I remember sitting in a restaurant in Paris and when I said Merci to the waiter, she replied that she appreciated me saying a few words in French and giving me a free chocolate bar. Loved it
I went to Paris for the first time last year and I found the French to be very kind and friendly. I only know maybe 2 or 3 words of French and just making an effort to speak it goes a long way. I'm going back again in July.
I cannot disagree more. Quality of customer service in the US is next level. It’s a well established concept in the US that even the smile on waiter’s/waitress’s face from the start, is a part of the dining experience. Dining is not all about eating.
@@jeffmorrison2915 The only expectation I have of food service employees is that they just bring me the food I ordered. I don't expect them to smile or look a certain way. They're just people doing a job, they're not there to entertain you while you eat. The food is honestly the only thing that matters to me. Even if the service was good, if the food is bad I'm not going back.
The only thing I don’t like is when I need a refill for my drink. I like them to do that automatically without me asking. It takes so long to wave for them to come over.
@StrawberryJamJam29 Just fill your own glass ! Though you're quite right that getting your glass automatically refilled is part of good service even in France : it's just that it is supposed to be unobtrusive, contrary to the US. In very classy restaurants, your glass should stay topped up without you even noticing. 😶🌫️👻 Of course in most normal restaurants there is neither enough waiters nor experience to realize that correctly so by default you'll get a bottle or pitcher and be expected to refill your own glass and ask for a new drink if necessary. 😢
Hi Lucile, super video. Brit here, worked in Paris for many years as a cross cultural facilitator in a major French firm. I worked a lot helping French customer service people understand and adapt to Anglo expectations. And boy, what a difference! Let’s say that the French show respect by being polite, non intrusive and that anglos tend to show respect by showing interest. Hence the difficulties. You are spot on by saying the Bonjour is absolutely vital.
Absolutely love Paris…my french is rubbish but I do my very best …the french love it and really appreciate it. It’s a beautiful language…I find the Parisians kind and friendly ❤
It has been a while since I was in France. Before I went I found a small handbook about Franco culture that was very helpful. I took Italian in college. So, basic language syntax was not too difficult. I spent 20-30 minutes every day for about 4 months before my trip learning basic phrases in French. It made a big difference and almost everyone spoke back to me in English. Lol
💯 great advice! I would add if you are going to Michelin star restaurants or staying at five star or "palace level" hotels there will be dress codes to adhere to or you may have issues, usually Smart Casual for days and Business Casual evenings for most places. But checking their website prior to showing up is a good idea, most will let you know. Most of the year the French tend to dark even somber color choices, that can help blend in if you want. Its a hold over from the French Revolution, prior to that they dressed like peacocks. Also athletic wear is for that, its not for street wear, avoid yoga pants and flipflops if you want to be taken seriously.
It takes so much time and money to prepare for a trip to Paris from the US. I couldn't imagine not learning some French or about the customs... it only takes a short video like this to give you some insight into customs and then only learning a few words to order food, get a taxi, etc.
The amount of respect for quality food and dining in France is astounding and the best in the world as long as you understand and appreciate the differences between French and American cultures. Not to mention that the French diet is so much healthier and tastier than most American food. Just learn to appreciate other cultures, and learn from them. Always remember that you are in their country, so be respectful and try to learn some French.
I love all of your videos. Thanks for all of the advice. Specifically, I love how you explain how not to "take it personal" when someone in Paris is rude to you. LoL. Thank you!
Lots of great information lucille. I only wish upon a star that I could visit such a beautiful place.on my dad's side of the family they all come from Wales, England and on my mom's side I'm Scottish and Irish a Dutch and French Canadian.I am truly a mutt.but what a great heritage to have and hand down to your kids.thank you for taking me along for this journey.be safe and stay warm in Paris.
French people ARE friendly. I also find them very direct, which I love. My main challenge in Paris has been mixing up all the different train hubs (Gares). And trying to print a "ouigo" ticket, when a printed ticket wasn't needed. I missed my train. Yes people from Toulose are very friendly. Marseille is the best place on earth.
Hi ! Thank you for the video. I have been to France 7 times. Different regions.And nowhere I noticed small portions of food. ( except Michelin places)And I am a good eater. It is always enough and very filling.😊❤
Whoa ! Good Luck, oh brave one. Be prepared for huge crowds. Bring LOTS of money, Everything will be increased , massively, in price ( as in EVERY City around the World, when big events occur) Paris isn't cheap, even in the 'off Season', normal Months!. I'd suggest that you, maybe, research some Restaurants, and make some bookings ,before you arrive.
@@marouenerouatbi8468 you don't have to talk to people, but just not be an ass: keep your voice down, don't wear your backpack if it's crowded, don't sit on folding seats during rush hours, don't try to step in the second the doors open before letting people step off.
Hello Lucile, I like the video where you speak about foods, I like your way to describe it and I can understand almost every words of your really good english so everytime is a new food esperience and a new english lesson because I try to use in my videos every single word that I've learn from you and from your videos. so thak you a lot for the really nice job that you are doing and keep going like this. subscribed.
I'm glad to hear that in Paris it's still not cool to wear workout clothes or pajamas in public. As an American, I am embarrassed that people do that. So tacky!!!
