Huyu mzee ako na too much inferiority complex 😔mixed with pride 😢ati a man serving a woman is humiliating 😮a husband cleaning his wife’s undies ! a man doing house work 🤔ati a person walking can not greet a driving relative 🤔….. jipende na upende kazi unayoifaya . Don’t expect your siblings to take your responsibilities just because you are relatives 😮
@@doreenshii563 yes ❣️hustling like the majority of kenyans , exaggerating how he was enslaved more than the Israelites in Egypt ( he said himself not me ) 😳, working as house boy in his sisters house ( nothing even one thing he could say of his sister except lamentations) he couldn’t stand the fact that he is a male serving a female 😫but if it was a position of being a waiter in big hotels ,he could be probably okey with male serving female 😟, him not greeting his brother who drives cos to him the one driving should be the one to approach the one that’s on foot 😨his brother should look for him to inquire of his well-being 😫( entitlements of high level ) and many others . An adult should not feel entitled to be supported by his /her siblings , that’s a sickness that has destroyed many . The in-laws who were better to him than his immediate family to start with ended being the monsters 🤨
Hau ha sister inlaw gukorwo ni manager company iria arutaga wira niho ndeto írí, ucio niwe wamenyaga benefits ciothe in estate na akihuthira nyina itinarigiririe nawe. Keri, ruthuro ruu mari naruo hari we noruo rwatumire makuhate kindu giothe kia mwari. Mari na ruo tondu nduri na indo na mutiri mwana, kwoguo makiona tamekurirwo. No, ni mehia meigiriire. Ukira na uriganirwo, thii na mbere nauriganirwo nio. Ngai arogutongoria.
I feel your pain. I have also gone through a lot of pain in my marriage without knowing why. No matter how much I tried things were not working out. But I told God I wouldn’t leave until He came to help me. And sure enough, after 5 years of pain, God has revealed the cause of my pain…it is my name Njoki. Apparently Njoki niwagucoka/gucokio. There was an evil altar speaking in my life saying I should go back to my parents. Lakini Mungu naye ni mkuu. He has exposed the enemy. And now I am speaking victory in my life. I will never go back to my parents . I am not that Njoki who goes back.Since I started proclaiming that, things are getting better.
Njoki is the one who comes back not going back.. There is a difference Njoki comes to replace the one who went back. Am Njoki and I say I came back to take over
I was sent away the day my husband was buried .with only my son .nothing else .but I now ok one day .God will give me a good husband to enjoy my life .I was too young to be treated like that .but glory to God
I think your wife couldn't put her husband's as next of kin. Her sister was a manager where she worked and was not going to let that happen. Your in-laws are something... Samuel, just try and move away to another location and start over.
Sammy I know this guy akiuza mwavuli na kupima weight am soo sorry I didn't know he goes through this thanks 4 your channel it's educative God have mercy upon us the world is wicked lesson learned
Painful story bt you wish you knew it.vile ulimove in kwa nyumba ya msichana hapo ndiyo family ilikua itakuja kukumalizia hapo.my advice to any man watching this story.never move in in a woman house.ofcz itaonekana Kama nikuwekwa umewekwa na huyo mwanamke.ata Kama ni plot yake afadhari mukubaliane kurentisha hiyo nyumba then hiyo pesa munalipa rent nayo penye mutarentisha mukiwa pamoja
Mr forget the wife, mali yake watu wao coz huyo bibi if she really loved kwanza ange kuwa open to what she own na some of properties ange geuza ukuwe next of keen…..it’s painful but Just move on & God will open doors soon
Yaani unaona red flags, from 1st step but stll you continue ,continue,continue why coz iyo miaka 6 mlikaa pamoja lazima pia iwe uliona au suspect but stll ignored , wee jiite kamkutano tu n pray God
Symo...it is very clear that when you declare your nxt of keen...the employer follows as the wishes of the employee...Not unless...there are vulnerable children who have been left behind by the deceased...then the employer can decide to put a trustee to manage the dues until they are 18 or even 25 and they have completed college...in this case of Samuel...he has no case against the mother in law...his wife decided the mother to be nxt of keen...that was her wish...and there is no case.....😊😮
That guy is not alone.My inlaws just gave me a Gikuyu pot and a kiondo and just like him,some of my inlaws didn't attend the wedding. He's not alone.Jipe nguvu my brother.
