Bella Retamosa Talks About Living With Her Baby Daddy. | Noche De Pendejadas S3E23

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  • @mel-dy3po
    @mel-dy3po 2 ปีที่แล้ว +910

    Bella listen to your mom! Moms knows best… living together and not being together is never gonna workout … I just hope she’s not giving it up to him . She deserves so much better

    • @mariavaldez9188
      @mariavaldez9188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree

    • @k4yoki
      @k4yoki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      he wants to fuck around because he wasnt rdy for a family. so he left her to live out his “young fun” because in the end he knows bella will wait for him and he has a stable home for whenever he’s tired of the other girls. which is so sad for bella because he is holding her back and being manipulative since they share a son. mom is right

    • @mel-dy3po
      @mel-dy3po 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@k4yoki it’s honestly just sad that baby is barely turning 1 and his dad out here focused on the wrong things and other girls, when he has a beautiful family in front of his face /:

    • @madelynmerle1766
      @madelynmerle1766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She does deserve better .. she’s young and naive but it’s sad asf .. he’s using her. There’s a reason he tells her I’m allowed to do me (when he wants to go do him) then when he’s home tells her nah I’m not ganna go cause I don’t wanna mess my chances up with you .. she’s being used. He’s getting his cake and eating it too even if they aren’t having sex

    • @yayab5958
      @yayab5958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She definitely is lmaoo

  • @daleeahortiz8885
    @daleeahortiz8885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    it’s giving “at least he comes home to me at night” she deserved sm better

  • @astridinteriano3301
    @astridinteriano3301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    Seems like he just wants to have his “fun” while they’re “not together” & have her waiting for him to be ready to take her serious. Definitely deserves better..

    • @soledadvillarruel3
      @soledadvillarruel3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesss, that’s so sad :( she doesn’t even notice

  • @heidigalvez1843
    @heidigalvez1843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    All I’m going to say is PUT YOURSELF FIRST GIRL VALUE YOURSELF. AND YOUR KID. A significant other always comes and goes your kid will always be your kid no matter what. Hard to let go. But it’s time. You’re only hurting yourself even more.

    • @mialaciel8176
      @mialaciel8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Poor self esteem, does not know her self-worth, loves victimizing herself
      In other words, "no tiene verguenza",

    • @tannia_love
      @tannia_love 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@mialaciel8176 why blame her? You never know what’s going on this is just toxic y todo es culpa de el por manipularla al principio

    • @tannia_love
      @tannia_love 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mialaciel8176 victimizing how

    • @offficialgiovanny2042
      @offficialgiovanny2042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tannia_love How was he manipulating her? Don't say shit without knowing

    • @gabrielarazo6440
      @gabrielarazo6440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree, she’s so gorgeous, pregnancy did her so good ugh 😍 but imo I couldn’t be living with my baby daddy, yes I know she’s doing it for her child like any mother would but you also have to fit yourself in, they both have to realize that why be living together if the relationship is not going to workout, I bet it’s difficult because they both can do whatever they want and I mean I’m pretty sure it causes problems/ arguments not only that but many other things you know it can really affect both, aside from that she can have postpartum depression from pregnancy and on top dealing with who knows what she deals living with him you know, she has to accept the fact that co parenting is heartbreaking and they’d have to live separately unless they get back together, the fact that she mentioned one week her and one week him would’ve been better but at the same time im not a mom so I don’t know how I would be w/o my child one week you know it’s just a difficult situation, or they can really try and get back together for their baby, at the end love wins but she’s so strong for living with him because I couldn’t

  • @karinamontelongo8802
    @karinamontelongo8802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1131

    You can tell she is such a genuine person sadly she’s so naïve… He doesn’t care about her at all he cares about how he feels and makes her have a guilt they can co parent really good in separate homes for her mental state especially him knowing he’s hurting her. He only wants her there because he does not want to care for the baby alone why can’t she see that smh it’s sad.. she needs to value herself as a mother and a woman

    • @esmeraldaresendiz4634
      @esmeraldaresendiz4634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I completely agree !