Wearing athletic style clothing and pajamas are not comparable….pajamas are meant for bed only and home. athleisure are sold as clothing normally in sets
@@BeeDawn7 yea workout clothes can be subjective. joggers and yoga pants can technically be workout pants but my wife and I both have specific pairs of those for travel and wouldn't workout in them.
Thanks for the pointers about language. I’ve spent a lot of time in Paris - lived here temporarily twice and travel here as often as I can. I get more practice speaking French outside of Paris, but I do find if I tell the person I’m learning French, they’re happy to speak in French. For awhile I was so worried that my French is horrible (okay, it is, but it’s better than I realize).
My husband and I will be visiting Paris at the start of September this year. I'm so excited. I've wanted to visit Paris since the early 90's and finally it's happening. Thank you so much for your video!
I'm Southeast Asian and speak French. I found everyone in France went out of their way to be nice to me once they realized I speak French (albeit with an Asian accent). I think lots of them must've been to Asia before as France has some cultural influence from Vietnam to Laos.
I was in Paris May 1 last year and couldn't resist checking out the retirement age protests, which my wife warned me not to do. To be honest, the protesters were close to retirement age and didn't look like they were going to get too crazy. I will be back in two weeks, so the advice to check for transportation strikes is much appreciated.
Love your channel. We’re going to take a trip to Paris & Champagne next Fall, so excited. So many helpful tips. Also I’m a huge Chicago Bears fan, I’m from Chicago, so I love all of the Bears gear I see in your video 😆
Coming from Les Pay-Bas, most of this is pretty familiar 😄(I guess it could also be 'things you should now as an American coming to Europe' haha). But the dinner time was a great reminder: we tend to go to dinner early here and might easily walk into a restaurant around 6 😅. Looking forward to visiting Paris again in 2 months after watching your videos, merci!
Thank you for all these excellent videos. We loved Canal St Martin - and all the cool kids having drinks along the side of the canal. But ... where do people who drink outside go to the restroom?
Thanks for letting us know about cell phone precautions and on the funny note 😂 New York pedestrians beware of the guys on scooters stealing cell phones when you’re distracted while using them.
the only city that I stayed for 3-4 days in france is Lyon, and god local folks are soooo nice. I always hear about the french attitude, but I highly recommend everyone visiting Lyon for perhaps the best food in the region and friendly& helpful people. PS: Lucile is right, I tended to start saying bonjour (you will pick up this nuance in couple of hours as everyone says it) and if they speak english (in french) just some basics help your stay more welcoming like any other country =)
Ahhh talking about spring and sun and good moods and here April is almost over and everyone's miserable cause it's still cold out. I was ready to put my big coat away and everything.
Thank you for the all the tips! You speak really fast, not sure if video was sped up, but it is all good! One comment, you mentioned safety which is true but nothing about pick pocket. I would be nice to be honest about that as a caution as we all know that is the reality, just need to be on alert and have a “plan” to be on alert as tourist.
Last november i went to Paris and really make a effort to speak in french with every person at hotel, restaurants, taxis, etc and after a small talk i have noticed that locals answered in english so i thought that my french was really bad…i felt embarrased every time but i kept trying every time. New suscriber i really like the content thanks!
As someone who lives in New York City, I always find these types of videos a little bit misleading. Inevitably someone is comparing London or Paris - to all of the US. When in fact, most things one can mention about those two cities can immediately also be applied to New York City, an American city. So the differences are not really cultural, but urban versus rural or “sub”urban. Not really much about the lifestyle of Paris is so different from New York. I’ve been to Paris many times (not speaking much French, though) and found it a lovely, comforting city that I immediately felt normal in because I’m from a similar city. Everything from the attitude of the waiters, to the disdain for small talk, to the part about being very friendly once you approach someone politely. This is all true of New York! And our food portion sizes are also not as big as in other parts of the U.S., and we New Yorkers also walk everywhere as well. We also have plenty of bakeries that make fresh, European-style bread daily - so at least in New York, you’ll never see me buying bagged processed bread from the supermarket. Not unless I’m making a peanut butter & jelly sandwich! 😁
I ve been to NYC a couple of times and people (in service positions) were soooo rude, it was shocking. People in Paris on the other hand were really friendly! A bonjour madame/monsieur and merci beaucoup go a long way. I love Paris and have been there many times and now I can' t wait to see more of France!
Weather - my previous trip to Paris was in early July and it was 100F (38C) - tres chaud! No air conditioning, of course, but it was okay. My upcoming trip is in December, so I'm expecting much colder weather (I'm going to see the holiday lights)
Well, French are known to let you know if something is wrong so no need to waste time asking if everything is fine every 5 mins 🤣 I am moving to Paris from the UK soon, I can’t wait!!!
Omg the minimal workout wear and pajamas are always terrible, though I agree that nobody in NYC would give it a second look. I’m in Boston, where most people don’t care too much but definitely think it’s pretty low brow 😆
Merci Lucile, for your information. Always nice to get information from Locals about there culture & good food tips.😀 I love Paris, i always go to Paris 1 or 2 times year. My father is from France Guyana and lives in Paris. I am going to Paris this mai, so i am going to watch more of your video's. 🔔 new👍🏿 🙋🏿♀️ from Amsterdam, Lucie. ☀️
I've been to Paris 4 different times in my life, and always thought the high-fashion Parisienne stereotype was strange. Most women in Paris are dressed practically for the weather and amount of walking. Also, great tips on the polite greetings!