Mm naweza mwabia aachane nazo na aederee na maisha yake,Mungu atamuonekea na njia nyingi,bt kwaza odokea hio mambo ya mali ya bibi,ukiachana nayo utaheal haraka,ulijaribu kwenye uliweza
My brother, wewe ndie ulikuwa umeolewa, you could have taken your wife to your own house but you continued to stay in your wife's house for all those years.
This is a lesson to all men know your place , once you sign up to be a play boy know it’s short timed , I have heard the same story to someone close to me,
Symo pls I need your help I broke my thigh and have been operated twice and now I am going for the third time and I don't have enough money pls help me.
My son is single working in a big company and I'm the the next of kin .May be the lady did the same when she was hired because she was single but she didn't change after getting married.
But kuna kitu missing in this story. Mbona hujasema uli identify burial site kwenyu then wakakataa. Ama uliwai chimba grave Kwenu then wao wakakataa?Mbona ukaita your side of the family na mkaenda Kuzika bibi kwao? Mbona sis in law akuulize ni kwanini ulizika bibi kwao? Mimi naona kuna mambo unaficha.
Ata hapo kwa kusema kanisa walikataa waoane labda Kuna kitu.Sammy unakumbuka ua gal friend nyambura. may she rest in peace me Niko na dout hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa although am not God to judge
Yes, his interest was property yet he had noy contributed anything.Even in the law, you prove your contribution to the famuly wealth befire it is shared.He was just there eating and drinking 3xpecting to harvest where he did not sow.Forget, you can't win such a case!
Andú ní mamenye úndúire wao.úndúire wa Gikúyú ti wa itherú..Múthuri úyú angíoí úndúire wake wega, kwí maúndú angíamenyete mbere na akamenya atí indo ciothe akorire múirítú úcio nacio no ta cia nyina na ithe...wakerí kúu múirítu aikaraga no ta kírírí kííria kí nyumba ya nyina...úyú athiire ngúkomaga kírírí kia nyumba ya mother in law.. múgí ní mútare..
Something doesn’t add up. This was a kept man and had no access to his wife income at all. A few months of sickness and he couldn’t even afford fare to the hospital??? What else could he contribute to the family upkeep? 9 years is a long time not to know anything about your spouse Having said that, I’m married for 10+ years but don’t have access to my husband’s property documents….have raised the issue with him severally but he doesn’t want to discuss this…..way forward? I started investing in my own name alone His part of family is already claiming for some of his properties when he’s still alive! What do you think would happen if he passed on??😢
It is unfortunate your best friend/spouse is gone .So much time has been wasted trying to settle things.Its time to pick up your pieces and move on .Maybe your destiny was different.God is with you .
I understand you so much i know men are not good in keeping records hence the story sounds somehow confusing but God shall give you peace that you deserve
True kwanxa hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa aaaiii iknow this guy before aoe alikuwa na gal friend who rented house near us may she rest in peace weee reke ciume na ene
Kazi separete ati za wanawake na za wanaume, kwa njia ya kutweza (look down upon one genger against the other) ni mbaya, na nimatharau. Kazi ni kazi pls. Wewe ni mfanya kazi wa nyumba, yet unasikia mbaya kuonya migojo ya mashuka; au ati kupakulia boss mwanamke. Kufungiwa ndani ya nyumba as a worker, ni makosa sana. Tena, kukitokea moto, utateketea ndani.
it’s so very bad . I wish the interviewer had a different mindset to recorrect him in such mentality . Kazi ni kazi . Ati a man serving a woman 😮! what’s wrong with that surely 🤔
But this man seems to have been maintained by this wife.So if this guy had not contributed anything he should keep off.Again the woman had registered his property to his mum as the next of kin.