    • @nayelyjuarez2574
      @nayelyjuarez2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      but don’t they both want the baby cause in the prank video before she said i’m leaving with my the kid and then anthony was saying no you can leave but no with the kid so like basically they both want that baby and most likely they will live together but he really is like manipulative smhh

    • @christinasousa5464
      @christinasousa5464 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think its important to remember you only see part of their lives. We have no idea what they feel. I pray for there happiness....& since there back together, you're wrong.

    • @ILUVSANRIOSM
      @ILUVSANRIOSM 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are u actually Anthony cares so much about Bella and Noah he got back together with Bella because he cares so much

  • @jasminepacheco8610
    @jasminepacheco8610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +679

    Alan was determined to get all the chisme 😂😂

    • @Colorbyaury
      @Colorbyaury 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      We stand with Alan

    • @sheilaescalon5215
      @sheilaescalon5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love how he’s not judgmental bc if my friend told me this I’d be like “bitch wtf you doing, he’s getting all the benefits & you’re getting Zero” lol he’s (Alan) a really good friend you can tell

    • @ashleyrodriguez4350
      @ashleyrodriguez4350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      que pase el desgraciado

    • @alonation2912
      @alonation2912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashleyrodriguez4350 BYEEEEEEE THIS IS FUNNY AFFFFFFF

  • @marigarcia9669
    @marigarcia9669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    I love her. And I love the fact that her mom welcomed her back home.. I just feel like Bella has SO MUCH Potential and he’s holding her back cause he KNOWS she can do better in life he will go to sh1t…
    Idk I don’t feel bad for her. But I do feel like she need to open her eyes and better herself for her to know her worth FOR HER BABY.

    • @wendy.m7593
      @wendy.m7593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Girl! You couldn’t have said it any better

    • @j._.18
      @j._.18 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      did she go back home or no

    • @sheilaescalon5215
      @sheilaescalon5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup the fact that she was like “wait do I really deserve better?” Shows that she still dosent know her worth and so there’s space for him to fuck with her thoughts. It’s very beneficial for him how he’s like “let’s break up but don’t go no where , but also ima go fuck around, but now im not gonna post girls in my social media just in case I wanna get back w you” & she’s just there like “okay 😃” lol I just feel like she needs better guidance

    • @alexa-wr4tz
      @alexa-wr4tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this!!!!

    • @oca1217
      @oca1217 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Daryana

  • @adxyana5550
    @adxyana5550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    i hateeeee when people say , " I want my son/daughter to have both of his parents in their life" bc both parents will still be in their life if they're not together. Just co-parent good and be good friends. You dont have to be with them, he sounds so manipulative and I feel bad for her but people learn on their own. Also just bc youre a parent doesnt mean you cant put yourself first, she needs to value herself.

    • @ElainaxPeralta
      @ElainaxPeralta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree!!! Ok Baby did it, so can she !!

    • @yarineflores4977
      @yarineflores4977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I needed this .

    • @viannccaa
      @viannccaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think part of the reason why he acts like that is because he grew up having an absent father. It still doesn’t justify treating Bella like that though.

    • @Rosie-ro8qg
      @Rosie-ro8qg ปีที่แล้ว

      That part

  • @LAQueen46
    @LAQueen46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Honestly watching this really hurts me because we all want to be amazing parents and coparent but sometimes you should put yourself first. If your baby daddy is back-and-forth then that show something. If a guy really wants to be with you he’ll make the effort not go back-and-forth what he wants with his life and expects you to wait.

    • @heidigalvez1843
      @heidigalvez1843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @yourstruly.adelynne4483
      @yourstruly.adelynne4483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He just wants to have her easily accessible to him and that’s what she’s giving him. I know we have our own opinions but she definitely deserves better and can still raise her son co parenting without living together. She definitely doesn’t need to stay in that position because it’s not gonna workout. But again thats her life hopefully she realizes her worth!