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It makes sense. People in NYC are very different from people in Wisconsin. Just huge differences in life and the amount of people around them all the time and also crime. Just subscribed!! Im totally overwhelmed by where to stay in Paris! Is a boutique hotel better then the westin or Hilton? I don't want to spend a fortune on hotels either because we want to eat out and shop. It's such a huge city!
I love Paris &all of France and French people ❤ Everywhere we have been, people have been very sweet and polite. But obviously we always greet people and say merci etc..Also i think this reputation for rudeness is undeserved or at least a relict of the 80's. Most people speak atleast a few words of English but yes it helps if you make an effort to use the little French you know.
Wonderful video. I must have French blood somewhere in my ancestry (Australian) A friendly "Bonjour" to all. Am with you on American "service"; go away and let me enjoy my meal and company in peace. Tips in US are out of control. "Bonjour. J’aimerais pratiquer le français. N’hésitez pas à me corriger et à rire !" I hate small talk. A wine and bread with cheese from the Raspail markets in the Luxembourg Gardens, yes please. I don't need a mansion to holiday in. Fresh air and open windows, yes, yes.
Hi! I am in Paris this weekend and cant wait. Is there any chance you could please recommend a restaurant for a Sunday evening? It looks like a lot are closed! We are stying in the 9th but can easily get the metro anywhere! Thank you!
I'd say that not wearing pj's in public is about as basic a rule as there is and one that I continually strive to live by and am proud to say that I have yet to fail at. One must have some standards, after all. 😊
Bonjour! I’m going to Paris next month and will stay there for one week. I’ll be arriving around 7pm in Paris, do you recommend to take the Uber or train? Also I really want to see Eiffel Tower and the louvre but don’t wanna wait in line, is there a safe, fast ticket? One more thing, where are your favorite place to go and eat? Merci
I understand that we should always greet the waiters or the shop owner with "bonjour" - if we feel that we're interrupting, is it appropriate to add "pardonnez-moi"? Or should we just stick with "bonjour"? (Is it not done to say "bon apres-midi" in the afternoon or "bonne soiree" in the evening?)
We rather use "excusez-moi" which is less formal. "Bon après-midi" and "bonne soirée" are for good-byes only. In the afternoon, you still say "bonjour" as a greeting, and in the evening it's "bonsoir"
I do Love your Videos Lucille as I go to Paris a lot but… there are other people who watch your videos besides Americans who I guess they are aimed at. As they are all in English there are English people like myself who watch and enjoy them 😋
Absolutely, you are very welcome here haha! Sorry for speaking a bit too much about Americans, I've lived in the US and my boyfriend is from Chicago so that's why :)
ugh, assigned meal times are awful. my biggest complaint about living in Spain. When traveling, especially with a toddler, we eat when we need to/can and when he gets hungry or ancy. there is no negotiating with toddlers.
I think it’s because a lot us ate at specific times with our families and at school growing up! I ate every meal with my parents growing up and I’ve just kept the habit :) I feel breakfast kind of depends on when you wake up haha
A friend of mine was staying in the 8th when the Gilet Jaune protests started. Your riot police hammered them and my friend even though he was a block away got a bad dose of tear gas. It affected his lungs for weeks. CHECK FOR PROTESTS OR STRIKES!
Thanks for the video! I understand that it might be a controversial topic because the Parisians who are on social media seem to HATE the Olympics. But we are coming to Paris for the games in July and August. So far, there's very little information other than pure negativity and resentment from people on the ground. I'd appreciate your practical ideas or tips for the 2024 Olympics in a video!
You need to remember that Paris is HOME to PARISIENS. They need to go to work, School, College, interviews, Appointments. The same daily living that everyone else does.!! They rely on the Metro to do these things. Hence, even normal Tourism must be frustrating, but they welcome visitors, too. I can see why they don't love the Games, as they are going to be HUGELY hindered , going about their normal day, by THOUSANDS of extra people,. MANY just strolling around ,getting in their way, and making them late ! I fully understand why they don't relish the idea of the Games
Great video, thank you! It actually made me much calmer about my visit in Paris. Is it true that even if I have a Paris Visite ticket for two days, i am supposed to first validate my ticket and then EVERY TIME, even 20 times that i transfer from one bus to another I need to still put it into the machine ? Or can i just validate it and then keep it in my pocket ?
If you have a bebe in Paris its so difficult to go inside these they are not stroller friendly. Paris is meant for couples to sit close in cramped quarters to be in love.