Smyo k umemwambia vizuri asahau nazo but my question is in btwn matanga kwani he had no plans to burry her in his land then about the next kin labda alikuwa amejaza before they got married and then they had no kid to be the next kin but all the same may God give him strength and to move on not to be stagnant
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I hate poverty 😢that’s why I work day and night because I was brought up in poverty 😢
Riiight? Me and you both, uweeeh🥵
You are not alone 😢
Oh Jesus have your way and do what only you can do to this wonderful brother you gave unto us us.Amen 1:31:03 1:31:07
Indo cia thii niciagurithira....wee hee hinya brother ❤
Brother there is God in heaven trust in him
There's is God in heaven trust in him
Huyu mzee ako na too much inferiority complex 😔mixed with pride 😢ati a man serving a woman is humiliating 😮a husband cleaning his wife’s undies ! a man doing house work 🤔ati a person walking can not greet a driving relative 🤔….. jipende na upende kazi unayoifaya . Don’t expect your siblings to take your responsibilities just because you are relatives 😮
It's good to understand someone or rather the story b4 any cmment
@@gladysgichohi2566 yes even rewinding a hundred times to understand that the narrator and the narration is the same . Inferiority complex 💯
My dear umesikiza hii story kweli😢
@@doreenshii563 yes ❣️hustling like the majority of kenyans , exaggerating how he was enslaved more than the Israelites in Egypt ( he said himself not me ) 😳, working as house boy in his sisters house ( nothing even one thing he could say of his sister except lamentations) he couldn’t stand the fact that he is a male serving a female 😫but if it was a position of being a waiter in big hotels ,he could be probably okey with male serving female 😟, him not greeting his brother who drives cos to him the one driving should be the one to approach the one that’s on foot 😨his brother should look for him to inquire of his well-being 😫( entitlements of high level ) and many others . An adult should not feel entitled to be supported by his /her siblings , that’s a sickness that has destroyed many . The in-laws who were better to him than his immediate family to start with ended being the monsters 🤨
Sammy was Avery hardworking guy those days when he was kijana ad alikuwa na gal friend name nyambura who also left us may her soul rest in peace.weeee
He’s presenting some signs of mild depression
Yes,he need help.
Wuuuiii NGAI Ndukanareke Njike Mundu Madharau,Makiria Mundutiri wira ndikanamuime irio.Wui NGAI Ndukanareke ma,
Hau ha sister inlaw gukorwo ni manager company iria arutaga wira niho ndeto írí, ucio niwe wamenyaga benefits ciothe in estate na akihuthira nyina itinarigiririe nawe. Keri, ruthuro ruu mari naruo hari we noruo rwatumire makuhate kindu giothe kia mwari. Mari na ruo tondu nduri na indo na mutiri mwana, kwoguo makiona tamekurirwo. No, ni mehia meigiriire. Ukira na uriganirwo, thii na mbere nauriganirwo nio. Ngai arogutongoria.
This story is somehow an eye opener
huyu a move on unless kuna kitu they invested together but kama bibi ndiye ali invest he should move on ajitafutie life
He needs deliverance ....God is still in his throne
V true symo no need ya kukimbizana na vitu hazikuwa zake
Mr Sammy i hear your story it's painful 😢😢😢but please don't dwell in past please forget and move on and trust in God
The day she was buried in her family's home the case was closed.
What this man needs is psychological support to heal and move on with his life
God is in control.
If you love jesus.
You will start all over again..
I started all over 8 yrs ago and the lord is faithful
Kuna watu wanapitia rejection kubwa sana...may God intervene
Wueh.Mimi hapo huwa sisemi.only when people want to use you do they remember wewe ni wao.mimi nimeface hiyo kitu nikashangaa.
Hi symo K I wish i can talk to that man.give him my contacts.
P
Symo help this guy to have conselling ad get compensation
I feel your pain. I have also gone through a lot of pain in my marriage without knowing why. No matter how much I tried things were not working out. But I told God I wouldn’t leave until He came to help me. And sure enough, after 5 years of pain, God has revealed the cause of my pain…it is my name Njoki.
Apparently Njoki niwagucoka/gucokio. There was an evil altar speaking in my life saying I should go back to my parents.
Lakini Mungu naye ni mkuu. He has exposed the enemy. And now I am speaking victory in my life. I will never go back to my parents . I am not that Njoki who goes back.Since I started proclaiming that, things are getting better.