    • @withthemoon0
      @withthemoon0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      this but i think she will eventually it’s just that their baby is still really little they prob both want to be able to experience him being this small because kids grow up so fast maybe by the time he’s a toddler she’ll feel like it’s okay for her to move out

  • @mefamily4475
    @mefamily4475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I feel like she’s just there because moving out will make her feel like it’s really over and she’s not ready to let go 100% but I fully understand how hard it is to let go when your in a toxic environment hopefully she lets go soon bc she deserves so much better

  • @karenteresaaa
    @karenteresaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    She is so beautiful and seems like such an amazing person! It’s sad to see her stay in a situation that clearly isn’t healthy. She will eventually learn that she doesn’t have to live with her baby daddy to be able to co-parent and have a healthy relationship for their son. She deserves to be happy for herself and for her son!

  • @merlynramirez3396
    @merlynramirez3396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Let’s bring Anthony on the show next lol 😂

  • @daliabernabe7626
    @daliabernabe7626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I feel like she’s blinded herself to see reality he’s just messing with her Jesse and she’s using the excuse of the baby to live with each other

    • @jordanjohnson9866
      @jordanjohnson9866 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah. Not blinded herself to see reality. Not “blinded herself to see reality.” /

    • @Luvxhrts
      @Luvxhrts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Su if you don’t know

  • @candydiaz1982
    @candydiaz1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Only if she knew she’s so out of his league 😭😭😢

  • @jamievelasco3933
    @jamievelasco3933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    My parents did the same thing that Bella is doing with her baby daddy and as the child who grow up with that . ITS A BAD IDEA !!! let me tell you growing up and seeing my dad coming home late and seeing how much it effect my mom wasn’t health and I believe in call parenting but now living together because there’s always gonna be drama and ends up bad …. And how he thinks is not a good idea … as well he’s sees her as a safety blanket

  • @marwak27
    @marwak27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Bella 100 Percent does deserve better SHES SO BEAUTIFUL TO BE EVEN LET DOWNNN it’s dtn get in with the session I honestly have so much respect for her for her having that power of being able to see her baby daddy everyday and living under the roof with him

  • @anacortez7326
    @anacortez7326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    No girl you need to get out and listen to your mom. He doesn’t want you to move on but he’s able to go out and all. He just low key taking control of you. Believe me once you move out youll move on mentally and everything is going to be easier and peaceful. Even better for your baby. Right now that your baby is small he can get used to you guys not being together cause once’s kid are older it’s harder.

  • @brandysoto
    @brandysoto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I definitely know how she’s feeling and relate to her on every single thing she said it is hard it is a mindset that can’t really be explained and yes she isn’t selfish she definitely has unconditional love for him which makes it harder

  • @erikaescobar3068
    @erikaescobar3068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Girl wait until he meets another girl and leaves you and your baby living there. Put yourself first and your baby! If he don’t want to be with you don’t give the privilege.

  • @Gm70894
    @Gm70894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I'm sorry but she is so naïve. She even said it herself "how do you not wanna be with me but still want me here" he doesn't want her to live her life. I hope she can find the courage to get up and leave and share her child not under the same roof. God bless her.

  • @yourcreationsjas2620
    @yourcreationsjas2620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    let’s bring XIO to noche de pendejadas next !

  • @chanaacevedo5430
    @chanaacevedo5430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    i feel so bad for her 😭she doesnt c that Anthony is manipulating her

  • @gabrielaagundez5120
    @gabrielaagundez5120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    He will always have you in that same position if you don't value yourself enough to show him that you can move on without him, even though it hurts to move on. 🥺

    • @edithcarrillo4577
      @edithcarrillo4577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s what I think too. I think he knows she will always be there so he can go whatever he wants & have her as his back up things

  • @muahgladysxo
    @muahgladysxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She’s honestly gorgeous, with or without makeup! Def of beauty 💋