An American culture used to be that you got to be the one that decided what the fair wage was for the waiter, a better waiter made better pay, now American service has become more like European French or Italian service where they basically just bring you your food so it’s become very ridiculous. That tips are expected as part of the pay. It never was like that before and now you’re expected to tip before you even get the service in many cases and that’s absolutely wrong. In the 70s and 80s a 10% tip meant you didn’t really think they did that great of a job but they didn’t completely fail you, a 15% tip meant they did an excellent job, and anything more than that meant that they went over and above. Now in America, you were asked to give a 25% tip before you even know if they’re going to bring you the right thing and it’s not the capitalist culture that used to be. Capitalism means the power of who gets to thrive or fail is in the pocket of the buyer no matter how rich or poor the buyer is. Really that’s pretty much disappeared in America and from Bush, Obama, and Biden we saw things like too big to fail where the government picked and chose what companies thrived or failed and that’s not American capitalism at all. Trump was a capitalist, that doesn’t mean consumerism, capitalism literally means that there’s power in the pocket of the little person getting to decide who gets their money, this is why when Obama said people wouldn’t lose their Dr with his version of Health Care was so upsetting when people had to spend more on healthcare and lose their doctor and access to choices and speedy quality health services at Americans had been accustomed to and why Canadians typically pay out-of-pocket for American healthcare. And starting in 2020 government spoke over hospitals, giving permission for worst care but paid for care and if you want to know the real reason why there were so many losses of lives in 2020 and beyond in America, it’s because The second people heard the government would pay for care, they suddenly no longer cared that they had a right to try and the better American care that they no longer had access to the government paid and it suddenly became legal to take people off of Dr. prescribed medication’s something that used used to not be allowed but was forced through as allowed in 2020 along with also lowering standards before standards. Any reason to be lowered. this did not come directly from Trump, and I don’t try to pretend I understand how it happened, I just know it happened and it shouldn’t have.
I Googled "La chiasse" to see what it translated to in english but I mistakenly had it going from Italian to english and in Italian it means "The Church"...
I went to a restaurant in Paris last year and had a very bad experience...I was just asking the waiter to give us 5 mins to decide the order..but he just said 'No English only French' and I tried explaining but he was very rude and I literally had to get up and leave the restaurant
I don't think so. French are talkative if you speak their language. I found that anytime i visit France. They speak low voice but they are talkative. Same with french in the US
I went to France in August and I think people in the US are ruder! lol also to my surprise, they also immediately thought I was from France every where I went until I spoke in English because someone told me I look like I’m from Latin America (my grandparents are bi-racial)
Paris isn't expensive compared to NYC, LA, San Francisco, Boston etc etc. Nothing to do with the population density. People who want AC have AC which is rarely needed.
Living in France, I'd really encourage people to visit other Cities ,and departments ( areas), than Paris. To me, Paris is dirty and overcrowded. Like many Cities, all over the World! I, personally, really dislike the place. Toulouse is a beautiful City. Friendlier people, great Restaurants and Markets. Beautiful buildings, Lyon is also beautiful. Then the many French areas, which are overlooked, as Americans just seem to think that 'France' is just 'Paris'. Visit the beautiful Dordogne, Provence, Vendee regions, where things move slowly and you can relax . You are, after all, on holiday!
There are a lot of beautiful and friendly city in France, but the capital is unique for the diversity of people to meet, the amount of places to see and things to do. Ambiance is changing from one district to the next one. I only felt this vibe in other cities that are not only large, but also international crossroads like London, New York, but not Mexico or Istanbul, despite their size and sumptuous history.
I remember sitting in a restaurant in Paris and when I said Merci to the waiter, she replied that she appreciated me saying a few words in French and giving me a free chocolate bar. Loved it
Oh that's so sweet!
So who gave chocolate to whom? It’s unclear.
@vladteyvan7564 it's very clear. The waiter was impressed with "merci" thus gave the person who wrote this comment a chocolate bar.
I am visitng paris soon and will give this a try!
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Lucy, you are always helpful and insightful. You calm tone and beautiful manners are a few things that make you the best at all things commutation!
I went to Paris for the first time last year and I found the French to be very kind and friendly. I only know maybe 2 or 3 words of French and just making an effort to speak it goes a long way. I'm going back again in July.
Me too
But its my first time nd im kinda nervous not knowing french
I actually far prefer French resturant service to American. I don't like having to reassure my food is fine every 5 mintues.
I cannot disagree more. Quality of customer service in the US is next level. It’s a well established concept in the US that even the smile on waiter’s/waitress’s face from the start, is a part of the dining experience. Dining is not all about eating.
@@jeffmorrison2915 The only expectation I have of food service employees is that they just bring me the food I ordered. I don't expect them to smile or look a certain way. They're just people doing a job, they're not there to entertain you while you eat. The food is honestly the only thing that matters to me. Even if the service was good, if the food is bad I'm not going back.
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The only thing I don’t like is when I need a refill for my drink. I like them to do that automatically without me asking. It takes so long to wave for them to come over.
@StrawberryJamJam29 Just fill your own glass ! Though you're quite right that getting your glass automatically refilled is part of good service even in France : it's just that it is supposed to be unobtrusive, contrary to the US. In very classy restaurants, your glass should stay topped up without you even noticing. 😶🌫️👻
Of course in most normal restaurants there is neither enough waiters nor experience to realize that correctly so by default you'll get a bottle or pitcher and be expected to refill your own glass and ask for a new drink if necessary. 😢
Hi Lucile, super video. Brit here, worked in Paris for many years as a cross cultural facilitator in a major French firm. I worked a lot helping French customer service people understand and adapt to Anglo expectations. And boy, what a difference! Let’s say that the French show respect by being polite, non intrusive and that anglos tend to show respect by showing interest. Hence the difficulties. You are spot on by saying the Bonjour is absolutely vital.