Njoki is the one who comes back not going back.. There is a difference Njoki comes to replace the one who went back. Am Njoki and I say I came back to take over
I pray that God delivers n gives you a family.God is never late He will restore you.He will enlarge your territory.
Symo your advice is very sober and encouraging even to many others out here,,may God bless you
Poverty and illiteracy is a demonic spirit,from the story even the simplest things he's not able to understand. Take heart my brother
I thought ni mimi tu life is hard.
You summarized the story.
Pole Sana Samuel, continue with life and seek for deliverance, Life must continue.
You should work hard and marry awife of your class start from scratch andgo up together
Very true
What class??? God does not care about class. Esther was a queen from nowhere. What you are saying is not right.
Uyu Mundu arenda Mutatani. Akipata steady job he can HEAL.
Hiyo pesa ulitumia kupata confirmation of grant ungetumia kuanzia biashara..
I was sent away the day my husband was buried .with only my son .nothing else .but I now ok one day .God will give me a good husband to enjoy my life .I was too young to be treated like that .but glory to God
Ngai arokuririkana akuhe kiambiriria kieru na kiria wahutia gituike giagutherema. Nitondu niegukuhe mutumia ungi na ciana na ugie na gikeno.
I think your wife couldn't put her husband's as next of kin. Her sister was a manager where she worked and was not going to let that happen. Your in-laws are something...
Samuel, just try and move away to another location and start over.
Sammy I know this guy akiuza mwavuli na kupima weight am soo sorry I didn't know he goes through this thanks 4 your channel it's educative God have mercy upon us the world is wicked lesson learned
Trust I God .I was done the same .when my husband was buried .I cried but today I'm stronger .
Ni kaa tuko wengi juu weeeeuh
@@cecilianjeri9407 sure
So he has no friends no cousin no neighbour that likes him
Painful story bt you wish you knew it.vile ulimove in kwa nyumba ya msichana hapo ndiyo family ilikua itakuja kukumalizia hapo.my advice to any man watching this story.never move in in a woman house.ofcz itaonekana Kama nikuwekwa umewekwa na huyo mwanamke.ata Kama ni plot yake afadhari mukubaliane kurentisha hiyo nyumba then hiyo pesa munalipa rent nayo penye mutarentisha mukiwa pamoja
Ukweli ni kwamba mwanaume kama Ako chini kifedha kuliko mwanamke....he has no say....
Mr forget the wife, mali yake watu wao coz huyo bibi if she really loved kwanza ange kuwa open to what she own na some of properties ange geuza ukuwe next of keen…..it’s painful but Just move on & God will open doors soon
Yaani unaona red flags, from 1st step but stll you continue ,continue,continue why coz iyo miaka 6 mlikaa pamoja lazima pia iwe uliona au suspect but stll ignored , wee jiite kamkutano tu n pray God
May God see u thru
May God grant you peace of mind and blessings,have more years be rich so that one day you may eat with your enemies
Woi unbelievable how mean people are. Even giving food to your employees sually....??
My exact thoughts. How do you pay someone 2k a month and expect him to eat? People are very selfish.
Sammy God loves you more,,be strong keep on pushing,, mungu Ako na ww❤❤❤
“Ndígeruga” Symo witu rí!
1990 ndarokagia ngima riko ya aruti wira a mami na gitoero kiari blueband mum was a generous woman continue resting in peace mum.
Good work Symo❤
Thanks symo k for your advice to samuel .May God go before him to show him the way and help him forget the past to enable him focus on his future.
Pole sana bro mungu mbele ❤❤❤❤
The way Symo was concerned akisikia wakurinuuu.... Pole sana bro what you have been going through
Woie I wish I was in a position to help this man o my God its sad woie. May the Lord remember you I pray .I'm soo Saad
Pole sana brother. God is still on the throne.
Symo...it is very clear that when you declare your nxt of keen...the employer follows as the wishes of the employee...Not unless...there are vulnerable children who have been left behind by the deceased...then the employer can decide to put a trustee to manage the dues until they are 18 or even 25 and they have completed college...in this case of Samuel...he has no case against the mother in law...his wife decided the mother to be nxt of keen...that was her wish...and there is no case.....😊😮
Simo.you are a good adviser
Waaah painful story my friend "watúkufia"as i call you...God will take you far i believe n pray
Waah,,pole aki
wah pole may God bless u
God Will pay you double portion..just trust and wait what Hod wil do.