  • @lifewithval7248
    @lifewithval7248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Idk how she does it honestly . Yeah y’all get along but even her own family calls it like they see it . Why not move out if she’s able too and still co parent ? She still gets insecure about him being another girls .. why put yourself in that situation or feeling . I’d rather have a piece of mind then having to wait for my ex to get home even tho he was just with someone else .But if it works for her 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Charliesglamlife
      @Charliesglamlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      but we don’t know how they are in private either things aren’t always as they seem

    • @lifewithval7248
      @lifewithval7248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Charliesglamlife we don’t . but she’s expressing a lot on here that’s she’s still willing to work things out but he’s still not even sure , seems like . My opinion

    • @Charliesglamlife
      @Charliesglamlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @LifeWithVal true im barely in the beginning as wellll):

  • @mialaniruiz2651
    @mialaniruiz2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    and it’s the fact that Anthony just posted Im guessing his new girl on his tiktok , like idk . What happens when he wants to bring a girl home but bella’s there AND their son is there . Ugh I feel so bad for bella , I can’t wait til she decides to put herself first ! For her and the baby too . :(

  • @magdalenababe7312
    @magdalenababe7312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    it’s so heartbreaking tbh at the end of the day only they know what happened for their relationship to turn this way, but for the ones who’s been watching Bella since the beginning, we all know how much Bella really cared for Anthony. She’s literally been by him through all.

    • @melenaamato5163
      @melenaamato5163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah remember when he got out of jail she was like don’t leave me again

  • @strawberrymilk-dt8us
    @strawberrymilk-dt8us 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    girl her baby daddy not even cute😭 deserve better sis

  • @finurra3905
    @finurra3905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    By 13 minutes, this was so cringe...this is so sad all around. She can do better, I mean he obviously doesn't want her so why stay? Then again, I don't know...never been in this situation so..

    • @ElainaxPeralta
      @ElainaxPeralta 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know I wish I could say so much but I haven't been in this situation

  • @CallmeYami
    @CallmeYami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It’s giving im not ready to settle down but i come home wenever tf i want and still have control

  • @Ashleyn831xo
    @Ashleyn831xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    He knows she's gullible smh very much taking advantage of her it's sad ..I wish she can open her eyes .she's so beautiful and seems super genuine guys don't deserve us good girls

  • @luvsme4564
    @luvsme4564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    It literally feels like he planned to leave her and he’s trying to see if he’s really in love with her or not but keep her there just in case he is and still wants a future with her. I respect any woman’s decision but her BD is really trying to eat the cake and have it too or whatever that saying is LOL.

  • @briannabuitrago4085
    @briannabuitrago4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Poor Bella:( even tho we have no idea why they broke up Anthony has a part of it because he keeps blaming her. She really loves him, I hope every thing goes well her

  • @yarelymontero6847
    @yarelymontero6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    As a daughter that has lived my entire life dealing with family problems and my parents doing the same thing as Bella. Ive gone through a lot it’s not the best choice but I understand that it’s all for her baby but once her baby get older he’s gonna have a say to. Im barely speaking up about how I feel.

  • @lookojiosdjfisdf
    @lookojiosdjfisdf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    He is messing around and coming home to you the disrespect I can’t 😵‍💫

    • @alexismcentaggart657
      @alexismcentaggart657 ปีที่แล้ว

      They sleep in the same bed still so she’s kinda disrespecting herself in some way

  • @melissarodriguez4600
    @melissarodriguez4600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You know why she stays cause he GUILT trips her !! He grew up fucked yo let say with out his dad and now he has a son himself he guilt trips her to dating you are not taking my son. He needs help honestly he’s emotionally attached to him cause of his trauma how he wish his father would of don’t things is how he’s doing now as in (we not together but live together cause of son !!!) She so nice dude her heart is so visible threw her Just. Talking she so warm hearted (how Mexican say es de Sanger Liviana

  • @chiinaaarico5201
    @chiinaaarico5201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    It looks like she wanted to cry but she's holding her tears in

  • @yennya4554
    @yennya4554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Alan is such a good host i could tell she was anxious but he made her feel comfortable with all her responses!