Absolutely love Paris…my french is rubbish but I do my very best …the french love it and really appreciate it. It’s a beautiful language…I find the Parisians kind and friendly ❤
It has been a while since I was in France. Before I went I found a small handbook about Franco culture that was very helpful. I took Italian in college. So, basic language syntax was not too difficult. I spent 20-30 minutes every day for about 4 months before my trip learning basic phrases in French. It made a big difference and almost everyone spoke back to me in English. Lol
Thanks for explaining, I was nervous about traveling to France without learning to speak French fluently
I am American. I visited Paris and found French people very helpful and friendly. I was there years ago but I hope to go back.
💯 great advice! I would add if you are going to Michelin star restaurants or staying at five star or "palace level" hotels there will be dress codes to adhere to or you may have issues, usually Smart Casual for days and Business Casual evenings for most places. But checking their website prior to showing up is a good idea, most will let you know.
Most of the year the French tend to dark even somber color choices, that can help blend in if you want. Its a hold over from the French Revolution, prior to that they dressed like peacocks.
Also athletic wear is for that, its not for street wear, avoid yoga pants and flipflops if you want to be taken seriously.
It takes so much time and money to prepare for a trip to Paris from the US. I couldn't imagine not learning some French or about the customs... it only takes a short video like this to give you some insight into customs and then only learning a few words to order food, get a taxi, etc.
The amount of respect for quality food and dining in France is astounding and the best in the world as long as you understand and appreciate the differences between French and American cultures. Not to mention that the French diet is so much healthier and tastier than most American food. Just learn to appreciate other cultures, and learn from them. Always remember that you are in their country, so be respectful and try to learn some French.
I love all of your videos. Thanks for all of the advice. Specifically, I love how you explain how not to "take it personal" when someone in Paris is rude to you. LoL. Thank you!
Lots of great information lucille. I only wish upon a star that I could visit such a beautiful place.on my dad's side of the family they all come from Wales, England and on my mom's side I'm Scottish and Irish a Dutch and French Canadian.I am truly a mutt.but what a great heritage to have and hand down to your kids.thank you for taking me along for this journey.be safe and stay warm in Paris.
Thank you for the tips! I’m going to Paris later this year. This was super helpful 😊
French people ARE friendly. I also find them very direct, which I love. My main challenge in Paris has been mixing up all the different train hubs (Gares). And trying to print a "ouigo" ticket, when a printed ticket wasn't needed. I missed my train. Yes people from Toulose are very friendly. Marseille is the best place on earth.
Thank you for your videos. I am american and my family of 5 is going to France in August. Your tips are appreciated! Merci
Hi ! Thank you for the video.
I have been to France 7 times. Different regions.And nowhere I noticed small portions of food. ( except Michelin places)And I am a good eater. It is always enough and very filling.😊❤
Ohhh Thank you. Perfect timing for visiting during the Olympics this summer
Whoa ! Good Luck, oh brave one. Be prepared for huge crowds. Bring LOTS of money, Everything will be increased , massively, in price ( as in EVERY City around the World, when big events occur) Paris isn't cheap, even in the 'off Season', normal Months!. I'd suggest that you, maybe, research some Restaurants, and make some bookings ,before you arrive.
I appreciate the useful info!
New Lucile videos = best days!
awww :D
I should add being super polite in the subway with people
why would you even talk to people in the subway
@@marouenerouatbi8468 you don't have to talk to people, but just not be an ass: keep your voice down, don't wear your backpack if it's crowded, don't sit on folding seats during rush hours, don't try to step in the second the doors open before letting people step off.
Hello Lucile, I like the video where you speak about foods, I like your way to describe it and I can understand almost every words of your really good english so everytime is a new food esperience and a new english lesson because I try to use in my videos every single word that I've learn from you and from your videos. so thak you a lot for the really nice job that you are doing and keep going like this. subscribed.
What a gem of a channel , I am soooo happy I found you!! ❤️❤️
aww that's so sweet, thank you :D
Solo travelling to Paris soon, so this is helpful. Thank you.
I went solo last year and everyone was so nice. I'm going again in July solo.
I just went and can’t wait to go again.
Your videos are so great - thank you!! Very practical advice, and makes me feel like I will have more fun in Paris after your recommendations.
“ La Chiasse” oh la la😂😂😂 très different d’une chaise! J’adore tes videos de Paris! Je crois Que tu as trouvé ta specialité Lucille! ☺️☺️👍
I'm glad to hear that in Paris it's still not cool to wear workout clothes or pajamas in public. As an American, I am embarrassed that people do that. So tacky!!!
Same in the Uk and its embarrassing and uncivil IMO.
Wearing athletic style clothing and pajamas are not comparable….pajamas are meant for bed only and home. athleisure are sold as clothing normally in sets
@@BeeDawn7 yea workout clothes can be subjective. joggers and yoga pants can technically be workout pants but my wife and I both have specific pairs of those for travel and wouldn't workout in them.
Thanks for the pointers about language. I’ve spent a lot of time in Paris - lived here temporarily twice and travel here as often as I can. I get more practice speaking French outside of Paris, but I do find if I tell the person I’m learning French, they’re happy to speak in French. For awhile I was so worried that my French is horrible (okay, it is, but it’s better than I realize).
My husband and I will be visiting Paris at the start of September this year. I'm so excited. I've wanted to visit Paris since the early 90's and finally it's happening. Thank you so much for your video!
