks for your question.
To help me answer you will have to define what you mean by "communicate our vulnerability"
This is where you do the Golden Thread Process: "What part of you is vulnerable?" "Why is it vulnerable?" "What is stopping you from communicating it?" "What is vulnerability?" You get the idea :-)
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I think you mean "nieviety".
Sounds like you enjoy getting to know people yet you need to know how to trust yourself.. 🤔 ☺
The messages in my mind can often be traced back to some variation of "I can't cope" or "there must be something wrong with me." When that happens, what do I do, just say "Yes I can cope" or "There is nothing wrong with me?" When I ask why, I get nothing back, so I don't know where to go from there.
If parents split but you are a young child and don’t remember it and you are separated from siblings how does this effect you in adult life?
Is she Irish?
In an attempt to impress, I got into a terrible trap and got out alive but with severe trauma and ptsd. Is there still hope to repair the initial belief? how long can it take, in a wu wei model of self therapy?
This here hits the core !
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Thank you for your good work and kind spirits.
Thank you too! Kind regards, David.
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