  • @odyuo7581
    @odyuo7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I feel like bella is using 'co parenting' as an excuse to get back with Anthony.

  • @Snazzykim0
    @Snazzykim0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Let me tell you from experience, even without a baby. That shit will not end up working it may for a few months but you'll end up getting attached to your ex and getting those feelings back when y'all were together. Trust it never works out at the end.

  • @Nataliaaa21
    @Nataliaaa21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I loved this episode. Bella is so pretty!! 😩💕

  • @beqieodjkagorjuslol5670
    @beqieodjkagorjuslol5670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    i still hate the fact how he literally got her pregnant then broke up with her like wtf???

    • @reyrey7868
      @reyrey7868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Guys definitely be trapping woman lol

    • @user-bo3fp5wz7y
      @user-bo3fp5wz7y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He definitely planned that for years/months. I think when she cheated he wasn’t genuine with her after. It’s easy for some people to fake love unfortunately.

    • @beqieodjkagorjuslol5670
      @beqieodjkagorjuslol5670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-bo3fp5wz7y she cheated?? When?

    • @mayagniedziejko5736
      @mayagniedziejko5736 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nahhh fr lmaoo

    • @GodBlessedDerrieka5126
      @GodBlessedDerrieka5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If u look back in some videos before i think in the video it was said that it was bella who broke up with him

  • @vivianaramirez5319
    @vivianaramirez5319 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bro I need a friend like Alan that always makes me constantly laugh😂

  • @vanessacervantez8701
    @vanessacervantez8701 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awww I love her! I just started seeing Bella’s videos and I absolutely love her vibe she’s so cute!

  • @kinderjoy6672
    @kinderjoy6672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    i honestly feel so bad for Bella 😢, Anthony only excuse is ‘ I don’t want our son to grow up with a parent like how I did’ like bro youre werid let bella move out ik I can’t say much about having a baby but I feel like he’s still a baby and he dosent really understand if their parents break up or wtv when he grows up he can chose if he wants to stay with his mom or dad. them sharing him for a week or a weekend is not a bad idea because it can you personal time for you’re self he’s just putting stuff in Bella’s head for her to stay after everything he did after the break up and wtv Bella did in the relationship dose not give him an excuse to do what he’s doing now with those girls, a ‘ break’ for a relationship is to grow as a person and STAY loyal

    • @j._.18
      @j._.18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fr but like I think Noah will need bella rn cause she's still breastfeeding

  • @jacquelinecadena8196
    @jacquelinecadena8196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ugh I couldn’t stop staring at Bella 😍 she’s so beautiful inside and out.

  • @stefaniedeloera4237
    @stefaniedeloera4237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg beeeeeen waiting for this!!!!!!! Thanks alannnnnnn (:

  • @lexytapia9810
    @lexytapia9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love watching noche de pendejadas Alannized love ❤️ your Makeup happy Saturday literally made sure you got all the chisme 😂😂

  • @562Prisyjalisco
    @562Prisyjalisco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You can still both co parent and be good parents and not live together ?? Why is she still living with him ??

  • @luselyramirez3288
    @luselyramirez3288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She’s beautiful ! As a mom I would leave and try to coparent as best as I can. Hope everything works out for her and her son ❤️

  • @verom6305
    @verom6305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Was waiting for this❤️

  • @lavidadelayaya4785
    @lavidadelayaya4785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I hope she knows her worth for her and her baby it sounds like he knows that she wont mess w anyone else n just take care of her baby so that’s why hes ok w her still living w him.

  • @daniellalovesmakeup2014
    @daniellalovesmakeup2014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Finally I’m ready for this!!! Hermosa 🤩

  • @rubygodinez4193
    @rubygodinez4193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Aw I love Bella 💗💗💗 she’s such a good mommy

  • @erikasolorioo7313
    @erikasolorioo7313 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I did this for a week. I’m telling you it’s not for the weak. Especially when feeling are involved. Co parenting is easier in different households. My kid loves going to her dads house. It gives her time to spend quality time with him. Because when we were co parenting he would still make me do all the work.