Achana na hiyo family kabisa utafute life yako na usonge kama injili
Mungu akusandie u move on dunia haina huruma but mungu anaona haya yote atakubariki kwa wakati wake
Rejection imekufuata all through.
Another thing, kuna pride imejificha, though "mwana wa kahii ni kwiyumia"
I am working in a big company,,,I have learned it good to write a will,
That guy is not alone.My inlaws just gave me a Gikuyu pot and a kiondo and just like him,some of my inlaws didn't attend the wedding.
He's not alone.Jipe nguvu my brother.
Mm naweza mwabia aachane nazo na aederee na maisha yake,Mungu atamuonekea na njia nyingi,bt kwaza odokea hio mambo ya mali ya bibi,ukiachana nayo utaheal haraka,ulijaribu kwenye uliweza
Pole brother,may God grant u peace
May GOD grant you the desire of your heart....NGAI uria utuganaga arokuririkana
Oie pole sana ihi maisha yako malipo ni hapa duniani bado umuchanga kesho yako yajamungu you hai kaa kiume kama moyo.
Huyu msichana alikuwa na menegaitis😢pole brother
😂😂😂😂aki symo ati muiritu akura endaga mundu ukumumagaria ndagacomoreree rwaraa hau😂😂😂😂
Of course they wanted insurance money. But your supposed to get her compensation from her work. Get a lawyer
But he said the wife had put the mother as the next of kin
Hapa hakuna kesi
Good We rarely heat Men talk. Couldnyou encourage more Men to tell us their side of the story. Good for you gentleman to talk.
Heat men? Why would we need to do that?😢
@@luciakabui3151I think ni typing error, *hear*instead ya heat
My brother, wewe ndie ulikuwa umeolewa, you could have taken your wife to your own house but you continued to stay in your wife's house for all those years.
This is a lesson to all men know your place , once you sign up to be a play boy know it’s short timed , I have heard the same story to someone close to me,
I this man very well, mwaura ,s wife gathanje
God is still on the throne 🙏
Symo pls I need your help I broke my thigh and have been operated twice and now I am going for the third time and I don't have enough money pls help me.
nikure ngai waihinda renge brother
Ngai uria uheyana thayu arukuhe na kuongerere wira uthukume wirugamirire na witeithie muturire ini uyu
Sawa na uendeleee mungu yuko nawe.
His destiny glory was captured ....
Pole,sana, brother 😢😢😢
Ngai. nyina wa mundu akua maa niwathira
But why didn't the wife change her next of kin.?
My son is single working in a big company and I'm the the next of kin .May be the lady did the same when she was hired because she was single but she didn't change after getting married.
But kuna kitu missing in this story. Mbona hujasema uli identify burial site kwenyu then wakakataa. Ama uliwai chimba grave Kwenu then wao wakakataa?Mbona ukaita your side of the family na mkaenda
Kuzika bibi kwao? Mbona sis in law akuulize ni kwanini ulizika bibi kwao? Mimi naona kuna mambo unaficha.
Ata hapo kwa kusema kanisa walikataa waoane labda Kuna kitu.Sammy unakumbuka ua gal friend nyambura. may she rest in peace me Niko na dout hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa although am not God to judge
Yes, his interest was property yet he had noy contributed anything.Even in the law, you prove your contribution to the famuly wealth befire it is shared.He was just there eating and drinking 3xpecting to harvest where he did not sow.Forget, you can't win such a case!
He is a good story teller
Mûthuri hinya warûme ûragîra kûingî ningî wîna moko meerî wî mûtongu notamerithîtie ndatigaga kûhanda,sahau yaliyopita zonga mbele
Symo,eti ndugiruga😅😅😅😅
Dont worry brother. The world is soo wide, make it work.