I'm Southeast Asian and speak French. I found everyone in France went out of their way to be nice to me once they realized I speak French (albeit with an Asian accent). I think lots of them must've been to Asia before as France has some cultural influence from Vietnam to Laos.
I was in Paris May 1 last year and couldn't resist checking out the retirement age protests, which my wife warned me not to do. To be honest, the protesters were close to retirement age and didn't look like they were going to get too crazy. I will be back in two weeks, so the advice to check for transportation strikes is much appreciated.
Love your channel. We’re going to take a trip to Paris & Champagne next Fall, so excited. So many helpful tips. Also I’m a huge Chicago Bears fan, I’m from Chicago, so I love all of the Bears gear I see in your video 😆
Coming from Les Pay-Bas, most of this is pretty familiar 😄(I guess it could also be 'things you should now as an American coming to Europe' haha). But the dinner time was a great reminder: we tend to go to dinner early here and might easily walk into a restaurant around 6 😅. Looking forward to visiting Paris again in 2 months after watching your videos, merci!
My favorite (Bouillon) restaurant in this video, and I only know remember like 3 restaurants in Paris, nice.
Thank you for all these excellent videos. We loved Canal St Martin - and all the cool kids having drinks along the side of the canal. But ... where do people who drink outside go to the restroom?
Thanks for letting us know about cell phone precautions and on the funny note 😂 New York pedestrians beware of the guys on scooters stealing cell phones when you’re distracted while using them.
the only city that I stayed for 3-4 days in france is Lyon, and god local folks are soooo nice. I always hear about the french attitude, but I highly recommend everyone visiting Lyon for perhaps the best food in the region and friendly& helpful people. PS: Lucile is right, I tended to start saying bonjour (you will pick up this nuance in couple of hours as everyone says it) and if they speak english (in french) just some basics help your stay more welcoming like any other country =)
Ahhh talking about spring and sun and good moods and here April is almost over and everyone's miserable cause it's still cold out. I was ready to put my big coat away and everything.
Love me some new Lucile content! Great video, I definitely learned a few things today 😂
Thank you for the all the tips! You speak really fast, not sure if video was sped up, but it is all good!
One comment, you mentioned safety which is true but nothing about pick pocket. I would be nice to be honest about that as a caution as we all know that is the reality, just need to be on alert and have a “plan” to be on alert as tourist.
Last november i went to Paris and really make a effort to speak in french with every person at hotel, restaurants, taxis, etc and after a small talk i have noticed that locals answered in english so i thought that my french was really bad…i felt embarrased every time but i kept trying every time. New suscriber i really like the content thanks!
As someone who lives in New York City, I always find these types of videos a little bit misleading. Inevitably someone is comparing London or Paris - to all of the US. When in fact, most things one can mention about those two cities can immediately also be applied to New York City, an American city. So the differences are not really cultural, but urban versus rural or “sub”urban. Not really much about the lifestyle of Paris is so different from New York. I’ve been to Paris many times (not speaking much French, though) and found it a lovely, comforting city that I immediately felt normal in because I’m from a similar city. Everything from the attitude of the waiters, to the disdain for small talk, to the part about being very friendly once you approach someone politely. This is all true of New York! And our food portion sizes are also not as big as in other parts of the U.S., and we New Yorkers also walk everywhere as well. We also have plenty of bakeries that make fresh, European-style bread daily - so at least in New York, you’ll never see me buying bagged processed bread from the supermarket. Not unless I’m making a peanut butter & jelly sandwich! 😁
New York City is the most ideal city in this world, capital of the world.
@berkeleyfuller-lewis3442 That's a choice
I ve been to NYC a couple of times and people (in service positions) were soooo rude, it was shocking. People in Paris on the other hand were really friendly! A bonjour madame/monsieur and merci beaucoup go a long way. I love Paris and have been there many times and now I can' t wait to see more of France!
Air Conditioning is a must in southern Europe 😂 and Im pretty sure also in southern France. It gets HOT in the summer 🥵
Weather - my previous trip to Paris was in early July and it was 100F (38C) - tres chaud! No air conditioning, of course, but it was okay. My upcoming trip is in December, so I'm expecting much colder weather (I'm going to see the holiday lights)
Well, French are known to let you know if something is wrong so no need to waste time asking if everything is fine every 5 mins 🤣 I am moving to Paris from the UK soon, I can’t wait!!!
Omg the minimal workout wear and pajamas are always terrible, though I agree that nobody in NYC would give it a second look. I’m in Boston, where most people don’t care too much but definitely think it’s pretty low brow 😆
Merci Lucile, for your information. Always nice to get information from Locals about there culture & good food tips.😀
I love Paris, i always go to Paris 1 or 2 times year. My father is from France Guyana and lives in Paris.
I am going to Paris this mai, so i am going to watch more of your video's. 🔔 new👍🏿
🙋🏿♀️ from Amsterdam,
Lucie. ☀️
im moving to paris in like two and a half months and this was super interesting to watch. thanks.
I've been to Paris 4 different times in my life, and always thought the high-fashion Parisienne stereotype was strange. Most women in Paris are dressed practically for the weather and amount of walking. Also, great tips on the polite greetings!