  • @stephanypizarro8228
    @stephanypizarro8228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Poor bella she’s literally blinded:(

  • @jocelynvee6934
    @jocelynvee6934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I 100% agree with what her mom said in the beginning when they broke up

  • @destinybubbaxoxo
    @destinybubbaxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bella you’re worth so much more mama. ❤️❤️

  • @jenniegutierrez1612
    @jenniegutierrez1612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love you alannized , your soo beautiful ! And your personality is goals !!!!

  • @ness3452
    @ness3452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Alan made this all about her relationship
    And not about her

  • @miette.murcia216
    @miette.murcia216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yay you finally brought her to the show

  • @yazminmarin516
    @yazminmarin516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ALANNN MAKEUP IS JUST FIREEEE❤‍🔥

  • @skyylerr5909
    @skyylerr5909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl if y’all were to ever get back to get omggg I’d be sooo happy !!! Literally cried when y’all broke up ! Loved watching this 💓

  • @isaelcalleja9022
    @isaelcalleja9022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She’s not over him , he is manipulative though!! Like her mom told her, he can’t see her with other guys but he wants to be with other girls hopefully she realizes it.

  • @valeriadiaz8620
    @valeriadiaz8620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She’s literally gorgeous

  • @kayleewest8171
    @kayleewest8171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He’s telling her what he thinks she wants to hear to just keep her around it’s actually really fucked up.

    • @adrianarogeligo
      @adrianarogeligo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s how my kids father was to me until I finally moved on and meet someone better

  • @saraifonseca8820
    @saraifonseca8820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It’s selfish on both ends. Selfish because he’s manipulative and doesn’t want to take care of the child on his own and whenever he wants to get up and leave, he just hands the child over to Bella. Bella because she still cares and loves him but doesn’t do her any good because he does not care or love her the same. It’s such a a toxic relationship for the child to grow up in. Some day that child will grow to think this is normal and this can unfortunately branch out to so many things…and not good things. Aka him doing the same and or someone doing the same to him. That’s why both parents are being selfish about this whole situation. Their child deserves so much more than living like this.

  • @ChamelaMartinez
    @ChamelaMartinez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow early yay!! Good to see Bella!!

  • @fernandaf.7073
    @fernandaf.7073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this so much 😂

  • @CallmeYami
    @CallmeYami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love you bella your so beautiful and so sad you don’t know your worth OF COURSE U DESERVE BETTER! Kids will always have they’re parents together or separated how is it co parenting when his out doing his thing but u stay home with ur son how he will like to get together in the future but not now? Lol CHILDISH! Like u say theres no time to play time is ticking lifes too short to be playing mind games and stay waiting for a someone to mature and make a decision!

  • @vanessaayala4976
    @vanessaayala4976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She’s gorgeous ✨💕

  • @Xoxolexilexx
    @Xoxolexilexx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im going thru a divorce no baby but we live together while selling the house. People can talk all the shit they want but I relate so much. I know exactly what she’s going thru. I don’t even know her but it’s easier said than done it’s real life and you can’t just pick up and act like a part your life doesn’t exist. It takes time and is part of the healing journey. And the journey of loving yourself .

  • @nickii_honey
    @nickii_honey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is so pretty!!!! Love her

  • @divasantana6031
    @divasantana6031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Girl the baby doesn’t even know that you guys are together or will remember, but if you keep doing this he’ll get used to it & he confused when he’s older.

  • @kenyaduenas-olivares4558
    @kenyaduenas-olivares4558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yesssss fav guest so far 🤍🤍💗💗

  • @samanthamorales124
    @samanthamorales124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    she’s sooo pretttyyy

  • @corona1427
    @corona1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Bella saying "mhm” every 30 seconds 😂

  • @kasandrasanchez5590
    @kasandrasanchez5590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Bring in jehielyyyy from jlex familia!!!!!