Andú ní mamenye úndúire wao.úndúire wa Gikúyú ti wa itherú..Múthuri úyú angíoí úndúire wake wega, kwí maúndú angíamenyete mbere na akamenya atí indo ciothe akorire múirítú úcio nacio no ta cia nyina na ithe...wakerí kúu múirítu aikaraga no ta kírírí kííria kí nyumba ya nyina...úyú athiire ngúkomaga kírírí kia nyumba ya mother in law.. múgí ní mútare..
Nîma gîtoî kîmenyaga kîerwo
Nîtakûhikio ahikîtio ,mûndûrûme nî ciîko na mûgambo na gûtirî ngui îrî ûrûme îkwene tûmenye mîtugo na ûndûire witû
You were given an opportunity to raise any objection as to the place of burial but you never took the opportunity
She wasn't genuine 8 years married and had not changed next of kin bure kabisa
Huyu mzee aki aliniencourage kwa biashara aki🙏
Just forget those people start a new life ,,God will see you through
Symo, kindly..this man needs counselling. I pray that he gets healed and move on.
Something doesn’t add up. This was a kept man and had no access to his wife income at all.
A few months of sickness and he couldn’t even afford fare to the hospital??? What else could he contribute to the family upkeep?
9 years is a long time not to know anything about your spouse
Having said that, I’m married for 10+ years but don’t have access to my husband’s property documents….have raised the issue with him severally but he doesn’t want to discuss this…..way forward? I started investing in my own name alone
His part of family is already claiming for some of his properties when he’s still alive! What do you think would happen if he passed on??😢
Thank u my sister for investing on your own.....my stand too...👏👏👏
Exactly my dear,,am surprised he sold a plot ndo afikie vitu za bibi,,, instead io pesa ange start a business na angekua mbele,,
All in all kuna mira n the lady was regally married.she could have been buried by the husband
It is unfortunate your best friend/spouse is gone .So much time has been wasted trying to settle things.Its time to pick up your pieces and move on .Maybe your destiny was different.God is with you .
sasa pesa ya pombe imekujia wapi,sometimes we are reckless na our tongue
Aya nii athuri ngai akurathime muno brather
Halloz from norway. Geithikai Njamba cia ruriri
Wiku twajie muturire nawe na Ngai niaguturathima,sahau na hayo yote Samuel,
Samuel is my son and nakapeda sana❤
Oya number ya thimu
@@user-ky7ky9it1g hahaha sawa
@Maryruguru😂😂usha Toka soko.
@@jamwah6420 bado nko soko
I understand you so much i know men are not good in keeping records hence the story sounds somehow confusing but God shall give you peace that you deserve
True kwanxa hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa aaaiii iknow this guy before aoe alikuwa na gal friend who rented house near us may she rest in peace weee reke ciume na ene
@@rositanjuguna7561the girlfriend died also??
Huyu alikosa tu mutu wa kumpee advice.
Kazi separete ati za wanawake na za wanaume, kwa njia ya kutweza (look down upon one genger against the other) ni mbaya, na nimatharau.
Kazi ni kazi pls.
Wewe ni mfanya kazi wa nyumba, yet unasikia mbaya kuonya migojo ya mashuka; au ati kupakulia boss mwanamke.
Kufungiwa ndani ya nyumba as a worker, ni makosa sana.
Tena, kukitokea moto, utateketea ndani.
it’s so very bad . I wish the interviewer had a different mindset to recorrect him in such mentality . Kazi ni kazi . Ati a man serving a woman 😮! what’s wrong with that surely 🤔
Haiyai rejection is real kazi yakuuza mwavuli kwetu githunguri
But this man seems to have been maintained by this wife.So if this guy had not contributed anything he should keep off.Again the woman had registered his property to his mum as the next of kin.
ati 98 hakukua na mwamvuli jamani ata 90 ilikuatu coz nakumbuka nililikua naiba ya mtoto wetu nikieda shule asubuhi kama kunanyesha
Smyo k umemwambia vizuri asahau nazo but my question is in btwn matanga kwani he had no plans to burry her in his land then about the next kin labda alikuwa amejaza before they got married and then they had no kid to be the next kin but all the same may God give him strength and to move on not to be stagnant
Aiiiiiiiiiii hii ni noma
Symy 😂😂😂 ndirenda uhe rugano nie 😅