3:18 One of my French books says, "J'ai eu la chiasse quand j'ai vu l'avalanche."
Hey Lucille! Love your Paris life tips! Would you do a video of good art galleries?And any museums? Be well.❤😊
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Very interesting and informative video.
It makes sense. People in NYC are very different from people in Wisconsin. Just huge differences in life and the amount of people around them all the time and also crime.
Just subscribed!! Im totally overwhelmed by where to stay in Paris! Is a boutique hotel better then the westin or Hilton? I don't want to spend a fortune on hotels either because we want to eat out and shop. It's such a huge city!
Me and my best friend are coming to Paris in may next year , can I ask what the name of that pink hotel was please and where it’s located x
I love Paris &all of France and French people ❤ Everywhere we have been, people have been very sweet and polite. But obviously we always greet people and say merci etc..Also i think this reputation for rudeness is undeserved or at least a relict of the 80's. Most people speak atleast a few words of English but yes it helps if you make an effort to use the little French you know.
Waouh ! Tes conseills sont très intéressants et concrets. Bravo Lucile ❤
Wonderful video. I must have French blood somewhere in my ancestry (Australian) A friendly "Bonjour" to all. Am with you on American "service"; go away and let me enjoy my meal and company in peace. Tips in US are out of control. "Bonjour. J’aimerais pratiquer le français. N’hésitez pas à me corriger et à rire !" I hate small talk. A wine and bread with cheese from the Raspail markets in the Luxembourg Gardens, yes please. I don't need a mansion to holiday in. Fresh air and open windows, yes, yes.
Only 2 parts of the nation of France that I have been to are Metz and Nancy on a short car trip.
Hi! I am in Paris this weekend and cant wait. Is there any chance you could please recommend a restaurant for a Sunday evening? It looks like a lot are closed! We are stying in the 9th but can easily get the metro anywhere! Thank you!
I'd say that not wearing pj's in public is about as basic a rule as there is and one that I continually strive to live by and am proud to say that I have yet to fail at. One must have some standards, after all. 😊
Another great video!
Bonjour! I’m going to Paris next month and will stay there for one week. I’ll be arriving around 7pm in Paris, do you recommend to take the Uber or train? Also I really want to see Eiffel Tower and the louvre but don’t wanna wait in line, is there a safe, fast ticket? One more thing, where are your favorite place to go and eat? Merci
I understand that we should always greet the waiters or the shop owner with "bonjour" - if we feel that we're interrupting, is it appropriate to add "pardonnez-moi"? Or should we just stick with "bonjour"?
(Is it not done to say "bon apres-midi" in the afternoon or "bonne soiree" in the evening?)
We rather use "excusez-moi" which is less formal. "Bon après-midi" and "bonne soirée" are for good-byes only. In the afternoon, you still say "bonjour" as a greeting, and in the evening it's "bonsoir"
@@denisai.9996 Thank you so much for the help!
You remind me of Alice Braga. Great tips!
I do Love your Videos Lucille as I go to Paris a lot but… there are other people who watch your videos
besides Americans who I guess they are aimed at.
As they are all in English there are English people like myself who watch and enjoy them 😋
Absolutely, you are very welcome here haha! Sorry for speaking a bit too much about Americans, I've lived in the US and my boyfriend is from Chicago so that's why :)
ugh, assigned meal times are awful. my biggest complaint about living in Spain. When traveling, especially with a toddler, we eat when we need to/can and when he gets hungry or ancy. there is no negotiating with toddlers.
Bonjour! Why are their specific times to eat lunch and dinner? What time is breakfast in France?
I think it’s because a lot us ate at specific times with our families and at school growing up! I ate every meal with my parents growing up and I’ve just kept the habit :)
I feel breakfast kind of depends on when you wake up haha
@@LucileHR Thanks for the explanation
Love your videos thank you 🙏 ❤
Thanks for watching!
10.17 basically says it all
I'm here Lucille how are you and Bobby today.
Great seeing you here :) We're doing great, what about you??
Enjoying life .thank you.
Believe that the movie Eurotrip was referred to as Ugly Americans in movie theaters in most parts of Europe.
You can save more if buy railcards using trainpal
Bonjour. Can you tell me where one would find the info on strikes and protests? Merci.
Awesome job Lucia drop a like
We’re going to Paris October 1st is that a good time to go? Is it rainy?
I prefer French restaurants protocol, I am there to eat and talk with my friends and family.
A friend of mine was staying in the 8th when the Gilet Jaune protests started. Your riot police hammered them and my friend even though he was a block away got a bad dose of tear gas. It affected his lungs for weeks.
CHECK FOR PROTESTS OR STRIKES!
I am a Canadian.. I have to be prepared 😂😂
Thanks for the video! I understand that it might be a controversial topic because the Parisians who are on social media seem to HATE the Olympics. But we are coming to Paris for the games in July and August. So far, there's very little information other than pure negativity and resentment from people on the ground. I'd appreciate your practical ideas or tips for the 2024 Olympics in a video!