  • @brisaflores7282
    @brisaflores7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Bring jheliy from Jlex familia !!!

  • @andreamartinez4378
    @andreamartinez4378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bella deserves better she definitely was all about Anthony and loved him, it's sad to see him on tiktok being the way he is I'm sure she's doing the same out of spite but she seems so damn strong bro so shout out to her for being strong

  • @ElisaAlyanna
    @ElisaAlyanna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg i love herrrrr so gorgeous

  • @genevam6966
    @genevam6966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She soooo gorgeous and pretty

  • @heyitsdannii8306
    @heyitsdannii8306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I bet her dad was happy they broke up since he didn’t like him at all .

    • @allstars4287
      @allstars4287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @allstars4287
      @allstars4287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wonder why

    • @heyitsdannii8306
      @heyitsdannii8306 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@allstars4287 there’s a video on their channel when they hanged out with her dad and he said why .

    • @Yocochehairy
      @Yocochehairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@heyitsdannii8306 where

    • @heyitsdannii8306
      @heyitsdannii8306 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yocochehairy it’s on there TH-cam channel . It’s called Fighing with my gfs dad . It was 8 months ago .

  • @alexaaaa785
    @alexaaaa785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Y’all should invite life being dest to the podcast

  • @lesliehuerta5503
    @lesliehuerta5503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just subscribed and love this

  • @jenperez.x
    @jenperez.x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Omg you Can tell like how much she loves him. It’s sad that guys don’t realize or take women for granted until it’s too late :( Keep Doing you !

  • @layshacruz2591
    @layshacruz2591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg Heyy alannnn I love uuu

  • @alexzandrahernandez733
    @alexzandrahernandez733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    aw i just realized i watched bella for over 2 years it was literally the exact video i watched she took down but it was picking up my boyfriend in disguise in a truck! LOL

  • @lovermorales5091
    @lovermorales5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    ohhhh girl leave that situation now. i feel so bad for her. literally blind.

    • @ElainaxPeralta
      @ElainaxPeralta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ommggg when she said they lived together in the same room I was shockkk

    • @gabrielarazo6440
      @gabrielarazo6440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ElainaxPeralta I couldn’t, they should get a 2 br

  • @axdacity_8690
    @axdacity_8690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bella you need to move out mama, you have big things chasing after you & don’t feel guilty. This is life and this is what was meant to happen, sharing your son can be done in a much different and healthier way.
    Move out and have set dates for Mumm days and daddy days. ❤️
    Put yourself first Bella please

  • @alexamarie6488
    @alexamarie6488 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hands down the best podcast !

  • @girl6911
    @girl6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Blancaj next!! You interviewed almost all of “the squad” so it’s her turn!!! Or bring Mayra and Karina Garcías

  • @alma81033
    @alma81033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alan is giving me Don Francisco presenta vibes lol 💗

  • @miriammartinez1536
    @miriammartinez1536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The fact that she said that she asks herself is she deserves better ?🤦‍♀️

  • @sososo2600
    @sososo2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    No Bella you shouldn’t even live under the same roof as Anthony. I feel like that’s not even a good idea. You need to move out and do you with your baby, I feel like it’s more stressful like that. You need to focus on your baby and think about your baby more than anything. Don’t let this man tell you what’s best because at the end of the day he’s just thinking about himself

  • @Erika-lm2rd
    @Erika-lm2rd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He doesn’t deserve her. Open your eyes girl, your baby will be ok.

  • @mswickberry784
    @mswickberry784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bella is so gorgeous :(( she deserves so much 💕💕💕💕u gotta get out girl

  • @cristlecabrera8205
    @cristlecabrera8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is so pretty

  • @kaleisreal
    @kaleisreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    We can sit here and judge her but some of us have been in the same spot as her ! And only she will move on when she wants too

  • @wavysounds1433
    @wavysounds1433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmaooo for the wheel of fortune she got lie detector but she decided to spin again ahhhh 😂😂😂