You need to remember that Paris is HOME to PARISIENS. They need to go to work, School, College, interviews, Appointments. The same daily living that everyone else does.!! They rely on the Metro to do these things. Hence, even normal Tourism must be frustrating, but they welcome visitors, too. I can see why they don't love the Games, as they are going to be HUGELY hindered , going about their normal day, by THOUSANDS of extra people,. MANY just strolling around ,getting in their way, and making them late ! I fully understand why they don't relish the idea of the Games
Great video, thank you! It actually made me much calmer about my visit in Paris. Is it true that even if I have a Paris Visite ticket for two days, i am supposed to first validate my ticket and then EVERY TIME, even 20 times that i transfer from one bus to another I need to still put it into the machine ? Or can i just validate it and then keep it in my pocket ?
Il faut valider à chaque fois
you look like ROSALIA the singer
I was looking for this comment😂
If you have a bebe in Paris its so difficult to go inside these they are not stroller friendly. Paris is meant for couples to sit close in cramped quarters to be in love.
Do france have a travel card for the day for public transport?
An American culture used to be that you got to be the one that decided what the fair wage was for the waiter, a better waiter made better pay, now American service has become more like European French or Italian service where they basically just bring you your food so it’s become very ridiculous. That tips are expected as part of the pay. It never was like that before and now you’re expected to tip before you even get the service in many cases and that’s absolutely wrong. In the 70s and 80s a 10% tip meant you didn’t really think they did that great of a job but they didn’t completely fail you, a 15% tip meant they did an excellent job, and anything more than that meant that they went over and above. Now in America, you were asked to give a 25% tip before you even know if they’re going to bring you the right thing and it’s not the capitalist culture that used to be. Capitalism means the power of who gets to thrive or fail is in the pocket of the buyer no matter how rich or poor the buyer is. Really that’s pretty much disappeared in America and from Bush, Obama, and Biden we saw things like too big to fail where the government picked and chose what companies thrived or failed and that’s not American capitalism at all. Trump was a capitalist, that doesn’t mean consumerism, capitalism literally means that there’s power in the pocket of the little person getting to decide who gets their money, this is why when Obama said people wouldn’t lose their Dr with his version of Health Care was so upsetting when people had to spend more on healthcare and lose their doctor and access to choices and speedy quality health services at Americans had been accustomed to and why Canadians typically pay out-of-pocket for American healthcare. And starting in 2020 government spoke over hospitals, giving permission for worst care but paid for care and if you want to know the real reason why there were so many losses of lives in 2020 and beyond in America, it’s because The second people heard the government would pay for care, they suddenly no longer cared that they had a right to try and the better American care that they no longer had access to the government paid and it suddenly became legal to take people off of Dr. prescribed medication’s something that used used to not be allowed but was forced through as allowed in 2020 along with also lowering standards before standards. Any reason to be lowered. this did not come directly from Trump, and I don’t try to pretend I understand how it happened, I just know it happened and it shouldn’t have.
Hi, I am planning to visit paris in June end. Is it a good time?
“They don’t have to make you like them to get a fair wage”
Shots fired 😂
Can you say Salue instead of Bonjour to anyone? or Salue reserved for friends?
Do people actually wear berets there? Loved the video!
Not really 😂
I Googled "La chiasse" to see what it translated to in english but I mistakenly had it going from Italian to english and in Italian it means "The Church"...
Meanwhile in the U.S., you're not even halfway enjoying your food and they're dropping the check on your table already🤦🏻♀️
I went to a restaurant in Paris last year and had a very bad experience...I was just asking the waiter to give us 5 mins to decide the order..but he just said 'No English only French' and I tried explaining but he was very rude and I literally had to get up and leave the restaurant
From what I've seen in some other vlogs, you have to ask for water at restaurants. Is this true?
Un carafe d’eau, s’il vous plaît.
Une carafe d'eau, s'il vous plaît
I don't think so. French are talkative if you speak their language. I found that anytime i visit France. They speak low voice but they are talkative. Same with french in the US
I went to France in August and I think people in the US are ruder! lol also to my surprise, they also immediately thought I was from France every where I went until I spoke in English because someone told me I look like I’m from Latin America (my grandparents are bi-racial)
i plan to work in la defense pls advise which area to live is good can i go by bicycle from apartment to la defense im
first time
Paris isn't expensive compared to NYC, LA, San Francisco, Boston etc etc. Nothing to do with the population density. People who want AC have AC which is rarely needed.
Living in France, I'd really encourage people to visit other Cities ,and departments ( areas), than Paris. To me, Paris is dirty and overcrowded. Like many Cities, all over the World! I, personally, really dislike the place. Toulouse is a beautiful City. Friendlier people, great Restaurants and Markets. Beautiful buildings, Lyon is also beautiful. Then the many French areas, which are overlooked, as Americans just seem to think that 'France' is just 'Paris'. Visit the beautiful Dordogne, Provence, Vendee regions, where things move slowly and you can relax . You are, after all, on holiday!
There are a lot of beautiful and friendly city in France, but the capital is unique for the diversity of people to meet, the amount of places to see and things to do. Ambiance is changing from one district to the next one. I only felt this vibe in other cities that are not only large, but also international crossroads like London, New York, but not Mexico or Istanbul, despite their size and sumptuous history.
In most big cities, being overly friendly can come with an interaction with a schizophrenic.
I've heard it's rude to say Bonjour a second time to the same person on the one day...if so what is used instead....Salut ?
Re-bonjour is an easy and solid option, but any sign that you didn't forget that you met earlier is fine.